Scenario Of A Bad Comment, How They Occur And Why

[@harveyyarbrough2830]

Lady Stokes, This is Harvey Yarbrough. I replied to your recipe of homemade dinner rolls. I drive a transit bus for Chicago and come into all sorts of people on a daily basis. I say that to say this, Do not waste your time with haters!!!! I love, love your recipes as well as wisdom. Keep up the great work and you and Mr. Buckey continue to enjoy your life!!!! May the Lord continue to bless and keep you real good!!!!

[@maryannsilverman5218]

Dear Phyllis, honey when I'm in an uprising all I have to do is go to your channel. You have the most relaxing voice and demeanor. I can listen to you all day long. I adore you, I wish we were neighbors. I'm sure I'm older than you ! I'm listening to you about negative messages. In my opinion they never have anything good in their lives so they try to irritate everyone else. I'm glad you don't let it get to you. God Bless you and Mr. Bucky too. I am from CONNECTICUT and a huge fan of yours. I pray for you with you're illness hopefully it will go into remission. Keep telling us you're wonderful stories. I just finished listening to your story about the deer hitting your new car. You certainly are a smart cookie to act angry instead of showing how really terrified you really were !! God Bless and keep you safe. MaryAnn

[@judyupdyke500]

Harvey Yarbrough ?^53., Hjfh

[@huneebunee]

Phyllis your beautiful .. thanks for the information.. I gonna do that in my KZbin channel.

[@GailGregg-p4o]

Me too sweet lady rip

[@moladhdodhia164]

Do you drive for CTA or Pace bus ?I just moved from Chicago and my Pace driver in the Suburbs went to the same Highschool as me,and a lady rider went to my Grandparents Polish tavern back in the day.

[@sandranevins2144]

Here's my two cents: just because I'm a Christian doesn't mean I'm a door mat. Also don't mistake my kindness for weakness!!

[@tundrawomansays5067]

Sandra Nevins Read the book decades ago when it first came out-I was maybe 7 at the time. Just goes to show some people may increase in size-and clearly increase exponentially in density. ;--) (Thanks for the Heads Up about a movie-hope it's as good as the book!)

[@joannhopkins1396]

Sandra Nevins , late to the game on this , but you go girl ! Totally AGREE with you !

[@janashockley8263]

Sandra Nevins exactly

[@huneebunee]

Sandra Nevins Sandra Nevins your right....that’s just exactly what And Phyllis is just a sweet heart ❤️

[@Beentherebefore1]

Sorry people are soooo ugly sometimes. Please know I just found you and I cannot stop watching your videos. I have only seen a portion of your great work. I am 68 and have cooked most of my life but I just love your recipes, your calm voice and clear instructions. I especially love how you keep it simple. The recipes I have tried are wonderful. How so very kind of you to produce these videos and we get such a benefit for FREEEE! I really appreciate your talent, ideas, methods just everything. If some people can't appreciate you wholly then they may just be off their rocker. Thank you, thank you, thank you. You are a JOY to follow.

[@RepentImmediately]

Personally, I like it when you get a little sassy. Keep doing your thing and pay no mind to the malcontent.

[@ellerybragdon5392]

I love this lady.

[@patriciaryan3232]

Me too!

[@bobbienicley13]

Is the ulna on the thumb side or pinkie side?

[@coralbishop7031]

Don’t answer these negative bums

[@fancysfolly554]

I like when she puts people in their place if they’re disrespectful to her..

[@mariclar53]

You are such a gracious and thoughtful lady, please don't waste your time on these losers.

[@mrbottomfeeder]

Folks its her channel. She can't please every one so enjoy Mrs. Stokes content. If you don't have something nice so say then don't say anything. Have a nice day.

[@deborahjellenburg4939]

Richard That's what my mama always said. She had a good point there too. Have a great day.

[@noellebailey688]

Richard. that's how trolls get their jollies...by harassing people. It's how they live and breathe. A good thing to remember is for someone to truly insult you, you must first have to respect them. A person leaving bullying comments to an obviously lovely woman who is taking the time to share her expertise obviously does not deserve respect; therefore, it means nothing. Phyllis, the pile--on you speak of is what I refer to as 'mob mentality' and it is for weak minded people. Keep on keeping on, Phyllis!

[@noellebailey688]

S Colter. Kapusta gwova

[@scolter4273]

Noelle BAILEY - Sorry, that was a typo!!😣😣 Sometimes my phone will act up when it is exposed to extreme sunlight.

[@brendastolecki4755]

+Noelle BAILEY Polish? lol

[@doccreed658]

Phyllis, KZbin is full of miserable people and fault finders who hide behind their computers and spew out negativity. Many of them are passive-aggressive and spiteful. Furthermore, there are cowardly people who try to get under your skin simply because you are successful and a Christian. I love your channel and think highly of you and Mr. Bucky. May God continue to shield you and prosper you. I can't tell you how many times your videos (testimony, devotions, edification, recipes) have brought me through dark times. Thank you.

[@SparrowStockwell]

Doc Creed I like how you said that Phyllis’ videos have brought you through dark times. She has helped my sister in the same way, and she is helping me.

[@joeywilson7549]

AMEN!

[@phyllispartonmarks8912]

I was raised old school..."If you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all"...nobody has time for trolls!...Way to go Phyllis!

