Stupid Boy - Keith Urban *lyrics*

i really like this song so here it is
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[@samuelvillegas7635]

This song hits you different when you actually relate to it word for word..

[@lolobrower]

And to have closure and hear them say I’m sorry would be so healing

[@indianagirl500]

Yes it does

[@lolobrower]

@@lisakelsch I’m so sorry 💕

[@robertbrown9669]

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[@trinafletcher9723]

Yes for sure it does. Really hits hard when your own child lives what she learned!

[@noobmasters6913]

I'm a 30 yo man and I can't listen to this song without crying. Men are supposed to love and support women. We are supposed to protect them. Not be the thing they need protecting from.

[@MicheleFarnese]

Wow!! Best insight ! You'll be fine my friend!!

[@DLHaney-mw9km]

But that door swings both ways

[@kelliea7451]

This song came out at the exact time I was leaving my abusive ex. He was verbally and emotionally abusive. I have permanent scars from him. This song gave me the courage to make the change. Keith urban has no idea how many lives he's changed for the better. Keep it up Keith!

[@kelliea7451]

She. The pain of holding on outweighs the fear of letting go, you'll be able to make the change

[@sylvia7777]

I heard it at the time I was having doubts in a verbal abusive relationship of 3 years. this and Danielle Bradburys worth it gave me the strength to walk away. single 3 months, never felt better

[@jennifershepherd4975]

It truly rips you apart to listen to it...once your gone and when you listen to it.. you remember every name they called you..every hand laid...every tear you cried alone in the bathtub...so no one could hear..the times you prayed to God for answers for strength for help to understand why....you feel so broken and beaten down...you don't even recognize yourself anymore, your just a shell..walking on eggshells everyday..ashamed of yourself for staying..ashamed of yourself for loving them still..ashamed of yourself for still trying with all your might...thinking maybe just maybe one day it will change...but it doesn't. Finally you find that strength deep down in your gut and you say enough with tears running down your face...you pack up your home and you walk out the door...of the home you bought and shared all the memories...see you get stuck on the good ones, that's been the problem all along..why you couldn't leave...but then a flash of that hand or word comes across and you know your doing the right thing..and you deserve so much more. So you say goodbye to your forever home..the life you thought was forever but you do it with a calmness...knowing it's right..although it may be hard...my dad always told me the hardest things in life are the best things for you. And you remember all the times you sat on that kitchen floor sobbing..talking to god..asking him how is it there, you had gotten so low you thought of dying...you didn't want to die but felt trapped by loyalty..love..memories and fear...fear of what he may do. But then you jump...and every second of every day..yes you live in some fear and I don't know how long it takes to get over that fear...I hope it doesn't take all my life I'm far to young. But I hope and I pray that I can overcome this...I know I'm not the only one out here that has and I'd going through this...you are strong and brave and you can do this. I believe in you if no one else does.

[@tawanahickey9234]

Love you and miss u so much and can't wait until I get back on the plane plane a good friend and I have no idea what happened and I have no idea what it is not that you can see if we need it for a good price and I will let it go and I have a good day his wife will have some good food and I

[@connihutton2739]

I never heard this before!!

[@J-T-M619]

Any guy who treats a girl wrong doesn't deserve her and they won't realize that until she is gone for good.

[@neveahphase1110]

Preach.

[@redneckdriver01]

damn right we all done it at one point

[@candicemarie636]

JT M. >Sucks being the one to teach the leason thou.

[@allenpadgett8293]

I love the song

[@trellbeckem7413]

I am one of them. She lied I hit her she left only if I knew then what I know now

[@tulipsforever]

To my cruel dad... for what you did to my mother. She's better off without you. In fact we all are...and now you're all alone. It was you dad, that wasn't good enough for us all along, especially my mother. Thank you God for showing us life could be better and great.

[@tabithasmith86]

Amen sweetheart!!!

[@elishabraun196]

You have no idea how proud of you I am...my daughter and I share a story similar to yours. I love your strength, luv.

[@pilarevans1266]

Probably one of his best songs ever written and recorded, a very strong, hard working and talented performer!! Keep it up Keith we will always listen to what you have to offer❣

[@chrisdavis1151]

I was this man and lost my teenage sweetheart. After 8 years and I found her once again. She forgave me and I am proud to be the man I am today. Growing up is part of life. Dont let the one you love get away.

[@mickeypopa]

"Don't let the one you love get away." Exactly. Even if you have to chain her to the radiator in your basement. She'll come around eventually.

