Sadist: Pleasure of Your Pain, Anguish of Your Pleasure (+Narcissist)

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Prof. Sam Vaknin

Prof. Sam Vaknin

Күн бұрын

Sadistic Personality Disorder samvak.tripod.c...
The Sadistic Narcissist samvak.tripod.c...
Sadists like to inflict pain because they find suffering, both corporeal and psychological, amusing. They torture animals and people because, to them, the sights and sounds of a creature writhing in agony are hilarious and pleasurable. Sadists go to great lengths to hurt others: they lie, deceive, commit crimes, and even make personal sacrifices merely so as to enjoy the cathartic moment of witnessing someone else's misery.
Sadists are masters of abuse by proxy and ambient abuse. They terrorize and intimidate even their nearest and dearest into doing their bidding. They create an aura and atmosphere of unmitigated yet diffuse dread and consternation. This they achieve by promulgating complex "rules of the house" that restrict the autonomy of their dependants (spouses, children, employees, patients, clients, etc.). They have the final word and are the ultimate law. They must be obeyed, no matter how arbitrary and senseless are their rulings and decisions.
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@tracygibson5151
@tracygibson5151 4 жыл бұрын
I was married to my Narc for 29 years I was 28 when I met him he was 38. I was so young and naive. He committed suicide almost two years ago shot himself in the head. My son and I were home at the time. I am now 58 and I have no identity if myself and have been completely depleted. Used and abused emotionally and even made me to feel like I never want to have sex again ever. God I hope I can heal from all of this. I am actually pretty blessed I know.
@stardustsparkles22
@stardustsparkles22 Жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry for the hell you're going through. You must be so strong to have survived one of these. Hoping I can be that strong. I wish you healing from everything.
@Hurricanesalvi
@Hurricanesalvi 20 күн бұрын
You prolly the narc and made him commit suicide😂 now acting like shit
@cherrylane79
@cherrylane79 14 күн бұрын
Can you try EMDR? I wish for the best for you.
@sandrabellerue2836
@sandrabellerue2836 Жыл бұрын
I watched him in high school being sadistic, laughing after inflicting pain 60 years ago. We just thought him to be naughty. Enter myself who learned everything I never wanted to know or experience during a pandemic lockdown. I survived. Thankful he resides over 7K miles away.
@Swtnsxe1980
@Swtnsxe1980 4 жыл бұрын
22 years I have been with a narcissist and have discarded more times then I care to remember I believe some things he does are sadist I believe he is embedded in my soul he has controlled everything in my life down to even my self worth. I don't think this trauma bond will ever leave my life my brain my soul he has destroyed me from the inside out....
@jrs5784
@jrs5784 4 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean. I have been with my husband for over 30 years and he has done everything to hurt me. I started seeing a trauma counselor who uses EMDR. This along with prayer is helping. It’s unbelievable how much control he has over me. But I’m almost there.
@lanashowler5906
@lanashowler5906 3 жыл бұрын
He's only aloud at your soul if you allow him love. Cut that soul connection xx I've done it twice and it can be done i promise you. Xxoo keep fighting , they hate strong people..... Because they envy everything you are and they arnt.
@anjaknatz7157
@anjaknatz7157 3 жыл бұрын
Well, if you subscibe to that, your choice...
@fatima-zahrakajji4821
@fatima-zahrakajji4821 2 жыл бұрын
Its only hopeless the day you stop investing into your peace. That's how energy works, its very powerful but so are you. If you want your freedom take your power back by cutting the cords from the inside out. As you change the gravitational force field of your heart you will experience resistance but never forget that the recovery and healing is much easier than enduring the abuse. That's how abuse works you over time, its seeps into every part of your being and lays there like stagnant water hoping you die or kill yourself for their gratification. I pray that you be gentle, kind and extremely patient with yourself and please for the love of god do not give up on yourself, you're the source of your well being and misery. The keys are in your heart. As you figure out why you do the things you do you will begin to realise how much of yourself is outsourced into the world when you could be validating, appreciating and loving yourself the way you see fit and know you deserve. You choose how you perceive yourself, feel about yourself and sense about your reality. Good luck my love.
