if he ain't afraid to lose you the relationship will never work
@catherinem.62905 жыл бұрын
alina oxo 🤘🏼
@juliecooper70035 жыл бұрын
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@Latinaperspective5 жыл бұрын
So true !
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
@@juliecooper7003 thank you for sharing
@Mrs.7046 жыл бұрын
If a man loves you more than you love him I believe he’s less likely to leave you for someone else. Plus when he’s into you more, he’ll constantly find ways to make you happy.
@realestjazmine72616 жыл бұрын
Ms Jackson Exactly!
@Mrs.7046 жыл бұрын
ShoNuff IzHere!! Why do you men care about the advice she’s giving? Either ya know it’s legit good advice or you’re mad she’s giving away game to women who can go off to get what they deserve out of a man. Either way you men shouldn’t be pressed.
@user-og8ii5dc4l6 жыл бұрын
I don't know why these trolls think women don't reciprocate. It is possible to reciprocate with a man who loves you more without giving away your soul. These men are happy and getting their needs met.
@Mrs.7046 жыл бұрын
Most men who troll these channels are used to the pick me chick... you know the girl that’s more emotionally invested into the man without seeing anything in return from said man. My man properly courted me in the dating stage and still does a year and a half later. He got us a place, I don’t pay bills or for dates. We go on vacations, he helps my family with anything. Life is good. When men are more into you, he will definitely over look certain things but still go the extra mile for you.
@user-og8ii5dc4l6 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@dajiahwr88306 жыл бұрын
Never seen someone so unfazed by haters ❤️
@lionsskyblue4425 жыл бұрын
Because she knows she's preaching the TRUTH.
@Legacychaser_7775 жыл бұрын
Yes.....very unbothered! Love it
@AdelTheForsaken5 жыл бұрын
She is set! Of course she ain't affected by any haters they're irrelevant to her cash flow!
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
@@lionsskyblue442 yup
@Minaj2311876 жыл бұрын
You have to find a man who loves you more than you love him In my opinion. Women are natural caretakers, givers, all that mushy stuff. In order to find that balance it has to be this way. Otherwise you'll be chasing him, & that never ends up good.
@emanualcarr74086 жыл бұрын
I guess this is why Black women are the leading females to end up never married or single throughout most of her life, looking for something that was never made to exist. Not to be a Bible thumper, but if the woman was meant to be at the forefront, we would have a different society. The foundation is built on mutual respect, not who likes who more. That's high school insecure love and it's not natural, it's built on a false since of entitlement. And NO one is owed anything, it's what you have to offer, not what you think he should do for you, for you to be happy. Other wise she lacks happiness within and is looking for someone to make her happy, and that is not the responsibility of a man in a relationship with a woman. But hey, if that statement works for you I guess you are married and don't need my opinion or the opinion of the woman in this video. Those who are looking to be lead generally already have their narrative worked out. The difference is many lack the over all out come of the success they are looking to get through that channel. It's funny, when opinions don't match, it's defined by words like "Trolling" yada yada, instead of constructive education that differs. *ANOTHER GENERATION LOST AND STILL BROKEN*
@peridozq93906 жыл бұрын
Mina Jau truth
@peridozq93906 жыл бұрын
Emanual Carr black women are unmarried because most of our men are either losers with no profession or incarcerated.
@catchaliar13176 жыл бұрын
Mina Jau THIS WORKED 20YRS AGO.. her advice outdated. You'll have many embarrassing evenings and repulsive old man sex before you get a dime. Men being educated about Shera kind and women scams. The well drying up fast. Nobody marrying so baby your best bet. Happy hunting
@Minaj2311876 жыл бұрын
Gail123 Exacccttlllyy!! As a community, it's very slim pickings out here. Most are incarcerated, DL or gay, narcissistic, or just not about nothing. But of course, black women are to blame 🤔 smh
@lindsb35415 жыл бұрын
I love this. My German grandmother said this: 'find a man who loves you more than you love him'. And it wasn't necessarily about the power dynamic or stringing a guy along; it was, as you mention here, about the fact that women naturally nurture and will put our family before ourselves, so we have to make sure that someone is putting us first so we don't end up worn out, left for last, and neglected - emotionally and otherwise. Love your videos !
