Ladies if a woman flirts with your man be really innocent and naive in front of him. And be super sweet to the lady. Make her feel guilty. Be like the most pure sweet innocent thing to her.
@JalieceKeturah4 жыл бұрын
Yes girl 🤣
@nicolekeith42514 жыл бұрын
See , to this day I’m the sweet nasty ... I don’t know if that’s bad but this waitress was flirting with my man in front of me not knowing I was paying , I tipped her 5 cents and left her a note saying , don’t try so hard love ❤️
@katsianne4 жыл бұрын
@@nicolekeith4251 girl, she was only trying to work for her tips. Maybe if you weren't with a dusty you would've felt less insecure about her "stealing" your "man". No excuses to be on shera's videos in 2020 and gloating over paying a man's way & being stingy to the waitress. Smh.
@nicolekeith42514 жыл бұрын
Katsianne Official love , no one was being stingy ti the waitress . The girl was rude to me whilst I was giving her the benefit of doubt , she only talked to my dude and ignored me when I asked her to get me a simple drink, she cut me off and more . Nobody is “gloating “ over paying a mans way but female waitress mostly go for the man since most men pay . I said what I said and don’t try to at me not knowing the full backstory . Have a beautiful night hun
@mstwelvedeadlycyns4 жыл бұрын
@Melania MoneyPenny - This technique really works??? 🤔🤨😐😏😮
@capturingsuccess11115 жыл бұрын
Shera is raising the bar...the higher our standards, the better men will treat us all.
@joemtari4 жыл бұрын
I think this sort of lying and manipulation she’s encouraging actually causes some men to behave in a similar way to get what they want too
@jasmineetienne17673 жыл бұрын
@@joemtari by the results in the society we can see who starts all this and were stupidly faithful and loyal .She educates women. Observe women in your circle, if they had better relationships, had higher standards they could do better for themselves and their famillies
@joemtari3 жыл бұрын
@@jasmineetienne1767 well so could the men. It seems like she’s telling you how to get stuff and that’s cool and all, I’ve certainly got some things during relationships. The important thing is that we learn how to work together and respect each other and ourselves and men are raising the bar their own way or not even bothering if they’re not in a relationship. Men just want to be treated well too and a lot of them are looking for solid partners because raising a family and stuff is serious work.
@jasmineetienne17673 жыл бұрын
@@joemtari Yes raising a family is a serious work that women naturally believe in. A lot of good faithful women ended in some stressful situation: discovering that the man is a serial cheater with several baby mamas, or lazy ambitionless video game player. To raise this family as a single mother , she will take 2 or 3 jobs working to death, aging prematurely ect... drugs dealers, prostitutes, thieves they originally had a dusty father. They don't want to end the poverty, abusive cycle. Shera's motivation is not just materialistic as you can think , it's about the well being of the future generation.
@jasmineetienne17673 жыл бұрын
@@joemtari can't find the video where she explains what motivates her to create her channel. But maybe you will be interested on having a male perspective I suggest you interview with Sherasen by mindful attraction 2.0. A man who invest financially in a woman will stay a little bit longer even if he is a player . Men value their money. I's better for a woman to procreate with a provider than a dusty
@Kalasun75 жыл бұрын
I agree with your advise "go where you are celebrated".
@Selenatorresxoxo3 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna live by this!!
@vanguardnoir43664 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, she is sooooo accurate about men not giving a damn about your accolades. They just want you to look good. They don’t go and tell their friends that they met a really smart business lady that has a bomb portfolio ☠️ it’s dumb but when you accept it you will move through life differently.
@joemtari4 жыл бұрын
I’d say that but she has to be cool in more than her accolades. I know when one of my buddies is dating a doctor or model I got gold digger repellent though rn you’d brush me off
@firstnamelastname44272 жыл бұрын
They care about them, but not as much as they care about a woman being feminine, sweet, classy and presentable looking.
@KurosakiLuvar012 жыл бұрын
@@firstnamelastname4427 but they don’t tho. I know men who have married women who don’t know shite. They were just pretty. 🤷🏾♀️
@firstnamelastname44272 жыл бұрын
@@KurosakiLuvar01 Most men of quality (that means more than just having material things) care about having a partner and potential mother of his children who isn't an ignorant, uneducated idiot.
@Rarity4444 Жыл бұрын
So differently
@Cashcash697 ай бұрын
Notes for myself Don’t be loud Don’t be drunk Speak soft Don’t wear pants all the time Keep nails done Play with hair
@mustikamaharani75686 жыл бұрын
Being pretty and feminine is fun. Thank you for sharing your knowledge dear
@subee18185 жыл бұрын
It is, I love it.
@sirenonland34544 жыл бұрын
So true
@mstwelvedeadlycyns4 жыл бұрын
To a point.
@devinetrinity33784 жыл бұрын
how to be a Queen/lady
@KurosakiLuvar012 жыл бұрын
Sure if you think of it as acting in a stage play.
@mercedezmorgan91355 жыл бұрын
"If you're not a flower, then why would they come to pick you?" SheRaSeven1
@jasmineetienne17673 жыл бұрын
Pure gold
@shanandananscoo4 ай бұрын
I would say we don't need to be picked ;-)
@DarkAries766 жыл бұрын
Class is in session! I like how SheRa gets straight to the point at the beginning of every video, not a bunch of intro BS.
@tayashley35396 жыл бұрын
Yesssssssss. Some ppl's vids i have to click straight out because they start it off with so much nonsense.
