Sadness overload for sure!

These moments suck! 🙁

[@user-ib2mf6uu8z]

Anyone else noticed, Ed is always asking Dan who he is but he never forgets to say thank you Danielle.❤❤

[@takeitorleaveit.6333]

And your point is? It could be because he remembers how harsh she treats him.

[@Hearandsee643]

​, You need get a job in dementia unit, then you will appreciate Danielle caregiver, you have to shout / rise your voice for them to hear you . I'M A CARE GIVER TO A DEMENTIA PATIENT, SO I APPRECIATE DAN AND DANIELLE SO MUCH.

[@maryhensley2597]

​@@takeitorleaveit.6333She's being firm as she should be! Walk a mile in her and Dan's shoes?

[@takeitorleaveit.6333]

@@maryhensley2597 I have. Knowing they are doing this in their spare time and posting this for money is disgusting. That's what people who have money hire trained caregivers for. So they don't get interrupted during their sleep and Ed can suffer from his disease without having to please the family.

[@takeitorleaveit.6333]

@@Hearandsee643 the only thing I need to do is STOP watching these videos of Danielle who isn't a trained caregiver, getting annoyed because she was awakened from her sleep. Surely the family discussed how difficult it might be having to get up and take care of a Dementia patient. It's time to get a caregiver instead of getting annoyed and posting it on TikTok so she can make money from all the views. I don't see her sacrifice much. They still have friends over and live life like he doesn't live there. Not much adjusting, it's my opinion, I'm entitled to it. Maybe she should block me.

[@leeannulrich9874]

For thoae worried about Ed getting worse please understand that this normal. They can go through different levels. Dan & Danielle have done a superb job of sharing snapshots but these tough ones arw absolutely part of regular caregiving. So find a way to support us tired souls 🤗

[@michaeltaylor8835]

it's very wearying

[@albertareid8850]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@stephaniemeadows6796]

They do a great job my mamaw has it and my mom in law did she was bedfast but still had times like these

[@johnnybaggins777]

Absolutely. Ed is an amazing guy who's going through a bumpy ride in his life right now along with his family. Sometimes random stuff like that happens. You find them just sitting in the dark trying to figure out what's going on. My mother had vascular dementia and she would hallucinate sometimes and the house would be full of people in her mind. Sometimes she would just talk to them like it was real people in the house and other times it would be really scary for her. It can be sad sometimes, but nonetheless it's all part of the process. This Salinger family is doing a wonderful job taking care of their pops and my hats off to em.

[@methatlovescats3602]

Of course Getting worse is normal it's definitely heartbreaking. He's really lucky he has people in his life that care for him and at home. Hopefully he'll never have to be out in a home outside of his.

[@northerngrace6108]

Poor Ed. When I worked with dementia patients at nursing home they’d wander in middle of night. One fella was dressed ready to “check out of this motel had to get to the farm & thrash grain”, another would go sit in the dining area & wait for breakfast at 2am. Bless you all, it’s not easy. ❤

[@toryberch]

Ya I know I remember things like that in the nursing homes I worked at 😢

[@GG_girl26]

I do relate here to in sunrise senior living canada.

[@venusdemilo3378]

Oh! WOW

[@anital5020]

Yes, I had some experiences with my parents. My mother stayed up late every night. My dad would got to bed at 9 then when she went to bed at 1 or 2 am he would get up for a couple of hours. Then there were times she would fall in the muddle of the night. She broke her arm at 2 am once. Rushed her to the ER. She fell and broke her arm 2 different times in the middle of the night about 2 years apart. Fortunately my employer was willing to work with me when I had to be out with them. I spent about 8 years taking care of both of them. I would do it all again. It is more stressful than others realize. I sure miss them.

[@failednone6070]

Nursing homes mentally abuse patients all the time in every state. NY is one of the worst in the country

[@Cathyhall2010]

Bless you, Dan and Ed. This is a hard disease. My heart is with you all.

[@nanaadjoa6038]

❤bless your heart Dan and Danielle!