@ivy1818u
@ivy1818u 2 жыл бұрын
Build yourself back up slowly, don't be discouraged it take time. 22 years it's a very long time you are incredibly strong and can build yourself back.🙏🏻
@plumcool2
@plumcool2 4 жыл бұрын
This was a good listen Sam. Great insight inside the warped mind with a clear delivery. Thank you!
@maskedman2210
@maskedman2210 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. 2 days ago I had flashback, and while I had never forgotten what my father did, the exact details and also how long it lasted. I also have a severely handicapped sister. One thing my father loved to do was take her to my room, and force me to watch her break all my toys. I was pushed until I would scream then I would try to stop him, but being 5 years old, I could not stop him. My desperation was entertaining to him, and he would also say things like "who is the retard" effectively using her as a guilt trip tool while simultaneously as an anger tool. He would do this until my mother came home. Sometimes it would be 4 or 5 hours of doing this, and this prolonged torture would go on for hours at a time. For so long I believed the belittlements and that I had no right to be angry. This is a rage i feel even now, boiled up beneath the surface. Even now, more than 30 years later, I want to skin him alive in the slowest way possible even I think of this. And his denying it inflicts more even pain. And I broke no rules, did everything I was supposed to. My sister didn't know what she was doing. Thank you. I may be feeling PTSD to the point of uncontrollable rage outbursts at this moment, but you opened my eyes. Nothing was my fault. I was a child, and if what he had been doing didn't bug me , he wuda found something else to bother me. He is also armed with the intelligence of a rocket scientist. Feel like I have to stop here. This is very exhausting to me. I
@elizabethy2912
@elizabethy2912 Жыл бұрын
My dad was a preacher who ADORED spanking us He denied that he was EVER angry, but he'd grit his teeth as he dragged us off to get beat. He LOVED to hear us scream. I know this because his favorite obsession was talking about which switch, belt, or paddle could cause the most pain and make us scream the loudest. He thought it was hilarious to hear my little brother hit the really, really high notes!! I understand now, that he was a narcissist as well, and after 30 years, I have broken free of his brainwashing and conditioning , finally. He was never a father, and he deserves no more of my time it takes to heal. He deserves to just be forgotten!! I hope you can get to where you heal and forget !!
@paromita_ghosh
@paromita_ghosh 10 ай бұрын
What the f??????!!!!
@buttercup86900
@buttercup86900 6 ай бұрын
OMG I understand sadists so well and I can see through them because I'm very observant. I hope u all are okay now
@buttercup86900
@buttercup86900 6 ай бұрын
@@elizabethy2912 I hope u called the police
@mysterious22815
@mysterious22815 5 ай бұрын
Most of the sane folks who read this comment will understand how awful this was for you & your sister. He sounds like a real abusive monster and they all ender up in a very hot place in the afterlife.
@ewashortnotsofastandfuriou6947
@ewashortnotsofastandfuriou6947 4 жыл бұрын
The best explanation of sadism I've heard. Thank you😊
@sonzajennycat
@sonzajennycat 4 жыл бұрын
Stalkers take pleasure in scaring you. They want you to know they’re creeping about...
@misstidoy
@misstidoy 4 жыл бұрын
yes, he knew I wasn't looking up his social media i.e instagram or Facebook stories... instead he would stalk all my social media and ensuring he would 'like' my instagram posts to make sure I knew he was watching my life or maybe to ensure I would not forget him. oufff, no contact and educating myself is making me understand and process.
@Armz69
@Armz69 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah they're pathetically so annoying. Like some kid expecting attention from unwarranted stuffs they did.