@refinedqueen22605 жыл бұрын
Snickers yes, yes... some talk for 15 minutes before getting to their point of video.
@sunkissedbytmh32195 жыл бұрын
Yes. I like that as well
@brittanys5055 жыл бұрын
Same
@Gigi-zd8vi4 жыл бұрын
BlaqueViolet yes agreed!!
@kekemorgan4 жыл бұрын
Dang she is telling me everything my grandma tried to teach me starting at age 5 but I didn’t believe her.
@triplebz9963 Жыл бұрын
Same
@iaf4454 Жыл бұрын
Same
@Luckimee9 ай бұрын
Why not?
@starlight14400 Жыл бұрын
I feel like I'm entering a whole new world . as a woman, I have more power than I thought I had. I wish I could've discovered you in my early twenties. You would have helped me to be more confident. but I guess everything has it's on timing. I'm glad I discovered you now ❤
@bloatedcorpse272811 ай бұрын
me too!!😊
@fridahwanja77211 ай бұрын
Sadly 😢, me too, but we can do this 😂
@chicitita10bien238 ай бұрын
Same 🙂
@AlishaH-vh5jy2 ай бұрын
Same but I believe in the timing too. It's god's wish
@tastebytahashiwilliams69154 жыл бұрын
Yesss Ladies! The " I'm being sexually harassed at work" lines totally works! He will suggest you stop working lol. Worked for me ☺️
@nein782 Жыл бұрын
What if he says find another job 😭😭😂
@IVvOOvVI Жыл бұрын
@@nein782 yeah, I feel like you have to be prepared for that as well as making sure your husband can fully provide before you quit your job.
@ab6551 Жыл бұрын
Mine was that I have delicate health and I’m delicate 🥰🥰🥰😂😂😂
@foxyboop4164 Жыл бұрын
@@ab6551 This is what I'm telling my next husband 😂 bc I rlly do suffer from anxiety and I'm trying to do better but its hard.
@MySoberSchizophrenicLife Жыл бұрын
Swear I just used this two years later thanks love ❤🎉
@cyntyj41006 жыл бұрын
Baking soda and coconut oil to clean. Shea Butter and Lavender oil as a moisturizer! Natural ingredients every night & day !
@nappyscribe19875 жыл бұрын
Ms. Jane -Cynty J Thank you
@girlnextdoor99405 жыл бұрын
Thank I'll have to try this
@gigijanae14605 жыл бұрын
@Les conseils De Marcy your body
@linaoyara75295 жыл бұрын
@Lady Million coconut oil mixed with baking soda and tea tree oil is also amazing as deodorant!! Better than any store bought one I've had.
@blkOnyx2875 жыл бұрын
Lavender oil and tree tea oil can cause breast development in children so speak to their doctor first
@nicolesmith76115 жыл бұрын
Ladies I'm 26, I stopped shopping at forever 21, h&m, and fashion nova. Also, I stepping up my game with dating and bought a perfume that's floral. Also, you can shop in nice stores. I go to the clearance racks.
Thank you for these tips ladies! I’m 26 and I am in the middle of transitioning. 👌🏿 It’s a bit tough in the winter where I am in Canada. The snow, slush, sleet, ice etc. However, I do try to wear colours in the winter (I wear a plum purples and dark reds/browns etc) and then I’ll do my eyeshadow (emerald golds,greens,brown,plums,pinks etc). Lol, despite being born here - I hate winter.
@Th3lite3 жыл бұрын
It’s not where you shop, is what you choose and how you wear it
@dcaramelone6 жыл бұрын
No, never be mean to the wait staff they will spit in your food.
@She_So_Solo6 жыл бұрын
Yeah I didn't agree with that either.
@basicinfo20225 жыл бұрын
It's true... I've heard it from someone who worked in a restaurant.
@Lynn-ip9sh3 жыл бұрын
Just recently a woman caught an attitude with a drive thru worker, she ordered a ice coffee from McDonald's. They had her pull up to wait for it. Eventually she got the drink and started sipping on it. When she got to the bottom she slurped up a whole lot of slimy mucus. Then she had to go get a covid test after and it came back positive... The McDonald's workers took turns spitting in her drink and all got fired.
@HieronymusBosch22910 ай бұрын
@@Lynn-ip9shwtf
@ms.untypical35757 ай бұрын
It also shows you rarely go out to eat and you have no class or manners.
@MeTraD_Blk_Swn5 жыл бұрын
Yes we do need to STOP turning down other races trying to stay DOWN for the brother.
@leahveal95015 жыл бұрын
BlkSwn Good point and technically that's true but what happens when the other race men can't relate to and lack empathy towards a difficult or hurtful experience we have as black people and we just want to cry on our partner's shoulder about it? I guess obviously dump the guy but at the same time other races don't have experiences like black people, our experience as a people is very unique just to us. I'd love your insights about this and some ways to deal with it.
@Glad2BGolden5 жыл бұрын
Leah Veal You will probably find some who ignore your experiences and some who will shut it down when they see someone get out of order. On a date with a White guy I was asked if I experienced a lot of racist behavior. I say date until you find an empathetic person. I have dated and I am related to Black people who brush off every racist encounter as something else. Very annoying.