[@deloradeabel8487]

You were able to direct & divert him through his confusion very gently,well done Danielle!❤

[@pgggekinslow6189]

You are so good at redirecting Grandpa, even when he doesn’t react accordingly, your kind but firm persuasion works. He always thanks you which has to warm your heart. My parents both suffered from dementia. What you and Dan do for Ed is beyond what most are willing. Thanks and utmost respect from those who have walked in very similar shoes. You are amazing❣️❣️

[@0510nan]

Its sad when he gets so confused

[@chrisw9643]

​@@nanaadjoa6038you can tell she's TRYING to be more patient and kinder here ❤❤

[@StayReady617]

There is an alarm you can buy to put on his door so you guys can get a signal every time he leave his room especially at night. Love Ed❤❤❤❤

[@Tonya39420]

Yep I used to use them for when I had my 2nd child & my 1st was a little stinker lol

[@heatherjunker967]

Yep, I was going to suggest an alarm also.

[@natalialitrero7027]

This is a good idea,..thankyou Daniel for taking care of grandfather.Godbless

[@SpiritAnimal1212]

Ahhh…bless his heart💙. To know that Ed was a Doctor who performed surgery and to see how dementia has affected him and left him a bit confused and forgetful is very sad 😞.

[@oceaneo4603]

Sickness doesn't discriminate, and it humbles you. So glad to see him into goods hands. Hands up to his wonderful family. 👏👏👏👏👏

[@norrisc7163]

​​@@oceaneo4603Ed was A FootDoctor Not A Surgeon Now My Late Great Uncle was A Medical Doctor and A Surgeon My Late Grandmother on My mother side One of My Grandmother First cousins was A n Surgeon A Cardiologist A Heart Surgeon

[@susanvan1672]

It makes me tear up to think about how much he knew before, and now so much confusion and worry an inability to remember.😢

[@christianahfunmilolaodunta2465]

Thank God he was a good father that trained his children during his active years.

[@endeavouringit]

He was a podiatrist

[@carlaw9623]

My heart goes out to Dr. Ed. He looked so perplexed. Thank you for caring for him. ❤

[@heatherofthemountains]

My heart goes out to you all. Seeing Ed like that is hard. Let alone taking care of him - I appreciate your efforts. This exposure to how it really is, is so important Danielle. Thank you for your transparency. 💙

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

ty

[@Irene-yd2sv]

Did anyone notice how coco was right there helping guide Ed back to his room expressing concern along with Danielle by softly whimpering as if to express an uneasy feeling that Ed was wandering around at that hour. I bet coco sat with him out in the living room to make sure he was okay until someone woke up. ❤

[@susannaCdonovan23]

Dogs can be like guardian Angels. A little boy has epilepsy, and was having a extremely serious seizure and the family dog wasn't leaving his side watching him and warning family something was wrong. Even when the boy came home from the hospital, after his brain surgery, the dog literally sat next to him on the couch with his face pointed towards him and staring at him the whole time. Smart dogs are such a blessing.

[@Irene-yd2sv]

@@susannaCdonovan23 aww 🥰 that’s so sweet. Dogs sure are special..

[@zagwazatha4522]

F coco

[@Irene-yd2sv]

@@zagwazatha4522 I think it’s spelled coco 🙊

[@zagwazatha4522]

​@@Irene-yd2svf coco

[@celiacrockett9954]

I think that you hear Ed moving around before anyone else because you are a Mum and the Mummy brain never stops working. 😊 That was as you quite rightly put in the title a very moving and sad vlog. You and Dan are doing a fantastic job looking after Ed because he is hard work. I don’t mean this comment in any kind of disrespectful way it’s just true. 😊♥️♥️♥️

[@rainbow3649]

Don't apologize..u said it right. I do this for a living, in home, and many days I've cried over incidents like this one here.. 😢people have no idea! I lost 20pounds in 2 months becos my patient/client started staying up all night, literally all night and no sleeping pill could work. His daughter would come visit and started noticing how I looked. I invited her to come a spend a night with us, she did, and cried for me. We were up all night. She started to perduade me to start thinking of sending him to a home, just for my health, I almost started to agree, but I just loved lived loved him too much, I cried over that, and couldn't do it, I hang in there with him, another 9 more months before he went home to heaven, yes, I know he's in heaven becos he was the sweetest, kindest, and so much fun human being I ever met, and I knew that if we put him in a home,(which he didn't deserve), it will work against him definitely! He was such a happy soul by nature, we danced a lot, laughed a,lot, and he just lived and respected me so much. No day he never told me he loved me. I had him for 4yrs, and I still miss him. So, no, don't apologize, this job is a whole different navigation in life, when a person is caught between adulthood and childhood, and u have to navigate cautiously without disrespecting them, not easy at all. Labor of love.