[@chrisdavis1151]

@@mickeypopa LMFAO you made my day 😂

[@mickeypopa]

@@chrisdavis1151 :D

[@tabithasmith86]

Better or else she is gonna walk the F off. She knows of a man that is dying to have her and treat her the way she deserves. She only will go about another week and she is Fing done!!!

[@donovancobb2839]

I didn't let her get away and besides that sounds ignorant as hell. I mean they are their own people. They can go do whoever when you are working.. They will message anyone and when you ask they say it's cause you are up to something. Then they will forever run and make you beg take your kids say they didn't know they had to make you ask to see them.. It goes on and on.. Beside she is the stupid boy here.

[@foosterz69]

This song just kills me. Hits right in the ticker. I just dont understand how anyone can ever be so mean. Thank you Keith for writing and singing this song!!

[@evanlistear2473]

As a guy, this song inspires me to never be THAT stupid boy. I make mistakes, I'm not perfect, nor will I ever say that I'm perfect. But I hope that every damn day, I'm someone that not only I can be proud of, but my wife can be proud of, too. On top of that, this song reminds me of a couple of my friends right now. One is on a break from her boyfriend because practically every day, they fought. I spent a week with her and not once did we fight. I was even around him and her and he was ready to jump down her throat, but she remained calm and just talked. I am extremely proud of how she handled it in that moment. My other friend does 200+% of the work. Her boyfriend (the father of her kids) will complain about having to watch the kids and the only time he does is if she's at work, and even then, he'll try to get his parents to take the kids. She goes to work, comes home, has to watch their kids, clean, etc. Any time she has to go out, she either has 1 or both kids with her. I wish I could do more for them, but I'm only one person and I can't protect everyone.

[@shellyzepeda]

❤

[@shellyzepeda]

❤

[@MicheleFarnese]

Dang! You'd get a hundred of women who feel the same as you

[@razzledazzle8631]

Divorced 2 times now . I am 60 now and finally learned but it is too late . All you young guys out there . Give her all the space .. she may be your wife/girlfriend but you dont own her .

[@MicheleFarnese]

I'm 63 and is far from over, it's mind set Try this, get some KZbin videos that are beginner level, and the best part ever is that finding out 2 days ago you couldn't do that, and now you can. For sure, work on what will restore you!

[@queenannesrevenge-cr5wm]

57 here third divorce. But I'm so in love I'm gonna marry this boy who ain't stupid, soon as he asks, like the same day haha

[@dawnMolyneux]

​@@queenannesrevenge-cr5wm54 never married cuz I ain't gunna marry some stupid boy

[@davidperry4310]

We're in America, most likely she is for the galaxy. Sadly, this is the agenda they push here. Times have changed.

[@MsAlyification]

I love this song, reminds me of my ex, made me feel miserable and like I never had another choice, and finally when I got enough courage to leave him I realized how much more I deserve than him! and now I am with someone who treats me and my son amazing

[@diinassima6652]

😭😭😭😭

[@kimmy7217]

❤

[@MicheleFarnese]

You love it for a reason and keep going girl!

[@lemonauraify]

This song means everything to me. Describes how I was treated by my father and then my husband of almost two decades.

[@dobbins421]

This song brings back so many good child hood memories...reminds me of my first love....can't ever forget your first love and it's been 50 years...still puts an ear to ear smile on my face whenever I hear it

[@jasminelemasters5577]

😖🥺

[@debbie8548]

LoL!!! I married that stupid boy, I have my freedom but I'm permanently disabled. Bye bye stupid boys

[@HeartReveals]

I truly appreciate Keith for this beautiful song...love it!

[@heathermusic9522]

Beautifully written! I love his voice so much! This song reminds me of a boy who wasted his time on my heart

[@HollyZinko-nw7uo]

🔥❤️💯🙌💋

[@thejadedschoicekristyfexer6168]

Wow Thank all these terrific artists for putting feelings into words.

[@texasgirl9437]

You never know what you got untill you loose it, ppl dont realize how good of a person they have right in front of them until they loose them.

[@texasgirl9437]

My boyfriend is a stupid boy 😒😒😒😒

[@mugizimunawalu8013]

sure

[@jessicawwesavani]

I am so sad but looks like most of us girls here are. So y'all girls keep your heads up. You are all beautiful because of of how big , pure and golden your heart is to love someone who doesn't deserve it. The man i love and been with for 7 months that i stayed with after all his Cheating, lies, emotional/ psychological abuse and threats has finally dumped me but is not us who are the stupid ones is them for losing someone great and kind.

[@squigly07]

I don't know you, but I can tell you without a doubt you deserve better.