@roxyhaynes18395 жыл бұрын
BlkSwn I turn other races down because I’m not into it , it’s not about being down for the “brother” lmao wtf
@xyzgirl895 жыл бұрын
ASSETS OVER LIABILITIES You are so pretty. These guys would definitely be into you and give you the treatment you deserve 👏🏾
@1111V25 жыл бұрын
@@leahveal9501 black men lack empathy for the black female experience as well. No one truly understands the black woman like another intelligent socially aware black woman. At this point, men are not here to be a shoulder to cry on. That is what our family, girlfriends or therapist are for.... The man whether(black, white, other) is here to protect and provide. If we're crying on any mans shoulder, let it be strategic and result in more money, gifts, travel, and *man*ipulation. It's time to learn from becky and use our black girl tears.
@lovelybeebeauty6 жыл бұрын
As far as my personal wardrobe, I have been wearing pantyhose with my dresses & skirts & it really adds a touch of class to the look. I’ve been getting approached by more men because of it I think.
@MsTomas0865 жыл бұрын
Pantyhose I have a hard time with them.
@amasion28825 жыл бұрын
Ditch the pantyhose and replace with thigh-highs or garter stockings. They look and feel more feminine and they are much more sanitary. Hosiery is a nice classic touch, gives you a more polished “finished” look. If you can afford the splurge silk stockings feel so fine.
@BYCloe-u5 жыл бұрын
A Masion silk is not feminine is cruel and not cute
@amasion28825 жыл бұрын
Doll Bun : So good of you to remind us. Polyester is pretty darn cruel, too, especially to sensitive skin types or in extreme weather. Alternatively, leg makeup is an option (smooths the legs, but DOESN’T replace hosiery).
@cjsmomom5 жыл бұрын
I can't do pantyhose...nor !o I think they are feminine. But thigh high stockings, oh my goodness they are so sexy... With some lace panties. My boyfriend would go crazy.😜😂
@saintk38935 жыл бұрын
Honestly! I can watch a 5 hour video by you and never be bored! You're so smart, so witty, funny, so entertaining and I'm learning sooooo much each video! I truly admire you! You made me rebrand myself and level up! Thank you so much! 😘😘😘
@TheJherimiHarmoniExperience3 жыл бұрын
Literally, I was going to comment too, but each and every word, you took right out of my mouth.😃✨✨
@jazzyb1004 Жыл бұрын
Facts. She’s all I’ve been watching since I found her 2 days ago.
@CIoseYourLegs5 жыл бұрын
💗"Save ur money. Why spend mine when i can spend yours. Get life insurance, real estate, what does your savings look like? Then spend his money. Invest yours!" Damn Ive been working too hard!
@nishamack5866 жыл бұрын
I watched an docomentry where Donald Trump was a speaker @ an conference on how to achieve wealth. Some woman got up and talked about all her Degrees. She wanted to know how to move up, Donald simply told her to FIND A WEALTHY GUY! This was from the 90's😉 Shera knows what she's talking about yawl!
@Glass0886 жыл бұрын
Nisha Mack Me personally...I would never depend on someone else for a come up....I understand my own hard work and ethics shall create the opportunity to prevail... but women have a hypergamy nature... it makes it that much harder to be independent
@nishamack5866 жыл бұрын
Makaveli The Don Good for you. That sounds Great.
@nishamack5866 жыл бұрын
The Documentary is on Netflix now about Trump for whoever wants to watch it. 😉
@yagirlllwavy6 жыл бұрын
Nisha Mack what’s the name
@nishamack5866 жыл бұрын
"DIRTY money" episode 6 .
@paulascott-hardy70605 жыл бұрын
Hey queen my husband put me on you. You helped save my marriage. He LOVES you. And so do I. Keep doing what you doing!!
@ochezeijeuruamuzie91583 жыл бұрын
extremely curious for an update, I can't imagine my SO giving me this video to watch!
@KurosakiLuvar012 жыл бұрын
@@ochezeijeuruamuzie9158 ikr? 😬
@Truthspeakerrrrrr Жыл бұрын
how are things in your marriage?
@zt8573 Жыл бұрын
How's your marriage girl?
@honeydove_4844 Жыл бұрын
wow awesome!
@TrilhaMusiki6 жыл бұрын
The thing about capricorn women is we cant be with someone we dont respect. If u don't protect and provide ur worthless to me
@IntuitiveGoat6 жыл бұрын
kilhatrilha Girl. Jan. 6th and MOS DEF HE IS DEAD TO ME IF HE CANT DO AT LEAST THOSE TWO! I like how you think sweetie.. Lol. 😚
@samanthawoldu68566 жыл бұрын
You know it! 😏💅🏽
@jellygurl276 жыл бұрын
kilhatrilha Yes!!!
@DmvBosslady6 жыл бұрын
kilhatrilha 🙌🏽🙏🏾
@briana143336 жыл бұрын
SO true! I'm very good at disappearing and losing phone numbers.
@cyntyj41006 жыл бұрын
Great great video! Married 17 yrs and your advice is on point! Hubby pays all the bills!
@danielle912866 жыл бұрын
Now I need etiquette classes. 🤦🏾♀️
@capturingsuccess11115 жыл бұрын
DanielleA I took a trip down memory lane to Charm School in 5th grade.
@CANWETALKPLZZ5 жыл бұрын
I'll be 30 next month and I'm so upset especially with the main three women in my family didn't teach me .... And I have been learning now.... and I'm sooooooooo wowed at how much I didn't and don't know
@Memorieswithoctavia Жыл бұрын
@@CANWETALKPLZZ same girl, I’m 31 lol
@Yassss-rj9zf6 жыл бұрын
Im binge watching your vids...this is really good information.
