Also... "Up the stairs: the station where the act becomes the art of growing up." Absolutely brilliant.
@jacobadam68046 ай бұрын
Heard my 16 year old nephew listening to this the other day. Found out his first serious girlfriend broke up with him. Just gave him a hug and told him I was there for him. Secretly, Im glad hes got great music taste 😂
@luismanuel5423Ай бұрын
Dang what a story lol
@toadsucc13 жыл бұрын
This song has one of the best bass lines and I love the way the song sounds. I like how versatile the lyrics are. They mean something different to everyone.
@TotalWeirdo10111 жыл бұрын
This is such an awesome song to listen to but it's so deep and depressing at the same time
@isenaluna62610 жыл бұрын
I think this is a story.. If you listen to La Dispute then most if their songs are stories, so thats what I think, that this song is sorta a story from a boys point of view...
@caramip13 жыл бұрын
This is one of those songs that you can never really play for someone else.
@nataliefilaroski927910 жыл бұрын
What I think is cool about this song is that you can interpret it anyway you want. Like, yea maybe he was raped by an older woman who he thought he loved; or it could be about how he only seems to date girls who just want sex and he wants more. Brand new is great like that, makes you think for yourself.
@bmoss60237 жыл бұрын
The woman could also be fame
@wolfandraven8914 жыл бұрын
An older woman could also be in love with him you know
@jedimasterobi-wankenobi79263 жыл бұрын
I have loved this song for a year and never listened to the words Now I know why I like it. It's my story
@upthereinlightsillbe10 жыл бұрын
this bass line is literally sex.
@lonercs10 жыл бұрын
How so?
@shei37310 жыл бұрын
I SEE WHAT YOU DID THERE.......
@shoegazer269 жыл бұрын
+hester prynn. i love this comment so much
@lonercs9 жыл бұрын
Also I like to point out that the song is about how sex can be a terrible thing for people not ready for it
@lillysmith4249 жыл бұрын
yessss
@ElleBeecher11 жыл бұрын
You know why I love this song? It's a guy's honest take on losing his virginity. Guys are always depicted as sex-crazed animals, and I feel like this is proof that it isn't always what you'd expect.
@nikhitaraaj37897 жыл бұрын
Elle Beecher well said .
@matterman76624 жыл бұрын
Elle Beecher kek turns out Jersey Lacey was a sex crazed animal
@solomonnunez84253 жыл бұрын
Right, that's why I love this song .... Girls only care about 1 thing
@aurora87493 жыл бұрын
Every guy I've known has been a sex crazed animal. My first pressured me and I was his first too. And every guy I've been with gets mad and starts slamming stuff around if we skip one day of sex...I'm thirty btw and that's still true
@bubblesnblossom52333 жыл бұрын
@@aurora8749 You need to find somebody that values you for the awesome being you are. Fuck these juvenile delinquents 🖤💖🖤
@brandonbmth04188 жыл бұрын
i really dont think this has anything to do with rape. maybe its my own experiences talking, but i thought of it as a guy that was really into a girl, but she simply wanted to get laid while he was looking for more. he was biting his tongue because this was the closest he could get to her, even though it was superficial to say the least.
@jazzrene72828 жыл бұрын
Brandon Martinez I would agree with you but the line; "She fakes a smile and presses her hips into his" makes me a little skeptical about your interpretation
@thatdude33617 жыл бұрын
i think its just about being a boy being pressured to lose his virginity, he wants a real relationship but she wants sex
@hayleechilders8285 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I see it because that's all I've felt
@hayleechilders8285 жыл бұрын
Like he really cares for her and maybe she pretended she did to but sex is all it ever is
@tiffanycarter23765 жыл бұрын
The lyrics of "Sic Transit Gloria... Glory Fades" tell the story of an inexperienced teenage boy being taken advantage of and losing his virginity to an older woman. Lacey stated that "I... figured that I wouldn't really have sex until either I was married or I knew I was with the right person. When you get to being 21, 22, 23 years old... it becomes this whole other thing, like 'Well, what am I doing? Is this really important to me?'"
@tom4cfc12311 жыл бұрын
these are the deepest most truthful hard hitting lyrics iv ever heard
@Josh-lo6ws9 жыл бұрын
what version of the song is this? I can tell its basically the studio version, but there's a weird synth part in the verse of this version that I've never heard in other versions.. is it like a different mix or something?
