REMEMBER THIS WHEN UR FEELING INSECURE

[@diaistic]

we need more influencers like sahar and spencer‼️🤚❤️

[@Maddie0313]

I agreeeee

[@rachelfriedman5093]

i just want to be best friends with them😭

[@2xxNorMacKxx2]

We really don’t

[@ssabrina0293]

@@2xxNorMacKxx2 well that’s kinda rude, just keep scrolling babe keep ur opinions to ur self if u can’t say something nice

[@2xxNorMacKxx2]

@@ssabrina0293 Translation: you mean keep your opinions to yourself if they’re different than ours. I didn’t say anything mean or hateful. I could have. Especially about Spencer. But I didn’t. Now if you scroll a bit further down on the comments, you may find my comment, which is a tad rude I’ll admit lol. I just don’t think the world needs more influencers. If anything, we need less. They’re called influencers for a reason. And 90% of them don’t influence for the better.

[@whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou]

"you're your own worst critic" No one in a trillion years will ever see you the way you see yourself. Your first love should always be yourself because no matter who comes and goes, you will always be in a relationship with yourself, so treat it nicely, it's the only thing that will be stuck with you for the rest of your life.

[@BRBallin1]

I don't agree with this. I've had people gaslight me for things I'm ok with myself with. Everyone has different standards for everything.

[@night_of_stars]

@@BRBallin1 Yes, people have preferences, but usually you are being hard on yourself, and other girls and guys look at you and don’t see what you could possibly be insecure about. This isn’t everyone though, but it’s often that you judge yourself more than others do.

[@Scypro]

@@night_of_starsyou describe me and many others 🥲

[@hearts.for.ems1489]

one thing I always remember when I'm insecure is that an ancestor before me looks the exactly the same as me, and someone fell in love with them, treated them well, and grew old with them. it really helps lol

[@naieen333]

Ik im late but wow thats rly smart!

[@samaelbravo3692]

Yeah but their husbands didnt exactly have as many options as today so

[@Eatwinks]

@@samaelbravo3692🤓☝️

[@rayenswift8843]

"think of the hottest girl you've ever seen" Me : Sahar- But fr tho thanks ❤️

[@anagxjxvxc4890]

Sameeee, girl crush🫣😅

[@cantstopscrollingsyndrome]

I wouldn't be insecure if people pointed crap out, my insecurities are what EVERYONE points out

[@sophiagooden8171]

This is so true my Ive known my sister for …. 9 yrs now and I didn’t even notice her tooth gap until she came and asked me why there where models in stores with tooth gaps. Makes me so sad how insecure ppl r. 😢

[@KT-zd3vl]

I’m more insecure about my personality than I am my physical appearance.

[@Eryn518]

No omg I feel attacked by this comment

[@KT-zd3vl]

@@Eryn518 what?

[@Zositaqueen]

@@Eryn518 ong tho

[@winter_falls903]

why? im sure ur fun to be around

[@KT-zd3vl]

@@winter_falls903 why would you say that?what makes you sure? that’s a weird thing to say to an internet stranger

[@ur.fav.swiftie.1]

i wish all of these were true all of the time… i have been made fun of many times throughout my school years and my “friends” are often pointing out my insecurities 😢

[@winterso8589]

Making me about to cry Sahar 😭 this is for real words of wisdom 🙏 thank you

[@BigKickSarah9103]

I don’t really think anyone would want any of my features… they only really see my knowledge and even then they see it as kinda disgusting. The other things were really helpful though! Thank youuu ♥️

[@diaistic]

im sure ur gorgeous pls don't say that

[@finnpie9669]

I mean... Even knowledge is like really attractive to people so yeah by this video's logic ur still hot whoever u are even if u think otherwise

[@repent.]

that's in your head believe it or not

[@BigKickSarah9103]

Thank you guys ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@repent.]