@dulcejoao54656 жыл бұрын
I treat it like class in session
@nappyscribe19875 жыл бұрын
Jennifer so do my daughter
@melissaworld915 жыл бұрын
Life changing information!
@Godlywoman886 жыл бұрын
I find men cheap when they don't at least ask me if I want dessert
@bgaines1615 жыл бұрын
Thats a fact!
@roxyhaynes18395 жыл бұрын
Yup
@joemtari4 жыл бұрын
Most men probably forgot dessert existed when they were 14
@bimobop Жыл бұрын
That or they’re extremely dumb 😂
@CarlaSilva-vc4ud5 жыл бұрын
Most of this all comes very natural to me , thank God.
@LuvG0ddess5 жыл бұрын
Your “ghetto girl” voice is so funny! “Y’all got thousand island, y’all got French, y’all got ranch!?” 😂😂😂
@msqueenlyminded75796 жыл бұрын
Where colors that draws eyes to you. Orange, Pink, Yellow, Lavender.
@memelife86 жыл бұрын
Black women need to stop being so hard headed. Temporarily sacrificing the type of food you prefer for the life you want & deserve is no big deal.
@Southerngirl08286 жыл бұрын
You spoke a word right there!
@Dilenga236 жыл бұрын
You can also learn to love the healthy stuff. It took me a long time to switch from white bread to whole grains but you can make the switch with mind power.
@AdoraBangles5 жыл бұрын
So only black women out here grubbin? Hispanic women too. They turn into a beef gordita. 😩😂
@chevypaige24455 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty heavy and I had this realization. I wasn’t getting the kind of commitment or attention I like and now I’m not going over 1500 cal till I cut this weight
@kristenmoonrise5 жыл бұрын
lol exactly..there's always a 24-hour burger joint on the way home from the date if you're still hungry lol
@helenr61726 жыл бұрын
“Live life like it’s special.” ❤️❤️
@nappyscribe19875 жыл бұрын
Helen R Absolutely
@shebacynn13204 жыл бұрын
Because it really is
@babyc.30152 жыл бұрын
I gotta fake it then. Lol
@AriesSimmer6 жыл бұрын
"You're so pretty. Who's your dentist?!" I just died. 😂😂 I love ittt so much!
@lexiilove1014 жыл бұрын
Honestly the best thing I have learned is to not rush like don’t let anyone rush u in any way just move slow and if someone is walking super fast or rushing past you then just stop let them past... and that means everywhere Practice, even at home
@krisbec59045 жыл бұрын
I need to figure out how to re program myself in my early 20's I was a super girly girl everything she described here, but sadly I spent 8 yrs with a dusty and as a result I'm now super protective and overbearing I'm used to working hard and running myself into the ground is just the norm now I don't do anything for myself anymore it's all about taking care of my kids I don't get my hair nails done I haven't bought makeup in forever just terrible. I did decide when I finally got rid of my dusty at the beginning of the year that this was going to be a new year new me type of year I will no longer entertain dusty lil boys and am dating from here on out to be taken care of...I just have to figure out how to undo 8 yrs of damage and reprogram myself😫
@MichaelMakeup5 жыл бұрын
You got this girl! 💜
@serahmichelle25675 жыл бұрын
Me too girl. 7 years with a dusty and working myself to the bone. I became the guy in the relationship.
@shaniquacarroll62935 жыл бұрын
Me too! 10 years & two children 😥
@librarianrose44725 жыл бұрын
Update?
@itsmarialifestyle43555 жыл бұрын
You'll do it a little a day, take your own time, whenever You can.
@soulnspired8886 жыл бұрын
''I asked for extra Ranch."- lol...stop it
@mwadjumamukamfizi22165 жыл бұрын
Sol Raat KaBa 🤣🤣🤣
@mw78825 жыл бұрын
I know and I was cracking up when she said a laser light show. 😂😂😂😂
@i.am.you.beauty84286 жыл бұрын
“Super de duper ghetto” lmfaooo love shera
@Ms0430116 жыл бұрын
You are so right. My late husband would never take advice from me. He would say the advice I gave him came from one of his men friends and that he never even remembered me saying anything
@fayechamp41565 жыл бұрын
Sandra P same here. That was frustrating to me. I would buy him a shirt and he wouldn’t like it then his mom or sisters could come weeks or months later with the same shirt and he act like it was the best thing. I said you have one just like it I bought. He act like he couldn’t remember. So annoying!!! Same thing with advice
@jennydelaflor20873 жыл бұрын
Everytime. He would dismiss my advice, then ask his same obvious questions to his friends, who would give him the same obvious advice, and THEN he would listen. Men's biggest mistake in relationships is not submitting to the woman's wisdom, that THEY chose. Women give advice for their own good=your benefit.
@60wwediva11 ай бұрын
@@jennydelaflor2087men don't take women advice because women are replaceable to them especially if they are with rhe woman for her looks. Family they take more seriously.
@honey777775 жыл бұрын
Ladies, we deserve all the lovely things life has to offer and it starts with the inside first. Do better and make room for all the beautiful manifestations to come 🦋✨
@laurenlocd31806 жыл бұрын
“You can’t stank “😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@gachagirlpup69705 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@christinewarren81345 жыл бұрын
Girl I was drinking my wine and almost spit 😆
@livefromtheground72744 жыл бұрын
Seriously, sometimes I smell women and Im like “Someone is NOT fresh!”
