SECRET SERVICE AGENT REVEALS The Surprising Steps To INFLUENCE ANYONE | Evy Poumpouras & Jay Shetty

Evy Poumpouras speaks to Jay Shetty about her commitment to learning how to read people and react in tense moments has not only saved her life, but earned her the honor of doing security for Presidents Bill Clinton, Barack and Michelle Obama, and both George Bushs'.
Want tips on how to read people’s body language or pick up on when someone’s lying, from a former secret service agent? Poumpouras shares spy tips that come in handy for any walk of life!
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[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“You never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice.” ― Bob Marley

[@gymnast2890]

Thank you for sharing that, you never know who you're going to touch, & you really made my day!! Much love♥️♥️🌎🌎⚡⚡♾♾🌞🌞

[@lindiwembatha7239]

I came across Evy yesterday morning, it’s 03:02AM and I have been stalking her since!!! What a BEAST! What a powerhouse!!! Wow😭😭😭😭

[@aprilrenaeofficial9668]

I just discovered her today and I’m doing the same thing!! Love her

[@veenalakshman4021]

Same here;)

[@Anubhatyagi11]

Likewise 🤪

[@Theinsomniac826]

Same!!!

[@dinky..]

Yeeeeeessss!!👏🏼👏🏼

[@aprilrenaeofficial9668]

“Open all the doors and see which ones stay open” love this!

[@sunnystarmoon2]

I am obsessed with her!! I have been letting my 11 year old daughter watch the videos I find of her and she is obsessed! What a strong powerful woman! Perfect role model for my daughter..and myself even. Evy if you read the comments... You are an inspiration. I hope my daughter and I can meet you one day.

[@anujagawali]

Me too after watching her on Women of impact channel

[@lovechallanges1608]

She's the WOMAN EVERY GIRL AND WOMAN WANTS TO GROW UP TO BE!! She's the full package. Beauty and Brains!

[@marcydickerson9088]

I love her, what the heck are these commercials in the middle of this?? I’d love to hear the conversation.

[@darkangel890]

Im 32 and I wanna grow up like her

[@EidosMotivation]

2 rules for success : 1.) Pain is temporary 2.) Time is important Victory is yours!

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

"If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." --John Quincy Adams

[@ernezaicha2047]

"We'll create a dream and then kill it within a minute" So sad yet so true!

[@Notwoke651]

I overcome and adapt all the troubles and obstacles in life with the full armor of GOD! Ephesians 6:10-18

[@kamu747]

Nice. I read it and I liked it, the armour of God. Powerful reassurances. Thank God for Prayer.

[@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64]

Amen!!! Then we are truly bulletproof!

[@AwakenThyself]

Just found Evy yesterday. This world needs this woman's voice and story more than ever. Thank you for sharing your life outloud and choosing to be so bold and powerful in your own skin. Bravo!

[@actuallyeasymindsethacks]

Evy if you're reading the comments keep making these videos. You are helping so many people you may not realize. So much love and power to you. Truly inspirational.

[@summerrain3966]

Whenever Evy talked about her childhood and how she grew up in difficult times, really made my eyes wet. I can't even imagine the things she went through, even thinking that self love is a luxury she can't afford, and all that tough training to be an agent. She's truly an elite. I've learned so much from her interviews. Appreciate so much. ❤❤❤

[@fatumaabdullah8213]

I really enjoyed this interview, so many takeaways. Thank you. Your Ego is your biggest sabotage. Everyone wants to be heard. A truthful person explains things. An omission is a lie, if you left it out its not longer the truth. You are the gate keeper of what you take in. In life are you a giver or a taker?

[@zes3813]

wrg

[@mamashanshan2772]

She truly is natural at reaching out and won’t take no crap. She’s very, very gifted and bold within, regardless her outward size, she has power and love within that so obviously helped many.

[@ladyaqua4544]

I am definitely ordering Her book and what a interesting strong lady.

[@samsungsaul978]

It's excellent

[@Misssashakelly]

I ordered it and love it! Let us know what you thought 🥰

[@ana-mariaalrasul9231]

Same here, I've come across her interview today and I've listened to it until the end which I didn't plan to but there was something about her that brought my attention.

[@buckmarkner]

I just got the book ,I can't put it down .

[@buddhichaudhary609]

Such a strong and interesting person/lady she is

[@melloed6164]

Evy Poumpouras is like that cool family member you'd always go to for advice and guidance. Got a problem with someone in your life? Listen to Evy! #AuntieEvy !! lol

[@anujagawali]

I came across her on Women of Impact channel and that interview was amazing so I am listening all her podcasts

[@DiyEcoProjects]

*Dear Evy Poumpouras* many thanks for all your great advice ... Ill review this video again. Im coming out of depression and learning to progressively move forwards by doing positive things. "Doesnt matter what you do, only state of mind matters". Love & blessings both of you, kieron uk p.s. It would be great if you had a Channel Evy, i think your advice is worthwhile

[@nicolespencer5296]

Jez Jay I respect you need to make a dollar but your ads are becoming so tediously long and banal that it’s hard to want to stay tuned...and it’s such a shame because you have great guests speaking about subjects I actually want to listen too!!!!

