She Wants You To Be BETTER THAN HER

[@elliotthulse-2]

Be The Man She Desires: www.waronvice.com/

[@josephkelly6681]

Dude...I used to do this and also try to solve all their problems and I discovered women want to think you're a natural, that you float through the world on your charisma and all other men and women bow down to you because of some secret charm. Once, they discover how much grinding is involved they lose interest. Never show your bag of tricks.

[@tajdashaun]

This is PHENOMENAL advice 💯

[@vinibp]

I was feeling disappointed with someone for many the reasons you pointed out we as man may be upset with. Now you have shared your point of view I do relate with many things and feel better. Thank you for the wise words! Cheers from Brazil

[@faithm.8958]

Thank you for this!! I am a wife who thought/was taught i had to compete/be into EVERYTHING he’s into. Also have had the pressure of this culture on me that I NEED to personally make ‘a mark’ in this world… whereas that is a man’s job (men/males mark spots not females). This IS A RELIEF!!! I am a ‘good girl’ a receiver NOT a broadcaster of ‘MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS’ etc. I HATE feminisms and what its done to even us Christian women!!!!

[@BetsyRoss2U]

Opposites do work. Nobody would ever have put me and my husband together. We have overcome some cultural differences, he’s Cuban, I’m American farm girl. Our kids have both expressed at one time or another that the hardest part about being our kids is their Dad is so serious and strict and I’m so laid back, which has caused them some confusion (sorry kids). It works because I know the kids need discipline and I get out of the way when that happens and he lets me do my thing. We work well together. Also, he is better than I am in most ways. He’s a high achiever in everything he does.

[@BetsyRoss2U]

@manuelm5744 Yes, his family had terrible experiences you never learn about in American schools.

[@DarthBalsamic]

I noticed this few months back myself with alot of men who were looking to be with women and have wives. I saw a quote in passing from a man who told men along the lines of stop trying to make the women you want men. Let them be women and feminine. Let them be who they are naturally. So long as they get the right stuff right, which is healthy feminity, you don't have to worry about anything else. I myself had to absorb that a while ago. I'm not married and looking to be someday, but I know for a fact that a female is going to do female things. Some things I'm not going to care for, and sometimes she may want me to do things with her that she likes because she likes the company. I'm cool with that in advance.

[@Hisham_HMA]

True, True, you do YOU and let her do her stuff, and don't teach her to be better than you so she is not impressed by you anymore, thanks for the wisdom

[@doctorgainz]

Such wholesome and sound advice 🥲 The only note I’d add is in regards to what activities your lady finds comfort in… these should be active (physically or mentally). It’s okay if she doesn’t want to read self development or entrepreneurship books, but she better not be scrolling on Instagram or TikTok instead. As long as there’s intention or the act of creating something (a warm household, food on the plate, crafts for decoration) then we must be grateful for her actions. If she is mindlessly scrolling or consuming internet or TV garbage, then corrective protocols must be taken!

[@adfohukafoju5759]

TV garbage and social medias are opinions enforce. Therefore they must be look out. Even for men and women too

[@shootingstar9040]

A really good Video Elliot!💪🏻

[@janissevalenzuela]

Does this mean that a woman who is into self-improvement is more masculine? I’ve always preferred nonfiction books more than fiction books, my husband is very masculine and is also into self development and love him!

[@ASIOLE_TEURIV]

This is the truest thing I’ve heard.

[@kiminem4087]

Elliott this is great. Thank you.

[@newsentertainment1550]

Had a girl tell me she was so pissed when her ex gave her self development books on her birthday

[@pablobeast1]

You have so much knowledge and wisdom really a gem to KZbin thanks for all the knowledge you have dropped over the years 🤙

[@RjRosalesOfficial]

Like this kind of approach Uncle E. Looking sharp too!

[@mptybeats]

Can’t argue with any being said

[@CV-br1eu]

These days 2/3 of college grads are female and that same ratio for student loan debt... I've sacrificed my 20s building an amazing career in engineering on my own, and now i expect a woman to pull her fair share of the financial load, im not paying for anyone's college debt that wasn't there when i was struggling through it...The world has changed in 20 years, there are no more women like yours Elliot, no more traditional women.

[@Chr1st_has_risen]

I think the same thing about that Tupac saying with Instagram

[@AnonymousanonymousA]

Vin Diesel? HAS WALKED IN THE BUILDING!!

[@TaoMovement.Health]

Yup been there done that…!

[@pedazodetorpedo]

What if I'm stuck in a vice but I'm not a businessman. If I'm an employee within an organisation, does that still track?

[@coffeelover1763]

A big thing I've paid attention to that will help make men better then me, is how often we all justify our choices and behavior. If all you men pay attention to this, we do it all day. If men commented everytime they did it on this post, it would be quite interesting.

[@waldoarmagon6015]

it's good to listen that video. ☀️☀️☀️☀️

[@wrnowown]

Yeah the infinite competition is so interesting is it 100 percent that they leave?

[@IntegraDIY]

3:45 that’s called hypergamy.. women always have their eyes on the bigger stronger guy, even in some cases the younger guys. They move up the scale and search for bigger and better. They’ll stay with a beta male but cheat with a bigger stronger guy. Can you talk more about women who cheat? Married or just Bf/Gf type relationships? Advice for guys who are currently going through it. It’s a common situation, would be cool to get your point of view on to stay or leave, and what if there’s children involved

[@drewjohnson4794]

If it's never happened to him, then he won't know how to discuss it. Considering he married his high school sweetheart, Im betting he's never had a girl cheat on him but I don't know that.