[@peggyhavard1126]

AMEN🙏🏻, our parents also🇺🇸

[@barbaracrawford8079]

The only time I get disappointed are the days you don't have a new video.The person who had a problem with your celery washing,apparently never got a mouthful of grit from a veggie that wasn't washed enough. And so what if you and Mr. Bucky have a decent lifestyle,you earned it through years of hard work.I have learned so much from you. Thank you>

[@jo-anndigennaro9137]

you go girl. I'm glad you let them have it. you keep doing what you do. you are definitely loved.

[@denisebissell5875]

I love you. And respect you even more now that you said it like it is! You go girl!

[@CarolynsRVLife]

A viewer told me she found my channel because of this video - so, first thank you so much for watching and being a Friendly!!! (yay). and second, for mentioning me in this video. finally, - thank you for this important video. The types of comments you read are exactly what I've experienced. Isn't it amazing what people will find to criticize and complain about? (you wasting the apple and water and being told you're not a good Christian is just ridiculous). I just had a 'well meaning' commenter go through a 10 minute video and count how many times I said 'um' and then write a long comment about how distracting it is. LOL. I've learned to feel sad that their lives are so small and empty that all they have is their anger to hold on to, because that's what it is , internal anger, self-hate or jealousy they don't recognize and so much lash out at those who trigger some complex within them. Anyway.. this is too long of a comment. You rock lady.. Love your channel and subbed. Keep on being YOU!

[@PhyllisStokes]

Thank you Carolyn - what a nice comment. You are the one who inspired me to have the courage to make the video when you said "tough", I was so happy you did that I had to run the video back several times just to hear you say it again and again. You are just very pleasant to listen to on KZbin and I love the way you are always smiling and laughing when you talk. It's hard to believe how far some folks will go just to make an ugly comment. I greatly admire what you've been able to do with your channel in just a short period of time. Keep safe on your way to Florida.

[@grandmablue131]

Wow!!! Two of my Favorite u tube people, so over joyed with you Both!! (I wish to sincerely apologize for ill-mannered ill thinking Debbie Downer downers out there :( it's really not about who you are, because you're both wonderful..no it's the reflection on them needing being Prayed for, as they're miserable) I Love You Both!!!!

[@freddybarneburg6056]

Carolyn's RV Life 🐈🐈

[@lizasilomar8545]

Carolyn's RV Life Carolyn, are you the Carolyn who stayed with Jax the cat while Eric got his teeth fixed?

[@janetbrowning9089]

It might be a long comment, but it's a great one, Carolyn!! I don't know what it is wrong with these people today...i really don't...but, it needs to stop...I love watching all the cooking and baking and homesteading videos on KZbin, as well as some others too and it is depressing to see so many people nitpicking!! They just need to change the channel if they don't like something they are seeing. I know a few people were complaining about Phyllis using a spoon one time on here...I didn't say anything, but I thought, how petty can a person be...if it bothers you, change the channel...it's just that simple. Yall do a great job on here and I thoroughly enjoy all of yall's videos...keep on posting these videos, for those of us out here who are 100% behind you!!

[@Webefree59]

I miss you Miss Phyllis so much. You and Mr. Bucky. Without even knowing it you’ve taught me to be brave. Thank you. I know you and Mr. Bucky are enjoying being with the Lord. Bless you

[@still-jlynn]

You nailed it sister! God bless you & Mr. Bucky

[@fayharper6267]

Phillis, I say " YOU GO GIRL" . I watched this video , and laughed, and agreed all way through. I really like the way you think. In most of your videos you say ,this the way I do it. I really enjoy ALl the ones I see. Especially the old ones your Mother made , the product you buy and recommend. I've learned so much from you . I love the little extra things you tell about yourselves. Please don't let the nasty things these LITTLE people say influence you in any way. PLEASE don't change. If they don't like your comments , they can do as I do. If I see someone I don't like, I just delete them. I don't little myself by adding bad comments, after all ,that's your opinion, and you are entitled to it . I've been watching you for years, and hope to watch for many more .

[@huneebunee]

Great video

[@donsheerman4239]

Phyllis, More power to you. I stand behind you all the way. God bless you and Mr. Bucky. Don and Carol.

[@owaitress]

Girl, you are frugal. You are frugal enough with things that you were able to save enough for that copper chef...High five! Keep up the great videos .

[@patcox6945]

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[@eddydianne]

lose one gain two, I am a new subscriber, you have me, love to you and yours

[@roseyriver3921]

Me too! Subscribed after watching this video x

[@jakejames5639]

Phyllis, I'm so sorry that you have to deal with Internet trolls. Please don't let it get to your heart. One tip might be to deal with this responsibility ( Which everyone faces that has a channel and post videos) would be not to mention their name. Which you did, so proud of you and keep up the great work. Remember, they don't always mean what they say, they just take their anger out the wrong way. May God bless you warmly and often, Jacob

[@michellecloonanballinakill3449]

Totally agree

[@mollysmith6055]

Oh goodness, how awful that you have to deal with issues like this. You are so kind to take all the time and trouble to make a video to share with us that bad comments should never be tolerated. I'm sorry that you have to but glad that you delete them. Wow, how crazy that you have had to block so many people! Why do they all have the time to go and bother perfectly nice people like you? I don't know this reference personally but I've seen it plenty around the internet...you say, "Bye, Felicia!!"

[@gj9736]

Some people are just miserable and can’t help but leave negative, nasty comments which is sad in my opinion. Phyllis was very gracious in how she responded to those negative posts, much more so than the way I would have responded. However, there are no haters, bullies or trolls in heaven, so Miss Phyllis doesn’t have to deal with any of that anymore.❤️😊

[@jennifervinson2688]

"well..bye bye" bahahaha... she made me laugh so hard!

