Signs He's Not Into You (Abort! Abort! Abort!)

[@goaway737]

Your videos are the only ones that seem to be helpful.

[@blahhblah6635]

Man, as a man watching two of her videos I will say she dead on point with what she says. That crap you girls read in magazines will get you nowhere. So far I'd say listen to her. She knows her shit.

[@blahhblah6635]

I've only watched two of her vids and never posted the same comment on either. Seems like you may be the one strolling through the comment section of all her vids comment policing as I can see. Hm.

[@betielhaile8641]

What if he is giving me mixed signals? 1. He hugs other girls infront of me 2. He takes me out on a date - i asked him if he liked me, and he said no and then he tok me out 3. tells me that seeing me will make me happy 4. dosent talk to me often on the phone, but always sends a snap or two 5. gets jeoleous when other guys r touching me 6. I FUCKING CONFUSED! and i cant get over him coz he is very cute

[@andreasd5334]

Messixx Betixx You're talking about what he doesn't do. What DOES he do when around you

[@betielhaile8641]

Thats what he does!!! all the numbers are the things he has done with/to me!

[@andreasd5334]

Messixx Betixx Try to get close...

[@SlothGuru]

Guy here: Everything she said is very common with us. Not often I hear these "experts" say something good, but this Amy North did.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks Sloth Guru!

[@Operation9595]

Sloth Guru

[@stagesbookingandpromotions3548]

Sloth Guru she is good

[@jassylicious6121]

He's not into me. Thank you. I woke up from a fantasy. BTW, nice video.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry Jasmin, someone better's gonna come soon. :-)

[@kymberleigh4928]

Your not alone lol I'm there too!!

[@nehallalwani5324]

same girl...

[@boyandcatmum]

he told me to never message or call him again so that was pretty direct

[@AmyNorthDating]

So sorry to hear that, Donna. Don't worry, someone better's coming along! :)

[@heidithechubbybunny8949]

Amy North lies

[@ashluvsfoofighters]

Donna Bowen lol harsh

[@ЛюбовБонева]

I feel you Donna...

[@ЛюбовБонева]

I have a question. What if YOUR BEST MALE FRIEND says that to you? Was he ever your best friend at all or was it just a big fat lie?

[@GoldfinchAnimations]

Ugh... I'm crushing a on person who's in most of my classes... I kinda end up glancing at him every 10-15 seconds. Every time. I swear. EVERY TIME. He says, "What?" I swear it's so weird and cute at the same time.

[@melvinacann6182]

It's strange in the summer he used to want to sit next to me,walk with me,talk to me,and all. Now that it's finally school he changed. AND got a gf and 3 days later broke up with her for some reason. I still like him. IM LOSING HIM HAWLP ME PLEASE

[@gaelleserenakouyoumdjian1232]

Omg she legit described my ex.. I can't believe I dated that guy

[@AmyNorthDating]

It's a blessing you're not dating him anymore, Gaëlle. You'll meet the right guy for you at the right time. ;-)

[@kingsleyarthur1649]

Hello

[@beckysilky2868]

#smh...he is soo not into me 😒😒

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Becky! Don't lose hope! Just keep the fire burning, you may never know....

[@beckysilky2868]

Amy North this lighted me up, thanks for replying ☺☺

[@julym.2987]

Becky Silky giiiiiirl it's okay she checked off all my concerns I had 😂😭😭😭😭😭❗ I was like maybe I was tripping & on top of that he tried to contact me after months and I kinda just ended that year of pain for me even though I still wanted to be his friend a little but, in those weak moments his bad out weighed his good even though I treated him like gold! We never had sex or anything thank God! 🙏

[@beckysilky2868]

July M. sometimes we just have to let go and move on even though it might be difficult but we'll recover somehow 😳😳

[@Ethereal_Baddie]

awww girl fuck him ur beautiful. on to the next

[@officesaredull]

Literally every man I've wanted to date 😢 I'm too old for this (39) I make peace with my singledom and wish all you younger women better luck than me.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey LilyHulaGirl! You first need to figure out what you’re doing to cause them to pull away… often it’s because you’re showing too much interest or offering too little value in your messages and guys are not feeling the connection. This is actually a topic I cover extensively in my Devotion System program, so you might consider picking up a copy (or at least watching the full video on my website): www.CoachNorth.com

[@elena-lc4uk]

You're giving up at 39?????? What???!!!!

[@ajlacasa242]

This video gives me a Heartache 😣

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry, Aj. The right guy for you will come along and it will be worth the wait. 😊

[@lastella1994]

+Amy North Hi I need your advice the guy I liked was actually watching all my pictures and videos in secret he doesn't put a like on my pictures and videos on instagram .He was being secretive so I thought he was into me.But then after one month I told him I had feelings for him and he said he doesn't want to be my boyfriend.Before I revealed my feelings he told me he gave me many compliments on my hairstyles and my voice since I can sing soo well,all this told me he was into me.But now he said we're just friends.

[@lastella1994]

+Amy North Plus he told me he couldn't call me at a certain time cause he was writing his exams.Again this made me think he was into me.

[@NomadZ3RO]

@@lastella1994 if u still have problem with him I can assure u he likes u just give him time.

