Sigma Male: From Beta Male to Sigma Male

[@JAdams-jx5ek]

If you REALLY want to open a can of hate, point out that women will NOT apologize for doing anything wrong, and talk about why. Most women take ZERO responsibility for their mistakes.

[@rob21]

Jack Nicholson was very right.

[@jackthere]

@@rob21 "As Good as it Gets"

[@The-Spondy-School]

Wow -- you sure gave a perfect profile of my female.

[@brianb5594]

The line in As Good As It Gets is spot on, take a man, minus logic and accountability and you have a woman. I used to think it was a dumb cliche. After 30 years of marriage I find it to be the truth.

[@markkelley8067]

Generally speaking women make decisions based on feelings. Society for several decades has drilled in us that feelings are never wrong. So then the woman “feels” that her decision can’t be wrong.

[@cryptosuperg]

When my women gets in her emasculating ways, I look at her with amusement and shock. 99% of the time its an untrue attack that doesnt deserve a response or even engaging in an argument. But it does hurt. Why would someone that says they love you intentionally say such hurtful things. I would never talk to her like that.

[@parrotshootist3004]

Because they don't love you, that's why.

[@poopingwhilestanding5801]

Most women just see men as utilities...nothing more. Once you can accept this, freedom reigns.

[@canadianeavestrough]

​@@parrotshootist3004no, they have no self love, that's why. So they are just projecting their self hatred onto their husband.

[@jamesjonnes]

Because she is afraid. Afraid that you're not good enough. Afraid that you're too good for her. Afraid that you'll leave her. Afraid that you two didn't bond well enough. Afraid that you're not equal when she has been taught that men and women should be exactly the same, or other misconceptions. Etc. First you need to find out what are her fears and needs, then the solution might be easy. You can't really do the work for her, but you can help her find the way.

[@parrotshootist3004]

@@jamesjonnesthats a lot of excuse for domestic abuse.

[@MichaelAshtonWhite]

You just have no idea how much of a relief it is to hear the things that you’re saying which let’s me know that I’m not crazy after all! I’ve felt so emasculated for such a long long time now, that I totally forgot that I wasn’t this way, or at least not nearly this bad before my marriage. And it’s also a relief to know that I’m not alone. I’ve been depressed over this for many many years. But thanks to you and your wonderful and informative videos addressing exactly how I’ve been feeling and why, now I know that it is something that’s within my power to address, correct and make my marriage a whole lot better now than it has been for years. I feel like I’m finally out of that mental prison that I been locked up in for so so long. I feel like a new man, and I owe it all to you! Thank you, & God bless you!!!

[@parrotshootist3004]

look up narcissistic abuse.

[@thehappywifeschool]

Thank you for your heartfelt comment and for sharing. You are not crazy after all 😊

[@matthewhupp7004]

Exactly. I feel the same. I couldn't have said it better. Thank you. I have been coming to the conclusion that it is not all me for a while now, but I have had trouble seeing or saying exactly what was happening. This gives me perspective and an awareness of how to receive these attacks. It gives me a confidence and calmness. Thank you.

[@rougebaba3887]

I can speak from experience. These videos have helped my marriage without my wife ever watching a single one. Heck, she doesn't even know they exist! Everything began to flip once I took to heart her declaration that I am not source of my wife's unhappiness. And just so you know, on the scale of emasculation and disrespect, my wife is as close to a 10 as one is likely to find. My wife's behavior at times went beyond disrespect and emasculation... it was outright contempt. I'll give you an example of how horrible my wife would behave towards me, even when i was trying my very best to make her happy. In 2007 she had emergency open heart surgery. I was there for her in everyway a man could be there for his wife. I was already the sole bread winner, but I kicked things into over drive taking care of her. This surgery occurred in the springtime. That whole year we had sex ONCE, around Valentines day. Of course as she recovered from heart surgery, our once every two or three month sex was going to be zero. But by Christmas she was mostly recovered and doing really well. At our company Christmas party that December my boss called me up in front of everyone and announced that my name had been mentioned more than any other single person in the company on a survey they had sent out to our clients. I felt like the guest of honor at that party. He handed me an envelope that had cash in it.... and i knew exactly what i was going to do with this money my wife knew nothing about. I drove strait to the mall and walked into an expensive jewelry store, picking out a very nice gold necklace. It took almost all of that bonus money. With that last $6, I stopped at a booth that was wrapping gifts for a small fee. I picked out a pretty wrapping paper, bow and little card. I even wanted the package to look special for her. I put that gift under the tree and thought: When she opens this and is surprised and thanking me, I can hint that i want us to go back to being intimate again - "Your welcome baby... I'd love to see you wearing that with something black and lacey on New Years." Well, Christmas morning came and I watched her open it... open my heart for her. She lifted the lid, looked at it for about 1.5 seconds, then snapped it shut and just sort of wrist flipped it aside into a pile of torn up wrapping paper. There was no appreciation, there was not even a hint of a polite "thank you"... Hell, she didn't even look at me! But she did come up to me after gifts were out of the way to question me.... Her: I have a question. Why would you buy me a necklace? After the rudeness and complete lack of any sort of acknowledgement for that gift, I sure as heck wasn't going to hint about sex. But even then I tried to stay positive, Me: I thought it was beautiful and would look great on you, babe. I paid her a compliment! I was sharing my heart with her.... and she shared her's right back. She proceeded to talk to me like I am a complete idiot.... Her: "I had surgery... you know that, right? I have a scar. You can see that, right? I haven't been wearing necklaces, so why would you do that?" And then she turned and walked away. That is the woman I married! Of course I was deeply hurt by this sort of treatment. I know now how I should have responded. but back then I just took it, withdrawing further and further into my sorry ass shell.

