Stop Trying to Be Girlfriends and You WIll Be Wives

[@brandyrock2837]

100% correct.. Stay in your feminine energy ladies.I stopped focusing on one, and dated several at the same time until the right one stepped up to beat out the competition. We're getting married in February. 😂

[@amandakelly1571]

sandy breeden u go grrl

[@Mrs.704]

Your story sounds exactly like mine. I’m getting married February 23.

[@kikimkadu8944]

yaaaas!!!!

[@boss_littycity]

I was doing that and It made lots of sense

[@krisbec5904]

So you told him there were others? How did he know he had "competition" to beat out?

[@ladydaymay7256]

This is the truth, men HATE desperate women. My NOW husband proposed after 3 months because he couldn't stand the IDEA of me not being with him. I was head over heels with him, but didnt let him know. Dated for 3 months, engaged for a year and MARRIED for SEVERAL YEARS, HAPPILY.

[@Shaniceisdivine]

Did you ask him for a ring Or was it all his plans?

[@madamsophia1503]

LADY DAY May give us the details!

[@bxndo5ive]

Yep it’s so simple, men like the chase. Once you understand that you’ll understand men.

[@kirsten1007]

What was your strategy?

[@laundrybasket2689]

Does he still chase you? How do you keep it a “happy” marriage? Are you still married?

[@th3azscorpio]

"Some of you are too honest, which is why you are too alone"- LOL 😂

[@beautifulalien2987]

Hurt my lil heart 😂😂😭😭💀

[@CS-pl1re]

😂😭

[@dinolemma]

The worst thing a good hearted person can do is be honest... I be lying to my family and everyone now 😂

[@TheAmna_Penguin]

Hahaha thats my story.

[@deannab4175]

Man that was me. I was the honesty

[@lanaytheegoddess5211]

I’m glad I’m 16 and taking in all of this knowledge now so I won’t set myself up for failure 💁🏽‍♀️

[@stanfatou2002]

Bruh me to. Shoot I'm getting ready lol

[@saraxortega]

Yes girl remember to be smart with it and don’t sleep with anyone until you are ready to have a baby! You will save a lot from it

[@isnotarat]

Yall know the drill girlsss x x x

[@denelalicia]

Same.. I'm 18

[@ErinDeNis]

Im glad you are too baby doll. Be smart about this thing and avoid the silly girl behaviors.

[@snowyskylar8821]

Dating does not involve sex in my opinion.. why give the milk away for nothing girls? Keep yourself tidy. Men want sex. Women want security .

[@MsLolaTaylor]

@referral madness if a man got all he wanted before investing anything in a woman what would be HIS incentive to give her money or pay her bills? 🤔🤫

[@Canadianforestfairy]

@@MsLolaTaylor im learning sadly, no incentive

[@babyc.3015]

@@MsLolaTaylor He will ghost because he had the thing he wanted

[@MsLotusBlooms]

I agree

[@lorrie_Israel]

Exactly 💯

[@twinsweare2]

I used to work in healthcare. Every thing you are saying about nurses attracting dusty men is TRUE! Only the prettiest nurses were able to get doctors to marry them .

[@SR77736]

Facts. Lucky my mom snagged a doctor and would tell me to be a nurse and try to get 1 as well.

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

That’s the truth. If a woman is a nurse, she needs to make sure she is at her best (fit, attractive, soft) to get the doctors and the hospital administrators, not the dusty patients, janitors, or cafeteria workers.

[@lalalopsie8118]

@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living I’m dating a doctor and I don’t even have a job, but I’m in my feminine energy 🫣💕

[@iaf4454]

​​@@lalalopsie8118 he should be the provider, let him work for you... take that money and create sth for your future

[@hotsauce7362]

I once asked my mentor... he's a Gemini... I said... would you choose a girl that's not about money... work hard and love you... or would you want a girl that's all dressed up, cost you a shit ton of money and keeps you on your toes...??? He told me.... he rather have the girl looking good and makes him happy, even if it cost him... he don't want a raggedy girl next to him. He have money, so spend it...

[@jessicaflowers6795]

The BrotherHood all men, especially basketball players choose women who would never want them if they were broke.