[@wendiepate5983]

​@@rainbow3649 what a gem you are as a nurse and caring person . Thankyou for being the ONE for that gentleman you cared for . It does take it's toll on you . Bless you ❤️❤️

[@karenswartz8280]

I remember those days very well. Along with the good days, the funny days, even the “almost normal “ days, you will always have the challenges. Like any caregiver, I’d get frustrated too, but really, if you’re able to put yourself in their situation, it’s easier to imagine what it must feel like for them in those situations. That’s where empathy and grace come into play. Danielle, you and Dan, and Mark are doing a great job helping Ed get through the days and nights. You know, it’s been 7 years since my mom passed from dementia, and I cared for her for 6.I miss those times, believe or not, both the good times and the hard ones. No regrets-I’d do it all again in a heartbeat. Keep up the good work!

[@marirose19]

Danielle, my deepest love goes out to you, to sundowning Ed, & to all your loved ones. Dementia of all kinds is so heartbreaking & you are all amazing. Thank you for bearing witness (understatement) & raising the #truthful awareness that the world so dearly needs. #Gratitude #Respect💛

[@joanncraft8682]

So hard to watch the inevitable. It's not just the beginning, it gets worse. The most important thing now is to keep him safe. It's like child proofing the house so that he doesn't wonder outside. Dan, God bless you and your family for taking such good care of dad

[@margaretjamieson3604]

Their doors are alarmed. 👍

[@robyndowning2990]

@@margaretjamieson3604 I noticed the additional security bar propped under the front door handle. No doubt that is because Ed has tried to unlock the door and head outside. There may be a physical alarm that goes off but it can be shocking in the middle of the night. Much safer to add the physical security bar which Ed probably doesn't know how to remove.

[@natalielawrence8809]

Yeah, it's obviously heartbreaking.. but my God.. the way Danielle navigated this.. with a menagerie of animals playful support.. is nothing short of heart-warming. Dad's actually blessed 🙌

[@florencerichardson552]

samething I said b4 I even say your comment shes a real shit yep

[@AtMyBest420]

Bless you, Danielle. We all can see the illness, but admire your resilience and compassion. Be well, Dr. Ed!! ❤

[@Bri_K_333]

It gets me every time. He’s confused about just about everything in a moment but always knows it’s Danielle and thanks her.

[@poochie_connie5200]

Even though there is confusions he calls you Danielle...that says it all...all the best for Dr Ed and all of the family ❤😢

[@loridoolaghty3453]

So sorry Dad's progressing. You all have so much patience and love for Ed.

[@ChuckSchickx]

My heart goes out to Dan and Danielle. Your sacrifice, love and compassion is inspiring. Ed would be so proud and grateful, if things were different. You honor him and your families with your care, dedication and devotion. ❤️💕

[@rhondaprice1657]

Danielle, you exemplify excellence as a devoted wife, mother, caretaker, ally, teacher, servant leader, and friend of many followers. You are blessed and highly favored. Stay humble my friend.

[@pastholay]

Danielle…This has to be a hard situation for everyone involved… my heart and love goes out to you and Dan! ❤️🥲

[@ogjitterbug1883]

For sure 🤲🏻Danielle you are such a strong soul I personally know how difficult it is taking care of ed. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and Dan first and also for your family. My mom is 67 & has Alzheimer’s for 4 years now it’s the hardest thing to do. You are a super star 🤩you are truly amazing. Much respect and love 🙏🙏

[@user-ip2rq6he2m]

U alittle hard on him sometimes. U have to learn how to be patience cuz he don't know

[@peterromano1911]

I commend both of you for your caregiving. There are stages of dementia that can be less forgiving and the patient doesn't remember anything short term at all and fights the memory problems making themselves miserable. We can see Grandpa at his best and at his most confused and Dan and Danielle handle it with love and care. ❤❤

[@cowgirlinthesand1984]

It’s probably been suggested but a baby monitor was of great help to us when my dad started waking and wandering at night. We tucked it away so he couldn’t see. It gave us a heads up when he was on the move. God bless you and family for taking care of Ed at home ❤

[@thebadgerette69]

Good idea, my late husband would move fast at times and it was hard.

