Bridesmaid Left In Tears After Shocking Revelation | Say Yes to the Dress: Bridesmaids

[@lunareclipse3242]

Ashley is a bully, Kymberly allowed Ashley to get away with rude comments towards Anita. Anita needs to lose both of them as friends.

[@veror5516]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@mandyhoward8824]

Yes!! Kymberly and ashley are the fake friends anita can do so much better.

[@KitryeVlos]

Absolutely. That poor woman!

[@winterdreller5840]

To be fair, Anita and Ashley don’t seem to be friends

[@funnerfit]

Exactly. Drop them both and walk away Anita.

[@zedhamm4735]

"Ashley shut the hell up" the best line in the whole episode

[@mildredrobles3568]

fr

[@RegularInvader]

​@@mildredrobles3568 It kind of reminds me of the time I snapped at a toxic friend from our former friend's group in high school. Whatever problems he was having at the time, he practically spent junior year behaving really mean towards me and just brushed it off assuming I would understand his sense of humor. I don't know what the heck the friends group even saw in him that was worth keeping for as long as they did, but I made the decision to just stay away from everybody when senior year came along. Shortly after our graduation is when I let out my anger by reversing his negative behavior back onto him. I could tell he didn't like it but it was about time he finally got a dose of what I used to endure. I highly doubt it eventually "clicked" in his perspective as time went on, especially since I fortunately never had to worry about seeing him again.

[@Simmieseance]

This whole drama could’ve been avoided if the bride had sorted this before the fitting. They really did Anita dirty by keeping her out of the loop and then shaming her for being hurt.

[@Awakening_Sunshine]

This was probably staged for drama

[@toniblackmore3016]

@@Awakening_Sunshine Anita looked pretty distressed.

[@Simmieseance]

@@Awakening_Sunshine could be, I’m just stating this under the pretense that it’s not.

[@Awakening_Sunshine]

@@toniblackmore3016 doesn’t mean it wasn’t acting

[@almaeclu]

@@Awakening_Sunshine I wouldn't put it past TLC to have told the bride to withhold that information. "Have you told everyone who the maid of honor is? No? One who doesn't know? Great! Don't tell her until we're recording!"

[@rubydubon5401]

can we appreciate Tommy for a moment for not letting Anita walk out and actually trying to comfort her

[@survivedandthriving]

Agreed. Though admittedly I think both Anita and Tommy should have walked out on that mess. The other two are totally toxic.

[@GrainneDhub-ll6vw]

Blessed are the peacemakers...

[@ashleyc.6189]

She picked the wrong maid of honor. Ashley kept antagonizing Anita and making the situation worse. A good friend would have tried to neutralize the situation and bring the focus back to the bride.

[@fdm2155]

A grown ass woman should have the maturity to realize she was making things worse for all concerned with her petty remarks. Ashley is clearly a garbage kind of person.

[@irisairsoul]

I honestly think had she chosen Anita, she would have been trying to quell the situation too. Just from observation. From the absolute beginning it was Ashley saying anything. Even starting with declaring she was MOH before the bride did and just bashing Anita's every choice and every word. But Anita tried to separate herself when she knew she was too emotional. She went to the dresses to calm down but Ashley still spoke loudly, then she went to the bathroom (this whole scene disgusted me) to be emotional, she was talking to her best friend then Ashley came in antagonizing.

[@queensheem3337]

Yeah especially with her remarks 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@karenmcgee1869]

I agree!

[@MsJubjubbird]

It depends. Firstly on how close they are one on one in the now. Also for your maid of honour you also want someone practical, reliable and level-headed. They are your right hand woman on one of the biggest days of your life. Anita possibly looks like she might be someone who gets a bit emotional and frazzled under duress???

[@janetoniolli659]

the crack in anita’s voice when she learns she’s not the maid of honor is heart wrenching

[@gettheedgenow7079]

If I was Anita I would have walked out. Not because she chose Ashley, but because she didn't have enough respect for the lifelong friendship to tell me before we arrived at the bridal shop.

[@irisairsoul]

Exactly!! If I were Anita, I wouldn't be as upset with not being the MOH as I would for how Kymberly just sat there and let her friend that she knows doesn't like Anita just harass her in a way. The bride didn't care and I don't think she learned the lesson. I think when Anita saw this episode she probably stopped being so close of friends with her. At least I would after that day.

[@PunkRockDiva1979]

💯

[@queensheem3337]

👍🏽

[@aimeearce2329]

I was thinking the same thing

[@nikkikhas746]

I feel you , Anita but I must say you are an angel for still staying and not walk out of it . That bride obviously doesn't value your long standing friendship enough and obviously choose her new friend to be the MOH for God knows reason why . U deserve a better friend .

[@joahan111]

I hope my girl Anita is thriving right now. She deserves so much better.

[@NH-tb2sm]

The bride is loving the drama she caused. Pretending she feels bad when she's enjoying people fighting over her. Anita deserves a better friend.