@bubbly9292925 жыл бұрын
Very well put!👏
@maxasante52065 жыл бұрын
a very ugly man will always love you ;p
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Facts! Your grandmother is a smart woman!
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
@@bubbly929292 agree
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
@@maxasante5206 and pay the bills
@Unapologeticallyme895 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely true, you will forever be unhappy if you show a man that you love him more.
@October30745 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@rachelmukazayire82932 жыл бұрын
True ✌🏾
@tinyking117 ай бұрын
💯💯‼️🔥 My pride won’t even let me do that. 😅
@lionsimba7235 жыл бұрын
“The power of any relationship lies in the one ☝🏾 who CARES LESS”
@YourMotivationPage5 жыл бұрын
Lion Simba wow so true
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Facts💕
@shad57504 жыл бұрын
What type of toxic Ass shit 🤨🤨🤨
@nadineh47673 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@rachelmukazayire82932 жыл бұрын
True ✌🏾🔥💕
@viktoriake88656 жыл бұрын
"How do you deal with liars, Shera?" - SheRaSeven1: "I lie back" LMAO
@MaraMarieBeauty6 жыл бұрын
Viktoria Keß best comeback ever
@bettycat41366 жыл бұрын
and my lie is better be better than his lie
@user-nq8nl4wh9w6 жыл бұрын
Joe Smith we learned to lie from the master liars MEN lol
@user-nq8nl4wh9w6 жыл бұрын
ShoNuff IzHere!! No one cares about mgtow your not on the radar.
@emanualcarr74086 жыл бұрын
You end the relationship unless you are DESPERATE!
@havegrace91116 жыл бұрын
This is how I got my husband. I've always been better looking and I'm younger. He knows I could of gotten a much better looking guy, but he pays the bills and is taking care of the family and me. Most of those hotter looking guys I noticed can't pay there own bills and still live with there mommas lol. Gross. Good looks don't pay for food and mortgage. People have to really think and get priorities straight. Think more long term ! Him & I make one another better. I push him to make more money and be more successful, and I help him by accepting what he has to offer and show appreciation, & looking sexy & being a good mother who is there for our children. I never stopped taking care of myself. And it shows, most women my age after kids look all run through n sloppy. He says he appreciates that I care, men are visual. Never let yourself go !
@memelife86 жыл бұрын
Three lovely blessings This.
@Uncutdatingtruths26 жыл бұрын
" I push him to make more money and be more successful, and I help him by accepting what he has to offer and show appreciation, & looking sexy" lol sounds like you help a lot
@Uncutdatingtruths26 жыл бұрын
What if you become fat and ugly and the guy still has money? Maybe you should have something else to offer besides looks because that fades away and he can cheat on you with someone else
@memelife86 жыл бұрын
Real Legit What if you become rich?
@Uncutdatingtruths26 жыл бұрын
I would stay faithful but some guys will leave there fam when the money comes in
@jazzyone19865 жыл бұрын
This is one of the hardest lessons to learn as a woman. But it’s so true listen to Shera.
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Agree
@terrymcgowan44775 жыл бұрын
this woman has changed my life
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Mines too!
@goddesslucere Жыл бұрын
Same and for the better
@VibeWithVida5 жыл бұрын
Don't compete with the man you want. Brilliant.
@joannejoanne78166 жыл бұрын
I'm 38 and I learned this philosophy as a teenager just by the experiencing the hard knocks in life. The man should love more because GENERALLY the woman is more faithful so the relationship will work whereas if it was the reverse the man will trample all over the woman, cheat, and leave his family in the dust
@lolaispure42962 жыл бұрын
Indeed. Indeed. Indeed. Ita already A LOT to bear and raise children for a man. Make him a father and a respected member of society by bringing stability and a positive mindset in the marriage. He, in return has TO BE HEAD OVER HEELS over you. And actually, even, put you on a pedestal!! YOU DESERVE IT.