@@BigKickSarah9103 you're welcome we're just stating facts tho

[@merayvibzz]

Thank you for this! Its too bad we be living in a judgmental society!😭😭

[@Cheyenne_27]

thank you so much for this Sahar, you and Spencer have helped me to learn to start loving myself as a teen girl

[@Storyteller2078]

Spencer's toxic tho

[@Cheyenne_27]

@@Storyteller2078 how so?

[@kaylar5178]

I thought about this one too were you shouldn’t wish to be someone else because most likely they can be missing out on something amazing you have already.

[@dtpg5713]

I uses to be skinny, I started eating more food (especially healthy food) and startes working out. I have gained a little muscle and a lot of strength, now I am not insecure knowing I am trying to improve.

[@romeliapc4175]

Thank you for confirming once again that "their is some out their wanting one of my features thinking if they had it they wouldn't be insecure" honestly we should all love ourselves and be kind to ourselves. No hate to plastic surgeries but someone out their wants your nose, hips etc. and are going to a doctor to get it "fixed", like do whatever you want with your body/face but if you do it with the matter of THIS will make me prettier to fill up a void then it will never be worth it. This is so true!!👏🏻❤

[@Navii_TaylorsVersion]

I am truly thankful for people like you. I love you!

[@kellyh7158]

These are all so true and so relatable! Thank you for the reminder that everyone feels this way sometimes and we are not alone ❤️

[@ESSIE538]

Just had a whole mental break down from feeling insecure and this really helped ❤

[@_fxiry_maisie_]

I was sitting at lunch next to a group of girls and I saw someone point at me and say ,”If I was as confident as her I wouldn’t be so insucure”. She made my day❤️

[@shmeepshmoop2717]

you are literally so sweet

[@dwet260]

BYEEE i was literally saying the exact same things this morning like “oh if I looked like her I would never be insecure” or “how could she even have any insecurities?” AND I FIND THIS ON MY FYP?? SCARREYYY

[@Maddie0313]

Thank you! you make my day and help me so much!!!❤❤❤❤

[@prasidhithapa1237]

This feeling is too complicated sometimes I wish I was born skinny or I had eating disorders because I am so insecure about my body I wish I can walk comfortable felling pretty I just wish I wasn't fat I wish I wasn't weak

[@Seonghwas_bbsherk]

I’m very insecure about my height (I am VERY much above average for a girl in my country I’m 5’10) and everyone around me points it out and even my friends mock/joke about it. It’s hard to believe myself if I were to tell myself these things because it doesn’t really help with my situation:(

[@luchshiya]

The thing is they hate themselves with everybody comforting them and calling them pretty, I literally get bullied for my looks and have suicidal thoughts

[@Sunset.-.10101]

I am so jealous of this girl in my 6th period she's literally the prettiest girl alive to me

[@ruthhammon6610]

Everytime I say something about how I hate myself I always imagine God being sad like, "But I worked so hard on you." Makes me feel bad so I don't do it.

[@rainbowprincess1341]

the last one is honestly true. i often point out insecurities about myself to my best friends and they often do not see it until i mention it or they dont even see it at all

[@Milan.Aguilera]

i fricken love you. you have taught me how to love myself and now i feel like the most confident baddest bitch ALIVE and your videos are just so comforting and i love to watch them AHH

[@blairxxxxxxxx]

I've realized I used to look down on myself or talk bad bout myself. No more doing that to myself. ✨

[@monicamarie97]

Yo. I have never thought about how my future self will think of my current self talk. That’s huge 🤯 thank you for this video. I’m obsessed with you 💛💛

[@avabutcher2682]

sahar your my person i look up too 🫶🏻

[@Hi-zu5gw]

A thing I did at a time that I was insecure about everything was that I saw those girls they where "perfect" and i would look for my own insecurities in them, and when I saw many of them had the same features I managed to get an outside perspective and now I love many of those parts about myself because I saw how beautiful they where on others

[@georgiaberry3417]

BRO WELL IK THAT IF IM INSECURE I THINK OF U AS THE PERFECT GIRL OMG UR GORGEOUS

[@a_rose6537]

When she says think of the prettiest girl you know Me: she’s on my screen rn

[@person6167]

YOU!! IM LIKE HOW THE HELL DO YOU HAVE INSECURITIES U ARE GORGEOUS !!!!!