[@Shaunpeters105]

Geminis are usually shallow anyways

[@dorap1993]

I love simps then i guess🤷🏽‍♀️💅🏽

[@laundrybasket2689]

@@Shaunpeters105 Yes they are. I avoid Gemini’s like the plague.

[@godsgirl7201]

That's a fake relationship God forbid he ever hurt himself bad and his money dries up she's gone

[@intentionalgreatness]

The way you teach us to level up changes the mindset...so you're literally not even attracted to the same kind of man. Thank you Shera!

[@BlessedByHisGrace7]

intentionalgreatness YESSSS me too! The kind of guys I was attracted to just 3 months ago is completely different than the kind of guys I’m attracted to now. I’m amazed at how much my mindset has improved! Thank you Shera ❤️ just a few months ago I was afraid to date guys just 5 years older than me. Now I don’t date them unless they’re at least 15 years older.

[@intentionalgreatness]

@@BlessedByHisGrace7 me too! I went out with a 50 year old the other day...and enjoyed it!

[@BlessedByHisGrace7]

Yesss girl .. how’d you meet him? 👀

[@intentionalgreatness]

@@BlessedByHisGrace7 online

[@BlessedByHisGrace7]

What site, if you don’t mind sharing

[@cosmicwoman8044]

They say honesty is the best policy. But what have life told me is that honesty is the worst policy that what puts you in trouble. Always lie lie lie

[@diva7141]

So true💯

[@SagRising19]

True

[@laundrybasket2689]

@@ScientificAnomalies876 It’s the truth. I have seen that the worst kinds of people (men) are the most rewarded and HAPPY in life. Meanwhile the good ones are always struggling, always getting the shit end of life, getting hurt and even traumatized. I’m SO done with being the honest, nice girl who does the right thing anymore. These so called men can go to hell.

[@BestversionofKP]

@@laundrybasket2689I feel the same

[@saraxortega]

What she’s speaking is facts because I remember I got so comfortable with my ex and I told him that I didn’t really go out. He started acting completely different. We broke up and he wanted me back some time after and I would always say I was busy and tell him that I’m out doing something. He chased like never before. Be busy with yourself 💅

[@CK-wi1td]

Too honest = Too alone. Got it🖊

[@DrGoddessMonaSexTherapistBMsc]

If you're insecure, please stay single, Girl Cause all the women I coach that are insecure are having bad sex, can't trust their men, and are having problems in their marriages because of the way they feel. Start with Self Love BooBoo. Trust me, You don't want to end up in Divorse Court., Peace and LIght

[@meni8919]

This is such an important advice. I completely agree with you

[@hunny585]

how wud u describe the insecurity? like in their physical self they feel?

[@bodnarova05]

Self concept is everything. People respect if you respect and value yourself.

[@ericab9409]

Re-watching ...gotta stay sharp

[@CS-pl1re]

Girl since I tried to shut my mouth and when I told too much I stood up and went to the bathroom to watch my Shera quotes, it got me a new car and were watching for a house 😂. Seriously watch her videos

[@archanabhardwaj6348]

i have a provider wealthy boyfriend and m thankful to shera to make a smart decisions in my life..I love you shera...thank you so much !!! proud of you my lady !!

[@PSmith-te1nb]

If a so called relationship only exist because of pressure, guilt, or obligation, it is a complete waste of time and energy.

[@tattletalez3858]

Its really easy actually. Don't date people that don't like you. We know when we're someone's priority. If you want to get married date men that come from families with a mother and father in the same home. It makes a huge difference. Most people raised by single parents aren't looking to get married. They're usually looking to see who they can get over on because they're so used to the poverty mnd set.

[@itz_akuma]

Lmao. You can't judge a mans character based on what his parent did. But if thats how you wish to live your life, I guess?? 😂😂😂😂

[@itz_akuma]

@Sophia N youre right. You're absolutely right.... I'm judging your parents for raising an idiot. As we speak. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kayyoung9242]

Perfect comment

[@tattletalez3858]

scott sounds like a big no to me.

[@lovelight2919]

Only be with a man when you know his father looked after his mother!!!!!! 💯

[@DrGoddessMonaSexTherapistBMsc]

If a Man wants you as his wife, He will make that Known, Trust Me......A Queen will only entertain a King so Learn who you are. I teach women this and Once they learn to value themselves, and heal from their past, you they attract good men. But you will not find a good man, until you start working on yourself. Point Blank. She Ra, Thanks for these awesome videos. lol

[@tracyjones5356]

If your not ready to Commit don’t get married. Marriage is no game and should be taken seriously and not lightly.