@rumooooni Жыл бұрын
Yep my mother is a pickmesha he tramples all over her and disrespect her/ disregard her efforts DONT DO IT DO NOT LOVE A MAN LIKE THIS YOU WILL BE MISTREATED PLEASE
@GoddessAries11 ай бұрын
@@rumooooni So true!
@go_off_Sis5 жыл бұрын
The same Dusty men up in these comments demonizing us for hypergamy - are the same ones that would go to Brazil and spend up their savings on those women.
@sadelorraine84374 жыл бұрын
Are the same ones expecting women to be their sex slaves, personal cooks, maids, foot rubbers, and convenient bank accounts while they sit back and do nothing.
@blckstrdust27034 жыл бұрын
D sad So much truth in this thread. Y’all ain’t spitting nothing but facts in here!!
@cheekbonesgoddess2284 жыл бұрын
Cause the love Becky’s with good hair not y’all nappy hairs
@cheekbonesgoddess2284 жыл бұрын
Cause the love Becky’s with good hair not y’all nappy hairs
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Lol facts
@Lalajewel4 жыл бұрын
Ladies this is so true , let me tell you a story that happened I knew someone who was dating an older guy he took her out, he invested money into her, he handed her the keys to his home . He loved her . A few weeks into them dating she heard about another woman ,she spoke to this woman and the other woman seemed so lost, she said the woman told her that she was so in love with him and he was in loved with her ; this woman stayed out of the state , she said she paid her own bills she didn’t need his money she was set. She said the woman seemed so delusional. She has never been taken out to eat. No kind of face to face conversations. Just a bunch of lonely messages to hold on to for memories . The morale of the story is let that man be a MAN , allow him to invest his money, if you don’t allow him to be a man he WILL leave you for a younger woman as this man did .
@karanapier91756 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely true. And I've been told by many men that they have to love you more or they wont pursue you or marry you. You have to be the prize. Good video❤
@kstarrify4 жыл бұрын
yaaaaas!!!
@jessicaholting23625 жыл бұрын
I might end up permanently single but it’s better than being in an unhealthy relationship. I can treat myself a whole lot better than so many men can.
@topazdeeb5 жыл бұрын
So true 🌹
@sjay19babybaybay934 жыл бұрын
Well thats must be what u want to do. Stop looking for mega attractive men or broke men.
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
If he ain't much richer than me he a no-go
@corina67722 жыл бұрын
Are you still single?
@lawoman68665 жыл бұрын
It's like saying, "I love you" first. NO NO. Keep him hoping and wishing even if inside you're super crazy about him. Once you fail, he's gone!
@alexzandra-fallonallen3175 жыл бұрын
Very True, I notice the minute I start showing a bit more affection even so called "nice guys" will get disrespectful.
@GoddessAries11 ай бұрын
@@alexzandra-fallonallen317 True! I married a “nice guy” aka dusty and the second I started to care more things went downhill
@Iamkennedyt5 жыл бұрын
This Is So True.... My Best Friends Mother told Us long ago.. “Find a Man who Loves you more and you will grow to love him” ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@kpopobsessed2973 Жыл бұрын
Shera, i realized that you care for women the most! People might call you selfish ! But honestly you really wanna help women i can tell! Thank you for your every lesson❤
@_keytruth82876 жыл бұрын
Yes I really believe this longer relationships lasts longer when the dude really want the gurl
@annierosser476 жыл бұрын
What she said about meghan markle is spot on. I thought exactly the same thing
@nicolesmith76115 жыл бұрын
I'm currently talking to someone that is crazy about me, he makes sure hes dressed to the nines and always buys me something everyday. I started dressing more feminine and do not text him alot.
@niratomas5792 жыл бұрын
Okaaaayy💅🏾
@gina729165 жыл бұрын
He has to love you more PERIOD!
@shahana_style5 жыл бұрын
I needed to watch this one again because I'm catching feelings and I can't lose that power. Thank you for this.