[@JMD1965]

The key to being a 'Sigma' is to be yourself, always BETTER yourself, and above all, DON'T GIVE two tosses about other's opinions.

[@davidh6799]

totally

[@grantwithers]

blue pill claptrap to an extent. Most are not actually sigmas as their true selves. Not in the actual sigma terminology, as those are very very rare.

[@Jay-Jones]

​@@grantwithers no, they aren't. You just think we are because we don't go around announcing ourselves to you.

[@grantwithers]

@@Jay-Jones You're obviously not familiar with the actual terminology that she is making up new definitions for. Sigmas are stupendously rare, less than 1% of the pop. And that has nothing to do with them announcing or not.

[@swampwhiteoak1]

I have nothing left to lose from her. I am properly assertive, not aggressive. She hates it when i stand up to her. I am liberated by her reactions.

[@thermalreboot]

My great grandfather understood things about dealing with women that he passed along to my grandfather but that my father neglected to pass on to me because he bought into the basic tenants of feminism.

[@jamesjonnes]

The whole boomer generation did that. My father too. They didn't face the consequences of their actions because it took a few decades for the results to become noticeable.

[@thepervertedmonk2353]

Deeeep, i was just conteplating on this while i was watching some old 70's flicks.. The old men in that era are a completely different breed

[@jamesjonnes]

@@thepervertedmonk2353 Women took control social circles, so they can basically end your reputation and get you fired from your job if you don't hold fem views. Men should've been stronger and not allowed them to take over the narrative, entire schools, sole custody, etc. The more they take over, the worse it becomes.

[@grantwithers]

@@jamesjonnes Oh they felt a lot of the consequences, just look at their divorce rates.

[@Sal834]

I follow Jordan Peterson and, for the last 6 months, have made every effort to be the best version of myself. New friends, hobbies, time with my daughter, gym, exercise, and the effects have been shocking. My daughter and I are closer than ever, but my wife is more angry than I have ever seen her, striking out at my daughter and I. It is sad to see what she is doing, and my daughter sees it too. My wife is in counseling, and she claims her counselor is supporting this just terrible behavior, and every time we talk, it is NEVER her that has to change, but my daughter and I. She takes no responsibility whatsoever. My daughter has now repeatedly asked me to divorce her because she is so toxic. Sad.

[@ronmexico8383]

Good luck. Everything I've learned is that 95% of counselors will destroy your marriage. They aren't good at what they do (they just picked a career out of a hat) and just want a client for $ and could care less about your marriage. A Pastor or priest would want your marriage to get fixed. 25% chance they know what they are doing but the difference is they actually would want the marriage to last. Pastor over a priest. Pastors have wives.

[@wbtittle]

I am grateful to the three women in my social circle that divorced their husbands. One of those women actually needs her husband pragmatically, but her stubborness drives her away. (they are still living together, in separate rooms, but she still has to lean on him to get through life). The second seems to have said "I want to make it on my own", used her husbands finances to cover the bills while she socked away her paycheck until she could escape. 3rd one has never spent 30 seconds without some man ready to help her. This was so common that she could not see how much her husband helped her. Even though my wife hasn't fully figured it out, she seems to have seen that I cover things on the edges. If it weren't for the examples, she likely would have walked and then walked into the same situation with the next guy. The one question I saw Jordan Peterson avoid was with Bettina Arndt. She asked him a question related to her book "The Sex Diaries". I have seen people NOT hear Jordan's answer. That was the only time I saw him completely sidestep a question. It was a very uncomfortable question. The truth hidden int he Sex Diaries is terrifying. Karyn saw reality. Based on the videos I have seen so far, she feels the truth hidden behind the reality. 9 in 10 women are backing away from intimacy within 3 years of initiation. It isn't a psychological thing. It is physiological. It is not ill will or borderline personality disorder. It is just the woman's body changing. THE UNCOMFORTABLE concept. The terrifying idea behind this? Women will set themselves up in harems before they will listen to Karyn. It is already happening. My son just went to homecoming. It was a "group" event. He and his buddies dressed up. 5 guys and 1 girl. The 1 girl was just the date of one of the guys. All 5 guys are athletes in the school. Based on comments. They are not gay. They have recognized the women are a scam. My apologies to women who are offended by that. When the women realize the truth behind the statement, they may start down the path of not being part of the scam. My apologies to Karyn. I do not predict vast success. 9 out of 10 women WILL avoid you at all costs. There is a chance the 1 in 10 might realize that you have wisdom for them. But just barely.

[@davidjones8942]

​​@@wbtittleI just listened to the full interview twice because of your comment and was unable to find it (I listen while I work, so I don't catch everything, but about 85-90%). What question did he sidestep please, so I can find it?

[@wbtittle]

@@davidjones8942I found the spot. About minute 17 ... Checking to see if I listened wrong initially..

[@wbtittle]

@@davidjones8942 Man... I hate it when I am wrong... But in the same breath, the video where I saw it happen had Peterson on the left hand side of the screen...He seems to address it here.

[@badgerden7080]

All you're doing is giving men more and more men reasons to not get married. A big thank you from those of us who will continue to walk away.

[@BoksCar29]

Once you are married the woman has the license to emasculate.

[@kbruff2010]

Agreed

[@Hauntedasylum666]

It’s not just marriage it’s any committed relationship.