[@4NN13.]

It’s the worst when you tell someone your worst insecurity and it changes the way they see you.

[@Music_0419]

It’s Taylor swift for me 😍

[@zozostars]

“You can’t be mean to your baby pics” I literally bully every baby picture I’ve ever seen of me

[@jacquiesurman9296]

She is a whole personality she slays and makes me so comfortable!!!!!!

[@straightbacktothesun]

“i hate my face it’s so lopsided” “yeah it is”

[@Tswizzle4ever]

Thank❤🌹🙏 you for making us more confident😌

[@Summer_timesadness]

This really helped me today , I have been through a lot 💔

[@Scypro]

Even I know this myself but my stupid brain can’t stop thinking about it 😂 who else are like this?

[@sokeefesip1734]

When she says think of the prettiest girl you know and I think of sahar

[@kisses4kc]

writing this comment through tears. i’ve always been taught that growth is the way to be happy. always get better, always go the extra mile, always push yourself until you break. i’ve been so concerned with growing and looking for a glowup that i’ve had no time to love myself. in ten years i’m not going to remember browsing pinterest for haircuts that make my face shape look normal and hair products to kill the natural waves. i’m going to remember this girl who had nobody to love her because she refused to love herself.

[@iconicstay5685]

Not my grandma picking apart how my eyes and glasses were on facetime

[@Sabryna_1tG]

“Think of the hottest girl you’ve ever seen” one sentence in You Sahar you are gorgeous queen! Have a good day love! ♥️♥️♥️

[@rose-ir7pl]

Im extremely confident until i see the inverted version of me (back camera)😭💀

[@jordanmacleod3688]

You’re that girls to me you’re brilliant funny sweet, kind, caring literally the definition of the perfect person. I hope everything goes right for you. Wish you all the best in everything and anything you do.

[@Angelsntreal]

Perfect timing🫶🫶

[@Cardigan0]

I think people do notice. Especially when they point it out when I try really hard not to draw attention to it

[@kimtaeyeonismyeverything]

“Think of the hottest gi-“ thinks of you😭 maam you’re too gorgeous

[@aleahruonavaara519]

i was feeling really insecure today and this helped so so much keep doing this

[@_Daughter_of_Athena]

"think of the hottest girl..." *thinks of sahar*

[@saraviiq]

