Why DO women Talk SO Much?

[@loveself6396]

Law #4 - Always say less than necessary! Yes !

[@qtq7680]

Nicole Nicole what laws are these? This is a serious question🤔

[@lalili1358]

Talking less will get you further.

[@Melanie-le6mw]

Yesssss indeed! 🔥

[@synthefire]

@@qtq7680 48 laws of power

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

You are so right about us being brainwashed into not putting ourselves first.

[@Mia-sp8jc]

Yes! The one talking the most is either insecure or lying. Get-A-Grip! All he needs to know is your name (& it wouldn't hurt to make that up) Shera says just sigh and sip. Best compliment I ever received - "I can't figure you out". - reach for that ladies.

[@Seven-c6q]

Shauna M. I love making up names on different dates I get to practice my acting skills better because I’m not being “me me” lol it makes dating sooo much more fun I even play into the name

[@Mia-sp8jc]

@@Seven-c6q Yes. So much fun and liberating when you adopt another persona.

[@serenere1923]

“ go to the mirror and slap yourself” 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😅 OMG shera you’re hilarious 😂😂😂

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

Those creepy men make bets and laugh behind your backs about making women pay. Wise up. SheRa is right don't give your keys out. That's just crazy.

[@deedeemoore6096]

Right they better wake up and not turn a blind eye and stay 1000 feet ahead of those scammers

[@glownaturally2475]

I swear you are teaching me how to be in control of my emotions. I swear you are not letting no one get you mad with these comments..my game needed some new levels ...thank you..

[@missk8522]

I've managed to master not talking and deflecting. I'm so good at it weeks later people nearly always say to me "I actually know nothing about you"😂

[@menikersantos236]

My aim is to get to this level

[@prettylifeprettywife7171]

K it’s so fun.🥰🥰😂😂😂🥰💋🥰😂😂🥰🥰

[@teemadarif8243]

Did you get people starting to complain and whine about you not talking with them ? I got that alot.

[@missk8522]

Tee Darif No because I'd still talk them, I'd just make the conversation all about them and ask questions. People are usually very self centred so they'd just go on and on about themselves whilst I keep my business to myself

[@firesign4297]

😀😁😀.... And...I say...DON'T ! ...Even give these! guys!😕.....Your!.(REAL) !.....Name! or...Birthday!😨...Because they are... GOOGLING!!!...Woman...to find out...All....Your😨 Information!!!....✌

[@rosiev1702]

I say this to my girlfriend's all the time. Just be quiet. You'll get more.

[@speakyourdreamsintoexisten725]

I have been married 21 years and you are so right. I send all my single friends to you. Keep teaching these girls! You always look different, but pretty of course!

[@cindylou3708]

One time I had a 2+ hr drive to a place (where we were going to be judges) with a super piano star who specializes in chamber music. Being a professional musician myself I was terrified of exposing my ignorance about chamber music (which I've never enjoyed). So I decided just to listen to him. He talked about chamber music almost the entire time and I basically listened. I was SHOCKED when weeks later I heard he really enjoyed the drive with me!

[@jayyslim848]

I’m learning to shut up 😩😂

[@juiceecouturelover]

I’m a Scorp so being mysterious comes very natural to me. I remember back in high school my side dude’s friend called me Batman because i barely said anything when I was around them and they knew little to nothing about me. I would just sit there on silent mode looking cute. Fast forward 10yrs and I am still playing the same game 😂😈

[@user-gs1di4sk2r]

I’m a Pisces with a Scorpio moon that’s even worse 😭😭we are emotionless, seductive and mysterious 😩

[@aishamapp]

I agree silence but at the same time being engaging is a virtue. I’m really quiet irl I use the internet to say what I’m really thinking, it’s loads of fun😄 I’m guessing silence makes people want to talk to you and to tell you all their business because that’s what I experience. I’ve noticed that men talk a lot. I also hate when men want me to talk on the phone with them. Omg! Why?

[@sephoravo]

If they want to talk to you on the phone that’s a good sign! Men get easily emotional invested in you when they talk to you on the phone. Especially when it’s long “deep” conversations where he does most of the talking

[@StarGoddessLove]

My little sister is the sane way. She'll talj to me at times on the phone but loathes speaking to a man especially one that talks to much😂

[@angel33333333]

omg men LOVE talking on the phone and it's so annoying

[@Metaphysicalmindspace777]

I agree. I don’t want to hear all the fluff and blah. Blah. Blah and I’m a woman so I know men don’t want to hear it.