[@laundrybasket2689]

Exactly 💯

[@tinyking11]

Facts. A lot of men think it’s a game tho. That’s why they end up broke in the end for playing with her. 💯🤷🏽‍♀️

[@eveallusion]

I was dating a dusty (I can only hear this in your voice) and he broke up with me. He is 4 years younger than me and a total momma’s boy. Never again will I let that happen to me. I leveled up. I lost almost 40 pounds since he and I first started dating. So I look and feel much better than I did when we were dating! I’m doing great at work and I’ve been saving my money. I have big dreams that include possibly moving to another state and dating older men of means. I love you SheRa! Thank you for helping women see our worth. I was way too nice and let him take advantage of my kindness. Never again will I fall in love like that. I want a man & provider.

[@canelareina3795]

Update, please

[@anyapi987]

This is so true ladies Im single until Im married. Its a mindset

[@tammya5403]

Don’t tell men that though

[@cosmicwoman8044]

If you had an abusive past should you tell ur boyfriend? Shera: YES! If u want to loose him and continue living in ur past 🤣🤣 at first i believed u when u said yes🤣🤣🤣 then came the epic answer if u want to loose him and continue living in ur past

[@beautifulalien2987]

😂😂😭😭

[@sammilira3083]

I already did this mistake :(

[@hunny585]

so if we had abusive mother shud i jot tell my future husband? wudnt he anyway guess it? advise pls

[@Canadianforestfairy]

@@hunny585 no you shouldnt, learned the hard way

[@carameldiorr6835]

No learned this the hard way. They end up becoming abusive

[@fromwest2westhistories]

SHERA.. I swear your moon or sun rising is an air sign, you’re so detached and cut throat with your logic ... I love it

[@piscistauro316]

Akiyah Francis Her Venus and Mars are air signs in an air house. She showed her chart on this channel (I think)

[@leeslyrose]

I was just thinking about this today and I’m like: sis has some heavy air sign placements

[@lovelyicy6395]

Could be a fire sign like Sagittarius too. Aries and especially Leos are too passionate about relationships to not give a fuck tbh, but Sags struggle with commitment because independence is important to them and they give no fucks🤣😂. Shera's gotta have a Sag moon.

[@moontears3887]

She's a Pisces like Rihanna. Ultra-feminine and cunning.

[@laundrybasket2689]

Shera seems to have a strong Aquarian presence in her chart.

[@venuschrist3795]

Taking in all this knowledge at 17. My ex's old friend (his new girl made them stop being friends) is now IN LOVE with me. I used to do homework for boys I liked... help them out... take them out. I stopped dating. I'm not dating til I turn 18, and I'm gonna be married soon after. There ain't a damn thing boys my age can do for me.

[@benazirngwa3642]

I am currently 17. My make up game is on point and I have the game. I plan on going the same way as you and want to start dating from the age of 18. I sincerely hope you kept you level up mentality!

[@DD_MENEN]

You go girl

[@МеруертК-у2н]

Omg you’re smart!

[@natashadickson4819]

​​@benazirngwa3642 The game is to not give them sex. When they start asking for it, start talking about marriage. Ask him, "Why didn't you marry the women who you had in the past? I'm not going to be on your list of ex-lovers.". Most will run. The husband material will stay.

[@elizabethmonica2307]

“Most people like to play victim .... they feel special “ ~ Gospel Truth

[@robins6177]

“James would go into a coma if I started to talk to him about deep stuff” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@teanna4569]

you gotta say hey I just want to be friends, because you will no if he wants you more by him wanting to work to get out of the friendship zone, men have to work for what they want, cant be like hey I want relationship, you dont even no him, even if you date one person, stay strong create distance and protect your energy, BE FRIENDS

[@szavabalogh7351]

everytime I learn from you something, it is incredible!! No teachers, no parents have ever taught me that much about life and how things work! Thank you for teaching us!!!

