Dad Insists On Raising The Bride’s Budget!

Dad Insists On Raising The Bride’s Budget! | Say Yes To The Dress

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@angrydonutface7420 9 ай бұрын

It always stresses me out when someone says there's no budget. I always wonder if they realise the store has 40k dresses?

@naomi6372 9 ай бұрын

Same

@JodiLeaSnakeQueen 9 ай бұрын

Exactly

@LDee-tc6ck 9 ай бұрын

Me, too.

@DannyJane. 9 ай бұрын

"He's been looking for a reason to sell the chopper"? This guy's got money. A $10K dress isn't stressing his wallet.

@keekers 8 ай бұрын

Lol I saw one of those dresses on this show. It was not my favorite.

@deb109 9 ай бұрын

It's so nice to see a daughter being respectful and caring of her dad's money. I get tired of seeing the brides that are spoiled brats.

@andreamorgan5945 9 ай бұрын

I love how she calls herself “obnoxious,” and then proceeds to put her family’s needs above her wants. Such great parents to say “whatever makes you happy,” and raise her to be so considerate❤

@GottaLoveGoats 6 ай бұрын

Exactly what I thought. What a lovely lady.

@daniellelibonati1591 2 ай бұрын

And the Pnina dress she ended up getting looked beautiful on her; that's an example of a Pnina gown that has all the right things and looks timeless, elegant and beautiful. I know many don't like Pnina but her stuff is an acquired taste; for me I've always loved her stuff and the dress Donna got is definitely an example of one of them.

@rheatirkey4371 9 ай бұрын

A real man and a real daughter ❤️

@keekers 9 ай бұрын

Such a wonderful daughter to actually worry about it being too much than a daughter that complains about how little they're able to spend. She's so sweet!😊

@keithgiblin2636 9 ай бұрын

I disagree.

@tevikumares5022 9 ай бұрын

Yeah you can disagree to it due to your insecurity and your hatred anyway

@keithgiblin2636 9 ай бұрын

@@tevikumares5022 Wow, harsh.

@tevikumares5022 9 ай бұрын

Not as harsh as someone who is hating her

@lmbgemini 9 ай бұрын

@@tevikumares5022Are you her best friend or something?

@madmartagan100 9 ай бұрын

Finally a girl who doesn't want to bankrupt her family.

@marashanteau8604 9 ай бұрын

No a girl who knows just how to play her parents…note the small smirk as she looks down.😂

@keithgiblin2636 9 ай бұрын

@@marashanteau8604 Exactly. She has expensive (and terrible) taste.

@rebeccaernette1749 9 ай бұрын

No, i felt that way about my parents buying my dress, and they were more than happy to help me purchase the dress@marashanteau8604

@deborahdebaccoweddle2420 9 ай бұрын

...and yet she did.

@tevikumares5022 9 ай бұрын

You guys here are just insecure haters anyway

@elsadixon 9 ай бұрын

This video was such a refreshing change - not a daughter who wants to spend all of her father's money. What a lovely family.

@allisoncoe4287 6 ай бұрын

But she spends more than double her original budget!

@idrttr.shannx 6 ай бұрын

@@allisoncoe4287 and she clearly said no like 8000 times... r u slow??

@isabellind1292 4 ай бұрын

@@idrttr.shannx Are you always so uncivil? Good luck w/that in the real world.

@shawnaleethornton5343 7 ай бұрын

I went over and watched the full episode, I don't understand how somebody so spoiled is so thoughtful of her parents. He obviously spoils her rotten and yet she is not spoiled at all

@CaraStrong13 6 ай бұрын

It’s kinda weird how things just naturally play out sometimes. My siblings and I were so spoiled growing up and honestly still are. But I’d rather live in a box than ask my dad for a dime and I’m beyond appreciative for everything he chooses to do for me. It’s never enough for my sister. She begs him to buy her this or buy her that. Please give her some money. Pay this bill. Fill her car up. Order her this. And she doesn’t feel an inkling of guilt about it. She thinks as her parent he should do those things for her. I guess it’s the difference between someone that thinks the world owes them and someone that thinks nobody owes them anything at all.

@katiegriffin7597 6 ай бұрын

My parents always said, “you can be spoiled but not rotten.” Aka, they wanted to give me everything but not at the expense of teaching me values and being a good person. I wasn’t given things to shut me up and keep me out of their hair but rather because they loved me and wanted me to be happy. I think that makes a huge difference.