[@lademonhunter]

You’ve taught me so much about men and women and our society. But when you discussed the truths of pedophelia when that troll tried to diminish you, that was too real. I appreciate your greatness. You used to make me triggered and upset me but after 2 years of healing myself from emotional and physical abuse I reconstructing myself. I’ve always been good looking but was a total pickmisha until I saw your vids. I’ve been let all my female friends and close fam see your vids. And now I have a sugar daddy much older than me, not bad looking, but totaling in love with me. I had to shed my desire for chaos and drama with dusties. And I can’t even believe how amazing this new life is. Thank you so much for your raw real ness, humor and truth. Bless you. 🙌🏽❤️🔥

[@carlynewoodrow8494]

I like this version of shera lol straight to the point

[@BLURRRULB]

That's the only SheRa I know! 🤣

[@carlynewoodrow8494]

Lol yeah but usually she stops and answers the questions that shes answered sooooo many times already but people dont pay attention. I start answering for her at home lol I'm glad shes just like "seriously?" Next question

[@Seven-c6q]

foxylady246 omg this is me ya’ll lmao

[@ChardaeNoPersona]

😆😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂... I just can’t take them subtle jokes... baby momma sliding to the corner store to get you a black n mild...🤣😂🤣🤣.. I just can’t take it. You are so calm with killer jokes.

[@robingchester]

I like to play a game where I get my point across with the fewest words possible, but in a nice way. I use it on everyone and it really gets attention. With dates, it just makes me seem mysterious and they are way more interested. This technique also saves me a lot of energy lol😉!

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

How so?

[@miadolci5535]

THIS IS SOME REAL TRUTH RIGHT HERE... I'VE NEVER HEARD A WOMAN BRING IT TO OTHER WOMEN LIVE AND DIRECT..., LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOUR HONESTY SIS!!

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Agreed

[@greenergrass35]

If talking too much was an Olympic event, women would receive gold medals every time.

[@joniajohn4716]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Nice one👏👏🖤🖤🖤!!!!

[@monisejayy]

So glad I found your channel!! I knew there was a reason why I attract certain guys. it’s because I’m leveled up & I will continue to level up. Thank you for putting me on game, I will forever watch your videos.

[@evelina3075]

Marry for money girls !

[@melanievintimilla7543]

Period.

[@evamaria644]

Women can definitely be feminine in the military because I served and many of my friends and we were feminine. The Army has what they call a quartermaster were you take your uniforms to be professionally pressed use this service is only $15 or $20 a month. Buy extra boots that don't need to be shined. Get your nails done in nude colors and/or french manicure. NEVER CUT YOUR HAIR I don't give a damn what they say because by regulations you don't have too but you do have to keep it off the back of your collar, therefore, you have to get up early to style your hair so it will fit under your cap. Most of the jobs in the military are like civilian jobs they start around 7:30 am to 4:30 pm. After work, you wear what you want to wear. Women don't have to wear the fugitives they have skirt uniforms you can wear too and they don't have to wear military pumps they can wear their own heels as long as they are black. However, the great thing about the military is that you can ask to be relocated to any place in the country or around the world were they have a base. For instance, if you're Navy one of their bigger bases is in San Diego, in fact, there are a few of them. You live on base so you don't have to worry about the cost of living and that is a gold mine for wealthy people. In the Marines, one of their more popular bases is Camp Pendleton, which sets between Los Angeles and San Diego. If you can't work those area's I don't know what to tell you. And, I haven't even gotten to the bases overseas in Europe. My point is America has bases all over the world and uncle sam will pick up the tab to send you there what you do with the opportunity, is up to you? You can gold dig while serving your country too. If I only knew what I'm learning today back then I would have been set by now for sure. For you older women the military does the same for you if you have a skill set they can use just apply for a civil service position and travel around the world too at uncle same expense.

[@suzielizeth1380]

I’m 20 and I’ve been thinking of joining the military to be extra secure for my future . What do you recommend ?

[@evamaria644]

@Suzie Lizeth~thanks for reaching out. I wrote this hoping someone like you would read it. But before I answer you question can you tell me what it is you want out of life? Do you want a career, if so, what kind? Do you want marriage and family? Do you want to be in entertainment or do you see yourself traveling the world? Other than to feel secure why would you want to join the military?