[@AllieGunz]

I stayed with a guy who emotionally/mentally abused me for months.. i took all of it like a champ (most of the time) though. I let him say the things he did to me, I let him call me the horrible names, I let him make me feel like I was always the wrong one, he led me to believe that I was worthless.. but just 4 days ago I had finally had enough..I just stopped talking to him and its been the hardest 4 days of my life so far.. for I was absolutely in love with the bastard. He lost me...I didn't lose him.

[@erikachavez6247]

I've been in the same boat but for 4 years. Smh. Im ready to let go, I don't want him back. But that healing pain is no joke.

[@quantummiendfuk9571]

Jessica Ivonne I went through that for years. I just wish they knew and felt bad for how horrible they were... Worst part is when they blame us too.

[@jadaloesch]

Jessica Ivonne amen sister

[@jessicarizzotto7203]

I was in a abusive relationship for 4 years when I finally found the courage to leave him my life has been nothing but better I'm doing it all on my own I got a promotion my own car my own place I did it without him even though he said I couldn't and now I found someone who treats me right the way a man should

[@firstnamelastname4705]

good for you.always know you worth

[@jesroberts4706]

Amen im right with you just git my car and restraining order yesterday

[@bearscolts1]

Jessica Rizzotto really proud of you! You definitely deserve a good relationship and I'm glad you took action. Hope you find a better man :)

[@emmyrozsi5938]

me and my son in 1 for 11 years

[@tinynae1]

Jessica Rizzotto I was in the same boat as you and the day I left him I heard this song and I sent it to him .I am broke the Chang's he had on me .

[@jamesd7495]

This song is not complete without the extended part they never play on the radio.. thanks for including that. Such a beautiful guitar solo

[@tracylawrence2139]

Love this one...I finally ran far away from the one who thought I never would...so glad I did...I'm not in fear of my life anymore.

[@eric.mahoney6158]

Your lucky some of them get you put on a gangstalkertorrure list like me

[@doingitnowrememberingitlat410]

I've strayed a lot from country music, but whenever I feel really down this song among a few others always welcome me back. When life gets hard it's so easy to give up, but being strong enough to keep pushing through everything makes living life more worthwhile, if anything that's what music has taught me.

[@kaishathompson121]

this song made me think of my ex, he was verbally abusive and did some pretty horrible things, and now that i finally got away im never going back. He lost something truly amazing and i can finally see that now. I see i am worth being treated with respect and love but it took a long time for me to understand that. But the guy i am with now is incredible. So don't think all men are bad because they aren't. There are a lot of bad ones but there are bad women to and when you have a good relationship hold onto it because its becoming a rarer thing in our society.

[@stephaniebryant639]

Good to hear this because I'm going through that right now!!

[@wendyquirk5790]

I am so with you! It's been 15 yrs now, I don't think I will ever recover. The pain lingers................

[@WelbSedwick]

amen

[@nataliekhan9828]

I cab totally relate to ur story

[@piercetheviel4life800]

Same thing happened to me and I was with him for 9 and half months until I finally saw the way he was treating me.

[@0ptimal]

Man, i forgot all about this song. Holy sht. I loved it for a long time a long time ago. Lot of memories coming back listening to it.

[@beastrees]

There is always someone out there that will treat you right. Don't give up just because you've been hurt in the past. Everyone is different. Someone will love you the way you deserved to be loved.

[@catrinafarrar112]

"you always had to be right, and now you lost the only thing that ever made you feel alive" That line is my life right now. My ex always had to be right and was controlling and manipulative but i didn't see it because my love for him blinded me. And now I am the one more hurt, but I am thankful God saved me from this and protected me before we progressed into marriage like we talked about. God's rejection is our protection!

[@LaStryka]

God does not reject. And abusing an act of God is how you lose protection, not gain it

[@chelseataylor8080]

I love that God's rejection is our protectiom

[@chelseataylor8080]

He will reject marriage.. if it wasn't what he has planned for u. So your wrong..he don't reject people who come to him. But if the marriage isn't right if one person has good the other don't it gets destroyed. If neaither has god it never last. God does things to protect us and keep us from marriage if it is wrong and not what he wanted for us . .. I have cancer I been praying for healing for ever and nothing. But that just means eaither now or later God's timing is perfect don't do things like marriage on ur timing god sends what is best. He will let u go through lessons just to end up with blessings.. if the marriage ain't attended or in his plan he will remove u from the situation only to give u better.. god rejection means protection. He don't reject things to hurt he rejects things so u don't get hurt. He's a big god and he loves us.