@abba9265 4 ай бұрын

I think it’s a matter of teaching value. I was raised “spoiled” but I was also taught to be appreciative of the gifts or services I received. I understood the value of time and money early and tried to ask for as little as possible

@isabellind1292 4 ай бұрын

@@katiegriffin7597 There's a difference between being spoiled and being given things and being grateful for it as is the case in this thread. It breaks my heart to read the comment from the sister who does appreciate what her parents have done for her while her sister takes advantage of their parents. It also breaks my heart when I hear adult children say their parents owe them an inheritance. Parents do not owe their adult children a darn thing! If I told my parents I was entitled to an inheritance I wouldn't blame them one bit if they spent every last penny before they died. I'd have it coming! My sister and & I weren't spoiled and we appreciated every thing our parents ever did for us. I think it helps to have good role models who aren't preoccupied w/material things and over-spending. I see lovely people in the comments in this thread and on this series. I think the majority are on the same page when it comes to being a loving, caring and empathetic human being towards others. I wish you all the very best and to the sister w/the spoiled sister, you will go through life w/a clear conscience because you are grateful for what you've been given. That is an admirable quality.💓🌺💓

@naowright9308 25 күн бұрын

@CaraStrong13 It is funny how people turn out. I have a lot of siblings, and we were never spoiled by our parents or grandparents. We would look through the toy catalogs just to look and dream, but we rarely got any of them. It was a good life, though, as we learned to make do and even stretch a budget. Most of my siblings are some of the sweetest, most giving people you could ever meet, however, I have one sister who is a real taker. She comes across as generous on the first or second meeting, but then wants everyone to do for her and help her with her life even though she is the one who puts herself in her messes. Several of us have called her out on her bull so she mostly leaves us alone now.

@laurelflint1866 9 ай бұрын

IMO she's uncomfortable with, how much the gown is! I realize, that she said, "she's an obnoxious person". However on the contrary, she's thoughtful & considerate of her parents. It seems that, she's feeling guilty because, of how much, the gown is that she loves!! I don't consider that obnoxious!! I would say that she is considerate, & knows what she likes. Best wishes 🌿

@jb6712 9 ай бұрын

What's-up-with-your-overuse-and-misuse-of-commas???---There's-no-need-for-at-least-65%-of-them!

@kjsfl386 4 ай бұрын

Your dashes?? lol

@tamt5846 9 ай бұрын

Couldn’t they find another gorgeous dress for around $8,000?

@thehungrygoldfish 9 ай бұрын

Given how picky she is, probably not lol

@obi-wankedogi 8 ай бұрын

*Couldn't they find a gorgeous dress for around $8,000?

@lunabelletheinsane 5 ай бұрын

Given the number of dresses they actually showed she veto'd at 5k - probably not. They don't show US all the dresses they try on. When it says "Dress #3" it's never actually dress number 3, it's just dress number 3 that they are showing US, the viewer.

@timeforchange6818 9 ай бұрын

I fear the guilt she feels will cause more harm/stress that could linger for life; she does his books; she knows the money flow, and the Mother said 'he can just sell . . .", means there isn't disposable income to meet the cost. I think the bride should have tried some more dresses in the 7 to 8000 dollar range, and the lady helping should have suggested that when she saw the severe guilt, but I realize the goal is to sell as high price a dress you can, over what's healthy for the family.

@mbexo 8 ай бұрын

You realise the "he can just sell the chopper" was literally a joke, right?

@danielledyksterhouse983 8 ай бұрын

Agreed, you could see the Sales Consultant's eyes light up when the dad came over

@janetmoss-s4o 9 ай бұрын

I started out prepared to really dislike this girl but she's really a wonderful person to think of the money her dad is prepared to spend.

@mariannenyangi6605 8 ай бұрын

Same here 😂

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 8 ай бұрын

@FAKOKTAI agree and brides should pay themselves as they would get what they want and be less selfish. They seem more selfish and greedy when others pay.

@erinpescarmona8714 8 ай бұрын

It’s funny, she says she’s obnoxious but I didn’t think she was. If she truly were, she’d have no problem spending her dad’s money.

@niman00 9 ай бұрын

What a father, and i understand where she is coming from, but, this is the most important day of your life. thank your dad for the gift, and get married, congrats.

@jsorensen168 9 ай бұрын

Is it really though...a wedding is only one day in your life. it's stupid to spend that much on a dumb dress.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 9 ай бұрын

I don’t think it is the most important day of your life, but even if it was, is it worth spending over $10,000 on a dress that you will wear only once? No way!

@nylotus 9 ай бұрын

If that's the most important day of your life that's pretty damn sad.