[@pedazodetorpedo]

​@@drewjohnson4794if she cheats, she belongs to the streets. 😎

[@byzantinethomism6489]

Hi Elliot, but what about if your wife won't get into ANY spiritual or Bible reading even if she identifies as a conservative Catholic. Surely every Catholic should have some type of spiritual reading and formation.

[@ABishop681]

you read bro. pray enough for her and hold it down.

[@pedazodetorpedo]

You didn't listen. She doesn't need to read, she needs to receive. She could be illiterate for argument's sake, but still live up to YOUR values.

[@a111oveWrldWde]

Thank You!💌 ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🌏🌍🌎

[@nicolasbrendline6349]

What about the guy that wants the power couple thing. I like this video tho because they are both almost needles in a haystack at this point it seems. I use to be the guy who asked the question. Love the response. He needs to determine what one he will settle for.

[@lukamatic5143]

4:39 she can't beat her man, he showed her that stuff

[@GrippingJoker]

Dude you look way better shaved

[@NewHealthOrderWellness]

10-4 uncle E

[@DoubleJuriy]

You damn right! And understanding of this comes with an age)) So younger ones - just listen! Its complete true thing!!!!

[@elitecoder955]

So men don't benefit from the relationship?

[@WW-nk7wg]

Elliot, why have you setup your account to censor comments? I thought you were a real Christian.

[@aramisy.cajigas744]

How to be better so I can pour in her more? That's what my beta pastors won't teach me. They make me feel like I'm a machismo, so they won't answer my question.

[@coffeelover1763]

I liked it up to the part of women want a man to put her in her place... I'm open to learning, but try one time putting me in my place and and find out what happens 😂. Only chance a man has of not getting his butt whooped is if he has been training martial arts for 20-30 years. I don't care how big, tall, strong, they all go down the same way. Telling me they gonna kick my bass, so I better let them up. I tell them to do it, when they can't they calm down and rethink it. You tell me you are gonna kick my bass, you best bring me my bass kicking. Not show up at the door all friendly with my man thinking I'm gonna forget. Men are luckly I have a baby and can't Fresh Prince them off my porch. Putting a woman in her place often is verbially, mentially, and eventually some sort of physically abusive. Darn near every man does it. The jocks, nerds, fighters, it isn't good.

[@ocularshift1091]

Only God the father can put you in your place, right? He's such a big, powerful alpha male.

[@coffeelover1763]

@@ocularshift1091 That sounds about right. I think you're right

[@ocularshift1091]

@@coffeelover1763 yeah, definitely. God the father is the ultimate masculine figure, and way better than a mere mortal husband. You know, you can literally marry Jesus right? It's called a Consecrated Virgin. You can commit yourself to the ultimate alpha male that you can take orders from. Recently the Catholic Church allowed non-virgin women to marry Christ, too.

[@coffeelover1763]

@@ocularshift1091 He is the best example. I'm not available to have that sort of relationship with him. It seems like a good idea for some women though

[@ocularshift1091]

@@coffeelover1763 well if you're a Christian woman then he's already your ultimate alpha male, as you presumably does as He commands. Indeed, even if you had a mere mortal husband, you only obey your husband because God the Father commands you to obey your husband (except in sin). I love God the Father, I bow down and do what He tells me to.

[@fletchbundy]

Bro, CELEBRATE not having a wannabe intellectual, educated girl. Look at how every girl goes to college and then how she is after the first semester. Let her read romance novels, and watch crap. Now, you should care if she's watching reality TV and shit. Hope she's watching procedurals or murder mystery stuf.

[@47nodoubt]

The situation here is hes explaining a completely normal woman, just a useless eater basically. Sure they dont argue, so your basically just a sex addict at that point just like anyone else.

[@superroydude]

Dude 'intellectual' women are the worst. They get a taste of the garbage taught in colleges and think they're the smartest person in any room. When really they just parrot words they've learnt in the last month... "Fetishize", "social construct", "normalization" and other goofy words I can't bother to remember. They listen to half a lecture on Derrida and they think they're Socrates.

[@47nodoubt]

When it comes to books, women have no clue and no women has ever written or spoke anything clever. The seeming injustice between men and women disappears then.

[@Donavon551]

There's always an exception but for the most part, women are wiser than men when they are helpers of a cause, especially with trying to solve a relationship that they're not emotionally involved in. They also are better servants of God as they submit easier than men. Hence why men have to study the Bible more to subdue their evil inclination.

[@Feezwa]

@47nodoubt If Iron John by Bly Robert is a great book for men written by a man, then, Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype written by a woman: an American psychoanalyst Clarissa Pinkola Estés. And be more careful with your thoughts and words! The peace of the God be with you! Be blessed!

[@47nodoubt]

@@Feezwa im not reading a book written by a man about men. Thats some homo shit i only read from the legends with divine guidance.

[@elitecoder955]

​@@Donavon551women aren't wiser than men . It's men who lead in every sphere

[@Chr1st_has_risen]

I think the same thing about that Tupac saying with Instagram