[@chelseataylor8080]

I mentioned if one has god and the other dont

[@chelseataylor8080]

God knows what's best for u

[@tinkerbell2900]

All I have to say. Is thank you lord for saving me! Great song!

[@melindahartle8061]

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🩹💯💔

[@CarlaFreeman-mg4zz]

My best friend husband was treating like dirt and she heard this song she got the strength to her daughter out of a abusive relationship and she called me the day that she and told me everything he did to her and their daughter and I told iam so glad that you got away from him and she said I will never look back or go back to him she dating my brother now so I happy she found happiness 😊

[@yolandawilliams5981]

I just love this song. The words the feeling, the meaning! The apology oh it's so heartrendering with so much feelin! Wow!

[@derekoestreich7924]

The woman I love for the last 2 years used to sing the song. I love watching her sing it until she became the man in this song. Tonight I sit here singing it missing her my heart is so connected to hers yet she is the one that threw away something amazing and treated me worse than I've ever been treated in my entire life. This song represents so much to me it represents a time when we are at our highest singing together and just enjoying our love it also represents the person she became. It sucks to let somebody like that go and I don't know if I'm ever going to be able to...

[@CMBuzbee]

This song used to make me upset...now I find it very empowering. You should too! Getting out of a toxic/abusive relationship or marriage is the best thing that can happen to you. Stupid Boys....treat her right, be kind, let her be free WHILE she's WITH YOU...Let her be herself, keep her smiling, not crying... and you WON'T lose the only thing that ever made you feel alive.

[@kellyandress646]

Very well said ❤

[@shellyzepeda]

❤

[@crystallakes271]

Was told that with my mental issues with anxiety it wouldn’t make sense for me to foster children. I wanted to get my credit up and get a nice house. Then I wanted to work on helping troubled kids and I figured this was something within my reach. I figured maybe I could make a difference this way but immediately my thoughts were shut down. Your anxiety is too much for more kids. Gee thanks for believing in me and supporting me. I really feel so inspired now :(

[@debbiem8207]

What an amazing song. I've lived it a handful of times. Especially the last one. He tried crushing my spirit with all his might but he didn't know who he was dealing with. He hurt my son and no one messes with my mama's boy!!

[@alexmartin8495]

this song takes me back to when I didn't know what love is. now I do and I still love this song it means so much.

[@rockyphipps2725]

Aint tht the truth...

[@ThePancakeDragon]

"A woman brought you into this world, so you have no right to disrespect one.'' -Tupac

[@mickeypopa]

That's funny coming from Tupac.

[@snoopyw6589]

ThePancakeDragon wish my husband new how to treat me. We’re both wrong but what he’s doing to me now is so disrespectful I am getting a hardened heart for him and it’s going to be gone and completely done soon. I wish he knew breaking me wasn’t his control to do but God’s. He said he’s a Godly man but I don’t see anything but love from him he’s so full of hate and it’s directed at me

[@bobbyjessie5407]

MackP not really if you know anything about him perfect man to say it plus it's the truth so anyone can say it

[@marthacandycarrasquillo102]

@@snoopyw6589 you need to leave! Learn to love yourself! Give yourself the RESPECT you deserve! Sounds like the malignant NARCISSIST I was with! You deserve better! And you'll find it once you stand your ground! And set boundries! God bless you! Good luck!

[@jaykelly3928]

We adults I don't jump out my tree unless prevoked as a man I feel those moments of breaking weak at the same time if I didn't give a fuck I would not give a fuck

[@noel9863]

I'll keep praying for his SOUL. may he find JESUS. I'll always love u Forrest. God bless you

[@sophiatidswell2872]

2019 and still one of the best songs

[@kimberlyhartley213]

I usually don't listen to Keith but this song is the story of my life.

[@michellethacker430]

Yes,absolutely

[@christinemeek6580]

This is my favorite driving song., well one of them. This happened to me too.

[@shamillas1205]

I have no idea how this song came to my play list . But it came at the right time . I left an abusive relationship long time ago , I feel in love with someone after 12 years to find the same old abusive pattern, I left with pain . I am not ever ever going to fall in love again . I am good the way I am . Women are humans too they need to be treated the way you like to be treated . 😔😢

[@connierolfe238]

This song goes to the "stupid boy" narcissist that broke my daughter down for 6 years!! I'm glad she finally realized what a strong beautiful woman she is & found happiness for her & her daughter.

[@StephanieLK37]

Thank you Lord, in the name of Jesus Christ. amen amen

[@annaknight5111]

💜

[@MKo-cu5rn]

gosh the lyrics are just keep being stronger and stronger than the other left

[@TrueImmortality]

One of the best country songs of this century.