[@robyndowning2990]

I cared for my dad, with Dementia, for 6 years. I did end up putting a baby monitor on a night stand where he couldn't see it. Unfortunately my dad would get his days and nights mixed up. I would put him to be about 9pm and he would talk, out loud, to himself, for at least 2 hours straight before finally falling asleep. At 1am he would call me because he was awake and ready to start his day. While the baby monitor did alert me to my dad trying to get out of bed mostly I heard everything he would chat about and every little noise coming from him. I did not sleep well and it took its toll.

[@laurengarcia1023]

It's so sweet how Koko always follows him and looks out for him. Also your "mom voice" is quite impressive, kind but assertive ❤

[@mamawfrancy]

My 98 yr old dad was in last stage dementia with every memory gone this past year & died peacefully Oct 4th 2023... God Bless Ed & All His family. ❤

[@peterrobinson4093]

so sorry to hear this god bless your dad he is in no pain now and just asleep ..from peter in the UK..xx

[@sylviaespinoza8530]

May the God of all comfort soothe your heart 🙏

[@Joyfully8888]

So sorry for your loss 🙏.

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

im so sorry.

[@truth_1978]

RIP !

[@Matt-ou7tu]

I'm new to your channel. However i just wanted to say i appreciate how much patient you guys are. If i was asked the same question like 50 times a day, I'd probably lose my mind lol. So even though I've read small amounts of criticism at times in the comments, it's easy to act that way when you're dealing with a tough situation like this. So respect to you guys from England.

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

ty and welcome xoxo

[@reemalkaabi3335]

Bless your heart and soul for taking care of our beloved grandpa Ed ❤️❤️❤️❤️ We LOVE YOU D❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@marirose19]

We used an Audio/Video camera for my last Sundowning Dementia Client whose home I worked in w/several others for 24/7 coverage. Was extremely useful; maybe you already use one. We used even during the day bc of various factors. Kudos to all of you!!🙌🏼💛✌🏼

[@Tonya39420]

I suggested that also..I have them in my home & outside & I'm just a single mom who can't watch what these 4 teens are up to all the time lol.. so I have my living room covered with 1 camera & 1 in front & 1 in the back of my house

[@judy9123]

Maybe something like what parents put in babies rooms to make sure they're safe.

[@kimberlyk8505]

Hi...I need to get 24/7 care for my dad, he's similar to Ed, very mobile but aggressive when mad. Can you give me some ideas on where to find good qualified in home help?

[@godspeed2939]

Yes we had to set up cameras in the house and an alarm on the doors cause grandma would go outside middle of night.

[@missterri8207]

​@kimberlyk8505 Check with the Office for the Aged. If he has both Medicare and Medicaid contact both agencies. They can help you get your dad Dementia care.

[@ld4687]

I know that somedays can be difficult but remember one day Grandpa will be gone and you will carry on knowing you helped as much as possible to make his life comfortable. I just lost my Dad last month and I miss him already.

[@JGC23]

Sorry about your loss. May the Lord comfort you

[@ld4687]

@@JGC23 thank you for your kindness. I appreciate it.

[@Joyfully8888]

So sorry for your loss. My Beloved Mom passed this April. May perpetual light shine upon them.

[@ld4687]

@@Joyfully8888 sorry to hear that you lost your Mom this year. Thanks for the thoughtful response.

[@judd442009]

For someone born in 1932, it's amazing that Grandpa does as well as he does. He's very lucky to have patient caregivers. If he was in different circumstances, we're not so sure how well he might be treated so kindly. Sadly, there's a lot of elder abuse that occurs especially under less fortunate circumstances.

