Opinionated Groom And Mother Of The Bride Have A Power Struggle! | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

[@ellenmorgan9857]

“I’m gonna win”. This bride is headed for a miserable marriage.

[@kyliepechler]

That is so obvious, it's so sad to watch.

[@deepblueinthedark9856]

The word "win" should not be part of the conversation.

[@ajemroberts3903]

😱 I hope she wakes up and runs before the wedding 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️... could you imagine children in this equation?!?

[@dianecheverria3752]

Listen just say no someone better will come along

[@LolaClo]

That was scary! It reeks of control!!!!!

[@PorgWitch]

"That's not really my style" oh I'm sorry, are YOU wearing this dress?!?!

[@uccello297]

I was waiting for this comment

[@kristic4472]

EXACTLY what I was thinking. If I were Mom, I think I would've turned around and left, and either waited on the couch, or gotten a snack. Maybe (MAYBE) that would've smacked baby girls conscience. This jerk reminds me of my sons last gf, all about HIm

[@bridgettebazin641]

My exact thought!

[@jaimesissel7973]

Literally my exact thought!!

[@naturalforme]

Exactly! I caught that too.

[@thebeakeddoctor]

"It's not my style" Didn't realize he was the one wearing the dress.

[@vanessaabazie3049]

Yeah me.neither😹😹

[@meliq13]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@dorislacaze8347]

Exactly what I was thinking!

[@aligrotts6400]

I hope Mom has a spare room for when daughter comes back home.

[@AFRMTY]

Run!!! The groom is toxic

[@gaylegordon2038]

"What have I gotten myself into, bringing him here?! " is a prophetic proclamation. She's going to ask herself that question time and time again.

[@Quantum36911]

This comment should have ALL the likes! So perfectly said!

[@nancyterrywhittemore2015]

She's gonna be asking; Why did I marry him?

[@sierra4766]

It's sad that I thought well good luck with marriage number 2. Poor girl.

[@zionsgirl6456]

I do declare 🤯

[@veronicacrabtreehill6608]

I depends on how long it lasts. He seems to be a bully but trying to be 'nice' about it.

[@sabrinasfantasticallibrary2343]

"Not my style" Dude you are not wearing the damn dress, let her pick what makes her feel beautiful

[@brittanytormaschy3063]

Well said

[@terrypilkey1931]

I've seen a couple times where grooms came in and Lori literally made them put on the dresses because they kept saying that's not my style.

[@Toppdash]

Ikr like if he loves those other dresses that damn much why dont he just wear it himself?💀

[@morgan.hasara]

THAT IS WHAT I SAID TOO! I literally screamed that at my phone when he said that😂😂😂😂

[@korigarbison2259]

This is exactly why grooms shouldn't be load in wedding dress stores !! Should be a rule that you have to follow!!

[@melanieflaye4914]

“What have I gotten myself into”..........a domineering, misogynistic and emotionally gaslighting relationship!

[@GwenRN]

And lawyer bills greater than the cost of the wedding.

[@marymcquaid7291]

Is there still time for her to get out of this?

[@joemama-hf6wp]

how is he misogynistic...

[@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat]

Yes Melanie. You have hit the nail on the head with that comment. I seriously pity the poor bride for being in such a relationship.

[@HelloKitty60621]

@@joemama-hf6wp he's telling her what to do when it's HER dress, he's headset on telling her what to do and bossing around his fiancé and telling her what to do with her body and making her dress day about him.

[@brookelynn30355]

If he was the prize at the end of a race I'd run backwards 😷🙅‍♀️

[@claindastuart6790]

Haha!

[@MaRiAm936]

Run backwards 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MissCDM1979]

I agree...

[@Hikarahime]

You mean run in the opposite direction because it’s still possible to run backwards and run toward the end simultaneously 🙃

[@lunachick1313]

You are brilliant! I laughed so hard when I read this, thanks for that!😂

[@szyl8595]

This girl is entering an abusive marriage. I feel so bad for her. I can already see him isolating her from her friends and family so that he can control her better.

[@strawberryhalas1055]

“I’m 6’4” literally nobody asked.

[@kari_p2090]

Strawberry Chaeng ikr, he reminds me of that one girl who is like 5’4 and can’t shut up about how short they are 🙄

[@69meowy2]

Kari_ P 5’4 isn’t really short tho

[@HattielyEverAfter1995]

I’m 4’10 and would stand up to him if the need arose x

[@eleanorcooke7136]

And literally nobody cares how tall that prick is.

[@pamscruggs2660]

Lori owns the store, she can tell him to leave. However, I realize the drama is there for entertainment

[@sassytbc7923]

This girl needs to run for the hills. The groom is totally disrespectful to the brides mother.. rolling eyes etc. I bet he totally separates them after the wedding if it takes place

[@beamills9205]

no respect for women.............

[@maivageez]

agreed

[@lucybirch9360]

5:03 you can make out bruises on her arms. Please look!!!

[@LNico1203]

My dad ressembles much like him. Exactly like him. He separsted my mom from her mom (took her to another country) and right when my mom wanted to leave and escape my mom had me and my brother so she felt stuck. I witnessrd every single argument and well its not fun. Shes like my mom. My moms a lot stronger noe but its reslly hard to stand up againdt an abusve person. I really hope she will go through the comments bc omg she needs to leave. It never ends. Once abuse, manupilation, and control starts it never ends..