[@lastella1994]

@@NomadZ3RO I see thanks for the advice

[@reshamghosh8612]

he is not into me 😭😭😭😭

[@earth2erika]

its ok girl..plenty of fishes in the sea..don't give up

[@wejden9084]

Resham Ghosh me too girl just playing with me

[@wejden9084]

earth2erika i loved these coment

[@batoulkaso2213]

Resham Ghosh he is not into mee toooo 💔😭but I really adore him

[@shreyamaity3599]

Resham Ghosh haha same wid me

[@mansa311]

I believe my guy is so into me. He check on me often than I do . He makes sure am good .we are in a long distance relationship and it's been 4 months since I saw him . He just bought me a ticket recently to come visit because he misses me so much . I don't know what I did but I think am on the right path

[@AmyNorthDating]

You are Georgia! Just make sure to make the fire burning!

[@mariannaa.4138]

I realized: I'm friendzoned c:

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry about it Marianna, somone better's coming along. :)

[@ellahrosemanyimbiri7692]

u are really good at ur job thank u for this

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for your feedback Ellah!

[@LisaBP66]

How funny that we as women tend to overlook the obvious .... 😕

[@AmyNorthDating]

IKR Elizabeth! I hope my tips were able to help you, though.

[@jessidawkins5245]

Elizabeth Benitez Pineiro true

[@francesjames7055]

I would like to add a few more red flags. 1. If he always wants to get jiggy at your place, this is so that he can make a quick exit the next day (if he even bothers to spend the night of course). He does NOT want breakfast with you and he sure as hell does not want a conversation with you. If he lets you stay over at his place he might have trouble getting you out of the door the next day.....you might expect to be allowed to take a shower or have a cup of tea/coffee. You are simply a body in which he empties his biological fluids. 2. He NEVER gets you a card or flowers on your birthday or valentines day. He tells you that he 'is not in to that nonsense.' What he REALLY means is: "Why would I be spending my cash on you when you are only a receptacle for my sperm?" 3. After you have been intimate, he rolls over and goes to sleep. He tells you that he 'is not in to that cuddling thing.' Ladies believe me, if this guy really liked you, he would want to cuddle you ALL THE TIME. 4. Staying on the subject of being intimate (or having sex) if he does not look in to your eyes and if there is little or no kissing, this is a HUGE RED FLAG. Ladies, this is a sign that he is not emotionally involved in what he is doing with you. He is simply catering to his own physical needs. He has no deep connection with you during this most intimate of acts. In fact, you are little more than a masturbation aid. 5. Ladies this one is VERY important because this will tell you right from the get-go EXACTLY what kind of guy you are dealing with and what he thinks of you. The first time you meet him (or chat online with him) he talks dirty to you. He does this because he has NO RESPECT for you. He is letting you know that he sees you as a sex toy. Ladies let me tell you, if a guy REALLY likes you, he will know how to behave like a gentleman and treat you like a lady. 6. IF he lets you meet his buddies and they make fun of you or hit on you, this is another HUGE RED FLAG. This is because his guys know that you are just the receptacle for his sperm. If you were his 'special girl' his buddies would know it and they would treat you with respect. Also, if a guy REALLY likes you, he will never let anyone diss you, not even his best mate who he used to play in the sandpit with when he was 3 year old. Of course if you are happy to let him empty his bag in you whilst at the same time being treated with no love or respect by him, then I guess there is no problem.

[@shelly7160]

Frances JAMES Tell us more

[@francesjames7055]

Hiya 'Don't Worry.' Okay, just for you and all the other ladies out there, here are some more 'Red Flags' to highlight when a guy is just playing you and when he is for real. 1. You have never met his Mama. This is because he knows that he is not serious towards you. A guy only takes you home to meet Mum when you are special to him. 2. You have NEVER been on a real date, like the movies or a nice restaurant with him. In fact, you have never even been to McDonald's with him and the one time he did take you for a big mac and fries was when YOU paid. 3. He never asks you questions about yourself, like your childhood, your hopes, dreams and ambitions.....heck, this guy doesn't even know what your favourite colour is......he doesn't know what perfume you like.....and guess what ladies? He DOESN'T WANT TO KNOW! You are just a body to get jiggy with. He isn't INTERESTED in getting to know you as a HUMAN BEING. 4. He NEVER argues with you. Now ladies, this might sound strange but please let me explain. If a guy REALLY likes you, when you are angry and upset he will talks things over with you and try to reach a solution. A guy who doesn't care about your feelings will head for the door and say, "give me a call when you've stopped acting like a crazy bitch." 5. He talks 'down' to you, as if you are a complete fool. HUGE sign of disrespect here ladies. If a guy really likes you he will take the time to explain things to you in a way which does NOT make you feel like you are a total idiot for asking the question. 6. You are NEVER his priority. There is always someone or something that comes in front of you......even his pet hamster comes in front of you. Basically this guy is NOWHERE to be seen when you need a shoulder to cry on. 7. Whe you ask him about his future plans and if YOU figure in them he says, "I'm not ready for a big commitment yet.....can't we just enjoy the moment?" What he REALLY means is, "Woman don't be foolish......I am NEVER gonna marry you."

[@shelly7160]

Frances JAMES Thanks but I'm depressed now.

[@scarletpeoni9347]

I know plenty of marriages like that, why would someone get married to someone they didn't love?

[@ChristineChandran]

Thank you... I needed this clarification so badly. I got my answer. He is absolutely not into me :(

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're always welcome, ChristineChandran. :)

[@diyamajumder6582]

Im getting mixed signals 😢😢

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Diya Majumder, You may need to make the first move. Does he know you like him?

[@1Skorpia]

Diya Majumder pull away completely. he's gonna see if he misses you. let him take action. if he does nothing move on quickly. if he does want to be in your life make sure it's on your terms. he might be toying with your emotions. guys do this for control.

