How to Forget Someone you Love?

Struggling to move on after a breakup? Watch Sadhguru talk about the mechanics of a love affair, and how to handle emotional pain, during a conversation with college students.
To watch this video in Tamil - • காதலித்த நபரை மறக்க மு...
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[@sonurathod9477]

Heart break during exam days literally kills

[@Dummy_donut]

Bro never watched Rajkumar's movie

[@TonyStark-ti6id]

Didi dil ki bt kehdi apne

[@vibhutipatel7635]

💯💯💯

[@parbatipradhan7624]

Jo mere saath ho raha 🙂👍

[@aashu6920]

Facing the same situation 😭😭,,, I don't know what to do...The thing is I thought she is giving me hints, I loved her secretly, she always thought me as a friend. She now have a bf, N I confessed her, n now she's not talking to me......

[@SurajKumar-pg6qn]

What i learnt from heartbreak is that dont love someone so much that it become your weakness

[@emreevo8]

Like we can help that! It just happens. You can't choose who you'll love.

[@kingcapricornio1193]

My strenght and my weakness but weakness won💔🔥👿

[@Therulerborn]

Ye sahi kaha tumne

[@HemalathaKiniA]

Not in our control .... Easier said than done isn't it ..🙂

[@shubhtripathi164]

Exactly...cause after its all done... It hurts a lot.

[@thecitizenoftheinternet1077]

Love is simultaneously one of the best and worst feelings ever.

[@mahabharatepic7837]

Always worst

[@musicshallsetyoufree6253]

True.

[@shahkeju]

Why is it so difficult to love and more difficult to unlove

[@Giriagroandfashion]

Well Said

[@masthanbasha2437]

True

[@vikasmishra2131]

"Time doesn't heal anything, it just teaches us how to live with pain" 🙂

[@sanchitakashyap0217]

True🙂

[@acavmusic]

Agreed

[@AmazingAgra]

Well said

[@yellowr3322]

Agree

[@anjalithakur4720]

Agree

[@tabacc9460]

To all the beautiful souls out there reading this if you are feeling the pain of heartbreak. I wish you healing and I want you to know that a great beauty lies in this pain. There was something you had to learn from this phase of your life , acknowledge it and then let go. My heart is completely healed and i have let go of them. It took some painful times but they taught me a lot. Love yourself unconditionally through it all and one day you will heal..trust me. Love you all.❤

[@rupalisaikia4905]

Thank you so much ❤

[@tejubts3468]

Thank you❤️

[@AditiNatureKitchen]

Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@nishigiri418]

Going through immense pain right now....i can not breathe properly...there is so much pain in my heart right now...but i know i will come out of this soon...and i will forget that person forever

[@n.007gaming9]

Thanks ❤️ I needed it.

[@osse1n]

*True love isn't between two people.* *True love is within, true love is for life itself.*

[@mahakala]

i noticed you are throwing bullshit under every sadhguru video. keep up the work. salutes

[@Pezerinno]

We meet again

[@mahakala]

@@Pezerinno open again

[@Iamlatha]

O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me, That's a very high philosophy - later in life & not for the teens.

[@WokeAF-24]

Depression doesn’t exist, people can get out of it if they just love

[@EmpressofChrist]

My grandma ones told me (if you love him more than he loves you RUN!)

[@iamnode2088]

either way one will run away

[@harjyotsingh5022]

These Grandma's are main reason of hardness to fine love

[@PP-vf1kx]

TheTruth 7 ...I bet sadguru don’t know what your grandma knows

[@Sourabhkharose1120]

Been there.

[@uueyesh8909]

Bad female logic lol.

[@AnthonyLiccione]

"A tormented mind wants to forget, what a broken heart will always remember."

[@ishtacandy7414]

Yeah

[@vanessaalbacite4599]

The mind already knows what it wants but the heart refuses to accept it.

[@nandlabh6349]

True

[@godfirst9990]

@@vanessaalbacite4599 i swear these are never in agreement.

[@world4376]

heart work is only to pump blood its mind fault...

[@pannu555]

I'm sorry if u have searched this😶🥺

[@sukalpadeka2983]

😢

[@pannu555]

@@sukalpadeka2983 hey I don't know who u r but I posted this comment 2 years ago and at present just wanted to tell u that now it doesn't hurt as bad as it hurts in the beginning. everything heals with time as well as memories slowly gets blur . don't worry if nothing last forever then this hurt will also not last forever 😊.I'm talking from my experience I think this hurt lead to various positive changes in me.just enjoy everything and also enjoy your heart sinking too because that feeling is so pure and without any manipulation 🤞🏻I hope u heal soon dear

[@DC-zk5sj]

​@@pannu555 i don't know you, still your experience sure makes me feel a little motivated that even I am at my worst now but sure I will grow and heal ,maybe there is hope for me

[@priteshwankhade9800]

😭😭

[@barwaqahassan0722]

Thanks,, it will end soon

[@vavvokilluminati]

If someone breaks your heart, betrays you, or suddenly disappears, don't be sad. Accept it. Life always brings you what you are. That person is not anymore in your "frequency of being". The wonderful and amazing thing is that you don't need anyone to feel completed because you are completed by yourself, and this is the perfect moment to finally realize that, forever. You have just to accept it, and stop living in the future or in the past. Live in the present and completely accept it, and you'll find an incredible sense of peace in that. Every second that passes, past is dead. No one is going to make you happy, no one is going to be yours, except you. May this be helpful for someone

[@marivicladan9589]

Wow🥺

[@____mariaa__]

Thnx:(

[@mandyram9753]

🥺😢

[@ghaziakhan6680]

Ryt 😓😟

[@lucid_6914]

I really appreciate this

[@mercuryme1375]

The break up, the separation doesnt hurt us, it is humiliation, degradation, and offense to our self esteem that hurts us. So, how to recover from sadness after a break up? Work on our self esteem, take a good care of ourself, and value ourself more.