@mstwelvedeadlycyns4 жыл бұрын
@@livefromtheground7274 Lol
@mstwelvedeadlycyns4 жыл бұрын
Shera keeping it real!!!
@KDbelieves6 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything except for the curly hair part. I noticed that men would rather have a woman with kinky hair have her natural hair styled neatly than for them to have a weave on. Men prefer straight hair on women, but not when it is fake. They will just tolerate it. I get more attention from men when i wear my natural hair than when I wear weave. The key to wearing natural hair is to always have it long and to do neat styles like updo's, twist outs and streached hair.
@savepuertorico52776 жыл бұрын
KD I’ve noticed the same and I’m married. At one time it was different and men seemed to prefer straight hair but now I see more men of means (especially white men in nyc who have money) are the ones who tend to go after the darker skinned women with thick natural hair, nice bodies and a well put together outfit. Times have changed, a lot. Lol! I get the attention from them a lot too now that I wear my natural curls most of the time and I’m not dark skinned. It’s like you said, a lot of it has to do with the way the hair is styled and cared for.
@aishamapp6 жыл бұрын
I agree about the hair. I have long braids the white men love them.
@Luckimee6 жыл бұрын
I attract the cute white boys when I sport my afro.
@Dilenga236 жыл бұрын
I’m sure your afros are long tho right? At the end of the day men like long hair.
@stanfatou20026 жыл бұрын
@Bella Maria tbh I'm just gonna stay single forever because I always sport giant afro on my head. Not no curly afro either but a real afro.everybody likes it tho.but I don't think a guy would date me. It's fine tho.i have better things to worry about
@Lovetheonewithin4 жыл бұрын
It's been hard for me to find a man who makes close to my salary or more. I'm tired of men that come to me looking for help. I'm training myself to be more feminine, what you're saying makes so much sense... I'm going to stop telling men what I do for work and buy me some heels.
@MarokoJin Жыл бұрын
you don't go to the right places... go to the places where more men of your financial bracket AND more go.
@Kuriouskitty-mz3qx11 ай бұрын
And don’t tell them where you work and please get the heels
@nishamack5866 жыл бұрын
"You know how to change a tire,get outta here" I died!😂😂😂😂
@Starswithmagik3 жыл бұрын
Man about 2 yrs ago this was the first videos i watched of shera and after I found her, that night I watched a bunch of her videos. The next day i started following her advice and some random guy gave me 20$ as I walked by. That was the beginning of my level up journey ❤! Love her
@rollerpig96195 жыл бұрын
omg one year later, kanye complains about kim dressing to provocatively when she's his wife... shera called it
@joemtari4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to make a prediction Kanye will complain about everything he thinks about
@baerares27433 жыл бұрын
Now there divorceddd
@melaninapeach91703 жыл бұрын
@@baerares2743 lol i
@tonismith888995 жыл бұрын
Thank you Shera! I always do my best to carry myself as a lady at all times. Always been a girly girl. Can't stand all the loud ratchet behavior that is so common now. They need to start putting little girls into etiquette classes like back in the day. Need to work on smile though. I pout a lot. Love your videos!
@amoraa. Жыл бұрын
I used to think that high etiquette was "corny" and "frivolous", but maturing made me realize it's actually feminine and classy. It's truly disappointing that we cheer on unladylike behavior instead of discouraging it nowadays.
@kelly67246 жыл бұрын
I love you! I need you in my life yes yes Yes!!! I'm recently getting my feminine back and transitioning from single mommy working 24/7 to in a relationship and having him tell me I can stay home. I'm getting my femininity back. And I notice him loving all the stuff you talk about, lol. Thanks girly!! ❤💯
@cianobitofeverything32214 жыл бұрын
Who u got a free house
@adbell45326 жыл бұрын
I feel 50/50 women are masculine
@ashwajeshi15585 жыл бұрын
True
@cc_chi1233 жыл бұрын
100%
@Trailblazers3236 жыл бұрын
The demo of turning the magazine pages ratchetly, and your acting out what not to do!😂😂😂
@Lovejoi2226 жыл бұрын
I’m crying laughing at the nice nasty compliments!!! So true! The women in my family do it all the time😂 love this video 💕
@f30426 жыл бұрын
6K views in 5 hrs. You're doing it, SheRa!
@queencard1111 Жыл бұрын
39:02 Don’t be loud, soften voice, wear dresses, feminine colors, smell good, have some makeup on, nails done, skin soft (no ashy dry skin), play with hair a little, smile, no frowns, etc
@donishabrown97635 жыл бұрын
Omggg sis I went to a wine lounge today looking bomb asf but my nails and feet weren’t done and I noticed at the last minute I was like omggg I’m a disgrace to the level up nation 😩 but I still pulled the co-owner though 😏 dinner on sunday I gotta make sum happen 🙌🏾
@TW-mg3ld5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations girl you are beautiful. As long as your nails weren't chipped and the nail polish wasn't chipped you were fine I'm sure. Just keep your nails filed and don't have dirt under your nails.
@donishabrown97635 жыл бұрын
Valencia Whittington yea I’m gonna make sure I get my nails done tomorrow
@wompwomp10993 жыл бұрын
Update please
@LightBeingsBE3 жыл бұрын
What? I doubt you pulled anything leaving the house with jacked up nails, that says your cat 🐈⬛ probably isn’t well kept either. I would throw back anything that accepts less of my best....because something is wrong with him.