[@strawberryvines]

My mother is 66 & her sugar daddies are usually younger than her. Its possible but you have to have that fiery personality lol

[@МеруертК-у2н]

Wow! She’s 🔥🔥🔥

[@strawberryvines]

@@МеруертК-у2н Lmao yes she is!! All her men except one in the last 20 yrs have been older than her. All younger & take care of her. Some men see more value in older women.

[@heatherschaeffer4579]

Years, ago I dated a guy that was a momma's boy that would say we will see when I talked about marriage. I knew after I discussed the M word a few times. I then stopped seeing him, he called me and I was busy and went as far as to take a college class at a University. And, I found a way to waste his time and stay busy all the time. He bought me a ring for Valentines day, and I asked, "what does this ring mean to you?" He, said, "he was not sure" I went out on a few more dates with him and ended the dates after a few hours, because I had other things to do. I eventually, ghosted him without a second thought.

[@audreym.f9077]

Good for you. A lot of mommy’s boys are unsure of everything. They let their mom’s think for them.

[@tammya5403]

So glad you didn’t accept that ring. He was only giving you what you wanted, but not what he wanted. That is ungenuine in the least🤦‍♀️

[@Cattitude369]

You can do natural hair just make sure it is styled and neat! Walking around looking like you rolled out of bed isn't cute nor is using the "it grows out of my head like this" excuse. You can manipulate your hair into so many cute syles or wear it blown out. I love wearing curls from my satin rollers.

[@indigoGoddess7]

You're absolutely right! I have locs and even the simplest styles can look really well. Men really love it when my hair is super curly and with my colour - they always stare

[@itsstillsunnyable]

Shera, Oh how I wish I had this knowledge 35 years ago. Been binge watching your videos since you came up in my feed last week.I use to be " too honest" and you are right. Never again. I realized now that mother and older sisters didn't know better so didnt teach me. You are a Godsend. Thank you!

[@glamazongoddess1124]

I need to figure out a way to have 10 men on my roster...!!!

[@capricornman89]

Goddess OfPetty No woman is ever “single”, this I know.

[@coreybetamalewayne1169]

Get plastic surgery

[@Xzawn]

Corey Beta male Wayne 😂🤣lmfaooooo

[@christinawalthall969]

I wish I could’ve come across your vids two months ago. I found a guy then that I was soo head over heels for and I did EVERYTHING wrong. I just have to suck it up and accept he was not the one and there is much better out there for me. Level up 2019

[@rafapimentel599]

You are beautiful! Good luck honey

[@isaidwhatisaidsis2455]

😂😂 I dont even know how I found your page, but im Glad I did😂 Im taking notes.

[@LeilaniAlua]

Right!!!

[@diva7141]

👏💯

[@niabfun]

The VIRGO Queen right! Lol this page was recommended after watching the Secret. Haha ! I am like is God and the universe trying to tell me something 😂🤪

[@amazonrose9591]

I try to tell my girlfriends this tactic.....and they think im a hoe :( and i dont sleep with none of my dates. I just smile, listen and act like I dont have any money lmao

[@gabyyaby.9928]

Does it work

[@venusela]

@@gabyyaby.9928yes

[@tinyking11]

💯🔥🔥🤌🏾

[@lalalopsie8118]

@@gabyyaby.9928yes ❤

[@lakeimaloon.1847]

"Some of yall are too honest and too alone " 🤣🤣🤣 facts

[@videoplaylist5973]

5:05 gold! Even if he says your friends first. Its a trap to get you in your feelings. To get you to chase and give up your power. Catch yourself slipping. Reverse it. Dont fall for it. Don't get in your feelings. Just go with it. He already said what it was. Never tell him your talking to others. NEVER. The other guys are simply for emotional support so you can remain detached and not in your feelings. Act as if you could care less about a label. That's when your treated the best. When your not trying to label something.

[@ladyboss7947]

Ladies please listen to her she’ll save you so much heartache and wasted time

[@nike_thegoddess7765]

I think woman miss the part that they need to inspire these men ,

[@someonesomewhere9254]

I deserve to have a life of abundance and prosperity

[@lexifresh1552]

I’m officially a subbie. I’m done with laying with guys and reaping little to no benefit. Time to level up. I’m in my late 20’s need to come correct.

