YOU NEED TO CHILL OUT

this is not the traditional harsh self-help video I intended on posting on this channel, but rather this video is to serve as a gentle reminder that growth is slow, don't compare yourself, enjoy life blah blah main channel ‪@simonesquared‬
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[@simonesimmons]

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@@shoshoshx thanksss!!! I saw her IG and joined Discord group but was still difficult for me to navigate 🙈💕 thank YOU!! 🌟

[@ramooyeido1772]

Wow, you are too beautiful whomever see you shall believe that God is real, and whenever I see you I am always in a dream, and when we wake up we all will realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real. I dont know how can atheists believe that such a very sexy attractive beauty queen like you came from monkeys hahaha 😄 There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, He said to his students do you see God?, the students replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God, then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys do you see the teachers brain?, then the students replied no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said then the teacher is crazy he got no brain :0) عن الإمام علي "عليه السلام": عَجِبتُ لمن شك في الله، وهو يرى خلق الله Imam Ali, peace be upon him, said: I cant understand how a man-man/women-can doubt in the existence of God-/Allah-although he sees His creation. وعن الإمام علي "عليه السلام": عَجِبتُ لمن أنكر النشأة الأخرى، وهو يرى النشأة الأولى Imam Ali, peace be upon him, said: I cant understand how any one denies the second life although he/she seen the first life-this life is actually a living proof of both the existence of its creator, as well as a clear proof that indicates that another life in heaven or hell may also be a very possible chance as well-. وعن الإمام علي "عليه السلام": عَجِبتُ لعامر دار الفناء، وتارك دار البقاء Imam Ali, peace be upon him, said: I cant understand how any one inhabits this transient abode-and is so indulged in it-but ignores the everlasting hereafter abode, ​one God for all of us, all the universe shows unity with diversity, there are different things different creatures and different materials but are all made of particles and atoms ​Even if we will assume that there will not be an atom left of you after death, you still have proven as a created being that there is a Creator,you proved the existence of God even if you do not believe in God. ​God initiated everything, and he redo too, and it is evident. ​this life is temporary while the next is forever eternal either in paradise or burning in Hell fire good qualities are beneficial, and bad qualities are harmful So be a better person&a better human always & try to do more good always for God sake and refrain from doing any evil or sin or injustice, and worship only God alone whom got no mother & no father &no son and is one not two nor three nor more, & always remember him and be mindful of him and worship him in the way he wants. You know one of the best good deeds a person can ever do is teaching people useful things or a useful skill 🙂 or caring for another person an elderly parent a wife/husband or a child or an ill person, or protecting an innocent person, Also spreading this message and not letting it stop with you

[@hayareneen8458]

you can't hate yourself into a version you love

[@Supermateo97]

😅

[@ilikemydonutswithjaminthem5606]

Thank you.

[@divine555]

Yes I can lol

[@MakaylaHatesYou]

Damn, that really made it click for me. Thank you.

[@alysteps2]

indeed

[@lydiahanoucha7271]

I really love the concept of this video and it's the right timing for me.. I was just thinking about how I need to stop shaming myself into change and instead love myself into evolution

[@desiv3025]

I love that last line! I'm in the same boat

[@jennaalkhabi1229]

That last line is my next quote 💯

[@lydiahanoucha7271]

Yess girls.. let's make it our 2023 motto

[@atiqazarrin2924]

Literally, I'm in this mindset right now and it's so nice to here all this.

[@simonesimmons]

You got this!

[@amiyeptho8473]

Same gorl

[@JF59122]

I don't know how to be social, like I really don't people keep ignoring me...

[@pinkcat1847]

She literally said to chill but the video still made me feel like I can move mountains

[@simonesimmons]

awww yay~~~

[@Ray-cr9wg]

for the past year and a half, I've been so controlling on my personal growth because I wanted to be "pristine" and "perfect". I didn't want to mess up and be more hurt than I already was. this actually stunted my growth, because I was beating myself up over small things and breaking down every week. it's so cool how you always release videos like this right when I need them the most. thank you simone!