[@OuterSpacePeace]

KZbin Red is only 10.99

[@RosieOs101]

@@OuterSpacePeace The ads are done by him and they are imbedded in the video, so the ad plays even with KZbin Premium. I have KZbin Premium and I had to fast forward over his commercials.

[@OuterSpacePeace]

that’s so strange, i don’t have Red but i don’t get many ads. knock on wood

[@RosieOs101]

@@OuterSpacePeace 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@cw5451]

Fast forward is easy to do.

[@andreavanda4722]

So as she says, "there's different versions of us". Translation, she's learned how to project the image she wants because she's smart and well trained as well as a good actress. She's definitely savvy.

[@elenap2215]

She’s an air sign too very intellectual

[@anpetrovska]

@@elenap2215 which sign is she?

[@vacationeyes6430]

@@elenap2215 She never disclosed her date of birth. So we will never know. Besides, astrology is BS. There is no scientific proof that it works.

[@nadiajules6601]

Hey Jay and Evy!! My second best interview!! I love segment when Evy mentioned that we must be pliable. There are different versions of ourselves and we need to adopt and flow according to whom we serve. Love from St.Lucia.

[@MisterPol]

It's a new week. I hope you have a successful one 💪🏼

[@MisterPol]

Thank you Jay for inspiring me to film self development videos btw!!

[@sageartchannel3363]

I read people like they are transparent their eyes, their smile, talk, voice, my instincts tell all. Sometimes I just ignore as seeing all makes you alone you need to learn what is acceptable for you so that you can accept people. Eliminate others.

[@robertbates59]

Peppering your conversation with product endorsements segments will ruin your credibility and your brand.

[@Indy__isnt_it]

I just wrote very similar to your comment. I've lost interest in your presentation if Evy, going to find her elsewhere, not broken up by your nonsense I'm not interested in

[@zes3813]

wrr

[@bishto26]

Agree

[@mrmime4153]

lost me at that point, too. Too bad cause I really love listening to Evy.

[@cw5451]

@@mrmime4153 Just use fast forward. Evy is worth doing that.

[@melissawilson8548]

So great! I never know which way to go. The perspective she gave was point on!

[@lilynguyen4298]

I'm so thankful for your podcasts, Jay. And this is one of my favorite podcasts. Thanks to you, I get to know Evy who is an inspiring actionable woman. I just ordered her book. . I cried when she told a story about her dad. I can understand how well he raised her as a good person.

[@moulinahar9735]

This is the best podcast till date.. Gonna buy her book and Jay's too

[@kiaracummings7410]

I really appreciate this video. I’ve learnt so much. And I’m inspired by you both. Thank you

[@priyamvadaagarwal3735]

This is so good.... Thanks you soo much for sharing this with us

[@ligiasommers]

Already read her book and LOVED IT !! 🙏🏻💖🌷

[@MadeintheUK987]

I just ordered mine... can’t wait to read it!

[@Alinanais]

@@MadeintheUK987 Me too...can't wait for the book!

[@liz_A.5280]

She’s great and I hope she continues to do more videos.

[@bishto26]

Just finished Bulletproof!! I just love Evy! She is so inspiring. So smart. So beautiful. So driven. Great interview Jay! Thank you!!

[@divina363]

Is it me or is this lady mesmerising! Definitely getting the book!

[@shikastormcrow6224]

Thank you Evy and Jay! What Evy said about not letting the outside chaos enter us internally is soo very true, those stresses we are the guardians of our own gates.

[@riseyourvibration9669]

I’ve been watching your videos for a while and you’re definitely my favorite! You are so inspiring! I can connect to everything you’re saying! From immigrants parents and what they went through finding a job because of who they are....

[@JulieHiltbrunner]

She sounded so happy when she said “I work in television.” That’s awesome!

[@johna-s6757]

Wow Jay appreciate it such a wonderful & outstanding interview with best strong inspiration information.

[@donningsconsultingmanageme7130]

Wow! She's amazingly wise. A clear, coherent communicator. Thank you for this interview.

[@ReganHillyerCoach]

You must be the change you wish to see in the world.

[@christineelizabethhorner5829]

I forwarded past the ads and missed a lot of content

[@twize4916]

God knows how I love this woman! Very inspiring! Sending Love all the way from Malaysia

[@youniqca1489]

It sound smooth and from a place withy empathy. Got that 😜 I’ve been training this too! Don’t take everything personal it’s soft power! U don’t clash ppl in a hard way. What a tough and cool person we have here, all these uneasy experience build her up:)

[@taniagil3122]

So helpful!! Thank you Evy for talking and thank you both for the interview!!

