I’m a night shift nurse, a wife and a mom of 2 young boys. Life gets so crazy sometimes. I feel like I have no grasp of any part of my life. I was also doing KZbin and instagram videos on top of it. I felt anxious most of the time. Now I’m taking a break from social media. I feel free and my anxiety is gone. In fact, I don’t even feel like I want to get back to social media until my kids grow older. There is so much peace in disconnecting from the social media world. I am now living in my soft era. I do lots of activities with my boys. I journal. I garden and take care of my home. it feels like I have so much time and it’s so peaceful. Everything happens in my own pace, and I have time. It can be done! Thank you for this inspiring video
@nsorx17656 ай бұрын
I second this! As a fellow nurse & shift worker I am too in my soft era. I was burnt out after the Pandemic and hadn’t been looking after myself. Always working… all of this stress led to a slipped disc in my back & have been off on leave the past 9months. I have also deleted my IG and don’t really use other platforms (besides YT of course!) and the difference in impeccable! I’m not constantly looking at friends and influencers stories constantly on my phone. Since stepping back I can see how toxic it can be. I’ve also taken up gardening and yoga and my life has changed drastically for the better 🙏🙌
@IrinaBeier6 ай бұрын
So interesting...I give up on Social Media in November and since then I live a soft life, working with two kids...it was like something was erase from my brain
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
I love that you're making this work for you! Removing things from your plate and schedule is so important. I think so many of us spend way too much time rushing around. Thanks for watching and for sharing your perspective ❤
@Mastrninamarie5 ай бұрын
@HabeshaNurse Your comment gives me inspiration to let go of social media as I am realizing I'm better off without it. It takes time away from things I want to do without even noticing in the moment. Thanks for posting! 💛
@pippamoore95634 ай бұрын
I'm a nurse and working nights is not good x I gave up nights yrsrs ago when I became so stressed with not sleeping . If u can manage fine but if u can't I'd find a job which doesn't require night duty x trust me it's not worth it x I regret ever working nights when my kids were small.
@JaniceQueenB4 ай бұрын
I heard once that if you want to find things you enjoy doing for fun, remember what you did as a child. For me, drawing, swimming and being out in nature. 💕💕
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
That's so lovely!
@MalenaTaylor-jl3wg5 ай бұрын
4 steps I took -no social media except KZbin and not after 9 -moved to a smallish town (under 10000 people) - no traffic, safe, quiet, peaceful -work from home only -got the kind of dogs I’ve always wanted regardless of the stereotypes and judgment and walk them every morning after my at home workout and then sit in my in home sauna Still grinding and still work a lot!!! ….but these 4 things were game changers for me and those are my “soft life” hacks Not a rich white lady either I took a pay cut to work remote but saved up for my sauna and dogs and not going to the gym or buying Starbucks etc being in the streets, eating out has also improved my physical health and the financials to do these other things .
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Oh I LOVE this! Thanks for sharing 🫶 moving to a small town has made a big difference for me too, as well as the dog part! They bring so much joy to life. Love your idea about social media too.
@jennifers57786 ай бұрын
I am thankful for quiet days.
@SarahNicholls6 ай бұрын
So peaceful 🫶 I'm finding as I get older I appreciate calm and quiet so much.
@lawyerdebbie10 ай бұрын
I waste too much time being stressed. This was a great reminder that there’s no medal for that and I should try to relax and enjoy life more 😊
@SarahNicholls10 ай бұрын
Definitely! Life's too short to be stressed all the time ❤️
@mylowspendlife6 ай бұрын
Luxury to me is eating a dessert item at home on a fancy antique plate that I used to only reserve for looking at 😊.
@debphelan-devon79286 ай бұрын
That's so cool I'm going to copy you 💖
@natliekla5 ай бұрын
I'm using my thinest, finest glass for "everyday- glass" 🥰 I inherited them from my great grandma ❤
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Yessss 🙌 it's so important to use the fancy things now!
@rebeckahowells51566 ай бұрын
Doing a job that YOU want to do, not what your family, your culture or society says is a "good job" or "good career" 🥰
@isobelyoung85916 ай бұрын
Love this! I wish I could upvote you 100 times
@ree_flowers5 ай бұрын
Wish I knew this earlier! You’re so right!
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
THISSSS
@wendywertz8828Ай бұрын
At 55 I learned how to RELAX and enjoy life ! Chill out that’s what I’d tell my younger self and all women !!!!!
@SarahNichollsАй бұрын
Ahh I love this!!
@TJ-kz1ul6 ай бұрын
I am a healthcare worker, working in admin at a hospital. I've just been diagnosed with burnout and wow, the side effects are so real!! I am not the person I used to be, no more go, go, go, high energy, getting up at 5am to workout etc. etc. This video is really helpful on my road to healing. Thank you!!