@GodIsMyRockInHimWillITrust6 жыл бұрын
This title are the exact words my grandmother told me. I miss her and her wisdom. ❤
@shahagonywoodhouse64036 жыл бұрын
Mine 2
@23Eulogy236 жыл бұрын
I have been dating this guy for a year. It was obvious I was in love with him. He started acting up and I flipped the switch sleeping separately. Now he is buying me a car for my bday. He has the want and need to be the provider. Imma take him up on it
@adrianna485 жыл бұрын
My rule as a woman: Never date the man version of yourself! Date down- then marry up!!
@Tiffany-un3hw5 жыл бұрын
Adrianne Carter not understanding that logic.. How can you marry up if you date down? Unless you meet a bum who levels up while dating..
@adrianna485 жыл бұрын
Ashley, If you’re a 10 don’t date a 10. Get the basic looking guy(that’s dating down) with a good career and money. He’s gonna be more excited to have you. Then marry him(that’s marrying up because you won) you have a guy with money who adores you!
@manunascimxnto3 жыл бұрын
i didn't got it at first, but now, with your explanation above, it makes SO MUCH SENSE!!! i used to wish i had a guy in the same level as me (a guy equal to me, almost my male version), to live that teenage love fantasy, but i'm starting to notice that i don't get along well with these type of guys who are my male version, *because i usually tend to chase them* 🤡 while the guys who aren't my male version, *love to chase me!* (and they're usually the ones who are more intelligent and have more chances to be wealthy in the future, even though they're not typically attractive). i think i'm starting to learn the game lol
@KnowledgeSeeker784913 жыл бұрын
This is one of the reasons we have so many unattractive people
@prerna61292 жыл бұрын
Please give more rules
@ariesdelfuego4 жыл бұрын
"Let him do all the work." 🙏💯
@whitneysstyle23535 жыл бұрын
'You gotta be smarter than them!'i love this❤
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@godsfavorite16236 жыл бұрын
If he is doing much than you You win even if you are less attractive than him.
@godsfavorite16236 жыл бұрын
Gail123 you should go out often you will see some « ugly » women having mind control over good looking men. The one who have the right mindset always win. You can find a very attractive woman being cheating on and get replaced by an « ugly » woman. It’s not because you look good that you will attract a good looking man. This world is vibrational you will attract who you are
@peridozq93906 жыл бұрын
ANIMA if they’re but controlling the man, dig deeper, she probably makes the $$ in the relationship, she’s probably more educated than the man; nothing is as it seems . With regards to cheating, NO woman is immune, it just depends on the man you’re with. Being cheated on has nothing to do with looks.
@godsfavorite16236 жыл бұрын
Gail123 I saw jobless « ugly » women being chase and spoiled by men. The men pay her bills buy her grocery and taking her out on nice place and in other side I saw gorgeous women who don’t get nothing and pay 50/50. I didn’t know why until I watch sheraseven1 channel. If you partner never spoiled you can’t understand what I m talking about. Receiving from a man is a best feeling ever and you just have to relax and receive not chasing. Most of a man love to give women. Men who don’t do much is because they do see that woman as the price or a game changer wom
@godsfavorite16236 жыл бұрын
Or these men are just broke even they will do everything for that woman.
@thelovely15535 жыл бұрын
@@godsfavorite1623 you're right, I know a guy who looks better than his wife makes more and does everything for her. She's not ugly but basic looking but hey whatever works for them
@palindrome066 жыл бұрын
Men marry with a woman he likes, women like the man she's married with. As a man I expect loyalty from women. She doesn't have to be in love with me but she has to respect me and appreciate me, by being affectionate and being feminine for me.. lady in the streets freak in the sheets. As long as she's loyal I will respect her I will provide her and worship her
@palindrome066 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't have the right to expect that if I were not loyal.
@xcookiefacetwx61236 жыл бұрын
you should have women falling over you!
@MelaninMagdalene6 жыл бұрын
Start a business. These weemen are loyal to the bottom line. You'll have broads working 24/7 with undying love with the right business.
@SkyeDash5 жыл бұрын
You are a scorpio huh? Lol
@shebacynn13204 жыл бұрын
You really do get it, sound like an African man that's how they do it.