[@kayhansen9229]

Yes my younger sister told me dad would not have lasted two weeks in a nursing home. I thought she was just flattering me but then later on I realized she meant it. Especially because he could feed himself but only certain foods certain ways like a little microwave cup that he could hold in one hand and hold it up to his mouth and feed himself. He would have starved in a nursing home because I had to supervise all of his meals to make sure he ate them. He had no teeth and I had to make sure that he could eat and swallow his foods but he would did not like pureed food. I found that the microwave cups with chili and lasagna and mini ravioli things like that we're really good had meat but easy to chew. He loved his fresh fruit cups and Jell-O cups with fruit in it too I cater to him. Which Unfortunately they don't have enough manpower to do that in a nursing home.

[@mariemarie0201]

I go through this every single day with my dad. Its heartbreaking & pure exhaustion together.

[@Joyfully8888]

Bless your heart for what you’re doing with your Dad. No one knows how hard it is for a caregiver unless you’re going through it or have gone through it. My Dad had dementia the last ten years of his life. He was at home with my Mom caring for him. We are four sisters and helped Mom. It’s an exhausting responsibility. My prayers are with you. God is with you 🙏…

[@mariemarie0201]

@Joyfully8888 thank you so very much for the kind words!❤️

[@DebWemo]

Hard go sunshine ......keep up the work......

[@karenk3458]

❤❤😊 Thank you Danielle. Sounds like the Kitty is trying to send grandpa back to bed! ❤❤

[@lorisheheen2198]

Remember these early morning's caring for my Dad. Dementia is so unpredictable. 🙏❤

[@user-ld8se2hl3u]

Sending many blessings to all. I had a patient who had Alzheimer’s .I had him for 13 yrs. He was with me till his last breath . I have to say caring for him was one of my greatest blessings in life. Yes, there were the fun times the hard times but at the end I know I served a true purpose in my life. Dan and and family , thank u for sharing ur videos as they bring me back memories of yesterday. ❤ One love.

[@kathydumas2745]

This is normal, but heartbreaking. Thank you for being so kind.

[@CozyHouseEssentials]

I love the way Dan is always so patient with his father, never once have I heard him have a undertone of meanness.

[@thesportsguy126]

Danielle doesnt either. She may express frustration but put yourself in her shoes. She does a phenomenal job as a caregiver. If you watch consistently Ed always remembers Danielle which means she is doing something right.

[@CozyHouseEssentials]

@@thesportsguy126 I was giving Dan a compliment from what I watched , he does a great job!

[@possessedslig]

Sometimes you have to be short or you're just going to end up going round and round in circles for an hour when all you want to do is go back to bed

[@PecanBaby...]

Maybe put a sensor alarm on his door, which will notify you when he gets up during the night might help. I truly feel for you as this disease processes everything gets extremely hard to deal with and tiring for all involved. 😢

[@janetholmes733]

Oohh. Danielle you are a blessing to Ed and Dan. You're doing a great job... May God Bless you for the care and kindness you are showing..

[@lorac4126]

I used to own a shepherd, and they are great dogs. He is overlooking Ed's care as well. He or she is always there when Ed is confused. They can sense when someone needs to be protected. I was up and down with my dad last night. He somehow got stuck while trying to remove his t shirt. I had to cut him out of it, occurred at 5am as well. I never sleep well, always participating another fall. Dementia and CHF.

[@godstimeisthebest8650]

It's definitely not easy for you and Dan, but it's a blessing how you all handle grandpa. Much love to you all ❤.

[@SuzannePitchford-fr6rf]

He’s getting more confused and frail, you are doing well with him and I know it’s not easy. ❤

[@lorimartin6364]

I'm living through this with my 92 year old Mom. God bless you both 🙏

[@cristinacejudo1924]

I suggest to install an alarm to activate only at night so when he gets out of his bedroom, you'll get notified.

[@kirbyd0g]

On no, things are getting worse, not only forEd, but the whole familg.... this isn't easy for any of you. I salute you all. Hugs.

[@kedressguest9387]

Thanks Danelle ,❤ I have looked at patients with dementia for 8 years and I know exactly how much you have to put in , The moment you put your head up , it's the first thing that comes into your head if he's safe or not ,it's very constant in your head and that's how it goes 🙏🙏 Theres those moments when my heart sweep off when I can't see someone in bed or in the bathroom, where I expect to see them But in end I wood probably find he or her standing in cupboard freezing , I wonder how long has been their , probably the all hour I have been on my break for rest , sometimes it's very sad and tough Any ways thanks for finding him and put him back to bed ❤❤

[@elizabetharmor181]

Very sad disease. Most of the time he seems very grateful for the care his is given by Dan& Danielle & Mark . A lot of dementia patients are not as pleasant as he is most times .