[@sexymary]

Kinda. BUT breakup hurts bcuz people cling to something that is not permanent & unrealistic expectations.. Just think that every person that comes to your life, contributes to your increasing awareness & maturity..

[@Alliviate]

Word💯

[@Alliviate]

Word💯

[@zaza9237]

thank you Sir🙏

[@lionzDen23]

The separations do hurt as well

[@subashkafle6851]

It's my 5th day of breakup. We broke up after 5 years. It feels like I am all alone in this world. The first three days were tough. Then, I kept myself busy with my family, friends, and relatives. During the first month after the breakup don't be alone in the house or on your holiday. Go out with your friends, and spent time with family and relatives. Meet with the new person. Go home while you feel asleep. This way you will be able to cope up with your breakup. Just do anything that makes you feel happy. Update (After 3 months) I am doing great and i am focusing more in my health stuff and career. After 3 months she came with an apology and begged me for patchup and guess what that made me move on completely and I ignored her. I request you to just hold on and time will heal you automatically

[@soundarya1339]

My best frnd who means the world to me..whom i share everything that makes me happy, sad ..one who has been the day destination..beacause of whom i felt complete is now changing..not knwoing how to handle this..totally confused and there is lot of silence developing in me🙃 any suggestions?

[@Sanch333]

Its wrong 🙂 when my boyfriend cheated me My friends also leaved me that tym now I am suffering from mentally

[@soundarya1339]

@@Sanch333 dont alone yourself..the power within you is the most powerful weapon u can use to shape yourself😊..use alone time to shape yourself..carve yourself..ik its hard to implement..everyday walk baby steps dear..there are much better things for u instore 😊have hope..have faith in god😊..much love- a fellow being💕

[@mylifemyway6064]

Hey what if I don't have any such friends

[@mylifemyway6064]

Hey what if I don't have any such friends

[@meetsimarkaur8576]

unloving someone isn’t as difficult as it is made out to be. you just need to love & respect yourself enough to walk away when the people you ‘love’ just don’t want to be with you anymore.

[@ishtacandy7414]

Gosh... So true☺️

[@Corehinduism]

I m suffering can't get outta her

[@livenow13]

@@Corehinduism I’m suffering too. I pray for your healing!

[@pavangandhi8210]

So outright easy in words, challenging in practice. How about what was good, how to address the challege of live and let live, regardless of our differences and adressing the challenge of preserving a precious friendship as well.

[@eunikeadjei]

What if they want to be with you like everyday? But certain things are stopping you from reciprocating those same feelings??

[@rakesh2243]

Who is scrolling through the comment in order to know whether he had properly addressed the question or not????😂😅🤣😀

[@opeomobolanle9876]

🙋🏻🤣

[@SanaSana-nj6gw]

Me

[@Vijendra_Singh_Yadav]

Me also.

[@lindalarsson1436]

On my opinion , Sudguru talks in circles. Comments are usually quicker way to find answers. Often general public wiser

[@arel0883]

Me

[@nikstar1313]

Pop a like please too if you're trying to let go of your ex ..🙏 Positive vibes to everyone! xx

[@jamiehartman3350]

😔

[@tanujakhatun4681]

😔

[@jongikhayapotelwa2461]

How did you do it?

[@sanjeevhariparsad3953]

My wife divorced me after 27 years of marriage saying she didn’t love me anymore. I don’t know how to move on. I’m broken inside.

[@jamiehartman3350]

@@sanjeevhariparsad3953 it's not easy.. And most people I know are forever scarred from it. Never at 100% again. I think first step is knowing it'll take a long time. Accepting that it'll never be the same. That this is our new "normal". Then, most people say, finding a hobby or something you really like, something you can get lost in, is the best way to fill the void. Dragging yourself through it to numb the pain. Also, they say, to try to understand the fleeting nature of all things. That nothing lasts forever. Emotions change like the wind. And to not blame ourselves when things go wrong. We can do everything "right" but someone's feelings will just change on its own. Maybe even because everything was so good. They get bored, right? That takes a long time to understand...

[@ManishKalauni]

The question should be How to stop loving someone one sidedly

[@singhexploring5640]

Right

[@procleya830]

Yup💪

[@theasheeshpatel]

Exactly

[@TheZephyro]

Exactly

[@amitsinha2943]

Nope.. the question is right

[@wonder1584]

I have moved on, not with another person, but with myself and my dreams. If you want to be happy in life, let your happiness depend on a calling, a purpose, a dream and your vision not on people.

[@newjerseycitizen3423]

Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can also help you to get back with yours with much love.

[@newjerseycitizen3423]

What sapp him:

[@newjerseycitizen3423]

+ 2 3, 4 9 0 6 6 1 8 5 7 3 7

[@Esgrth]

You'll only unlove someone when you find someone you love more.