@hannahpocock41525 жыл бұрын
This is the same advice my 91 year old grandmother told us.
@kirsten10074 жыл бұрын
Sherae speaks truth. I was married 23 miserable years and He DID not worship ME. He thought he was the prize
@supermanfan13155 жыл бұрын
YES SHERA!!!! He must love YOU more than you love HIM!!! That way if he ever loses his damn mind and starts acting up and treating you badly you can leave him with no hesitation!!!! PERIOD!!!! AND FURTHER NOTE!!! I love how she says “Ever” 😂😂
@enchantedempr3ss2 жыл бұрын
This is so true. I remember I said it out loud, then my Husband called me and said … you know I feel like I love you more than you love me 🤣♥️🥰! I manifested that 🙂
@niratomas5792 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@enchantedempr3ss2 жыл бұрын
@nira girllllll I was like oop! 🤣 I feel like that’s just how it was supposed to happen tho.
@niratomas5792 жыл бұрын
@@enchantedempr3ss That’s exactly how it should be! Good for you for manifesting that for yourself!
@sjay19babybaybay934 жыл бұрын
A man that loves you less will make you look old before your time! Example 25 look 40, 40 look 55, and up!
@Resume086 жыл бұрын
Damn shera7 you got a nice crib, I can tell by the background, James hooked you up, take notes ladies😎
@africanbeauty75 жыл бұрын
sammy davis This is a standard house in the South. She’s not living in a South Beach mega mansion
@tinasnow20065 жыл бұрын
africanbeauty7 Are you living in one?
@angelstarr49535 жыл бұрын
@@africanbeauty7 Jealous much?
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@MJWife07 Жыл бұрын
@@africanbeauty7 from what I’m seeing her house doesn’t look standard at all.
@fanyatandu22555 жыл бұрын
My mother said this to me before she passed away❤️ the only right way
@jerrejackson19735 жыл бұрын
Broke dusty here. To all you beautiful, intelligent mothers, Happy Mother's Day!
@Hiddenplace4142 жыл бұрын
It's definitely true even my grandmother always said this. If he loves you more then you stress less over him which keeps him loving you. Men don't like insecure women
@sjay19babybaybay934 жыл бұрын
Men will never tell you the truth! The combination works! Leave the mega attractive men alone!
@Jellybeanjam19916 жыл бұрын
Why didn’t i watch this sooner 😭
@venna15206 жыл бұрын
Amanda B Right!? But I’m proud that I found her before too late
@sashahollingsworth70605 жыл бұрын
Go back to Tyron while he steal money out yo purse😂😂😂I died!
@GoddessY19684 жыл бұрын
Great title. My mother and great aunt also preached the same thing. The man always needs to me more invested in you.
@Lawyerbaejess4 жыл бұрын
One of my best guy friends said this. Marry a man who loves you more.
@AFFTFOMSICHTS5 жыл бұрын
Sooo many wise ppl have told me this and pickMeisha always says “it should be equal” which tells me what a fantasy land they truly live in...how many relationships do you know where they are equally in love ?? That’s an exception not the rule! The rule is most of the time one person is a little more in love and it should ALWAYS be the man! If it’s not you’re most likely setting yourself up for failure. And I know there’s always exceptions but don’t live your life always thinking that will be you bc 9/10 it’s not. Save yourself the heartache
@renajupitersky65655 жыл бұрын
I have never laughed through a whole video until today. Ashera you have me cracking up.
@liranekm3 жыл бұрын
I agree . Plus many African tribes believe in it too . it's better to date someone who is in love with you rather than someone you in love with
@niratomas5792 жыл бұрын
My Haitian grandmother put me on this too!
@silverkitty25034 жыл бұрын
I think you should love someone not romantically but platonically ....its a higher love ...honestly if you are too romantically attached you can end up damaging men. Or the relationship. It becomes tumultuous. Romantic love is just an ideal created in songs. I am looking for a decent man who provides and is a good father. I am not looking for a hot guy to be passionate about. That is shallow. Men are not capable of platonic love ....they operate on a low level they need to be obsessed. It needs to feel passionate for them.