[@kianakosack7800]

Lucy Birch there’s literally not one bruise on her. Do NOT accuse someone of that unless you KNOW.

[@lamar9331]

He's really creepy and so immature. Girl you don't need a new dress you need a new man. The one you have is a childish pouting baby. Mum talk some sense into your daughter. This is not the man for her, she deserves better.

[@StellaKraft-k7i]

Yes , dump him , trouble a life of misery !!

[@emmef7970]

Wishing this poor girl the best. Red flags waving! Mom clearly sees them. I hope she's ready for 50 years of being under this bully's thumb.

[@adoriwi]

Someone take “I” out of this mans vocabulary...

[@navya6813]

That would surely keep him shut 😂

[@cherelle4143]

He will be like me don’t like it

[@beaniepanini]

But then he can't talk at all

[@itsallmikeysfault5495]

@@cherelle4143 😂

[@pkrall7200]

Every time he opened his mouth, I wanted to go off on him. I wonder if they're still together?

[@sofiabeasley1503]

“I’m 6’4” ok buddy..you’re radiating little man energy

[@bethhamel2]

Bet he has a HUGE truck too! wink wink. lol

[@beverlyantoniou8236]

Overweight

[@HaleyEden]

@@bethhamel2 more like a Smart Car haha

[@Emma-cz6dh]

No one can chuck him out of someone else’s building 🤦‍♀️

[@ju-juswardrobe4065]

and a shrimp

[@reem5703]

“My ex husband didn’t see me in my dress and it didn’t help my marriage survive” hate to break it to you but I don’t think that’s the reason the marriage didn’t work out

[@trishobrien4692]

Seriously? It had nothing to do with "seeing the wedding dress before the wedding." It had EVERYTHING to do with the guy being a bully, a misogynist, a jerk & an asshole!

[@mkdt6732]

Exacly

[@as19J01]

That's her point. Not seeing the dress has nothing to do with how the marriage will go

[@lleexxii]

Yeah that's the whole point of what shes saying. Everyone says if he sees you in the dress the relationship will fail, it's just dumb lol. Most marriages fail anyways nowadays

[@marylynnneill1958]

Power struggle much? Horrible way to let him run the show.

[@BillyAlabama]

I feel so sorry for the bride. She has a life of hell ahead of her.

[@erinhaley6560]

That groom was practically every toxic stereotype in one "I'm 6'4"" meat sack. When he threw his size out as a reason to get his way I wanted to scream. I guess being a tall man means no one can ever say no to you? So gross. And dangerous. He gets all the 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@suzip6728]

My husband's the same height and has never thrown his height out as a reason to get his own way. It's a douche move!

[@Tracy137]

Yeah, to me - and I had a violent, controlling ex - he was every red flag going. I didn't listen to my own mum and regretted it - I was lucky we were only engaged and not married. I broke up with him when he threatened to kill my parents.

[@Joy6168]

TroubleMcTrouble, good for you for leaving your ex when he threatened to kill your parents.

[@Tracy137]

@@Joy6168 - Yeah it was a no brainer at that time. I realised there was NOTHING I could do to please him and my parents were my whole world, my late mum especially was my best friend as well as my mum. I couldn't imagine basically being responsible for something terrible happening to them if I stayed with him. So I broke up with him.....it was bad for a while. He wouldn't take no for an answer and my parents didn't know what he'd been doing as I always explained things away (and he was careful to only bruise or cut me where it would be hidden by clothes, and of course there were other ways to hurt me....so many.) So to see women like this it breaks my heart......

[@Joy6168]

@TroubleMcTrouble-I bet this brought up a lot of traumatic flashbacks for you, watching this episode. Unfortunately, I know what you mean when you had said that he made sure to hide the abuse he was inflicting on you in a multitude of ways, as well as that you deflected and played down just how the abuse was out of denial that it was really that bad, until it started, again. I don't know you, however, as a stranger who's been in similar situations, I'm very proud of you for making the difficult yet necessary decision to leave. Let's just pray that this woman and several like her realize the abuse they're suffering and leave.

[@songsayswhat]

"We decide everything together" means "I tell her what to do and she does it."

[@dazem8]

right. women like this need a backbone. you don't cave to whatever a man says just to keep him around.

[@aprilsilvers381]

Yes

[@brandygipson1675]

Thats exactly what that means. My heart goes out to her

[@shellymedley6795]

Can’t stand him...classic controlling jerk

[@dinosaurchickennuggets5138]

Exactly. Partnership doesn’t mean always making every decision together. It can mean being ok with your partner to make their own decisions because you respect and trust them

[@clarasooula4537]

Groom: There's a saying that rules are made to be broken Monte: The only things that are going to be broken are your legs Me: You get him KING

[@lindalippert7290]

I'd tell her to run, her life is going to be hell with him telling her what and what not to do or wear.

[@ignitingember3071]

Omg yeah, I was like GOOOOO MONTE too LOL

[@cheyannecatalano2951]

@@lindalippert7290 fr if I was monte I'd be like okay no cameras and pull the bride aside...