[@kimbibbs5700]

I am sad to say, I didn’t see this video until now, after Miss Phyllis passed away. I’m binge watching them now. I wish I had seen this video when she made it, so that I could have told her how much I LOVE watching her! Mr. Bucky too! The absolute LOVE they have for one another, is palpable!!! Miss Phyllis is so adorable!! I love the way she speaks, I love her wisdom and her sense of humor!! And it just cracks me up when she gets sassy😊😁😜when listening to her speak, she reminds me of my Mother-in-law, who passed away in 2005. She was a Southern Beauty also from Arkansas. Anyway, I’m so glad she did this video, she called the offenders out, and told them TOUGH COOKIES! and then BLOCKED THEM!!! I know she is right, and they are still watching!! Oh to be a fly on the wall!! Miss Phyllis, RIP, you EARNED your spot in Heaven!! God Bless you, You are the true definition of a Lady!!!👩🏻‍🦳👑🌹you are already missed by so many, we are heartbroken that you are gone.💔but we rejoice, knowing you are in Heaven!!

[@chrissttiiee]

Very eloquently stated. I'm binge watching these videos too. A very dear woman.

[@roselanemable3141]

Phyllis you look beautiful no matter if you have makeup on, or with your hair in a ponytail. true beauty comes from within, and you are beautiful inside and outside. I love you miss Phyllis. may God bless you and Mr Bucky.

[@madebyaprilanne]

I have learned so much from you! It's because you're frugal, I save money on groceries and food (because I freeze a lot more), that I can save money to buy better cooking vessels etc. I love watching you and Mr. Bucky :) I'm glad you are able to brush off the negativity. Don't change :)

[@elizabethmiles7733]

God bless you andMr Buckie

[@maryjemisonMaryjay1936]

Amen🙏

[@phyllisgriffith3782]

God bless you Phyllis

[@joannhopkins1396]

I would have loved to have had a mother like you, was adopted into a abusive situation! Nothing gets me down now ! Great husband 3 wonderful kids overcame it all......God Bless You and your family !

[@PhyllisStokes]

I am so glad you overcame the bad situation when you were young. The Lord has blessed you. He caught your every tear in a bottle and marked you for his own. What a great God we have.

[@mjkt00]

I have not commented before on your videos but this is one really made so happy to see you stand up for yourself and say what needs to be said. Good job! Thank you for being yourself!

[@Moonstorm0551]

I wholeheartedly agree and BRAVO!!! DO NOT feed the trolls by responding directly to their venomous comments. Instead, make a brand new comment of your own. "Replying" to these haters only increases their status on you tube. Also, Mrs. Phyllis, I recognize frugality when I see it since I can squeeze a penny so hard as to make Lincoln himself cry tears. After watching your RV restoration, I am convinced ......you make him sob bucketfuls!!! I appreciate your videos!

[@jillyincali8480]

Phyllis, please don't let these losers get to you. They are certainly not worth your time. I love all your videos and have learned so much. Keep up the fabulous work!

[@pastorflaps6819]

Please don't let the complainers put you down you and Mr Bucky have so many people who enjoy your wonderful programme's don't believe any of the sad People who have nothing of worth to say thay are just looking for a response to give them a feeling of power all of us in my army unit love your output and look forward to your new programs and we enjoy Mr Bucky very very much we even have a Mr Bucky fan club please continue to be your wonderful self

[@cindyn8196]

Don't listen to negativity! You are genuine and a great cook!

[@meatlady22]

Oh my goodness, Phyllis! I don't think you have a mean or bad bone in your body! I think the world of you, wish you were my neighbor, and my best friend. You and your husband teach and help me, and so many people with your videos, it is just beyond me that some people are so mean. I think ignorance is bliss, because they love to revel in their own stupidity. I work in a grocery store, and have for 30 years. I have seen all of those things you spoke about and so much more. I love you and keep up the lovely videos, and you did look beautiful on Sunday. Just beautiful!

[@gailgregg9133]

You are as sweet as pie

[@jeanbarraza5433]

I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody. Bill Cosby

[@gracielee4561]

I wonder at these "Christians" who are after you about judging other people. What exactly are they doing?

[@nancyspringer5178]

I love your show .unfortunately I didn't get to see you very long. I hope your family continues on U.tube. You will be surely missed.Love to your family.

[@michigan1291]

They are just taking cheap shots....hypocritically judging Phyllis and feeling very self-righteous! They must think a "Christian " is someone who meekly accepts any behavior from others...WRONG...go find others victims you can take cheap shorts at you keyboard warriors !

[@gracielee4561]

@@michigan1291 I miss her! First Mr. Buckey then Phyllis. We lost two great people!

[@cdjj5404]

Hi Ms. Phyllis I am a new subscriber I found your channel just a few weeks ago. First of all my condolences to you. I wrote a comment on that sad news video about Mr. Bucky😞. I am watching all your videos and love them all. Just watched this one. You are right those haters are still watching you under burner accounts and there is a good chance that many of those mean comments were made by just a few people with burner accounts to make it look like different people. You are an amazing person and you are a 100% right in everything you said. Be encouraged that your YT family loves you and we will be here when you are ready to come back on. I know there is a lot you have to deal with for now. Much prayer and love. 🙏😘😇

[@teresajudy7232]

I thought you looked pretty in the video on Sunday. Your make up was perfect. I wish mine turned out as well! But, my mirror is haunted. Everytime I look in it, there's this old gal looking back at me. LOL and remember - Hater's gonna Hate. Stay true to you!