[@herself50]

Man, I give you a lot credit Daniele.. Stay strong. There’s many people praying for all of you. ❤

[@glendasully]

Between Ed, the pig, the dog, the cat & the new kitten, I'm sure it's impossible to get a good night's sleep. You're a strong woman

[@MrNorthwestern2013]

It must be terrifying being at war within your own mind. Dementia is awful. Your family is doing a wonderful service to grandpa by managing it when his mind won’t let him have his memories. 😊

[@smariec2021ify]

Danielle, I love how you are somewhat stern with Grandpa and yet loving and comforting and letting him know it’s ok. 3:30

[@marciaspiegel5280]

I give you wonderous credit. 24/7 hard work. I'm sure he hates the confusion too. Bless all of you.

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

ty

[@Damage_Inc]

Thank you for showing both the good and the bad. Y'all are a blessing.

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

Our pleasure!

[@stephenlondon3363]

Good morning, Danielle, and yes, some of the saddest and hardest moments watching Ed deal with his dementia and memory loss… But as always you and/or Dan deal with him, and take care of him as best as you possibly can, and he is lucky to have you both… I don’t know why there are still people out there in the world who just spew hate on you guys and don’t understand, or even if they are in a similar situation, they make you feel that their way is the only right way to deal with someone with dementia because they don’t like the way you do it, but you know what?? Pardon my French but that’s too effing bad!! Good thoughts and much love to you all always and enjoy your Sunday ❤

[@VeteranVlogger]

Bad days and Good days ... glad you guys are with him for both. 🤩

[@ElephantsRock19]

I cannot post on here how I feel about Alzheimer's/dementia, such a beast of a disease! I just send so much love, prayers and positive energy your way...🕊️🙏❤️🕯️

[@angelaheras5466]

Wow! Reminds me of my mom sometimes. You are an angel, Danielle. Lots of patience and love is needed.

[@starkhalessi0000]

I’m happy to see that people have stopped the negative talk in these comments. 😊When a man like this doesn’t forget someone you know they are an amazing ass person.. that’s who has his back. He’s always loved Danielle that’s obvious here and she’s doin something man women wouldn’t. This has to be undeniably difficult for Dan and my heart is with you both. There is nothing more special than a relationship with your parents, and one with your Dad. ❤❤ hang in there guy

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

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[@Joyfully8888]

This is very hard to watch 😢! It brings back memories of what my father went through fighting dementia. It takes its toll on the family. My Mom cared for my Dad at home and never wanted to place him in a nursing home. We are four sisters so we would rotate in staying with my Mom to help her with my Dad. Danielle is loving, patient, and is taking great care of Grandpa! God Bless Grandpa, Danielle, Dan and Mark…. You have the support and love of many people who follow your channel. Our thoughts and prayers are with you ♥️.

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

ty

[@rhiannonmahoney1919]

Oh my goodness this is so sad to watch compared to when we see Ed making jokes and chatting. He never forgets to say thank you though. Such a sweetheart. God Bless

[@StaceyMane]

Dan is an amazing son but more impressive is Danielle. Imagine being responsible to care for someone's dad 24/7? Dan, Danielle and Mark are the most incredible and affectionate people in Ed's life. Sending love to all of you ❤

[@PippiLong1]

It is hard to see your loved one's go through these changes. We hope good moments come more often. 😶

[@Nablusof5]

So sad how disoriented they get at times but u handled that very well. Love u guys. ❤❤❤

[@selahrising]

“It’s really hard sometimes, especially for him.” Such a compassionate statement. You’re a really great caretaker Danielle.

[@hysemblack1716]

Danielle, you're a superstar. More props to you, Dan and Mark, taking care of Ed the way you guys do.