[@cbpapp]

Evy is pure badassed-ness! I’m fan stalking her! She should write a full disclosure book. Disclosure is beginning already in the US! Thank you Jay for this video! All love to you, in oneness 🙏🏻💞🕊

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

Ordering her book. Beauty and brains 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@gab514100]

I think this is my favorite interview with the amazing Evy! Love both Evy and Jay!

[@diannesimms1684]

Evy, I totally agree with your mindset. I felt the same way as I was working many jobs, and trying to figure out what I wanted to be.

[@HealingIndigoMoon]

This woman is such a positive role model, love her!!

[@magdakwiatkowska]

"we get to where we want in life, just not the way we thought we would" - oh I so needed to hear it!

[@MoonLight-gm6zm]

I truly admire Evy! She's such an inspiration.

[@JasonSilverstein]

This was surprisingly good! My biggest takeaway is that being in stressful situations is good because it builds up your resilience. This is something I really needed to hear today!

[@alignwithsource]

Why were you surprised?

[@titidelponte4122]

I just love Evy!!! Thank you for your strength!

[@kimgibbs6585]

Hello everyone. Evy is a great advocate with tons of information.

[@fatimahpervez6483]

Adapt to stress,this was really useful!

[@kirstenlewis3556]

I have a flight across the country so I just ordered the book... cannot wait for it to get here! I have listened to 4 different interviews of Evy this past week. She is an inspiration. I have much to learn.

[@sdla690]

Did the book help you to manage your fear? I always wanted to take road trips but I m struggling even with daily driving..

[@addireign7997]

she is incredible. i need to buy her book.

[@cheshtajain4564]

Best session 💯

[@sugarlipps3710]

Thank You so much for the information ℹ️

[@kashmimuthukuda]

Your simply incredible Evy. So genuine, so inspiring especially when your speaking based on your life experiences.

[@mxsharkgang3246]

I followed eve for years. I wanna be her when I grow up😆. Definitely my inspiration. Great vid!

[@mariemcleod46]

So real and so inspiring💛

[@crystalari9928]

Evy is definitely one of the main woman i admire and love to learn from. She is absolutely incredible. I am so thankful for her sharing her knowledge.

[@rajbirbal9613]

I appreciate her hardwork

[@annmuse5718]

I pay for KZbin Premium to get ad-free viewing. I am very annoyed that you insert ads in this video. It is disrespectful of your viewers. It is also sneaky and not what I expected of you, Jay Shetty. Please reconsider and stop doing it. Or is money so important to you that you don't care about the rights of your followers?

[@gaurangsharma9447]

Bro this guy is putting up such a valuable content but his views are not much... In his podcasts...😬tell me how will he buy breads for himself 🤔

[@Indy__isnt_it]

I quit watching, better things to do with my time if I want to waste it

[@Indy__isnt_it]

@@gaurangsharma9447 his approach is wrong, he's not connecting to any audience. Without an audience, you're correct, he will not make money and ultimately succeed in this business.

[@cw5451]

@@Indy__isnt_it You don’t want to fast forward?

[@energypositivestockholm4431]

Thank you, Evy and JAy We would be grateful for any information, and if exists, about where to find "Secret Service Agent" training camps, not specifically for professional purposes but for personal development and experience.

[@mayisintheair]

So inspiring!!!

[@TK-ex4uk]

U r soooo amazing! Thank U 4 being u!♥️

[@blisswkc3344]

Thank y'all so much dearest 🌹 Y'all such an inspiration 🥰 Appreciate y'all from the bottom of my heart 💖 Be Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈

[@danad401]

Evy is amazing!! I absolutely love her!!

[@silviastoyanova3477]

Please place your advertisements at the end of the interview, otherwise it ruins the flow of the whole interview and it interrupts my focus. Still thank you for giving us the opportunity to listen to such a positive role model Evy Poumpouras is!

[@madhurichakraborty1254]

These life lessons ,thoughts and tactics are really bulletproof.( I liked the share :Unplanned things take you down to the path to work hard and get success )

[@subhadas7313]

Ability to adapt is the key learning which must have to succeed, qts is how to control ur reactions to stress and sharpen ur'ability to adapt'

[@elliem5076]

45:00-47:43 really resonated with me. This is powerful stuff!

[@valvrj]

I like the transparency and ease she speaks up. Body language is all when it comes to reading people's intentions.

[@andreavanda4722]

It appears to be transparency but it's really an image that she's projecting.

[@valvrj]

@@andreavanda4722 I've seen her in interviews before and she comes across quite raw. Just my personal opinion.

[@buckmarkner]

I'm in awe , she trumped my bs fears , such truth and liberation from my mental prison .