[@brontiq]

Yep. Kinda gives me the vibe it wasn't the first time

[@lillybrown2253]

Agreed Her husband can look forward to a marriage full of petty drama with Ashley right in the middle. Ashley was rude and Kimberly should have intervened. Anita is better than I.

[@rachaelramos]

That's exactly what I was thinking lol

[@candygambrell3941]

Yes! She was gloating. What was that about? It was like she wanted them to fight over her or something.

[@cas516]

I hate to say it but I am totally agree what you saying. This is a huge mess. OMG.

[@deblina]

When your friend humiliates you she's not your friend.. and to choose the nasty classless one says so much about this bride! If Anita every reads this comment i would be honoured to have such a loving friend!

[@mariejones1366]

Low class bride and maid of honor!!!

[@NoirEtBlanc86]

If I was Anita I’d feel embarrassed and disrespected. I’d definitely leave the shop.

[@fatimaperez9181]

That’s what happens when people assume, tata

[@TheBABYinme]

Yes I would have done that .

[@LadySynako]

That's what I was thinking this whole time! I was like "Honey, you should leave. You have every right to leave. Leave the bridal store and the party.

[@tnene8264]

I totally agree with you!If I was Anita,I will just leave the shop without a word!

[@serinadavis4611]

If I was Anita, I would have walked out, and that would have been the end of a one-sided friendship!

[@winterdreller5840]

“Ashley shut the hell up” I felt that

[@eccentricPlays]

The fact that the bride didn’t show that she appreciated Anita until people told her to or even tell Ashely to stop being so rude in general is just a red flag to me. I would have walked out of that store that day

[@ayesha5246]

Agree 💯💯💯

[@sylwiawalks2932]

Yep. seems the bride has learnt some bad habits since her friendship with Anita.

[@Pali_lifestyle]

I would have walked out of the friendship too

[@CHOCOLATESKIN15]

The bride's so called "I love you Anita" was so FAKE to me. Ashley acts like the friend that'll back stabb you when you least expect it.

[@BVBGirl-3313]

There is a chance that Ashley is so dominant that its hard for the bride to stand up for the others and the back up of the bridal workers helped her finally get some stuff out.

[@mllebuttercup]

Anita is pure class, but the bride and that "chosen" maid of honor are no one Anita needs in her life!

[@rainecormier2935]

"I frequently gaslight my friends when I hurt their feelings to get what I want" is what this episode should be called. Anita girl, you need a better friend 💜

[@evelynseabrook9134]

Should Anita decide to stay in the wedding, she will have plenty of time to decide how she proceeds with her friendship with the bride. What happened here is part of life development. There are degrees as to how one understands and holds a friendship. Clearly, Anita and the bride have developed differently. Anita needs to examine and grow into what is comfortable for her. She may be forcing what she believed was a strong friendship. But it was not felt the same by the bride, and the bride actually stated she felt Ashley knew her better. Life span growth is different for everyone. Everyone grows at a different pace. It's painful for some and not for others. There's nothing wrong with different paces. Good luck to Anita and to the bride.

[@Eventidesis]

7:03 - 'I value your friendship, Anita, I think you know that~' Don't forget this little gem!

[@Briael]

@@evelynseabrook9134 Then the bride should have had the basic courtesy and respect for a long time friend to actually tell her that she had chosen someone else as her Maid of Honor. It should have been done at the time Anita was asked to be a bridesmaid. That's the way it's done, not a surprise reveal at the store.

[@HoneysLit]

Exactly. Gaslighting at its finest. I think their parents are friends or she needed her wedding party balanced so she included Anita bc ain't no way in the hell "I value your friendship"... thats not value... actions speak louder than words. I can see her laughing on the phone with Ashley talking about Anita.

[@MsJubjubbird]

@@evelynseabrook9134 I agree. Anita is clinging to a friendship from early childhood that the bride has moved on from. I can smell her desperation in my living room. Hopefully one day she realises she needs to move on and find people who she can be friends with more organically. It's very rare to be friends with the same people you were friends with in primary school as people change.

[@theivygames5069]

I feel so bad for Anita. They bashed her and it was horrible. She had every right to be as upset as she was, Ashley was so rude for telling her to get over it. I’m so sad for how she was treated.

[@samanthaabreu782]

Why now? Why today? Girl, you created that situation yourself, you disrespected your friend and everybody else in the shop. Get a grip!

[@demigreen6495]

My exact thought

[@Lil-Jack-Jack]

Bride should have picked before hand, this could have been totally avoided; and she didn’t stand up for Ashley when they kept picking on her. She should have stoped the comments, but seemed like she enjoyed it. . That’s not love, that’s self centered and just plain mean. I hope Ashley did walk away, bc the bride was expecting more “words” on the wedding day.

[@marva4763]

@@Lil-Jack-Jack I think you meant Anita because Ashley was the rude one.

[@lynneufeld3175]

Walk on by U2enters the room

[@carolynv8979]

Why today? Maybe because you just ambushed her on camera, maybe that’s why today

[@cathywithac9692]

The bride blew it. She waited until they were in front of the TV cameras to tell her. She didn't have enough respect for her friend to tell her privately.

