See what South Africans are doing to Nigerians (with proof) | Reaction video

[@kaizer8058]

Sis Chitu I'm really sorry that you and Nigeria as a country have to experience this kind of barbaric behavior from some of our country men. You know I pray that one day sooner than later both Nigeria and South Africa will come to understanding and appreciation that we brothers and sisters and must love each other in order to conquer this beast that has since developed within some of our people due to misdeeds of just few. I really would like us to never stop preaching love and truth in order to change the rotten narrative that has plagued the minds of our people. We need to find love for each other and there is no two way about it - there is no option at all - we just need to find that love. If we belief that no person is born with hatred then I want to belief that by preaching love in our majority will definitely be detrimental to this monster of hatred within some of our fellow country men. You know even if the guy who recommended Nigerian food was Nigerian citizen it would not have made it any wrong to do so. I mean common sense tells me that any person would recommend what he/she likes to another person. It is wrong that people should expect any person to recommend anything connected with that country by a mere reason that you reside in that country. You know I've heard numerous South Africans in USA preferring/talking highly of South African food and guess what, it's never a sin or offensive to Americans. I really hope maturity will find people who wrote those comments cause the current trajectory is not right. Take care Sis. You will always be loved and do not allow timid minds to spoil your stay in this country. If you want to call South Africa you home then claim it. After all the country of your birth should not be the tag upon which to fear to disclose what is close to your heart. Enjoy your life in SA and enjoy it abundantly.

[@ChituDiary]

This is so deep👌🏾👌🏾😭😭

[@BisoyeAkinwumi]

Very well said!!! Thank you

[@olabisimaryoluwafemi4132]

Well said👏👏👏

[@BDC_Leo]

Thanks for this

[@thecocomama]

This is so embarrassing and upsetting to watch..No Nigerian will call Egusi Bussy..I hate when people judge others wrongly

[@SPrincessbeneficialknowledge]

Yaay shes back 2 weeks off❕😭 Missed you. Looking lovely in mustard colours You came with receipts lol

[@ChimmaFrancherry]

It is really exhausting atimes Chitu but Don’t let it get to you Sis , We focus on the good people in our circle✌️

[@thecocomama]

That guy sounds 100 % Kenyan biko We move sis

[@ChituDiary]

We mooveee and focus on special people

[@julietambali]

Egusi is a general meal. No Nigerian pronounces it like that. It’s sad to be slandered. We are one Africa. Let’s treat each other in love.

[@ChituDiary]

Yes girl

[@cogolden7408]

Why is Kenyan driving taxi in South Africa in the first place?

[@nomathemba8688]

Is it a crime to drive a taxi as a Kenyan in South Africa??

[@ayobampilo5762]

​@@nomathemba8688Is driving a critical skill in SA

[@ngmn5402]

You made me feel the pain. We who have ears have heard. Its enough. South Africans lets love each other regardless of nationality. Chitu, i love you.

[@neomontja71]

What I need to understand is who does this person refers to when he/she says "we South Africans" because I am not part of that. I don't have hatred in me. It's a very heavy emotion to carry within my self. Secondly why hate innocent people merely because of their nationalities? Some of this people are just psychos exposing themselves on social media. @Chichi I love you baby. Never ever forget that ❤️.

[@soyeade]

It was actually very obvious. The guy said "THEY call it Bussy" If he was a Nigerian he wouldn't say "they" but he would say "we". And NO Nigerian will ever pronounce Egusi as Bussy. It's a very popular dish.

[@Lukho_M]

Meeehhnnn as Africans we are divided 🤒the unending argument about who is better between Nigerians and South Africans is so exhausting!!! Anyway love you sis ❤️.

[@trayway3014]

That "where is trump " part is funny lmao🤣😂😂

[@ChituDiary]

Clearly the cab guy is living in the past

[@tshabalalaabel8722]

Lol they want SA to look dirty like lagos and Abuja for them to Aceept SA as Afrcian country.

[@YT-xk5jl]

What has all that got to do with the video?