[@richardamos5898]

Thats utterly pathetic you dont know everyone in this world

[@amademi7471]

It's not unlove . It's you can leave someone when someone is better than the last one you love, if you truly unconditionally loved someone it can't replace. You can have dopamine rushes for sure but it's not unconditional love

[@gerardo49078]

You just cannot unlove, period

[@khushbookumari7476]

Agreed

[@nakshatramettu]

💯

[@raakkheesinghi9173]

When you go through you realise actually what it is. Not a single idea or advice can work. Every experience for every individual is different.❤️

[@sadaf-u-nisashakir6602]

Yes,it makes sense

[@ruthogolo1633]

Periodt

[@oneindiangirl1199]

Yss

[@toothdiaries2280]

So true

[@OpenMind3000]

This is the second video of him, I watch about heartbreak and both weren't satisfying... in both cases he doesn't address the question properly.

[@sourabhnamdeo9580]

Agree.

[@whoaar4486]

Der ist auch n Schwätzer, mir wird da eher übel. Mein erstes und letztes Video von dem und ich finde open mind lol

[@lintlephoka9318]

He simply didn't answer the question.

[@davestofile1904]

Not happy with answer.

[@poknu_kayi]

He never does

[@DESIBOY-fe7nm]

Most simple way is Just keep breathing. Focus on career. (This will be most difficult)

[@singhexploring5640]

👍👍👍

[@marcyanna2319]

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[@karthikgaming2277]

Nah why it's difficult

[@Blackphyre]

It's impossible to "un-love someone". Can you unring a bell? No! Once it's happened, the only thing you can do is be prepared for the next time it rings.Your perspective about that person and your experience with them, has to change, and then we will see it as the gift that it was. Wasn't the reality of that feeling amazing? Then cherish that, and keep it moving. The most intense loving experience I've ever had ended, however, I would NEVER want to undo that blissful experience, because some will never get to know that kind of love. The good and the bad about loving someone is, if it was true love, it will leave an impression on your heart forever-and that's the good part.

[@aubreydayon9776]

Thank u for your words🙂

[@beelzebub8568]

That's so correct

[@ellebelle222]

Good answer

[@asimafatima2173]

Love yourselves enough that any other love just adds a cherry on the cake

[@malgosiakornacka7101]

I love this comment😃

[@godsfvrthuman5379]

Sweetest words ever ❤️😅

[@EWK-51813]

"if you do what is being done in the movies Nobody is going to love you"

[@robgoodsight6216]

If I love someone...there is nothing that will cancel that love. There is always a place for the ones I loved. What can change is me showing that. The heart breaks are the failed expectations... If you want to love, love...and don't expect anything in return.

[@archana3092]

Rob Goodsight

[@robgoodsight6216]

@@archana3092 🙏

[@staceywilliams1863]

Rob Goodsight Well said!

[@karma-cw9fn]

Dont expect...that is a very good thing.... but being a human being emotions r there.... we expect atleast five percent in return when we do so much.... yes expectations breaks heart....

[@amansinghbhadauria2818]

Not ecpecting and output is just not human nature. How can it be commanded?

[@shoegal7]

"We're endangering everything ". How very sad and how very true.

[@shoegal7]

@jigga jaw there won't be anything left TO endanger if we keep going the way we are going. We are destroying everything.

[@shoegal7]

@jigga jaw long before what?

[@shalinishalu4487]

Love you universe thank you so much 💕💞🌌😊🙏

[@shalinishalu4487]

111 👍

[@lostnfound7977]

And how inevitable. Every one of our pleasures is built on someone else's pain

[@sourabh_mishra]

How to unlove her- know her.

[@AddamSolo]

Yup

[@ARDRAofficial]

Deep

[@sourikapatra2189]

Indeed

[@yamini6503]

Hahahaha 😂

[@Momentsfrommemories]

Right

[@piotrwolski6650]

Every broken relationship is meant to teach you something. I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago. It still hurts. But I only was with her cause I did not want to be alone. That taught me that it is better to be alone than in a toxic relationship.

[@piotrwolski6650]

@@markpeter3026 she does not even know how to be a friend, she always has some business in connection with others. Only cares about herself.

[@piotrwolski6650]

@@markpeter3026 thanks a lot man, but I dont want to be with this girl. She is cold as ICE. I am over her.

[@Trippyricky69]

@@piotrwolski6650 you cool dude,anyway i can talk to you?

[@samridhisharma1459]

I broke with my toxic bff. I am all alone I have exam next month. And i can't focused. I want new friends to talk with 🥺💔

[@SakshiSharma-wn3qi]

@@samridhisharma1459 you can talk to me

[@ANONYMOUS-ni5jm]

To the all ,who came here to watch this I can understand your feelings even everyone of us can understand .be happy you all ❤️

[@indranilsarkar1346]

Sadhguru is a gem which India and her youth badly needed in this era..

[@belleswithlove9778]

India also needs infertility for the citizens. I pray that 90% of the population stops giving birth. It's sad to see the crowded living situations in India. You guys can only achieve this when you stop reproducing and encourage others to do so as well if they truly do have the heart and brains to understand why.

[@princessofnada87j25]

Hate that accent arggh other than that excellent advice.

[@KARTIKEYA007]

@Tushar Kashyap this is great in itself, we dont need to watch someone else.

[@NITHYASHREEKSPGP-Batch]

He didn't even answer the question

[@saroj3607]

No one literary no one can unlove someone whom they love so so much🙂

[@tejashwini2073]

Yes true

[@anabreseneuman]

Heartbreaks are cleansing and allow us to wake up and realize that there is no one out there, then unconditional love arises for all, and even if they leave you, you will still love them.