[@AmandaLyonsMusic23]

She’s so awesome.

[@TiffanyShanell]

“Open all the doors and see which one stays open”

[@davewelbylivinginhistinyti4796]

It's better to have followers than want to follow naturally, then striving to be an ambitious leader to command power..... power comes naturally. Love to all and learn to know and acknowledge your own power, the power of nature 💛

[@rose99336]

Wow.. what a woman! 💚 you're my inspiration Evy

[@FaithFilledHomemaker]

awesome interview!! new subscriber 💜

[@CosmicHealingGoddess]

She’s an amazing woman and an inspiration ♥️💫

[@sharonb6751]

Oldest and most elite guarding service is the Swiss Guard and not the secret service. That being said, I love how this woman composes herself and can’t wait to read her book.

[@elena-251]

Wow I absorbed the whole conversation with incredible attention, I took notes ....

[@RMFeminine4TheWin]

*1st TIME WATCHER/NOW A SUBSCRIBER* 👀 *BUYING BOOK AS A BDAY PRESENT TO MYSELF* 🎁🎂📘 *THANX FOR THIS AMAZE INTERVIEW* #LovesIt 😍

[@jaseayathorai3762]

Evy is the best and has the best understanding of human behaviour and the need to adapt and vary the style of interacting with people.

[@SanctuaryVibe]

Great interview, Hey Jay, you say in all the interviews that you'll put the links to the person you're interviewing book. But none of the last 4 interviews have links to the books in them, for the person you've interviewed. Love it if the links are included in this and future videos on You Tube. :)

[@UrsusLumina]

Very interesting! She knows exactly when to bring out the soft side. And she also knows where one has to look, when they are speaking from memory. And she uses both these skills in this video so subtle that you almost believe her. Skills - she got 'em.

[@andreavanda4722]

Ursula Eesti Exactly what I was thinking. She's very well trained. How you can see that it's learned behavior on her part and not natural, is that there is cognitive dissonance between what she is saying and the way she looks. In other words, her appearance and her message don't match and the whole time your sixth sense is telling you something doesn't add up here.

[@karenherbert1410]

"Almost believe her"? Are you saying she isn't speaking from memory?

[@karenherbert1410]

@@UrsusLumina So you're saying that what she has gone through and her experiences are different than some of what she says? If so, I would be interested in hearing more. 🙂

[@behappyliving2549]

Great interview, I love Evy, already bought the book, and I am half through it, but these advertisements in between are really annoying ( I get it they are sponsors but still....) 🙄🙄

[@moniqueflores9467]

I agree!! They’re too much 😓

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

I fast forward the video to skip the ads. Works like a charm.

[@andreavanda4722]

I agree! There is such a thing as too much capitalism.

[@misse2013]

She brought tears to my eyes as she told her story... her parents... the journey to her career... That sometimes life doesn't turn out how you thought it'd be, but it's usually for the better. 💖

[@Luna-luna909]

So basically, she is an INFJ who had figured herself and life out. 👏👏👏👏👏

[@Oyuki-Mayonesa]

Haha. She reminds me of of me. Then I see ur comment. I’m INFJ.

[@Dani-jo9yr]

She gave vibe of strong ENTJ to me🧐😉

[@andreavanda4722]

Right, and also because she's smart and educated and well trained.

[@hibahadjadj508]

looks entj to me

[@karenherbert1410]

Definitely ENTJ

[@juliogio4622]

Lmaooo i love her. Her rebuttals were great

[@rcz2023]

Thank you!

[@tarasdiary2735]

Tnqqq jayyy

[@raisingelephant]

Excellent interview and an inspiring life experience.

[@anniepurcell844]

Jay WHAT AN OPENER👍. THANK YOU. ONCE IN A BLUE 🌚DIVINE TIMING. BEST ALL! A😎

[@clamisland331]

Awesome!!

[@shajiakhan3112]

She is the Example Just adora her speech,her personality , I can listen to her speech hour N hour ❤

[@joshow3315]

So disappointing there are so many ads and marketing advertisements that Jay is doing now. I still loved Evy and the video content regardless..just not fully a great watching experience.

[@andreavanda4722]

Yea, sincerity wanes at the 10th commercial.

[@zhak1054]

I felt exactly the same way, can’t stand the in commercial ads, I’m not paying premium for ads

[@beatricealbert2957]

It's about influencing and I believe Jay was true to the title " How To Influence Anyone "

[@TheMirageQuest]

I’m not sure he ever had sincerity since he partly became famous by plagiarising other people’s work and never apologised for it. I love evy though.

[@sshramko1]

Annoying to pay for premium but now still have to listen to minutes of ads... atleast put time stamps!

[@Amanda-zt9mw]

Evy is strong, resilient, self-motivating, positive self-talk, empathetic, and understanding; Evy is a leader by model

[@manojthakor5785]

thank you sir