[@NhiLe-bw4vs]

Diya Majumder me too 😢

[@jforgotten2620]

skorpia g girls do it too

[@catlady9933]

Diya Majumder same.😔😫

[@genny8826]

TEEN ADDITION

[@nivixi]

madoka yamma yeah..

[@JuliaRaven]

And Teen Subtraction

[@genny8826]

Lol

[@kimgrewing8008]

yeah

[@DavisAshmon899]

He's not into me

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry, Ashley! I'm pretty sure someone better is coming along. ;-)

[@Yummie-Cakes]

Ashley Davis can't see why, you're gorgeous, and don't feel so bad because 4 years ago my man swore he was gonna marry me when he got out of jail, and it sure ain't happening right now. So I'm not exactly sure why he's even living with me. I personally believe that no baby will tie down any man eventho we have one together.

[@hopebullard460]

Ashley Davis same here! 😣😟

[@jforgotten2620]

How

[@lastella1994]

mine too he told me we're just friends 😣😭

[@VivVal33]

Amy, hi! what if he sends mixed messages such as not responding to texts soon and not calling but making plans to see you on weekends. This is happening to a friend. As for me, a few months ago i was dating a guy who would call, text, take me on dates, introduce me to his family and friends, but yet he was always talking about how beautiful other women were, staring, and lite flirting when we were out in public. This behavior made me feel super uncomfortable and even though i told him how bad it made me feel he kept doing it. So i had to let him go!

[@mariannaa.4138]

That's happening to me :)

[@jessicaujjwala6891]

Viviana Valverde

[@Vibewid_M]

I knew it my ex were never into me ! But now,my current partner loves me like anything. He really cares a lot about me .He's protective wid the relationship & me too.❤

[@AmyNorthDating]

Glad to know that you found the one for you, Bobo_❤! Thanks for watching my video and don’t forget to subscribe to keep you updated on my new videos! ;-)

[@Vibewid_M]

@@AmyNorthDating Subscribed sweety ✌💝

[@rebecavargas5515]

Wow I'm really surprised! My ex never was into me then, all what you said was exactly what he did and I didn't realize ON time 😞 Now my heart is broken. Thanks for the video! I loved it

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Rebeca! :) Don't worry, you'll get over him and meet someone better. ;-)

[@IceCreamPrinses]

She reminds me of Gilmore Girls' Paris for some reason

[@manatee580]

I'm a girl but you're really pretty and smart! Great videos!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thank you, Manatee()5! 😄 Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@mavibenvegnu7996]

Ouch, this kinda hurts.. great video thought!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, Mavi! :) Don't worry, someone better is destined to be with you! ;-)

[@subratasubrata3897]

Mavi Benvegnu Pasini nice/00971-0569772459

[@luramedina553]

he totally doesn't want me in his life

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Lura, sorry to hear about that. Don't worry, you're bound to meet someone better. :)

[@34rolento1]

i don't wan any tamil girls in my life too

[@keithperry6137]

Hey everyone. Guy here. This lady is spot on! Most men aren't up front with their feelings. Only the most secure and mature men will be. Ladies, if you're getting mixed signals, flat out tell him you like him and want to hang out. Some men are just shy or uncomfortable taking the leap. Being up front about your feelings is best. That way you know if he's interested right away and don't end up wasting your time and getting heartbroken.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Well said, Keith! :) Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts about this video!

[@Momorinx]

So... He doesn't like me.. I get such mixed signals. Sometimes he uses such a long time to answer me back, but other times he is quite fast. He says "good morning and good night

[@jinhan4935]

Maybe he just hates texting, some guys are like that. So be a little patient. If not, well, I guess he's just not into you. Keep moving on

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Jewel Babe, we need to remember that he's a human being. He's got things to do. I hope you can stop overthinking. BTW, how long have you been dating?

[@lethalurethral3056]

omg ur on this video too?!? damn i know clover

[@ROMireneowusuboateng]

Amy North I really get ur point.... I am not surprised tho. we re very friends and there's this kind of fun and happiness between us whenever we together but after we depart it's like the moment we shared isn't valued.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Sorry to hear that Irene Owusu Boateng. Could it be that he likes someone else? There sometimes is a fine line between just being friends and being in love. Do you still talk?

[@ms-honeyvi]

He's not into me I think it's time to move on now.😢😭😭

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry, Vicky! :) Someone better's coming along.

[@ms-honeyvi]

I hope so Amy, and thank you for your comment. 😊

[@kingsleyarthur1649]

@@ms-honeyvi hi

[@indisingh9460]

For Me #1 but he normally says he's busy #6 he interacts at times but sometimes he just ignore His all times excuse is he's busy Thanks Ms North

[@allisonmoore6636]

Hello friend do you really want your ex back .

[@Davi-kc7wz]

i think my crush is not or no more into me...

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Davini, how about you watch this instead kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJ7FkmV4Zrmjitk. You might find some useful tips!

[@KatharineMiele]

I think this has just helped me decide to close the door on a 2- year exclusive but ultimately unfulfilling relationship. thank you! now if I could only figure out how to make him stop trying to make it work! (we work in the same building... so I pretty much see him every day even when we didn't make plans to hang out)

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Katharine! Glad it helped you decide. 😊 The best thing to do is to tell him exactly how you feel, there's no other way to do it. And the sooner, the better.

[@-monika-monika]

Thank you Amy!!! Guys can be so mean ...

[@AmyNorthDating]

That is definitely true. You're welcome, btw.