[@sesethumadikane158]

You have every right to feel this way, it's really sad. Missed you Chitu ❤️❤️

[@ChituDiary]

I missed you chomi, how r you❤️

[@sesethumadikane158]

@@ChituDiary Am good thanks, unjani wena? 🙂

[@philansrealitystories]

Like seriously this is really embarrassing 🥺 you have every right to feel sad about what is going on 😥by the way welcome back and also you are looking so beautiful as always 🥰... thanks for sharing sis 🥰

[@ogomsseries]

Some certain set of countries ready to drag Nigerian thinking they are so perfect. Vanity upon vanity,you will still leave this to be with the maker.

[@ChituDiary]

This is deep nne

[@siphotrans3328]

I am embarrassed at this behaviour, just be rest assured like you are saying that real South Africans don’t do this, we have what we call “Ubuntu”. Chitu we love you for being such a beautiful soul showcasing my country🇿🇦🇿🇦💯💯

[@lamode4113]

What about us Zimbabweans that being insulted and called kwerekwere by some of the people we share borders with just look at how they call us names without remorse because we come to search for work

[@vat.2110]

Couldn’t have said it any better 💔💔

[@ChituDiary]

Thanks sipho

[@lilmoney9119]

@@lamode4113 sis don't mind them South Africans are biased set of people full of envy, jealousy and hate mtcheew much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬

[@Subdue-Replenish]

Please do away with negative vibes, sesi!! Remember, non of those people who've reacted negative have been to surrounding provinces; ¾ of South Africans do not have passports, or haven't been out of the country.

[@ChituDiary]

Thanks my dear❤️

[@nobodymapulaneng8834]

Ignore those idiots , love your videos

[@cherishedoliviaTV]

Well said sis! Well most people just display hate, for no reason, some do because of already existing bias, others do for God knows why, but it’s well. Not all Nigerians are bad & not all South Africans dislike Nigerians 😀, we move !!

[@realsebsworld3004]

Samoosas and Asian rice are South Africans because we have Malay descendants in Cape Town that is their delicacy.

[@YT-xk5jl]

No these dishes are still Asian. Just like Pizza will always be Italian

[@sebolelofelicia]

My sister your anger is valid. I am so sorry. We are one❤

[@pijopijomgazi7457]

That is not Nigerian accent . This is so embarrassing and its getting out of hand . . Not all south africans are like that ... i can feel your pain 😞 so sorry you have to go through this

[@ChituDiary]

Hey lover

[@BuhlebzNetwork]

I'm a South African who like to read comments section I don't usually respond when I see my country under attack for no reason from our fellow African Brothers and sisters I even tried to check if there is any South African who responded only to find there's none instead you will find that is another Nigerian who will defend us from another Nigerian attacker I'm sure if it was you on your video defending South Africa to your fellow County man who was saying South Africa was built by colonizers and someone came and said Nigeria is built by Lebanese and Chinese if it was your video in Cape Town you can check it and correct me if I'm wrong and there is a number of them where there is video about a best what whatever in Africa and SA came top you will see the attack, so this beef between Nigerians and South Africans is big I even heard President Ramaphosa talking about it to President Buhari "unhealthy competition between Nigeria and South Africa " in a recent visit to Nigeria this thing is not the internet thing but it's a real thing happening in a highest level even in business.

[@ChituDiary]

I watched the video, it’s so sad. This thing must stop. It’s so unhealthy imagine me having hate for a South African and I am living here I will never be beautiful because I will always have an ugly face from frowning shem

[@TheChichiShow]

I am glad you are back beautiful chitu❤

[@ChituDiary]

Thanks sis❤️❤️

[@trayway3014]

Samoosa is south african dish, coz we do have Indians who are south african thou. We adopt each others culture whether you black, white Indian south african. Myself I cook south african Indian dish as long as it nice

[@ChituDiary]

It is but it’s originated from India, even though Indians naturalised here, but I don’t go out to eat those or even make them. When I want southy food I know I want to cook steam bread with chicken feet or tripe or pap.

[@trayway3014]

@@ChituDiary I don't go acording to colour, race or ethnicity, if something is nice I cook it. I have Ghanaian roommate he taught me how to cook Jollof rice becoz it is nice, where it comes from doesn't matter we shud embrace each other without Prejudice. If something is nice it's nice n it's not going to change becoz of colour race, ethnicity, or nationality.