@Michele1ELL8 жыл бұрын
yeah i hear it too, what the hell? lol
@TheCatsMe00w12 жыл бұрын
I finally got the whole "die young and save your self" lose your innocents or grow up early so you don't get hurt later. Well, that's my take, I could be wrong
@capostatus93713 жыл бұрын
brand new has so many styles it's amazing, i swear they can make any type of alternative rock and do them near flawlessly
@CattleDirtyCurtis12 жыл бұрын
I am obsessed with this song right now
@GreenEyedSummerGirl14 жыл бұрын
I'm not usually into songs like this. But this is like, the only song I can listen to when I'm really agitated. Thank you so so much for uploading!
@kaitlyn199115 жыл бұрын
it's right there all over the place.. Brand New. Thanks for putting this video up! I looove this song :D
@Zackthedalj13 жыл бұрын
This IS my first time. Goddammit its nice to know your not alone.
@spiritslive9911 жыл бұрын
Frankly, it seems like the girl was in a relationship with the boy, and he was having sex with her because that's all she wanted from him and he wanted to make her happy- or, that he didn't personally want to be having sex and was more or less talked into it. And that, while seeming consensual, really isn't, which definitely chalks up to the whole experience being nonconsensual.
@xxAlyssaxAddictxx14 жыл бұрын
Over and Over again i play this song.. ~Never Gets Old....
@clintjanes37848 жыл бұрын
it's about losing your virginity to a girl that doesn't necessarily care about you.
@blastfiendsunite4205 жыл бұрын
*Soul
@alexandersametz1224 жыл бұрын
This is literally about rape. But the guy is too young to understand that and can’t say no because he feels it’s what he’s supposed to do. Reverse the roles and it’s the same, a woman, not giving consent, but too scared to say no because she feels it’s what she’s supposed to do. It’s rape.
@clintjanes37844 жыл бұрын
@@alexandersametz122 I don't think you understand what rape is.
@michaelashcraft90984 жыл бұрын
@@clintjanes3784 I don’t think you understand what rape is. Rape is a sexual act with a non consenting party.
@MachinedFace88ttv3 жыл бұрын
So it's pretty much about being 25 again...
@sway64477 жыл бұрын
do you know how hard it was for me to remember the name of this song?! smh
@ezravegapaetow37244 жыл бұрын
“She keeps his hands pinned down at his sides he waits for it to end and this feeling in his gut to subside” uhhhh pretty sure this very well may be abt sexual assault bro.
@wesleydvt3 жыл бұрын
it is about rape.
@wikydansa14 жыл бұрын
This song never gets old to me.
@davidentendu12 жыл бұрын
Still one of the best songs ever! :) this version too
@adxndbdfie12 жыл бұрын
So did I! Hahaha, just loved the sound of their music. Now it hits an emotion note more than anything.
@tot.taxi.8 жыл бұрын
my health teacher played this explaining rape to us. noice
@gemelahfearn31478 жыл бұрын
teacher goals 😳 but do you like the song?
@tot.taxi.8 жыл бұрын
+Gemelah Fearn yes :3 I love the song
@TheGothicMother7 жыл бұрын
They played you a song that could be interpreted as rape, with the lyrics "die young and save yourself." I have mixed feelings about this..
@tara65106 жыл бұрын
wow damn
@PI37U12 жыл бұрын
YES! finally fucking found the version of this song where "die young and save yourself" is a constant scream instead of the scream fading under the clean singing. (ref. music video version) Does anyone know why is this version different? And where to a decent bitrate version of this?
@heathermichelledesig6 жыл бұрын
I've listened to this song for so many years and listening to it today as an adult I really feel like this song is about a guy who is gay but decides to have sex with a woman (or girl because they're young) for the first time due to peer pressure. I get all this from the lyrics "'This is the first and last time' he says". Very good song. You get go through a lot of emotions when listening to this one. Always one of my favorites.
@angelbackinblack14 жыл бұрын
@showXmeXtheXdawn you know at first i was kinda sad about this. Cause in all reality this is a topic that makes us all uncomfortable. But upon re-reading these lyrics and listening to this i realized it had to be said and it gives you a new prospective.
@ChippyAndBucky12 жыл бұрын
This kind of reminds me of "lying is the most fun..."by panic at the disco.
@snoozysux12 жыл бұрын
Me and my friend Courtney and Dakota are doing a cover of this at the talent show for school.
@tyroneshoelaces32514 жыл бұрын
How'd it go?
@snoozysux4 жыл бұрын
tyrone shoelaces LMAOO bro
@tyroneshoelaces32514 жыл бұрын
Haha, i bet you totally forgot about that And this song. Until now of course
@snoozysux4 жыл бұрын
tyrone shoelaces haha nah i never forgot about this band just that comment lmao
@tyroneshoelaces32514 жыл бұрын
@@snoozysux you're a saint. I'm so glad you and your friends got to recreate this. Must bring back some memories
@gaijinnyc10 жыл бұрын
This song is so sick!