[@PhyllisStokes]

I know what you mean about that old girl in the mirror - I try really hard in the mornings to avoid all mirror I'm afraid of that puffy eyed person looking back at me. Oh and by the way I sometimes think I can feel those wrinkles growing on my face especially when I'm tired.

[@teresajudy7232]

Nice to know I am not alone in that! I don't put on my spare eyes until I've splashed my face with cold water.

[@pam_jackson]

Ladies your not looking at it right. When I look in the mirror I figure I earned every one of these wrinkles. Some of them from laughing, some from frowning, but not one of them is exactly like the next. Yes even my wrinkles show my uniqueness. Aside from the fact that I've lived long enough to acquire them in the first place.

[@teresajudy7232]

Definitely a better way to look at it.

[@kskeber]

My grandmother always said you never feel any different inside, you just wake up one day and wonder who that old person is staring back at you! Age is just a number and way better than the alternative!

[@FoolyLiving]

So, so, so right. They get progressively worse and worse. They get 'too' familiar and think they can say whatever they want to you like it's their right to make you understand all their opinions about you. Lord, have mercy.

[@lindawood6404]

I love your videos and look forward to them. I have learned so many great tips & recipes. I enjoy listening to you talk because you're always so calm and explain things so well. I feel like I know you even though we've never met because you're so open & honest about your life with us. So, thank you for all your videos! :)

[@dimitylong792]

Linda Wood I totally agree just the way she showed how to peel a hard boiled egg was so helpful, I made 12 of the best looking deviled eggs and got so many complaints about them, all the thanks goes to her.

[@ednawarren1421]

Just because you are Christian doesn't mean you are a doormat....delete them as you please. Praying for strength and I do love you and Mr. Bucky!

[@granmarene]

Keep up the good work you know the devil has to work his way to discourage you , laugh 😂 and delete and block those people and go on doing the videos and blessing us that ❤️ you. God bless

[@alexandra_9818]

Lorene Padgett Amen, and, Phyllis darling, you're always one stunning silver fox & beauty queen inside and out!! I'm praying that God will give you, Mr. Bucky, and your family all the grace, love, and blessings, and I wish those nothing but those three and the best for your channel, husband, and family for years to come!! ❤️❤️

[@dian-yd5ud]

+bandlovergirl98 Your a sweetheart🌹

[@beccalopez3710]

Oh Phyllis... we love you!! There's waaay more for you than against you. Those same people who are so "opinionated" behind the safety of their computer would never say things like your describing face to face. I believe there is a name for them.... the name is coward.

[@cynthiaesquibel3191]

Too true! These "keyboard warriors" are a menace! They don't contribute anything to the discussion section except spite and poison. The modern take on the rumor spreaders we had to put up with before the Internet existed. I enjoy your videos, Miss Phyllis, you keep on making them, you bring so much to so many.

[@gdowe1393]

Cynthia Esquibel y777

[@RedKittieKat]

Miss Phyllis you are a riot. I was cracking up toward the end thinking of certain people tuning in LOL. I've often called social media comment sections a cesspool. I really try to avoid them most times. If I do get compelled to read I am always astounded at the amount of downright hatred typed out. You hit the nail on the head with this video. It has always perplexed me as to why some are so driven to be so darn mean and nasty. And it can happen to anyone. Once I commented on a news article on Facebook... it was literally " this makes me so sad" and someone from left field replied directly to me that they hoped I was sterile and couldn't produce more children like me. Well, needless to say that stung quite a bit. Probably from the fact that I never was blessed with being able to have children. I was so very upset .. then I got really mad. I know there is no way they could have known that. But, that's the problem .. you have no idea how badly you can hurt someone with your little keyboard tirade. It took every ounce of strength I had not to reply. I knew that would be giving them exactly what they were looking for. I've been a moderator and admin on many forums over the years. They all lost their popularity once Facebook, KZbin and Twitter took hold. But, our number one rule on all of them was "Don't Feed The Trolls" It's hard to do sometimes .. but well worth it ;) As for the rest .... Well, I had no idea there were as many ''experts'' in this big old world until comment sections. Some folks just seem to know it all from what to feed your cat, to what to dress your child in, to what medicine you put on your sore toe and if you don't do it their way .. you are wrong lol ... well okie dokie. Anyhoo ... sending a big thank you for all you do. I don't know if you get told this enough but, you have taught me so much. I can now at 53 finally make a decent pie crust! LOL and I just love reminiscing with you about the days gone by. As you said about Carolyn's videos I say about yours. I love to just listen to you. Your calming spirit and cheerful outlook are very soothing and your humor makes my day ♥ Be well dear Phyllis ♥ and keep on doing what you do :)

[@PhyllisStokes]

Your comment brought tears to my eyes - thank you so much. I think people who make nasty comments on the internet are just plain cowards and would never make those kinds of comment to a person's face - they'd be too afraid.

[@shopkinslpskidsplay8677]

I've had MANY mean comments sent my way, and sometimes sadly I dished them back. I make sure not to reveal much about myself online because it is used against me when I express particularly political opinions. I have learned it is just the culture on the internet. It is water off the duck's back. It cracks me up sometimes because I use a pseudonym and they call me by the wrong gender, lol.