@wandertree 9 ай бұрын

I've been married 26 years. Married at age 22. I can tell you the wedding day is NOT the most important day of your life. It's fun and it's fun to look back on, but honestly, I barely remember it at this point. We've had many way more meaningful experiences since, not the least of which adding our babies to the family. I think the hype over the wedding is silly and just another way for businesses to make money. By all means, splurge on your wedding if you want, but don't build it up to be something it isn't or you'll only end up feeling deflated after. Be thankful for what it is and be prepared to move on to the next stage of life!

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 8 ай бұрын

@@wandertreeExactly, especially when people divorce and marry several times in their lives then the wedding day is even less important as you have several of those days not just one.

@martinitime3537 9 ай бұрын

Dad says no limit, so the consultant quickly brings out a dress double the original limit! Gotta make sure she gets that big commission 😂

@DistinctiveThinking 9 ай бұрын

Such a wonderful Dad and her Mom! Wow! Lots of wives would have been totally against their husband forking out that much money for a dress for their daughter. A considerate daughter and a loving family. ❤️

@beckypetersen2680 9 ай бұрын

You are an amazing daughter! What a change from the typical young lady who comes in.

@bunker123sugar 9 ай бұрын

All I kept thinking when she came out in the dress she finally chose was Carol Burnett as Scarlet O'Hara wearing the curtains and saying, 'I saw it in the window and just couldn't resist it'.

@hsmith6281 9 ай бұрын

Haha! Agree!

@shuckydarn2856 9 ай бұрын

😂😆🎉

@RockyMtnRebecca 9 ай бұрын

HAHA! 😄

@joant1629 9 ай бұрын

didn't like it that much.

@keekers 8 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@kimberlyjackson2346 9 ай бұрын

True love. They made my day. Daddy's girls are just so cherished and protected. Dad's will do any and everything, and when she doesn't have entitlement issues. She deserves even more. I felt like mom was going to buy the dress, regardless of what her daughter said lol

@zjjir 7 ай бұрын

so pretty. i love how even the dad looks happy. come on. thats sweet. lovely family.

@catezaida8081 9 ай бұрын

God bless that Daddy. Mom, you are the best!

@jeswainston 9 ай бұрын

Wow…11 K …yikes…can’t say I’m a fan of the dress but not my wedding LOL

@maryclaremayo6157 8 ай бұрын

And it's $11k PLUS the accessories PLUS the fitting, and you could see how much adjustment it needed.

@vickykulig5080 Ай бұрын

You also have to realize that her dad said it was ok and not to worry about the budget, but at least she was considerate of her dad and how much he was spending.

@carrieteague5041 9 ай бұрын

What a sweetheart! She has a great soul! She cares about others before her wants!

@hotrod66ify 8 ай бұрын

Why can't the consultant go up a thousand or even 500 at a time ? Why does she have to double the cost of the dress immediately ?

@Faesharlyn 7 ай бұрын

Something called "commission", 5% of that sale is at least $550.

@klacier5111 9 ай бұрын

Wow 💕The daughter is the way she is, because her parents are, the way they are. How beautiful they all are.

@shehnazahmad5213 9 ай бұрын

This girl she is a keeper. They raised her well. She is superb. The future husband he is one blessed man to have such a jewel. Stay blessed ❤

@yvonnec6449 9 ай бұрын

Jessica really struggled in hiding her delight at hearing that there was now limit @3.40!!

@peacechronicthedevelopment 7 ай бұрын

They are amazing parents 🥹🙇‍♀️

@sooticablue1664 9 ай бұрын

A dad who said what her dad said about just wanting to make her happy, if he was my dad it would make me all the more determined to stay within the budget too, lovely family ❤

@fantuckstic 7 ай бұрын

Its nice seeing a daughter who worries about the money. And a father who doesnt care. He just wants her happy.

@seriliaykilel 9 ай бұрын

Job well done mom and dad - you raised a girl with clear prioritiies who cares about her family more than about a dress. It's super sweet for the parents to want to go the extra mile but it speaks to their quality as parents that their daughter cares for them just as much. I hate that she's feeling so troubled about it, but it speaks to being just good people all around.

@2user000 9 ай бұрын

Her dad is amazing! Love their relationship! Lucky girl 🥰

@shawnaleethornton5343 7 ай бұрын

What a lovely woman, genuinely concerned about the money while feeling like an absolute queen in that dress. She looks amazing and her dad, oh her dad…❤

@nomadic_orthodox 8 ай бұрын

They raised her well! What a beautiful family.