[@immortalgaiden]

women do this exact same shit. quit acting like this is a male only thing. this is a person thing.

[@subratasubrata3897]

Monika Beauty nice/00971-0569772459

[@redhorizon7225]

@@AmyNorthDating huh? your video didn't say anything mean about men, are you a man-hating feminist on the low or something?

[@goaway737]

immortalgaiden did you see she wrote CAN be? Not are 🙄

[@MrSupremeFitness]

I'm a chauvinist (by American standards) and I hate how right she is on these videos, but I'm extremely impressed at the same time. Ladies, if y'all want to get ahead of the game, listen to @Amy North

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching my videos, MrSupremeFitness! :) I appreciate the support! ;-)

[@aliciayoung9546]

So Much Truth in Your Words! Now Knowing These Truths is one Thing But Accepting Them is Another Matter Entirely 🙁

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching my video, Alicia! Don't worry, you'll meet the right guy for you soon enough. ;-)

[@ElenaSemanova]

Thank you for the video

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome Elena!

[@dreamdoll9701]

+Amy North hi am new here but I have not talked to my ex for months and I really like him but he just don't want to get back together what shall I do??

[@honest1966]

Hi just watched your video very interesting! some the signs you talked about happened earlier in our relationship and now we're engaged! We argued about many things and some has changed. But the beginning is the not responding on social media, ignoring my text at times, flirting with other women giving the smile and stair between him and the other person putting the best friend (female) before me and taking her side, saying he's shy and on and on sometimes hugs back he's basically halfway! I'm typing this but I'm hurting because he proposed to me a little while ago and he says and shows he loves me but sometimes I wonder still cutting me of when we are having a heated discussion. I'm just hurt right now because I did not know these signs before! Thank you for your video!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Lisa, Sorry to hear about your situation. Since you're now engaged with your guy, I think expressing how you feel will help you a lot. Do you talk often?

[@LiveDangerously77]

Wow, this is eye opening. Thank u

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome! :) I hope you find this helpful. Don't forget to subscribe to keep you updated on my new videos! ;-)

[@wRecHeDD]

Hi Amy. Love the way you present your thoughts. Just one simple question. I am in a relationship since 2 years n half with an ABSOLUTE loyal guy, however he is a workaholic. Can you please share some times to deal with a workaholic partner or may be present a video over same. 'Coz most of the times i feel neglected and unimportant. He is mostly into his work. When he is around he is playful n does the best to make me smile. However we don't get to spend too much time. And over all i feel i am the only one taking initiative which sometimes make me clingy n needy. Please help. I sometimes feel to give up n sometimes i jus feel like to go with the flow. Hope to see yur response!!! :) Thanks... Love yur vedios!!! :)

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks Mamta! I’ll be sure to add that topic to my list of to-do videos! Be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss it! :)

[@jasminemansfield9884]

I'm about to Cry

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry, Jasmine! Someone better is destined to be with you. ;-)

[@lorimarissaa]

You are such a great influence on the younger world!! I wish there was someone like you 7 years ago, to influence me!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thank you, Lori. I'm glad to be of help. :-)

[@oofno9470]

Noooooo he does not like me!!!! ;(

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Amanda Ruebe! Don't worry, something better's coming along. :)

[@mixedprincess91]

I know when a guy doesn't care about me. I have a couple of male friends, Adam and Larry, who I think don't truly care about me. They say they do, but I don't believe them. They sometimes ignore me, sometimes don't say a lot to me, don't always stick to their promises, make up excuses, and rarely like or comment on my posts. Larry is more rude than Adam. I sometimes usually initiate the conversations and I've told Larry to make it fair. We should alternate initiating the conversations. When we text or message each other, he sometimes only types one word replies or very short replies. I've told him the shows he doesn't care about me. He said he won't do it again, but he continues to. When Larry and I first met, he used to message me and text me a lot, but he doesn't that much anymore. I guess he is not interested in me anymore, even though he says he is interested. Adam, on the other hand, is the opposite. When Adam and I first met, he and I didn't talk that much and then, we started talking more and getting to know each other more. I feel like both of these guys don't care about me and I should stop being their friend.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Are these friends you eventually want to date? Friendships have different expectations from relationships.

[@mixedprincess91]

Amy North No, these are just friends. I think friends and relationships should have the same expectations.

[@ceneshcoleenmatias4045]

he's not into me :(

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry, cenesh coleen matias! Someone better's coming along. 😊

[@ceneshcoleenmatias4045]

yes, thanks! :)

[@shirleyjimenez29]

wow! ms North you nail it on the head. you are the first one that is straight to the point clear and concise. further more i have seen and experience thia sight so i know what you are saying is true. Thank you

[@AmyNorthDating]

This means a lot, sunshine! :) Thank you! Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@urbandancers770]

keep me thinking so deep..

[@AmyNorthDating]

How was it Jam. Is he into you or not? Feel free to share it to us, so we can help.

[@rafidiaries4427]

I'm a new subscriber.. do u have videos about long distance relationships? thanks

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Raciel! Thanks for subscribing to my channel! 😊 Stay tuned for my upcoming video about long distance relationships!