[@bibtii9691]

Rahul Singh yeah there is such kind of love- you might not have realised it yet. it is not always in a romantic way. But you can love your family unconditionally, your own children, your friends and especially yourself. If you love yourself unconditionally, maybe someone will come and will love you unconditionally on a romantic level too 😊 give it time and do not expect too much. It’s okay if you do not fully agree to what I say. But I understand that, everyone perceives life differently.

[@angeludeithier4985]

When you love it's for life, there is no Unlove ,you just dont love enough to stay together

[@angelinaj.3903]

I have experienced, that building your ego while downgrading the person you love(d), can only temporarly help you with your hurt. But the real healing starts when you accept. It starts when you stop seeing yourself as a victim, when you start loving yourself and the other person. When you start to see things as for how they are. When you look into your own behaviour and how you can get better. I accepted that i will always have love for that person but sometimes things don't work out. As simple as that. But real love liberates you. Love the people around you and keep that attitude. The pain after a breakup is attachment, it's not love. Love doesn't hurt but your ego does.

[@AnkurRDutta]

Love is the best feel when it succeed, and it is the worst feel when it failed!!! And fact is that most people coming in second one💔

[@bbb23308]

When it's failed its never called “Love" 🥀

[@ravishankars6707]

You don’t need to undo the love. It’s attachment that is bothersome and never love. Love is pure. At the human level it’s never without attachment.

[@ariadnagarcia2024]

Love yourself is the real love, love someone else is an extension of love.

[@kleaflume]

this is the realest comment on here!

[@naraendrareddy273]

Si!

[@dorasolomon136]

Bb

[@a-955]

And Love nation is d loyal lobe 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ravenstillwaters5195]

Yes I totally agree with you!

[@nibhasingh5459]

Love yourself. Don't expect anything from anyone

[@sezginer7880]

He answered everything about love except how to forget someone you love, delightful!

[@ramnathnayak985]

Got my heart broken 1 hr ago. Although I am a biotechnologist and I know that everything I am feeling are just hormones. Still I am not able to control my shivering and frustration. The person whom I used to love is a good person by nature and whatever she’s done was also a play of hormones. Its strange how love can transform one’s perspective about someone is just a blink of an eye. Your respect for someone is gone within seconds. I think its not love. Its the expectations that you have from the person that hurts you the most. Hence in the new year. The only person with whom I can have expectations are me, myself and I.

[@WHOW_]

Happy new year buddy !

[@ramnathnayak985]

@@WHOW_ thanks a lot bro❤️

[@ritikasaini3357]

Proud of you. Happy new year❤

[@ramnathnayak985]

@@ritikasaini3357 thank you❤️happy new year🔥❤️

[@pinaysaomansamahan]

Once someone broke your heart it's hard to fixed again,

[@lexiemaep7930]

To unlove, stop viewing people you love as your property. We lament the lost love because they were "ours". We say "my love" "love of my life" however if you accept their free will and fate, walk away, knowing it just wasn't meant to be and accept it.

[@vijayalakshmialagappan7488]

Thank you for ur wonderfull explanation

[@sand-and-asmr]

You are so intelligent

[@pawadeshdevarmani8504]

I don't agree wit you, when i consider the other as my property then only I can love.. otherwise I may not give 100%.. otherwise relationship will be like between u and me.. u r my good friend.. no expectations.. what you say?

[@lexiemaep7930]

@@pawadeshdevarmani8504 people are not property. Everyone has their own path.

[@bibtii9691]

Pawadesh Devarmani To love someone is to let them live freely with their own paths and ambitions, without trying to change someone. I agree to some extent that love towards family and friends is different compared to the love for a love interest/partner. To Love is to let go.

[@shantie66]

You cant unlove someone whos been in ur life and touched ur heart their imprint will last forever. Therefore you can only change your mind and how you choose to percieve that love and how close you keep them to you, that is the only way.

[@vgvlogs]

Perfectly said I am doing the same ....

[@renujakharpuri]

Perfect answer

[@KeilyHD]

I like that. I clicked on this video like “but I don’t want to unlove them” it’s not the love that hurts, cause love is beautiful. It’s how you choose to view it💗.

[@poojajaiswal8912]

@@KeilyHD I agree love is the most beautiful feeling but how to handle the rejection, bcoz it's painful it gives you the numbness.

[@melis7472]

Agreed

[@anannya8192]

We should love our parents the most who always support and never leave us ..❤

[@DeshrajSingh-re1sx]

❤️

[@be_positive9947]

NEVER BEG❌ TO BE LOVED BY SOMEONE.🖤

[@ishtacandy7414]

So true

[@hetalkalra9214]

This was the worst mistake i did

[@MsAnnvy]

True.. serial heart breaks and it's pain never allow you to trust anyone again. Because you are aware the expiry of the relationship. I am in a state where I built walls around my Mind so that I don't cross the limit of loving anyone more. Earlier it was a different case. Now your previous painful experiences stopping you from loving anyone new that deeply.

[@ranahelenhawa571]

Very well said

[@notallabouttarot5194]

I definitely agree here. I feel we all were loving the wrong way. Letting our emotions rule us. The heartbreak happens to show us how to love

[@14Sunny4Sophia41]

A relationship is ment to be with two people that have the same Energie so that it will harmonize perfekt. But the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself ♥️🙏

[@riyasrivastava6178]

*the same energies..*

[@banda_de_musica_de_adoraci8227]

You can’t ‘unlove’ anyone you love, if the love is real it stays even after you’ve moved on.