@ndisfoshiz 7 ай бұрын

I remember this episode and thinking the father is such a sweetheart!

@bliss6495 9 ай бұрын

She is not an obnoxious girl as she thinks of herself. She is a considerate daughter to her parents.

@samanthaweston5749 7 ай бұрын

Thats a sweet mum and dad ❤

@jasminkamilkovich1351 9 ай бұрын

Don't like it. Not worth 11,000.

@jenn1916 8 ай бұрын

Agree. It's one day. I would rather get married in a paper sack and go on really great honeymoon. 😅

@MarlaJMatney 8 ай бұрын

I love it

@bracha2u786 8 ай бұрын

Sweet family. The dad reminds me of my dad. He's been gone over 20 years. I wish I had appreciated him more when he was alive. All he wanted was to make his family happy.

@ReneeMichele-c9q 8 ай бұрын

I LOVE this family. This father❤❤❤❤ I knew he’d be amazing the moment she said she’s his secretary. So sweet.

@ElaineWood-f2t 8 ай бұрын

That dress IS beautiful! It also costs more than some vehicles I have owned. Bless this young woman's heart for NOT wanting to put her family, specifically her father, in a financial bind in order to get her a wedding dress.

@ninaestabillo5571 8 ай бұрын

I love this family's relationship. Got teary eyed 🥹

@ceciliapreziose3783 9 ай бұрын

WOW a real family!

@Jamie-Fox 3 ай бұрын

Love her attitude. This is a family person who respects its parents. The Groom is so lucky!

@Lily_of_the_Forest 5 ай бұрын

I’m so glad the bride is budget-conscious. The dad is very kind.

@rckkeller9437 8 ай бұрын

We gave our daughter and her fiancé a check, I thought was a fair amount, and when it was gone they paid the rest on their own. We offered more, but they wouldn’t hear of it. So proud of both of them.

@laegad 9 ай бұрын

Now that's one loving father and a real family man! I want to know if he happens to have a single brother...asking for a friend 😉

@jb6712 9 ай бұрын

🙄

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 8 ай бұрын

@FAKOKTAI agree! Love is priceless and can’t be measured with money.

@kathybeckford3592 7 ай бұрын

I think this is the first time on SYTTD that any girl hasn't jumped on the chance to spend more of their parents' money! It's a good stubborn!

@Linaskye143 8 ай бұрын

What a sweet woman, and what a sweet father. My dad was the same way. It was how he showed his love when he couldn’t say it out loud. I hope they’re all doing well.

@dietotaku 9 ай бұрын

there's nothing wrong with having champagne tastes on a beer budget, or with genuinely feeling like champagne should be the price of beer. she's not wrong, $11000 is an insane amount of money to pay for any dress, even a dress that blinged-out, but if she's going to stick to that ideal, she's gotta get creative. there are ways to get the pricey look without the price tag to match, but it's not going to be at kleinfeld's (or any bridal boutique).

@kathleenshocknesse5996 9 ай бұрын

She might be the sweetest bride ever. Love her

@soniaflores4793 8 ай бұрын

Such a proud dad, ❤❤ you can see the love on both ends

@raniasegakis1263 2 ай бұрын

This bride is so respectful its a refreshing change from what we normally see in other episodes in similar circumstances

@vickytuck9361 9 ай бұрын

This is one of the best things I have seen on this show.

@dianafromcalifornia5127 9 ай бұрын

I love the depth of Dads ❤️

@hannahlee1769 8 ай бұрын

I love how both the mom and dad say “look at me”. Makes me snap to attention too 😂

@kirakrisztinatoth1249 8 ай бұрын

This remind me of my own dad, such a supporting father who would sell his soul just so his child could get what they liked. He always used to say that i shouldn't worry because he had everything under control, he could work anything out. Its really great to see this same kind of love. Because it's not even about the price or the money, but it is truly about the unconditional love this father has for his daughter that he would give up everything for her happiness. Good job, Father of the Bride! ❤

@carolharris5455 8 ай бұрын

Aww Donna is so sweet and considerate

@suepall5425 5 ай бұрын

So much love in this family and that's what counts.

@Shelovescolours 8 ай бұрын

Such a loving father ❤

@SomewhereInTheMaidenverse 9 ай бұрын

I am sure they could have found her a dress she loved for less money, but still with a raised budget. Even the father said it was the best of what she had tried on, not necessarily the best they could do from the store inventory.