@jawilliams573911 жыл бұрын
That bass part
@angelbackinblack14 жыл бұрын
@MrGobBluth You're right, i suppose i didn't ask the right question. Who else would dare to make an entire song about the deeper meaning behind sex and not just the pleasure?
@mxdom7 жыл бұрын
What an absolute slammer wow
@avgmatt11 жыл бұрын
join the club, brother. still a bad ass song though after all the years, so at least there is that.
@isenaluna62610 жыл бұрын
Ummm, I am obsessed with this song, bye.. cx
@SeismicJack6 жыл бұрын
Why would they take out those keys in the other version? They fire.
@anarchobaby13 жыл бұрын
In love with this song
@chadhowe577012 жыл бұрын
does anyone know how to play this on guitar or know of someplace where i can get the proper tab i have already tried ultimate guitar and tabcrawler. If you can please help me
@cmc878711 жыл бұрын
Great song. Depressing though.
@shaneistheog11 жыл бұрын
You just made me feel OLD. Lol Fml.
@multitim8312 жыл бұрын
Best album!
@axm4445112 жыл бұрын
Thanks you so much
@hollyrawks8814 жыл бұрын
best song everrrrrrr!!!!
@music_lovver12822 жыл бұрын
Someone help, I feel like there’s a song that sounds exactly like the part “up the stairs, the station where the act becomes art of growing up” is there a song like that or am I just tripping?
@krisstinalewis63477 жыл бұрын
Do they have anymore songs like this? Or any other bands with songs like this? Recommendations please
@michaelverdugo39687 жыл бұрын
Krisstina Lewis the sound wise or lyrically like this?
@krisstinalewis63477 жыл бұрын
Haunting Melody the sound
@jenniferbrown58204 жыл бұрын
Love this song
@manuelmirandawtf83452 жыл бұрын
this hits so hard
@JoeOldest15 жыл бұрын
Great song.
@volcomx1414 жыл бұрын
@showXmeXtheXdawn I totally agree with you. But just remember what mark twain said.." Everyone is like a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows anyone." Never rush into relationships.
@guenievresatu11 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a great idea, acutally.
@angelbackinblack14 жыл бұрын
@Cullenzz678 I believe rape suggest using violence or force. I don't think she threatened or hurt him. She simply had some power over him (because he was in love with her) which made him succumb to her requests.
@alexandersametz1224 жыл бұрын
I don’t think your understand rape then. Imagine your female and your boss makes sexual advances at work, you can’t say no, you feel pressured, and you do it. It’s rape. You never said no, you never were threatened, you never were hurt. BUT ITS STILL RAPE If you think rape needs violence or force your wrong. The guy felt he couldn’t say no, was pressured, was manipulated by emotion into doing something he didn’t want. It’s rape.
@cityandcolor814 жыл бұрын
you wanna know how i know?? same thing happend to me
@michellemaesimplicio34129 жыл бұрын
my college soundtrack
@nwatna0613 жыл бұрын
@angelbackinblack a ton of country and rap singers make entire songs about sex but those are usually sensual love songs or dirty hook up songs. Brand New's the only band to do it like this and its f***ing amazing!
@BENZYteevee3 жыл бұрын
I remember when i cared about sex and love being one in the same. Now this song is an echo of my past.
@Nominator54613 жыл бұрын
@angelbackinblack a lot of people, just a lot fewer would take it to a deep spiritual level like this.
@superbassman267812 жыл бұрын
@Chad Howe go to songstter for tabs bro they have some of the best interactive tabs ive found
@ItsMyTimeToRule1414 жыл бұрын
Dare I ask what this song is about, though I believe I know?
@Violetraieyes11 жыл бұрын
Lovee this song :3
@CreepIt10012 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of high school...
@smokeldogg13 жыл бұрын
The song is about whatever it is about to you. God, don't any of you understand Brand New?
@jarredharding9799 жыл бұрын
This reminded me of when I was molested when I was 8 by my babysitter....... I'm going to try to repress those memories again....
@gemelahfearn31478 жыл бұрын
is it the actual situation or is nostalgic?
@jarredharding9798 жыл бұрын
+Gemelah Fearn i don't understand the question your asking me....
@gemelahfearn31478 жыл бұрын
+Jarred harding like how does this remind you of getting molested..does the lyrics of the song describe your situation or were you listening to it when you got molested. Is that clear?