[@sushreeswain1554]

Yes, attachment goes away, love stays

[@mukeshadwani4695]

Heart never breaks it's always the ego which is hurted always... Anger abought rejection etc.. And in love affair initially all is good good but when another aspect of coin comes the problem starts . That's why love needs one quality Patience,tolerance.. Then when u accept other as he or shei is with all negative,positive, Then miracle happens Possessive ,domination ,etc starts disappearing,and love changes into friendliness,where u care others space,individuality,

[@genesisj7384]

I always like how sadhguru answers questions. He just say couple of things and makes u think for your self. He isn't trying to entice anyone by preaching perfection... much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤

[@MaryJane-bx8mn]

[phone]⏭️⏭️⏪

[@skpandeypandey2030]

I heard this quote somewhere, "dil tootna bohot zaroori hai, kyunki zindagi wo hisaab hai jise peeche jaakar sahi nahi kar sakte, isiliye behetar hai ki yahin se sahi kare aur pichle ko experience ke taur par lete chale" we can just hope it was for the best because maybe if you were together, there might come a time when it won't feel the same and things change

[@myrahouse2368]

Serial heart break leads to paranoia spot on! The thing is it takes a while to move on I believe love is hard to find.

[@boazjohannes9861]

Hello Myra House

[@mohanmanu8605]

Indeed it is

[@AnanyaSingh-fw4cw]

Breakup are necessary because, When you break up, you are in pain. When your are in lot of pain it converted in anger. Then your anger converted into motivation. And, When you become motivated you start working hard . And hard work is the only key to success.

[@debasishdas1776]

I think that everything we encounter in life are the nutrients which help in our overall growth, enlighten us to be a better version of ourselves... It's what my granny used to say.

[@namita_gaonkar]

What if the anger turns into depression? Not all the mindset is same

[@lexiemaep7930]

When you love completely, when the relationship ends you can walk away knowing you did everything you could and it's easy to walk away. So open up and love deeply and completely, get it all out so that when it ends you dont have unrequited love.

[@rebecachavez6267]

Lexie Mae yes! I completely agree! No regrets you tried all you could!!!

[@jaquelinespinal1263]

Lexie Mae Completely agree, it’s exactly what I’ve done . The last try was my last try ... was my closure and I feel satisfied to move on bcs I confirmed myself that I gave my all. That’s the best way to avoid heart break .

[@jenniperkins4260]

Lexie Mae agreed

[@starimanie7547]

Got to be at peace with ourselves and our decisions. The only way to move forward. You can only control yourself. Namaste.

[@sand-and-asmr]

Beautifull 😍

[@uttamrathod004]

Loving and unloving becomes as easy as playing a game of life if one starts to see thing objectively. For a moment put aside emotions, feelings attached to the situation and you will come to know the actual reality. It will greatly help you understand the situation you are in.

[@sayitloudblcknproud]

I will never let myself fall in love ever again. I'm done and choose to be single for the rest of my life after this last relationship broke my heart forever. I know in time I'll heal and move on with my life, but I won't be trusting another soul at all. Not only am I deeply hurt, I'm very embarrassed.

[@vibez4766]

Nooooooo bro just dont stop loving people just dont stop trusting them coz everything has a purpose in life we learn from our past experiences its hard to forget good memories but always make ur mind open ... i learned from my past and just moving on positively by loving myself and i also had a thought of being single thrughout my life but trust me there r too many persons alive and many are better than ur past just accept it and let it goooooooo And never look for good people never wait for them to arrive , they will arrive unexpectedly👍 best wishes to uuuu and my own comment also making me positive😅😅😅

[@gamerrex5940]

Do you think the same way now?

[@harrygraham5778]

Look at it like this... If they broke your heart then, this is a projection of the hurt and pain within that person's soul. You deprive yourself of the goodness of Love. Take the lesson from the experience and pour the same Love 10 fold into yourself!!! Focus on the pain and it's longer to let go. Focus on the solution and you forget about the pain!! From Experience

[@abhishekbhagat5344]

he didn't address exactly on How to Unlove but told the basic thing, to avoid the situation by understanding why it happens and go beyond that. Been there, always one thing being in my head that costed me my sanity and trust on anyone. Sadhguru is really someone to look upon at any time for anything 🙏

[@officialmugacey793]

I have too

[@d.j.sinha2]

Not satisfied. Only lovers can feel the pain when the other person doesn't love

[@rupsamitra4422]

❤

[@marcyanna2319]

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[@vishthapa4970]

The same love never comes twice

[@debdipsaha2226]

We can unlove someone when we can learn to love ourselves.

[@tadhghayden8440]

the love of God ..is the highest deepest most enduring and sublime romance!!...all else, are but 'approximation's!..

[@puja6685]

Nice lines.. N true indeed!!

[@musicrelativity5791]

My thoughts exactly. Only Divine love can truly satisfy the heart.

[@Mano12345ish]

Every 15 yr old should watch this video till it hits him/her...

[@eessa1727]

Relationship is two individuals accepting eachother as who they are and supporting eachothers emotional and physical well being. Most of all being kind to eachother and thats where love grows..🙏❤

[@sathyakanugu2138]

🤔🤔🤔

[@rajs4012]

A lot of people in the comments didn't get what he said, which is fine. But a lot of you guys don't understand that that's Sadhguru's style. He wants YOU to get to the answer, he just helps you get there. Just because you couldn't find the answer doesn't mean it isn't there.

