Morgan St. Jean - Not All Men (Official Lyric Video)

[@floreasorina473]

"Have you ever felt like you were beaten, but they left no bruises" this line hit me on another level

[@CourtzJustyyy]

This!! Those words hit my inner child deeply!!

[@abbywazelle]

@@CourtzJustyyy I feel that

[@colesivertson7438]

Sawyer the one ípp0ppp to rhfhj

[@druid_rei]

Felt

[@kinzie1031]

Agreed. This line unlocked a grief I had locked away. I wish our fathers were better to us.

[@anekko6234]

To other survivors, from a survivor: No matter your age. No matter your gender. No matter the clothes you wore. No matter what people say. You. Are. Not. At. Fault. If you relate to this song, I'm sorry you had to go through that. But more importantly... share your story and lift our fellow survivors up. Sharing your story is the best thing you can do. I'm not forcing you to, especially if it's still been far too recent. But if you can and want to, do it. It inspires others to speak up against this world's abuse. My story has been shared enough, so I'm here to tell you to share yours. You're worth fighting for, I promise. And we will stand by you.

[@Crows_MMD]

Your Words actually make me very happy because it's very comforting - thank you very much ❤️

[@arch1ve017]

I think my brain just blocked out the trauma and i dont remember but the emotion is still there

[@midnightpebble4377]

When I was 12 to 14 I was harassed by a guy who was 3 years older than me. He would constantly pester me about being his gf. He wouldn't take no for an answer. He would say he wanted me to have his kids. He would make remarks on my body. When I was 15 I was S/A when a guy I had just met that day got high and decided to kiss me. At first I blew it off as a whatever. But then he pinned be against a fence and began to touch me everywhere. It's been almost 2 years and I still can't make sense of it. But I now know I am stronger than I ever thought I would be.

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

@@midnightpebble4377 wdym u cant make sense of it. he just wanted u for whatever reason thats literally it nothing complex about it.

[@katarinacarrico7887]

@@midnightpebble4377 Thank you for sharing. It's awful you went through that, but I'm happy you feel stronger now.

[@morganwaller5101]

"If you tell the truth, they say his life is ruined." It breaks my heart because people who suffer are dissuaded from telling the truth because of the consequences of their actions... It's disgusting

[@alexd327]

Yep… I was barely 18 and he was 22. The judge and DA justified what he did for several reasons including how he “had his whole life ahead of him”, he was drunk, I had 2 drinks underage, he had a kid to provide for, and because he had no record. He only had a kid because he got a girl pregnant 2 months after assaulting me… and he ended up with another felony charge for vandalism before his sentence in my case… what about my future? He took mine and his should’ve been taken too. Instead he didn’t have to register and he got under 100 days in jail

[@zackfoster3208]

@@alexd327 i mean the sentence is only important cause the other side exists too, I'm a man, wrongly accused of doing that, and it nearly ruined my life before I could proof that she lied with chats she deleted from my and her phone but not from her tablet that wasn't connected to the cloud anymore. my Friends, my family and the kids I like to work with, all that would be gone forever because she doesn't need proof often enough, even if you don't get judged by the state, you will still lose everything as an actual good guy, cause society will judge you without proof. i did lose my job, I did lose 2 friends and I nearly could've never gone back into work with childs even tho I was able to proof that she lied. as long as he actually did what you say, there is no reason at all to feel bad for him, only that in your situation, he had a kid that would suffer, and now you need to live with the outcome of that, hope it doesn't took too much from you.

[@thatone_comment]

I was 12 :/

[@SkylarThompson-mu1qs]

@@zackfoster3208 I personally feel that people shouldnt let sa taint them

[@rafomic4210]

​@@zackfoster3208some Bad Guys get Better Out Than some good Guys. Thats the Thing that i dont Like about it. There are good Guys that are Not that good in talking or are shy and they are nearly invisible

[@aonightcore7846]

Not all men, boys will be boys, firedrills, gate-keeper.... these songs are so powerful and so goddamn important!

[@Defective_Gumboot]

K ,vzo,vzvks

[@midi1173]

And "what it means to be a girl" by EMELINE

[@eli-ph9tf]

Can you explain firedrills? I don’t think I know what that is.

[@metaphoricallycorrect8058]

@Anna Bosse link? Can’t find it

[@Lunabyes]

@@eli-ph9tf Firedrills - Dessa :)

[@xoxoIyric]

im 13 years old and i can relate to this song. that just shows how true this is. our world is messed up. edit: im coming back to this now at 15 and i wanted to thank everyone for all the kind words and support. to all the people who have similar stories to mine, i wish you the best

[@gracieshaw3311]

Same! ♡♡♡

[@ashlyplayz6461]

Same

[@Eliza_jade1509]

Same

[@kathrynbaptista1835]

I wish you didn't have to know and relate to this song at 13. We haven't created a good enough world for you.