[@YT-xk5jl]

Well prejudice or no, still an Asian dish. Just like Pizza is Italian

[@peterapril2147]

Chitu we love you, and we South Africans are good people, and most of us are very welcoming to other nationalities

[@maphahalearn181]

Such comments will always be there Chitu and you must learn to ignore them. I love you Chitu and I strongly condemn xenophobia in any form stay strong and know that we love you here in SA. The same people doing that are the one behind tribalism within SA.

[@ChituDiary]

You are loved❤️

[@geekgrill4996]

By the way you have 99% of people in this channel that love and appreciate you, and understand you without some developed perspective given to them by someone, and that 99% for me is doing okay, without the rest of those who always have negative emotions. They are people that will never ever experience the world, because the don't understand it, the diversities that exist. They will never have to experience it through other people's eyes, they I bet will never even consider traveling and understanding different languages and regions, because diversity to them is one that only exist in their backyards and in the things they know and are comfortable with.

[@ChituDiary]

True geek❤️

[@victoryactivitiestv]

Nigerians are everywhere making it happen ,so they should welcome us ooh,nice one for sharing

[@Mel-ov8kd]

I doubt that the Uber driver is SAcan

[@t-jay3589]

Hey Sista,as a South African I am just as frustrated with this internet beef between SA and 9ja.The reality is both sides are too blame equally and most of these ppl are just a bunch of internet trolls looking for clout.You always have such passionate and beautiful things to say about SA and trust me your passion is breaking down a lot of barriers between our 2 countries.Most Nigerians are hard work honest ppl and its the criminal ones which gives them a bad reputation. We love you and Nigeria...

[@viviantvgist]

First sis I love your look

[@ChituDiary]

Thanks love

[@JostleMedia]

Chitu Chitu my sister calm down. I'm South African I don't hate any of my African Brothers and Sisters. I wish one day Africans can unite and work together

[@ntombi3171]

Love you so much Chitu and very much a South African💖💖💖

[@thabangdiokana9886]

Dnt stress about people who are filled with hate believe me they dnt represent the masses of our people, dnt even pay attention to them

[@ChituDiary]

I don’t anymore, the love outweighs everything and it’s a green light that we shall overcome

[@gebamedia]

Don't mind them, every house has its own fool. Continue doing what you're doing . Focus on what it's right, Don't let it get to you SA loves you .Much love ❤

[@cookingwithphindile4525]

Volume please💯💯

[@madokodoko1612]

Hey chitu i'm one of your top fan but i wasn't able to comment😊but by the grace of God today🥺 i like how you give out intution about south africa❤i wish to meet you oneday🤠❤You are my fav Celeb❤🇳🇬Love you all the way from Southern africa🇿🇦

[@ChituDiary]

Love you madokodoko❤️

[@madokodoko1612]

@@ChituDiary Replied?OMG🥺😭😭😹😹i'm speachless,Thank you🍢🥰🥺

[@silakhileisrael9937]

So there are real South Africans 😂😂😂😂😂This is too much

[@yonellalitshethu7135]

I totally agree with you Chitu that accent it is not Nigerian

[@asandasukazi7198]

We have missed you Chitu welcome back. Decolonise the African mind self hate is deeply rooted.

[@ChituDiary]

Sweetie wam, I missed you too🥺🥺

[@khanyisakhosa6315]

South African and I love fellow Africans, that one is a rotten potato. Love you Chitu

[@ChituDiary]

Love you

[@katlegomoatshe1312]

Are other Africans united in their countries? Zim army slaughtered Ndebele people, Cameroon they fight, Rwandan genocide etc. Why pick on SA?

[@Mibiafolabi]

We already know these opinions do not represent that of the larger public, so we are not moved. People need to understand that this is 2021 and anyone can choose to live wherever they choose to. It is even a plus when they are upright and earn a honest living, directly and indirectly contributing to the good and economy of the nation at large. Go to other people’s countries too if you want to retaliate 🤷‍♀️ Simple!

[@ChituDiary]

This is apt👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

[@MsDeevah3867]

It’s annoying Babe but just be calm we all gonna get to where we meant to get to. Roadbloacks from the negative vibers have never stopped us and it won’t. V got lots of love for South Africa and South Africans but we just have to keep living and loving. One Love We Move

[@MsDeevah3867]

I remember on Chimma’s LiveStream I called someone out for insulting Nigerian Food but heh have had it up to here with those guys just doing what they like. Those ones that do that nonsense I wonder how they can proudly say they are South African, anything they don’t even want to know the Revelation all they just do is attack people for no reason. It hurts but heh have had it with those few who always wants to keep defaming and slandering.