[@mikaelalopezzz]

"it doesn't have to all happen now." ‼the whole video is a great reminder for every growth addict. thank youu so muuuch 🥺

[@lulazere8209]

This came into my recommended at the perfect time. I literally cannot express how much I needed to hear this. Ever since 2020 I’ve had huge amounts of self growth, and I was really happy. But in the past year I feel like it’s been stunted a bit, and ever since I moved a few weeks ago, as stupid as it sounds, I’ve felt this immense inner pressure to grow, or have a “glow up”. And I’ve really been forcing it and it’s kind of just stressing me out. I really just need to chill, and love myself. Thank u so much for helping me realize this, God bless

[@mariana1197]

proud of you, don’t force anything, it all comes naturally. if its not meant to be, let it be, or let it not be. it’s okay, for example writing helps me a lot

[@teodoras9611]

just recently i connected the dots the constant urge to change for the better and the idea "maybe I'm just running away from myself?" this nuance is a big thing to anyone who needs more thought on this, I recommend Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse, great book, i sobbed out of joy at the end awesomely worded video, thank u for putting it out there! xx

[@highfvck]

How do you make everything so comforting? something about you feels like home. Thank you saur much for this, tiktok rlly f’s you up in a lot of ways subconsciously.

[@simonesimmons]

awwwwww ily

[@yourstuff4979]

no please- I was having the worst day and comparing myself to others and all but that's when you dropped this video, and the little "you're probably a good person " , it helped me a little because all the things that you say is ultimately truthful and you have such a great perspective on things. I love when your mindset is like this ♡

[@hoanghiem8461]

Literally, this video just made me cry because recently I've been beating myself up so hard. I always laid down and thought about 4 years ago when I stepped out of the high school door and entered university. Yeah, a drastic change in my environment so I took massive new actions. And when I did things differently, things change. Never before had I had that many friends, especially on social media. And now? I feel like I lose a lot of people, though I know they just walked away because we are not energetically matched. Yeah, I always feel pity for myself. I just compare that version with me right now, after going through a time of deep reflection. I just constantly pick myself up for not being extroverted anymore. And I always tell that I just evolve backwards but after watching this video, I just realize that "No, actually I've turned into a different version, though it's not bright as everybody expect it to be. I've been more emotionally stable and have more faith in the Universe, which help me a lot calm down my overthinking side". And yeah, when doing some reflection, I realize I always want to change in just a short amount of time, maybe 5-7 days and tried to control the environment that perfect for that habit to grow. Actually, I couldn't control it. As I live with my parents and other relatives, lots of messy things can happen. I tried to avoid that reality and kept forcing myself to change. And after 3-4 years, I become a perfectionist and professional self-critics, LOL, who will scold at myself for not completing 5-10 new tasks a day. Wow, 11 minutes but enough for me to wake up LOL. Definitely watch it over and over again Thank you for your videos ❤

[@irishlivs]

I agree with this video. I grew up as an academic achiever and felt like I lacked a lot in a lot of aspects. Thus, when I reached college, I took every opportunity available to the point that it only burned me out. It felt like I am not worthy of anything if I did not achieve anything. However, it turned out to be a CONSTANT aspiration of self-improvement; it was as if I was treating myself as an experiment of how far I can go. However, there were really times where I'd look back and get nostalgic-- I miss my old self, the previous versions of myself. What also added to the pressure is being the eldest child and daughter so... Anyhow, hugs to Simone and to everyone!

[@bbdette9112]

I concur with you! As an academic achiever and an eldest daughter of an Asian household, you have articulated my thoughts and emotions these past few days. Achievements were physical and valid things that I can attach my value onto, but it can be harming to attach myself so. People close to me are achieving so many things, yet I had nothing going on for me at the time. It felt disheartening. This video of Simone is literally what I just needed, and this comment is just a gift from the universe. I'm glad that I'm not alone, yet I know that we can get through this. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and allowing me to share mine too. 🍀🕊️

[@vanessat.3237]

You guys have just articulated my thoughts! My self worth stems from my grades, so even the simplest mistake made me break down or if my grades weren't high enough (mind you, I wasn't failing), I felt like I wasn't doing enough or that I was just that useless. I'm working on it, but it's hard at times. I'm also the eldest lol so I feel you.

[@MakaylaHatesYou]

I feel like so much of this is inspired by glow-up culture and I know the impact it had on me. Many tragic events have happened this year and it gave me a reality check and forced me to change. I'm glad I'm not alone though.