[@danettaromero9793]

20 yrs of marriage. Tried, so hard I tried. But it was never enough, when my 12 yr old son, asked, mom why are we staying with him. His own father. I knew it was time. Remember, alone is better then being in a toxic relationship. So we ran. And that same boy grew up to be an incredible fine man Zero regrets.

[@donnatalkington6036]

Zero regrets

[@karinagardocki763]

This song helped me with an abusive relationship. Get out and run from it like the wild flower 🌸 🌺 🌹 you were born to be! You are beautiful and precious and made by God. Every woman deserves to feel happy and free. ❤️🙂🙏🏼

[@casiewiese8918]

I was in a very abusive relationship. We are divorced now it's been two years. I can relate so much to this song. I'm so much happier and stronger now!

[@lewisr993]

A decade + later and I still love that solo at the end.

[@Hallelujah-Gracias]

가사 볼 때마다 너무 슬퍼요ㅜㅜ 신이여 제발 그녀에게 알게 해주세요..미안하다고 너무 미안하다고.. 그녀는 다시는 내게 돌아오지 않겠지.. ㅜㅜ 15년동안 알고 들어온 노랜데 정말 가슴아파요ㅜㅜ

[@ashleyleday337]

Just heard this song..... on Amercan Idol.......... Love it!!

[@simistop3964]

+Ashley LeDay me too! haha

[@doveless]

Sameeeee

[@montannamorgan2460]

Omgsh lol same

[@richardwhitby8014]

YESSSSSS LIKE FOR REALZIES😍😍

[@richardwhitby8014]

YESSSSSS LIKE FOR REALZIES😍😍

[@bridgetpeart6776]

I love his song it really hits home!!!

[@wendyp5024]

"It took a while for her to figure out she could run, but when she did, she was long gone, long gone"Sometimes the hardest thing to do is the best thing we can do for ourselves and our sanity.

[@sandyknight4052]

I'll never understand why he had to break me and strip me of everything i once was, strong, independent, and confident. i took the world on by myself just to take care of my daughter. I fought like hell, just me and Lilee against the world. He made sure i had nothing, not even clothes so i could get a job. Sad thing is , i still love him. God, please help me to move on

[@JessicaM-ie6xb]

Shit it's been about 7 years now since this song was published and I still listen to it! What an amazing country song this is!

[@IrisheaglesOne]

This is my favorite of all the songs he sings!

[@natentessbowman1818]

really

[@daniellecooper1789]

Same me 3

[@nmcnemis]

This was the first ever song I learned to play on Guitar. Ah! Memories... It's a special song for me and for you all too. Thank You Keith Urban and ❤️🎁MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!🌟🎁 🎅 HO HO HO!!! 🦌

[@margowinchell4827]

Thank you for being such a blessing in my life and in the lives of others Sonny.

[@tonyrajnoor8200]

Goes both ways at different times it seems to me...great tune regardless.

[@rorosung1026]

I loved him so much , i was the first to apologize always , he made me feel that i'm wrong all the time , i was in the palm of his hand but he hurted me in every possible way and now that im done, i hope he'll be treated in the same manner so he can understand how badly he played me ..

[@JoiBean67]

Roro Sung Amen! I feel exactly the same way. However, I'm working on not caring one way or another anymore. I actually am trying real hard to let all the negative feelings I have towards him go in other words - give it to God - revenge or resentment never really works it's like drinking poison and expecting the other person to feel it's effects. Doesn't work. Let go. Let God. Be happy. & Live YOUR life. Be well. Keeping it moving...... in a positive direction!

[@JamesAutoDude]

Roro Sung He doesn't necessarily need to get the same treatment to feel the way you did. I am sorry for the situation you were in but, you gotta understand that, guys show hurt/scaredness as anger. Doesn't excuse what happened, I'm just saying. Also, even if he got the same treatment, he wouldn't even remotely understand how you feel. Simply because, he's in a different frame of mind... I share this with you because I used to be that guy. I used to be so cruel... But I learned, MYSELF, that it was wrong... And looked for guidance myself. But if he doesn't want to learn, if he doesn't see it, it doesn't matter what happens to him.. .He will still think it's okay to do. Just be glad you got out of it before it got any worse. That's what you should focus on... Not on him getting the same treatment because, it's not about him, it's about you. Take care.

[@JoiBean67]

Well said....James....( Funny that was my "guy"s name ) Just ironic is all.. Thanks!

[@JoiBean67]

Still....it would be awesome (nice) like icing on a cake if someone from your past that hurt you deeply said they were sorry for their part......ahhh just a thought.....or fantasy?.....