[@bonniedunbar6717]

The stress the caretakers have has no limit. You are both doing great 🎉

[@benanuar-melodikata7003]

Hi..I'm from Malaysia. I have been following this channel for the past 2 months. My in-laws have dementia too, and its getting worse by the day. Tq Dan and Danielle for sharing this content. By watching your content we (my wife and I) know that we are doing the right thing. Sometimes, it make me sad when people around misunderstood us as being rude to our parents. Tq again, ❤ for grandpa Ed...

[@1492pinta]

'Thank you Danielle' always so polite

[@pamsprang5408]

I have been watching for awhile. I look so forward to each posting. Thank you for letting us all into your home and life. Does anyone else notice he always knows Danielle name but no one else's. I think that is so special.... You all are amazing❤️

[@earnestinehamilton9760]

Yes and I love the way he said Danielle ❤

[@user-nubiangoddess]

Danielle is a 24/7 caregiver. Kudos to you

[@furrysfriend5150]

Poor Ed. Sending my prayers 🙏. Thanks to you too

[@sharleenparrino2297]

Speechless on what your guys responsibilities are with caring for grampa! You have the patience of Job! We need more daughters and sons like y’all but also grampa and grandma rise their kiddos right to for this undertaking! Our nonna=Italian gramma lived with us to the end also!👍 There you have it! Beautiful to watch daily! Thank you Danielle and Dan for allowing a glimpse into your personal life with grampa! Blessings! 🕊️🙏❤️🌹

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

xoxo

[@scarletredmagic6724]

That's the hardest with Dementia losing sense of time Bless u Danielle you were such a trouper with him✌️🍀💜💙💚

[@karlaruter3221]

He is lonely in his mind 😢. It's hard to handle.

[@jilltoby8]

Having cared for my elderly, very ill mom in the last yrs of her life, i know these are what's certainly a continuous stream of difficult, exhausting & at times, frightening and very lonesome moments.. [the ones 'critics' & 'experts' not living it don't consider].. you, Dan & Mark have so much admiration & appreciation for the most inspiring love & care you give Ed.. in all the hours of a night & day💞🙏🏼

[@faycottrell2065]

You are great for what you do for ed. Watch you all the time he Ed. reminds me of my brother that has passed 5yrs.ago you guys are so good with him.look forward to see you every day 🙂

[@janetstonerook4552]

By the time both of my parents' suffered severe dementia, they were bedfast. Which was less dangerous but required around the clock caretakers which was a whole other set of problems. They both said similar things to Ed's statements about misplaced keys, important papers and the car, worried anout their kids and wanted to go to their real home. Theyd get much worse at night and panicked. It is sad. And we the adult children realize that may be how we too finish out our lives. That's the part that is always in the back of our minds.

[@faithbringshope]

U can tell its trying on the family.. Danielle is trying to be patient but I'm sure she's very tired and just hope she can get back to sleep and get this over with quickly. It sure isn't easy. Prayers 🙏

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

well I was up for the day after that. so no rush. the rush was to try to get him redirected and back to bed. thats it. :)

[@VikkiLynn]

Danielle ❤you're doing a wonderful job & are such a blessing to the family. Sending you positive ✨️ vibes & prayers 🙏 to your family, one caregiver to another. I'm caring for my ma & she's going on 83. You & your family are doing a fantastic job.

[@pamcakes1]

Wow Danielle. That was a good one. Thank you for sharing. I appreciate the education. God bless you all.

[@stephenbosley9944]

It takes patience and love to care for someone suffering with this but you and Dan have it all covered ❤ respect to you both x

[@110498691]

I think Grandpa is getting a little more confused .A baby monitor may help or some sort of bell on his bedroom door .My sister hardly ever slept when my BIL would roam around at night .God bless you Danielle

[@user-in4qe2yc2y]

God bless you Danielle ~ your compassion for Grandpa Ed is outstanding! ❤

[@Tomas-major]

You are so kind Danielle, the way he thanks you melts my heart. You truly are a wonderful family xxxx

[@birddog9201]

This breaks my heart.