[@goontubeassos7076]

@@Hauntedasylum666 Facts!

[@conniepayne931]

I'm sure her videos are getting to women that are single. There's a lot of people awakening from the slumber of deception. Please don't lose hope/faith. Hubby sent me to her channel to learn so I'm sure her videos are getting out there.

[@brianc9374]

My ex tried to emasculated me. She was quite different from other women I dated. Where most women will push until they hit a hard boundary, this nutjob was beyond that. I have never met someone so stubborn. She would spend months arguing over something that would take 4 minutes to do. Utterly insane.

[@macdieter23558]

My wife even got angry with me FOR WEEKS because IN ONE OF HER DREAMS I didn´t answer the phone when she needed me!

[@goontubeassos7076]

Takes 4 mins to break up, she drags it out for months.

[@brianc9374]

@@goontubeassos7076 when you have a home and kids........if I could only go back

[@davidjones8942]

​@goontubeassos7076 break up, then walk away, leaving her aguing with herself for that 4 months..... 🤣🤣🤣

[@davidh6799]

that is when you need to run because she is a psycho. MGTOW is the only way

[@cinemaunitestheworld]

I think you're great, Karyn! Thank you for your insight and kind words!

[@gabrielbattika]

I wish I come across you vids 10 yrs ago when I was married. Keep up the good work .

[@JAdams-jx5ek]

You are 100% correct. Thank you for doing this, it does expose you to all the damaged people of the world (which is all of us) and some of them would rather lash out than think about how they could change. It is difficult, but I hope you keep on speaking the truth.

[@fakename8856]

You can NOT turn a weak beta male into a fiercely independent and strongly introverted Sigma male. Real males are EXTREMELY rare (around 1 : 10,000) and weak soft betas need to stay inside the pyramid of society and let real Sigmas be alone. Real Sigmas NEVER live in cities because being around that many people doesn’t work for a Sigma. This woman does NOT understand what a Sigma is or how rare they different from beta males.

[@EnisudR]

Your words have helped me see my relationship more clearly. Thank you

[@Tjikkko]

And it's healthy or bad?

[@EnisudR]

@@Tjikkko not good, but at least I now know it’s not all me

[@jedaademola]

Yeah, I could see clearly after watching this video.

[@ardent9422]

This was brilliant and enlightening for me as a man, the whole concept of the alpha advice not working for the sigma, that really opened my mind, as I always had a feeling that what worked for alpha simply wasn't going to work for me, great work and thank you!

[@drleo6409]

I am a sigma male because my insecure father always put me and especially my brother down. Questioning what and why we did. This video is in-lighting.

[@tidelovinyankee1368]

My father was the same way. He was that way all his life. I empathize with you.

[@josecolon1060]

I took a test and it says that I am 79.77 Sigma male but my wife make me feel like a beta. I do not even know what a SIGMA male. but I am working on become my true self. thank you for your videos it is a true awaken. 🐺

[@thomzydervelt5152]

I liked your comment about it being pointless for a good man to try and become an alpha . Great observation.

[@Ben-yw8be]

Awesome talk. I went from a Beta to Sigma. It took years of trial and error. Now I am happily married for 9 years with a great wife and two children. I stopped running away and cow tow to women who emasculate but stood my ground. As the years went on, I found myself dating women that were uber attractive. Then I reflected: I have become a more masculine man. We literally reflect what we become.

[@jonny5370]

This is the first time that I make a comment on your channel. I personally have found that your channel is extremely useful. It has made me think through many of my past relationships. THANK YOU SO MUCH for your work, ESPECIALLY coming from a woman about other women.

[@jimmieblue6262]

Set boundaries and rules and Do not compromise. Let her know daily where you stand evaluating your life daily.

[@stephanweiskorn6760]

Genesis 2:18 The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”

[@j.p.5716]

This verse seems to be a theme with you. Why do you keep posting it? Care to elaborate?

[@davidh6799]

hahahaha

[@MrPokemon248]

So in other words gentleman stay single and just live your own life.

[@ldshasnobrain]

Until the human race ends😂😂😂 I'm afraid this has to be worked out. Otherwise the dogs and cats will once again rule the earth.

[@brianb5594]

Karyn, that is the best advice I have heard on your channel. How do we Beta males make this switch? I just push back on all the emasculation all the time but that just drags out more arguments between my wife and I. I am sick and tired of being treated that way, plus no sex, plus the nagging, and ZERO affirmation for all I have provided her. We have been married for over 30 years and I am on the verge of hanging it up. This may be a way back or at least help make end the marriage decision. Are there books you can recommend? You are spot on sister!

[@maralinautube]

Men are From Mars Women are From Venus series... He has resurfaced the past 3 yrs with several KZbin videos. Dr. John Gray has a healthy balance of men & women relationship dynamics. Based on what you typed, it sounds like you would really benefit from learning the 4 Attachment Styles in Addition to learning the 5 Love Languages. Based on what you wrote, you seem to lean more towards an Avoidant Attachment Style. When a man has an Avoidant Attachment Style, by default, it can even make some Securely Attached women become more Anxious Preoccupied. To me, i5 sounds like your wife has NOT FELT SAFECAROUND YOU IN QUITE some time. As women, Safety & Security is NOT just a man being financially responsible, but feeling safe Emotionally with our Emotions. Feeling safe sexually, is there intimacy & foreplay before the act. A woman wants a man that shows leadership skills... in that, does he make his best effort, does she feel like she has to do everything & roll over & have sex at the end of the night, does he communicate immediately when things don't go as planned, does he accept her help within reason without her taking over, etc.