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Burnout is no joke. How are you doing? I hope you're getting the opportunity to slow down and take life at a different pace.
@twoods29146 ай бұрын
We moved from the big City to a smaller state more like a country life style last Jan. We can’t believe the change it’s had on our entire lifestyle, stressors, everything we do. We are still learning but the planning ahead is so true and I resonate with you.
@SarahNicholls6 ай бұрын
Oh how lovely! Such a beautiful change of pace. Enjoy it 💕
@anashappydays6 ай бұрын
When my children were little, I embraced slow living. It completely transformed my life. I make myself my priority and I am a much better person and more focused in what and who really matters in my life. No more running around and feeling like I am not doing enough or able to cope. Priorities really shifted and life is beautiful.❤
@meesh20156 ай бұрын
Omg how did you do this? With toddlers slowing down feels extra hard😭
@anashappydays6 ай бұрын
@@meesh2015 Just focusing in what is really important and saying no to everything else. With an intention to be present for my children and family moments. I didn’t make too many plans that we had to stick to, just going with how the day unfolded. And of course making time for myself. Taking a bath, reading a book in my room, having my favorite coffee etc…Toddlers teach you to be in the moment because when you are not all hell brake loose 😄
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing ❤
@SimplyBeautiful5166 ай бұрын
I grew up in the 1970s and my mom was married and was the epitome of the working mom who also taught classes at church and volunteered. But, she never had time for herself or her children. Unfortunately, I became just like her just in a different form. I was the Sahm who homeschooled our children and made everything from scratch. We both burned out with serious mental and physical issues
@AE-sd2vv5 ай бұрын
I can relate. Big hug❤
@shawntreasetheealluringbea12155 ай бұрын
Hugs
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that! How does life look for you now?
@wkt2506Ай бұрын
What happened next Simply Beautiful 516?
@denisewilliamson4749Ай бұрын
Thank You! I will start living my soft life! 😊💯
@christinaheart22384 ай бұрын
The past decade of my life has literally fight or flight mode as I fought & beat cancer 3x, however, treatment has left me with debilitating pain, which makes it even more important for me to s l o w d o w n and just be still. Embrace the moment, actually chew and savor my food, etc. I hardly check/use my phone unless it's to play something educational;) or meditative. Getting sick showed me how important it is to slow down and that life is truly what you make of it. ❤ To a healthy, softer life.🎉🎉🎉
@dcharmed2Ай бұрын
Dear, I adore you. You still have time to make videos. My nurse bf couldn't even take me to the movies. 😭 I am getting more and more resentful. Oh, do you know how I understood his worklife? I started watching fb videos of a nurse influencer who makes skits of how stressful their job is. 😅 I live in Southeast Asia. The healthcare worker = patient ratio here is bad
@SarahNichollsАй бұрын
Sending you hugs!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@elaineclerkin222013 күн бұрын
Hello who are the nurse influencer
@rubyus73326 ай бұрын
You’re so right! We are all deserve a stressless life and we’re capable to create it for ourselves! ❤
@Solin.28Ай бұрын
Living like my childhood hero Pippi Longstocking together with my spirited-2 year old daughter is our soft life era!
@SarahNichollsАй бұрын
@Solin.28 love that so much!!
@a.k.akarin6 ай бұрын
I feel this ❤ from 2020 until end of last year I was very much in my villain era. I had finally gotten out of an emotionally abusive relationship end 2020 and I was not going to let anyone treat me like that ever again, so I worked myself to the bone to get myself away from that life. It’s been 3 years since I left, I’ve healed a lot and I think it’s time to lay those weapons down and enter my soft era ☺️
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
I am so pleased to hear you got out of that relationship. What strength you have! Hope you're doing well 💗
@MyoSport_therapy2 ай бұрын
All these things you mentioned hit home for me. The worst part is that my busy lifestyle came in so subtle and I fell into the trap of feeling guilty if I’m not productive. Now I’m taking the steps to lessen my workload and prioritize God and my well being.
@Snotra-if7ml4 ай бұрын
A perfect lifestyle for an unemployed and childless person... Just can't imagine a working mom who can incorporate all this good stuff mentioned in this video in her everyday life(
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
Take from the video whatever is helpful for you. Being a working parent definitley makes life more full-on! The point I took from this trend is to try and make life easier for ourselves and to be kind to ourselves.