@jarredharding9798 жыл бұрын
+Gemelah Fearn The lyrics....
@jarredharding9798 жыл бұрын
+Sara G Oh....That makes sense....
@angelbackinblack13 жыл бұрын
@ilikebearz Hahaha... Saw it. Amazing. Different kind of music than Brand New but sure is special.
@kingexclusivo4 жыл бұрын
Bruuuh a month ago I heard this song and I thought it was terrible, hated the yelling part, so I Started listening to Taking Back Sunday instead. Then, a month later here I am loving this song. It's hella weird.
@angelbackinblack14 жыл бұрын
It describes the 'act' in a rather deep , albeit a little angst-driven, way. I like it. It's dangerous in its topic and pulls it off greatly. who else would dare to make an entire song about sex?
@big_man12344 жыл бұрын
Steel panthers whole shtick is about having sex-
@Romanoct. Жыл бұрын
Still here in 2023
@d8752rq2 жыл бұрын
i never knew there was an organ in this song 😮
@d8752rq Жыл бұрын
oh so this is actually the alternative version not the one on spotify thats why i got so confused XD its still a good song
@d8752rq Жыл бұрын
i know how to play this on guitar .
@Mramerican2113 жыл бұрын
Good song
@NoxAmante8 жыл бұрын
What I think it's about is the boy was raped by another man when he was younger and now every relationship he has is broken already and the part with the girl is him trying to cope with sexual relationship in general and not taking it well because it wants more then that. But the girl used him for sex and as he tries to be OK with it he can't get past his memories. But that's just me. Great song and very strong.
@twines28046 жыл бұрын
Actually, she couldn't stand it because it wasn't leg day.
@caramip14 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up if this reminds you of your first time.
@GameGenies Жыл бұрын
Looks like I forgot to save myself. Oops.
@SoundStation9813 жыл бұрын
Awsome
@shintaro85968 жыл бұрын
too relatable
@philbateman19893 жыл бұрын
I get the whole thing that he's being pressured into sex with a girl he knows doesn't actually lovie him and just wants sex, but what's with the "die young and save yourself" part?? It's the most accentuated part of the song, but it seems to have the least relevance to the rest of it.
@TheCatsMe00w12 жыл бұрын
actually that would be cool. ill listen to it
@LtUnreal13 жыл бұрын
what exact genre of music is this?
@gummy8924 жыл бұрын
Emo/screamo/punk
@Urmom-zo3fu3 жыл бұрын
I'm 13 and here in 2021🖤 I officially have the best music taste in my generation.
@nate-likes-bikes Жыл бұрын
15 and here in 2023🖤
@chloweful13 жыл бұрын
my favourite song
@flyersfan22312 жыл бұрын
that's like the part two of this song in a way
@samsmith660112 жыл бұрын
@cono1999 np and it wasnt stupod I was thinking the same till I googled the album and it said
@JayZombie12167 жыл бұрын
Fuck yes.
@Eve6fangirl12 жыл бұрын
haha i love this song and its soo messed up, but it has a good story/meaning behind it
@LethalBrawler2 жыл бұрын
I can't help but relate to this song as a 20 year old. I lost my virginity and had my first kiss on the same night with a woman who I thought wanted to be my friend only for her to kick to me to the curb afterwards. I now feel like a worthless sex toy and don't know if I'll ever be the same again :/
@jayyy16772 жыл бұрын
I came here from yiu
@epicmetod8 жыл бұрын
best sibling love themed song ever
@energeticeg82434 жыл бұрын
*My reaction to this song* *’Nosebleed’* *’Sniffles’* *This song is so H o t*
@TransmutedCuppyCake3 жыл бұрын
This song’s about a guy getting raped and traumatized. Maybe not the “hottest” thing unless you’re really awful.
@isenaluna62610 жыл бұрын
666 likes.. Ok. Cool!
@samfletcher7013 жыл бұрын
@angelbackinblack What a song completely about sex, bad touch by the bloodhound gang
@hehungblameless12 жыл бұрын
if you know how to play this bass line, you are cool
@aleksmonoxide29106 жыл бұрын
Aaron Cochran hehe I know how to play the guitar and bass c:
@anajordan91074 жыл бұрын
This song makes me more afraid of losing my virginity 😱 Really cool though 😅
@adxndbdfie12 жыл бұрын
I feel naughty just listening to this song. Ugh, so good.
@myrandablax11 жыл бұрын
its at least 5-6years old
@ezravegapaetow37244 жыл бұрын
Ummm listening to the lyrics and REALLY looking at them kinda makes you wonder if the song is about sexual assault..? Just me..?