[@brianb5594]

@@maralinautube Interesting points but did you consider in these situations that the men are the ones who do not feel emotionally safe? That is my situation. It's not for lack of trying either. My first reaction to your post was defensive, but after thinking about it, I can see your points. The issue is, it's reversed here..I would venture to say that is the case for many of the men that follow Karyn's channel here. We want the emotional connection but the women put the walls up and it's presumptuous on your part to think that good men just expect their wives to roll over whenever. Again, not the case here. Karyn's points out that you need to be happy with yourself, and too many married women, (not all), live co-dependent. They want the man to be the source of happiness. No one can make their spouse happy. You have to be happy with yourself first, and then you can build intimacy both emotionally and physically together. I do appreciate your post!

[@BasketballAve]

Thank you for these great videos. Very insightful and have been helping me become more mentally tough in dealing with a Woman who still behaves like a teenager. As much as I try it’s hard dealing with a woman who has never had a relationship with not only her real father …but her step father as well. She behaves masculine when she gets angry in that she always has to have the last word and holds all my records of wrongdoings over my head … I have been married for 20 years since I was 23. And for awhile Inalways thought I was the problem…now that I’m a lot older and wiser….I have seen the light… Again thank you for these videos. It is important for others to see these…nothing worse than being stuck in a sexless marriage …that’s based on conditions…. She never had to work so she could take care of our 2 daughters and I pay all the bills. Yet I am the bad guy for some odd reason. Anyways sorry for droning on thanks

[@spambot_gpt7]

That's not masculine behaviour. It is childish/selfish behavior. She needs a good mix of gratitude, hope and fear to keep herself in line.

[@AetherXIV]

I think this is dead on! I've been married to my wife for 11 years and after having children I felt like I need to firm up my understanding of my role as now not only the husband but the father of our family. I watched a lot of the "Alpha Male" videos and I liked their realism but their vision of women was hollow. I didn't want to treat my wife like a child and just use her for sex. I wanted a real relationship with her. So to the men here, I agree that the masculinity you are looking for is not "Alpha" oppressor but the centered man who has first faced his insecurities, worked to rule himself and love himself, and from a place of wholeness rises faithfully and gives generously to his family. I want to be the "good king" in my family, the kind of man I'd be willing to follow. My wife knows I'm in charge and I can tell she likes it that way.

[@j.p.5716]

That is the kind of relationship we all want but few of us will ever get it. It seems that most women for all of history have exhibited these traits that show they cannot handle that level of integrity, responsibility or accountability.

[@AetherXIV]

@@j.p.5716 I agree man. Feminism was a mistake. The ruins everyone finds themselves in today is proof of that. I'd also add that more than just cultural changes, we are chemically different from our ancestors. A huge percentage of women today are on birth control, a drug that alters their hormones and enables licentiousness that in the past would have bore its own consequences. Men too have way less testosterone thanks to micro plastics and soy. I wish you the best in finding a good woman. I know they are out there. I don't know how to find them though because I got married at 23, 11 years ago. I kind of hope that if you work on yourself and set your intention you will find one. The good thing is that you only need to find one. My best wishes to you.

[@hadroncollider9537]

Thank you for starting this channel. Watching your videos has been revealing. I am not crazy afterall! My marriage has failed for soo many of the reasons you explained in your video. This video hit home as to where to go from here. I identify as a Sigma and been told this by all my friends and family. You are a breath of fresh air and a gift to many of us burnt by failed marriages. ❤

[@christopherseah7827]

Thank you for your work and wisdom, sister!

[@ssing7113]

I agree with this. Yet the person being abusive should be held accountable “Just putting up with her emasculation verbal abuse” isn’t healthy as well. Yea there’s a tolerance and point where people should respond non reactivity and be the “bigger person” yet no one should put up with constant shaming and bullying abuse. When men or women do this. It’s the healthy responsibility for the other to hold their standards and boundaries and have a clam rational and clear conversation saying that isn’t right. How is this going to look in the future. Extremely hard to turn around if not addressed in the beginning and then the spiral of you don’t feel like a man being emasculated and she don’t respect you deep down for putting up with it not being the strong man you need to be to show up for her.

[@ahuesphoto]

Your channel / your point of view resonates with me, based on my personal experience. Thank you for sharing!

[@willharper4372]

Even though my marriage of 30 years is over not by choice my wife just walked away. She said it didn't work out and didn't want to engage in sex anymore. Your videos have told me so much about about things I didn't consider in my marriage. Now I am more informed of what is being emasculated it makes more sense how you explain it. Thank you for enlightening my mind.