@virtue1495Ай бұрын
We def live in a chaotic era that a soft life is the best favour and gift we can give ourselves. I liken a soft like to a peace-filled life. Glad I found your channel. I enjoyed your vid a lot and just subscribed🤎
@SarahNicholls23 күн бұрын
Thank you so much 💓
@janesmith37826 ай бұрын
New to your channel Sarah but thank you for this. I am constantly stressed, constantly rushing from thing to thing, exactly as you describe at the start. I am really going to use the tips in this video 😊
@SarahNicholls6 ай бұрын
I remember that feeling so well 🫠 this way of living that I mention in the video has changed my entire life! It starts with your mindset and your habits keep it going. Best of luck to you!
@Yaaae925 ай бұрын
I’m chronically stressed and tired of it. I work from home, have 3 kids, husband does shift work, I’m late for everything, barely sleep and constantly doing cooking and cleaning from the moment I wake up you the minute I lay my head to rest. I feel like I’m doing a crappy job at everything. I’m always in fight or flight. I NEED to make some changes in my life
@rebeccagreenlee72655 ай бұрын
Me too
@cheryl33164 ай бұрын
You are doing your best and you should be proud of that. Is everyone fed? Do your kids feel loved? That’s already enough to pat yourself on the back. Let the dishes sit overnight. Give yourself some grace. We’re all doing the best we can.
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
Sending you love and strength, you are doing an incredible job!
@erikabossie20 күн бұрын
15 years ago I gave up my science career to look after my two young children. I started working part time in early years education when they were at school. It was less stressful. Less money but more outside time, playing and art with kids. I have never looked back. ❤ Time for yourself and the ones you love ❤
@SarahNicholls20 күн бұрын
@@erikabossie how amazing 👏 that's so lovely
@BlissfulForever8882 ай бұрын
We can learn a lot from our dogs too 🐶 thank you for this wonderful video
@SarahNichollsАй бұрын
Sooo true!
@jeannecampbell2261Ай бұрын
Thank you for helping me put a name to how I have learned to deal with life. I have had so many ups and downs-spouse and children gravely ill, loss of income, death of family and friends-in short, I have lived a full life so far. And as I deal with all of this head on, I know that if I do not embrace a quiet home life, if I do not choose to eliminate things that have no real value and live each moment with grace and intention, I will “go down with the ship”. You do not have the luxury of choosing what life throws at you. But the greater luxury is deciding who you are and how to deal with it.
@SarahNichollsАй бұрын
So sorry that life has thrown so many difficulties your way. Sending so much love 🫶✨️
@jeannecampbell2261Ай бұрын
@@SarahNichollsthank you
@georginat60516 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed the video. I am currently looking for a job after having quite a lot of time at home. I was worried that I will be going back to a hectic, stressful working life but am going to try and remember that being productive is not about being stressed. I can do a really good job and be very productive without loading stress onto myself and trying to do a hundred things at the same time (and trying to second guess what everyone thinks of me :)
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Yes!! Being productive doesn't have to mean being stressed. So true 🙌
@ChristinaDiStefanoStudio6 ай бұрын
I think we’re all insecure about being good enough as we are and so we feel we must push ourselves to extremes. It’s also the influence and repercussion of a decade of hustle culture being bragged about on social media. A lot to unlearn but not impossible. Your field especially. It’s unreal the long hours doctors and nurses are expected to endure. PS Thank you for making this video 🤗
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@aleksandrabt98565 ай бұрын
On the beginning of the video I felt very judgmental like : I have 2 small kids, sick husband, job what is she going to tell me… but I absolutely loved that video and I will pay more attention to my life to make it less stressful.. thank you, it was a pleasure to watch it
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!! I hope it was helpful to you 🫶✨️
@samanthastewart80812 ай бұрын
This is a great video ❤ I’m a student midwife with 3 young children and life doesn’t seem to ease off but I’m learning to pause or remove things in my life and it’s becoming a bit more manageable. Also find with being so busy I make time for the opposite, peace, outdoors, me time is just important to recharge 😊
@LLearner11216 ай бұрын
My question is...what if ive always been living in the soft life era but my family/friends arent and they judge my lifestyle? Also at times being around them makes me feel less just because im not as busy as they are? For example one of my friend, who seems to LOVE her busy lifestyle and have lots of social circles kept asking me what do i do at home (in a condescending way at times)? Im a happy sahm most days just busy with my children and works around the house and i like my me time like netflix, walks atound the park, trying new recipes...and why does that seems too boring for her? 😅 help me explain.
@sawdarchitects48035 ай бұрын
Dont let other people decide your lifestyle, people will judge you even if you have a too busy life, trust me I used to have a too busy life and got judged, so be free like a bird, give your dreams wings and let your dreams fly...do whatever you feel like doing, everyone's life purpose is different...
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
I couldn't have said it better than the other person who has commented! It's YOUR life. Don't wait for or expect acceptance from others. Live your life unapologetically and enjoy. Life is short!