[@JamesAutoDude]

JoiBean67 More of a fantasy.. And honestly, it's just a tad bit selfish in my belief, to be waiting around for them to say sorry. It also allows them to win in the end because you're sitting there waiting for them to say sorry, instead of just moving on with your life and learning to not date/find someone like them ever again... Since there are warning signs.

[@tlmlovesyew]

"She never even knew, she had a choice, that's what happens when the only voice she hears, is telling her she can't" "It took a while, for her to figure out, she could run, and when she did, she was long gone, long gone"

[@mikebrooks599]

I will never be that stupid boy again this time even though she is not perfect I will love her treat her like she is perfect cause to me she is my everything

[@apryldillon1979]

Tiffany Mcpherson Favorite part so true for me cuz I did

[@ethanroberts5193]

I might be stupid but at least I know how to treat a woman girl what ever

[@jkw6172]

I miss u

[@jkw6172]

@@ethanroberts5193 u cheated

[@lynnapereira8471]

Wow Keith,s music is a mazing I really felt a connection to it he seems like a real amazing and caring person .I,m happy he has Nichole and his beautiful girls.

[@jillmeadows842]

I've spent the last 10 months in a relationship with a man who doesn't understand that words that are said in an argument last a life time. They don't go away with a simple apology. Promises that are made and not kept are worse than not promising things at all. I've tried to forgive and forget all the terrible things that hens said to me, but i dont think i can anymore. Im broken. I have no worth or value and thats been proven to me by the lack of effort that is being shown. My heart is breaking :'(

[@opalwhitney9477]

Who said so? Who said so? Who. Your who will determine your what and your why. If you believe the who is God,thats says you are worthy, you will never be dissapointed and you will never be unworthy because God is not a cheater and he is eternal. If he says you are eternally worthy then you are. Its better when you believe that too. You are worthy,you just have to choose who you will believe.

[@freshstart9309]

His actions show his lack of worth. It has nothing to do with yours. YOU value yourself because YOU are worth it.

[@brandijenae0221]

Holy spirit speak!!! Saaaaame. I have a sinking feeling he's cheating on me. My husband is married to his job out of town and now the calls are less gym time is more he used to make it work and come home or take me and the kids on dates he's glued to his phone he goes in on days off he could care less and belittles me because he makes the money I'm not a "productive member of society" not realizing if we both worked then our kids wouldn't have any attention. Its all his dreams , his weight loss, his stamina , him, him, him I even felt like not living and my husband threw in a jab "sorry I can't be late at my job" BC I'm always depressed and running late he could care less it's like he gets off to controlling my emotions. I cry and cry and he just stares at me like I'm not worthy why would he even marry me just to hurt me? I loved him poor I wanted his TIME and honesty now he's finished college and got a good job so he can put me down and make comments and just work out of town 2 hrs away for 29 days out of the week. He's about to see me run!

[@sarahharrison6093]

makes me think of my little sister Layla... I hope soon you realize what he is threw your on eyes... and when you do, because your a smart girl just lost for a moment.. your big sissy will be here to glue your pieces back together!! love you lala you are more then what you are settling for ... see you in my dreams... xoxo

[@brandylee6857]

she never even knew she had a choice and that's what happens when the only voice she hears is telling her she can't 💔😞

[@benthalo2817]

Brandy Lee hello my name is Brandy Lea

[@nicholesidla6233]

Hits home hard even years after it ends

[@artsy__heart7972]

😔

[@kingtitan2051]

She ran - but then what? Tell me more...

[@michelegerace2365]

I know the feeling. This hurts

[@marjoriesmith6841]

I can definitely relate to this song! As if it was me he's referring to. My son used to sing this song for me when he was 6.

[@alhuggins3646]

must be something addictive in this song.. i just seem to want to consume it so often. listen and enjoy the feel...

[@tammybusse]

same here...i could keep it on replay all day

[@laureljune7561]

If we could go back 3 yrs who knows?

[@laureljune7561]

Al Huggins if we could go back 3 yrs ago, who knows?

[@karikile3716]

❤This song, always have~~dedicate it to my beautiful daughters "father" no hard feelings we're doing great! Just wanted you to know how beautiful, creative & smart she is at 14 yet you'll never know...

[@taylorsmith9175]

Kari Kile you go girl,

[@MamaBear.94.12]

this song was one of the ones I clung to when he hurt me. I listened to this song so much I know it by heart

[@karizmavermillion8186]

same here💔😭

[@sabinelandlord9468]

This is a realistic song from Keith Urban. Thank you Keith Urban!