[@PeterAcrat]

Most have never been taught about the richness of self-transformation, let alone where to start and how to navigate it. When one has little experience with transforming their own deep programming, core beliefs, values and conflicted inner parts, one can be forgiven for generalising that it is difficult or rarely likely, as that may be the simple and easiest understanding to hold. But the curious don't stop there. I estimate that Alpha's rarely look within. Thus they'll rarely expand to develop the depth of a Sigma mindset. Beta's on the other hand (if able to disentangle themselves from cognitive dissonance, moral dilemma, and bitterness of being victimised/invalidated) will grow rapidly to recognise that all meaning they see in the world is supplied by them - the Observer effect. Neediness and validation-seeking falls to the wayside when one realises they are only ever always seeking the solution between their own contrasting viewpoints. Rather than defence, they nurture an embrace of self. Deep shadow work involves attending to the negative emotions that signal about the presence of a 'foreign body', like a splinter, intruding in the peaceful integrity of one's mind. These are the meanings that need reframing. And reframed meanings give rise to a more fertile foundation for higher consciousness. This is the gritty 'Meta' of Epigenetics - the (meaningful and emotional) environment from which one draws the 'nutrients' that enable the switching that facilitates an expanded self development. Sigmas Evolve; to be who they are because they accept the Response-Ability of the power of consciousness gifted to their human existence, and refute that they are victims of their 'Birth stamp". Sigmas Do-The-Inner-Work to grow, change and become better, more integrated and self-empowered men, with greater power over themselves. This is what willing, mindful men are capable of. And it is up to us guys to change the world, cos the women have gone batshit crazy and devolved into followers of masculinity -(trying to become like men rather than being their true authentic feminine selves) demonstrating they can't lead humanity anywhere except in circles because they fail to demonstrate the integrity required to lead themselves with grace.

[@RyanFowlerSOS]

This is a very interesting and useful take on the matter. Really good stuff!

[@jeffgreenlee5809]

You are right!!! Good job , keep up the good work !!!

[@PulseCodeModulate]

As a sigma male I have found that the Stoic approach to life is a most natural fit. The modern day equivalent is the Lords prayer. Never waste time, money or energy on things that are outside your sphere of control. Rather focus on that before you which you can change.

[@davidjones8942]

I think you meant 'The Serenity' prayer...

[@PulseCodeModulate]

Yes, Thank you. @@davidjones8942

[@ContrarianExpatriate]

A sigma male is, by definition, an introvert so most would never want to be married. All the men you cited are beta men. Beta men are still GOOD MEN, but they are family providers and protectors at their core.

[@davidjones8942]

Except that true betas are not capable of standing up and protecting.... they may not be weak physically, but they are weak and submissive mentally and so are unable to stand up and protect, they usually let things go too far, then lash out with violence like the NY hallway shooting. Instead of standing up when threatened, he waited until his 'attacker' turned his back and walked out of reach, then pulled a gun and shot him in the back...

[@kenofken9458]

I don't think we're introverts necessarily, although I can see why many people read us that way. Sigmas aren't interested in accumulating followers and sycophants. Nor are we interested in cultivating large numbers of casual acquaintances to feel validated. We're not desperate people but we do value real friends and genuine people and will do a lot for them. When you put a sigma in surroundings full of these worthwhile people, we're some of the most social and gregarious creatures you'll ever see.

[@chase2289]

Sigma males are not against getting married. Sigma males are generally introverts but look for a deep deep connection with a partner. We won’t commit to just anyone. Someone has to be worthy of our attention and love.

[@davidh6799]

we are only described as a introvert because we do not need external validation like a alpha, it comes from within. Also we recharge when we are alone and do not need a woman. we like solitude

[@AMR421RA]

I’m basically Ryan Gosling

[@longnamenocansayy]

stand up to your wife. sounds good. stand up to the whole court system. maybe that doesn't sound so good. maybe that ends up with jail time. maybe mgtow is the right way.

[@Mike-wh7nf]

What an awesome woman you are. Been listening to your stuff a lot lately. I got one hell of a story to tell myself but right now I just want to offer some praise for the work you do ma’am.

[@jamesa9004]

Now here's the paradox. A sigma-male (as I understand it) does not need or seek a woman's validation, but a beta-male Craves it. ( the alpha gets whatever he wants, whenever, so validation it mute).. So how is a woman supposed to hold on to a sigma male? Not sure... But not to worry, almost all guys I know seem to want female validation, it's a never ending supply. The ones who broke out of that were probably reprogrammed after years of family court... A " honey-do" list? Yea right, lmao.

[@badgerden7080]

We must get rid of the simps.

[@jamesjonnes]

Think I could be called a sigma. Really uninterested in women, to the point of not looking at them. They hate me for not giving them attention. I can even understand their silly signals, but I don't approach. The thing is, if I approach someone it will be to create a family, anything else is a waste of my time. If I think you're a 304 I don't even want to see you.

[@ssing7113]

It’s called indifference.. True sigmas are rare as it’s basically the healthiest highest form of a male but they have the characteristics of being detached from people. Not needing attention. Lone wolf types. ( keannu reeves ) So back to indifference. It’s a take it or leave it attitude and really a reserved one. It’s the guy who politely talks to someone if they approach him and if you have nothing to value he will cut it short then and wish u on your way She holds on to a guy becuase she knows he’s prolly the best guy she’s ever going to get and she knows he can drop her life a fly. It’s really up to her to keep onto him and either way he doesn’t care as he doesn’t need her. If she’s a benefit and fits he’ll keep her around. If not he’s happy going back to sleeping alone at night with no worry to him. It’s dependent on her and what she brings and what drama she can leave at the door. 1% of woman can handle already a high value man and herself be healthy enough to keep him

[@AnthonyKellett]

Validation is not moot, for an Alpha male. In fact, to me it seems quite the opposite. Their entire existence, and sense of self, appears based on how they're perceived by others. Moreover, most Alphas are only regarded as such by their particular pool. Throw them in the sea and they can become 'Beta', very quickly. That being so, they tend to stay in their territory, for fear of bigger and better Alphas dethroning them in the eyes of their 'followers', which merely lends weight to my opening claim. Alternatively, they may attempt briefly socialising (as long as it's visible) with more highly regarded Alphas (or ones they personally admire) in the hope of increasing their own status, by association, when they return to their small pond. Of course, this is only my opinion, based on years of observation. As such, it's somewhat anecdotal and subjective.