@Dajahgraves
@Dajahgraves 2 жыл бұрын
Disgusting af
@syn2072
@syn2072 2 жыл бұрын
@@gospelofsatoshi9168 cuz they love the attention until they realize they have no control over it
@stardustsparkles22
@stardustsparkles22 Жыл бұрын
Yes, my ex keeps hacking my phone and is trying to terrorize me.All he's doing is making me convinced that he's a true psychopath.
@michellechristina8770
@michellechristina8770 4 жыл бұрын
This was very interesting and informative, but you know this already. Thank you Sam.
@susanasusana4238
@susanasusana4238 4 жыл бұрын
What an informative video. I am now having a clearer image of 27 years beside someone who constantly was pushing me beyond my comfort zone on sexual things making me feeling disfunctional accusing me of not pleasing him, and pushing me more when my parent tragically died daily. For 27 years I was feeling guilty for been ubnormal made to cry and feeling ungrateful towards him, constantly sad scared and pushed in a corner. I had to stop many times this video as was bringing too much pain.
@sheilamc3420
@sheilamc3420 4 жыл бұрын
Sam, you are a riot! Thanks for helping me understand this whole mess, and making me laugh!
@lorrainea6177
@lorrainea6177 2 жыл бұрын
Hilarious...and with barely a smirk! 🤣
@alternatemeasures
@alternatemeasures 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, again, for sharing this information, it helps so much. I truly appreciate your insight, it makes the life situations I previously faced clear and understandable so I can move forward knowing what I was dealing with.
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521 4 жыл бұрын
He stared blankly through me, while taping me, as I wept for Jesus to help me.
@kidsmoked
@kidsmoked 4 жыл бұрын
Taping you?
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521 4 жыл бұрын
@@kidsmoked my son told me that he saw daddytaping me on his phone when I cried. When I looked at his voice recordings, he had been taping me after he provoked me into crying.
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521 4 жыл бұрын
@Sue Ristovska I made him leave last year. After decades of brainwashing and abuse. 💜
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521 4 жыл бұрын
@Orixá Rose oh Lord, Im so sorry honey. I know that evil is real now.
@kieransimpson4965
@kieransimpson4965 3 жыл бұрын
@@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521 yeah that's awful. X c***
@jackierandell1364
@jackierandell1364 4 жыл бұрын
Prof. Vaknin, you are a fine looking man, even when needing a hair cut. Thank you for such a great education 👍🇬🇧xx
@misstidoy
@misstidoy 4 жыл бұрын
'A self aware narcissist, is still a narcissist' like the narcissist S.Vaknin himself said. Be careful :P
@cindyperez1284
@cindyperez1284 3 жыл бұрын
He is sexy am I right lol 😍
@kieransimpson4965
@kieransimpson4965 3 жыл бұрын
@@cindyperez1284 all women love a narc
@isobelmiddleton6353
@isobelmiddleton6353 3 жыл бұрын
@@kieransimpson4965 well this one doesn,t ..
@kieransimpson4965
@kieransimpson4965 3 жыл бұрын
@@isobelmiddleton6353 like psychopaths?
@paper-chasepublications9433
@paper-chasepublications9433 2 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening, as usual. Thank you.
@antonyjosse
@antonyjosse 4 жыл бұрын
Sadists and narcissists pursuing studying narcissists and sadist like Hitler and Stalin. I wonder is that why i stumbled upon a few high functioning academics among historians in this league. I always wondered whether Nehru was a malignant narcissist and the monk-like Gandhi a sadist and a codependent. After listening to this video I think it could be so.
@WesleyCookChannel
@WesleyCookChannel 4 жыл бұрын
How do you think a Female Psychopath's pathology relates with the subjects of Narcissism and Sadism? I'd love to hear your thoughts on that subject if you feel compelled to break that down.
@macnchessplz
@macnchessplz Жыл бұрын
Ditto.