Here’s 101 compliments! 1. You have a fantastic sense of style. 2. Your smile is contagious. 3. You're an incredibly talented artist. 4. You're a great listener. 5. You have a beautiful soul. 6. Your passion for life is inspiring. 7. You're a true friend. 8. You have a wonderful sense of humor. 9. You're a natural leader. 10. You're always there for others. 11. Your creativity knows no bounds. 12. You're incredibly thoughtful. 13. Your kindness is a breath of fresh air. 14. You have a heart of gold. 15. You're a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. 16. You have a captivating presence. 17. You're so genuine. 18. You're a beacon of positivity. 19. You're a great role model. 20. Your intelligence is impressive. 21. You're incredibly resilient. 22. You have a way with words. 23. You're a source of strength for many. 24. You're a true gem. 25. Your determination is admirable. 26. You're incredibly talented at everything you do. 27. You're so graceful. 28. You're always so considerate of others. 29. Your humility is refreshing. 30. You're a true artist in every sense of the word. 31. You have a wonderful sense of adventure. 32. You're always willing to lend a helping hand. 33. Your positivity is infectious. 34. You're a natural beauty inside and out. 35. You're incredibly wise beyond your years. 36. Your energy is magnetic. 37. You have a heart as big as the ocean. 38. You're a true gift to those around you. 39. You're always so full of life. 40. Your laughter is music to my ears. 41. You're an inspiration to us all. 42. You have a rare and special gift. 43. You're a true original. 44. Your presence lights up the room. 45. You're so easy to talk to. 46. You're a true blessing in my life. 47. You have an amazing way of making everyone feel included. 48. You're always so positive and upbeat. 49. You have a beautiful mind. 50. Your kindness knows no bounds. 51. You're a true joy to be around. 52. You have such a warm and welcoming personality. 53. Your passion is contagious. 54. You're incredibly talented at everything you do. 55. You're a true friend in every sense of the word. 56. You have a heart of gold. 57. You're a true original. 58. You're always so full of life. 59. Your laughter is contagious. 60. You have a beautiful soul. 61. You're a true inspiration to us all. 62. Your kindness and compassion are truly remarkable. 63. You have such a positive and uplifting presence. 64. Your generosity knows no bounds. 65. You're a true light in this world. 66. You're always there to lend a helping hand. 67. Your wisdom and insight are truly impressive. 68. You have a way of making everyone around you feel special. 69. Your strength and resilience are truly inspiring. 70. You're a true blessing in my life. 71. Your creativity and imagination are boundless. 72. You're a true artist in every sense of the word. 73. Your energy and enthusiasm are contagious. 74. You have such a unique and special way of looking at the world. 75. You're always so positive and upbeat. 76. Your friendship means the world to me. 77. You have a heart as big as the ocean. 78. You're a true joy to be around. 79. Your passion for life is truly inspiring. 80. You have such a beautiful and caring soul. 81. You're a true gem. 82. Your kindness and compassion are truly remarkable. 83. You have a way of making everyone around you feel loved and appreciated. 84. Your strength and courage are truly admirable. 85. You're a true inspiration to us all. 86. Your positivity and optimism are infectious. 87. You have a heart of gold. 88. You're a true blessing in my life. 89. Your friendship means the world to me. 90. You have such a beautiful and caring soul. 91. You're always so full of life. 92. Your laughter is contagious. 93. You have a way of making everyone around you feel special. 94. Your kindness and compassion are truly remarkable. 95. You're a true gem. 96. You have such a warm and welcoming personality. 97. Your energy and enthusiasm are contagious. 98. You're a true joy to be around. 99. Your passion for life is truly inspiring. 100. You have such a positive and uplifting presence. 101. You're a true light in this world

[@Diya-dz9rz]

Thank you 🩶

[@Shiiimason]

I am thankful to you gorgeous lady.... ❤

[@annabellevogel2790]

I really felt this message ❤️🖤

[@ItsJust_StarLight]

Dude my insincerities right now 😂

[@ragingbicycle7465]

Thank you so much Sahar! i love your vids and you have helped me so much. with my self confidence ❤❤❤

[@CreamieBunnies]

People only critique your looks if they are insecure themselves.

[@TheChrisAnonymous]

I cant believe u uploaded this at the right time. So God sent

[@idreamtofayou]

I just felt like sharing this i have always been insecure of my br* size and all and most of my friends had like smaller size than me which was an add on to my insecurities and a few weeks ago idk how our conversation diverted to that and all my friends were like "look at you girl, if I looked like you I'd never be insecure"

[@elliewong2867]

"oh my god look at that" 👹👹👺👺👹👺

[@juliettully]

Sahar, thank you so much for all your videos because you’ve truly helped me to gain more confidence. I struggle so much with self confidence especially since social media has come around. I decided to delete all socials besides KZbin and i hope u never stop making videos and I wish you more success and happiness ! 💗

[@yveweo]

this helped tyy😊

[@karinametcalf2713]

I looked at a picture of 1st grade me and called it fat. Because ITS THE TRUTH.