[@shivamshekhar1957]

Few days ago I just got separated with her and currently I am in bed rest because of my stomach surgery . Right now my brain is in a state that it can't even stop for a second to think about her , the past memories and the moments we enjoyed together . For me life became soo meaningless right now I just forgot my every dream and even my purpose for life having lots of anixity , completely disturbed and my health is getting worst day by day . Don't know how I will get out from this situation but yes I will be fine for sure 🙂.

[@admk5144]

sory for spelling mistakes 😁

[@TonyStark-ti6id]

Bhai shi bolu mai bhi esi hu mere to sre dreams hi usse jude the aj benkr duniya same hai hawa same hai ghrwle bhi same hai pr agr wo nhi hai na to kuch bhi axxa nhi lgta kya kre bro hmne to ese pyar kiya benkr pure de diya khudko aur ab jb unko feel nhi ayi to unhone chod diya kya hi kre bro usne pehle merko pyar krwaya maine mna bhi kiya tha pr ho gya aur jb usko lga ki are wo to merse bs sympathy rakhti thi to wo chli gyi ab aur abhi to ye kuch bhi nhi hai abhi to agr uska koi aur bf bna to uske sth kese dekh paunga mai usko kya hi bole pr ab merko ek bt lgti hai ki age ke bre me socho hi mt jo hoga dekh lenge hmne to schme pyar kiya bki ek bt yd rakhna ki wo ayegi tumhare ps ups jb usko realize hoga usko pyar

[@nsimam5160]

Can u update me Shivam?

[@Nikks-hf2jm]

If it has happened and you didn't decide it, try to open bout it, set your emotions free, i know its not easy but give your everything and then forget about it, if another person doesn't feel the same whatever is the reason stop there. That's it, don't ruin your time and emotions on that. We have to keep moving, you'll find someone else not him/her again but you can't control other's emotions so do that on yourself. I don't know what I'm saying but currently I'm in the situation so whatever coming straight I'm writing. Trust me you'll be alright.

[@azimulislam9563]

One should always refrain from possessiveness in love. Our parents are the beautiful ppl made on this earth..pray to god ..he will bestow his blessings and will definetely heal the pain of heartbreak. Indeed it leaves us devastated but time is the best teacher and it teaches us that they were not made for us because god didnt want anything bad to happen with us. (Toughest days)

[@Andrew-gj5vo]

It's been a month since I broke up a 7 month relationship. I know its not a lot, but it was so intense. I never felt as in love as I did now. Thinking she was the one I could end up with my whole life. I really hope I am still in that time where its still a process. I want to forget about her but she is in my mind 24/7. I still love her and its so painful how all the good moments come back. I cry and it does make me feel better, but the overall pain is still there

[@nompumelelonkosi997]

That is really sad, I hope you have recovered from the heartache 💔

[@dvn1510]

how are you now?

[@rupalikajohri9170]

THANKYOU EVERYONE FOR SUCH A GREAT RESPONSE TO MY QUESTION. 🙏❤️

[@tameramoss322]

There’s this boy who lives right across the street from me. His name was Adam. For more than 4 years I’ve loved this boy. We never went out, but we were really great friends. His friendship for me was enough because all I wanted to do was be around him. I wanted to make him laugh and smile because it made my heart swell just to see him happy. Like literally my heart felt something when he was happy. He would make fun of me a lot, but it was playful teasing. I acted like he was annoying me, when really I was eating it up. I loved the extra attention. There would be moments where he would stare at me like for several seconds, and at times it would feel like I was just seeing things, but there were other moments when it was obvious that he really was looking at me. And so I thought that he liked me too. But all that quickly changed when another girl came into the picture. He would make fun of the girl the way he would with me. He stopped staring at me as much and would talk to her more. I felt us growing distant and I didn’t know what to do about it. I wasn’t going to say anything because it wasn’t like we were close to the point where it warranted me to say anything. So I kept quiet. Finally, I had enough. I couldn’t stand him not feeling the same way I had obviously felt about him. So I distanced myself from him. It hurt to do so but the pain of being around him was much more than this. It literally hurt my heart and made me feel like I had to vomit anytime I saw him around her, because I knew he would never look at me the same. A year goes by and I thought I was over him officially, and for a while I thought I was. I started paying attention other guys, but it wasn’t the same. My mind always thought back to him. The boy that I really wanted. I tried to suppress my feelings and act like everything was okay, but then another year goes by and I still feel the same. He’s still living across the street from me. I still sometimes see him when he comes out of his house. He ignores me on purpose, I can tell. I followed him three times on Instagram and he never followed me back. I thought that maybe he just didn’t see that I followed him, but I dmd him and he still didn’t respond to me, twice. It’s not like he’s not active on Instagram because he posts on his story a lot. I know I should take that as a sign that he truly wants nothing to do with me, but I really don’t want to believe that. Deep down I know it’s true. Maybe I want this so badly because I’m 18 and still haven’t had my first kiss or first relationship. Maybe there’s something wrong with me. There probably is something wrong with me. I’m a mess. But I still love him. Any advice?