@crystalfloyd2197
@crystalfloyd2197 4 жыл бұрын
Mr. Vaknin could you please do a video on the topic of how some narcissists change from grandiose to covert and why they do this..I'm thinking they change for different audience but I'm not sure why..thank you so much 😘
@pappaprosjektet
@pappaprosjektet 3 ай бұрын
Thnx Sam. After dealing with all types of "myself" and others personal disorders I became an eremit living in survivourmode on daily basis. Affraid that dammaged goods only create more dammage if not fixed I have desidet to go it alone. I have patterns of it all, surficing now and then so I hang on to my empathic me with all that I've got. Struggeling with the aftermath is hard but I find a lot of stringt in being compationate to others helping them with my experience and insight. I have learned a lot from you and also gotten confirmations that gives me relief and clearifying. Bless you ❤
@trinacorbett4827
@trinacorbett4827 2 жыл бұрын
This was the most exhausting conversation for me ... I am overwhelmed analyzing my life and my mom. Oh ... my ... goodness ... that is exactly what my mom did to me as a child! ... she would beat me until I cried and then beat me until I stopped and then breat me until I cried again. In third grade she had me pack my suitcase of all my favorite things. As soon as it got dark she took me to the door ... opened up the suitcase and one by one took each thing out and letting me know they were not mine but in reality hers ... until my suitcase was emptied. Then she opened the door and pushed me out into the dark ... looked down into my eyes and turned off the porch light and slammed the door ... and then locked it. I was so scared and cold in the dark. No matter how hard I cried she wouldn't open the door.
@trinacorbett4827
@trinacorbett4827 2 жыл бұрын
@@rahmasamir909 Thank you Rahma ... your words reached my heart and made me cry too. Yes ... she suffers too. I love you too. Thank you so much for your living and compassionte words and thoughts.
@stardustsparkles22
@stardustsparkles22 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for everything you've suffered. My mom would regularly pack me up after beating and threatened to leave me at the child welfare office. At 013 I took her up on it.
@trinacorbett4827
@trinacorbett4827 Жыл бұрын
@@stardustsparkles22 we know each other's pain ... ♡. I am sorry for you too. I am glad we made it ... ♡♡♡
@stardustsparkles22
@stardustsparkles22 Жыл бұрын
@@trinacorbett4827 aww that's so nice. Thank you. I hope everything goes your way from now on. 💛
@buttercup86900
@buttercup86900 6 ай бұрын
I hate sadists
@dutchblackgirl6247
@dutchblackgirl6247 4 жыл бұрын
Dear Sam Vaknin, its so scary the hate! i wil never give in !! thank u for the video, P.S. it takes 2 to tango! Greetings from the Nederlands!
@ladymother5488
@ladymother5488 3 жыл бұрын
Tango = shared fantasy
@lanashowler5906
@lanashowler5906 3 жыл бұрын
My ex husband was also a narcisist who beat our own children when I wasn't there to protect them as he was too gutless to ever do it in front of me, and raped me for 12+ years .... And got away with both lots of abuse .. also hit away with fraud. My ex partner will also be done for fraud..... Alone with everything else he's done. They will both end up in jail forever ... !!! Once I'm done with their arses.... !!!
@crashburn22
@crashburn22 Жыл бұрын
It's All about validation, everything they do. It's truly horrific and sad.
@sabrinastanley6723
@sabrinastanley6723 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, my ex narc called spineless more time than I can count. So, he repeatedly punished me because he wanted me to have a spine. Truly sickening!
@dianevanderlinden3480
@dianevanderlinden3480 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my mother. Why help your child learn to be strong when you can laugh and take advantage of her.
@dodo-e4x
@dodo-e4x 2 жыл бұрын
@@dianevanderlinden3480 yeah, IKR. They know your weaknesses and exploit it pretty well to quench their their thirst for superiority, control and power.
@evelyn-phoenixonokah5400
@evelyn-phoenixonokah5400 Жыл бұрын
His humor is A+😂
@Heisenherb
@Heisenherb Жыл бұрын
I had an ex that I realized was always really happy when I was sad. And when i was happy, it pissed her off.