[@AccidentalWarrior144]

Same I failed. I’d rather stay single than get crumbs

[@Cupcake813x]

@@AccidentalWarrior144 you didn’t fail! I learned in my late 20’s. Just turned 29 a couple months ago and was recently dating a guy that gave me 1k a week! Never too late!

[@GraceBanks11]

Wake up, brush teeth, get beat lmaooooo yoooooo

[@PacificNWGrl]

Ok girl you are giving me life lately. I spoke to a doctor friend of mine and he gave me the exact advice you give on your channel! I was shocked! I need to level up.

[@DEBRAHWATERS]

Doctor sheeeerrraaaa🩺🥼

[@theregulaschmegulashow8843]

Question: Why is this under the comedy category? This is very good advice, to be taken seriously.

[@couturexolivia]

She puts it under comedy so no one can sue her when she gives funny advice like "rob them and take their money" she said it in a video.

[@Nkeabands]

I’ve been in relationships back to back without ever spending an extended time being single, but I’m finally focusing on my level up. When I’m ready to date, there will certainly be different eggs in different baskets without the pressure, stress, or commitment to just one

[@tammya5403]

It’s funny she mentioned Miguel and his wife! They just broke up… Never stay with someone for 10 years before marriage… that’s just wasting your time and the other persons time.

[@Lovejoyful606]

You be havin me crackin up you're genuinely funny..

[@ratherbenapping10]

this is true just keep talking about going out with your friends to bars and how nice your guy friends are and they will be dying to lock you down

[@caressaclark1042]

"I'm looking at your photo and... YOU NEED A WIG" 😂

[@beautifulalien2987]

😂😂

[@ejstrawberry9659]

🤣🤣😩😩

[@kirakeynow]

😂😂😂

[@vegewoman]

OMG

[@Vanillaaxo]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@us5freaak]

No wonder she blew up. she’s wise

[@secret-garden]

"I'm looking at your photo -You Need a WIG" 😂🤣😂🤣

[@kirakeynow]

butterflyqueenify 😂😂😂

[@HausOfAdonis]

“There’s 6 million ways to die. Choose one” 😂

[@Visuals288]

You make women realize their worth ❤️ 💐🦋🌈🌺🧚

[@DJ-ij2sy]

Just got my new 2019 Mercedes excited to do a road trip xx.. zoom zoom

[@victoriabarefoot3998]

D J my too sl500 let's roll on in!!!!

[@ladyboss7947]

Thanks to you I realized he is never gonna commit completely and I need to let it go! The money isn’t even worth the headache. He would of committed long time ago. I’m walking

[@beyondlimits2058]

😂 sex policy: the longer you wait the more money you get.

[@mandisastuurman]

This is the truth !!!!!!!!😭😭😭

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

Lol. No acting like grannie. Lol. That's right ....the date ought to be an escape and fun. I love your advice.

[@vcastro777]

😂😂😂😂

[@Luckimee]

Even Shera's voice has leveled up. Eeeeeeoooowwww

[@myishaj7436]

Yass, please break down these labels..sugar daddy, BF, etc..bc we must handle them all differently..😝😝

[@tinasnow2006]

Myisha J Yes. I have two boyfriends and a sugar daddy and all three of them take care of me. And I make them Get tested every 2 months.

[@myishaj7436]

@@tinasnow2006 Yes indeed📋.. Always...💰

[@stephania4940]

Snow White WHATT teach me. That sounds amazing.

[@glamazongoddess1124]

Wake up brush teeth and get beat.....lmfaoooooooo

[@ShevetteJackson]

Lol 😂

[@meganwilson9702]

😆😂😂Goddess OfPetty

[@seakelp1150]

Goddess OfPetty yall going to hell for laughing 😅

[@vcastro777]

I was Lmfaooooo 😂 tha things shera says... hilarious AF!

[@ShevetteJackson]

@@seakelp1150 Lol

[@Hijabibti925]

American culture teaches women to work hard cause ur independent... sleep with whoever cause u bad ass and keep grinding...no honey no....sleep with no one let them pay and then they can have the prize after marriage.

[@valalv3785]

Some of my"pick me" friends or "independents" love to show pics of Grandbabies !! He don't want to see them !!