@manunascimxnto3 жыл бұрын
"it needs to feel passionate for them" fACTS!!!
@brittneymarshall22782 жыл бұрын
Yes platonically is the right love, when I start to romanticize love I get way too emotional
@hunnydoo77375 жыл бұрын
OMG your daughter is just like you! Wonderful personality, a totally unfazed by the negativity. You are doing an amazing job ❣️❣️❣️
@taswiyahraoof285 жыл бұрын
Show up and accept the award. Lol
@kadzo66146 жыл бұрын
I wish I came across this channel 10 years ago. So relatable. Damn! You just got a new subbie from Nairobi Kenya.
@Tapleley5 жыл бұрын
Khadija Kenya 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Tuliza dada
@julieotieno58005 жыл бұрын
Kenyan gal right here as well.Shera is moses with the commandments
@ifrahburalle62332 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣im here too
@spiceanddice104 жыл бұрын
Your so funny and speak the truth. I have a man that supports me and pays my bills and we have not been intimate. Hes been helping me for the last two years.
@indigoGoddess73 жыл бұрын
A few years ago, I shared with a pickme at the time I didn’t know these terms. When I said that my guy was paying my bills and we weren’t intimate - she was so angry. The rest of the night she barely spoke and or would try at make jabs at me. When I left her place I kept thinking wow - put yourself in her shoes. Of course she’d be jealous, she’s never had a *man* in her life and or received anything from one.
@nicolep.scorpio55066 жыл бұрын
True facts my man told me the same thing men love more than ladies you right definitely
@prettyandyoung70286 жыл бұрын
anyone adult that would troll on a child is sick. Good job teaching her to stand up for herself. Such sweet mommy
@angelic88892 жыл бұрын
You are a genius. Im mad I didn't find these videos 10 years ago
@foyerfelin6 жыл бұрын
That makes perfect sense, all things are either going one way or the other, never both at the same time ! All is energy, energy is mouvement, so it goes somewhere, it has direction.
@user-iu6bv8vu8o5 жыл бұрын
💯My Dear you are Dead On, I could not agree with you more Every Word is the TRUTH....when a man knows he got you in that emotional state- thats when the Games Begin...Like Tina said"Whats Love got to do with it!".....
@changeforsafety51786 жыл бұрын
I really hate these games. But they wanna play...smh...ugh!!!
@kirsten10074 жыл бұрын
Let me tell you a little something. Many many years ago my own mother tried to teach me these things. I would not listen. Now after a bad 23 year marriage I I listen to Sherae. IT is a GAME whether you play or NOT. So play and play well and WIN
@rainsara27954 жыл бұрын
@@kirsten1007 yesss
@nlrrln68815 жыл бұрын
She studied his mother, good point ☀️
@niratomas5792 жыл бұрын
I watched this about 3 years ago and came back to watch it again and found it even more hilarious than the first time!
@SheIsTired Жыл бұрын
why?
@YourMotivationPage5 жыл бұрын
I met this guy online and exchanges pics after. When I sent my pic I had more make up on than usual because of the event i went to. He completely disapeared than came back again. I was like whatever and kept ignoring him. Than one day he called with a different number i didnt know it was him. I picked up and we talked. It turned out the reason his ghosted me is because I too good looking for him. He freaked out and was not confident enough. Ladies he is 42 years and im 33. Can you believe that age with 0 confidence. I cut him off. Now every day he texts and says hi how are you and nothing else. Weird. Moving on
@brittneymarshall22782 жыл бұрын
He’s married
@eulabarredo51862 жыл бұрын
You are delusional, he is probably married or in a relationship.
@neenag34035 жыл бұрын
I love Sasha 😍 she has your singing voice, she sounds so beautiful. A house of songbirds 🥰❤️❤️❤️
@imgrateful71425 жыл бұрын
I think Barak loves Michelle more. Sure, she loves him,, but you can literally see it in their body language and that dynamic doesn't appear to bother him. He's the main provider and he doesn't mind. But, cute as he is; in her book she tells how she was ready to divorce him at one point. She was likely taught this was the way it should be by her mother/the older women in her family.