[@wandarobinson5612]

I agree with Lori about designating Maid of Honor BEFORE going to the appointment; THAT’S COMMON SENSE! You don’t do something like that at a Bridal Shop! Anita HAS EVERY RIGHT TO GET UPSET & she shouldn’t have to be competing for friendship…PERIOD 🙄

[@bridgetmiley5782]

i love the way you put that: competing for friendship. it should NEVER be that way in real friendships

[@cas516]

I can't believe they don't discuss that before. I though that is a common scent ..

[@Elahistoryproject]

Wh ever has been you friend the longest is the maid of honor like mine will probably be my sister or my best friend since 2 ed grade

[@RegularInvader]

It honestly wasn't a wise thing for Lori to say "I hope you all still remain friends." You are never supposed to "hope" for people in general to keep a toxic relationship when you know something's wrong.

[@kaitlintropper2061]

Yes

[@NA-sb2kd]

I was in a similar boat as Anita and completely understand. I had a friend from the time we were toddlers. She was my maid of honor and when she got married I was not even in her wedding party. It was very hurtful but all in all it was one more sign that she doesn't really value me as much as I did her and I always would be making room in my life for her and she would always push me aside. I concluded last year I've had enough of that I will no longer be bending over backwards for her.

[@Kiki-Acutie]

😢 Im sorry that happened to you,That's good that you are no longer in that situation

[@jojomart]

So these two have been friends for years, and she had to find out she wasn't Maid of Honor on the day they're on TV, in front of millions of people? That Maid of Honor was gloating. She enjoyed every minute of that mess. It may very well have been set up for the sake of the show - wouldn't doubt it!

[@AnniCarlsson]

My guess she told the bride to not to twll her sooner.

[@molliwilson5639]

Not OK to ambush her on TV

[@dvlogs2307]

I totally agree.

[@emulatemetheuniverse.3670]

You are 100% on point! This is so messed up! She needs to end that friendship and just understand it has ran its course. I would never do that to somebody. And on top of that she's going to let her new friend keep talking s*** triggering her long time friend?! I'm kind of mad they even Eric this s*** LOL they are making us look bad SMH

[@BrittAnarVlogs]

The whole situation was fucked up

[@HoneysLit]

It was triflin. You gotta look at the bigger picture. The Bride clearly sits back and talks about Anita which is why Ashley feels comfortable saying and doing the shit she was doing. And the Brides "I value your friendship" was phoney asf. Throw the whole situation away 🚮

[@maddiewhatever441]

I didn't think of this. You're probably right. People don't just hate each other like that if they don't get along. Usually if there's mutual hatred they just ignore each other unless they absolutely have to interact. But Ashley was playing offense and defense for the bride.

[@sofiarodriguez6768]

You're 100% right. Not once did the bride step in to defend Anita, that's a pattern. Ashley knew the bride wouldn't stop her because they have been talking behind her back.

[@moonwillow113]

Bullseye 🎯

[@FlyingPurplePplEatr]

T H I S !!!

[@minilea144]

Thats why Ashley felt WAY too comfortable calling Anita a "fake a** friend".

[@JustAnotherPerson4U]

Honestly, I'm surprised Anita didn't slap Ashley. Ashley was being rude and accusing Anita of making it about her when she was just trying to look through dresses and calm down. Ashley in this edited clip made several snide comments beforehand that no doubt added to the hurt. And then when she's crying in the toilet Ashley just comes in and tells her to get over it and basically taunts her in assuming it's just because she didn't get picked as the maid of honour. And when they tried on sample dresses Ashley ironically made it about HERSELF by constantly sniping at Anita and going after her for feeling hurt.

[@fdm2155]

Yeah, it's not surprise Anita is not a fan of Ashley. Ashey is clearly self-absorbed AND insecure. She couldn't STFU for one second and always had to have the last word. All that said, this mess would have been avoided if the bride did the right thing and specifically asked Anita to be a bridesmaid and explained Ashely would be MOH. And since she created the mess at the shop, the bride should have told Ashley to stop stirring the pot.

[@melindarozas1334]

Amen sister! I would have slapped her too!! So rude and disrespectful.

[@JustAnotherPerson4U]

@@fdm2155 agreed. The bride should've explained this beforehand and tried to tell Ashley to at least not keep stirring the pot. I must admit i hope that this appointment shows the bride what kind of person Ashley is to keep making smug and dismissive remarks to someone who is hurting. Even if they don't like each other, that's no reason to keep kicking someone when they're down. I like to imagine that between the time of this shopping appointment and the wedding that she either switched the MOH position to Anita and kicked Ashley out. Or at least just made them all bridesmaids to help soothe some feelings.