@24cammo985 ай бұрын
good presentation! One thing I’ve done is only scheduled appointments on Tuesday, wednesday. or thursday. i was finding I had a little bit of this and a little bit of that almost every day of the week. Of course there are always emergencies, but now I choose, which days I go to the dentist, the doctor and other things. It gives me a few days in a row off on either end, It feels like a vacation. ❤
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
What a brilliant idea! Thanks for sharing ✨️
@Haiokbai2 ай бұрын
Ugh I love this so much. 31 and I just hit my soft life era. My first sign is that I DO NOT WANT TO BE RUSHED! I’m living in the moment more. Love this era
@SarahNicholls2 ай бұрын
@@Haiokbai yessssss 👏👏👏 I feel this SO much!!
@kvv90Ай бұрын
I absolutely love this, coming as a current SAHM, previous social worker in health care. I definitely hit burnout and knew I needed to step back from the field, and it's working out really well to be at home. Not that it's easy or isn't busy, but I'm really learning how to live life slower, focus on my family and making my home an environment I want to be in. (Although yes with a toddler it's a disaster every day lol). Everyone has the capacity to pick and choose small things that improve their lives, and that will look different based on your circumstances. Sure, my time is almost never my own, but I do small things here and there that bring me joy. I just need to get the courage to hire a cleaner now..
@SarahNicholls12 күн бұрын
Glad you stepped back and life is getting a little easier. Did you hire the cleaner?!
@niumidissanayake64457 ай бұрын
Your content is addictive! Please keep doing more😍❤ YOU SLAY!!
@SarahNicholls7 ай бұрын
Probably the vest comment I've ever received 😍🥰🥳 thank you!!
@nohajack3666Ай бұрын
Watching your video in the morning made my day , i don't usually put comment in videos but i want thank u for reminding me , I'm new mama with beautiful twins and stay home all the time so stressful , but now i have many ideas to start soft era ❤❤
@SarahNichollsАй бұрын
Huge congratulations on your new babies 💫❤️ sending you so much love! I can imagine it's been a huge transition for you. I hope you can be kind to yourself and ask for lots of help when you need it. You're amazing!
@MANDS819 ай бұрын
Loving the new Videos Sarah 👏👏👏 as always, the content always on point, whether you are in the medical field or not, nuggets for everyone.. Thank U!
@SarahNicholls9 ай бұрын
That's so kind Amanda! Thank you 🥰
@dani4521610 ай бұрын
I'm also a doctor in the NHS, currently in fy1 so I can't leave yet, but work is the main thing stressing me out :( looking forward to finishing fy2 and then starting my own aesthetic practice!
@SarahNicholls10 ай бұрын
The struggle is real! If you want to talk about it, I offer free 30 minute coaching calls. Just drop me an email drsarahnicholls@gmail.com 😘
@lilarose93485 ай бұрын
You’re voice and accent are a beautiful addition to the soft life. It sounds relaxing and classy.
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Oh thank you!
@chantelllovett4335Ай бұрын
I love these ideas. Thanks for sharing.
@SarahNichollsАй бұрын
Hope it was helpful!
@lynnemanning95535 ай бұрын
Life can be hard. I think it can be very wise to make life more "simple", I think I like that word better than soft. Because life can be hard, no matter if you have a sauna and the dogs you want, and the home job making enough money. I think it is definitely smart to take out the speed with which some of us think our lives have to operate, which can make life very stressful, simply because we think that is how life should be....I guess, that has been our model throughout our lives. What I hear from this is that there is a lot of calculated control over making things soft, but life is full of ups and downs, and it doesn't matter how much we try to always have our life going smoothly and most comfortably, shit happens! And we must learn to accept and embrace those challenges, whether they be health, financial, family, problems etc,....We don't really learn any of the bigger lessons in life, unless we have adversity in our own lives, which will inevitably show up. So I think we all have to be careful, no matter how "soft" you are making your life, be realistic and accepting of the challenges that will show up. Human beings get stuck in ruts and go to the total opposite end of the spectrum, protecting their lives from any stress, which is impossible, and we were built to handle stress, which is a reassuring thought when the shit does hit the fan. Life can't be soft and controlled all of the time....life is full of obstacles and challenges, so don't over protect yourself so much that you freak out when something hard comes your way. A good meditation practice and always focusing on how grateful we are for our lives, and truly looking at what you are grateful for, like a roof over our heads, good food, pets, kids, we are not living in a war zone, we are healthy, on and on.....These routine practices really do bring a depth into our lives, so that this "soft" life isn't just about the superficial. Be of service in your life to others, like the planet, animals, people, etc. We don't need so much stuff, something else that is confused with "soft" but very terrible for us and the planet.