[@credendovides20]

And he does have a point on that, but he just is such a douche...

[@gabbylopez9091]

I second that! Can I join?!

[@helenalderson6608]

Mom knows exactly what to say to put the daughter off. " You look pregnant" was prefect

[@bluecat3103]

Groom: " I'm 6'4, I'll do what I want, nobody's gonna take me off the floor." Me: One good kick in the balls is all it takes.

[@misskayeleigh4378]

Yepppppp

[@glassie6733]

Haaaa haa...hell yes, couldn't have said it better myself...no one's gonna mess with you blue cat 💙🐾👍🇦🇺

[@littletrexarms9709]

The police can take you off the floor

[@lynnhf2060]

Girl, say it again

[@madibawayne6314]

True he will be on the floor for a quick minute.🤣

[@janejojo275]

He is controlling and manipulative. He will watch her every move, and make her life with him horrible. What does she see in a self centred jerk like him??

[@karen-df9wm]

Oh my I wouldn't be married to a man like that

[@afree6339]

Maybe she still sees the carefree high school friend in him and is ignoring the person he’s become.

[@ameeraraven2698]

I wonder if they ever see the comments in the videos they're in.

[@mlpp3621]

I had 15 yrs of being controlled xxxx

[@Hikarahime]

Ameera Raven Isn’t this show from awhile ago?

[@ismahane821]

He's marrying her because she has no personality ... Aaaand because his ex is married to her brother, I mean c'moooon!

[@EmberRose24]

You’re not wrong she seems like a puppet on strings

[@MsK_in_CA]

I’m curious how the brother feels in all this.

[@itsjessicabae7024]

It's obvious, compared to his ex, she's definitely NOT his type.The only is thing they have in common they're both desperate for attention. He wants to be put on a pedestal and they're both eager and willing at all cost to make their ex's jealous. Did anyone catch that her friend Tiffany looked alot like his ex in their Highschool pic?

[@twoxsl857]

Hes definitely gonna cheat

[@starfire4539]

I’m glad I wasn’t the only one seeing it. She’s mindless and easy to control

[@helenhilton2158]

The groom is so ARROGANT! The bride is already under his control.

[@lovestruckly]

Okay but we can all agree that Monte and Lori mocking him was hilarious right?

[@jessiealexander3515]

I mean, it was so true. “Congratulations to me, I’m so awesome at picking dresses, I’m the best!” I felt like he thought they’d be lost without him.

[@josaphine9422]

Hell yes ❤️

[@marysmith861]

Absolutely. The groom is a jerk.

[@sassytbc7923]

This groom is disgusting... from his attitude of himself and his fiancée clean down too his voice.

[@jeannieboivin2849]

Yes😂

[@djjones7039]

Monte: "the only thing that's gonna get broken are your legs if you stay up here!" 😂😂😂🙃 Lorie & Monte are SOO hilarious making fun of the douchebag groom. Hahaha I love them

[@rbekahlma2519]

DJ Jones I love monte😂😂.

[@johnnabuzby6103]

He's a jerk...the groom-to-be that is. Egotistical and seemingly knows it all. She should run the opposite way! Don't marry him!

[@hannahdigiovanni9785]

ummm. the fact that they ALL CHEERED when he left is a HUGE telling of how the family thinks of him like girl leave him

[@Bellaaaaaaaxxo]

Monty threatening to break his legs had me 😂

[@naturalforme]

That’s a problem. Lori tells the bride “Tell me what YOU think” and instead of her expressing how she feels in the dress she says “I want to know what Michael thinks.” That is a huge No No for me. If she can’t vocalize her own opinion without the consent of someone else, then there could be an issue down the line. Just my own opinion.

[@KittieKind]

I agree. Me: Did I hear right? She doesn't have an opinion of her own?

[@louisemariemonterola9905]

Definitely a red flag, women should have their own voice and not rely on a man THAT MUCH.

[@Mooncrest0]

Sounds like a toxic relationship.

[@alteakaouk5719]

There gonna get divorced or something if it keeps going this way

[@blah7983]

It sounds like the audio is edited. These shows manipulate this stuff

[@NC-ij9rb]

“Rules are made to be broken” Me: so you gonna cheat then?

[@WDOWNEY]

Only if he finds another insecure woman like her🤦🏼‍♀️

[@marylynnneill1958]

Moron.

[@Tracy137]

Yup if he can get his ex to cheat on her brother with him.....let's face it, that's the ONLY reason he's marrying her - it's way for him to be close to his ex. Such a damn stalker.

[@saraatkinson8023]

This guy is a control freak. Red flags everywhere.

[@uptownqtee40]

Once they're married, he's going to pull her away from her mom. She's going to go right along with it

[@PinkiTadinki]

She seems to love being so submissive.

[@lindalippert7290]

Agree

[@kiwin7119]

@@PinkiTadinki If you're used to certain behavior, it can be hard to see it as destructive or wrong. It's the idea of a frog in a pot of water that's slowly brought to a boil. This is *especially* true of abuse or put-downs, especially if you see this behavior in you family or social circle. Don't blame the victim for the bully's behavior!

[@PinkiTadinki]

@@kiwin7119 I completely agree. But I'm surprised no one's whipped his ass before.