[@suzielizeth1380]

Marie Evans I want a career I feel passionate about and that’s fulfilling. To be of service. For the past couple of years I’ve been trying to find what I like or might enjoy getting a degree in and it’s been challenging because I feel I can’t fit myself into anything. I really just want to make the most out of my time. As of right now I’m not thinking about marriage and I can’t see myself having kids yet

[@evamaria644]

I only asked because you are on this channel and joining the military is completely different than what ShaRa is advocating. However, you shouldn't feel bad about not knowing what it is you want to do because the vast majority who are your age and in college don't know what they want to do in life and those who do are simply following a schedule their parents put them on. I think our society has mislead people into believing you have to do what you love when nobody knows what they love unless they have been exposed to it. If you decide to go to college I would get a degree that you can use anywhere like English or better yet a foreign language and becoming an expert in it. Both the military and the sugaring lifestyle requires you to choose them early in life. The truth is nobody which route you choose you will always which you chose the other. As far as the military is concern they have opportunities true enough but you also will have someone telling where to go and what to do as well. One thing you always have to look out for are the men because they are everywhere young and old, married and single and they will pounce on you like a chocolate cake at a dieters convention and the married ones are the worst. If you decide the military I want you to know that you will feel like a piece of candy, initially. Now, there is the ROTC program too where you go to college first and do your military tour after college and they will pay for it. Either way it's 3 to 4 year enlistment but you will go in as a officer instead of enlisted. You can message me on my facebook account it's the same name if you want to talk further.

[@blacgyp7538]

Can you live on base with your children or that’s unacceptable?

[@vchild]

Does the egg chase the sperm.. Perfect analogy.

[@kanecierra8940]

I need for KZbin to create Love buttons because I’m “Loving This” Thanks Shera!!❤️

[@teemadarif8243]

the topic which you are speaking about is a good one to touch on.there are whole entire cultures of women who put this into practice while all the while we american women just KNEW we had it going on lol. thus we made ourselves easy targets for too many due to talking too much.talking too much= too much information.

[@TheMorganVEVO]

Tee Darif So true. This is not new information to women in other countries.

[@benjerry8987]

When you are trying to curve a man, tell him way too much information, whole life story, make up some sob story so he will RUN.

[@vyvjala804]

Took your advice and got myself a 6lbs little dog....

[@kyrareneeLOA]

What did she say about dogs?

[@danmeck5978]

@@kyrareneeLOA if you're lonely get a dog, leave the dusties alone.

[@trumpgirl440]

SheRa girl!!!! You are spilling the tea leaves for sure!!!! Thank you for opening our eyes!!!!!

[@LenaM277]

✨Limiting conversations to yay, yay/ nay, nay (yes, no) will keep that marriage contract valid for years ladies....LOL.✨

[@shebacynn1320]

😂 well atleast that's easy

[@lipstickandbooks.]

This is truth, whenever I want to get rid of someone I just met I over share lol it works because they don't bother me anymore

[@inneralignmenteducation]

my new guru. I am still trying to make peace with the position of women, needing to monetize our sexuality and using it as a power, instead of feeling cheap about it. I have issues with the notion of "prositution" and feel like I'm sorting it out. I also feel powerless in that I doubt I can "sell myself" and lie. I hate to be quiet, bc of my issues. I feel resentful staying silent bc of my baggage. I want to monetize all that I am without feeling like a "sellout". I want to feel empowered and not cheap about my goals in being protected and provided for. Any feedback is welcome.

[@pereesep2784]

Lmao i just realized how funny Shera is! Its tough love and i appreciate it

[@rebeccaanne8546]

SheRa is a goddess!! Tellin all my friends about you! Love you!

[@ohsoprissycosmetics9271]

Shera ur cheek bones😍

[@DarkAries76]

It depends. I don't talk that much to begin with but still say more than I should.

[@Muchesia-Sylvia]

Lol....I find myself here too. Saying more than I should.

[@sharikapruitt7011]

I have learned so much from you! Operation level up in action!!!

[@anonymousb8274]

You have made me laugh a lot in this video I have been noting everything you have been saying, you are a true gem! Thank you

[@michelylopes6128]

That’s correct about men be looking at 12 years old girls

[@sthandokuhletshoba1463]

"they saw into your future" 🤣😂🤣

[@jezzicabella1591]

FYI I take notes not even 5 mins in where my book at? LOL

[@Jellybeanjam1991]

You’ll get the ring if you know lord of the rings! Lmao! So dead 😭

[@sonias9722]

"that should be common sense, but it's not" exactly

[@blue_sky_bright_sun7599]

I am in awe. Now I am so curious about your story and how did your mindset came to be. It's no ordinary, you're absolutely special Shera.