@Ebvardh
@Ebvardh 18 күн бұрын
I have two immediate but contrary gut feelings in listening to this video: the first one is to identify the root of this impulse or set of impulses, and remediate it to the best of my extent. The second one is to better understand how to be like this, and to proverbially sharpening the tool set. I don’t immediately recognize which is the right choice.
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521
@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521 4 жыл бұрын
He banged on my door for hours, raging about the dog's mess. When I finally came stumbling out to ask him to please leave, he yelled, "I cant look at you! You're a monster who gobbled up my food and asked me to leave!" He relentlessly tried to transfer all of his bad parts onto me.
@bethgott9768
@bethgott9768 8 ай бұрын
😮😢😅😢❤❤😮😢😂😮😂🎉😮❤😅😢😂😢😅❤🎉😂😢😂😅😢❤😮😢😂😅
@lizameila7090
@lizameila7090 4 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful. Thank you.
@xenajade6264
@xenajade6264 2 жыл бұрын
Most men I've known have been fascinated by WW2, weapons, military strategy and crazy dictators with extreme power. If I ever pointed out there's not much to admire.... millions of people died.... they would ignore that inconvenient fact while gorging on the details of the "warcraft". Seems to be infinitely fascinating for them.
@debmccafferty1007
@debmccafferty1007 2 жыл бұрын
My ex used a cartoon image of Mussolini as the photo on whatsapp.
@BlueSky-ff4oy
@BlueSky-ff4oy 2 жыл бұрын
Omg the (case study) ending was horrendous I hope he went to jail / all minors were removed from his care. That is overt physical abuse/torture mixed with psychological torture for all. Thank you for clarification of the seeming but completely different overlap of sadism in the outright sadist, the narcissist and in there the psychopath V psycopathic tendencies. When I listened i THOUGHT I am getting it but now as I write I see I do not quite know if that is three types or two. Definitely relistening.
@aumperialism
@aumperialism Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir
@fegermany2413
@fegermany2413 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe thats why Im always single 😳😳 , I love your channel prof 💐💐
@fegermany2413
@fegermany2413 4 жыл бұрын
@@adampablodayc ?? Dont get it 😂😂
@fegermany2413
@fegermany2413 4 жыл бұрын
@@heide-raquelfuss5580 try to watch my vlog as well , Im always single because Im self centered and perfectionist . In the beginning men were great , but than they dont want to deal with the dark side. Better jump to an easier woman .
@lessandra602
@lessandra602 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@mikibellomillo
@mikibellomillo 4 ай бұрын
i never know i was being raised in sadistic environment till i reconnect to my inner child and rewrite my memories... all the fun is gone n turn into disgust . it's weird ~
@carit187
@carit187 4 жыл бұрын
Do you think all sociopaths and psychopaths have NPD? Most child molesters, serial killers, and abusers whether sexual or physical fit into one of those categories don't they? Do you think there is no hope at all for them as their "true self" was killed off long ago?
@samvaknin
@samvaknin 4 жыл бұрын
Sociopaths is a media term, not a clinical entity. Psychopaths are grandiose and there is high comorbidity with NPD (in men) and BPD (in women) samvak.tripod.com/personalitydisorders15.html
@carit187
@carit187 4 жыл бұрын
@@samvaknin Much appreciation for all the resources.
@olitonottero7620
@olitonottero7620 3 ай бұрын
Super helpful thank you
@BuzzChronicles
@BuzzChronicles 2 жыл бұрын
OHH lord im back at one of your videos, I should have really reached out to you when you replayed to my comment a month ago . was feeling Like crap making a huge life change & things not going how i wanted it. Just destroyed a Childhood Friend Ended the relationship in a horrible way & that made me feel better WTF is wrong with me Who do i only feel good By hurting others
@BuzzChronicles
@BuzzChronicles 2 жыл бұрын
& thinking about it Now it was a form of punishment's for not LOL worshiping me the way i wanted them to & saw i can no longer get anything from them so i choose to destroy them end it & get a little but of fuel
@trinity6764
@trinity6764 4 жыл бұрын
Very intersting topic .