[@davidjones8942]

​@AnthonyKellett I agree, but I would add that Alphas seek validation from other men. They may like validation from women, but they don't actually seek it.

[@StingrayMk1]

Been trying to let it be water off a duck's back for twenty years. But I keep getting pulled into the fight. My highest values are truth, reason, and accountability. So when these are made a mockery of by my wife (untruth, false claims, bad logic, blaming me when I am trying to help her), well, it's not right to let it go. That behavior is unacceptable no matter who you are.

[@generaldvw]

Quiet, powerful wisdom.

[@jayKnocks8076]

Tears, thank you so much for understanding me?

[@johnizitchiforalongtime]

You made me cry in the first minute of this video. Sure could have had a woman like you. Never had confidence, i lost a race in my 4th grade, 4th place when i thought i was a fast runner. Was shamed because i had no ribbon for the position like all in my class had one.

[@borisdodgingbullets]

Please continue to do the fabulous work that you have been doing! Haters will hate irrespective of the object of their hate!

[@dillensteeby]

Thank you sis! You’re beautiful! God bless you!

[@mshelton1279]

Man! I’m a sigma male, and I’m okay with it, honestly. 😊

[@cksmith007]

Love your stuff. And spot on about Will Smith. Gawd ... such a great man and it's so damned sad to see him behave the way he does. Jada is a POS for doing what she does, but honestly I blame Will even more b/c he needs to find the power in himself to tell her f-off.

[@paddyoak1]

Great man?!!

[@mlogan9929]

When dealing with the women you care about you always have to be 3 steps ahead. Don't Let her actions or words get into your emotions. Stay grounded and logical. Don't try to explain your problems and emotions to your woman . Find a person away from your woman, her family or your family to talk to about your inner issues. Always project a strong masculine male.

[@crabmanrockefeller9117]

I just straight up call out the BS from my wife. Zero tolerance. HOWEVER, I do not recommend marriage - we have been married since 1983 so I speak from experience guys. Women just say and do ridiculous stupid things - call it out as BS straight up.

[@thomascraig6814]

You could just say you’re an abusive prick. It’d be shorter to write. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@merlingeikie]

Thank you. Turning the arrows and slander into overwhelming strengths. 🔥🇦🇺👍🏻

[@jedaademola]

Thank you for this!

[@davidh6799]

the only way for a man to win at this game is not to play. I walked away from relationships 20 years ago and never looked back. now I have a great peaceful life.

[@sonderman8079]

Totally agree. I am about to walk away from a 25 year marriage. Wish me luck🙂

[@davidh6799]

@@sonderman8079 good luck...you can do it.. just move forward. I have a friend who just left a 20 year. he has his place now and his peace and has never been happier. she kept nagging him and arguing and telling him how independent she was so he said fine, do it on your own

[@gregstuart9783]

Totally agree, I’m about to walk away from 32yrs, youngest of four is finally turning 18. EXCITED about the next 15yrs, hoping I make it to 75, travelling OZ, in my ‘78 muscle car, lol, working a little bit here and there, I’ll come “home” for weddings, funerals and Christmas, lol😂 I will never get involved with another woman, just enjoy the memories of my HOT wife at her best

[@sonderman8079]

@@gregstuart9783 Best of luck.

[@ejmagras]

I needed to hear this today. thank you

[@jorgealicea2088]

I absolutely agree with your definition of a Sigma Male. I identify as such.

[@grantwithers]

It's not the actual definition of a sigma. She's just picking and choosing alpha traits and making a new label. She basically is talking about a lower tier chad/alpha.

[@Truth-is-King]

You are an AMAZING commentator! You give me hope honestly in the female species. I know that’s horrible but I’ve seen so much bad behavior and lack of accountability and emasculation that you help bring me back to reality. You’re doing God’s work! Bless you dear sister.

[@grantwithers]

Don't get your hopes up, she dated bad boys till she walled, then got herself a beta I believe, divorced him, and is now on her second beta, finally figuring halfway out how to have a relationship with a man she isn't attracted to.

[@jorgealicea2088]

The Sigma Male is the highest levelnof a man.

[@10Sambo01]

That makes a LOT of sense!!

[@Allan_aka_RocKITEman]

Great vid, Karyn...👍 *EDIT→* Tell the _shaming haters_ to *F**K OFF.*

[@truthclassics]

I was strong for 6 years against it and had to leave it anyways.. be aware guys, if your wife is too loud and forceful don't stay for your health's sake. Leave her. She deserves to be alone in that case. And you deserve to be healthy and have a bright future. My mind is tired until today after 2 years of divorce and since we have a child together she is always using things against me... she's a terror to this day.

[@burhanettinsiginc1282]

I have to disagree with you on Jordan Peterson. He is asking men to roll over and let women do whatever they want. ie: his daughter

[@jimdigriz3436]

Alpha women are to be avoided. Alpha males are good in a marriage, and the female must become the beta. Been that way for millennia.

[@thomascraig6814]

That’s dumb.

[@fullfrontalgrace]

I for one am appreciative and thankful of your work and methods. As for the toxic comments, it's not surprising. When you come across a snake in the brush, it coils ready to strike. You've discovered it and it feels threatened.

[@anthonywarren1317]

Great video sister...

[@masterandkerranginparticul4324]

This is great content, thank you.