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
What a fantastic contribution! Thank you for taking the time to write this, and I agree with everything you've said 🫶
@pegcaptain10 ай бұрын
Hadn't heard of this term. Thinking of going back to an OT for help with activities of daily living.
@chixxy1002 ай бұрын
Please do more on soft life. I love this idea and would like to know more.
@SarahNicholls2 ай бұрын
@@chixxy100 will do!! Stay tuned 😉
@wkt2506Ай бұрын
I'm curious about the feminine aspect you mentioned. I wonder if you could talk about that but in a way that would be inclusive of men and non-binary people who want to get in touch with their feminine side.
@hockeykids1149Ай бұрын
❤loved the video- so well done and useful tips
@SarahNicholls23 күн бұрын
Thanks so much! 😊
@graderrmsquigglywigglies5635Ай бұрын
Love this video.Such helpful tips.
@SarahNichollsАй бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@verydenise24 күн бұрын
I do things I enjoy every day after work. ❤
@SarahNicholls23 күн бұрын
Love that!
@nancyesposito8743 ай бұрын
Thank you loved it. 🌹
@andiirish47236 ай бұрын
I'm so glad I just found you on youtube. What a blessing!! Since I love learning & doing new things, it's easy to over schedule. Before I retired my work/life was frenetic. I promised myself I would never do that again but I seriously need to re-evaluate what is important & pare down. Thank you for giving me the boost I need Right Now to do this!!
@SarahNicholls6 ай бұрын
I'm so pleased to hear this was a boost for you! It's so easy to allow things to get too busy and hectic. Thanks for watching 🫶
@idaliarice47736 ай бұрын
excellent video… all valid points… and i love the pup!
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@Miss.Baskar9 күн бұрын
Hi Sarah.. it was great video and helpful and I couldn’t find the training link that you mentioned in the video about how to stope being stressed
@_thehappyhomemaker_5 ай бұрын
I can't believe I have just discovered your channel. Thank you ❤ this video was so helpful xxx
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
So glad to have you here!! Thanks for watching 🫶✨️
@millyc20445 ай бұрын
Such a great video! Thanks for sending this message out. There are too much productivity and hustle energy to female being the boss babe. Having this type of message is such a balance and a blessing! ❤
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Thank you!! Yes, I'm a recovering hustle-boss-babe 😵💫😆
@Areutherehello6 ай бұрын
I agree this is a nice way to live. But, it's unrealistic. We will always have to do things that stress us out or make us unhappy. Unless you have someone, who basically does everything for you--from cooking, cleaning, navigating through traffic, paying your taxes, doing your job for you, repairing things like your car, managing your kids and spouse, while you lay in a lawn chair pampering yourself, you will never live a fully soft life. I love my job, but it is very fast-paced and sometimes stressful. I'm not going to quit because I get tired or there are things I dislike dealing with. I get through it. No matter how much you try to buffer your mind and body from the demands of just living to live a life of ease and mental comfort, there will ALWAYS be challenges. Sorry to rain on the Zen here, but the best we can do is accept Life's challenges as they come, but find moments of sanctuary for ourselves. These trends of striving for zero stress in life are non-sustainable and just not reality. 😢
@CAGChannel16 ай бұрын
My husband and I had a good laugh at this with two of our kids who are medically fragile, both with chromosome triplications. We kind of look at life the opposite now, you don’t know what you CAN handle until you have to. Life will mess up plans in a hot minute, and I think we have to accept and embrace that sometimes. This video seems like some kind of fever dream to a lot of us, but cheers to you if you can really do all that is blissful here. But please don’t feel bad if , like me, you had to find big humor in this because of life circumstances that just are right now.
@lindaanderson49905 ай бұрын
I think the point is to be aware...do what you can. Get up early enough to not be running late every day. Be prepared for events ahead of time..buy and wrap the gift. Plan meals so you aren't stressed about meals and wasting money on fast food. There are so many small things which can help reduce some stress while raising kids...don't overbook their schedule or yours. Enjoy your family time more and less panic mode helps the kids also. Best wishes to you.
@CAGChannel15 ай бұрын
@@lindaanderson4990 well, good luck!! Seriois hats off if you can pull it off without life constantly pulling the rug out in all its crazy ways .
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry life is throwing you lots of curveballs and that this video was shown to you when it probably feels completely at odds with your reality. It sounds like you're doing an amazing job and my intention wasn't to shame anyone or make you feel bad about life. I agree, this way of living is totally impossible if you're just trying to keep your head above water every day. I hope you're doing well.