[@gwendolynbrown-white9230]

Clearly he is mixed up. I think he really wants to (watch) TV. Consider putting one in his room. It may not be a thing you believe in but consider what he is going through, it may help him. Maybe he would have stayed in the room😢. Making him go to bed made me sad. I get it you all get tired. But allow him a little more freedom. He may not always want to sleep. Try to get a night worker to monitor him. Also put motion detectors at doors and windows. I always wonder when he may wander off as they are known to do or mess with a kitchen knife not knowing what it is. Please put child proof locks on your cabinets, if you have not already done so. It's awesome to have him with his family. But you may need to get him an aide. It will give you all relief while giving him help with someone trained to monitor him. It will give you peace of mind. Do good background checks. But you would greatly benefit from him having an aide and it will make your wise decision to keep him home with his loved ones more tolerable. Many people have night aides. I hope it all works out.

[@l.ameenaa4669]

Very comprehensive advice well done

[@zazminrios7951]

I have no words seeing Grandpa and you guys go through all of this.😢😢😢

[@catmoore1448]

It breaks my heart that some people's final years are full of confusion. The whole family suffers with them.

[@nighthawk_predator1877]

This is very typical of what happens in our home as well with my elderly mother in law. After she wakes up she is often very confused. Sometimes whatever she was dreaming about becomes part of her reality when she wakes up too. We have to keep a lock on her closet door because she seems to like to get up in the wee hours of the night/morning and take all her clothes out of her closet and lay them all on the bed. She is always packing to go somewhere.😳

[@jenniferquackenbush7458]

You are so great with him Danielle. You handle the situation calmly, yet try to get him back to bed & safe quickly. You always answer his questions as well. You are an amazing daughter in-law. Ed is definitely a wonderful man that deserves the love you & the family give him while also keeping him safe. 🫶

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

Yes, thank you

[@earnestinehamilton9760]

Yes she do and he always saying her name ❤

[@sthrnbll2u65]

Dang that is hard to watch. I just want yall to know I empathize with you. I hope you get some rest today Danielle.

[@marycreaney173]

My heart breaks to see Ed so very confused early in the morning and Danielle is there to guide Ed back to his bedroom. It is not easy Danielle but you manage the best. Love always. ❤

[@Dasha17177]

You guys are doing a great job looking after Ed, these video's could be bringing awareness to thousands. God bless you for honouring your Father.

[@dianadelgado4123]

Dan and Danielle, thank you for showing us the tough side of dementia. It’s a roller coaster. Some good days but as time goes by, those days are going to be more in between. Your support system is important for you to stay strong. Sending much love and prayers to you all. 🙏🏼❤️

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

ty. ill take all the love I can get!

[@user-bh7hp2wj9x]

She always sounds so cruel. He looks frightened from her.

[@susanparker4550]

I've come to the conclusion it's just Danielle's manner (sometimes) because I don't think she really is cruel or that Ed feels frightened, but I'm thinking she needs to be firm in order to get Ed to listen ❤ x

[@paulaegraham]

@@susanparker4550 It's 5 in the morning. This isn't the first time. You just want them back in bed so you can get enough sleep to have the strength to take care of them.

[@lori5216]

You're an angel Daniel😇 He would never get this good of care in a rest home

[@mrsdsalnorcal]

I agree ty.

[@kathylez5697]

I'm so happy he has family who's so patient understanding and loving,God bless you-all

[@debby891]

This is how confused my mom is all day 💔. Alzheimer’s, the 36 hour day 7 days a week😢

[@conniepayton-nevels2685]

That’s so sad! Please get a baby monitor! It will alert you the minute he’s out of his room! ❤️❤️❤️

[@pastholay]

That’s a great suggestion! I believe that is a necessity now 🥲

[@sharronmeszaros563]

My heart hurts for Grandpa. Danielle you are so good to Ed, so patient and kind. Hugs❤

[@mariekauhi9034]

Ed is truly blessed to have such a loving, supportive family ❤ It's not easy for you, and I can't imagine how Ed must feel. You do a wonderful job❣️

[@catherinesecord3399]

You both are so good to Ed. It does get harder on everyone as time goes on though.Being up and down all night can be very exhausting. You guys also need rest so you can be there for your dad. It might be good to consider getting a caregiver for the night shift at some point in the future. keeping you all in my prayers xoxoxo

[@BoardwalkAngel231]

Both are good to ED, not Dan 😊 Night caregiver- good suggestion

[@catherinesecord3399]

@@BoardwalkAngel231 oops I meant to say Ed