[@gracieshaw3311]

@@kathrynbaptista1835 atleast it builds character ♡

[@Savannah-ez2wp]

This is more relevant than ever today of all days

[@GreyishHouse]

Men have always acted like this, prehistoric men were abused by other men, the same goes for the modern men

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

@@GreyishHouse not all jews

[@Vzaj-]

im a man and i just found your music, it's amazing, almost cried from the lyrics, considering how important the message is, and how powerful this song is. it's important to not be quiet about this shit, do NOT be silenced. whether you are man, woman or other, always speak up, always seek help, its impossibly difficult, but when you do, you'll know that you gave it your all. im 24 and ive been with my girlfriend for +9 years, and she is everything to me. unfortunately she's been through more shit than most people will ever even experience in their whole lifetime, and that's why this song gets to me. because it breaks my heart knowing everything she's been through, and that she still goes through, each and every day. I truly hope things will change, because it is insane the shit that men do and slip by without any fucking consequences. alot of men ive known when i was younger used to say "oh women have more rights than us now, and they still want more more more" and all I can say is, NO. women simply want to LIVE without fearing for their lives. EVERY. SINGLE. FUCKING. DAY.

[@User08295]

YES! THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS! (I hope your girlfriend is so much happier, being with a man like you!) Im sure you empower her and make her feel so safe and loved in so many ways, so thank you

[@MirA12334]

Honestly for a second I had to check if you are my bf that wrote this (you are not) it's scary how relatable these things are.

[@viviwidya8610]

I'm crying to read your wrote

[@Loudmouths2]

Thank you 🙂‍↕️

[@c19xxc73]

Walk it too. If you hear a guy say something messed up, confront them. They listen to other guys more than they do women.

[@noahking1087]

first time listening and “have you ever blamed yourself for drinking thinking maybe you’re the reason why?” had me full on sobbing.

[@xandranova3535]

I had to quit drinking, cos every time I was sexually abused I was drunk, so I cut alcohol out of my life completely, I won't touch the stuff x

[@anyamarques3781]

Me too trust me definitely me too

[@danielleurquhart4793]

Me to. That’s how I lost my virginity I was 16, very drunk and passed out. He was 35.. I blamed myself for years.

[@alisonbiscope2795]

Yeah man when I just turned 19 the drinking age shit happened n I hated drinking after that n would avoid it at all cost now I’m doing better with drinking with my friends

[@alexd327]

@@xandranova3535 at 18 it happened to me too. He was drunk and older and I was drinking too but far from drunk. The judge and DA justified it because he was drunk and because I drank underage. Started drinking heavily to cope and now I don’t drink at all because every time I would all I could think of was if it was what caused him to get off with a slap on the wrist

[@avawoodruff3578]

To all men, we know it’s not all men. But it’s enough for it to be all women.

[@lunalovegood4596]

this.

[@ggbb10101]

yes.

[@HanaMochizuki]

Frame this saying

[@RustyCog]

But it’s not all women

[@lilearthdragon5280]

@@RustyCog The vast majority. 1 in 3😥

[@nadaackerman6387]

This is a masterpiece, it deserves more popularity, because those lyrics are saying so much about our daily life (concerning women), live u' ans gl

[@MorganStJean]

Thank you ❤️❤️

[@sa_brinalein_9225]

Word!!

[@missstranger7697]

Agreed, it really is a meaningfull song.

[@neko-nee2320]

Any time I hear "It's not all men" I just look at them and say "You're right. But it was my father. If I can't trust him, how can you expect me to trust you?" It's enough men.

[@CraxiPostazione]

Not all men, are you salty about this statement? I don't give a shit, Not all men

[@maryamkh-j7d]

I understand you, I feel you with all my soul, it's terrifying, it still terrifies me when I remember the shattered part of my broken memories from my childhood.

[@PrimordialNyx]

Using your trauma as an excuse to be bad towards all men is not healthy. What will you do if you have a son, or if your friends have sons? You'll be like "they're men. They're untrustworthy" ?? Trauma is not an excuse for hate. I hope you get therapy to learn how to deal with your trauma in a healthy way.

[@neko-nee2320]

@@PrimordialNyx Not trusting a man just because he's "nice" does not mean I'm rude to anyone. It's the ones who insist they are "nice" and I can trust them that I get an attitude with. Why is a stranger determined to interact with me and convince me he's nice? Hope you are able to understand women not wanting to trust every man just because they claim to be kind.

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

nobody talked about trust. u dont get the point. pretty faced demon. it seems all u care is attacking and demonizing innocent men.

[@la-tandiavandenberg4992]

I am crying looking at my daughter sleeping so innocent and peacfully. I was 7 and when I told my dad he told me I am a liar. I will always believe her no matter what. Never told my mom because of what my dad said to me that day. Listening to this makes me believe she felt the same aa I do at some point in her life.