@hamsini14 жыл бұрын
The savior of all women ❤️
@pikaluv11864 жыл бұрын
I love you Shera so much !! Everytime I have a problem I go here and feel much better
@taranapier32965 жыл бұрын
You are fabulous, girl. Now so am I because of your "lessons."
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
Another great video Ms. Shera. All those who are offended obviously dont like to hear the truth
@honeybfly19806 жыл бұрын
I wish all women were drop dead gorgeous so we all have the same power and can get the kind of men we want
@LaDeeDah6 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous doesn't guarantee that.
@GoogleUser-wy2vv5 жыл бұрын
@@LaDeeDah So true. Look at all those porn stars and strippers. Many of them are paid for the way they look but are disrespected everyday.
@Wadzizoe4 жыл бұрын
honeybfly1980 no because if all women were drop dead gorgeous it would become the norm & wouldn’t be as impressive
@mysmirandam.66183 жыл бұрын
Awwwww
@mysmirandam.66183 жыл бұрын
@@Wadzizoe ikr?
@greciamedero28083 жыл бұрын
My man love me more and I love it. I sent him to our mutual friends house (they’re a couple but Im no longer friends with them) while I went shopping with my mom and I wasn’t even halfway done and he called me talking about he was already heading home. I was surprised because since I stopped being friends with the woman he hadn’t seen his best friend (the guy) and i asked him why he didn’t take advantage and he said “what was I gonna do there without you ?” But just know I kept shopping and got home at midnight anyway lol
@flowmaster20105 жыл бұрын
If yall women are looking for a husband for the rest of your life then yes this is the only way it can work. Unless the man is the one that wants the relationship for life which that's rare. If your a dime you cannot marry another dime. Look at the famous people. Perfect example jayz and Beyonce. Yall know she can marry any man in America that's just as rich with a better physique but she didn't. Jayz ain't leaving her! He may have cheeted but he ain't going no where
@KnowledgeSeeker784915 жыл бұрын
What about Ciara and Russell? On the outside looking in they seem very happy and comfortable with each other and they both are very attractive
@sjay19babybaybay934 жыл бұрын
That's very rare Ciara & Russell...good luck on that one
@flamencomagick32604 жыл бұрын
Jay Z is not attractive in the least. However, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
@flamencomagick32604 жыл бұрын
I don’t think someone should be with someone they aren’t attracted to. Period!
@aishahwilliams37816 күн бұрын
@@sjay19babybaybay93Ciara dated down because she got a square in Russell but she really wanted a thug like future.
@yoso59345 жыл бұрын
Omg - when i was like you people said i was conceited and mean . I foolishly started being how i was advised and began losing in life. Relationships & jobs. I’ve been transitioning back to this disposition because people are heartless - so the advice you give makes good sense.
@raindrop60414 жыл бұрын
10:14 facts!!! You’ve analyzed Meghan and Harry’s relationship so well! I thought exactly like that as well!
@azulceleste8a5965 жыл бұрын
This lady is spot on.
@serenityserenity98296 жыл бұрын
great topic good content, don't agree with everything you say, but you always have something to say that I can use and apply to my real life and it works like a charm!!!
@primaveraverano16642 жыл бұрын
This is the only channel where I really want to donate even without knowing that this option exists here!🔥🔥🙌
@royalsiriusgoddess385 жыл бұрын
You my best friend now from this video alone! Wisdom!!!
@trishamentoor78895 жыл бұрын
I'm watching you from South-Africa and i must say, your videos are spot on and has helped me so much!!! Plus you're funny lol
@Miss.Bri_5 жыл бұрын
I’m really be crying (laughing) at your videos! Your too funny but speaking all facts!! 😩😂
@empress89712 жыл бұрын
I promise 😩😂😂😂
@HealedChakras7775 жыл бұрын
lmbooo sasha was hilarious. take it from meeee. glad you got her on the right track so young
@suzannepetrozzas30694 жыл бұрын
Omg...you are hysterical!! Meghan Markle’s cheeks hurt from smiling!!🤣😂🤣
@Direct84 Жыл бұрын
Reconsider when you’re sacrificing more, giving more, love them more.