[@brynnpreston1118]

I see the toxic future for this marriage before it even starts. She's blinded by it because she thinks she's in love with him. He SCREAMS narcissist. Both my mother and I fell into very similar situations to this girl. I didn't marry my narcissist, but she married hers. I really hope she gets out of it soon if the wedding even went through

[@kyewikeley]

"I'm 6'4. I'm gonna do what I want" This man is dangerousssss

[@juanitacruz6015]

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@Lucathagirl]

That line alone scared me 😢 poor woman

[@catherinewilliams3850]

Clearly been spoiled since the day he was born and never told 'no', a controlling bully.

[@marfa1861]

VERY dangerous! I fear for her!

[@stay_gold6316]

Holy cow.. he’s so obnoxious, I don’t even want to finish the clip

[@catherinerickard699]

Need to know, did you !

[@ivy3723]

My mum would have booted him out of the shop... and my life

[@michellelillard143]

Any man treats my daughter like this I will be going mama dragon.The ring will be returned and the wedding canceled.

[@EstherHulst-Artist]

If not my mom my sister would

[@HikerChick2]

@@EstherHulst-Artist My Dad definitely would.

[@claudialuvsu21]

My mom would have booted him out the minute she met him...she’s a small 5’2 woman but when it comes to her kids she is ferocious 😂

[@hannahaguilar435]

I can't imagine how their marriage is going to be. He sounds narcissistic. "A world of trouble." You said it girl.

[@baileydavenport2651]

Monte getting sassy "Only thing gonna be broken are your legs" 😂

[@Tina-wm1rp]

Bailey Dav. Haha. That was so unexpected and hilarious.

[@no032]

Nobody puts Monte in a corner

[@mombecs8934]

I hope Monte holds true to this when that Man beats the shit out of that Bride.

[@m_estera]

I can help him with that😂😂

[@Lakayla246]

Monte and lori is the only reason I watch this show

[@mihihihi]

"We make our decisions together"="Caveman makes decisions, female shuts up and does what I tell her"

[@MTb24212]

i applaud you

[@darciee.7337]

Exactly

[@marylynnneill1958]

Oh,he is horrible!

[@eileenlee3902]

Lol

[@aassttrrr]

I still can’t get over the fact that she is 24. She looks SO much older. And yes, that groom is just a HUGE red flag all over.

[@graphiquejack]

It's the overplucked eyebrows and blue eyeliner. Eeek

[@Renee_VHS]

Seriously, I think toxic relationships can be incredibly aging. I hope that girl ran for the hills!

[@whothefisalys]

Plus she said she had been married before, this show has to be making people lie about their age but I'm sorry no way are they my age, 34 maybe?

[@sararaftery3729]

he is such a control freak

[@puli_dreadhead]

Renee St. Aubin toxic relationships are lowkey exhausting. You could be unconsciously stressed and not know why.

[@celissewillis9399]

"My first husband did not see me in my dress & it did not help my marriage survive..."... WHAT in the heck?? Between that & the obvious codependency of needing husband #2 to have a say so in HER dress, this is such an insecure young woman!

[@malicemew]

This girl must be hella insecure to settle for a man like this. He's so disrespectful. The fact that she got kinda emotional speaking about her former marriage, she's still hurt & chose this jerk to feel wanted & validated. Also is he paying for the wedding? "I'm not going anywhere!" Wow the nerve! Ladies you deserve better don't settle for less!!!!

[@helena_lang]

“His opinion matters the most to me” That is an instant red flag! This is your wedding dress honey! Your opinion should matter the most!

[@lucybirch9360]

fluff cat you can see bruises on her arms 5:03

[@wdcart.co.8206]

Yeah I mean in a healthy relationship the opinion might matter but it would be more in the attitude he’ll love it because I love it

[@arthiutamiahmad8599]

@@lucybirch9360 😱 I didn't notice until you said it..it's... Probably the light?

[@laurawest2720]

Its like she believes that he wont like her unless he picks E ERYTHING like im sorry a household is 50/50 not what YOU want

[@roses09]

This was horrible. Not once did she make her own decision. She is going to end up miserable.

[@UMewMew]

I'll be damned if my future husband tells me what to do,how to act,talk,dress,eat,look he'll be 20 feet under before dinner time

[@patriciastrassner4883]

And divorced a second time.

[@gothicyid]

Actually she said she loved it before she even came out and asked their opinion.

[@orvillaheck8994]

The Grooms should NOT be at the Wedding Dress appointment! It is a Mother/Daughter time!!! I think he is arrogant & childish! Good luck to their marriage🌹

[@apoloniaguerrero8095]

He said “I’m 6’4” like that’s supposed to mean something. Like what are you gonna do you are in a bridal shop. Very prideful and disrespectful. Imagine what it’s going to be like later down the road.

[@MrsZen1]

Is he going to become an abusive man

[@jennym007]

Apolonia Guerrero Yes. Will he say that to his wife when they’re married?😒😭

[@lisahinton4668]

My Momma always said “The bigger the tree the harder the fall”.

[@litastardreams]

What’s worse is, he isn’t 6’4, clearly. But he wants to be intimidating and that’s his response when he feels threatened. I worry for this girl’s future.