@wkt2506Ай бұрын
not everyone can do preparation/organisation this so easily - I am dyslexic & "executive dysfunction" is a real thing. Similar for people with adhd. It takes extra time/effort/energy to achieve these things and that can be the cause of stress which kinda defeats the object. C'est la vie
@Humanessence7788 ай бұрын
Good suggestions and I love your dog.
@SarahNicholls8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥰 she's the star of the show!
@louisetanner86286 ай бұрын
Great ideas thank you. Definitely need more blank spaces in my calendar
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
100%
@MilaMirageАй бұрын
Thank you for your advice!😊 By the way, you look stunning❤
@SarahNichollsАй бұрын
That's so kind, thank you 💫
@yashvi.tuteja5 ай бұрын
What an amazing video. I feel so inspired to live 'that' life. Thank you so much.
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Go for it 🙌🌸😘
@JanetKing-g9c2 ай бұрын
Just found you!! Wonderful! Really needed this - thanķ you ❤
@SarahNicholls2 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@lisaharry58294 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I needed
@dianamay36094 ай бұрын
New concept for me! Thank you
@thinnthuzarhtet48235 ай бұрын
I can relate to a lot of things you mentioned that stress you out!!!
@shavonbirdsall78065 ай бұрын
This was wonderful and so helpful!! When you said take care of your wellness or you will take care of your illness 🤯🤯🤯
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
It's such a tough life lesson but it's so true!!
@mariatsipe27635 ай бұрын
Excellent advice ❤❤❤
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@dianaordonez125 ай бұрын
I have been struggling with getting enough sleep for 5+ years now. My sleep got worse when I started working in a hospital setting. It’s because my life has never been aligned with such an early wake up time and early bed time. It’s impossible for me to get to bed by 9 unless I neglect exercise, cooking, playing with my pets, showering. I’m not sure if I am trying to do too much or if this schedule is hard for everyone.
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
It's so difficult isn't it? I've really struggled with this too. I've realised I have to condense down the amount I do and let go of some things, delegate and outsource as much as possible. I've realised over time that sleep is the most important thing for me feeling well, so I try to prioritise that over anything. It's annoying sometimes, but I always feel better for it!
@debphelan-devon79286 ай бұрын
Thank you so much once again for the incredible advice 💖
@SarahNicholls6 ай бұрын
You're so welcome 🙏 thanks for watching!!
@clareashton18346 ай бұрын
Love this 💗
@kazhdomusvoyo79245 ай бұрын
Nice colours of the background Liked the video Subscribed 😊
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@drdanbeese10 ай бұрын
Great video 🎉 well done Sarah 😊
@SarahNicholls10 ай бұрын
Thanks Dan! ✨️
@mickett10 ай бұрын
look into incline bed theory. it is just simply raising the head side of your bed 15 cm or 5-6 inches. Animals sleep in an incline if they can.
@SarahNicholls10 ай бұрын
Interesting point! Not sure what it has to do with this video? (Not trying to be rude, just curious)
@mickett10 ай бұрын
@@SarahNicholls wow soo rude xD joke joke! Easy free natural health. How to feel better. Wake up more relaxed and be less stressed in the softer life. You just felt like a person who would think something like this is awesome :)
@mickett10 ай бұрын
Sleeping inclined increase circulation in the body and lowers heartrate alot among many other benefits. Look it up :) it can be step 11
@SarahNicholls10 ай бұрын
@mickett Oh I see! That's cool, thank you! We actually recommend it to patients with gastric reflux too. I can confirm my dog also loves to sleep at an incline. Thanks for the info 🙌
@shellym96574 ай бұрын
Thank you
@LazygirlLA8922 ай бұрын
I started my soft life era in 2020 with the pandemic and I was forced to stop everything. Before that I felt like a shark, like I’d die if I stopped moving/going.
@tquirkyt71185 ай бұрын
✨Wow✨ You are just delightful❣️I’m so glad to have found your channel…How do you not have 1M subscribers⁉️❤️✨
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you so much!!!
@DoctorMeena-vx5yx3 ай бұрын
Love from India💓 Dr sarah
@Nora.Frank.5 ай бұрын
The realisation that we are putting our faith, and often our *lives* in the hands of doctors who are having such little sleep that it’s pretty much a given that they will be making mistakes, and literally cannot be functioning at anywhere close to full mental capacity, has been a terrifying one for me, especially as a chronically ill individual. This goes for all healthcare professionals, nurses, HCAs, and all other hands on supporting staff, including the cleaners and canteen staff, etc. Everything is interconnected, everyone is connected, every interaction matters. We *all* need enough rest, and we *all* have a responsibility to look after ourselves as best we can so that we *can* look after others, and allow that care to cycle back to us as and when we may need it. Blah blah - Put your own oxygen mask on first - blah blah - Self-care is vital, not selfish - blah blah - One cannot pour from an empty cup - blah etc. etc. It’s only when our own needs are fulfilled that we have enough to give to others, too. Sadly, I can’t remember the last time I spoke to someone who felt this was even an option, myself included…
@letty885 ай бұрын
I like hearing her voice !!!