@stardustsparkles22
@stardustsparkles22 Жыл бұрын
So true. Every last word describes the sadistic ex I had. Scary people.
@buttercup86900
@buttercup86900 6 ай бұрын
Ikr they're monsters ,.. I know these type of people too well
@seaglass7375
@seaglass7375 4 жыл бұрын
I need your insight on this. The person in question is enjoying torturing me by attacking not me directly but the people that I care about and care for me. I'm talking vile and sycophantic attacks to people in my inner and often outer circle. This person also doesn't directly do it to their faces, only will degrade them to me, verbally and in writing. Rageful and venomous but never direct. What is this?🤷 It's usually attacks on their physical appearance, race, then moves on financial status, their careers, their (imaginary) faults like lack of intelligence, social skills etc. No one is safe from this person. Never says anything nice. Even when this person love bombs their next victim and basically will start finding their way into their lives , still will make nasty comments about the victim's external image. (Just to add this person has in secret abused me in all ways in the past, but I've set big boundaries since 2003)
@samvaknin
@samvaknin 4 жыл бұрын
www.narcissistic-abuse.com/ctcounsel.html
@nobodyaskedyou9004
@nobodyaskedyou9004 3 жыл бұрын
I like to manipulate, control, humiliate and mentally abuse/punish people. The first 2 is just a normal day for me. The other behaviors I typically express them when I perceive insult or become angry. I never scream or get out of character instead I get very quiet and will mind fk you. I mostly get along very well with people that show respect and are good listeners but most importantly are submissive. People that won’t argue if you pick a place, a time, a day. People that you tell them this is what and how we will do things and they are docile and comply. People I cannot get along with are assertive, hard to manipulate, always form their own opinions and believe they are superior than me. I’ve ever tortured animals nor enjoy seeing people in pain or hurt. I’m incapable of inflicting harm and pain to anything alive but if I dislike you and you fall out of a window I’d pay for that footage to enjoy it over and over. I love bad things happening to anyone I dislike and if I dislike you then you surely either lied to me or made me feel disrespected.
@mollylarkins7075
@mollylarkins7075 2 жыл бұрын
Well guess what. Nobody asked you
@donaldbadders3970
@donaldbadders3970 Жыл бұрын
Nobody fat slave here torture
@user-ko9tc1go3h
@user-ko9tc1go3h Жыл бұрын
Nobody asked
@Doidao-xx5vf
@Doidao-xx5vf Жыл бұрын
Wow so scary 😂
@yasminel1989
@yasminel1989 Жыл бұрын
Bragging about having the emotional maturity of a reptile when you're part of a social species isn't the flex you think it is. If anything, it's indicative of you being underdeveloped, which would explain why you enjoy inflicting pain onto others; bc you're probably a young kid trying to cope with the fact that you're isolated, have a hard time connecting with others, need to control others in order to avoid future hurt, and need others to be inferior to them in order to feel safe. All of that reeks of insecurity, not strength.
@ashleybutler86
@ashleybutler86 4 жыл бұрын
If narcissistic mother creates sadist son does narcissistic father create sadist daughter?
@antonyjosse
@antonyjosse 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, narcissistic fathers can trigger , I think his daughter could become a BPD. I have seen this.
@patriciawhite9509
@patriciawhite9509 4 жыл бұрын
@@antonyjosse my dad was a narcissist. I am not a sadist. I am a Christian who love to care for other living entity.
@p.b.7719
@p.b.7719 3 жыл бұрын
@@patriciawhite9509 so do i,the only exception is that my mother is the narc
@anjaknatz7157
@anjaknatz7157 3 жыл бұрын
Well, it is not like you program a certain machine or a robot you know, humans developement is not to be predicted like maths...
@alfalders3020
@alfalders3020 3 жыл бұрын
Do they use “threat of physical violence” as a tactic?