[@shopkinslpskidsplay8677]

I've had MANY mean comments sent my way, and sometimes sadly I dished them back. I make sure not to reveal much about myself online because it is used against me when I express particularly political opinions. I have learned it is just the culture on the internet. It is water off the duck's back. It cracks me up sometimes because I use a pseudonym and they call me by the wrong gender, lol.

[@amyhawkins7140]

♡I Love your channel♡ The evidence is in my freezer with all my frozen smoothies;)

[@harveyyarbrough2830]

This is Harvey again, I just watched your reply to the Haters!!! Job well done!!

[@sunnyhill2250]

I'm praying for your full recovery and that you and your husband may have many more happy, productive years!

[@adamharris5520]

Been watching you for years

[@cherylmeredith2248]

Missing you and praying for you every day. I took a quote from this video and posted it over on your latest video, for those who do not understand why your family, friends, church members, neighbors, and even KZbin itself, have not given updates on how you are doing. I know how you are doing...you are wrapped in God's arms, and that's enough for me to know until we hear from you again. Thank you Phyllis. We have 7 years of videos to watch and rewatch!

[@AnthonyReichardt]

BRAVO, Phyllis, for always tellin' it like it is. Anthony Reichardt Santa Ana, California

[@drugtrader3933]

It has taken me 52 years to learn what you just said. Thank you for the confirmation.

[@natali9881]

I watch many KZbin videos but I love watching yours. You seem like my family and I feel so calm watching you cook or do projects. If I'm anxious I spend some time with Phyllis and Mr. Bucky.

[@jf9488]

Yes, I love watching these videos because they're very calm, informative and her cooking reminds me of my mother's cooking. Phyllis is full of great information.

[@jillbaxter8312]

Tuning in from Nottingham, England, love watching you cook, love the stories of your momma and how it was in the 50's, thank you x

[@annaadkins5377]

Do you think the man was hoping you would have hit him for insurance money?

[@vickig.]

Anna Adkins I think so!

[@carolecook1116]

A recognized technique. Junker cuts you off, slams brakes, you rear-end & he collects. Repeat. Junk car never fixed. It's what it's for.

[@LovingAtlanta]

👍😍@27:43-30:43 I loved her spirit and spunk!! She started moving her head honey in “a-that-matter-of-fact” kind of way and meant what she said!!! Mrs. Phyllis didn’t mince her words. She said “call a spade a spade” and she said “Christians have the right to stand up for themselves”. She meant what she said and said what she meant!! Gone but not forgotten. RIP Mrs. Phyllis. 🙏🤗💞🤗🙏

[@sharonnunn2572]

Love you, Phyllis! I've learned so much from you. I'll admit, I was a little taken back by the apology thing, but my first thought was not that you were being mean or unChristian, but that there must be more to the story. Being a Christian doesn't mean being a doormat and letting people step all over you. Forgiving someone doesn't mean excusing their behavior. I'm thankful that God put Mr. Big Guy behind you to keep you safe! Carry on, and don't let the haters get you down!

[@Diana-wg1tm]

Copper pots can be bought at Goodwill .lol and you can't get any Frugal than that. I miss her so much. I am so sorry that people have treated her so poorly. You can't get a better woman than her. She's beautiful , respectful and she's strong in her faith in God and she's very talented. There's nothing in her videos that are disrespectful to anyone. Some people just like to leave bad comments to feel good about themself. Some people thrive on unhappiness. I miss her !😥

[@dapage5]

Sounds like they're judging you. Just ignore them.

[@SP-up2xb]

A lovely lady....a calm soothing voice. She's gone now...and so is her husband. I enjoyed her cooking videos.

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi4113]

I do not put up with bullying, I REPORT AND BLOCK those nasty comments. I'm a Christian as well and I agree with you, ma'am!! God bless you!! ☺xo

[@emilyreno5562]

I made a comment about a singer, it was just my opinion, but I had people say awful things to me.... I had a person tell me I needed to lose another son, and they hoped I had another tornado blow my house away... it was so hurtful. I respect your opinion, and I love your channel. God Bless

[@yescandles]

I know that You Tube Celebrities have to develop a thick skin.....they shouldn't have to, but people are SO jealous, they just can't stand other people's popularity and success. Good thing you are wise enough to see through their shenanigans. I have to admit I made a negative comment on someone's channel the other day. I couldn't help it, he just got my goat so bad I couldn't help myself. It is a very popular channel where his little girl is very rapidly becoming a star! She has been on Ellen's show and several other places. Well this Dad ADORES his daughter. We all do. She is precious and talented. What got to me is he recently was gone on a trip. He brought his precious daughter back 3 gifts and his younger son 1 gift. I noticed, but it was not until his son tried to kiss him and he turned his face away from that child THREE times ! I replied that he should let that child kiss him and talked about my father kissing all his boys. It was none of my business, but it made me sad to see that little boy keep trying three times to kiss his Dad kept turning his face away. Of course one of his "fans" jumped on me and said "some men are not comfortable kissing anyone but their spouse, including their children". I said "well we wouldn't want anything to make Dad "uncomfortable". AND, it has gone on and on. I really dont care. I am not a troll, and it is very rare I leave anything but very nice comments, but this time I just lost my cool, and I am not sorry I did. He needs to know his playing favoritism is not OK, and you just dont reject a child's kisses! There may just come a day he would give anything in the world for them, and they might not be available. Sorry about the rant. I am losing it again just thinking about it.