@the_greenhouse_gardener5 ай бұрын
Also called slow living I've been doing this for years
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Love it!!
@the_greenhouse_gardener5 ай бұрын
I always practices slow oiling as I do live in the highlands, but since losing my husband in December, he was only 59, I'm 54, I realize even more now that life is just too short. You only get one life, some people choose to go out and live life fast and furiously, sky diving, tightrope walking, running marathons, others (like me) live slow, redecorate the house, spend more time in the garden grow my own produce, cosy by the fire on rainy cold days,get outside in the sun and cook outside in the sunny days, I'm going to quit my job in a couple of years and try and make my cottage table top small business pay for itself
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
@the_greenhouse_gardener I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband 😞 how are you doing? 59 is so young. I'm glad to hear you're spending time redecorating and gardening etc. Those things must bring a lot of comfort and purpose to your days. We sadly lost my stepdad in September and my Mum has been dooms the same sorts of things as you. It's a stark reminder of how short and precious life is and I'm glad to hear you're filling your days with beautiful activities. I hope you're doing well.
@wkt2506Ай бұрын
Sorry to hear about your family loss Sarah.
@jameysmith11036 ай бұрын
Hello from Florida! Just found your channel and subscribed.
@SarahNicholls6 ай бұрын
Yay! Thanks for being here 🥰
@GetSchmidtdone6 ай бұрын
Great video! ❤
@sophiyaqadeer53155 ай бұрын
Love the video. Keep it up
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Appreciate it!
@stellaetta28115 ай бұрын
THANKYOU❤
@ericaarvizzigno37684 ай бұрын
Soft life of your dreams
@ginandtonic58885 ай бұрын
Sleep is so important. As well a blank space. Also, how do you get your eyes so white?
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
Definitely! I don't do anything to make my eyes white.
@ina.beauty6 ай бұрын
Hi! I enjoy your chanel! But What to do When you have a special need kid and the sleep is a big problem? Because he didnt sleep, he cries. And with this came the craving, the anxiety, the frustation
@CAGChannel16 ай бұрын
Hugs from a mom with two profoundly disabled daughters. Read my comment to the commentator above yours. Find humor, lots and lots of humor, everywhere. Something that was life changing for us was a service dog. The process was hard and very stressful, but once she was trained to the specific needs, she will alert before the monitors, allowing me my first full few hours of sleep because I didn’t have to half sleep listening for the monitors. If at all possible, when your child is the right age, push though the looooooong, often stressful process of a service dog if needed and if you can. Seriously, that first block of sleep when I knew the dog would alert, knew to my core that she would, was such a night of extreme gratitude. So, I guess, lots and lots of humor ( even dark humor, all kinds of humor) and gratitude when you do find things or moments of reprieve that help- deep gratitude for any “sparks” if you will. When my girls were babies, I literally could not picture surviving, so I hear you, I get you - hugs!!
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
That sounds incredibly challenging, I'm sorry. I don't have all the answers I'm afraid. I hope you have a good support network around you. Sending love and strength ❤
@ina.beauty5 ай бұрын
@@SarahNicholls Thanks !!!
@emmegirl65866 ай бұрын
Looks like her doggy wants to live the soft life too 😂 🐕
@profpat246 ай бұрын
😂 that doggy is clearly already living the soft life❤
@emmegirl65866 ай бұрын
@@profpat24 touché 😂
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
She has the softest life 😂 living the dream!!
@SilviaGarciaRodriguez-gc8jt5 ай бұрын
Loved it!!
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@nadagendeel84566 ай бұрын
What about your (work as a doctor) sara, how do you go soft living with that? Asking coz I'm a doctor myself and I can't get over that :/
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
Great question - it is HARD. I focus on my self care outside of work so that I arrive at work with energy and a good attitude. When I'm at work, I try to tell myself "I have time", so that I feel more calm (even when it's busy and there's too much to do, just repeating this mantra to myself helps a lot)
@halieransom4 ай бұрын
Oof this. I'm a therapist in community mental health and I'm tired of being so stressed all the time.
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
Thank you for the work you do! Go easy on yourself 💕
@MajesticFerret7 ай бұрын
How to live a soft life: 1. Have or make a lot of money. 2. Don't work or stress yourself too hard in order to accomplish this. That's it. What else would you really need?