[@lauraturner2988]

My mom told me I was a lier when it was her own boyfriend who did it too me

[@lauraturner2988]

It also took her years too leave this man

[@cynthiad6048]

My Mom told me that she didn't understand why the #MeToo movement got so big. I'm going to play this video for her. The first line about walking after midnight made me think about the fact that that flies in the face of the "How not to get raped" training that all girls are given by female relatives. Most men have probably never had the experience of seeing a woman walking towards them and pray that she didn't mean him any harm. Another good song is "What It's Like To Be a Girl" by Emilene.

[@carpediem4091]

I mean, my mother was not the best and even she told me to avoid these things and stuff I could do to protect myself.

[@tiffanypowers7575]

I just wanna say, that song was to be played next after this one ended on my line up. What it's like to be a girl from Emeline. KZbin took your suggestion well.

[@jaxsup]

Not to be that person, but isn’t it called what it means to be a girl?

[@holymoly1312fr]

​@@tiffanypowers7575 I also recommend "When will I be mine" by Hailey Orion

[@acelove9271]

“We say no but they still hear yes” is heartbreaking. That’s exactly how they think, they assume we’re playing because we’re uncomfortable. This song makes me tear up 😣

[@danceintherain5165]

I said no, and I guess he thought that meant try 3 more times.

[@rafomic4210]

​@@danceintherain5165the good Guys are often invisible for Girls. Girls should confront Guys more offen. Like asking him for a Drink or to hang Out if its her Type of guy

[@rafomic4210]

Good looking Guys are often also good at manipulating. They Know that a Lot of Girls Fall for them so they use that. Also the Guys that can speak good , they are more attractive and can BE also Dangerous

[@danceintherain5165]

@rafomic4210 I don't really understand your comment. Good guy or not, no means no. A guy can look nice, talk nicely and be nice, it's when we say no, and they don't listen

[@_Amarin]

A guy literally told me "everybody knows women actually mean yes when they say no"🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@Razain666]

This song is stunning and so fucking important. I can't stop playing it ♥️

[@MorganStJean]

Thank you so much

[@JacobBongers]

@@MorganStJean Yay for generalization!

[@keegan9901]

@@JacobBongers I can see how this might be offensive to men, I am one, and I was offended at first, then I did some research and I realized that this is an important message to spread, just like humans have the likelihood of about 1/1000 of getting attacked by sharks, we still all run from sharks.

[@JacobBongers]

@@keegan9901 I’ve never seen someone put it that way, that’s an interesting way of phrasing it. However, I still believe that a shark is not really the same as a man. Men are the gender doing the majority of the rape, but this still doesn’t give them a free pass to generalize us like this. Sharks are animals. Their feelings are not as complex.

[@tinkabouthat8856]

@@JacobBongers This song agrees that it's not all men, it isn't, it is (nearly) all women irp.cdn-website.com/f9ec73a4/files/uploaded/Key-Facts-Document-VAWG-VictimFocus-2021a.pdf 99.3% of us

[@MilesArmstrong-h8z]

"If you tell the truth they say his life is ruined" That hits close to home

[@Camax7li]

it would only be ruined if the person was innocent. otherwise they still get off to light in most cases

[@harmonium5495]

Molested at thirteen, but I typically just say I've been sexually assaulted before. Most of the time I get caring responses from fellow women... but the amount of times people ask "What were you wearing?" Infuritates me. I was wearing a tank top and pajama bottoms, because not only was I supposed to be asleep but I didn't think I'd have to worry about my late sixties great-uncle finding my still developing tits too alluring to handle. When I say men disgust me, I don't mean all men, honest. My brother is my best friend, my grandpa is my savior, some of my closest friends have been guys. When I say all men scare me? I mean _every single man._

[@thespian3937]

SA'd in a literal snowsuit, clothes have nothing to do with it. ❤

[@LilIdiot-xx5ox]

As a male SA survivor I call bs, women laughed at me, the only person who believed me was my father, you have privilage, I don’t.

[@harmonium5495]

@@LilIdiot-xx5ox I mean if it makes you feel better, the only person who believed me or cared about my molestation was my aunt. Everyone else - man and woman - brushed it off because he was family. And yeah I definitely have privilege, when I explain that I had been molestated people tend to believe me because I was born a girl. If I was born a guy I'm sure the reactions would've been a whole load of bullshit (like the whole you're not a man or you're so lucky). I am not denying that privilege and I am sorry you went through such an awful thing, and that you only had one person to properly support you. However you don't get to call my experience or views "bs" because you have a different one. I am weary of men and get anxious when alone with one I am not very close with, because a man did horrible things to me. If your abuser was a woman you'd be justified to view women in the same light, it's not a gender thing, its a trauma thing. It just happens that this trauma typically happens to girls more than guys.

[@LilIdiot-xx5ox]

@@harmonium5495 dang, Reading this, I’m sorry how I reacted, it just feels awful having my whole gender being painted in this light, making men seem as if they’re always the aggressors and women the victims. Sorry it was just a emotional reaction.

[@harmonium5495]

@@LilIdiot-xx5ox Hey it's cool dude, this topic is obviously an emotional one. I appreciate the apology and I hope we can move forward without these traumas haunting us forever. I wish you the best, man.