[@missgina6306]

He is sooooooo into me...😍

[@AmyNorthDating]

That's great Miss Gina. I'm happy for you. :-)

[@miryalayno5456]

Everyone who just found out that your crush or someone else isn't into you, you can do better. I found that out yesterday... after 9 months, my friend told him because I didn't know how to tell I like him😶 now I might can move on!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Sorry to hear about that, Mirya. Don't worry someone better is destined to be with you. :)

[@marylydon9897]

very true ..also very helpful

[@AmyNorthDating]

Glad to hear you find it helpful Mary. Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@floramiecojen1023]

hello coach north. newly subscribed to your channel. i have question, we haven't meet with the person i like (or falling in love) but he promised me love. with your suggestion in this video if i have at least two, i should move on. should i? thou we haven't meet yet. thank you and more Power.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for subscribing, Floramie! :) Perhaps you should meet each other so he can prove to you that his intentions are true. It's difficult to get to know someone if you haven't met in person yet, because you can easily pretend to be someone you're not online. How long have you known him?

[@floramiecojen1023]

Amy North, you're welcome coach, it's truly beautiful to learn from an expert :) .we met online, in dating site. i have known him for about 3 months. but he told me he is almost coming here to my country, yes you're right I'll see to it when we met in person and observe. but honestly, i have strong feeling he's real and good person, maybe i just need to prove it when he comes. you know, it's hard to trust again fully when you were broke before. sincerely, floramie 😊

[@lerulara]

💔

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry Laura, someone's cooking someone better... :)

[@lerulara]

Amy North ^^ thank you so much, you are very sweet!😊

[@kingsleyarthur1649]

@@lerulara hi

[@eviem70]

Is it possible that he may be a little timid as I am? I've been at this gym for a little over a year now, but started to show interest in him about 4 months ago. Long story short, we have locked eyes here and there, smile, passed by each other and have said, "hello how are you?" There are days where I pretend he's not there only because I don't want him to think I want him. I actually want to get to know him, but I'm afraid of rejection. I sometimes have this serious look on my face while working out, maybe he doesn't approach me because I look "mean". My friends think he may be one of those guys who's also afraid of being rejected. Idk. He does not seem like a player. Help!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Evelyn! Why don't you initiate the conversation? This way he'll be more comfortable talking to you and if the feeling is mutual, you don't even have to exert much effort as everything will fall into place. :-)

[@bones6554]

Evelyn M As a guy i would love for women to initiate conversation and be strait foward. This guy may not be able to read the signs your giving him and thinks you are just being friendly (been there its embarrasing) Also he might fear rejection. Or he could already be in a relationship.

[@dawndurant1451]

Evelyn M approach him

[@meghaghosh4877]

I don't like him from now

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry, you'll meet someone better soon enough, MEGHA! 😉

[@meghaghosh4877]

thanks Amy North

[@kproctorc1398]

Random question. Are you Canadian? Or Australian? You have an accent which I initially thought to be Canadian, but it kind began to sound Australian as I kept listening.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Proud Canadian here! :) Thanks for watching my videos, K ProctorC139!

[@AliSalah10353]

Sign of a bad video: a blue background.

[@Sansiara]

sign of a loser : white shirt and tie as youtube pic and real name as username

[@enaharago]

+Deadgirl I agree with you ! signs of unhappy person too

[@AliSalah10353]

LOOOL

[@lizzies7192]

+Deadgirl 👍 good one, you bet me to it.

[@urbandancers770]

+hilda cubacub 😂😂😂

[@paradis3ra]

Dead on the part where he doesn't ask me questions. I realized I was the one asking all the questions and he answered but never reciprocated the questions. He's just not that into me to be curious enough to ask me basic questions :l oh well, I'll try my best to forget him...for the third time.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, Crow Tit is my Jam! :) Don't worry, you'll find someone better soon enough! ;-)

[@faniliaandroid]

I've been in relationship 6years with long time reply, he just call when he need something or help, rarely call for date, he only have time in the night, so shy and hardly meet with my family or friends, flirt and teasing with another woman in front of me. and then when I ask why he never purpose me and i want to break up with him. suddenly he call his parents to meet my parents and talking about our marriage. Now, we're married and I'm 3month pregnant. and we are so happy about it Not, every theory is true and not every philosophy is works in real life. just like my life who break all this youtube theory.

[@AmyNorthDating]

I'm happy everything worked out for the best, Fitria. :-)

[@fizlias4447]

good advise! several advises i had heard but the explanation were different. pretty good explanation,looking onto your videos.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching my videos, hafiza! :) Please don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! :)

[@romarana1561]

He's totally into me!!! He loves me so much!!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

I'm happy for you, roma! 🤗 I hope you can stop overthinking now. He doesn't know why he loves you because his love for your is unconditional and that's a beautiful thing. ❤

[@Tiakozah]

Question: Does men love when a girl is jealous or let him know that she's jealous over him? Nice video btw🙌🏼

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thank you for watching my video, Tia Kozah. Both can make a man feel important and special. Just keep in mind that too much can be toxic and they are not particularly a fan of that.

[@jamaicadelacruz6864]

i'm so into him. But he's so not into me. I downloaded this video and it took me 3days before I watch it. I was scared. All the given signs are all the reasons why I almost cried way before I watched it. But I guess it's just my luck. 💔 Thank you for this video Coach! Though it slaps me with undeniable truth. 😘

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, jamaica! :) Don't worry, you'll meet the right guy for you at the right time. :)

[@user-nz8il5wr7i]

this is a pretty late comment, and you said in this video that if men aren't into you they dont reply your messages for a few hours,, my crush does this pretty often but i know he likes me and tells me time to time. his friends say that he's like that and doesn't reply messages sometimes. he's also pretty busy so i don't know whether he's just playing ;;

[@AmyNorthDating]

I hope that you do not overthink this, chocolate chip kookie. Remember that he's human and he's got things to do. Does he know that you like him, too?