[@oceandreamer1018]

I was so confused I thought yall were talking about the consultant Ashley😂😂😂😂

[@HoneysLit]

The bride knew exactly what she was doing. She allowed that BS when she could've easily nipped it in the bud when this FIRST happened back when they became friends she couldve "SET BOUNDARIES", but she didnt/doesn't bc she is also self absorbed and thinks it's cute that she has 2 ppl "fighting" over her.. the Bride and Ashley make great friends. She doesn't deserve a friend like Anita. Smdh

[@demi234]

The way Kymberly just looked at the argument like she was watching a movie & said ABSOLUTELY NOTHING when Ashley called Anita a fake friend-like not even backing Anita up, she is over here defending herself while Kymberly said nothing & did not call Ashley out on that. If this is how Kymberly always is, I hope Anita realizes the kind of friend Kymberly has become and leaves her. Anita deserves a true friend that will stand by her side & not let somebody trash talk her!!!

[@Nola504]

Anita, we see you. You didn't deserve that. You are not wrong to feel the way you feel. Ashley, humble yourself, dear.

[@kayoticmind]

There is an enormous comeuppance down the road for both the tone deaf, snotty bride & her insufferable maid of honor. Can't get here soon enough...

[@Imjustkendall]

How’s your day?

[@607sheefalisharma5]

Wow i an your 1000th like🌝🎉

[@memy6215]

She should’ve told them since she had made the decision. It’s bold of the bride to ASSUME that her friend knew about her not being a maid of honor

[@AlizMari23]

"I'M the one that's suffering here." Spoken like someone who always gets what they want without regard for the people around her.

[@aprilshorty4094]

💯💯

[@kristic4472]

@ 7:24 Ashly doesn't look to happy about bride and Anita making up.

[@maidahaltrecht6577]

I don't like the way Ashley is treating Anita. She's not being very nice at all.

[@AlizMari23]

@@kristic4472 if you can't be happy for your friends, you're not really a friend. And Ashley calling Anita a "fake ass friend" for being upset that the bride wasn't a better friend to her just shows that she only cares about what she wants and probably doesn't even really care about the bride as much as Anita does. Ashley clearly cares more about being number one, and based on her behavior, she wasn't a very good friend to the bride either, otherwise she would have understood how Anita was feeling and either would have tried to comfort her or kept her mouth shut and let it stay between Anita and the bride.

[@tastx3142]

Ashley made it all about her and then denigrated Anita. I hope Anita took some time afterwards to re-evaluate the friendship with the bride. I wouldn’t want to remain in the bridal party if one member is going to continue to make snarky comments to me and would bow out. Save grief and your money and move on to people who aren’t disrespectful.

[@bigBsMom]

WOW!! 😳...she didn't think she had to tell her LIFELONG friend that she wasn't the maid of honor!!!? 😳😳

[@irisairsoul]

Nothing was resolved. The bride never acknowledged she literally broke her friends heart. You can tell Anita sees her as her best friend, but the bride's best friend is Ashley. Never did the bride actually say "just because you aren't my maid of honor doesn't mean I love you less." It's supposed to be the biggest day of your life rn and the woman who genuinely sees you as more than you see her was heart broken and you just let your MOH talk shit and shit on that woman. If I were Anita... I'd enjoy the wedding from the audience or not at all. I don't know if I could stand next to someone that let someone speak to me like that. And I'm not even going to go into "why now?" when she KNOWS she should have told them before. She KNEW this would be an issue. Yea, "I just thought she knew" I guess the production team forgot to mention that Anita is a mind reader. Smfh.

[@lemonsisters7624]

Your very very right

[@ayesha5246]

I totally agree

[@HoneysLit]

Exactly.

[@ebonyjackson8497]

Yeah that was wrong as hell. And I've actually been there myself.

[@MsJubjubbird]

I think it's one of those friendships where one has moved on and the other has not. I mean they met in primary school, people change a lot between five years old and adulthood. I feel the bride has been keeping up appearances just enough in more recent times to keep Anita happy. the fact that Anita was trying to compete with Ashley before the MoH announcement came out says she still hasn't moved on. She needs to get her own life and her own friends.

[@deepamathew1870]

OMG... Anita is a freakin angel for having stayed. That bride and maid-of-honor was horrible to her. I would've never stayed.

[@Maerahn]

Ugh... Ashley is clearly LOVING every moment of Anita's pain - like Every. Damn. SECOND. Not sure I'd want a 'friend' like that - at ALL, never mind at my wedding!

[@rubydubon5401]

and she had the audacity to say that SHE was suffering? like wow

[@wendyeskelin8765]

I can see her next step being to ruin the wedding, or worse. She seems like a big schemer. She seems to want to be at the top no matter what she has to do to get there. People like that are not the kind of person you want around. Seeing her treat someone else like that should be a red flag to the bride. At some point she'll be next.

[@treehouse2902]

The fact that the bride remained quiet during Ashley's assault tells me that is a one-way friendship.

[@resurrectionkratos]

Yep.