[@summerrn8073]

This song is so personal to me. I cry every time I hear it.

[@michaelcooper4918]

If it wasn't for two stupid boys i wouldn't have what i have today the most important person in my life. Its unbelievable and painful to hear everything they did to her and still trying to do to her as we're together. The fact she still is able to love and trust goes to prove what a strong woman she is. Its taken time for her to heal and see she's worth so much but They lost someone truly amazing.

[@AkaSakuLover101]

I just played this one and the Cassadee Pope version together and it was beautiful!!!

[@rebeccabray146]

Love the guitar riff at the end.. Keith is a legend

[@magnummaster1299]

my gf and I just had a giant fight tonight about me not paying enough attention to her and we have been dating for 7 almost 8 months and I just heard this song and I realized that she was right I am always doing something else other than giving her attention and I was that stupid boy for soooo long but not anymore from now on I'm giving her all the attention that she deserves because she is beautiful and different and I love her with all my heart and I can see that she must love me more than I ever realized to have put up with that for this long thanks Keith :)

[@ambermarie1235]

Jeffery Kelley It's people like you guys that restore my faith in society and strengthen my love for music. Thank you for sharing your story with us 🖤🎧🎤

[@Punchy-blonde20]

Jeffery Kelley girls need a lot of attention. And they will start a fight over it. (Trust me, I’m one, so I should know) so, just give her the attention. I’m glad you realized it.

[@taramcintyre7367]

Wish my partner would give me some attention

[@johnjewell1320]

don't stress little man, we all make mistakes (especially us men) thing you need to understand is to admit when you've made a mistake but if it doesn't get better there are plenty of fish in the sea my friend.

[@joshbiggs8788]

Jeffery Kelley ....fuck that. ..do you man...soon as you bow down to her she's gonna run all over you...just remember. ..nothing last forever

[@biancablayne533]

its never to late to express your feelings about someone. dont live with regret.

[@alce326]

Love this song mostly it fits me so well, I lived with my ex for over a year, he never let me do anything with it not turning in to a fight. I never felt like I had a choice or not to do what I wanted, he never trust me he always went through my phone, mail, and purse. Now that I have moved out he regrets losing me

[@rebeccamsaavedra4337]

omg keith if you read this... This is my life song life takes us down crooked paths when we are not strong enough to stand up and we trust so easy from innocense. Love this song.

[@aprilsealy357]

seriously. if a man really loves a woman, he would not let others run over that woman. he would do anything to make her happy and be understanding. I'm going through a lot myself. a woman and girl can have such a free spirit.

[@savannahboddie2834]

Oh my God I haven't heard this song in years!

[@thehellishcat3379]

I dedicate this song to my girlfriend's ex who had broken up with her after a year and a half because he was bored of her and wouldn't sleep with him. These are the type of people I want to sing this to and just knock their lights out afterwards. Just to teach them that sex is not everything in this generation.

[@thehellishcat3379]

+The Hellish Cat Also, instead of saying I'm, switch it to you're.

[@hellyesjeasus2346]

+The Hellish Cat + the TIGER

[@conradsutton1456]

+The Hellish Cat Look at it this way. If it wasn't for him being the ass he is, she would have never found out the good man you are. So instead of knocking his lights out, really piss him off and send him a thank you card.

[@melindahartle8061]

❤️‍🩹💯❤️‍🔥

[@willy2256]

Love this song it's perfect

[@CherylRoberts-ou9nx]

So real love Urban much love this Keith lyric's and so much more

[@kiagiven6464]

This hits home..

[@chantellewalker3895]

I love this song thanks for playing it

[@unquestionablelovemusicale1673]

The choices we all have, is to love or hate. Stay or walk away....I have loved & lost many times. Please wake me up

[@margowinchell4827]

Keith Urban has been a godsend to us all.What a wonderfully talented man with z beautiful heart. You go Keith you got it going on.

[@taylorblinch3024]

does it ever occur when you listen to a song it just fits with a situation that you are personally going throuh at that time and moment

[@tawanahickey9234]

Highest level is going

[@loragraham5330]

Everyone should realize what they have bc when u hurt someone so deeply down to their soal u can never fix it...never

[@brittneyfoster4398]

I just want to be good enough for once in my life...

[@christopherkimpel4870]

Brittney Foster You are good enough

[@debrafarris7442]

Brittney Foster don't we all

[@robinboles9733]

You are! I am like you! Never realizing we ARE ENOUGH! I was raised by a not so nice Dad! He he looks like a Barnie Rubble but the disposition of Fred Flinstone! I know somewhere deep down I am enough! Don't lose your identity of whom you really are because of someone elses misery they placed on you! Sorry, just saying! It's easy for me to say it to you when I don't practice it myself! Jerk's don't deserve us!