[@Lila-cu1mi]

I feel that way about u, like ur the person I wish I looked like ❤️❤️❤️

[@TrixieMattelsnumber1fan]

Thank you so much. This really helps ❤❤

[@PepperandRosie]

Made my day❤

[@Taterchip1027]

A counselor at the residential I went to told me “ look around do you look at all the people they’re all just like you they’re so focused on their own problems and appearance that they would never notice your insecurities unless you pointed it out”

[@charlotteebea]

Today I was sitting at lunch and I like love my eyebrows but two of my friends were like "Why do your eyebrows look like that?" And like bro.. They're gorgeous idc 😘

[@user-je9jv1up9q]

Be sure that anyone who would say that to you is just jealous.

[@charlotteebea]

@@user-je9jv1up9q that boosted by confidence so muchh!! Tysm!!

[@urlocalsimp559]

drop those "friends" they are toxic af

[@PoopyHeadkaka]

I get bullied bc when I smile my eyes get small and I get racist comment saying I’m Asian and people say my nose is huge more than I think it which makes me really insucure

[@vishwapsengar7340]

Yes

[@reedaniyamarsya]

i love this❤

[@bananna_309]

u r spreading amazing messages

[@henriettaanneeles490]

Thanks Sahar! I agree with everything except the baby pics thing though... I mean to baby me very easily tbh, but things may get better

[@quitlol2]

its bad when ur own friends point out ur insecurities

[@khadijak.bx87]

ok so i need to tell my self that sahra has insecurities also i love u so much your vids are so fucking amazing

[@thetruechaoshuman]

Sahar: “think of the hottest girl ever” Me: “ you”

[@Thekingofwatching]

The funny thing was, didn’t have insecurities. “You”(others) met me. I was outcast

[@A_StupidHuman]

I felt challenged by the baby picture thing so I went to my camera roll. When I saw a picture of me around the age of 6, I started crying. I couldn't do it.

[@shalinipahujani552]

Ty for the reminder love you 💕

[@user-dk6qp2kr6s]

Thankkk you soo muchhh

[@abigailshumway2711]

I love you and your content

[@aylakreelak]

Subscribed!

[@nwlkr18]

“think of the hottest girl you’ve ever seen” me: TAYLOR SWIFT-

[@shiny5909]

The first two examples I thought of you Sahar xx

[@Ivy-peaches-]

When you look at a stranger an they are pretty and you are like omg the are so pretty I wish I were them but they might be insecure about something can you point they're insecurity out no right exactly when someone looks at you they don't know what you'r insecurity (unless you told them) so don't be insecure you pretty just the way you are.

[@arianamarlow8571]

Thank you 💗

[@mwilliams3005]

I think of you💗💗💗

[@leiajones852]

After watching the first episode of normal people and half of the second episode I just got one thing to say….it’s lowkey weird af but imma continue watching out of curiosity. 😂

[@jordanio66]

Another thing is thing of that girl like you said at the beginning and imagine how many people have thought the same about you

[@celestem8016]

Thank you

[@Th3_V0id0]

We all have things we don’t like about ourselves so why not embrace it! I have an insecurity about my nose and jawline and the other day I saw a girl who had nearly the same nose as me and she was stunning, it just goes to show that it’s just society telling us what to do and tbh what the beauty standard is now will most definitely be different in the future so why waste time on picking apart yourself?

[@kykafitzfingers1384]

That moment when I’m mean to baby me. My bangs were not it

[@Dee-sm7vg]

For the last one the reason I have insecurities because someone else has pointed it out 😞

[@kulkaur8003]

Thank you Sahar ❤

[@nevaray9413]

The last one is so true tho!!! Literally no one cares that u r so pale or ur hair looks dirty. They’re too busy keeping up their on appearances to hide their on insecurities

[@flowra19]

Yeah one day I wore this lipgloss and I though it made my teeth look super yellow and right before I was about to take it off my friend was like I love ur lipgloss and I was like are u sure doesn't it make me teeth look yellow ? And she said I didnt even notice that till u pointed it out and tbh I still don't rlly see it and I just assumed she was just being nice looking back now that gloss was actually rlly cute I wish I hadn't given it away