[@bellavita1323]

We're not always fortunate to have lifelong friends. Sometimes people grow apart, pass away etc so to be blessed with a friend since childhood that is loyal, trustworthy and that truly loves you, that would be the obvious choice for most. My heart is broken for Anita because not only did she break the news to her on national television, she told her right in front of the chosen made of honor that is always rude and competitive with her. Granted, it is up to the bride to choose whomever she feels would be better suited as her maid of honor but in my opinion, just wasn't the time or place and Anita's feelings were hurt yet she had to deal with Ashley telling her to get over it, as she's crying.

[@kitty62862]

If I were Anita, I’d go home. I wouldn’t spend two cents to be in that wedding, after being treated like that. If she was going to make someone else the maid of honor, she should have told Anita ahead of time. That’s completely disrespectful. I wouldn’t spend my money to be in that wedding. Let that spiteful jerk figure out how to get another bridesmaid.

[@katherinekhan6892]

Exactly. Anita, not one person in this group is your friend. Move on.

[@CarolynEHayes]

Bravo, Bravo well said turn coat bride is no friend of yours .

[@christinelavoie2644]

It says a lot about this bride's character that, firstly, she would treat her friend Anita this way; and second, that she would feel greater affinity for someone as cruel and manipulative as Ashley. Right or wrong, my intuition is that Kymberley needs people around her who will admire and flatter her. Anita might well have been the admiring one in her earlier years, but now Ashley, doing it for her own twisted reasons, is more skillful at this. I suspect that Ashley has had long practice playing Kymberley like a violin. She's no friend to anybody but herself. On the other hand, Anita.seems genuinely attached to Kymberley. Poor Anita. Either she does remain attached to a very old friend who doesn't seem to care that much about her, or else she loses her illusions about the nature of this friendship. It's lose-lose for her, while for Ashley, if it's as I perceive it, it's win-win: her aim seems to be to feel powerful over others, and I suspect she doesn't actually care as much about Kymberley as she cares about using her as a way to her own ends.

[@AlizMari23]

Bride: "I probably should have -" Me: "Yes, you should have, not probably."

[@chocolat360]

Agreed 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@serinadavis4611]

If this is the way the bride treats her friends, who would WANT to be in the wedding!

[@AlizMari23]

@@serinadavis4611 exactly! She probably just did it to create drama for her episode.

[@m.newton556]

She does not want to take responsiblity for her actions or lack thereof.... whata jackass

[@__lowkeycrayz__6185]

If I were Anita I would drop those “friends”. I really felt her pain when she said “I’m always second to you” because I’ve been there and dropped people because of it. I hope she is doing well 💗

[@ciznuk7]

With a friend like that you don't need enemies.

[@spiritualcosmeticss]

Wait which one? They were both out of line. Her 6th grade friend is overly emotional, and too self centered when it’s about the bride and the friend since high school is petty and combative she was literally mocking the other friend. But the BOTTOMLINE is that the bride should have told her in the first place so it’s really the brides fault.

[@ciznuk7]

@@spiritualcosmeticss I guess it fits for all three of them. 🤣

[@AFAskygoddess]

I realize this is a scripted "reality show". But in the real world, dropping the bomb as to which friend is the maid of honor at the dress fitting is a ✴STAR✴ STUDDED✴ A$$HOLE MOVE. The bride is the worst one.

[@Rosewolf29]

@@spiritualcosmeticss yeah, they both need to get over themselves. Ashley never shuts up always has to have the last word, but she's gotta shut up and quit nitpicking everything.

[@mcrchickenluvr]

@@spiritualcosmeticss Anita had every right to be upset. Sometimes people’s emotions come off as being self-centered. And I can’t even say I blame her. You can’t drop a bomb like that on someone and expect them to just “get over it”. It doesn’t work that way.

[@survivedandthriving]

Tommie was the hero of that appointment. But, while we all know that Anita should reevaluate that so-called "friendship", I would encourage Tommie to do so as well. 1) if Kymberly and Ashley are willing to bully Anita that way then they would be willing to do so to Tommie as well, and 2) When Anita finally decides to dump those to buttholes, guess who will be on the receiving end of their toxicity in Anita's place? Both Tommie and Anita should run for the hills and leave those two buttholes to stew in their own toxicity.

[@geisalagordon9966]

Kim was wrong for choosing the maid of honor DURING the appt and not PRIOR TO. Anita's feelings were valid but Kim did not empathize with her. Ashley was rude, and childish.

[@disasterjay2007]

Not only that, she did it on camera! How could Anita not feel humiliated?

[@cbow5582]

Exactly! You can tell that Anita is very passive and naive. Kim probably runs all over her. I personally would of left and bowed out of being a bridesmaid just based off of how Kim ambushed her. Also to keep me from whooping Ashley's ass👊😂

[@geisalagordon9966]

@@cbow5582 got that right!

[@hayleymarie5976]

yeah it’s reality tv, they prob told her not to say anything until then to make drama

[@Lina_unchained]

@@hayleymarie5976 there would have been plenty of drama between Ashley and Anita without dropping that on her then and there. MOST other bride have already told their entourages who will be in what position and drama still happens. There's no way that she did that just because the show told her to. She might have wanted to create that drama HERSELF by doing it on the show but I don't believe the show had her do it that way.