[@minasafija3401]

Oh my god. My entire body erupted in goosebumps while listening to this. I’ve never been so quick to show the people in my life a song before. You, my love, are going to change the world with your music one day. Please, never give up. We need women like you standing up for all women. Thank you.

[@jessicaabshagen9878]

I just want to say, to every survivor who is listening to this song. I hope you are ok, i want to remind you, you are loved and even though the world turned its back on you, we love you and cherish you.❤ It. Is. Not. Your. Fault. Thank you for being strong and brave, we appreciate you and that you inspire us to keep fighting.❤❤❤.

[@livundanouk]

This is literally the most relatable song I have ever heard! There is so much violence that happens against women (both physical and not), so much that every women has experienced it, but it’s still just Ignored and disregarded by society, saying ‘It’s not all men’. Thank you soo so much for writing this and sharing this! This is soo important!!! ❤️❤️

[@run4walk]

Popular, but disingenuous take. Yeah, there are a lot of scumbags, and women really get the short straw when it comes to dealing with them. But firstly, it isn't all women. A lot of them, sure, enough that it's most women and a very big problem that needs to be addressed, but your argument needs to be solid all round if you're going to make waves, and saying it's all women when it's not (and even if it were, you certainly couldn't prove that) isn't a good idea. Second, It's not ignored by society, at all, hence why #MeToo has been trending for... Jesus, years now. The Believe Women slogan was extremely popular for a while. And women, at least in my country, are extremely vocal about the creepy advances or comments people make, and most of the media and greater society accepts and acknowledges it and mourns for them. They don't actually do anything about it, because that's what society is these days - lots and lots of words and very few actions - but to say they ignore it isn't really true. Society has acted upon it to the standard that society has learned to act on things - which is to say, barely at all. Which is a real shame. Lastly, "it's not all men" isn't meant to dismiss the issue. Very few people actually dismiss the issues outright, the not all men argument came from a splinter off radical feminists literally blaming every single man for the problems women face, saying that by virtue of being male you were at the very least subconsciously complicit in the problems.

[@ryanthereaper5032]

Stop the cap

[@iixellaxi1125]

@@ryanthereaper5032 ofc a man is saying this, just proving this song is right

[@reallifetells4654]

Men get abused by women so I’ve got one thing to say you it’s not all women but some of them

[@tehbunnehfawks]

They even affect your language. It's "There is so many violent men" because your statement lets men off the hook

[@mind_war4169]

This is a gorgeous song with strong vocal emotion behind every word. Being the only guy in my house growing up, I had more of an awareness to how dangerous it is for women and how careful they have to be while it never crosses most guys minds. I almost couldn't listen to the entire song because one of my biggest fears is something happening to one of my sisters or to my mother. I can't bear the thought of it. Guys, if a woman ever asks you to accompany them to their car house or anywhere especially at night please please do. It decreases the chances of something happening to them. Please stop the thought process of women saying all men do this, because that is not the case. The reason it is so important is because statistically 1 in 3 women will experience sexual assault or worse in their lifetime. Help protect and support. Don't be defensive and stonewall. We need to be more understanding, cooperative, and work on collaboration more. This is one step we need to work on to achieve that goal.

[@creamcheese6467]

We need more men like you in the world. Men who realize how this effects women and empathizes. Thankyou.

[@mind_war4169]

@@creamcheese6467 No problem, thank you for the kind words!

[@kendrawaddams7865]

I've never heard a woman say that all men assault or attack women. But when women bring up what we go through EVERY DAY, 90% of men get defensive on behalf of their gender and leap to say "Not all men! Not all men!" to deflect and shut down the conversation. Wilful blindness. Thanks you for being part of the 10%. Towards 100.

[@mind_war4169]

@@kendrawaddams7865 I personally haven't heard a woman say that either, but I do remember hearing about those rare few who do say some crazy things. Unfortunately, that gets a lot of right wing media coverage; furthermore, drawing unnecessary attention to the fallacy we're currently experiencing. This is why I believe we get a lot of men repeating the line "not all men" while getting defensive. I'm not saying this is the sole reason that happens, but I think it contributes a lot to the issue. Anyways, thanks for taking the time to reply!

[@kendrawaddams7865]

Women know it's not all men. The point is it is many men and the men who say "Not all men" are not helping the conversation about SOME men. Best wishes. Stay cool 😁

[@kyalautner8685]

"We say no but they still hear yes" i felt that

[@hedgehogshill3522]

It is horrible how many people only understand what they want to hear...

[@DxddysKitten34]

#metoo... I even said no thank you

[@kianauhlmann6593]

The fact that every woman hearing this has shared the same experience is why this is so important.

[@allisonbrown8431]

If it isn’t already, I’d love to see a tshirt with all the lyrics put like this. I’d definitely buy it

[@ironicbean3858]

That’s too many lyrics wouldn’t even fit

[@gobacktostudyingdimwit2983]

@@ironicbean3858 of course it would fit. It's not like the writing has to be size 50

[@charlieliddell6411]

​@@ironicbean3858 I mean, we xould change the fonts sizes but it might not be readabke from afar

[@BrieBoar]

I've never experienced the kind of abuse this song talks about, but that doesn't mean I'm not scared of it happening to me.