[@myishaj7436]

True. Folks always think the worst if a black American man is living large without running or Bouncing a ball...so ignorant

[@genevaroddy6469]

Jeff Bezos wife looked plain and boring. The lady he’s dating now wears makeup and is well put together.

[@TheMorganVEVO]

Geneva Roddy ☕️ You're absolutely right. Lol!

[@Peachpetals111]

His wife is now a billionaire I’m sure she’ll be fine

[@genevaroddy6469]

peachpetals True! But we are talking about why he cheated! I’m pretty sure Lauren can scam him too with her makeup and another billionaire after that🤷🏽‍♀️

[@genevaroddy6469]

And understand this there’s not too many dusty men with plain Janes pick Mes who are going to become billionaires! Jeff’s wife was lucky! So this is reality and you need to Level Up

[@genevaroddy6469]

Kris 999 I never said his wife was ugly but Lauren gives a more feminine/sexy energy. A non attractive woman with more feminine energy can snatch a man quicker than a plain Jane pretty woman... y’all are missing the point

[@chicdopeness3665]

Damn ! I just ran across this video and WOW ! You are really teaching!!! So many NUGGETS!

[@CourtneyCates]

This is giving me life!!!! My fav video of yours thus far!! Thanks for the ☕️ cuz I’ve been wondering all of this!

[@genevaroddy6469]

Shera is so funny....

[@archanabhardwaj6348]

I will buy your book just for you,my lady !!

[@guy-elleniraganje4120]

Thanks u for the information 😎😎i realesed i have been messing this year but ain't no more gonna happened

[@firesign4297]

"Just Slap!😨 Yourself !😨 And...CHANGE! YOUR! LOCKS!"😁😀😁👍👍

[@PinkPisces]

A lot of cosmetic surgeons offer financing. Get your credit together and go for it if that’s what you feel you need.

[@Aquariuswonder86]

Taryn Great Thanks for this advice. That’s the only thing I feel is holding me back. Lost weight, still don’t have the body I want.

[@french2572]

Class is in session!

[@z.shari11]

I literally screamed out in exuberance at minute 2:40:50 lmao 😅😂💀 she just tells the truth so well!

[@sakimoontheefixer]

H SheRa! Thought I'd catch my first live, but just missed it lol.....still watching.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Just practice the Art of listening

[@basicinfo2022]

7:48 lmao!! Blahblahblah "he needs to go sleep now."

[@inkonp-Able]

If a guy never invites you out cause he’s always working and busy but always invites you to his house, is it him saying that I only want you for sex?

[@abyo4625]

yes

[@rickimcfarland2269]

Of course

[@carlynewoodrow8494]

And that he's trying to get by on not spending any money on you. Also, invites you to his house makes you the one courting him by going out of your way to get to him. Hes not even wasting gas money or an uber ride. Issa no.

[@erikaerika7788]

Yes

[@erikaerika7788]

It's like a call girl but free 😁

[@brownsugar1301]

Being a Libra we can be so open about everything lol I've learned long ago that we shouldnt share our whole life. Less is more

[@leese-anngordon4704]

This is soo me. Libras are so open that sometimes its hard to keep closed some times

[@brownsugar1301]

@@leese-anngordon4704 exactly im learning lol

[@leese-anngordon4704]

I need to learn as well. This is the key, deadass

[@Tatianarain]

Sagittarius too..We're too brutally honest and the world sadly dwells on lied and half truths. Lol

[@Lalala-yj9wr]

But talking a lot is very valuable in social settings /friendships maybe not with men tho....!

[@majesticbyelg6398]

You look so pretty😍

[@JesusMartinez-yh4qu]

also if he really likes you. you'd be able to tell by looking in his eyes , but dont get caught up in his charm girl lol

[@I_am_midnight]

Oh my God she is so right definitely have to listen to this woman she knows what she's talking about

[@astoldbymuriel103]

Oh goodness let me find a weird one. I'm a Game of Thrones, Lord of the Rings, Witcher type of chic... I can talk about G.O.T. alllllll day but only with someone who know the books.

[@blackdahlia4232]

Lol at the snap card and ramen noodles lol 😁😁😁

[@acham3258]

Cuz I'm on the online dating for more than on dates I find that these guys want to talk and talk and talk too many questions and I get annoyed easily. I think I end up saying too much when messaging go though. On dates I know how to be cute and quiet though

[@constancewilliams5120]

a cham I never answer the online questions. Emoji their asses.