[@tundrawomansays5067]

Oh honey, how I wish I had the gift of a parent like you when I was a little one/growing up. Maybe those other people didn't like your observation, but truth is too many of us come from horrible backgrounds. This may seem like a "small thing" yet to a child, our parents are our world. Thanks from a now old lady who will bear the scars of a cold, rejecting, skin-blistering critical parent to my death. That Legacy stops with us and how we treat our own children-in fact, *all* children. Bruises fade. Broken bones mend. Burns scar over. It is the psychological/emotional neglect and abuse that leaves the longest demands. Thank you for speaking up.

[@yescandles]

Thank YOU for this comment. I am so sorry you had to endure the things you did.....and miss out on a love that has been my rock through many years. I would have been lost without it. There is really no excuse....ever..in my opinion. Peace be with you~

[@mindmyown1]

OmGOSH this was HILARIOUS @ 4:10 Buh byee and waves 😂😂😂 Mrs. Phyllis is a woman of God, yes she certainly is. But nobody’s fool ♥️

[@jeanniefero7473]

Clever way to deal with bullies. Take a stand and delete them. I had "friends" like that too. Thanks for sharing.

[@goddessrenee]

Fantastic video Phyllis!!! I wanted to compliment your hair and makeup in the other video but you're always healthy and happy 😍. I also wanted to share that you e inspired us to travel in an RV when we retire in a few years. Keep up the great work of deleting the haters!!!

[@rennierad]

She was a wise strong beautiful women and I simply adored her,Rip. ❤

[@CashAndSpanglish]

There are too many people that think that us christians have to allow people to trample over us and abuse us, and that is VERY wrong. My Pastor says "you are a christian, but you need to stand up for yourself and defend yourself!" I am glad that you made this video, and that you have the courage to stand up for yourself.

[@JaeNiece55]

Thank you Phyllis! I agree with you! There's other you tube channels I like to watch, and they too block negative people. And I like that! It's a bummer to read a negative comment under somebody's video! I really love positive people and that's what we all want in life, is positive not negative energies around us! 👍💖🙋🏻

[@arliegage1380]

It's been 6 years since you left us!😢 I still watch your reruns, and feel close to you, and am delighted in your cooking and love your comments🎉

[@roselanemable3141]

Well put miss Phyllis. I couldn't said it any better myself. I agree with you, I'm a Christian too, and yes, Christians do need to stand up for themselves. I did enjoy your video. I enjoy all your videos. you and Mr. Bucky are a true blessing to me. thank you so very much for being on KZbin and sharing all your recipes, and opinions on your videos. May God bless you and Mr Bucky continuously.

[@54jeanmarie]

People will always judge. We know you are a good natured, good hearted woman. I am 63 & frugal too, but still learning little short cuts & cooking skills from you!! Be blessed in your day. Life is good.

[@judyblackman4468]

Hi Phyllis, I do hope you & Mr. Bucky are both well. Today is only the third day since I discovered your channel, as I watch a little bit from time to time. However, I soon came to realise that you not only do cooking & smoothies videos. All I will say to you, Phyllis, is ignore the naysayers! They are just in the world to take up space. Doing nothing with their lives but being a nuisance. That's one reason I don't listen to radio talk shows, where ppl call in to give their opinions on a particular subject. Many of them is like they have nothing better to do when the day comes! The amount of bs that comes out the their mouths the moment they open it is unbelievable, to say the least. I am appalled that ppl were so rude and unkind to someone such as you. Don't be bothered by them, dear lady. You keep deleting them! I would have been glad to have had you as my Boss Lady, back-in-the-days, when I was working. I would've gleaned so much wisdom & knowledge from your life experiences. As your other commenter so rightly stated; You Rock lady! You continue being comfortable in who you are! Do what your blessed heart wants. My regards to Mr. Bucky too. Love always. Bless up. Caribbean Girl.

[@plumcrazy57]

Oh sweet Miss Phylis, I just watched your video about bad comments. You spoke kindly and were so gracious. You ARE a GOOD Christian! I believe God wants us to let people know that forgiveness is not always necessary in every situation. We should not be tolerant when we are put unnecessarily put in danger. Driving a vehicle in this country is a privilege and should always be treated with utmost respect. He was not respecting you and the truck behind you! I love your videos and ever since I found you I have been binge watching them. You have motivated me to get back in my kitchen and try new things. Because of kidney disease I have to be salt free, gluten free, starch free and sugar free (I'm also diabetic). I also have broken (compressed fractures) my spine by falling, twice now (Two years apart). Recovery has been slow and I had really lost my zest for life and had become reclusive and depressed. Watching you has been very uplifting for me. I'm 68 years old... not so old... right? Thank you for being you and keep on keeping on! You represent so much to me and I'm sure to many others too. Hugs, Candy

[@PhyllisStokes]

I sure can understand how you had become depressed and reclusive with health problems. This much I know very well, God intends for us to reign in this life one day at a time. He intends for us to reign regardless of our circumstances because we dwell in the secret place of the Most High who watches over every detail of our lives. When I was at one of the lowest points of my life after I had anaphlaxis the first time and then it happened again and again, I felt like I just could not take anymore, this thing was going to kill me, my sister called and said I should read the 91st Psalm and put my name in it and read it everyday. So I began every morning reading that Psalm and putting my name in it by reading it like this, "I dwell in the secret place of the Most High and shall remain stable and fixed under the shadow of the Almighty whose power no foe can withstand. I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress, My God on Him I lean and rely, and in Him I confidently trust." This came from the Amplified Bible and each day I read it and finally got to the place I could quote the whole chapter without even opening my Bible. It took eight weeks before I saw a real improvement and I finally I made the decision I was not going to die because of being allergic and mostly I determined I would not go to the hospital in an ambulance again. This was what happened when I was 59 years old and I am now 73 and still do not plan to go to an emergency room in an ambulance because I can't breathe, it's simply not ever going to happen to me again because I do dwell in the "secret place" of the Most High. My prayer is you will find some help as I did, sometimes God heals over time and sometimes he does it quickly. My older sister is a breast cancer survivor ( she had level four breast cancer) it's been almost 15 years with no sign of cancer. She also had diabetes and it just disappeared, I could not even believe this one, but it was true. She eats whatever she wants now and does not take any medication for diabetes. I sure hope this will encourage you to live and let every day be a good day for you. Didn't mean to go on and on but your comment touched my heart. Take really good care of yourself, Candy.