[@hedgehogshill3522]

Me neither. I am quiet good at shoving this fear away but I know enough people that experienced it. And enough that did stuff like that. It makes one be really careful at times

[@ItsMeFern2019]

Never could've expected a song to so bluntly send the message and put into perspective how important it is while being absolUTELY beaUtIFUL P.S. To all my enby pals listening to this, know your completely valid listening to/relating to this song

[@danielhughes4451]

So I'm just an inherently violent abomination. I might as well just fucking kill myself if I'm such a worthless mutant animal thing. HOW FUCKING DARE I BE BORN A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Ash_loveshorses]

Thank you you are honestly awesome xx

[@katcyer26]

Thank you.

[@hera0065]

I smell an underrated artist

[@aradhya-jp2tc]

I wish I could just sing this song so loud that my whole country and whole world could listen

[@iravendarknessi]

I don't think this song will ever fail to make me start crying. The people who don't already get it still won't, but the rest of us feel more seen aand less alone. Simply, thank you.

[@IamSoup09]

This song is catchy, realistic, and sad all at the same time. It gives a feeling you can't explain. It's sad that our reality has become what it is today. If only we could go back in time or things changed for the better. It's not all men but it's enough.

[@artfulwick387]

My entire life I've been abused in some way. When I was little it was my dad then it was the other kids and when I got my early teens I found myself getting pressured to do things or send people things and ended up being groomed by someone I thought cared about me. When I finally started speaking out everyone I thought was my friend treated me like shit telling an 11/12 year old that she asked for it. Then last summer I was assaulted by a 19 year old. I was hanging out with people I thought were my friends and even though they knew he was a predator the left me with him. One by one they disappeared and he started to corner me when he stuck his hand down my pants. I ended up going home late and getting yelled at them breaking down to my mom about what had happened while she called me a Liar. She called the cops and we made a report that same night. About a week later the police officer called and told us there was nothing he could do because the DAs office told him to drop the case because the guy came from money and his family was in politics. The police officer almost cried. And more recently I've been getting harassed by a guy at my school. I've been asking teachers and admins for help for three years about this I'm 14 now. Nothing was done and when I lashed out they threatened to call the police on me meanwhile he got a slap on the wrist and I got two weeks suspension and now I'm stuck doing summer school. The system doesn't care. And this isn't everything just some of it. #metoo

[@symonegreen7493]

They will face the wrath of God

[@adainpatel4178]

Damn girl I'm so sorry this is terrible, plz stay away from new ppl and don't trust ur friends completely, ik that someday u'll have best ppl in ur life, stay strong girl.

[@Francesca-bo3ou]

Im so sorry for you . You are so young, but i can say you are so mature and so much strong and amazing . No matter what the others say or how much of them say it or how much they scream It, you know your truth, never let them twist It, never let no one make you forgot who you really are .

[@Francesca-bo3ou]

@@symonegreen7493 There is no god, and if there is It doesn't care, you have to make things right .

[@suppeoples2842]

I kind of went though the same thing you did but I was 9 he was 14. And people just think us women are lying for attention. The world is fucked up and we cant do anything but stick together.

[@nooraveps6937]

I don't usually like this kind of music, but this is so strong it makes me extremely emotional

[@muskansharma6262]

She has such a beautiful voice❤️

[@kenziex4941]

We will not be silent any longer. It's not all men, but ITS ENOUGH that we hold our breath and expect the worst.

[@soybeansmanpavlogs7895]

Have you ever walked a little faster After midnight when you're all alone? Have you ever pulled your jacket tighter While pretending that you're on the phone? Have you ever held your tongue When someone tried to call you "baby"? If you say a word, he's gonna call you crazy Well, I have and she has, too We all know that it's not all men We all know that it's not all men But it's some of them So we hold our breath, baby nonetheless We say "no" but they still hear "yes" Blame our clothes and it's not all men But it's all women So we hold our breath, baby nonetheless Have you ever blamed yourself for drinking Thinking maybe you're the reason why? Have they ever said that you were lying 'Cause he's handsome and he's way too nice? Have you ever felt like you were beaten but they left no bruises? If you tell the truth, they say his life is ruined Well, I have and she has, too We all know that it's not all men We all know that it's not all men But it's some of them So we hold our breath, baby nonetheless We say "no" but they still hear "yes" Blame our clothes and it's not all men But it's all women So we hold our breath, baby nonetheless And their words are like a bad tattoo Too prude She was asking for it Trust issues, bad news She was fucking boring She was such a whore and ugly in the morning And it's not all men but it's all women (But it's all, but it's all women) (But it's all, but it's all women)

[@ecstaticpanda123]

thank you, the lyrics on the screen were hard to read

[@ninanina8440]

this is a masterpiece! 😍😍😍 I can relate to this song so so much! It describes our life as women and our feelings so so well!