@alfalders3020
@alfalders3020 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheKrazykraker14 😢
@mollylarkins7075
@mollylarkins7075 2 жыл бұрын
I was with a guy just like this. He wanted to kill my internal self, wasn’t ever physically abused. Pain in the mind is more fun to watch.
@kinyaalexander7252
@kinyaalexander7252 9 ай бұрын
I went through physical abuse from a Narc and I do believe so!
@hatelovenothing2744
@hatelovenothing2744 4 жыл бұрын
My guess is between 52 and 58.
@virajkamat2764
@virajkamat2764 4 жыл бұрын
@Sam Vaknin Was the patient at the end of the video your own ?
@yeaesthetics3195
@yeaesthetics3195 Жыл бұрын
Ok now im understand that, other than a sadist, im also secretly a narc.
@jefflovenc
@jefflovenc 3 жыл бұрын
I have this thing on my mind of thinking the sadistic people in a weird way..... what’s the best way of getting ripped off sadists?.....
@gomer2813
@gomer2813 16 күн бұрын
I have a lot to learn
@nicolii7321
@nicolii7321 Жыл бұрын
Does this mean all saddists are psychopaths?
@samvaknin
@samvaknin Жыл бұрын
No.
@radhadegale9767
@radhadegale9767 4 жыл бұрын
Well said
@sebastianbryner1173
@sebastianbryner1173 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative
@melissa17379
@melissa17379 4 жыл бұрын
Clarence you are very funny! And smart 😃
@augustoj.s892
@augustoj.s892 3 жыл бұрын
I want my dom back :(
@Dajahgraves
@Dajahgraves 2 жыл бұрын
Ew
@alittlewolf8637
@alittlewolf8637 4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha just read about this guy in a book understanding mohammad and muslims 😊😊 Although had subscribed to his channel a long back
@HealandInspire
@HealandInspire 3 ай бұрын
Daktari is what I watched and grew up on too.
@MsLoila
@MsLoila 3 жыл бұрын
As you say being masochists and sadists or dom and subs in bdsm is no way an indicator of pathological masochism and sadism then what is the non pathological connection between pleasure and pain? Why do healthy people gravitate to such a lifestyle?
@anjaknatz7157
@anjaknatz7157 3 жыл бұрын
The defintion of " healthy peopel" if you please...?
@MsLoila
@MsLoila 3 жыл бұрын
@@anjaknatz7157 healthy people meaning non narcissist, not borderlines and psychopaths.
@syn2072
@syn2072 2 жыл бұрын
@@MsLoila but there are many other illnesses and endless combinations of traits so it's not that simple
@Jmayne-pc8cb
@Jmayne-pc8cb 8 ай бұрын
Because you live in a system that has sneakily inducted abuse as a part of its human training for the system program. Most people suffer abuse in order to make them more controllable and prepared for the system, ie jobs, relationships, the law etc. So after the abuse, the self esteem is lowered which makes the individual more susceptible to accepting and tolerating abuse. They actually begin to respect it.
@Human1136
@Human1136 2 жыл бұрын
Tip: Internet Trolls = Sadists)👹
@Melancholian
@Melancholian Ай бұрын
I have sexual sadism disorder where can I get help?
@JuliettAngel
@JuliettAngel 3 жыл бұрын
Oh, there are a lot of these men with BDSM inclinations. Great Masters) Ahahahah) They believe that their genes are special and many other things. And even if you blatantly lie to them, exaggerating their good sides, they sincerely enjoy it. They are sure that yes, they are so great. To be honest, it makes me laugh. Almost from the first sentence I can identify such a man. This grandeur is felt even through the screen) But yes, they are somehow, nevertheless, different from each other. In some, these traits are not as pronounced as in others. It's fair to voice their BDSM tendencies before getting into a relationship, but there are a lot of couples out there where this is all hidden. But I see that the man clearly dominates the wife in this pair, he just did not call himself a master and her slave. Since, in my country, it is considered normal that the man in the family is the main one - everyone turns a blind eye to this. As if it should be) I know stories when a wife gave food to her husband and just looked at him the wrong way, according to her husband, she got a lot of anger. By the way, this is some sore subject. Why are men so fixated on the fact that a woman must serve him at the table? If he takes cooked food without the help of his wife, it is like death for such men. Is this a sign of narcissism?