[@cm.182]

The analogy really helped me rn i was just thinking about how im not doing the best at academics and stressing, but now i think im more at ease and it really does not happen overnight. I am proud that i have improved a lot since the last few years and i know ill improve more! Thank you so kuch for you videos simmone :)

[@float4046]

"this life is a first time experience and making mistakes are bound to happen. I'm allowed to just be, I will live either way."

[@kaderaydin5081]

Girl yes, 100% true! Love your confidence and the fact that you dont give a fuck and speak out directly. 👍

[@aeish]

i think for me change was like something i needed to do always and that if i was stagnant i was wrong because to be better i needed to change, and that really messed with my perception of my own emotions because anytime something happened that caused a wreck of me. i would look into what needed to be changed (sometimes even going so far as to reinvent myself) so that it didn't happen again in the future, and it happened constantly (bec obviously you can't help it when your emotions overwhelm you) to the point that every few months i would look back and i wouldn't even recognize myself, my likes, and even my own personality. now it's hard to 'evolve' in a natural way because current trends are always pushing change and stuff in a fast paced way that doesn't necessarily support growth but kind of just idealizes constant change. AND TBH YOU SUMMED EVERYTHING UP SO WELL SO THANK U BAE FR BECAUSE IVE KNOWN THIS MYSELF BUT ITS ALWAYS DIFFERENT TO HEAR IT FROM YOU

[@kasja9661]

yeah I agree with that toddler thing. additionally, in my case - I was drinking and partying a lot since I was 16 till 19 years old. and I think that my brain just started developing when I stopped drinking, but it started to function as I was 16 again, I was going through all these stages connected to being a teenager, because partying and drinking caused so much suppressing my emotions and slowed down my 'natural evolution'.

[@asteriab.havilliard2789]

As always you are right on point, I'm starting with this mindset rn, I didn't grow up in an Asian family but in a Latina sooo yup same thing constantly comparing yourself with someone else etc, thank you for the marvellous video!

[@shainahangelinereyes1143]

Needed this!! Funny how I found your channel way back because I was searching for a good routine to maintain a flat stomach (it was the time when I started to become so addicted in growing). And now, I'm still watching your videos, but with a better mindset.

[@arwaelaa]

That analogy of being a toddler is mind-fucking luv- genuinely made me realize so much like omg shit is JUST starting to get real😮‍💨

[@welpisme]

this is crazy that the universe led me to this video. my brain was a mess and typed into the search bar "how to chill out" and this came up. this is the best thing I have ever watched... I'm currently a second year in college and 19yo. same as you, my life didn't really start until I finished high school. recently I have been struggling with being so hyperaware of my emotions, thoughts, lifestyle, etc, etc. and it's making me REALLY overwhelmed to the point where I can't even think straight when I want to journal it out. but when you talked about the toddler analogy, it really hit way too hard. maybe bc I'm on my period rn and I'm getting a bit emotional and crying at the same time as writing this LMAO but that analogy was so needed. it made me realize that I shouldn't be stressing over so much at the same time bc when the time comes, that thing will happen. i shouldn't expect to know how to deal with all of this overnight/within a week/over the course of 2 days. and it totally made me realize that all this thinking "for myself" is really "harming myself". I'm thankful for the way i am and i'm glad that i can be in touch with my emotions, but sometimes I just need to sit back and do "stupid stuff". that's how i learn. i wouldn't learn anything from just saying "that's not gonna work", bc i haven't seen it happen yet.

[@Alanischannel]

the femme fatale part😭 nah because for real. & same abt the toddler thing, i'm 25 & didn't really start growing until 20. we are still so young in the scheme of things & have time to become who we want. Another great video,, loving the new channel

[@simonesimmons]

Exactly!!

[@molchaniazolotovacommunica9015]

"I want you guys to watch this video over and over again EVERY DAY" is a powerful start - Command of a dominant lady, Queen Simone💃🌹

[@rebeka7206]

I needed every single word. I've been so lost in myself and it feels so much better now knowing that I need to patient and that I will grow. That I will become who I always wanted to be. Here's to those little girls we left behind while becoming women. 🥂 and here's to the woman of our dreams who we are going to yet meet. Grateful for myself and honey also so grateful that I found you! ❤

[@itgirlisim]

i really liked the toddler thing. because i'm 20 and i feel so old and back on life..but actually so young and we still have so much time to grow.