[@suzannadannaTARDIS]

Kymberly: I probably should have told her. The rest of us: You think? You ambushed her and treated her like crap. Not the way to treat a lifelong friend.

[@sharonharper6255]

The bride should have definitely told Anita before picking out dresses that she was going to be a bridesmaid, not the maid of honor. Ashley had waaaay too much to say when she should've been quiet!!!!!

[@realestrachel1986]

Everyone is team Anita!! I love to see it 😍 She seems like such a sweetheart

[@carolmk3114]

I hope Anita left this friendship. The bride was unbothered by her hurt. Completely unfeeling towards her. I hope after the wedding she valued herself and left.

[@jeanniestorey6111]

How rude! The bride should've discussed this prior. My heart is breaking for Anita! I know how she feels. And Ashley is a mean girl that never should have taken the scissors herself to that wig!

[@demetricebarbour1971]

Ashley is childish, she made the situation 10 times worse than it needed to be. And the bride was wrong on so many fronts. You don't assume a "friend" knows how you REALLY feel about them. And how dare you question her doing that right there in the salon? That's where "you" CHOSE TO DROP THE NEWS ON HER. Class-less on the bride's part.

[@cassiew1734]

Yes, Ashley is very immature. She needs to grow up because that mouth is going to lead her down a bad path. You also have to look at the bride and her choice of what she thinks is a friend. Anita is loyal and I would count her as a friend

[@hcwill1479]

I feel for Anita, same thing happened to me. Bride told me she didn't want a MOH or if she did that she'd want me to be her MOH.... I found out at the brachelorette party that she chose her fiances' brothers ex wife who she's known for 2.5 years to be MOH.... it does hurt more than one thinks and can't see the friendship lasting 💔

[@Grace-sm9yf]

I feel that the bride SHOULD NOT have a maid of honor. She knew that there is this much tension between her bridesmaids, and by choosing the maid of honor during bridesmaids dress shopping, she added fuel ⛽ to the fire 🔥.

[@aprilshorty4094]

💯💯 or she could have them both because it's her wedding

[@fizzahahmad6636]

@@aprilshorty4094 I feel like if she had them both as her maids of honor, then there would be too much competition, and that would lead to an even bigger mess

[@abbynormal4740]

I think I get where April Shorty is coming from. But I agree with Fizzah Ahmad here. Anita's too nice and Ashley seems too self-absorbed and spiteful for a double MOH situation to work as April intends. Ashley is too busy lording her MOH status over Anita. MAYBE, if the bride had gotten them together and made them both co-MOH, BEFORE the appointment, it MIGHT have worked out, but the way the bride (didn't) handle this situation made a real Charlie Foxtrot at the expense of her friend Anita.

[@hoonlvr7213]

"im crazy about them too!" when she only looks at ashley 💀 anita run away from them they dont deserve you!!!!!!

[@briannekelly4362]

Ashley was an antagonist. The bride was wrong for doing that to Anita. It looked like towards the end, the bride could see Ashley was wrong.

[@maidahaltrecht6577]

I agree with everything you said. Ashley was not nice at all.

[@specialty_k]

The same thing happened to me years ago. My cousin was getting married and selected other cousins as bridesmaids, all except me. Then invited me over to a family gathering without telling me I wasn’t included. Oh the hurt I felt I will never forget it.

[@mommynab]

This is the bride's fault, tacky 🤬. Then for the one chosen, Ashley, to be so smug and play victim 🙄 it was too much. Mean girls suck.

[@abbynormal4740]

Yeah, more like Maid of DIS-Honor... 🤦

[@winternightsky6945]

A really good friend would not wait until they got on national TV to tell a friend that she knew thought she was going to be the maid of honor. Obviously the conversation was already had with the other friend that she was and the other wasn't. Anita is that friend that tries to hold on to that friendship while the other doesn't care, but needs to let it go if it's more stress trying to stay with friends that don't value you

[@suedoyle4526]

I think Anita is a better person than I would ever be if my friend did that. It was a very hurtful thing to tell her, especially at the fitting. Ashley needs to shut it with her spiteful remarks. I wonder how she’d feel if the shoe was on the other foot !!! Anita is a much nicer girl than any of them ❤️

[@lesliesavercool9008]

There's an old saying. Make new friends but keep the old, one is silver but the others gold. Anita is Gold. Ashly isn't even pewter.

[@LauraBidingCitizen]

I think it made things worse for Anita when Ashley was running her mouth, like rubbing salt in the wound. Had the shoe been on the other foot, & Anita had been told in front of Ashley she was maid of honour, can you imagine how much Ashley would’ve kicked off?!! Anita had every right to be upset.. not really the place to announce something like that.

[@joiluckadoo-villa9601]

And Anita never would have talked smack to Ashley if Anita had been the chosen one.

[@annaconigliaro2907]

Honestly I want to give Anita a hug and tell her that she deserves better

[@marissathomas5483]

"I'm always second to you" that part broke me :( poor Anita

[@mtsemcomfort2255]

The bride is enjoying the fact that they're "fighting over her". If not, she should have stopped that bullying.