[@ogomsseries]

Good to have you💃💃💃💃💕💕💕

[@tmksouthafrica1028]

Chitu, your Parklands video fell victim to the disinformation that Nigerians do better than South Africans in SA. So people took it that that's the impression you were trying to create. If u follow anti-SA conversations online especially from Nigeria, you'll see that's the general belief so it's only natural that South Africans would think you were pushing the same narrative with that video and hence blast u. You seemed emotional at some point in this current video about the Uber driver - sorry bout that hey, you're very cool person! But the reaction from South Africans stems from the same argument I made above - that Nigerians would take every little opportunity to try outshine SA. I don't think it's isolated troublemakers making these comments - it's a genuine belief in SA.

[@ChituDiary]

Those videos I made and especially that one is what gives me joy, I lived in parklands in early 2017 and the diversity of foreigners there is huge. I guess it is what it is like you said

[@tmksouthafrica1028]

@@ChituDiary Sorry again that u were misinterpreted. It's clear that you ❤️ SA and South Africans, it's obvious for everyone to see. Rest assured that those that know u will defend u.

[@cynthiaboateng431]

South Africans are lovely. I like Nigerian's Egushi, it's lovely. Don't worry darling, people just want to tarnish people's image, but we love and cherish you alright.

[@ChituDiary]

Love you sis

[@mixedtraveler3585]

I'm so sorry about that...please stay here ...I apologize for that person's lack of sense and respect. I'm sorry

[@zephaniamavhunga2382]

Don't worry sister about the ignorent people

[@RatieM64]

Nevermind Chichi, some people are self-loathing and we cannot help it. If you look down upon an African person as an African it reflec the value that individual attach to themselves. Let's correct something though the Malay cuisine is equally South African. We are a very cosmopolitan country. When in the Western Cape the cuisine becomes different. I spent 3 years at UWC for the most part the diet was more Malay, the sweet /sour, fish, curried stews, that rice with lentils, meat. Gatzby and stuff. When I visit Cape Town I always look forward to that cuisine. It is the same when visiting Durban, you looking forward to the Durban curry and so forth. So the food recommended to Cooper was or is South African. It reflects the multiculturalism of South Africa.

[@YT-xk5jl]

Nope Asian food is Asian food. Even in East Africa, in Zanzibar, Arabic foods are Arabic food not Tanzanian food. You can delude yourself about this rainbow nation but let’s be real here. Malay food is Asian food and hardly South African

[@lesibamashaba3898]

Chitu you are burning 🤣🤣🤣

[@ItsRachelBenedict]

Mmm how can people be so mean and disrespectful, like you said I doubt the real South Africans would do this

[@ChituDiary]

Real SAns are lovers, they dont stoop

[@andilemtshe9063]

I'm South African I'm embarrassed with some comments there I have read the comments there

[@ChituDiary]

And yes I can differentiate the real south Africans from them❤️

[@cherishedoliviaTV]

Wow! Imagine busi!! How can Egusi be called busi!! ????🙄🙄🙄

[@ruthiespace6437]

First here

[@kelellomaseli7602]

I wish u could have seen Sizonithola on Sunday TV Moja love

[@esealofoje2807]

It is well. God will help us .

[@ifechifamily]

My dear,pls don't let such comments prevent you from doing what love. No matter what we do, there will be people who will not like it. Thanks for sharing this 👍❤️

[@lesegontho4494]

The Uber guys is not south african, I could tell by his accent.

[@cherishedoliviaTV]

That guys is definitely not a Nigerian, every South African knows the accent of Nigerian. Some people just dislike Nigerians

[@Naijawife]

They will not complain about the Indian food he ended up eating, they will only complain about Nigerian food .....he is Kenyan he recommended Nigerian food because Nigerian food is delicious 😋

[@theduke3970]

@@kj2346 Chapati is not a South African food. So you better be quiet and don't be rude to a lady

[@BeautysTv]

@@kj2346 you're referring to a south African lol

[@frankxolanidlamini4111]

@Naija wife just shut up if you do not know what to say or have any idea about SA culture and cuisine. Ignorance is bliss!