@ochezeijeuruamuzie91583 жыл бұрын
@@LightBeingsBE you're miserable LOLLL
@nennacobrand69432 жыл бұрын
Shera is stating FACTS. Big facts. I love revealing clothes and my aunt always call me out. My aunt is a doctor and so is her daughter. This one time she wanted to set me up on a date with a psychologist and just because I wear certain clothes she said she can’t do that because he like sexy classy. I felt bad but I learnt that it’s true.
@MySoberSchizophrenicLife Жыл бұрын
Interesting. You must look like eye candy they only date baddies!!! 🎉
@harrison3573 Жыл бұрын
@@MySoberSchizophrenicLife 🤨🤨😂
@theflaca6 жыл бұрын
Shera7 is right about giving what others like not what you think looks good. This principle can extend beyond man hunting. I've seen people winning competitions not because they were better at what they do, as those that came second or third were clearly the better competitors. They won because they'll look better at future promos, publicity shoots, ambassodors for the organisations involved, and look more approachable to advertise their country, company, charity etc. Why? they're going to be the face of those that voted for them. Look is everything.
@Cattitude3695 жыл бұрын
You can't have an elevated look with tattoos PERIOD. I have yet to see anyone look classy, elegant, or feminine with visible tattoos. This list is spot on. I started wearing dresses and skirts almost exclusively. I definitely notice a difference in how I am treated. Also smelling good and remaining light, positive, and bubbly. Last week I accidentally spilled something on the floor. One of my super quiet and antisocial male coworkers RUSHED to clean it up for me. This is probably one of my favorite videos. I am working on cursing less, my volume, and debating/coming across argumentative (I grew up in a very loud and opinionated family lol).
@rosee92315 жыл бұрын
Shadow Gang Tarots same getting tattoos at 18 . And i dont care .. Its my children names amd a red rose .
@Cattitude3695 жыл бұрын
You all are missing the point. Tattoos will never be classy, elegant, or feminine, especially females who are tatted up (vs having one that isn't visible). Low class, stripper, hood/ratchet, etc. is how most people look these days so saying people complement it or gold dig looking like that means nothing. Just because a man has money does not mean he is high-caliber or high class. Those kinds of men with money don't like tatted up females. Chicks with their tits and butt hanging out get tons of money, likes, and complements, as well...
@Cattitude3695 жыл бұрын
@cosmic cat 1111 Yes, look trashy and masculine if you want but then why are you here? Obviously doing whatever one wants hasn't been working for a lot of women. If it did channels like SheRas wouldn't exist or be popular.
@candyc3135 жыл бұрын
I don't have any tattoos if I ever decide to get one it will only be visible at my deliberate choosing. I will invest in more skirts/dresses for summer. I have been acting more masculine towards my bf and he's pulling back. It's mostly because I'm letting him know he's not going to treat me any kind of way, I know my worth but I guess I could be a little softer about it so I'll work on it.
@degan11235 жыл бұрын
Tatoos can actually look very feminine depending on what it is of/the size/where you put it. Im actually thinking of getting three small birds flying from my left ear to the middle of the back of my neck lols
@gerrileylucas33185 жыл бұрын
Be a flower, not an aloe vera plant! This has the be your funniest video...I will be re-watching all 3 hours of this video.
@TeaSea4449 ай бұрын
My initial thought was "This sounds exhausting" 😩🤣. But I had to check myself, because she's right. I hadn't realized how masculine I've become. I'm definitely working on that going forward.
@aishamapp6 жыл бұрын
Ugh! I know about the nail polish thing. I have to paint my nails everyday. It's hard being a woman😛
@jcitychic6 жыл бұрын
Trolls are everywhere like acne
@aishamapp6 жыл бұрын
jcitychic. Right.
@queenie_the_virgo6 жыл бұрын
Sentient MAPP Get some gel polish it lasts longer
@aishamapp6 жыл бұрын
queenie_the_virgo. Thanks I'll try that:)
@chilloften6 жыл бұрын
I love painting them and all...it's just that two hour dry time.
@LuxMeow5 жыл бұрын
Also I noticed the use of conversate which is a ratchet word, if around people who are educated or want to appear to be well versed in something, I would say converse as that's the proper term.
@SkylerRoy825 жыл бұрын
I agree, conversate is NOT a word, its CONVERSE. Please never say conversate.
@LuxMeow5 жыл бұрын
@@SkylerRoy82 lol I know, that's what I meant by ratchet word cause it doesn't exist. :P
@Datgyalbri Жыл бұрын
I am so happy I found your videos! Have helped me immensely. I am more feminine, less "mother-like" to my partner, and enjoy being in his company way more.
@fredaamour41215 жыл бұрын
When you said "why you're wearing makeup? I like you natural." I was like "I've seen that, been there and they are dusties." 😑😑😒😒😒 Sheara you are spitting the truth!!!!!
@WeRAlwaysEvolving3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@phi-losiphy2038 Жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with being natural! You don't need makeup to be pretty, it's a choice and a real man will see your beauty regardless!
@amoraa. Жыл бұрын
@@phi-losiphy2038 The issue isn't the notion, it's the underlying meaning. In reality, they just want you to dress down and be less noticeable to other men so you feel less wanted and stuck.