[@peytonleffingwell8082]

Am I the only one getting red flags from this guy? (Checks comments) Good, glad most of us agree this is way too controlling! She needs to run

[@ruinsane100]

He is TROUBLE, scary trouble. Mom is right not to like him. The bride will find out the hard way, unfortunately, but hopefully move on to greener pastures.

[@number1nanaof2]

And run fast!!! In would love to know how this marriage is a few years down the road. A controlling husband like him? I don't give it much of a chance. And to be so rude to his future mother-in-law??? 🤬

[@adaramohammed1575]

“I’m 6’4, nobody gon’ tell me what to do” boy did you once heard the bigger they are the harder they fall😌

[@samroyle6154]

My grandma always says that

[@ccbean1276]

A little kick to the groin and Timber

[@sherrynevis-baltzer734]

Just makes it easier for someone my size to nail him in the...😎

[@ThePimmy11]

Everyone has to eat and everyone has to sleep. 6'4" won't mitigate vulnerability.

[@MsSHINeeTVXQSuju]

😂😂😂😂

[@TJ-gt1zz]

When he said " I'm 6'4 and no one is kicking me off the floor." I see a Narcissistic who doesn't want to lose control over his bride to be. I don't see this marriage lasting long. 😵‍💫

[@nicolefernandez8357]

"I'm 6'4 and I'm going to do whatever I want", that's not a funny statement, that us the background noise on a 911 domestic abuse call

[@CLoud-xq2wc]

That's what i was thinking

[@spencerwagner903]

“No ones going to kick me off the floor” my taser says otherwise sir

[@alissaconant7995]

As a 911 operator...all I can say is you are absolutely right

[@kunya16]

That was my first thought. If he's used his size to get his way with other people he'll use it with her.

[@katieharris1626]

Between that and looking like the type to drug someone and laugh, god I hate this guy. Reminds me too much of the trash ive taken out over the years

[@LS-gl9yv]

This girl needs to make some decisions for herself. Her mom needs to have a talk with her about self respect and self worth. The fiance needs to grow up.And everyone at the bridal shop needs a pat on the back for handling the situation and not knocking him out.

[@tamhuy10]

why do people in the comments think the mom is better than the husband ?

[@lucybirch9360]

L S you can see bruises on her arms 5:03

[@adriannasasha-gaye1084]

I think its a little too late for that

[@madisonspringer7476]

I don’t think the groom would change is mind... she just needs to dump him and run as far as her legs can take her.

[@andresletson572]

He thinks he was born with an "extra" you no what I mean

[@amb3rmous3]

Controlling. Possibly abusive. Also possibly only marrying her because his ex in her family and he’s finding a way to stay close. Either way? Bad vibes surrounding this dude entirely.

[@sophie_levine2851]

Yep. I didn't even think about the fact that his ex is in the family. Part of me feels like all of us in the comments might be reading this too far, since this is edited, scripted, produced etc. But this doesn't give him a good look either!

[@mlight6845]

Control freak, rude, self-centered... yikes!

[@jessicayu4992]

You point out what I was thinking! Thank you!

[@peacheskong2245]

Exactly what I was thinking. It's really sad too, the mom said ''Sam is very easily swayed by Michael'' it just further sealed it for me. It's sad that she has such a low self-esteem to the point she allows herself to be his doormat

[@minalanie]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@sweettaterfries]

My boyfriend and I are going to a wedding next week, I bought a new dress and hadn’t shown it to him yet and asked if I could put it on to show him and get his rating. He said “10/10” without even seeing it yet, I said “babe let me put it on” and he said “it’s a 10/10 off you and a 15/10 on you, I already know that” Like damn this man trying to get me to cry. I know he will be happy in whatever I wear when we get married.

[@bethanysangra3903]

Nah, this girl needs to get out quick. He's being super controlling and using his height and physique to threaten people. Dangerous behaviour here that will only worsen the more secure he feels in her staying.

[@lucybirch9360]

Bethany Sangra you can see bruises on her arms 5:03

[@sweetlikechocolate909]

Groom = 🚩🚩🚩 GIRL NEEDS TO RUN FOR THE HILLS!! ⛰⛰

[@paulastenavage1785]

Yes. Run as fast as you can

[@paulastenavage1785]

Yes. Run as fast as you can and don't stop!

[@yazminecancel8834]

⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰

[@helenholt1161]

Oh yeah.

[@wilmaknickersfit]

The wedding was in 2013, so unless someone has an update I don't think she escaped.

[@doriandias2184]

This is why her sister in law married her brother and not him - he was so rude towards her

[@kimberlyarrington5721]

Yep I was like the ex is so lucky she she got out of that relationship

[@doriandias2184]

@@kimberlyarrington5721 ikr

[@colinhoulder3712]

What a mess she's got herself into. She is going from one controlling relationship to another.

[@Lassieandfriends]

I spent 5 years in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship and the level of control he has over her is scary. The fact she refuses to voice her own opinion unless she gets his first makes me feel sick to my stomach. I’m truly afraid for this woman’s wellbeing. I hope the wedding never went ahead or at least she has by now walked away and never looks back!!

[@cherylmontgomery7537]

OMG! I hope that you are ok and out of that horrid relationship now! ❤️

[@shelbyxoxo3920]

She’s still married to him and they have kids now.