[@nogitsuneblade3178]

I've listened to this like 10 times on repeat. It's such an amazing song!

[@emilypearson7048]

"We say NO but they hear YES" Couldn't be said any better, it's like a conquest to some.

[@Camax7li]

sadly. and then they go like: Oh yeah, I am just a hunter listening to my ancestral blood and primal instincts

[@oOoroshoOo]

its the fact that every single lyrical line is 100% truth, all relatable, all heard before, if you not your story then a friends story T_T "we all know it's not all men but it's all women" DX

[@abhiruchi.1102]

thanks. just thanks for this song

[@MorganStJean]

❤️❤️❤️

[@siannanna7028]

i listened it to this song so many times in spotify i already know all the lyrics i love it😘🥰🥰🥰

[@MorganStJean]

That makes me so happy!

[@siannanna7028]

@@danielhughes4451 IM GLAD UR AWARE XX

[@siannanna7028]

@@danielhughes4451 honestly u were spittin , i agree w u

[@siannanna7028]

@@danielhughes4451 i didnt say anything against men as u can see, i was talking about the song, if ur pressed abt that well thats ur problem ig

[@siannanna7028]

@@danielhughes4451 I see

[@Managable_Mayhem]

Beautiful lyrics with a very important message. Well done. :)

[@rozaliesmith7149]

The fact that I want to share this to my FB page right now but I'm scared of the backlash says a lot.

[@sarahbonner2167]

Right...

[@alishadorough4869]

THIS! Thank you for putting your artistic brush to such a huge topic. I am sharing with all my ladies!

[@arcticchain5264]

what does this mean

[@Sarah-fs6li]

“Have they ever said that you were lying ‘cause he’s handsome and he’s way too nice” felt that…

[@fallen-spirit8241]

As a 14 year old who has been through this and my family defending the man who is my brother i relate to this so much Update: I'm now 15, I'm still living with my mother. I get into verbal fights with her often about it and her only defense is always "I was defending my son" which really isn't a valid excuse. Family or not he's a r@pist. I only have one of my brothers on my side the rest of my brothers and sisters pluss my mom oare on the r@pist brothers side. Unfortunately I do not have the heart to leave yet. I own 3 cats. My moms told of to take care of em and my 18 year old brother won't. The cats are the only thing keeping me sane and alive at this point. I don't have the heart to leave them till I am able to have the money take care of them. I know its stupid that even with all the sh1t I put up with I stay just for the cats but they are the only things that seem to actually care about me. They always seem to appear when I'm not dying well mentally or physically. They really are the only things keeping me.

[@katarinacarrico7887]

Oh my gods. Listen, if he ever tries to do something or say something to you again, kick him in the groin. Make sure he never has kids. Remind him you have power, too. But, curses, that man is disgusting. It's awful you're in that situation.

[@Andyyoureastar]

I pray you leave ASAP and safely

[@fallen-spirit8241]

@@Andyyoureastar were I live I'm aloud to leave and live on my own at 16. I'm 15 now so I only have 1 more year

[@Splintz246]

​@@fallen-spirit8241 please talk to a counselor at school please or call the Police Department please at least do it for those of us who couldn't do it back then do you have some grandparents or an aunt and uncle that you can stay with instead for me the abuse started when I was 10 and it lasted three years please don't let him continue to hurt you because trust me it will affect you in your life later on

[@fallen-spirit8241]

@@Splintz246 The councilors dont care. School staff don't care for their students, that's an obvious. They don't do sh1t about the pedophiles and perverts. I'll be fine, I can leave in a year. I have therapy. I'm fine

[@SweetGoddess420]

'We say NO, but they still hear yes.' I felt that

[@maythen78]

Incredible song when it came out, it now means so much more today. With our bodily rights being stripped we need to start getting really angry and really loud.

[@MissMisery1986]

Just found this song on TikTok, strong lyrics & clear an strong message.

[@choccymilkfrankp1873]

I’m so glad I found this. It’s a masterpiece like honestly I cried listening to this the first time I heard it. I’ve had a toxic six month relationship. It broke me. He broke me. I felt like I couldn’t say anything. But I’m learning that I can share my feelings.

[@Violet_Jedi_Sylveon]

Are you in a better place 2 months later?

[@choccymilkfrankp1873]

@@Violet_Jedi_Sylveon Absolutely c= thank you for checking up on me I’m doing wonderful. How are you?

[@Violet_Jedi_Sylveon]

@@choccymilkfrankp1873 i am also doing good. Currently surviving online driver's ed. I'm glad to see you are doing better☺

[@sherylfarris7731]

22 years...and I didn't know it wasn't okay until recently, 5 years after his death. You are smart and strong AF, and I am so proud of you for having the courage to talk about it!

[@choccymilkfrankp1873]

@@sherylfarris7731 thank you so much! Stay strong and keep going through whatever life throws at you!

[@IVGilbert]

I really really love this song.