[@DetraFondren]

You are and always will be more than good enough!

[@nateh6271]

Brittney Foster you are good enough. your amazing and beautiful

[@risumotus]

Those lyrics.....I think a lot of us (men and women) can relate to those lyrics!!!! They are a soothing gift!!!

[@victoriaclark4363]

Im Crying Just Listening . Stuck In A Relationship For A Year . Where He Beat Me . Cheated On Me With My Family . So Yes . It Hurts . But Its His Lost . Stupid Boy ..!

[@bwdorman28]

Same here.

[@Chase-hv1bg]

This touches me bcuz i loved my girl so much and i still do and im trying to get her back but she crushed my heart snd my dreams but i just love her so much

[@pey-chansnightcore6334]

օɦ աօա ɨҡ ɦօա ʊ ʄɛɛʟ ɮʊt ɨʍ a ɢɨʀʟ sօ ɨts tɦɛ օtɦɛʀ աaʏ aʀօʊռɖ ʄօʀ me

[@likme84x]

5:24 ..... the guitar .....WOW

[@melodygarrison8071]

I've been listening to him for as long as I can remember. I always loved this song, but now it just reminds me of my ex. I still love the song, but I never REALLY understood it until we broke up.

[@cherishmelovely]

I see this song as someone losing a unique flower, the love of there life, and he lost it due to putting limits on another’s life

[@jamesgibson7207]

Yeah that's kinda the way I get it also... Couldn't accept her for who she was... Then again .. depending on what his expectations were... He may not have been completely crazy... Having any expectations is just like closing your eyes and throwing a few rocks straight up then standing around hoping for the best..... Apathy ... That is the key to happiness... But a relationship with no expectations or caring ? What is the point really? Old dogs and watermelon wine for me ...

[@ashleynu6375]

"She laid her heart and soul in your hands.And you stole her every dream and you crushed her plans." My Father and My daughter's father, right there. And I was dumb enough to believe everything the two of them said to me... My heart is hurting 18 months after I left her father and cut my own father out of my life. But... I'm better off. I miss so much about the two of them... but I don't want to be mentally abused and/or physically. So... I made the right choice. I just wish I didn't have to make that choice.

[@adorabledumpling6623]

Yes you did

[@emmaarndt3122]

This song describes me perfectly. This describes me and my used to be crush. I loved him because he was different than all the other guys, and I was innocently in love with him. It was the first time I was in love, ever. We were never together but I swore we would date, get married, have kids, and grow old together. But.. he changed. He became one of those 'stupid boys' as soon as he became friends with them. Now, he's a complete asshole. Stupid boy.. he crushed my plans..

[@MsSwwood]

This is my favorite Keith Urban song. It's so underrated!

[@graciemillar3033]

Sometimes it's not the guy's fault... We women seem to push the good ones away and go for the bad boy... And that is where your heart gets broke... Don't go for Mr. Right Now...Wait for Mr. Right :)

[@jechave8427]

Gracie Millar very true

[@honestman6310]

OMG - someone who gets it. Gracie you are my Hero!!!! I'd hug you if I could!!! **ALL** of us need to take responsibility for our choices. I've made some of my own poor (stupid) decisions, but I also own them! It's not just the guy's fault 100% of the time. It's the girls that opt to date these guys - (or, the guys that opt to date the wrong women - it goes both ways - I try not to be hypocritical). Where is the personal responsibility in our own (bad) choices?

[@rorosung1026]

All the good ones are taken

[@mchlllynn1]

You are right, if we want to be treated like queens we must treat our men like a king. However sometimes the guy is abusive and doesnt understand because of their environment when they were raised. Men and woman need to work on things it's not just the fault of one. We are a product of our environment and of our childhood.

[@jamesgibson7207]

@@rorosung1026 they aren't ...when you stop looking is probly when something will surprise you

[@EdwardJRapp]

Plain and simple......Where was this song 15 years ago......Listen close youngins....Stand tall and tell her everything,...'cause If you're on your knees saying I'm sorry...It's too late.

[@caslandry2847]

This song makes me cry every time I hear it.. Rest in peace Julia, you deserved so much more

[@aprilrose773]

I'm sorry for your loss

[@tawanahickey9234]

Ok

[@brandismith1579]

Thanks for this song I've never felt better or felt like someone understood me and my feelings. Always felt alone but it's like this song took me home.