[@onenessbaycity]

Phyllis Stokes- I want to say that after viewing this video, I watched your video on "Grocery Store Mishaps" and I have to say that I did not see anything wrong. There was nothing unchristian or rude... Keep on positing. Many of your viewers appreciate and enjoy your videos... God Bless

[@cathyslaton9998]

onenessbaycity ,she said she deleted bad comments

[@katburgess8533]

@@cathyslaton9998 I believe this commenter was complimenting Miss Phyllis, as to say SHE was not being unChristian or rude in the video itself,not speaking of any rude comments not being there. I can be wrong, of course, but maybe you could read it again with that perspective. Naturally, the commenter should clarify it for you themself, but just giving my 2 cents. 😁

[@jillrutherford6361]

You encourage me time after time. My husband and I go round and round about walking away ,or forget about it. I told him God gave us sense not to be abused, bullied or taken advantage. I told him that's how you live a safe life. I always believe if you dont speak, stand your ground the evil people will continue to abuse you, take advantage of you. This is at a work place, public,or in your own home. I have told my husband some of your stories. One in particular was you driving through the national forest/park when Mr.Bucky was trying to keep you safe and said not to go through it. Today I watched his video about Jacob's Ladder. It gave me encouragement at the right time. Jill Cooper

[@LovingAtlanta]

👍Just reminiscing. Cracking up. Yes, she nailed. I remember that Mr “Parsnip Burger” channel fella. 😂 ☝️BTW with all of his causing drama his channel still doesn’t have 2K subscribers in all of these years. Meanwhile, this channel has grown more than 50K additional subscribers in the time since Mrs. Phyllis posted her last video months ago. 😂 This was a good lesson. 💞

[@cecillegravelle2590]

same. I can't stop watching her videos. rip. sweet lady.

[@pixels2u]

Right on, Ms Phyllis, this is why we love you! A nice, kind woman can also be strong and clear on her values and maintain those values in her domain. Your channel is a nice place to be because you keep the riff-raff out. You maintain a pleasant environment where we can simply enjoy your videos and the comment section!

[@carlenevasseur]

Pile ons ! Haha Love that phrase. I love your channel & can relate to lots of things you video since I was born in 1950.........today is my birthday. Blessings to you & Mr. Buckie.

[@PhyllisStokes]

Happy Birthday to you and many more to come, you're just getting started on your life.

[@judilindsey5325]

I just plain LOVE you! I am so disappointed that I did not get to meet you. I think we would have been best friends. You are one of the kindest, compassionate people I know. You are missed every day from all of us who loved you. Thankful for your son who is keeping the tradition going. You raised him right!

[@angelinekeopuhiwa3253]

Love your videos, love your soothing and calm voice, I'm a fan, you are too kind, ignore the mean folks.

[@klhlloyd]

Mrs., Phyllis You are a joy in my life, my mom passed when I was 7 and you have a kind heart and soul. I learn so much from you. Be blessed. All the best to you and all you love.

[@nursekaren63]

Love your channel Phyllis, I found some of the stories very funny about your grocery store mishaps!! God Bless You!!

[@cshockley10]

My children (22 year old son and 16 year old daughter) have watched several of your videos over the past few weeks. We have enjoyed EVERY video. However, this video in particular prompted me to SUBSCRIBE to your channel. Thank you for sharing your genteel personality, kind-hearted conversations, and fun-loving day to day living. We appreciate and long for more people like you in our lives. All smiles ... Chadwick, Efrain, & Rosa.

[@lyndathreat1650]

Mrs. Phylis I truly enjoy your channel. I found it by happenstance. I’m learning to bake cakes especially pound cakes. Don’t let trolls and haters ruin your day. Keep on posting recipes. Thank you!

[@patriciaorsborn7165]

As far as frugality is concerned, buying an expensive but well made pan (Copper Chef), I've always been of the opinion that spending a few dollars more to purchase something of good quality is FAR more frugal with both money & your time than having to return to the store and buying a new cheaper lesser quality pan, but apparently not everyone has the same opinion or hasn't taken the time to sit down and really think it through. Keep on doing what you do, negative people who criticize without offering constructive feedback are not worth your time.

[@mommyj6745]

I love watching all of your videos, and I cook many of your recipes. Don't let internet trolls with a negative agenda create drama in your life.

[@GmaAlice]

I find most often that people don't know what they think they know and make assumptions beyond explainations. I feel you were justified in not accepting that apology. Your gift of discernment let you know he didn't really mean it. I haven't seen all your videos and am a recent subscriber yet I find you a refreshing channel to watch. I don't understand why people don't just move on instead of trying to sound important with their hurtful negative comments. I'm of the mind set to have a positive attitude and find the good in all things. You seem to stay true to yourself and I find that refreshing. I may not comment much but I appreciate the work you do to share the things you do in your videos.