@korneliasporklet2644
@korneliasporklet2644 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting, the one who cooks has the power, such men want power yet in reality they are babied 👶
@syn2072
@syn2072 2 жыл бұрын
@@korneliasporklet2644 money is the power, and some do cook.. Remember that some people like cooking regardless of their personality lol
@macnchessplz
@macnchessplz Жыл бұрын
THIS is it…..
@seeyounexttuesday6937
@seeyounexttuesday6937 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a cosmetologist.
@karengrafelman9882
@karengrafelman9882 4 жыл бұрын
This actually fits my ex of 25 years better than npd does. The sexual part was point on to my ex. I have been through hell.
@darensrojas4632
@darensrojas4632 4 жыл бұрын
Who cares.
@darensrojas4632
@darensrojas4632 4 жыл бұрын
You are not special.
@amandabrooke6597
@amandabrooke6597 4 жыл бұрын
DARENS rojas ew ur rude asf stfu everyone is special in their own way you’re dismissed
@darensrojas4632
@darensrojas4632 4 жыл бұрын
@@amandabrooke6597 was i speaking to you?.. no right thank you.
@amandabrooke6597
@amandabrooke6597 4 жыл бұрын
DARENS rojas shut up idc I was talking to YOU don’t talk down to anyone like that ***hole bye now
@JudgeJulieLit
@JudgeJulieLit 4 жыл бұрын
Like any bully, "Jared" need be bullied, overpowered in the same way and in pro rata force as he inflicted on his helpless child victim. He is a despicable uber coward who dared not bully one as big, strong, grown nor unscrupulous as himself. He deserves to feel the full pain he inflicted on others. He deserves no one's mercy. Sociopaths like him ought be stopped before or as they start. Lock him up.
@billsmith361
@billsmith361 4 жыл бұрын
I think you are missing the amount of good being done here, because You're morallly disengaged. from his ideals based off his motivation
@stardustsparkles22
@stardustsparkles22 Жыл бұрын
Mine was into basically torture. I couldn't take it anymore and am divorcing him. And yes they want to spoil/ corrupt and break their partner. My agony was his food. I hope he gets help. He needs it. It's truly pathological. He will have to find supply elsewhere now. Going full grey rock on him.
@stephanienikole9831
@stephanienikole9831 4 жыл бұрын
44:25 was hilarious 😂
@Bernadette-gd2oh
@Bernadette-gd2oh Жыл бұрын
This is my soon to be ex husband!! Extremely diabolical and I suspect he will be in prison soon!!!
@INFJ2
@INFJ2 7 ай бұрын
Im attracted to this man. 😂❤❤❤
@lakeriarianx5226
@lakeriarianx5226 2 жыл бұрын
I have psychopathic tendinitis with a Dark twisted sadistic mind, cure me ☠️
@alazarsitra1099
@alazarsitra1099 4 жыл бұрын
🧕🏾🌹💖
@vanessag3650
@vanessag3650 4 жыл бұрын
LOL
@benjaminbauer7890
@benjaminbauer7890 2 жыл бұрын
When the video describes the monk sadist at 10:00 i thought about greta thunberg and the political leftist spectrum as a whole
@alazarsitra1099
@alazarsitra1099 4 жыл бұрын
🌹🥀🧕🏾
@faithgarcia5428
@faithgarcia5428 5 ай бұрын
The definition of God
@Melancholian
@Melancholian Ай бұрын
Nah
@andrewamata
@andrewamata 3 ай бұрын
This has been very helpful thank you.
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