[@bvnny1379]

Its a dress, chill

[@victorysgoodlife679]

@@shelbyxoxo3920 this it’s so so sad

[@whyarewestillhere4781]

@@bvnny1379 its not- did you even watch the video..?. We dont care about the dress we care about the way he treats her and everyone else around him

[@alysham519]

Lori to bride: "Tell us what you think" Bride: "I want to hear what Michael thinks" 🙄

[@tinamexico1604]

Already a victim of a control freak.

[@maggiemuthu9818]

Annoying

[@Nyquil5]

That made me queasy....

[@loveandlight3486]

Really sad for her it's a disaster!

[@shauniegirl5598]

That right there is a HUGE red flag

[@penguinZ85]

He is more about “winning” than her feelings. He took her special moment and made it about him. Seems like a narcissist.

[@penguinZ85]

@@shepherdboy9692 I didn’t tell my husband what to wear and I asked him what kind of dress he liked and went ended up getting a dress that was similar to what he described. My point with him was that it was about winning.

[@nisrinarnouk4373]

Ooooh I was with a guy like this for 4 years. I was scared to go out to the supermarket if I hadn’t told him first. It brought out the absolute worst in me. I’m so glad I got out!

[@maret_the_ferret7510]

I hate this groom so much. He was so disrespectful. The bride has no personality, I have no doubt that this relationship is not going to last. 😂

[@MountainPearls]

I don’t she’ll go anywhere for quite awhile. She’ll stag with him and be miserable (b/c he talks her into having kids really quickly).

[@mimib8032]

@@MountainPearls Nailed it. Still married with several kids now.

[@bhuvaneshwarij1326]

@@mimib8032 I thot so, she thinks he s perfect n too good for her, she wont leave him

[@TheIndigoworld]

I’m just praying the wedding won’t even take place. This is not okay.

[@lucybirch9360]

Theindigo World you can see bruises on her arms 5:03

[@NintenGamer]

It did cause this episode was filmed years ago.

[@debrastanfield6113]

@@lucybirch9360 I can't tell that she has bruises on her arm. It looks like she does, but I can't tell

[@galaxyninja6784]

Debra Stanfield If you look close enough, there is definitely bruises

[@hannahweber5215]

Theindigo World I checked theyre facebooks, they’re still married and have been since 2013. just hope that poor girl has a voice of her own now

[@bri2103]

The "Yes - I'm engaged to my sister-in-laws high school sweetheart" kind of made me go YIKES.

[@mayamorabito1669]

Oh. Cringe.

[@jennifercarpenter5105]

Yeah like great you're sister in law has seen your man naked and vise versa 🤢

[@MrAlexmercer94]

@@jennifercarpenter5105 when you put it that way.. BIG YIKES

[@taylorfields3191]

What in the cornbread hell???

[@cheyannecatalano2951]

I was half paying attention while she was explaining it and I started listening at that part and my mind was doing some mental math to try to figure it tf out

[@nicolesseon1480]

Mom’s pick was the most flattering!

[@littlehouseinthebigapple5716]

Something off about the groom.... caused me to feel anxiety. Hoping he’s not as bad as he seems here.

[@lucybirch9360]

Little House in the Big Apple you can see bruises on her arms 5:03

[@littlehouseinthebigapple5716]

😫

[@laurahutchings3478]

😔😔

[@xine91468]

Little House in the Big Apple Same girl. Same.

[@jesswoody3452]

Lucy Birch dannnng that was a large bruise 😨☹️☹️

[@jenniferjensen9434]

I don't think her second marriage is going to work either. She did look preggers in the first dress, and wtf is with her fiance? Run, run run!! Best of luck. You will need it. Mama- I feel your pain.

[@asheslandia4460]

@@Sunny-rk4vl she looked bad in the dress, she needed to be told

[@Em09221]

All the dresses she tried were fugly, and I see all the comments saying he was toxic and whatnot but when he said something negative about the dress he said “the bottom is a hot mess”, the mom on the other hand criticized the bride’s body “she looks pregnant”, “this one compliments her midsection better”, mom or not that’s fucked up and that’s probably why the bride wanted more people there.

[@asheslandia4460]

@@Sunny-rk4vl I have been told as such and I'm a heavy woman. I laugh and say "no but I do like eating for 2" It's also funny to watch the other person squirm. I prefer people I care about to be honest with me

[@lucybirch9360]

5:03 you can just make out bruises on her arms. Please look!!!

[@lucybirch9360]

Jennifer Jensen you can see bruises on her arms 5:03

[@Hakunapatakha123]

Not that I would ever fall in love with a person like that but if my fiancee would talk to my mother that way.....I would put him in his place!

[@lamar9331]

She's probably afraid of him. Bet he had an issue with her after the show.

[@stephaniehall2552]

Disrespect my Mom ,we have a severe issue and Mom show some restraint ,she loves him

[@ellenharutyunyan9726]

Ikr

[@melissawright1979]

Usually on this show, it's the mother or the in law who's being out of line.