[@andrewmacomber1638]

This helps. Do you have more videos on what men can do to counteract the emasculation from wife?

[@MattTheBandGuy]

As a formerly emasculated beta-type male, I can honestly say that the Sigma route is the way to go. No desire whatsoever to be an Alpha, as I don't believe in hook-up culture, and I'm not narcissistic. Although I did run away from my emasculating spouse. It was a relationship that should have never happened anyway. Thank you.

[@GardenerEarthGuy]

Never forget your memories of prison with your ex wife, the moment that you do you'll be in prison again. Good luck!

[@timotahowhitehawk3756]

A man needs your Respect From his Wife more than her love, bc, we know this you can NEVER LOVE a man you do not RESPECT! Women Usually will love a man they can respect! Bible says, Ephesians 5:33 The verse that instructs wives to respect their husbands is Ephesians 5:33, which says, “Nevertheless, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband”12. This verse is part of a larger passage that describes the roles and responsibilities of husbands and wives in marriage2."Wives See that you Respect your Husbands!"

[@reubenmurphy7053]

I agree with the general lesson but I'm not sure it goes beta to sigma. I think beta can change if they overcome insecurity. Alpha guys exist on a spectrum. The way the system works, its often luck that creates what's thought of as an alpha male. Like Bill Gates getting his IBM contract, just lucky he kept the IP. Sigma's are really alphas but just don't care about all the demands and sacrifices that managing people take out of their high self-value private life. An alpha man does not have to be super rich but he's respected and valued anyway if only for being ballzie

[@joshuaursin3527]

You're right on, I've always recognized that I'm a sigma, but for the last few years I've noticed I'm being forced into a beta role by my wife's projections. When I try to point it out, I'm met with a one sided argument where I get yelled at everytime I open my mouth to speak and I always end up sitting down listening while the tsunami crashes over me to the point that I just can't get a word in and I'm holding back tears. I provide everything but it's irrelevant in her eyes. I try to stay grounded, but I can feel I'm slowly losing hold of my self perception, more quickly now than ever, and I'm at a complete loss.

[@grantwithers]

Bruh all of it is irrelvant to them except feeeeeelings, if you're not delivering those then you're sunk, if you are then you're golden. This is due to the ease of their life and modern state underwritten existence. In any event, you gotta dip out of that shit. And don't call yourself what she calls a sigma male, actual sigmas are super rare, and she's using the term wrong.

[@GospelOfThomasMcSwain]

@@grantwithers Psychopaths don't have feelings and narcissists don't care about anyone else's except their own - most women behave narcissistically. Many men too. In fact, narcissists act pretty much the same regardless of their sex.

[@oterosocram25]

You grow and mature and turn around and with love and respect and you expose the foolishness on the people doing the shaming.

[@annarboriter]

I think it would be helpful if you introduced the concept of gynocentrism into your discussions

[@canadianeavestrough]

You are so conscious. Thank you.

[@enrgpro]

thanks for putting yourself out there for us

[@bernkazz]

Burned in two marriages. As the song says. Won't get fooled again

[@richmarko8704]

You must be one of those women that God prophesied about in Jeremiah CH. 31 where God says , "..... I will create a new thing in the Earth, A Woman will encompass a man." You have an important ministry . Don't let the tough guys stop you . Thx ;)

[@PlanetOfTheApes999]

So alpha --> beta --> sigma is the usual evolution of male personalities in the Western cultural context? That makes sense.

[@davidh6799]

you are wrong. Alpha and Sigma are on the same level but the Alpha needs to get his validation from others. A sigma's strength comes from inside. there are plenty of videos on youtube about sigma. I am a total sigma and no matter what she says, a beta can not become a sigma. you are either born a sigma or you are not. it is something you can learn to be or become. I do my own thing I do not depend on others. I focus on being as fit as possible and working my grind. I am a lone wolf and no one can figure me out. women know I will boot them to the curb for the slightest thing. The best way to describe a Sigma think John Wick...James Bond, Jason Borne, Harrison Ford in Raiders of the lost ark. we go our own way and do not live by societal rules. we do not travel with the herd of sheep this requires a special inner strength that the vast majority of people do not possess. to give you an Idea. I decided at the end of last year that I wanted to try something new. So I sold my home and all my possessions and moved to Mexico. 99.9% of people could never do that

[@PlanetOfTheApes999]

@@davidh6799 You're trying way too hard.

[@davidh6799]

@@PlanetOfTheApes999 hahaha...spoken like a true simp. I was sigma before sigma was even a thing....sorry you are a hater...classic sign of someone with low self esteem and someone who could never be sigma no matter how hard they tried.

[@bernkazz]

I think that when you get you're wife to understand her abusive ways...get her to see it Then divorce her. For the abuse she put you through

[@GardenerEarthGuy]

Drunk women fall off cruise ships- people go that route when their emotions are too much for them.

[@richalfres3727]

When he put on the mask, gloves and started wiping things down- she stopped respecting him…..

[@mysty0]

I would love to see you do a Co-Op with 'The Worlds Most Satisfied Wife' .. that would be awesome

[@ShyMplsMale]

Staying with someone who will emasculate you for years doesn't make sense to me. Even if you are sigma, she will still be doing it if I'm hearing Karyn correct. It's better to just be in an environment where people appreciate you or just be alone.

[@Neoteny374]

Guys, tongkat ali. Two words: tongkat ali. Also e excise. BJJ maybe. Well, three words, tongkat ali and exercise.