[@kamib5020]

Honestly if I was Anita I would be rethinking my "friendship"

[@jenn0802ifer]

Ashley is not a friend. She is mean and a bully. She is the type of person who will backstabbing everyone. Good luck with that lady.

[@larrymodestjr2906]

The bride is horrible,, a terrible friend how could you allow someone to disrespect your friend this one makes me sick

[@hkburrows]

The bride got the maid of honour that she deserves.

[@AngelWish3]

I can understand why the childhood best friend was hurt. The bride definitely should’ve told her before the appointment. That wasn’t just hurtful, but also humiliating. More over the bride should’ve made sure to keep the maid of honor in check. If you know you have two friends that don’t really get along with each other, at least try to make sure that they’re not being mean to each other. If I ever get married, I am not having a maid of honor. There’s too much potential for hurt feelings and quite frankly, I’ve seen too many women use it to bully each other. It’s not worth it to me, sure you may not get as much help on planning the wedding. However I think the cost of not having one is much less than the cost of losing someone you really care about.

[@noybmeadows3639]

For me thankfully because ei have sisters. Am making my sister the maid of honor. That way I don't have to pick between my friends.

[@jaynekranc8607]

This happened to one of my kids. A childhood best friend, but tossed over for someone the bride met at college and told at the last mi Ute. It's so tacky.

[@jaceylwhite]

I wish I had a friend like Anita. 💜

[@patriciabradford1304]

To me, Ashley was being such a bully. That girls feelings are hurt, you don't need to rub it in or disrespect her with her words, childish! I liked the middle dress.

[@sarahrivers8341]

Did this girl really say "why now, why today" at 3:26?! We should be asking you that why the hell did you wait the day of the braides maids fitting to tell Anita that she wasn't the maid of honor like who the hell does that! Of course she is gonna be upset just let her have some time to her self man Damn! Also it seems the that Anita takes this friendship more seriously then the Bride. I can also sense that Anita sees the bride as her best friend and can you imagine how hurt you would feel if you found out that you are not the maid of honor to your best friends wedding. I would be devastated for sure. The bride said that oh well Anita knew what I used to like not what I like now. Girl your the bride you have the final say in the dresses you can literally talk and tell her what you are looking for its that freaking simple!!

[@chocolat360]

All of this should have been settled beforehand... Shame on you Kymberly this was your responsibility!!!! Ashley you really need to stop the foolery.... The bride needs to put her friend in ✔️.... Anita you deserve better friends this has truly been an eye opener leave now girl....

[@sya286]

You don’t have to stay in the room, you don’t have to put up with bullying. Anita, my dear, just leave. Never deal with that.

[@lionelluva]

The bride should’ve told Anita about Ashley being the MOH. Ashley is being a nasty mean girl. I’m sure if the tables were turned, Ashley would be upset. Honestly, I would’ve left.

[@dietotaku]

you KNOW if the tables were turned ashley would've pitched a grand mal hissy fit, quit the bridal party, stormed out of the salon and blocked the bride on social media.

[@moonwillow113]

😆😂🤣 grand mal hissy fit❣️ FACTS!!!

[@TheSkandranon]

Everyone is focusing on Anita and the bride, but really, all those snarky comments Ashley was throwing at Anita definitely was just adding more fuel to the fire. She was rubbing it on Anita's face that she was the maid of honor

[@debbiepaishon4421]

I feel so sorry for Anita 😥 You can tell she was crushed by the news that was given to her . Hell , it's your wedding , make both of them your maid of honor .

[@johnnabuzby6103]

Get rid of Ashley in your life and your wedding party. Anita would have been a much better person to have as the MOH.

[@TG-fq6vy]

Ashley is the type of so-called friend that would try to steal the limelight on her friend’s wedding day. Anita is the type of friend that will always be there for her.

[@LisaLGruman]

Caring consultant and Laurie’s wisdom were a great help.

[@tammypetruzzi9191]

I can’t believe she would pick that rude mouth friend over a lifelong friend! That was so disrespectful, if I was Anita I would have left! Some friend!

[@ZillasCoop]

you cant expect class from a classless person.. that bride thrives on drama and doesnt care who she hurts

[@mariajw4803]

She enjoyd the drama to.

[@Vampyro181]

I'm a bride myself, this is too much drama. This bride should have told her friend Anita that she wasn't the maid of honor, and been honest from the beginning. And Ashley needs to SHUT UP.

[@kinyobisan]

"Why now? Why today?" Ugh, I'll tell you why. Because you didn't handle this prior to coming to this salon. Hey Miss Bride, it's on you.

[@user-mk2np4xq8h]

Ohhh I felt that when she said I am always second to you! Boom the bride is not a true friend I can see right through! I had a supposed friend like that! I finally told her Your done I am done with you!

[@SoMJenn]

Anita needs better friends.

[@anamm620]

No she's needs to stop being a baby

[@ArmednotTriggered]

@@anamm620 She's not being a baby. Ashley was being antagonist and the bride was absolutely loving all of the drama. Anita should have walked out. She was disrespected the entire time.