[@idontknow4554]

Me 2

[@shauryapriyadarshi7922]

You are not a mess

[@KS-nc2ie]

You're not alone... The love you felt for him is true love and don't try to suppress it or forgot about it.. Just be glad that you can love someone whole heartedly and you don't expect anything in return.. Just own your love and don't expect anything in return from Adam... And you will be surprised to see that you're happy that you're in love. Whatever you do to forget him will not work because a piece of your heart will always belongs to him.. Just own it and whenever you are thinking of him be happy that you are in love with him and say to yourself that the love you had for him is true love... Be glad that you can love someone whole heartedly without expecting anything from him... No one can love without expectations... But you are doing it.. Isn't it so special of you... Just be who you are and the Universe will give you back all the love you had for him... Just remember that you shouldn't be feel hurt for being in love...True love is the best thing that can't happen to everyone.. Cherish your love...

[@madhuripreethi7850]

@@KS-nc2ie massive respect for the expression of love and these immensely pure thoughts of urs .. ♥️

[@KS-nc2ie]

@@madhuripreethi7850 Thanks❤😊

[@pradeepmishra3937]

The opposite of love is not unlove The opposite of love is apathy,when you don't care what is going on other person's life

[@fantasiazplatkami]

Exactly , when you dont care if someone else has them

[@ankitachatterjee201]

Where is the answer???😑😑😑

[@lakshyabhasin4898]

Anyone who is here not because of a breakup...but because they fell for someone who doesn’t love them back...and you don’t have the confidence to confess but it hurts missing them so you just wanna unlove? Anyone like me? Edit- No likes since 2 hrs...which means I am the only one:(

[@lakshyabhasin4898]

@@markpeter3026 bro forget it. I just got to know she’s shifting to Singapore forever🥺😭

[@aniahammoudi9569]

Love isn't being hijacked by hormones, heart break is very real and yes I will never let myself cross that line again

[@rickie5150]

Sadhguru is a knowledgeable man... who should've comically asked "Why would you want to forget about someone you Love ??"... then explain the idea of adolescent mentality and unrealistic perspectives which bring about this "pain in your heart" when you don't get something that you want. In this case... a person... and it's NOT LOVE !!! People feel these "pains" because they are playing with things that they are not ready for. Similar to falling off your bike while learning to ride it. Consequences follow all actions. So be patient and know that these things will come in time. Find God and Live His Word. Prepare yourself for the one who is worthy of sharing this Life with you. Be worthy yourself !! Amen !!!

[@neetusoni7524]

When loving someone is not in your hand how can you take the charge to unlove someone.

[@samyukthas1092]

From his speech I understood that love is not really difficult. Its the hormones, it's the obsession and the expectations that making us hate love. When you give your everything without expecting anything in return and can feel happy there is the beauty of love. And it will make us grow.

[@neogbfe3587]

Love those, knowing it may not workout. Our love will expire or we may want a break. Though love takes no breaks and we must understand nothing is forever. We enjoy our time in someones life, accept the time given, build memories and move on. Worst things we can do is stay with those who no longer love us or think of us as an OBLIGATION.

[@manishsahu3529]

Everyone here will be after their heartbreak and will be again thinking to talk with the one who did it but try to leave them behind and show them attitude take the revenge and chase success which will make us a powerful person. But never break any true love because true love from both the side is more powerful.❤️😢🔥

[@Itisrealtalk]

The problem is that today's youth(people in their 20s) don't want to commit. They want to experiment a lot(I'm not saying it's right or wrong.) They just want to be in a relationship-treat each other as husband-wife yet unwilling to spend the rest of their lives together. Why is that?? Ask this question to yourself & you might come up with a plausible answer.

[@sagarrai9245]

maybe this heals someone who got heartbroken

[@phoenixd9679]

Less commitment and less giving to the person will protect from a heartbreak when the brake up happened ! I will start practice for myself the wisdom!!!

[@princessk_off_everything]

True

[@kmkvarma]

For those who didnt get it, he clearly says not to give your heart easily away (Be self-aware that chemicals are working in the background) and do it only with people who are truly congruent with you, so you can invest your emotions safely. Too many heartbreaks and you will start looking at everyone like they are your enemy

[@giftv8736]

l ...know.. of ..a.. man ..who help ..get.. my ..ex.. back. WhatsApp ..him.. if ..you.. need. help 🥰

[@giftv8736]

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[@demigod2058]

We loved each other so much we were each other support system. I found her when she had no one in her life cuz of her strict parents the thing they only want for her is to study without even making friends, she used to play games midnight by hiding from her parents , i found her there , we started knowing each other and it became a habit her morning, evening and night was with me. We came in relationship long distance and she decided to come my hometown for further studies , and i took the worst decesion of my life by choosing her over my career i was going to study abroad and did not apply after the offer letter because she was happy with me and there was no one for her. We met finally and had a great month she was happy doing things that se never had. But yesterday after so much idk what happened i was waiting for her to meet me and our spot and she didn’t came i waited there for 3hours and later knew here parents know about us and they took her back and locked her up. I broked into tears i dont know what do we are adults and still we can’t choose people to love she always said if i loose u i dont know what im gonna do in my life . I hope she gets a better life and her parents show her little mercy pray for me to pass this moment of life

[@yasmeenmahmood9125]

True love and real love doesn't exist anymore, ppl only want, what they can get out of you be it emotional physical financial whatever, once you have served you're purpose they move onto the next Best to love God and yourself Remind yourself of the fact ppl are here to teach join for a short period of our journey in life and then they'll leave, never attach yourself to another too strongly for this reason. We live and learn from each experience with another whom we came across. Congratulations to those whom have had lifelong unions but look around now its impossible 👍🙏✌️

