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[@TheLoveChat]

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[@Ohgood4you]

“Hel-lo” is back!

[@barbaraarnihamrus8492]

You help me a lot since last year. Never stop making video..I was at my lowest point in my life last year but all your video help me get through my breakup. Really do. I listen to all of it. It makes sense and help me to undertand what happen. Thank you Rory.

[@AlexisDavis16]

Hi Rory! I started watching you in 2018 after a really devastating break up. I was feeling really sad and desperate. Instead of doing what I normally do( figure out ways to get ex back ), I turned to KZbin. Actually , now that I think about it I was trying to figure out a way to get my ex back when I turned to KZbin 🤦🏾‍♀️. I started watching your videos. Eventually I got into therapy, started working out more, and focused on my skin care blog. I had one one on one session with you, and you said one thing to me that triggered the hell out of me. You told me I seemed like the type of person that likes to have control. I was so angry with you at first… and then I realized it was true 😂. Since letting go of controlling others and focusing on my own health and happiness and my needs, my dating life changed drastically. I met the love of my life during the pandemic and now we’re engaged. I am going to marry the sweetest , most kindest, loving man in July. I haven’t seen you pop up in my feed in so long.Now the algorithm shows blog related editing videos. I just thought of you. I wanted to tell you that your work is really special. I’m 36 and I’m not sure that I would’ve got out of my negative patterns without KZbins help. Thank you 💕❤️.

[@TheLoveChat]

I'm so proud of you, Alexis! Look at you go!!!!

[@GordonPavilion]

It’s true, to be attractive, you need to become the person that YOU would like to hang out with … and Yes! …it is a decision. Be mindful and self-aware about how you are in the world. And a further, Yes!… it does require you to be disciplined. Rory, thanks for todays video…Rory, you Rock!

[@terael5637]

This video made me feel proud of myself, I've been going through the most difficult time in my life, yet I'm doing all the difficult things I do not want to be doing, I'm going to therapy, exercising more than ever, trying to be more social and meet new people, eating right, doing my best in uni and letting go of someone whom I loved deeply. Thank you so much Rory, your videos have helped me a lot. From all the coaches I've seen your take on no contact is by far the best in my opinion!

[@leizelmalaubi2773]

Rory you dont know how much u helped me survive the loss ive experienced last 2020, and even if im getting better right now, and happy, i still visit your channel from time to time because your voice is therapeutic, just listening to it makes me calm. Please don’t stop making videos, cover other topics like anxiety, depression, & motivational videos!!! Thank you Rory!

[@TheLoveChat]

I'm so glad I could be there for you! Much love, Leizel!

[@davidhuns7545]

8:30 we all can do what we strive for (maybe not a person that doesn't want you back, people can't be manipulated to feel something let it be). You see the simple act of knowing what you want will make you become; it might be tomorrow could be next year 20-40 years, 100 years from now, but we all have a goal on this earth, however big or small it may-be. Don't lose sight of who you are and always listen to that inner you in guiding you to Havana in the bodily form. Love Ya'll, grow yourself by doing things you love day in and day out until you can financially survive off of majority enjoyment (can't love the same thing all the time but if it's mostly happy and some aspects of stress all jobs hold). We all don't like risks but stagnation causes mental illness to many people so you must decide to grow not just take medication but love what you are doing and dreaming of and happy with what the future will be from belief alone. I'd say go out find friends that act goofy not dry people, the ability to express yourself is way better than fake vague friends, the best feeling is being real and being yourself with people and can actually bring the whole group to a better self. I'd rather be friends with a a few real people, broke or not than a group of fake rich friends who can't let go of ego and give into higher expression.

[@darthvador6359]

Hery Rori, just stoping by to give you a big thank you. Your work helped me in my darkest times. It's weird how a complete stranger on the internet can help others in a significant way, you are really a beacon of light for many of us. And guys, please, follow Rori's advice. NC works, focus on yourself, do the work, learn, read, work out. My ex reached out two weeks ago and we are back again. It has worked for me multiple times, i can say im a better person now, and im commited in keeping doing the work, not just for this relationship but for me. Remember, it is always FOR US, NOT THEM.

[@dnnr2253]

Nice to hear u again

[@LonelyRider87]

Charismatic. I think that's what you're looking for. (Writer here!) That's what you are, Rory. 🌹 lol ignore me I'm a huge flirt in pain from being left. Keep em' coming.

[@l.k.1111]

I needed this today Rory🙏...thank you so much! The 2nd of March will be day 60 no contact (or day 61, I stopped counting because counting days can become a bad habit). I felt so empowered then felt weakness then my self esteem took a shock when I asked myself "Why am I wanting to reach out? Oh after 3yrs it worked, the no contact but this is the first time I never slipped up and texted or called"...thinking about the ex makes one question oneself irrationally and just rumination over the ex can make you doubt yourself. Don't mistake your not wanting to be like everyone else with a million partners as an excuse to go back. You can love yourself. We sit and wait for the ex to "see". But the cycle is old and Love yourself first and believe whatever will be will be. These are the good tips (these videos). Better life. Welcome back Rory!! "You da bomb beans!"☺🤩💯

[@wettowel128]

Awesome video as always! new topic idea: the importance of self-forgiveness and forgiving your ex in moving past it all

[@pao6883]

Dear Larry，could you please post a video for preventing break up happens. thank you so much

[@erenjaeger9418]

Thanks rory, it's been awhile since I last listened to one of your videos since the whole "you're supposed to stop after a few months" thing. But I felt like I was forgetting/slowly un-internalizing some of the lessons I had previously internalized, so thank you for this video. Helped remind me of some important things. Also, I don't think you should shy away from repeat topics, as I'm sure a lot of us here appreciate being reminded every once in awhile. Anyway, thanks for all you do and hope you're doing well in these trying times :) 👍

[@cherrybacon3319]

When I've split up from someone it's been for a good reason. I don't even want to be friends with them. But, if they speak to me in public I'm civil and polite, but still keep them blocked on my phone etc. If they truly want to make the effort while I'm self-improving myself, they'll get up off their arse and put a note through my letterbox. That shows they're making a true effort. 🍒

[@asushomie4387]

YOU'RE AN ANGEL I NEED THIS NOWW

[@curlymixednezz]

thanks again Rory

[@Crimsontears83]

Lol if you are seriously looking for a manipulation tactic to get someone back, they made the right move in dumping you. Yeah maybe you're just desperate in the moment but if you really love someone you wouldn't want to "trick them" into loving you. Especially if you aren't gonna change what you did to lose them in the first place.

[@s.k.a1222]

What to do if you control all the controllable aspects of your life, but can’t control yourself in relationships only?!

[@minhthifresh]