[@carcevicubo3703]

@@anamm620 Easy to say because it didn´t happen to you: that kind of stuff is not done to TRUE friends, especially the ones that have been with you since you were kids!

[@itz_true8025]

I’m just like “poor Tommy “🤣 Just sitting there takin it all in💗💀

[@spiritualcosmeticss]

This is the brides fault. Do not assume nothing. Communicate your intentions. Being able to communicate effectively is a life skill. I think the bride could have even told Ashley to cool it down a bit I mean why add fuel to the fire.

[@brandierenee4220]

I feel for Anita. I was the MoH for my best friends wedding and when she had her son I thought I was going to be his godmother and found out on Facebook I wasn't. I also thought I was going to be a bridesmaid in my brother and sister in laws wedding and wasn't picked. It hurt cuz I thought we were close enough for me to be in the wedding. But it wasn't my wedding so I just let it go and I helped her day of like a wedding coordinator since the venue didn't have one and she was so thankful for it to not have to worry about things.

[@pettytoni1955]

@Brandie Renee, You're a good sister and friend!

[@joymelton-bollen6383]

My group of friends are lifelong, also. 1: 48 years (now) 2: 46 years (now) 3: 42 years (now) 4: 41 years (now) When I got married in 1992, I DID NOT even consider making one of them my maid of honor, I valued each one of them differently and WOULD NOT differiate between them. My favorite cousin was my maid of honor, & my bridesmaids stood according to the length of time we had been acquainted . It's about respecting the hearts of your closest friends.

[@dorothysheppard3540]

Well done Joy! You are a "real" friend ❣️!

[@destinyzee8240]

Not the bowl cut with the 15 inch extensions 😂

[@NdiNaija]

Ashley was foul through and through. Anita is so loving and decent. I hope she distances herself from the bride, and gets friends who respect her.

[@magicworld3242]

Anita is extremely jealous of Ashley. But, Ashley likes to "rub it in" 😂..... "We about to have a runaway bridesmaid" 🤣. Ashley is so shady 😅

[@franzessie9697]

Those were the cutest dresses they ever chose on the bridesmaids show. It’s a shame they needed to add all that drama. It should have been settled beforehand…

[@SyedaTasnia]

Yeah these ones were nice compared to the other bridesmaid dresses we see

[@ravenwatson2826]

If I was Anita, I definitely would’ve left that place and ended the friendship and moved on with my life. Birds of a feather flock together and I want zero parts of that toxic friendship.

[@emilysmalley6795]

That was very rude of Kymberly to reveal this at the shop. Poor Anita. I hope she's okay.

[@nessuhtodd8053]

Kymberly and Ashley deserve each other. Anita girl, you go get yourself some new friends who are not toxic.

[@umadevi0101]

Ashley is the type of person to instigate and put people down just to make herself feel superior. Being chosen as the maid of honor was clearly not enough for her. Mean girls all the way. Kym not supporting anita while she was being bullied also makes her a BAD friend.

[@christineholliday4564]

The bride to be kept saying why now...??? Acting like Anita was causing problems... It is her fault for not handling this like an adult AND not seeing the one she chose to be the bridesmaid is being petty & agressive.

[@vanillathunder11559]

I wouldn't have let Ashley keep bullying Anita. That's terrible, she claims anita is important to her yet let's that go on.

[@DontMindMee89]

I would have demoted her (if for some strange reason wanted a friend like that).... You can be flower girl since you wanna be childish

[@sewforthandsewon]

Anita deserves better friends. She needs to leave them alone for a very long time. They don't deserve such a beautiful soul. They're emotionally abusive and have no empathy. Anita is absolutely beautiful! My heart goes out to her. ❤️🦋

[@a697ag]

I'm going to go out on a limb and say Anita is not friends with the bride anymore

[@Brizlebird]

“why now, why today?” Well bridezilla, because you didn’t make the situation clear beforehand!

[@Nugnug23]

“I thought she knew she was just gonna be a bridesmaid” um if I knew you the longest I wouldn’t just assume I’d be a regular bridesmaid

[@kray4857]

The exact same thing happened to me with a friend I new since kindergarten, my friend, the bride, chose a college roommate over me for maid of honor. I left the wedding party and the friendship. Don’t waste time caring about people don’t care about you the same way.

[@wellherigo]

The bride didn't tell her oldest friend that she wasn't going to be the maid of honor BEFORE getting bridesmaids dresses... My conclusion is that this bride will be divorced before a year is up. Those are AWFUL communication skills. Her new husband is next in line for her thoughtlessness. She already mentioned that he's completely opposite of her. Good for him.

[@kaidama]

I'M GLAD EVERYONE IS CALLING OUT THE BEHAVIOUR because how they did Anita ain't right. Ashley winding her up too, how dare you? You already got your W now keep your mouth shut, laughing every single moment and wondering why the poor women feels alone and upset. You best chill or you leave. Period.