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

I agree they almost all always ask what do you do for a living I hate that question so much, it almost makes me immediately lose interest, I never answer that question and most of the time just ghost them. The men who never ask me that always naturally hold my interest.

[@cosmicwoman8044]

Thank you again Shera🙏🏻❤️

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

I can’t drink for this reason.

[@glamorazzi0035]

Best video of all time! I was hella weak! 🤣😆😅

[@goldynmyers8587]

YES THIS IS TRUE. Women talk so much, way to much talk talk talk 24/7

[@gospinN]

When I seen how long the video is I got scared

[@heruthemaster]

Thank you for this video ...

[@Hijabibti925]

Your so evil in such a righteouse way I love it!

[@Suxy199]

Shera is hilarious 😂😂😂😂

[@user-gs1di4sk2r]

Us Pisces are naturally mysterious and seductive ✨

[@angelinavitaleco9640]

She said, One legged bald miget 😂🤣😂🤣lol

[@firesign4297]

👏👏👏 I just LOVE ❤ Your! Channel 😀😊👍👍

[@kimberlywright4988]

So true must watch out for our little girls

[@JesusMartinez-yh4qu]

Girls , Women , Ladies and hoes, there are guys who pay attention. like me. so You too need to pay attention. it's not that hard to tell if he's actually listening or not. the vibe is the key

[@jlovesj3335]

😂😂 funny how you addressed everyone.

[@Popcultureandfunn]

Wait why should you only go for ugly guys. I'm not saying that I only go for attractive guys but can't he be at least decent looking or average.

[@continuousself-improvement1879]

That's just a way to make your life easier because you will always look better than him. Either go ugly or go old. Shera went with old, because her husband (James) is 24 (iirc) years older than her. Though, IMO, James is a very distinguished looking older gentlemen whom I find to be quite attractive (he is in her other videos); which means Shera did not go with ugly.

[@maha9890]

You can be with the man you want but if he's a lot less attractive than you then he will feel luckier to be with you and work harder for you .. you'll have to do a lot less :=)

[@Popcultureandfunn]

@@continuousself-improvement1879 I'll go with older then

[@kallien9460]

You’re the prize, someone less attractive than you will always know that.

[@sofiabianchi5284]

D W make sure you go with much older. Not just older. At least 15 years older is my best advice. My husband is 17 years older than I am and it just works out better because men mature very slowly

[@Mpmb3022]

I came across this video because I literally searched "women talk too much". Please listen to her ladies. And Stop sending so many fucken voice notes!

[@JohnMoya-j7c]

SOUNDS LIKE ARE NEIGHBORS WIFE 24/7 NONE STOP 😂😂😂

[@ElonNicole]

Love your ring Shera

[@rakilashetty1957]

Love how she is blatantly honest. Witty too 😄

[@Lanainvestor]

wow! u are so smart!!!!

[@MeloIZCor3]

The video's points would've been clearer if the video was a couple of hours longer.

[@songbirdwest5710]

Thank you so much

[@bbenjoe]

Why DO women Talk SO Much? *2 hours 48 minute long video*

[@deannaishmael2366]

Yes ! To us ladies not to a guy lol

[@tashaauset9730]

Those faces....your so funny.

[@menikersantos236]

Has nearly 3 hours passed? 😱

[@HausOfAdonis]

Jeff Bezos’ wife was with him and helping him build Amazon from scratch. Then he cheated on her with Sanchez...🙄🙄

[@shaleenaabron2520]

Bezos had amazon and was rich before his wife.

[@HausOfAdonis]

GenZMommy thank youuuu!!! You know ur facts!!

[@6InchTruth]

Cheating husband....STDs. Let the side piece do the dirty work.

[@TheMorganVEVO]

MsBlackBoots 😂 YES

[@vchervil]

Lmao .That 's a human servitor

[@CARLDUNGUS]

Here is a 3 hour video describing why women talk so much hahaha

[@MrSusanjtr]

😂 Yes, Death Note 📝 😂

[@hypehouse2271]

I needed to know this. 💗💕😁

[@Iamchrismic]

Annnd. Fine. Ur right. Im learning.

[@vyvjala804]

your friend list on fb set it up for your eyes only

[@irmagonzalez6051]

I love your vibe

[@glamazongoddess1124]

The caption picture lmfaoooo