[@user-nz8il5wr7i]

Amy North yeah he does! it's rlly recent since i've realized i liked him, too. i know he's busy and stuff, and i don't wanna overthink too much either ;;

[@ojodoso6919]

Hi Amy, I really enjoyed your vid. So this guy i like lives far away from me. Im in Ontario, he's in New york. We talk quite frequently and whenever we do, he sounds very excited and doesnt want the convo to end. I've liked him for 2 years and i dont know what to do because he's mentioned he doesn't do long distance relationships. He compliments me alot and I get the vibe that he has feelings for me but doesn't want them to grow because of the distance. Im confused cos we don't spend time together due to the distance, hence most of the points u mentioned dont apply. What should i do?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hello Ojo, the first question I always ask anyone who's in an LDR is their end goal. What is your end goal? Are there plans of meeting up in the future?

[@victoroguejiofor1911]

+Amy North my end goal would hopefully be marriage. And yeah we made plans to meet up when we return back home! And thanks sooo much for replying

[@nuncaigual180]

how do you let go, what do you say...I mean its okay. I seen this coming for awhile now, but we have known each other for yeeearss, & sincerely want to be his friend...even though our hearts drew apart due to the circumstances of life. thanks for the tips Amy, and I love how you speak with such grace :-)

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks Phannie, letting go is hard, but you gotta force it sometimes for you to move on. Why not send your man a clean slate email? This may help ease the friction due between you two.

[@jessidawkins5245]

my bf will always say if he didn"t want me i wouldnt be in his life. when i confront him and tell him that it feels as if hes not interested. when i asked him if we can go out hes always saying that he have no money but he goes out with his family and everyone else but me. he doesnt ask me any questions except for the typical ones how r u and how was ur day if have eaten and such. he has never asked me any deep questions and because he asked those he thinks to himself that wow he shown a 100 percent interest right there... i dont know what to but have realised that love can really mess u up real bad... he makes me think of leaving he makes me feel so small. everytime i asked him something about us his reply is he dont know. when i tell him that i feel unwanted and unloved and uncared for all he is that its my feelings if i want to feel that way feel that way its not his problem....

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Jessi! All the signs show that he doesn't feel the same way. I suggest you move on.

[@allisonmoore6636]

Hello friend do you really want your ex back

[@allisonmoore6636]

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[@autumnnicole9224]

Wow this helped a lot. Thank you for this.. Now I know to move on from my fantasy.

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Autumn! :) Don't worry, you'll meet someone better soon enough! ;-)

[@paolamedina1777]

omg thanks this helped so much I took your advice about watching this video today he said is I wanted to go to his house to meet his family and he said if i wanted to go to the movies and today during lunch we where talking about how we where little 👌😂thanks

[@paolamedina1777]

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[@AmyNorthDating]

Wow, that's so nice to hear Paola! Good job!

[@info2633]

Hello, Amy! I have a problem... I have acquired with a guy in a social site. He never writes me anything, I always start the first. And also he never asks me anything and I cannot do anything because we live in two different countries and have never met each other in reality. Once he wanted to invite me anywhere, but when I admited that I have lived in other country at the moment, he stopped doing anything. When i said "If you do not want to communicate with me anymore, then tell me this and I will stop bother you with my messages." He answered "No, everything is OK, i am just busy with my work." What can I do? :(

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Info 263, try not to always start the conversation. You don't want to look too available and desperate. If he wants to talk to you, he will message you first. If not, then I suggest you start moving on.

[@tinyfeet7681]

my man went home with me to meet my family and we got married. but he said that he likes to tease me by looking, talking or saying hi to women even when I'm around. it drives me crazy and furious.

[@AmyNorthDating]

How long have you been married, Tiny Feet? I think that's his way of making you jealous. But if this makes you unhappy, then you could tell him to stop doing that. How would he feel if you're the one doing that?

[@sheenangel3922]

My crush did EVERYTHING here with me!!!

[@colorlesscanvas5753]

Sheen Angel aw

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry, Sheen Angel! Someone better's coming along. ;-)

[@barbarak7680]

Thanks Amy for these great videos!If man flirt with other woman in front of you,does he want to make you jealouse?

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Ana! :) It depends on the guy. Some men would flirt with other women to know if you like them so they'll make you jealous and others flirt because they simply want to flirt and do not care about your feelings at all. Do you like this guy and does he know you like him?

[@barbarak7680]

+Amy North Thank you very much because you answer on my question.He has a girlfriend but his friend said that he wasn't love her.He behaves weird.He sits on my place in classroom and he doesn't want to move.He writes me weird messange and erotic a bit.I am confused about it.I just want to know "does he want to play with me"or "he doesn't know how to show his feelings. P.S He told me that I was very pretty.

[@barbarak7680]

+Ana Klikovac I had one mistake in writing he doesn't love.😊

[@1994sakshi]

Hi Amy, I'm with this guy for last 3.5 years and even though i know he's really busy with his work and has few family issues but i still feel something is off , I can't decide if it's because of his other issues or things between us are over. He does say that he loves me , but we don't even talk on daily basis on text messages ,and talk on phone 2-3 times in a month ,that too when I'm the one who contacts him, and we meet once in 1-2 months even though he doesn't live that far from my house. In this 3.5 years long rel'ship we haven't clicked a single pic together from last almost 1.5 years . He seems very confident and sure about the fact that he wants to marry me eventually , but i kind of thing we have right now keeps me in dilemma and i feel really depressed, I love him a lot and i don't know what to do. Amy I would be highly obliged if you reply to my comment and give some suggestions. I really need help !