[@marieince3239]

why are people so awful you are so inspiring kick those nasty trolls of your a lovely lady look forward to your videos love from the uk .

[@jesseniatellado5146]

Some people just never learned, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. I have followed that rule my whole life. It's so sad that those that make videos put themselves out there to either help or entertain others get such backlash and abuse from people who have nothing better to do with their time than to be so negative towards others. I am sorry that you have to deal with such sad individuals. As for the thing about you not accepting that mans apology, I know what you mean. I have had situations where someone has apologized and I know their apology isn't sincere so I won't accept. You can just sense when someone absolutely means something and when their just saying sorry because they want to get themselves out of the situation they're in. And you absolutely have the right to decide wether or not you will accept the apology. Kudos to you. This is why I love you so much. You say what you mean and mean what you say. No being around the bush and if you like me, fine. If not, that's fine a well. Keep up the great work.

[@cindyh8841]

I love your videos. I don't comment much but do click the "like" button a lot!. :) Take care.

[@1943ofour]

Cindy H I hit thumbs up as soon as I load the video.

[@jackiefrance3720]

Miss Phyllis I just want to say you are such a sweet lady and I live your channel and watch every day but I didn't gear what had happened when apoluceman pulled you over or had his lights flashing I want to tell you what happened to a cousin if a friend she saw in her rear view nuerie that a vehicle wurh a fkasgung light was behind her she pulled over unfortunately he was not a police officer but a person that had the light on his dash and was harrasin her she is a blonde young and cure well come to find out this dude was just out of prison and bought this flashing light on line or somewhere but she did call 911 and thus guy has stopped other girls and got them in his vehicle took them out if her area has been arrested for misleading a n iffucer and rape so she was lucky he didn't take her out of her vehicle and take her out somewhere I guess he is back in prison for trying to be a policeman and bdilt harn with rape

[@jackiefrance3720]

True story was in her towns newspaper and she put her scary inceudent on face book and went viral

[@jackiefrance3720]

Just wanted you to gear this true story about this young man

[@jackiefrance3720]

God bless you I keep thinking of you when you were so sick I wish you all the best of luck and glad you are are better well best if luck with all these negative people I love your channel ❤️ so glad you are handling all these miserable people with a grain of salt. Take care

[@rebekahfisher8585]

I just rewatched this. Phyllis was so ahead of her time with social media. Wonder what happened to Parsnipburger😅

[@karenhighley7597]

There are some very mean people out there, and I really try to stay away from them. And, yes I do love your channel. It is obvious that you are a good, kind, Christian lady.

[@Diana-yr8wp]

I hope your now feeling much better after being so unwell. Best wishes and hugs from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 xxx

[@lena5669]

Good for you standing up to people's nonsense!

[@maryannejordan6227]

I’ve been binge watching you for about a month now. All I can say Ms Phyllis is you really ROCK girl! I was born in 51. Grew up and still live in So. Calif., but my folks were Okies so I totally relate to you in a million ways. GREAT food always! Bye bye bow-tie to all those negative commenters! Keep all that Southern goodness coming my dear. xoxoxoxo

[@danaholland6391]

I love you Phyllis! Your cooking, tips, humor, and stories are helpful and entertaining. I have talked about you so much that some of my friends have started watching you! Just delete those crazy people!

[@deelb9462]

You are one of the most sweetest and precious person that I have been watching. There are alot of negative people out there but thank goodness the majority are not. I try to avoid those kind of haters because life goes by too fast. I'm 70 years old and certainly enjoy every one of your videos. After watching this I just had to add my two cents. Please keep making your videos and I'll keep watching. God bless you.

[@annahorton650]

listen I watch this sweet lady that crafts beautiful books and I just loved watching her . One day she came on with her team of crafters live and she was crying. Apparently she and her teammates had some haters that tried to ruin them. I was in shock. I couldn't believe that there were people that did this sort of thing. It was like adult bullies. I had no idea how ugly people could be. I don't understand why they don't just move along if they don't like what they are viewing. Anyway...thank you for spotlighting this problem. Hey I also follow Carolyn. She's great and now her and Bob are coming to Florida. Yeah.

[@Phyllyps-Levine]

You are a pure gentle soul and I always tell bullies what they think of me are none of my business. I am stunned that negativity seems to be a sport among social venues. Thanks for warming me about parsnipburger. I’ll not perpetuate his negativity and will not comment either way on his channel. God Bless and keep you, Mr. Bucky, your family and pups! I adore your channel!

[@dannyrolfe8953]

Your amazing, Mr Bucking is amazing and your channel is super!!!! Don't let these people put you off or down. Keep up your great work and sharing your wonderful skills. I have learnt so much from you, recipes and ideas. They just jealous low life's. They don't have much to offer the world except negativity. Xxx Much love and best wishes xxx

[@SliWolfette]

Miss Phyllis, don't let the haters get you down. I'm a fairly new subscriber, and I've watched a fair number of your videos over the past few weeks (playing catch up, if you will). I just love your helpful savings tips, your recipes, your anecdotes, and especially the way you share so many of your priceless memories, and your wonderful and loving relationship with Mr. Bucky. Much love and much gratitude to you. God Bless!

[@LisaErvine]

You just keep being who you are!!! God bless.

[@eileensheldon4708]

Steve this is for you, I came here very late GOD REST HER, 🙏🏻✝️ she is. True Christian God has her in his heaven with Mr Buckey.