[@mermaidmoon2254]

I'm Italian, anybody who disrespects my mom - even just with their tone of voice - they're as well as dead :)

[@bethsandoval5169]

Lori should really have a sign that says “No Grooms allowed in my shop”

[@kristenm4692]

“It’s nowhere near my style.” Did he just say that?

[@ccbean1276]

Yeah I just picture of him jacked up.

[@humaneleaguelancPA]

Very funny!

[@maryduka]

I was thinking well your not wearing it so shut the hell up!!!!!

[@s.b.7121]

Exactly! I would have said: "Excuse me, are YOU going to wear it?"

[@healingandhappy9262]

🤣🤣

[@akirakolappalainen3618]

My husband is 6 foot 5, and he would never dream of telling me how to dress.

[@rheannadehaven8090]

If he’s going to be that rude to her and her mom before they’re married. Imagine how much worse it’s gonna get😬

[@rachelgarber1423]

Ikr, I’d be curious how many domestic violence calls the cops get. I wonder how long it will take for him to isolate her from her family. He’s a hot mess

[@DerryPope]

I think every bride should take the groom along. It may save thousands in a divorce later.

[@itsjessicabae7024]

This guy is clearly overbearing and very egoistic. I believe he's still in love with his ex and only marrying this girl to get back at her. It's his way of staying close to her. Totally creepy. Throw the whole wedding and family away.🚮

[@snottiempofu3082]

Honestly

[@easterneuropeaninmexico3554]

I hope the bride never sees your comment. It may hurt her feelings.

[@roseannfox7871]

@@easterneuropeaninmexico3554 I think the struggle is like watching professional wrestling. FAKE

[@busyhockeymom1100]

Wow now that you put it that way, that is some scary crap. Sounds like a reddit video

[@chunellemariavictoriaespan8752]

Same conspiracy theory... I'll bet he'll forget about her the minute his ex calls, saying she's lonely...

[@meerkatsrock]

“I’m gonna be the winner”? He should pick out his own dress. What an obnoxious jerk.

[@Nicole-by3ng]

Oh males coming into lori beauty salon thinking they are gonna stay throughout the entire appointment. Adorable. Also can I say the real winner it seems the ex girlfriend married to the brother. Seems she escaped a mad man.

[@shirishasiri7930]

Exactly 😂😂

[@aplmao]

The only male exception for these consultations is gay best friends because they know style and are actually supportive

[@rikarogers7315]

Males come in all the time. Fathers, sons, and brothers. Not just gay best friends. It’s Grooms who can’t stay. Not men in general.

[@peacheskong2245]

I mean, isn't that a red flag on itself? The ex gf married her brother and then HE decides to marry Samantha...that on itself would be a bit too much for me..there's too much familiarity between them already and it makes me doubt his motives especially with his stank attitude

[@luciabrunette]

Run, bride, RUN!!

[@scarlettmcbride]

Guys, stop being mean to the groom. I can't keep liking them all 😂.

[@preciousgem6506]

lol

[@kimberlyarrington5721]

Same lol

[@tawanahawkins7855]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rainnabanes7538]

LOL literally me rn scrolling and liking every comment roasting this douche canoe 😂😂

[@birgitgschier8006]

They can't be Mein enaugh to a guy like that😅

[@adlihloetz7162]

That straight "Yeah, I hate it too" and "I wanna hear what he thinks" before giving her own opinion, plus the fact the mom says that she's easily swayed by the fiance just really says she doesn't have a good level of self esteem and she's gonna be a victim of an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship.

[@francesfehrman741]

He's not wearing the dress. He needs to go.

[@melreading5468]

The amount of red flags in that video... I lost count 🤢

[@applesauce7360]

Monty was fearless in this

[@robynbremner4007]

Monty was the saving grace of this appointment

[@oliviakate3528]

Yes I thought the same thingggg!!

[@kaitlyne1870]

Monte always saves the day! I love this version of Say Yes to the Dress! Though, Randy is also amazing! But I also love Lori!

[@ellenharutyunyan9726]

Ikr😂 Monty was like “Oh no you didn’t!” Omg love Monty 😂

[@Paulofibonelli]

“I really think we should boot him out” 😂

[@love.haylee11]

I feel bad for her. I feel like she’s the kind of girl who praises him just to keep him happy, but at the end of the day cries alone because he always has a chip on his shoulder.

[@naomigivoni5689]

"I'm 6'4, I'm gonna do what i want. No one is going to be able to kick me off the floor" means "I know I have a lot of physical power and I don't mind abusing that. Also I don't respect people and I'll do whatever to get my way." I really hope he doesn't abuse his wife, because he seems like the type of person who'd do that

[@SKC193]

Yes! He’s just like my ex husband!

[@joywebster2678]

Narcissist vibes for sure

[@amandasnider2644]

I'm not intimidated by him and I'm 5'2" because A: I have more brains and B: I'm closer to his weak areas aka: his balls. Once you take out the balls, he falls to the ground and I can then punch him in the face.

[@catherinewilliams3850]

He is already mentally abusing her, he tells her what to do, what she can or can't have.

[@catherinewilliams3850]

@@amandasnider2644 Me too, 5'2" and can't stand bullies, so know how to deal with them.

[@slantos2668]

who else thinks maybe he's marrying her to stay close to his ex? creepy as hell.