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Sakshi, If you want him to give you more attention, try making yourself less available to him. You can also watch my video How to Make A Man Chase You (5 Ways to Make Him Yours!)

[@yoshikockdg7208]

So my current boyfriend displays 8 of the 9 signs. However, he's the one asking for something serious but I feel we'd be better off in a more open relationship with less pressure because it doesn't feel serious to me. I don't feel like we're a team but he insists we are serious. I'm sure his effort is being input in his own way but I'm not feeling it. I'm willing to go with the flow either way but all I see are contradictions. He doesn't want to be just friends and he doesn't take any of the talks seriously so we can't discuss this thoroughly. I'm supposed to move up to where he is next month but I'm confused. Am I doing something wrong? If so, what do I do? I'm out of time. SOS!!!

[@i3abikay]

Yoshiko DG Have you expressed these concerns with your boyfriend? And I wouldn't move in with him if you're so unsure where things are between you two. Though I wouldn't move in period without saying, "I do". But in your case, you're not "feeling it" so why continue in a relationship your heart is not into.

[@kendalewisgusme4496]

Exactly what I needed...Thanks for the great video!

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Kenda! :) I hope you find this video helpful! Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@kingsleyarthur1649]

Hi kenda

[@lisagutierrez8651]

Could you please do more videos on long distance relationships please

[@paolamunoz6348]

Hey Amy , I need your advice about my relationship with this guy. I recently found out I’m 6 weeks pregnant from him and he tells me to abort because it was something we didn’t plan. He says he loves me but he doesn’t love that “THING” inside me. So I wanna know if someone that loves you is really going to ask you to do that? He says I’m selfish for not wanting to see other options but his the only one thinking about his future and not the fact that his gonna have a baby

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi paola! I think you know very well the answer to your question. I suggest you leave the guy and move on, start a new and better life with your baby. Talk to your parents and friends. I'm sure they will support you in any way they can.

[@monicagrindstaff5489]

The guy sent texts & talked to me saying he likes me & that's a big deal to him, but wants to take things slow. I've been following your videos & this past week pulled everything back to not mess with his chase. However, I'm seeing a couple of these signs. Do I abort? Or try anything else?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, Monica. Keep things as they are but don't make yourself too available to him -- keep the Adventure and the Thrill of the Chase. Your time and attention should not be too easy to win, but you also don't want to act completely uninterested and unimpressed. The key is in balance. How long have you been texting?

[@toyintolase]

you're so right....these has happened to me before. I was so frustrated

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Toyin, I hope you can use my tips in the future. :-)

[@spaceynasa]

Okay, first date with my the guy I'm with and holy crap. Soooo many mixed signals. He has told me he is shy and insecure and you know, but as soon as he saw me, he avoided me like the plague. He couldn't sit still! Standing up, sitting down, looking the other way and just plain avoiding me. After it got a bit better, he started showing off and we both laughed and talked then at the end, he started avoiding me again, he wouldn't look at me or get too close...he wouldn't even talk to me!!! How should I go about the situation? Advice would be much appreciated! :)

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, Jackie! Have a look at this video about mixed signals: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i3bEaGV8qMarh9U You may find this helpful! 😉

[@spaceynasa]

Amy North thank you so much! I love your videos, they help so much. That video really helped, thanks Amy!

[@quinn7753]

QUESTION: Hi Amy! I have been talking to a guy who I used to talk to years ago. He recently resurfaced and ask me to "hang out" I said no because I wasn't going to be in town. I suggested to hang out the next week, and he hasn't said anything about it, but still texts and snap chats me. Should I even bother? Thanks so much!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey G Quinn! If he hasn't replied to your message yet, then it would be best to not ask again because it would make you look desperate to hang out with him. He probably is not looking for a serious date or relationship right now, so if you feel that it's going nowhere then move on. I'm sure the right guy for you is out there! ;-)

[@r.r7125]

on point! Thanks Amy. This is exactly what i needed

[@AmyNorthDating]

Glad to have helped you R.R. Don't forget to subscribe so you'll be informed once a new video comes out. Thanks!

[@justowly3961]

isn't it also like a guy flirting with other girls like trying to make you jealous?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Just Owly, if a guy loves you he will not flirt with other girls to make you jealous. Instead, he will make other girls jealous of you.

[@rayrayahardyfan]

So I'm talking to someone long distance ..and well he's very caring ! And the way he talk and tones of voices he uses with me makes me feel like he would never avoid me on purpose .... but so we FaceTime maybe 2 or 3 days out of the week ... and but other nights he says he's tired because he works all day then also maybe goes to the gym after work and also has to wake up early the next day basically he's busy all day which would make sense to why he is tired ... as for me I only have one job and that's all I really do ...but there are times where he will tell me goodnight and then be on social media for about an Extra hour .... should I be worried or does he honestly just like to socialize before he goes to sleep? I mean he says he's tired but goes on social media still for an hour after he says good night ?? Is this something I should be upset about or be understanding off ?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi RayR! This is something that you should not be upset about. If you make this an issue, you will look clingy and needy. You are not in a relationship yet and you have no authority on how he should spend his free time. Here's a video on how to avoid being needy: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpKqp2uEi6t6iJY

[@smokerevenant894]

Thanks for you video this help me and i’m sad he isn’t into me.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching Pain Ajisai! Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips and advice. :)

[@nonjabulobunting8741]

I've been seeing this guy for 24 days now,when we first started him and his girlfriend were having problems and he said things were complicated, few days later we decided to have be in an open relationship,been pushing since then. My question is ,how do I know if he is just playing,we've mostly been hanging out and going for drives,had couitus twice . I like him ..