[@StellaChilinharova]

I’m 30. I’m toddler too. Thank you girl 🙏🏻

[@Butterflieslove2]

Same 👀

[@writers.note7462]

This video couldn't have come at a better time, I was facing something like this and honestly, I just had a breakdown recently. I'm so glad you made this video, it makes me feel better and now I know self-acceptance is needed for the changing part. Thank you simon e.

[@rainbow8351]

i've decided to start new habits for myself, and a new routine, and i let go of toxic friendships that wouldnt get me anywhere, and i feel so much better but i dont feel like im growing on the other side... even tho im growing... im thinking "i want growth now" , " i need to grow and to become a better version of myself " . guess im putting preassure on myself, idk. i dont usually comment on videos , but i felt the need to talk, and to say thank you for this video, it made me feel more relaxed, and chilled out fr. im from portugal so pardon if my english is bad, wish u all the love and success, thank u

[@kamixae263]

Your new hair color is literally PERFECT for you omg, also you're so real for this video thanks queen

[@itsyeesha_sagee]

ever since i watched Simmone, my life has been better ever since then. She helped me changed myself. I love you Simmone!

[@aidafarinaismail6080]

This is very insightful and i absolutely love the toddler analogy!

[@amani4791]

I can't tell you how much I need to hear this because I'm going through tough days and I feel like I hate myself for not changing for the better now. Thank you. I wish you the best.💗

[@issjjd4651]

i have alot of exams this year which are very very important for my future and Ive been feeling so pressured recently and this helped!

[@RiyaGupta-wm4yg]

I really needed this . I was getting too self conscious recently and was trying to become a perfection which actually doesn't exist

[@todreamandhope]

this is literally what i needed right now lol, thank you simone, you literally changed my life sending lots of love

[@Lisa-xm6dj]

I needed this cuz I remember for the past 2 years I felt the need to improve myself and it was so constant that I couldn’t enjoy things anymore

[@xoxoanshi]

Love your past versions as much as you love yourself now, acknowledge them, validate them, they were doing their bestt💗, that little naive girl which you were has got you upto here, that's you , you have evolved, love yourself, don't hate her, she deserves love, be the person now which she needed, write a letter to your younger self, validation them that it was not their fault and they were good enough 💗💗love your past versions. If you have become a bad bitch now, don't you forget about that angel baby you used to be , that's still you darling,same person, don't beat them up, they deserve love more then you. You will only be able to fully appreciate what you have now if you truely, fully know what you went through and who you were, that will build personally. That's who you are , a hero , from suffering to slayingg , acknowledge that honey !

[@simonesimmons]

[@rayssarodrigues170]

Just yesterday I was chatting with one friend of mine about some shit I have passed to the start to the middle of the year. It was when I've had finally recognized how much I changed and how I am literally the version I was begging to be. This video might not be relatable to me now (as I am content with the person I am right now), however, this is a remind: I love this version of me now (even knowing I still need to work a bit more to do not overthink all the time). There's no need to be constantly looking for a better version completely different...

[@luluphaam]

i loved this video sm. you're so right. i always put pressure on myself on days where I felt like :why didn't I do this and so on.. you literally changed my mindset!! thank you simone

[@lindalundjeva4112]

I cannot thank you enough for this video. The example with the toddler totally changed how I view myself and my journey. Definitely needed that reminder. It’s only the beginning. Good things are coming. 💌

[@simonesimmons]

Glad it was helpful!

[@eleonore4234]

not really video related but I love the fact that you put subtitles !!

[@lovemiffy5094]

ilyyy sometimes i think i need to slow down and social media is so draining because of these trends and standards but we keep slaying!

[@PotatoeBunny93]

You inspire me so much. I will be 30 this year and im going thru a whole life change. Its been hard but a lot of your videos have helped me understand things differently and also look at where ive been causing my own self pain unnecessarily. Thank you

[@simonesimmons]

You got this!

[@yrmommyhouse7307]

I’m am in my villain era. Playgirl era! I got 9 guys interested in me at the moment and not satisfied with any of them. Keep ur standards high ladies!

[@anchan_dulal]

I love your psychoanalysis videos, really thought provoking ♥️

[@OpheliasAdvices-mp9km]

I come back to this often when I feel disappointed with myself for, say, slipping into old habits again or “not being good enough”. Really helps, thank you for this!