[@angiegudino4135]

I can’t believe I’m just hearing this now. So powerful!!

[@kindlefire1990]

I love and relate to this song so much but here's a reminder that it happens to boys and me too❤ my heart goes out to any and everyone whose been abused

[@LennyTheHopeless]

I dont leave my house enough to relate a lot to those specific scenarios but the lyrics still hit hard.

[@mysoundofficial1047]

again i love this song so much and it needs more attention, im trynna share it as much as i can💓

[@MorganStJean]

Thank you so much!

[@humixmusic4lyf]

1:03 - sis nailed that

[@Elan.虚栄心]

HOLY SHIT- I'm Glad i searched 'Not All Men'-- I was kinda doing some studies on this because of a essay my Teacher gave my class, This song SOUNDS SO GOOD- Glad i found this earlier.

[@AndreTalksAlot]

This song is so freaking amazing, and I’m soooo glad she wrote this because it’s not just a phenomenal song but it’s so powerful. She ATE THIS SONG UP!

[@zenalevasseur6050]

Thank God someone said it perfectly, all men should listen to this

[@ladylibra9927]

Every woman can resonate with this song but it’s not ALL men… wow, powerful !!

[@fighterinmkiwiscience3517]

Yeah it's only your dad

[@Camax7li]

@@fighterinmkiwiscience3517 as I commented somewhere als on this song befor: That should be even less the case, IMO a man/father is supposed to defend and protect their Family against everything. Standing by their side even if it meant to fight against the whole world

[@armywaffle3055]

I LOVE this song🤧👌🏻

[@MorganStJean]

Thank you!

[@inanotherlife9199]

This is perfect ❤️

[@MorganStJean]

Thank you x

[@dezzycat22]

This song definitely triggered something in me. I started sobbing halfway through and it took a few minutes to be able to breathe again. It's been over a decade, and still not healed.

[@hail.x3242]

I love this song!!!!🥰💗💗💗

[@MorganStJean]

Thank you ❤️❤️

[@drawingdinokai]

Seeing this live, at We Three's show last year in Birmingham. October 28th 2023, was awesome! Going to have to see it again sometime! Glad that youtube is circling this song back around to me!

[@ANXIETY_DEFENDERRR]

when something is too stunning: *THIS FREAKING SONG*

[@noecdr]

Never has a song made me cry like this one, in less than 2 minutes. Unbelievable powerful lyrics.

[@Food_lover352]

I've been listening the lyrics from another channel all morning. Then I saw this in my recommendations. Great song honey

[@MorganStJean]

yay thank you so much!

[@MadhumatiAdhikari]

This is a masterpiece.

[@paulipfvr7946]

AAAAAH i love it !!

[@MorganStJean]

Yayy

[@tripplel8495]

God this song really just reaches into your soul and *squeezes* I remember being on a school trip and being followed by a random man even though I was surrounded by classmates walking back to the buss. It was terrifying, I have never been happier to have one of my best friends there holding my hand throughout it. I couldn't imagine what would have happened if I was left alone or she wasn't there. Even before experiencing this I had such a deep fear of being left alone with random men or boys my age, no matter who there where. The horror stories I've heard and the comments you hear whispered around impact even those who hasn't experienced it first hand.

[@alexarichards6000]

Thank you….thank you 😢😢😢❤️

[@Cash4GA]

Thank you for this. No lies detected here.

[@tanishka2446]

I'm so proud of you and grateful at the same time! We all know it's not all men but it's all women. This alone says it all.

[@ericawragg1997]

This song hits so hard I feel it in my very soul not just my heart. This song resonates with every single cell of my body every fibre of my being.

[@hotshot104]

I’m clicking, I’m liking, I’m commenting, I can’t listen cause I’m worried it’ll trigger but I’m sure it’s amazing and helps bring attention to situations most people avoid discussing.

[@KrissieMarieEbdane]

I hope you're in a better place now. It's fine not to be, too -- I don't know you, I'm sorry you have such trauma, and I wish you health and happiness.

[@Cinnyb052785]

I saw a video that said “how do you act with a gun? With all guns..how do you treat it?”. You treat it like it’s loaded. That’s what women do with men. They treat them like they could be dangerous. Because they could be. And we have no way of knowing which ones are or which ones could someday be.

[@Cinnyb052785]

@Revo 2100 cool story bro 😎

[@thewickeddevilofthewest]

​@Revo 2100 better than you who acts like he's never met a woman. Like literally nobody is agreeing with you, go the fuck home

[@fantym1633]

Any/every interaction w/a certain group of ppl is like spinning the cylinder, play russian roulette.

[@annikaswanson7049]

Gisele Pelicot. Thank you for this, I'm going to show it to a man.

[@zenzalei]

Just heard this for the first time today. I'm shattered.

[@dani-8013]

Incredible song

[@elainapalka2583]

I love "We all know that it's not all men, but it's all women so we hold our breathe baby nonetheless." Not all men might do this or even see it happen but every woman has and or will experience it at least once in their life. Genius writing!