[@AmyNorthDating]

Let me be brutally honest here, Nonjabulo Bunting. Going out with this guy and having sex with him is not a wise move. One, because he's still in a relationship. No matter how rough his relationship is, STILL he is in a relationship. If he's not happy, he can leave his girlfriend and that's when he can pursue you. Two, having sex too soon without a commitment is a no-no more so that he has a girlfriend. So if he can cheat on his girlfriend, how sure are you that he's not going to do the same to you? Also, don't forget that in this situation you are the other woman and I am sure you don't want to be known as such.

[@vii1156]

we are more than miles away, he's a software engr. he always says he's busy and i understand but most of the time he doesnt have time for me(maybe bcoz we're not official there's no responsibility to always have a talk with me) It feels like he will only talk to me if he has a free time and when hes busy I should wait till forever for him to text me. Usually, he doesn't text me first. There's a mutual understanding(we've talked about it) sometimes we are like more than special friends and just friends. He's really confusing. (And also we've known each other for like almost 3 years now..., he's also the type of guy who keeps everything to himself and he doesn't open up that much to me) What do you think the best thing to do? Thank you. :)

[@MRiloveducks99]

I'm having the same kind of a problem..but we live close and we do hang out(at his place,watching movies) but only if I kinda lead up for him to ask me to come..we're sometimes friends or more than friends and it's driving me crazy..but we're not official or exclusive so I guess he doesn't have the obligation to reply back that day..he is very busy tho, and he studies a loooot so I do understand that completely...I'm very confused about this but it's really hard to just give up now..:)

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Princesses Cee and MRiloveducks99. It won't cost you a limb if you'll ask about the status of your relationship. Some men can be very shy, so it's just right to sometimes lead them to the right direction. Have you met personally before?

[@rababh9382]

This is very helpful thanx Amy looking forward for ur next videos

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks Raffael! Glad to have helped you! Stay tuned for more!

[@Yodayameart]

Well damn. How come I even thought about it. He's kinda popular in school but he came up to me one day cause of a same interest we have and we talk every now and then. But.... nah I should just accept that he isn't into me and just wants someone to talk with every now and then. Hahah damn.. but thanks !

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Yodayameart! :) Don't worry, the right guy for you will come at the right time! ;-)

[@kouravforever5029]

hey amy .... i really like ur vedios nd my concrn is abt my boyfrnd .... i love him so much nd he also does the same our frindsand families both knw abt us .... i hv met his parents and so has he ... but still there is smthing missing in our rltn now in the beginning it was magical but knw allways fights r going on. ... may be he is annoyed with me but he alwys tries to put me dwn for taking my past life as an excuse but inside i knw tht he loves me.. i dnt knw wht to do .... earlier it was him who alwys called me nd texted me nd nw its vice versa .... its alwys me .... nd he is alwys annoyed and says tht i dnt give him space but i surely knw that he is nt with anyothr girl or smthing i dnt knw ... can u advicee smthing

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi kourav! It could be that you're dating someone toxic. Have a look at this video to help you further: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3aXp2Sfod50g9E

[@nettequintanar3757]

Hi Amy! great day to you. I love watching your vedio. Honestly Im in new relationship with US Military Army. Just want to ask you so for advice. Were 1 Month yesterday. within one Month He message only once a week and only to 15 mins Until now I'm just wondering if how we can build strong relationship while he didnt give time to talk to me and this day He never read my last mssg He never replied while i seen hes online less one hour i'll wait. what i need to do? please help me? Thanks

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Nette! This video about long distance relationships may help you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iX3amHiZlt6sY9U Also, you have to understand that he's got things to do so he won't be able to message you very often. The next time you talk, you can ask him why he doesn't reply to you even if you see that he's online.

[@anushaiyer3998]

Hey amy. I'm not very comfortable talking here or asking questions here. Where can I speak to you other than here? Please do respond.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Anusha! You can find my contact details on www.CoachNorth.com. :)

[@stagesbookingandpromotions3548]

Liked and Subscribed. Good information here . Thank you!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Glad you find my videos helpful. :) Thank you for subscribing! I appreciate your support! 💜

[@jojophilemon2]

First thank you but i wanna ask you one question if he don't show you sign like that one you say, How can you know if he love you??? pls ansuer me thank you.

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Josiane! Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! :) I really hope that you'll stop overthinking. If he doesn't show any signs on my checklist then he may be into you. Have a look at this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJ7FkmV4Zrmjitk and see if it helps.

[@arankah.9350]

omg thank you finally a woman who is talking about this who is not following all those womanly stereotypes (yes! I am talking about you Ask Kimberly.....)

[@AmyNorthDating]

I appreciate the support, Nelly Little punk girl! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@tasnimsumaiya8753]

hey Amy :) please make a video of how to date with shy guy...my love interest is very shy :(

[@AmyNorthDating]

Great idea, tasnim! I'll surely add this to my list. Don't forget to subscribe so you won't miss out on any new videos. ;-)

[@jakobinagideon5808]

i can relate to 4 tips out of the 9 that you mentioned... HE SOO DOESNT LIKE HIM. OH WELL .

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry Jakobina, it's not the en of the road yet. Someone's better is in store for you. :-)

[@detorreonpla3424]

Okay. This woman has game. Salute

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, Detorreon Pla! 😊