[@meghanfallis3349]

Thank you so much for this. Didn’t realise how badly I needed to hear it

[@DavidRamirez-gn2fr]

thank you i really need this video right now. i went through a breakup 3 months ago that woke me up to so many patterns and unhealthy cycles i got myself stuck in that made me question finally why it always seems like im ending up in the same place. i started doing intense self care/healthy habits and detoxing since then but im at this point now where i feel like im on the verge of burning out trying to make all these changes to make up for the past 10 years (im 25) that i stopped living my life for myself feeling like i had no purpose or right to have dreams of my own/next to nothing self worth due to some traumatic events going on at the time. ive changed so much in just a couple months and i look back and dont give myself enough credit. im trying to learn to take a break and like you mentioned not feel like theres something about me that always needs changing all the time. its so hard not to get caught up in "where my life should be at" at my age. it gets to a point where self discipline starts to become self punishment. And will it really contribute to your growth or self acceptance if you always feel theres something you need to improve? or somewhere you need to be all the time? and i agree with you that alot of self help/improvement just really comes off like you need to be growing constantly . always moving. grinding. its important to take accountability. be responsible and disciplined. but the importance of taking it slow here and there , being kind to yourself and patient (not to the point of taking the message of self care as an excuse to pamper yourself) but yeah sorry for the rant. i just really enjoyed and appreciate your videos and how much truth you speak in them! i look forward to watching more of your content. its truly inspirational. God bless you (: and anyone currently going through a rough time and working on themselves to be their best self!

[@ophelia4662]

This was really helpful and validating, thank you very much! It felt pretty invalidating how I was constantly trying to change myself and attract those things I wanted, but no one ever appreciated me for all that drastic change just because it wasn’t visible physically. (I think part of being a women is that we focus more on self-development, so when we mature, it shows in our personalities, which is not really materialistic) It felt like no matter how I do, it was never enough. Yet I kept going on and even when I started crying, I said to myself, “what have you done to actually deserve to cry? Are you following your schedule fully? Did you get up on time today? Are you getting better than you were even last week?!” However, IG the push wasn’t what I needed that time, even if most times. Thank you very much for the important reminder, it helped a lot!

[@indrepraneviciute3107]

I’m actually crying watching this video. I was in a toxic relationship and kept working on myself thinking there’s something wrong with me while he didn’t give a damn about working on himself. I blamed myself for being too ‘needy’ etc.. this video just opened my eyes. Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@LA-lq1zf]

Im 36 and I’m not where I want to be. I do lots of comparing myself on social media but you are right, small steps. Even if it’s just picking up a book or going outside for a walk.

[@GadgetsGearCoffee]

I'm definitely a baby. I would say then at this point I'm 2-3 years old. Personally my 20s was a mess and I know a lot of other people that are/were in the same boat. Lots of mistakes, hurt, repeated patterns, constant lessons I wasn't learning or didn't know how to overcome. Self-growth can become toxic and impossible to get "there". You need to enjoy the process, the now, the you as you currently are with "there" in mind which ironically, gets you "there" faster and with way less resistance. A lot of the times, growth is in the smallest ways and it's so important to honour and be proud of how far you've come and use that as fuel to keep going :) but it's definitely not a fast process but that's how it sticks! Journaling is a great way to sort your thoughts, feelings, and acknowledge and be proud of yourself by taking the time to write it down, you think it, you write it, you read it.

[@user-go8zu9xm6z]

I NEEDED THIS. THANK YOU SO MUCH, SIMONE. I'M SO GRATEFUL I CLICKED THIS VIDEO. THIS SO HELPFUL ESPECIALLY IN MY SITUATION RIGHT NOW. 💝💝💝💝

[@issgiss]

I had this mindset for a very long time. My goal for 2022 was to change my thought patterns and it definitely made a difference on my mental wellbeing

[@corinacretu7500]

I can't explain how much I needed this video right now- This has opened so many new thought in my mind! I'm close to turning 18 and I've been very stressed with trying to get my life together because I've wanted to study Biology at Oxford since I was 14. Last year I was really depressed, I gave up trying on anything, I started having a small problem with drinking and I was overly obsessed with a boy. When he broke up with me that kind of catapulted me into wanting to become a better person and have a better life because I wasn't happy. I've made friends, got better grades, started meeting new opportunities but that only made me want more and more and more and I am EXHAUSTED. Recently everything has started to crumble a little bit, my grades dropped, my insomnia and anxiety is getting the best of me, some of my friends are starting to get tired of me, I've even hurt someone enough to cut me off.It's only been 5 months and I've already changed my life drastically and I have to remind myself that there's still time and that it's already amazing that I've had so much motivation to do all of that until now. It's time for a break, to build one thing at a time instead of doing it all at once.