[@SagRising19]

чєѕ, єхαctlч

[@Melanie-le6mw]

Lmao

[@urScorpioLady]

SheRa is on point as always. Love her videos, advices, topics .... everything!! I think a lot like her. Except that right now I have my own money and kids and I don’t want to marry. Otherwise I’d do the same thing she is advising .. for now I juts have fun with successful high class men. No one wants dusty 😂😂😂

[@drdickskingofautomation]

No man high class man dates women with children

[@MsSjchic]

G Money How would you know? You’re not one.

[@urScorpioLady]

Anthony Simmons high class isn’t always money ... can you talk properly? What’s your vocabulary? What’s your education? Are you up with current events? What’s going on on the other side of the world ? What’s going on at your community? Do you have manners? Are you respectful? Those are just some of them ... and I didn’t get that part about wearing suits to fit white people society. If you don’t like that you can go head with hip hop fashion where your jeans are below your butt .. you know where all that started and why, right ? At prions ...

[@Moonlightmystic]

I wish I knew this like, 20 years ago lol!

[@angelawatkins6372]

16 minutes in and I’m cracking up thank you for schooling these silly women BIBLE 💯

[@golddust9602]

I dated a Haitian. He was slick and a liar. He spoke French and parents were both Physicians. He was very slick and tightfisted to me. We lasted long enough for me to say-next!

[@moringga432]

thank you, next

[@goddess3316]

Yes they are unless you meet a specific criteria. I'm Haitian and my moms side is bougie they are mixed Haitians and all are professionals and wealthy and speak French. You should have run games on him. I see my male cousins abuse girls all the time 🤣😪😫

[@golddust9602]

@@moringga432 yes ma'am.

[@sunflowerkissed9637]

I’m dating a rich Haitian man so far so good. Very charming...

[@CK-wi1td]

Crickets...

[@rbguerreiro2466]

I just love the way she trolls her haters

[@its_whatever_dani_d863]

Omg!!!! She said wake up , brush teeth and get beat 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@victoriabarefoot3998]

DND Davis Oh hell where is my A** whipping at?!Lmao

[@sonmychest2757]

She said Wake up, wash your face, GO GET BEAT... I just can't with this lady🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😂😂😂💀💀💀

[@hellocodeworld]

Girls she is so right, listen to her!

[@lillianr1026]

15:55 "Make up something interesting to entertain yourself if you have to talk about them (an ex)! Lie!" I died!!! She is my absolute favorite on the whole internet...

[@angelwings2721]

You are helping me gain my self esteem

[@wherebeautymeetswellness]

splash mud on them..I'm hollering! lol

[@kirakeynow]

Rochelle T 😂😂😂😂 me too

[@beckyxl1348]

My roommate takes full care of her boyfriend like he is a child. It’s stupid, he doesn’t pay a lick of rent. Chills out all day in bed while she works.

[@YesDaddyTDPop]

Beckyx L how old is she? 👀

[@beckyxl1348]

Deathtrap 400 she is 35 he is 30

[@YesDaddyTDPop]

Beckyx L welp, looks like she is the sugar momma 💰

[@Melanie-le6mw]

Waste of time

[@rxt7942]

My ex chased me so hard, he pays some of my bills and showers me with gifts, but he broke up with me and now wants me back.. idk what to do

[@sheaNERD]

Omg this advice is so golden! So many gems 💎 dropped in the 1st ten minutes ✍🏿🙋🏿‍♀️❤️

[@MrShaunG]

Thank you sis I need the real wake up call sometimes. I love how you speak bluntly, this is not a backhanded compliment I really do mean it.. coming from a dude. Best regards please keep them coming

[@aivah07]

Wow she is speaking facts!

[@missd1577]

Yes she is!!

[@missd1577]

I admire her. She is real. Not a dumb “pick me”!

[@missd1577]

Duvalle Lindsey I’m sorry, but I don’t entertain angry males. God Bless you!

[@aivah07]

Duvalle Lindsey but why are you so angry? Let me guess some woman finessed you.. lmfao. I’ll pray for your angry heart. And Stop arguing with women you fool. Have a blessed day.