[@Naijawife]

@@tmksouthafrica1028 Yes Indians Europeans and Americans are South Africans favourites 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@tmksouthafrica1028]

@@Naijawife The issue is not Nigerian food - it's that he said it's the best food in Cape Town. Mind u Cape Town is consistently ranked the culinary capital of all of Africa.

[@SPrincessbeneficialknowledge]

I watched to end but i cant decipher accents. Am staying outa dis one lol. I nor hear any accent

[@cherishedoliviaTV]

Oh babes 😍🥰

[@josiahfavour2929]

I want to study in SA but then am scared already🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ayobampilo5762]

Study in ur own country

[@RatieM64]

Very soon we will be incorporating Egusi into our cuisine. Give and take 30 years from now it will be totally incorporated. Like yesterday myself, my daughter and granddaughter Oluchi we went out to get swallow and Egusi.

[@ChituDiary]

Awwwww oluchi( Gods work) must be such a beautiful child to behold ❤️❤️❤️

[@palesamogorosi8939]

No we won't. Stop capping. Why would we incorporate Egusi into South African cuisines? It's not our cultural dish and will never be. We have our South African dishes to eat and embrace. I doubt Nigerians go out of their way to incorporate South African cuisines in Nigeria. Bathong!

[@RatieM64]

@@palesamogorosi8939 Culture is something very dynamic, it evolves with time. Chakalaka is borrowed from other cultures. We make s

[@RatieM64]

@@palesamogorosi8939 Culture is something very dynamic Palesa, it is not as static as we would love it to be. For example we make chakalaka and claim it as ours. It is in fact borrowed, it is sambal and make many sambals and call them South African. That's how we all borrow and influence one another. I ove you though 💞💞 and I do respect your views.

[@NM-127]

@@palesamogorosi8939 but you are comfortable incorporating Asian dish as South African dish… who taught the black man to hate themselves?.. may it never be well with that person

[@malusidavidmaphumulo25]

Sorry Sisi in life there are good people and bad/ evil people. God bless

[@wahalatv7351]

Remember how one of their own was killed simply because they thought he was Nigerian. Lucky Dube remains a legend even in death

[@BeautysTv]

You really came ready,some of these people are unrepentant lol the same people that destroyed shops belonging to Nigerians claiming they killed a taxi driver,eye witness said the guys were tanzanians not Nigerians ,it changed nothing!

[@ChituDiary]

My dear it’s embarrassing

[@lamode4113]

Some of them do it to us calling us kwerekwere and we share same blood just border and names our colonisers gave us

[@ThatGirl37343]

I'm really moved.. honestly.

[@mmapulesebapo9754]

Hello chitu ur so beautiful

[@ChituDiary]

My lover❤️

[@julietambali]

Hello beautiful queen.

[@sabelocindi2348]

Ah we apologize for these guys in the comments, they haven't tasted Nigerian food and don't know how addictive it is. My personal favorite is Jollof rice with Turkey damn I can't get over that stuff man

[@mzwandilethulasizwe7838]

It's the same as when you call us xenophobic

[@mmabathomokone9909]

Why are you so stressed up my sister ,calm down ,you won't fixed this world . Your blood pressure will shoot up and non of those people will care about you . Who cares ,who eat what who said what ..I think we should all have one big party called AFRICA I LOVE YOU , and dress up in our different traditional atires and celebrate it .💕❤️🌹🌷🤛👍🇿🇦 then we'll get to know ourselves better

[@liancuty]

That driver is definitely not a Nigerian even if he is a Nigerian there is nothing wrong with him suggesting the food he did the guy ask of his best food and he said his best I don’t understand where he offended these bitter people. The truth is Nigerians don’t have to do anything to these bad eggs for them to say something 😁 they will always see something wrong as far it’s a Nigerian

[@ChituDiary]

Very exhausting

[@okpegodson1675]

Beware of SA fake love, I don talk my own ooh

[@olabisimaryoluwafemi4132]

Abeg just leave them o… You don’t even need to say it that the Uber guy is not a Nigerian cos it’s practically obvious. Please don’t stress…

[@walkwithorr]

That's why some employers check your social media handle to see what kind of person you are when you are not being watched, your integrity in other words. Some people think they are not seen behind fake social media names. This person that was recommending Nigerian food when asked for SAn food was intentional in his response, he obviously understood well that the tourist was vlogging and SAns as usual we click on videos that have our country flag out of curiosity. He just wanted to instigate sadly my dearies' eyes are still closed on these things they will act foolish and say foolish things. Sometimes I asked myself whose children are these, the things they say of other people are astonishing. I will hit a child of mine should I see them writing awful things about others. That's how I was taught in my home that we are all human beings rich or poor, colonized or not. We have no control over our histories but we have control over our futures.