[@nai9646]

ive always said this omg finally ppl are realizing

[@shine2678]

Girl....just yesterday i came to know anout your channel, you are just amazing!!!! Im a codependent person who always get used by people one or the other way... In the end i get my heart broken n they easily move on.. Your videos are helping me a lot, never stop posting!!

[@strzy8194]

I LOVEE your channel so much😭

[@peanuts5900]

omg the "i am a toddler" part😭😭😭😭😭 i am like 16 and still in high school, i am literally a fetus💀

[@simonesimmons]

ur -2 years old

[@iamsomeone8266]

i was like this a while ago where i got rlly amazing and rapid growth, I didnt get this same growth while in my junior and current senior year and i actualy feel like i have actually messed up and i am now getting Es. I dont have many friends or party, but i am very isolated. i was in the same situation when experiencing this levels of growth prior and i always found being independant to be be benifitial. But yeah, i needed to hear it, that ar will not be the same and that growth comes in gradually My life started when i was 14 when u got my period, it made me rethink my entire percetion of myself, i wanted to imporve, i also got a rlly bad eating disorder because of self inporvment. I dont have it anymore, but it definately opened my eyes.

[@iamsomeone8266]

when i say im isolated, i mean i dont have many friends, i dont party, and i dont hang out. I actually orefer this as i find it lets me focus on myself better. It is what i found to work best for me, but i know not everyone will expetinence the same as me. My goal is to imporve but yeah, the whole 'IMPORVE IN 1 WEEK' shtick is so annoying, i would have no way to moniyor this anyways especially since mine is mostly to do with grades and school

[@indianprincesstarot]

My friend said this to me “Life is a marathon, not a sprint.”

[@strkisd]

love the timing you're a gift fr ❤️

[@arelyb7135]

the way I really needed this right now.

[@eleonore4234]

the video is so good I will definitely come back to it because that is something I struggle with

[@bananabearceramics2415]

I needed thisssssss

[@mailife68]

I feel so burnout from changing so much and so rapidly in the past years. Chasing change can actually lead to feeling overwhelmed and lost all the time because you didn’t know who you are and weren’t able accept yourself.

[@mysterycurry]

thank you for your wisdom brother, so glad I found you on my recommended

[@simonesimmons]

Glad to hear it

[@floweroftheseaaaa]

the timing of this video is crazy cuz i was literally comparing the me now to how i was before, i was being so mean to nyself... like i needa calm down because THE PAST ME is the reason why i'm even here today so like yeah... i needed that reminder fr thanks simone u da besttt

[@PrincessSakuno]

ur so right sis

[@annacabrera007]

I needed this cause I always feel shit whenever I don't read/watch self-development stuff in a day :((

[@a-edits4172]

I do agree, I just happened to recently instill the ‘i can do anything i put my mind into’ mindset after more than a decade of depression (mainly bc of my parents, im asian). They always insulted me and even threatened bunch of things if i didnt do well in school. Now, i really dont give a fuck and im working hard to migrate to australia next year and remove myself from all the toxicity they bring into my life 🙏🙏

[@luluphaam]

simone u were never 2 cringey at all, we all admire you because of your humor and that you're charming af. SLAY queen greetings from berlin

[@simonesimmons]

ich liebe dich und berlin

[@puteritiara8063]

strugling with the same issue right now and your video pops up thank youuu sm😭🫶🫶

[@simonesimmons]

Happy to help!

[@user-go8zu9xm6z]

me watching this again after feeeling blue because i cannot enter ai course about communication because i do not have enough money. and that maybe i lesson for myself to start earning. this really helps so much 💗

[@Alexy.0i]

Ugh, Simone I love u

[@ifiok25]

I gotta be ok with who I am. I’ve been a people pleaser. It’s what I’m working on. Comparison keeps me from realizing how good I’m actually doing. Thanks for the video

[@willpm5304]

i swear. i saw that video exacly when i needed 🤧 simone is like my yoda 😭

[@haras0047]

0:14 I used to be that person who always push myself to "grow", try new things, try the things that challenge me, even the things that I was so very uncomfortable in doing. Until I reached the peak and had the biggest burnout in my life, I fell into deep depression for more than two years, not even getting help, my family didn't notice but I was dying, my academics were instantly messed up, I neglected my last assignment to graduate. I ignored my friends for one and a half year. It was just so fucked up. I think the pandemics contribute to this thing I was experiencing as well. smh. But it's been a few months since I'm slowly crawling back out of the dark loop hole. I'm working on myself again, try to be more gentle with myself and accept myself for who I am. Now I will be more rational on what and what not to do. I don't want to push myself too hard to the point I'm losing myself.. Anyways thanks a lot for the insights, Simone!