[@ricks341]

I love your idea for emasculated men to become Sigmas! Keep up the good work!

[@davidh6799]

lol. Sorry but you cannot become a sigma. You are either born sigma or not. I am total sigma and have been my entire life since childhood. We are the lone wolves. We go our own way and do not follow the herd. People cannot figure us out. We are enigmatic

[@ricks341]

@@davidh6799 And not afraid to toot your own horn! Congratulations on being born sigma.

[@davidh6799]

@@ricks341 yep not afraid...it is what it is...not tooting my own horn just making a statement of fact.

[@TOMRYANLUKE]

Your very good.!!

[@somepersonalconsiderations]

Genial! Super interesting for everybody.

[@Angrybogan]

The pathway to Beta-hood is trying to be reasonable with your wife. Again: The pathway to Beta-hood is being reasonable. Your wife will 1) Use sex as a weapon 2) Disapprove of your hobbies/ friends / job 3) Tell you that you're not a good parent / she's better 4) Yell, threaten to leave, throw tantrums and generally try being an emotional terrorist. Don't be reasonable. She won't be reasonable. Nor should you. Call her out.

[@greyfoxice]

What if your an Alpha male and it feels strange to go to a sigma male?

[@MemphisBBQ640]

(4:00) Run toward the sound of the guns...

[@metatechnologist]

You know when Neo holds his hand up to the bullets and stops the bullets. Yea that.

[@krazyswede11]

I always love listening to Karens thoughts and advice. Though I have believed in the institution of marriage and continue to promote it to those who want it, I myself will never marry again 2 are enough.

[@heraldbard]

Thank you for an interesting video. .As a submissive male this has given me food for thought.

[@ElectricIguana]

Old school Clint Eastwood. Sigma AF

[@JAG214]

Most men in modern times will never get to the Sigma Male or Alpha Male status

[@LordShockwave9]

Because without any internal love for self, you sure as hell can't love anyone else, no matter how hard you try. No one else can do that for you, either.

[@KNSR4894]

It's such a shame there are not more woman here. It seems all men but we can not get our ladies to listen to this. I told my wife and she just said I'm not like that. Giving up with her. Someone else can have her problems. I'm over it.

[@j.p.5716]

Go back and tell her that she is like that and if it does not change soon there will be consequences.

[@EMO_alpha]

These are all dumb silly terms.. BUT i think Alpha male just means classically masculine. Big, Strong, Competitive, maybe Handsome leadership qualities. And Sigma is just more quirky, less classically masculine but empowered. Alpha doesn't mean Jerk. The biggest, strongest most competitive guys i know are the best leaders and very nice.

[@tedlogan4867]

Sigma, alpha, beta, all of these terms describe immutable trait characteristics and tendencies, most of which cannot be taught or learned. Furthermore, Sigma's, natural, authentic Sigma males, generally are entirely uninterested in engaging with the structure and hierarchy associated with marriage. Men already married can imitate some Sigma traits, but just as some are born taller, or shorter, bald or full head of hair, brown or blue eyes, men are born Alpha, Sigma, Beta, Omega or otherwise. Learning to be complete, as an individual, is vital for every human. That is the underlying issue. Western culture does nothing to encourage any meaningful, deep personal self-agency, particularly in women.

[@ahuesphoto]

I agree with you that a person / any person does not become an alpha or a sigma, you are born that way, but you can become a more complete or mature individual no matter who you are. Another thing to consider is that in order to be an alpha (let’s say super successful) you have to sacrifice *everything* else; but to be a sigma (let’s say successful enough) you don’t have to sacrifice as much.

[@tedlogan4867]

@@ahuesphoto What is it that Alphas sacrifice, as you say? An Alpha *must* sit at the top of hierarchies, it's built into them. Say more about Alphas "sacrificing everything", I don't observe that in reality in any way.

[@ChristnThms]

It's interesting that you think these personality types are intrinsic, and cannot be altered. If you're correct, there's no reason to discuss or teach or anything. If these characteristics are immutable, there's nothing for 99% of men to try to achieve and no reason why for those few sigmas to be proud. I mean, if you can't learn it then you didn't achieve it.

[@tedlogan4867]

@@ChristnThms Read my words again in my original post. Immutable trait characteristics and tendencies does not mean they cannot be altered. Much like a dominant flavor, it blends well with other flavors, but is always present.

[@kellygreenii]

Nonsense.

[@alexaigner4447]

Just don’t argue with your wife. And walk away when she crosses red lines. It’s on males to do so. Don’t blame women trying to beta you - stay and become sigma.

[@davidh6799]

you cannot become a sigma. you are either born with the traits or you are not

[@alexszlanina7548]

Your explanation from 1:18 is that I realize I'm a sigma male .. ok.. cool.

[@whitetuberose2782]

Vox day SSH is extremely specific, sigmas are rare weirdos with the sex appeal of alphas- both of whom have no need to stick around with low status females who behave poorly. They have too many options. The bravos and deltas are majority of solid good family men- the beta/bravo designation was never meant to be inferior simply a man who is not a natural leader but excels at supporting the leader- like a second mate or copilot. I hope you can take a look at his content- he’s been codifying this for 20 years.

[@BoksCar29]

Respect is just a word in the dictionary.

[@Hebrewess8]

I hope your husband didn’t watch this one. How would he feel hearing you identify all these other men that you admire, but you didn’t list him first, or at all. Isn’t he what you would call a sigma male?

[@davidh6799]

I am a total Sigma. I have always gone my own way, do not need or depend on anyone.