@MySoberSchizophrenicLife Жыл бұрын
@@amoraa. exactly
@havegrace91116 жыл бұрын
I love that hair it's so voluminous you look like a Hollywood actress! Another great video I'll send this to all my single girlfriends !
@jacquelynsimmons6131 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad I found your channel being a single mother I kind of lost my feminine side alittle I'm trying to navigate back to my feminity thank you!
@GeminiPeach816 жыл бұрын
I agree, leave the food on the table. You look grubby when you eat too much on a date.
@nappyscribe19876 жыл бұрын
Lula Belle 🤔
@Nina-cd6uw6 жыл бұрын
Actually plenty of men like a woman that can eat. They don't like them being too picky or too girly about it and some don't like wasting food, from an environmental or tasting point of view, not financially. Just eat slowly and with class, talk during the dinner and don't just grab as much food in as little time as possible. Class is the essence, not these stupid rules. Enjoy yourselves and keep it classy and finish your plate (slowly) to avoid the question if you didn't like it from dinner partner and host.
@Seeingisntbelieving5 жыл бұрын
I never eat an entire meal. Food makes you bloated. I can eat at home and comfortable.
@katrinataylor6005 жыл бұрын
😫 ok
@stephanieleigh626 жыл бұрын
I use to live in Hawaii. The women their wear a flower in their hair.
@She_So_Solo6 жыл бұрын
Very feminine.
@blessingncube29355 жыл бұрын
it is
@anusha2465 Жыл бұрын
In India. They used to.
@pearlal2881 Жыл бұрын
2023 and still coming back for this video, it is informative and funny at the same time. Thank you for your wisdom 💗.
@kristiemiller47524 жыл бұрын
Your advice is always on point and makes me rethink my life 🤦🏼♀️
@kayade53055 жыл бұрын
Nothing but the whole truth at the 29:24 minute mark. Go where you're celebrated. It makes people more appreciative of your beauty. It has certainly stopped some Black men from their mantra "if we don't want you, no one will". No one should be waiting around to add to the statistics stating "no man wants what others do not want". Besides, my friends with darker hues definitely get more attention from other races and get married faster too.
@kristenmoonrise5 жыл бұрын
Going to college to get a man worked in the 50s. Times have changed.
@continuousself-improvement18796 жыл бұрын
Hi Shera, maybe your next video could be about how to put together outfits and accessories for different occasions.
@tayashley35396 жыл бұрын
Lol "Omg I love your eyebrows! I saw that same look on Ru-Pauls Drag Race!", "Omg I love your earings, I saw those at the dollar tree. I almost got them but im allergic to fake jewelry". 💀💀💀
@LightBeingsBE3 жыл бұрын
But you was at Dollar tree! She was making an example but that one didn’t work....didn’t make sense to almost buy something or be high value shopping in Dollar Tree
@tayashley35393 жыл бұрын
@@LightBeingsBE Girl lol ppl with a lot of money shop at stores like that all the time. That's one of the reasons they are high value, besides whatever their sources of income are. The difference is, only low value ppl would buy fake jewelry from the Dollar store. First of all, it's made from toxic material, can damage your skin, turn it colors, and turn the color of your skin dermatitis and all kinds of things.. Real jewelry is an investment, something you can lirerally resale if need be. Why do you think some people buy $2000 Chanel and Fendi bags, and real necklaces and rings that cost hundreds and thousands of dollars? Because these things have real value and other people will buy it off of you, in a heart beat if they have the money. But groceries, toiletries, and miscellaneous stuff, stuff that has no value, people with money shop for everyday items at the dollar store all the time. It's a smart move.
@melaninapeach91703 жыл бұрын
@@tayashley3539 exactly you see rich ppl on tiktok making DIY videos with stuff from $1 store
@kassamuru Жыл бұрын
girl no take the food and if yall are downtown go on a walk and give it to a homeless person. after i did that he seen ma as a saint and paid for everything afterword's
@missrenee27656 жыл бұрын
I was in Middle School wearing heels I love them and people thought I was too fast
@faceofantasy11946 жыл бұрын
Saaame and all through high school
@MrSnowleopard4u5 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@velvetstorm45634 жыл бұрын
@49jubilee baby wedges and kitten heels are perfect for middle school girls to wear
@kimberlyb652210 ай бұрын
@@velvetstorm4563 hell no! Our young girls are already oversexualized.
@briana143336 жыл бұрын
You have helped me so much, sis! Thank you. My improved aura has warded off the dusties, hopefully for good!
@IamKarryanne6 жыл бұрын
I love heels 💜
@goddessinyou79676 жыл бұрын
HI Ashera. Feminine energy allure men for sure. Fabulous message. Love yah. Have a Beautiful " Friday. Imiri
@MAMiiSTAYONED33P Жыл бұрын
Really Shera is doing what our mothers should have did, given us the game!
@marthalrodriguez.22096 жыл бұрын
I rather don’t drink any alcohol on a date I like and love sparkling water and I usually do not play with my hair at the table but when WE are alone somewhere then yes
@KimberlyKimbrough16 жыл бұрын
Girllllll.....you are funny! Patrick Starr! LOL!!! nicenasty!
@QueenRoni285 жыл бұрын
Everything you’ve said in this video is great advice. Being ladylike at all times is necessary and attractive to great quality men.