[@ChituDiary]

God will just help us and give us peace

[@florahpitse2955]

Sori dear...as a SA i apologise for them...but social media is like that my dear..and just know that some ppl who are saying that nonsense are not even SAns...but one thing i can say is all Africans insult each other..they want their Countries to be on top ...and its so boring...bcz ppl end up fighting..

[@africanlensextra]

Don't worry yourself, those guys are crazy about slandering fellow Africans, African Tigress went through the same experience recently. I heard her ranting over the behaviors of many of them who are irrational in their thinking. sorry my sister, those guys thought Nigeria and other African countries are in a hell, but few of them who travel abroad knows that there are a lot of good places to live in Africa where there is freedom.

[@samkengcobo409]

He said Capetown is Europe not South Africa

[@cynthiaboateng431]

Missed you Chitu Darling

[@ChituDiary]

Thanks sis

[@kenneykobola8390]

Most people who are responding here they have never watched the video;🙄

[@neomontja71]

You can just tell by his accent when pronouncing the dish that he is not Nigerian bathong!

[@tloutlou2655]

Ijoo leave that fool alone.

[@ChituDiary]

I don’t even get moved anymore, because South Africans are welcoming

[@tloutlou2655]

@@ChituDiary its home away from home.

[@musa7790]

My friend, I can post a nasty comment here intentionally for no reason just to make u react and generate chaos n hatred amongst yo followers. A lot of ppl who don't know my intentions will be at each other's throat. 1 or 2 will sense something isn't right but the rest will go for it without thinking. This is what is happening in this country. Anything that has potential to burst, that HAND will use. Don't worry Sis. We ain't despicable blind ppl all of us. Every African dish is a DELICACY. that has sustained our forefathers to have a powerful immune system we don't have today. Sharp🇿🇦

[@mathewsmokoena1300]

Sisi am sorry for that if is a SA men am apologize for him pls cool down

[@mkdempisi]

I think Nigerian women are the coolest and they are welcome here. Not sure about nigerians, only met one cool negerian dude, so the rest I won't comment on them.

[@ogomsseries]

Here

[@viviantvgist]

That really bad 👎 😕 😪

[@silakhileisrael9937]

Not seven colours Served in colours 😏😁

[@ogochukwustellamacs]

Chitu don enter one chance oooo... Please they should leave you alone...South Africa and Nigeria one now.... So why the attack and irrelevant messages. .. Chai nne don't be offended.,just keep sharing good messages you can and don't mind anyone

[@lanchesternaanyane]

I’m sorry Chitu but from the positive videos about South Africa I’ve watched, I’ve always seen Nigerians bashing South Africans in the replies but I agree, it is wrong for South Africans to always react and get offended. Both Nigerians and South Africans are on edge.

[@judithsconcept]

How can a Nigerian call EGUSI, Bussy, too bad that people always look for opportunities to bring down Nigerians. for crying out loud SA and NG are one, we are Africans, lets stop all these barbaric reactions, Lets treat Each other with love and respect

[@dopemarkmusic50]

wow, but solution is to go back to your own coutry, believe me, you will save yourself from lots of things.

[@itumelengmosailane1192]

The guy is not South African there are many dishes in South Africa

[@PloveTV2020]

Congratulations on sorting out your Ads issues and welcome back. This is really terrible, reading their comments is really annoying. Nigeria is really hated but we keep moving... imagine slandering you about your video kwa...

[@PloveTV2020]

He is not a Nigerian honestly... he liked the soup and has right to recommend it.

[@leboeric2835]

As a South African, I'm soooo embarrassed by my fellow sisters and brothers who are xenophobic towards other Africans.... I don't even know what to say the way I'm so hurt and embarrassed. To think that you're doing nothing but to advertise and talk good of our country and how they thank you..I'm embarrassed