[@amandakelly1571]

Duvalle Lindsey u r jelly hater for what beauty does get. beautiful people Do rise to higher hights, its not fair, but get a grip on reality. finance and beauty go hand in hand in hand

[@TheQueenOfGreatness]

Yaaaasssss!!!! I know this chick and for over 10 years she has been traveling to another state to see this man🤦🏾‍♀️ She now take flights to see this man🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ Sooooo she basically waist her vacation time on this matter and I🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I don't talk to her anymore because she has put EVERYONE including her sick mama over this man🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I'm like hunni Chile, u don't think he see this craziness 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ He has PROBABLY came out to see her 3 times in that 10+ year booty call of a relationship 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@bushraejaz9409]

I just treated a guy like that we've been friends for a while. Tho he wants to date me (I said idk😂) but I saw him checking out other options as well. when I gave him this treatment he was.... Shook... Legit told me that for the very first time I am taking your stuff serious😂 he's crazyyyy now😂😂😂

[@DP-oi9nd]

I need to watch these videos everyday. My ass goes back on the crazy gf train within 2days smh

[@KissyDenise]

Love This! I do dislike having to talk about my abusive ex's... If it wasn't for work, I wouldn't even mention them.

[@lorreichanel5124]

i love you shera the sense of humor and your common sense is a winner

[@cosmicwoman8044]

Everyday wake up, brush up and get beat! 😂😂😂

[@coolcat4kitty]

Treat them like Po-tay-toe chips 😂😂😂😂

[@Lyn.isGrey]

@Duvalle Lindsey What you've been trying to do.

[@julieotieno5800]

@Duvalle Lindsey really?

[@CherrellMishelle]

Duvalle Lindsey You’re sick! Go get help!

[@Sunny-cj5ic]

Shera is off the chain🤣😂 she said tell him that he Died😭

[@TheQueenOfGreatness]

I work at Lowe's and I met my wealthy boo-daddy there😁 LOOL

[@schedirvenus]

Shera, can you make a video about being a single mother and dating. How to find a mate as single mother.

[@kassandra21590]

She can’t speak on something she doesn’t have any experience in

[@susanlee6462]

Maybe she knows some ladies, has friends who are single mothers who can give her the information/video content

[@nikkibwellness5184]

Love your advice and you’re humor is so entertaining!!

[@El_izabethheart]

Wow this is pure facts. My ex who Used me tried to break up one time and I should have cut him lose THEN instead of years later 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[@MsSteward25]

The stray Miguel caught is hilarious lmaooo now they're divorced

[@theroomnumber5210]

LOL! I am laughing so hard at the "fell down the gutter" part. I am honest and loyal and they take you for granted. I have not done much of dating but this seems like what douchebag men deserve.

[@CC-kr3mr]

Chile he fell in the sewer grate

[@cosmicwoman8044]

OMG that lady who asked: he got a girl should i “disappear”? Shera: if he got money u gotta be appearing till u get that money🤣🤣🤣🤣 WHERE R THOSE HOLLYWOOD PRODUCERS FROM U! U WILL BE AN A LIST HOLLYWOOD CELEBRITY 🤣🤣

[@kenya1067]

I'm 26 but I'm not a partyer or typical of what people my age are doing smh. I'm not sure what to do

[@marieschrader9150]

Same!:(

[@MsLolaTaylor]

Do you. Just keep up with your looks, get a hobby & travel.

[@Avysaurus]

How about if you don't HAVE to work but you NEED to work. The idea of never having my own money terrifies me. A gap in my resume terrifies me. But your advice from another video is more fitting for someone like me: Bank YOUR money. So ideally, what you describe as a "kept independent woman" is more my speed lol (mostly posting for other women new to your channel)

[@tinasnow2006]

Avy Ferg u can be like me. I work two days a week and save the money.

[@tinasnow2006]

I’m also looking to start my own business and I’m 23

[@stephania4940]

Snow White girl you’re amazing I want that

[@stephania4940]

Snow White what industry are you in?

[@rihanameghri5407]

I have just found ur channel three days ago and I really liked it because it is really really interesting and you tackled crucial topics that help us as women to know how to deal men and to get the results that we wanted from relationships.... Thank you so much sweety...

[@saintamerican6105]

Shera you are a God this entire video is pure gold!!!! ✨

[@primajackson3184]

Love the way she talk she so right glad i caught this needed this thanks

[@Nofretari]

I want to go to Egypt someday too.

[@Visuals288]

Lots of love from India ❤️Your vedios have enlightened me ✨ your talks are so helpful for all women across the globe🙏