@LaDeeDah6 жыл бұрын
She's absolutely right.
@laundrybasket26892 жыл бұрын
Some of this doesn’t work on men though. For example, what you mentioned at 1:03:20 - I tried this with my fiancée of five years (now an ex, since 2012) and he got completely UNattached emotionally, and eventually dumped me instead. So not all of this advice works. I’m glad he left me though, because he was a narcissist and I was too young to know any of this at that time. Another one of his reasons for dumping me was because he wanted me to be a work mule and go 50/50. NO THANK YOU! 🥂
@niratomas5792 жыл бұрын
That’s why the correct target is everything! That’s the first law of seduction: choose the correct target.
@im26c4u5 Жыл бұрын
He wasn't that into you then.
@zipporahrios83195 жыл бұрын
My AUNTIE always preached this!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@mstje68666 жыл бұрын
Could you do a specific video on dealing with a narcissist? I find that it really take some mental strength because narcissists are master manipulators.
@SheRaSeven16 жыл бұрын
become one yourself , problem solved
@tiffnym6 жыл бұрын
+ShoNuff IzHere!! If her advice is so outdated why are you in here pressed? Oh that's right because it works.
@unwine79616 жыл бұрын
ShoNuff IzHere!! No she is telling the truth.
@peridozq93906 жыл бұрын
Ms TJE leave him, it’s easier than trying to outsmart a natural born manipulator, you’ll never be as good as him because it comes natural to him without effort while you’ll be struggling to be out of your element.
@IamKarryanne6 жыл бұрын
It does take mental strength..and if your married to one, good luck! But if you have no ties walk away..This is a learned behavior from young childhood for their "survival". Don't play their game, it's exhausting..only deal with them when you HAVE to.
@sabrinalittle7914 Жыл бұрын
Girl your videos has brought me so much perspective. Thank you!
@EmpressofChrist4 жыл бұрын
I always say (NEVER GET TOO COMFORTABLE,)
@EmpressofChrist5 жыл бұрын
That's so true he has to love u more
@rachel1833213 жыл бұрын
Trust me there’s playing hard to get and then there's not giving a crap about him and using him for what you can get out of him period yes he should love you more or he should love you and don’t give a rat behind about him and take as much as you can get out of him .
@giftgeorge843 жыл бұрын
i know of a very powerful man who help me bring back my ex husband who has left me for years and now my ex husband is back to me, it was my friend lisa that told me about the man
@giftgeorge843 жыл бұрын
whatsapp him if you need any help
@giftgeorge843 жыл бұрын
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@viktoriake88656 жыл бұрын
46.16:the way she says "Bye Sasha, bye." LOL
@PerrySkyePhoenix5 жыл бұрын
I guess I suck at relationships because I don't know how to act? I only know how to be myself.
@always_priceless55985 жыл бұрын
Sasha just made my whole day!! Yaaaassss!!
@daffy03836 жыл бұрын
Truth has been spoken again today😋
@vanoylifestyle6 жыл бұрын
SherAI will be listening to the Art of Seduction all week. Do you recommend any other auto books. ..Also 48 Laws of POWER..Thanks BIG SIS
@Emi106734 жыл бұрын
Art of seduction is a great book. I read it years ago. I gotta re read it again. Also make anyone do anything by David Lieberman.
@jerrejackson19735 жыл бұрын
The man in the movie "Casino" (which was based on a true story), loved his wife more than she loved him. Such women have themselves for their own worst enemy.
@user-nq8nl4wh9w6 жыл бұрын
Facts from the DON. Remember ladies you never go against the family. Lol
@tiffnym6 жыл бұрын
lol!
@reclaimedandrested6 жыл бұрын
She betta not eva go against that family
@Angel-jn3gj Жыл бұрын
Omgg your babygirl is adorable ❤ she singing the truth now 😂!
@marcycat3 жыл бұрын
You said, "I can't be humbled to some broke dusty" hahaha lololol !