[@joym4022]

Absolutely right..👍👍👍. From few days I m thinking the same.. will u please tell me, how to forget a person.. even while typing my mind is weeping somewhere else.. it is very hard..🙄

[@briannajadedunlop7179]

People are shallow and superficial these days so therefore people are always on the look out for greener grass, no one really has strong attachments to others anymore only deep people do

[@36pramodk65]

Don't unlove anybody....god send you to this world to share your love

[@jana.8789]

I believe love is a choice. You choose to love another person. Hormones and emotions push you to love, but it then becomes a choice to marry. To stay married. To love that person with flaws and all and work on your relationship. Just like Choices can change depending on circumstances and your moral upbringing like if you feel you're losing yourself and self worth, then you might decide it's not worth it to continue. At the end, it's a choice to love another person and work on being happy as a team. Yes, work because love isn't a fantasy like movies, books. That made up in your mind. You have to work in a relationship. Most people don't want to be lonely in this journey called life. Humans need company and crave attention.

[@shawnalee8709]

I am extremely heartbroken right now, if anyone has any other sources that can help I would appreciate it so much. 🙏💜

[@ghost.66677]

I believe someone again and again but everytime she break my heart 💔 I don't know how ppls get multiple relationships I can't love after her I met lots of ppls but I can't feel the that type of feeling I don't know what happened to me .. I just hate this human life where ppls come to you just fullfill their needs in the name of love. Nd leave you with broken heart 💔

[@deepikaB13]

Congratulations... Your soul is ready to move to the step two... Not interested in the ‘drama’ anymore. But, you don’t have to hate life but give a little more attention to it... Listen to what it has to say 🙏🏾

[@shekarbundale9567]

Same with me, unable to get out of it

[@JolPil]

So true. And sadhguru avoided her question, he has never felt heartbreak like you.

[@Miniflower25]

Then don't move to another relationship...just move on to u r own relation...Luv u r self, respect u r SOUL, vaule u r life...Start a day with busy schedule...Keep u r self busy...Take time to relax meditation, Excersice, yoga...Change u r perspective towards luv...luv is not limited to a girl/boy Luv is something more beautiful show luv to a person who need u r help, Learn to LUV earth related issues imp to human life, more importantly luv urself ur family...Try slowly peace of mind reaches u

[@Miniflower25]

@@shekarbundale9567 Then don't move to another relationship...just move on to u r own relation...Luv u r self, respect u r SOUL, vaule u r life...Start a day with busy schedule...Keep u r self busy...Take time to relax meditation, Excersice, yoga...Change u r perspective towards luv...luv is not limited to a girl/boy Luv is something more beautiful show luv to a person who need u r help, Learn to LUV earth related issues imp to human life, more importantly luv urself ur family...Try slowly peace of mind reaches u

[@piyushp394]

now im figuring out while im going through this heart breaks !!! there is no process "undo of love" but instead of that accept that your been hurted ... you may feel depressed .... you may go though difficult times ... there are lot of chances of getting ourself low for many reason . so accept that all storms and at the end you will be healed and become the right person that you always really wanted to be ... im expecting that to happen in my life and now yours also . !! and like i said that person who has dumped you will become a memory ... you will remember them one day that yeah... she was there in my life with good memories !! you will remember them without love ...without anger , without sad , without the feeling that you got cheated but with a small smile !! make some progress on yourself guys im doing that .... be a diamond that everyone looking for .

[@snehalmore2041]

All the broken hearts here 💔

[@sabenafrancis3237]

Love is a waste of time...

[@KuMaR-fn7hu]

👍

[@sabenafrancis3237]

@@KuMaR-fn7hu 😊

[@KuMaR-fn7hu]

@@sabenafrancis3237 but we can learn how to control emotions

[@sabenafrancis3237]

@@KuMaR-fn7hu Hmmm.

[@megha6795]

Not really!

[@pavangandhi8210]

The challege of live and let live, regardless of our differences and focus on adressing the challenge of preserving a precious friendship as well, more importantly, then the pain you are experiencing.

[@mukeshadwani4695]

It is almost immposible two different person to meet...that's why first be in an relation for 2 years.. And definitely try to meditate together... Meditation will create calmness and friendship in both partners,then this beautiful life can be lived together.....

[@soulfulhuman8724]

I didn't get even a one person ( girl) Whom I have offered thing like reading , meditation , playing badminton together , just talking and she accepted it. All they say is it's not entertaining. 😶😶😶 But I like these things alot.

[@roshintomy3372]

2 million broken hearts 😪

[@generationtvafrica8438]

You make me smile and feel more worthy,big love from Africa, Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@gautamupadhyay6480]

Love❤️ is within Us!!! Not Outside !!!!

[@adish453]

I have experienced breakups doesn't happen when two person fight, disagree, stop loving etc It happens when they starting loving so much that can't bear seprations or distances and to get rid of loneliness pain decied to go away, thinking it will solve problem once for all. Individuality and space is very important in relationships otherwise people become dependent and losses their Individuality.

[@Paradox11-11]

Love is like a flower , if u love it , u love it , that's it , u dont have to pluck it , it's just a medium to state ur love

[@santoshgangane8529]

I totally accept I am addicted of your voice and thought Guruji .....

[@MaryJane-bx8mn]

[phone]⏭️⏭️⏪

[@suneelhebbale]

💜❤ Thank you Sadhguru and this channel. I love India 🇮🇳 I love Indians