[@hiddenjem93]

Now that you mention it... maybe. That's not okay

[@cristinaestrella]

This already sounds like a hot mess 🤷‍♀️ hopefully she leaves him the moment she can

[@VadiseDeHanyou]

"it's not my style" ME: I'm sorry, Are YOU Wearing This Dress??!

[@snowinthecemetery]

"I like this-" "IT'S NOWHERE NEAR MY STYLE." Oh I didn't realize you were wearing the dress, dude. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 He doesn't love her, he loves the control he has over her.

[@asmrhalloween1998]

Yup.

[@quinnythepooh3003]

If he cares so much he should wear the dress 👗🙄

[@lovepaws9771]

Exactly!

[@giyavictoria3747]

Monty should said "we dont have that size for you " lol but kudos for them being so professional, they know how stressful weddings can be, and they're not family breakers, it's amazing how this crew makes sure no one is unheard, and they kinda saves the day before family drama get worse lol

[@wowenbhoen]

​@@shepherdboy9692 so if your statement is true then e.v.e.r.y. man is a twat.

[@rbekahlma2519]

Wait did anyone else catch that his ex girlfriend is now her sister in law? No offense but that’s just awkward and plain out weird .

[@cocokai9661]

Yep. I was wondering if that might be why he's marrying her. Her seems the controlling weird type that might go to extremes to stay in his high school girlfriends life.

[@pinkheart315]

Exactly! That was weird.😅 But in that photo of her sister in law and brother. Gosh that baby girl is adorable😍

[@barbaradufek9669]

»𝚛𝚎𝚋𝚎𝚔𝚊𝚑« Happened.to me, or maybe to my sister, Diane. Her now husband, Don, and I dated for a year. I broke up with him when I started dating my late husband. To make matters even more weird, his brother, Larry, was married to our other sister, Carol, . Carol and Larry are now divorced. He has remarried to the woman he cheated on her with. Makes for tense family gatherings.

[@rbekahlma2519]

Barbara Dufek dang 😳😳😳.

[@kanikagaral7637]

@@cocokai9661 I literally commented that then read urs. I agree with it.

[@jessicatamele145]

"Tell us what you think" "I wanna hear what Michael thinks" That's not what they asked for hun.

[@Sand1955]

"That’s a win in my book" It’s not supposed to be a competition. Scary.

[@LuzuraHater]

“Theres a saying that ive heard that rules are made to be broken” “The only thing thats going to get broken today are your legs if you stay up here” I LOVE MONTE SO MUCH 😭🙏

[@kaymcgarden]

I'd rather die than marry a guy like this. Run for your life girl.

[@Schulz1362]

She's oblivious to the fact that he's a narcissist. Run

[@cesd3023]

SOOOOOO many red flags with that groom.

[@em8059]

Controlling already and your not married yet 😱😱😱😱 let them have a mum and daughter moment 🤬

[@Angie-zk4ei]

She tried the same dress 3 times. They all looked exactly the same with slight variations 🤷‍♀️

[@aimee-analisanmiguel7356]

Angie yeah, what’s up with that?

[@sowhatphie]

My thoughts exactly 🤣

[@alisonmaria3639]

I think it's Because that type of dress compliment her figure. But the 3rd is the best. Peace

[@serendipit_y]

UPDATES: she did wear lori’s pick when they got married in 2013. they’ve been married about seven years now and are still married, parenting a couple of cute kids. she glo’ed up even more, looks great and seems to be doing well - just from fb and google

[@Haghenveien]

I hope that she being still married to him is good news. Although, I have my doubts.

[@lune78]

I only hope the show is scripted (I mean, come on, all reality TV shows are scripted) and that they intentionally made him look like a controlling douchebag, but in reality he's a nice guy. Otherwise I feel bad for this girl.

[@nasland38]

U actually googled?

[@oreotookie]

This was filmed 7 years ago? Hmmmm...

[@kavisundar1949]

They seem to be doing well because she says yes to everything he says and has no opinion of her own. Of course they have no conflicts and are leading a "happy life"

[@allisonjames2923]

When a bride can’t even offer her own opinion first but asks for his before giving her own, that’s scary as hell. I hope he’s not abusing her & isn’t abusing his proximity to his ex being part of the same family. 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 🚨 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨

[@jennb213]

Can we all agree that Monte is absolutely amazing? We all need a Monte in our lives lol

[@Kym_8002]

ONG

[@Somosogo]

Monte is the blessing we all need

[@jaclynsanture6643]

Yes, I want a friend as he is

[@savannahvick5266]

I think the dress is one of the areas where the groom and his opinion doesn’t matter. I think they should be involved in other decisions bc it’s their wedding too but not the dress. Especially if the groom is going to be disrespectful the entire time!

[@Nurah095]

“I’m 6’4” ok congratulations

[@eleanorcooke7136]

Congratulations, you're a twat!!! (The fiance)

[@rebecca8410]

Condragulation, your the winner of this Weeks challenge: dough in rough

[@dscjmc6513]

Still ugly tho

[@MandyJMaddison]

@@eleanorcooke7136 Please don't call him a twat! He is a prick!

[@virginiastevens3782]

This future wife will have problems between the husband trying too keep his wife from her mum. And separate her from friends. Not good.🇬🇧