[@arbe111]

This songs deserves more recognition!!!!

[@boyanna6151]

I can't even express how much this song amazes me. It's masterpiece. I think you explained everything to the point and I think this message needs to spread all around. I can't relate to the most of the song, only some parts but the song still touched me and made me shiver because this happens every day somewhere and young girls and women get hurt. I am so sorry to everyone who been through something like this ( men including but we are focusing on women for this song) and I hope for everyone to heal and live their lives in the best way possible.

[@Dana-zr7mw]

Needed this song when the cops asked me " What were you wearing?" "How did you say no?"

[@keegan9901]

Are you okay? Do you need to talk about it? I wish you the best

[@FreidaAtkins7167]

Wtf is wrong with cops these days!?! 🤬

[@TheHopperUK]

@@FreidaAtkins7167 It's not 'these days'. I'm sorry.:/ It's been standard for a long time. The main response will always be 'how was this your fault'.

[@LianaFoodie]

I am so, so sorry. I know from experience though that it is impossibly hard to go through the assault to begin with. I simply can't fathom thinking how asking those questions translates as right in those cops' heads. You deserve so much better and I wish I could do more.

[@JustMe-db2cm]

This existed 3 years ago?? This is super cool, i can't believe this is the first time i heard this

[@hoperainwater3620]

This is my SA healing song, thank you

[@annaj.4740]

What an amazong song! ✨💖✨ Thank you sooo much 😟 🤗

[@daniaabdulnasser9488]

I just don’t have enough words to describe how amazing the song is. You won’t be able to get more accurate words even if you tried to. And I’m certain that almost all women if not all can relate to this song. Thank you very much for this inspiring song and for being brave enough to express what all women go through.

[@RC-rd5ov]

THIS IS A MASTERPIECE 😭

[@NekoPanda122]

the level of rage I felt while listening to this is unmatched. It's not all men, but it's all women and always men.

[@biscottefraise7106]

IT'S DEFINITLY MY FAVORITE SONG

[@gothpunkgoddess]

This song is amazing; it gave me goosebumps! I truly love it and the message it conveys. Thank you!

[@kylieschwab7929]

If I could thumbs this up a million times I would

[@randomblob8996]

Wow, this is the first time I've been left so speechless. This song took my breath away.

[@sinnella1]

So emotional. Driving me to cry.

[@luckyazum3616]

Good song. It's a message to all men.

[@mysryuza]

This is a masterpiece. One thing I can’t stand is when men call me “crazy” when in truth, there’s a shit ton of emotional issues in me

[@liya8621]

I honestly almost cried, my brother was the one who told me to listen to this song after I told him to listen to what it means to be a girl by Emaline and I just told him that as much as I love him he will never be able to understand how hard these songs hit. It is truly amazing how men will never be able to fully understand what women go through, as much as we have the men that have only a fraction of understanding of what happens they will never fully understand and that is why women have to stand together not against each other. -Edit: honestly when I wrote this I was young and I didn't realize the fucking war it would start in the replies. Yes, I know it is not all men but it *is* enough to generalize. I also realize that it was entirely rude of me to not include non-binary people who were afab or ftm transgender people. They would understand and it was wrong of me, I'm sorry. But my point still stands, i don't care how much shit you want to start in the replies again, most men will never understand to the full degree what happens to women.

[@ironicbean3858]

Some men have gone through it tho- don’t say no men do 😅

[@liya8621]

@@ironicbean3858 Right, sorry didn't mean it in that way, men do go through things like this, I meant that women go through a lot more than some men realise😁

[@Defidouflamagoufe]

I am a man and i can relate to almost every sentence. Still i do agree i will never be able to understand woman (men either actually) and that's okay, i don't think it is the point, you don't need to understand in order to respect, consider, or even love.

[@liya8621]

@@Defidouflamagoufe Yes, and I'm so sorry you can relate, it's a difficult world for both men and women and when I wrote that comment I didn't mean no men would understand or men can't relate entirely, the meaning behind it was simply that women understand what each other go through on a deeper level than some men would. I'm sorry if it offended you or anyone else that was not my intent

[@Defidouflamagoufe]

@@liya8621 I'm sure it wasn't and since u put it this way yeah i totally get what you're sayin. Much love to everyone here

[@kellyleach9899]

A single tear rolled down my cheek.

[@IhaveNoLLife]

This is just what i needed for my heart to say : *your not alone*

[@mysoundofficial1047]

bro i looooove it! this is underrated omg 💓

[@MorganStJean]

Thank you!

[@mysoundofficial1047]

@@MorganStJean no problem i hope more people will listen to this

[@smartass0124]

@@mysoundofficial1047 so for boys need to know there going assumed guilty because boys and even there would evidence the woman will always bieve. You get your away

[@mysoundofficial1047]

@@smartass0124 uhm learn some grammar, i cant fully understand what u are trynna tell me

[@smartass0124]

@@mysoundofficial1047 hope you don't