@delvenaothman-eu9zy5 ай бұрын
Is there a way to live a soft life with a husband and 3 boys ages 2, 6 & 7? I feel like my sons are all so active and make me busy all the time
@SarahNicholls4 ай бұрын
Good question!! I don't have kids, but there are plenty of other people in the comments who have good suggestions and other youtubers with videos of how to do slow living with kids 🫶 go easy on yourself, I'm sure you're doing an amazing job!!
@adventuresblissconnection41986 ай бұрын
“…take EXQUISITE care of yourself.”
@SarahNicholls6 ай бұрын
YES 🙌✨️🫶
@DivineTim35 ай бұрын
How would you go about informing coworkers that you're not interested in toxic/gossip chatting? I find that this is a big stressor of mine.
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Great question! I made a video here where I talk about setting boundaries. I also included a free cheatsheet with examples of how to have those awkward conversations. Let me know what you think! kzbin.info/www/bejne/gYLGmpJ9dst1isk
@Franco-zu5kt2 ай бұрын
Hey sarah in glad i just meet your Channel. Just asking : how medics bear with death and seeing people die? I think it desensitivises you in the long road right ?
@SarahNicholls12 күн бұрын
Great question. It's always hard to be honest. We have training on it during med school and once you're a doctor, but it's one of those things you have to experience to learn how to handle it. It does get easier in some ways, but I think that it's natural to feel some level of emotion about it as we are all human.
@harrieth70036 ай бұрын
Hmm I’m stressed out but don’t think I have reason to be 😂 my tolerance is clearly very low haha. I’m a SAHM mum of 3 so can’t really get rid of them 😄 and I’m retraining but excited for that
@erinsnook85376 ай бұрын
Bring home with 3 littles is extremely stressful, and it’s a job you can’t clock out from. You have every reason to feel the way you do!
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
You're allowed to be stressed! Being a SAHM is a full time job. You're amazing 🙌 I hope you get time to give yourself little pockets of time for yourself.
@MANDS819 ай бұрын
Prepping...time management Yes Yes Yes 2024
@lovedandabundant63846 ай бұрын
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@judithsphilosophy5 ай бұрын
Does soft life sound good? Sure. Could I myself implement some of this in my life? Probably. However… a lot of what is said is from a point of extreme privilege. Thinking of single moms, people having to juggle several jobs just to make ends meet… “just have a nice pastry and prioritise yourself… invest in bed sheets… pay someone to do your chores…” I mean… that’s a slap in the face… come on… of course life is better then, but many of the great ideas here are simply not achievable for a lot of people. Does that mean that the content is “wrong” in itself? Not necessarily, but it would be nice to be more honest to call it “The (probably white) rich peoples’ guide to soft life.”
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
You're right, I definitely should acknowledge my privilege here. I realise I am so fortunate in ways that many others aren't and I don't want to gloss over that. This video is meant to serve as a reminder to treat ourselves well and recognise that we deserve happiness, self-respect and joy in our lives. I've spent most of my life making things harder for myself or not feeling deserving in one way or another, so I view this trend is a celebration of viewing ourselves as worthy. It's not intended to cause offense, and I'm sorry if it did!
@lindaanderson49905 ай бұрын
I think maybe the point...be aware. I like the idea of using apps to do things. Order groceries for delivery is one...when my kids were small I basically bought the same groceries every week. Place order, have delivered. Pay bills set them on auto pay. Get up early enough to not be rushed. Have meals thought out ahead. A few little changes might help. I raised kids as a single mom...they learned how to use the washer and dryer, make simple meals grilled cheese, scrambled eggs. The implementation might be different for everyone but small changes can make a difference. Start somewhere! Best wishes ❤
@samanta09515 ай бұрын
Thinking about soft life is such a privilege. Only if you’re healthy and in safety you can think about these things
@SarahNicholls5 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Being healthy and safe are the top priorities for sure.
@lilylebowsky59086 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@HipsterSpinster_6 ай бұрын
Ugh why can't American radiators look like those. They look like they would be way more efficient. I spend 400/month on electric heating in a 750 square foot two story house.
@SarahNicholls6 ай бұрын
Oh gosh that is expensive!! Are they electric heaters? Ours are good, but I always think they are very ugly 😂
@HipsterSpinster_6 ай бұрын
@@SarahNicholls I feel like they look so cute. Almost like wainscoting. Yes they are electric. I have to get a mini split system soon because I can't keep spending thousands on electricity. I keep my house at 58 to 60 degrees too, so it's not like I'm using a lot to heat to a high temp!
@SarahNicholls6 ай бұрын
@HipsterSpinster_ oh my gosh, that's so much money just to be at that temperature 🫣 cost of living in the US is no joke