@vjdunkey 8 ай бұрын

What a beautiful family. So much love and respect for each other xx

@dn3607 9 ай бұрын

Such a sweet and considerate daughter 😢

@brettsabo454 9 ай бұрын

So sweet. She said she’s obnoxious, but so thoughtful

@ginaFaulconer 17 күн бұрын

What a sweet family. God Bless.

@lovedaybebe5881 8 ай бұрын

Not obnoxious , but very loving !

@NH-tb2sm 9 ай бұрын

That's a mess of a dress at any price but to pay more than $11,000 for the awful ridiculousness is absurd.

@kerrystone7375 9 ай бұрын

Top of the dress was actually quite nice but the bottom was in my opinion dreadful. Some of these dresses look like a comforter you'd have on a bed. 😂

@mariesmith1616 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely not worth it 👎

@AvgUtubeWatcher 9 ай бұрын

Fr most of the dresses on this show are like that😂 absolutely dreadful. Brides should try other stores before going there

@rckkeller9437 8 ай бұрын

This family is so lovingly hilarious. Sooooo New Jersey, Iall 4 of us were born was born in Hackensack and this would be our family

@carolflynn7933 9 ай бұрын

Lovely parents ❤

@tinahasapis1085 8 ай бұрын

What a wonderful Dad and daughter 🥰

@marieslabbert6009 8 ай бұрын

This is a wonderful family. Really decent people with good values and there in nothing obnoxious about her.

@Nike2030 9 ай бұрын

If she feels bad why not buy the dress herself

@vern0018 9 ай бұрын

Or even top up some of it to lighten the load on her dad.

@RoseCarroll-pk6mt 7 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤

@Katy32344 9 ай бұрын

Wow, what a dad.

@answ3rtarot395 3 ай бұрын

That's a generous dad! 🥰

@bethromanowicz9874 8 ай бұрын

Well so glad to see she was so respectful of her dad’s sacrifice for her gown. By the way, is that gown she ended up picking considered a ball gown? I didn’t think it was..

@istenjo 9 ай бұрын

What a great dad!!!

@nancyweakley2070 Ай бұрын

The bride that did not want her father to spend that much money on a wedding gown, what a wonderful daughter he has. 🥰🐾

@ZeenathChowdhury 8 ай бұрын

Her dad is soooo sweet

@mariesmith1616 9 ай бұрын

First time that I watch a bride that the dresses don’t fit her well because she’s slim!!!!

@NH-tb2sm 9 ай бұрын

There are many of those brides.

@muchtested 9 ай бұрын

That's not slim, that's rail thin.

@mariesmith1616 9 ай бұрын

@@muchtested You’re right 😦

@katiegriffin7597 6 ай бұрын

They should have told her that saying yes would make the DAD happy. Giving dad a chance to be a hero? That’s what dads like this, good dads, dream about. He won’t be his little girl’s hero that much longer, at least not in the way he’s been for so many years. Let him have this. He’s not just giving you a gift, you’re giving him one.

@OliverKitkat 9 ай бұрын

She knows how too play her parents x

@starzmwl9327 7 ай бұрын

the end was very sweet.

@shawntaecardoza5427 9 ай бұрын

Love her dad!!

@yw2274 8 ай бұрын

Did you see how the brother was fixing the veil. So sweet.

@lc5929 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this episode. It made me so happy.

@amandarodriguez1817 8 ай бұрын

I have the same type of dad and i feel her pain. Even though he says theres no budget there always is and it comes with guilt

@superflydelicious711 7 ай бұрын

Most of the time you see the girls not caring one bit about how much it costs their family. They must be very proud, she has her family’s needs in mind.

@glendasexton4777 8 ай бұрын

Okay SYTTD you got me 😭😭😭

@meganpodesta9197 9 ай бұрын

What a wonderful family, and daughter. ❤

@llc1976 9 ай бұрын

Well that’s the first time I’ve heard Someone say they want an obnoxious dress?

@rhyfelwrDuw 4 ай бұрын

Those parents have brought her up properly!

@naturalPaths 9 ай бұрын

😬 If she was going to ‘no price point,’ maybe try on more than one?

@thehungrygoldfish 9 ай бұрын

My assumption is that she did try on more than one before this but she fell in love with it and didn’t want to try on any more.

@naomi6372 9 ай бұрын

Exactly

@naturalPaths 9 ай бұрын

@@thehungrygoldfish I surely hope you’re right! I know she’d tried on a few at a lower price point . .

@jbshiva865 8 ай бұрын

Most of the brides complain about limited budgets and this one wants to economize and kudos to her for thinking in terms of budget and not bankrupting herself and her family for one day of celebrating.