@thevixenxiii5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha I love your impressions of what not to do!!!!! “bring me some extra ranch....& bring me some wet wipes because my hands gon be smelling like fish” 😂
@lenatutowa51816 жыл бұрын
I just can't get over how amazingly gorgeous you look in this video!! I think this is your BEST LOOK all around. You are seductive, sexy, beautiful, just sizzling all around. A definite vote for a night out at a 5 star restaurant, you definitely glow in lighter, feminine colors (that's why I always wear pastels)..your husband probably couldn't keep his hands off you haha
@mwadjumamukamfizi22165 жыл бұрын
Lena Tutowa she is on point gorgeous n got it together
@kjkjkj3603 жыл бұрын
Girl, I needed to hear this. I have quite a few un-feminine habits that Im trying to drop.
@missnubeautyhtx5 жыл бұрын
“I asked for extra ranch!” 😂😂😂
@Nolegirl776 жыл бұрын
..”then he gone look at yo duck feet” lol 😂
@Lovejoyful6066 жыл бұрын
I'm 3 minutes in..MY GIRL!
@Lovejoyful6066 жыл бұрын
😄😅😄You Silly you're a low key comedian..lol
@nappyscribe19876 жыл бұрын
I DO listen to her when I feel like being light hearted but to get advice to give women and to use myself!
@natasa19975 жыл бұрын
Keep it to wine😂 I even get tipsy with one big glass of wine👀
@stephanieleigh626 жыл бұрын
I have had men compliment me on my short hair. They said it was cute, it looks good or it's sexy.
@lofiafterdark98824 жыл бұрын
But did they invest though? Compliments are not a measure of success in this game.
@shebacynn13204 жыл бұрын
@@lofiafterdark9882 Facts.
@tony-shabazzroberts-woods30475 жыл бұрын
I'm 7mins in and this is the funniest ish I've heard. She's giving good advice with humor.
@elisham71646 жыл бұрын
I’m so dead 😂😂😭💀 “not on a cruise, but on a yacht”
@cgillespie1605 жыл бұрын
She gives me Sanaa Lathan... Love your advice lady. Having more of the masculine energy, this is much needed. I have a lot of faking to do. LOL
@marieotero8843 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, I do a lot of the things naturally that you have discussed, but your videos are so informative and they literally call me out on so many different things. I’ve always tried to be the independent woman my mother never taught me how to really be a lady so I’ve pretty much just learned on my own, or most of it just comes naturally to me, but now at the age of 40 I am totally shifting my way of thinking you are 100% correct on everything you were saying, I do work and I enjoy being independent because I don’t like having things thrown in my face but if I was dealing with the right man, nothing would be thrown in my face. You have definitely made a difference in just a few days I’ve just listening to you.😊
@yeshuayavoh7876 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel. I can tell from experience that everything she's saying is spot on!!!!
@bushwickqueen966510 ай бұрын
I noticed man loves the Girly thing way more then we do 😆 some guy told me omg ur hat is amazingly beautiful 😍
@docalgaryrealestate11 ай бұрын
…”you cannot stink”…🤣 you have become my favourite show…
@1977Playmate5 жыл бұрын
I love this look! Very soft, pretty, and not overpowering. I just love it! Oh, and the green eye shadow is really nice the way you did. It's modest, you get a hint of the color without it being so "in yo face" so to speak. Lovely!
@nicnothingnice6 жыл бұрын
This video is making me depressed. I can't do all of this Edit: I did get a free pair of shoes at the mall today. Makeup and hair, while trying on heels. Don't knock it until you've tried it.
@SF-op5ix5 жыл бұрын
NicNacAttack Ya I feel overwhelmed 😂 I think taking it a little bit at a time is going to be my game plan. Sounds like you’ve made fantastic progress already! Congrats!
@jozzetter20505 жыл бұрын
Wow really?
@BriannaLifeCoach4 жыл бұрын
NicNacAttack 😂
@c.mechellebanks20725 жыл бұрын
She's not kidding about tattoos...cover them..it's not cute and it can be a issue ...u don't wanna be confused with a prison inmate.
@Gracieuse_hairs Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@AA-bm3hf Жыл бұрын
Lauryn Hill and Joss Stone are great examples of chocolately, deep, soulful voices that are feminine or CAN sound feminine. I wouldn’t be surprised if they speak to men in a higher octave, just like Shera suggested/mentioned. (They may even do this subconsciously. Of course, I only know their singing voices but to my deep voice women, you are not manly! Deep voices can be very calming and seductive to hear❤)
@MotivationalDiva6 жыл бұрын
As a chocolate woman I just want to say there are men as shera said that the darker the berry the sweeter the juice. They won’t even talk to a women that have lighter skin they have dark skin fetishes. #staywoke Hunnie. I love my chocolate skin.
@doublez39616 жыл бұрын
MotivationalDiva ok...
@NoName-sp5dp6 жыл бұрын
Not cute boo
@ceegee6346 жыл бұрын
This shows your insecurity though.
@daisygoodwin76806 жыл бұрын
‘Fetishes’ what!!!??? People can have preferences in race!
@PreciousSullivan6 жыл бұрын
I’m telling u so many guys tell me they are infatuated with my skin tone! They love chocolate women
@theemanifestingmaven6 жыл бұрын
Nice nasty is definitely a southern woman thing! 😂😂😂
@xcookiefacetwx61236 жыл бұрын
yes
@africanbeauty75 жыл бұрын
They better keep it down South because up north Keisha will peel her skull back with those shady comments. We don’t do nice nasty
@sacredandsecured5 жыл бұрын
africanbeauty7 Keisha will then find herself behind bars 🤣