[@junkfoodie21]

her intro got to me she doesn’t lie y’all

[@nctarsmoon]

Simone: "You're a good person!" me almost blushing: "ok :D"

[@emmanuelleschultze6095]

This is exactly what I needed. Thank you for your brilliant advice. I'm 29 years old and know I've come a long way, but I also have a long way to go. I also plan on going back to school but need to earn some credits first. And I'm adjusting to a few other personal changes on top of that at the moment.

[@OO-ct4hq]

PERIODDDDDDDDDDDDD THE HAIR THE BROWS THE NAILS THE TALKS THE QUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN IS REBORNNNNNNNNNNNN

[@simonesimmons]

AHAHAH YASS

[@esperanzagajardovidal1798]

this appeared in the right time, thank you 💗

[@peanuts5900]

THANK U FOR POSTING OMG!!! i just want to say i love u and everything u say soooooooooooooo much, i desperately wait for u post fr. like i am actually convinced ur god or smth 😦

[@djyua9157]

Never watched one of your videos but this was at the top of my recommended and I have to say you spoke directly to my situation and I cant thank you enough

[@irem9273]

i was just feelin lost and tryna crying. and i saw ur video. perfect timing. i need to chill out.

[@jasxcoeur]

i can't get over how good Simone's hair looks also fire vid as always queen

[@simonesimmons]

😊 thank you

[@jungwonieeee]

simone pleaseeee can your next video please be about how to let go of the pass and forgive yourself?? love u thoo🫶🫶

[@allesuniverse]

thank you for this it really reassured me that i am exactly where i need to be and ill be where i want too, or even better in time !

[@junjunie9694]

just finished studying gonna watch ur vid now, love ya

[@nobodyelse7911]

GIRL I JUST GOT YOUR NOTIFICATION WHILE I WAS CHECKING MY RESULTS AND I SCORED ALL A+

[@simonesimmons]

omg congrats

[@nobodyelse7911]

@@simonesimmons thank you so much and love you 😭❤️

[@026sonalisharma6]

This girl is so inspiring 💕Love you💜

[@xaiad]

GOD I LOVE HER

[@jigyasamattoo3760]

This is just- too perfect for me right now - I grew so much and so amazingly as a person last year, I loved the learning curve, it was so exciting and it felt so perfect. I kept wanting to move onwards, keep going forwards. I think I did, too, to an extent. But because it wasn’t as drastic, I felt as though I was caught in stagnancy and at the time I think I didn’t realise it was okay, and believed it to be a lack of momentum. I think now I realise it was just me… existing, and that’s okay? I’ll keep growing as a person as I go on. For now I think I’ll just accept that I won’t always see visible results, but.. at least I know it’s always there :) ❤️

[@alexiaayala5628]

Wow i didn’t know I needed to hear this. Loved everything about this video. It put me in perspective about the toddler. I’m a toddler too! My life has just started and I’m learning new things everyday 💗 it’s so good to see it this way and stop being hard on myself. Thank you!!!!

[@neosmatrix6443]

it's so true i feel that pressure sm i feel it sm evry year i grow older even tho it's a happy moment i feel terrible and like i lack time more and more bcause of people, society, family, friends bcause i don't act mature? exactly?

[@mariamimi8497]

What I always tell myself is that my worth is not defined by what i need to heal. I’m worthy even when I still need to heal some things within myself. Ps : Would you hate your own child if she/he felt insecure , not good enough, unworthy , ect...and talked to you about these feelings ? No. Right ? Then why hating your inner child (yourself) for feeling any of these feelings ? Ask your inner child why do they feel this way, what made them feel this way then be kind to them and tell them how loved , safe, and important they are. You can’t heal and grow by hating yourself❤

[@avi6966]

Simone is the most honest person ever