Single & Waiting Is BETTER Than Taken & Faking...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@lisacunningham4874]

I Rejoined, Thanks for the Opportunity Stephan. Remain Blessed 💙💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@shemikathompson625]

Shemika, hello my question Is. I've know a male friend of mine for 10+ years. He has mention to me during are conversations! I' would like to Marry you #1 day. That was back In 2015 & again recently 2021. During are conversations. My question Is why does he kept telling me that same line?. What should I' do lol. Advice👄

[@valoo07]

I just sign🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Very excited 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Christina-yu3gu]

This is soooo good My eyes are wide open thank god 🙏🏻🙏🏻💙

[@Shiara-19]

My boyfriend just broke up with me because I'm in love with him he told to not to now he doesn't text me and called me since I tell him that

[@lourdiacelestin2109]

I agree that men do want to commit. “He doesn’t want to commit to a woman his not truly in love with”.Thank you Stephan. Stay blessed!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@Realness4sho]

Raw Truth!

[@jenniferw6065]

Truth hurts but better to say it than skirt around it. That’s what makes you a great coach.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

[@jenniferw6065]

Stephan, how can you be so confident men can truly commit? Online dating gives men too many options, made them lazy in dating and putting in effort, so quick to ghost because it’s so easy to move to the next. There’s so much competition it’s hard to not get discouraged.

[@jayc5756]

@@jenniferw6065 SMDH!!! You just don't get it ma. SMH! 🤦‍♂️

[@humblekingg9007]

When we learn our worth, understand how to practice self love then we're able to give that. And, know it's worth waiting for the the right person for you and relationship with God first💯

[@abigailgrimes7070]

There is always three sides: his side, her side, and the truth lies somewhere in the middle!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@JC-ve8bk]

I am currently on a "self-healing" journey after a 13 year (know each other for 15) relationship, TWO proposals, 5 children with same man. . .2-time cancer survivor (just one of MANY life alterations I've gone through) & have NO PROBLEM admitting that I had HORRIBLE communicating issues, and had to grow up & in the relationship, due to LACK of ROLE MODELS growing up. I am a kind-hearted, stubborn, independent, yet submissive, and learning the meaning of SELF- WORTH, so I can be that role model to my daughters & sons as well. God's not done with me yet! 💯🎯

[@IntuitiveEmpath777]

Amen

[@kaoshi_kutie]

❤️🙏🏽

[@chiqui0816]

Yesss! There's always 2 sides to a story. It's about taking accountability for your own faults as well.. A relationship is of two.. I have never been one to talk about my relationship to anyone, and If I'm looking for advice, I speak on my mistakes as well. Thank you Stephan for yet another amazing video! Blessings to you🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much and may you be blessed as well!

[@jayc5756]

Thats good. Thank you!!!

[@Bar7RRanch]

You speak the truth! There are great men out there. Men that do not cheat. Men who want to commit. It really is about finding the one who is meant for you. And being aware enough to recognize him when you meet and he pursues you. He may not look like what you thought, he may be different in culture, age, education, but he aligns with you in the important things. Have those important conversations early on. Weed out men who do not share your values and life goals. Do this before you give him your heart.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing!

[@MissyASTB]

Honestly! You're my favourite male relationship coach! You are so honest and fair about both men and women! You should have ways more subssss

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much I appreciate that!

[@kimberlysmithcarlson1777]

I just LOVE when Stephan Pops OFF...its deep, its truthful and its the best advice EVER!!! Thank you I am so grateful for the validation.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@patriciamoore987]

I know my worth! The man I’m waiting for has to be a REAL GODLY MAN, FINANCIALLY SECURE, and SEURE IN HIMSELF! 👸🏾 waiting on her 🤴🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@humblekingg9007]

Stephan Speaks, watched this video it was on point thanks for sharing. And for all positive encouragement really helps me stay on the right track along these lines. It's my choice to be single because I do know my worth/love self and waiting for the right person God has for me. When I choose to be happy with my life as a single man and in general my life became a happy life, not a perfect life. And, which gives me discipline not to rush into a relationship by loneliness/desperation

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@enaalexis92]

You sure did not come to play with this one. The passion was there the delivery was there the fire was there. Don’t ever stop doing what you do 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@chrissyqueen8407]

You telling us the truth Stephan! STOP SETTLING PERIOD. 🔥🔥🔥

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@sharismith3433]

Amen. Speaking as a Seperated soon to be divorced woman due to an Abusive extremely toxic Narcissistic relationship. Right now I'm recovering from all the hell I endured, healing, getting to know me, taking care of me and my two beautiful boys. My heart is open to love someone because I knew the day would come for me to escape. I prayed to God "If this isn't the man you created for me please provide a way for me to leave". God prepared me for our split mentally before physically releasing me from the relationship. My focus is now on the things of God aligning my life with His will. When the right man comes alone I feel like things will just fall in place. I desire to be with the man God created for me I'm not taking any prisoners. When the right man comes I'm gonna be ready for him!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@sharismith3433]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you and Amen.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@stephsun8997]

A lot pf people are walking around broken or toxic and don’t even know it. To heal a person must first admit or realize that they need healing.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@Whisperwarrior]

I’m 30 with 3 kids! I want to be loved but I’m truly enjoying my singleness with my kids ❤️

[@joeroot9142]

Kids come first. Please remember

[@sharonnyakato8139]

I love your wisdom. Every single word resonates with my spirit. Thank you. May God continue to use you, we need more people like you . Love from 🇺🇬

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@amandavendt327]

You are exactly what this world needs. Thank you for being a voice in a selfish world! You are responsible for so much of my own growth!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help

[@stacybrauner9070]

Your truth is very much appreciated and needed. Your light is bright and the world needs you❣️. Thank you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@lucyg7887]

Yes!!!!! There is a majority of high quality genuine people out here that are not loud enough. I am one of them 🙌🏼

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@inezbey]

Being good doesn't change his bad. SOMETHING to think about!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@dollyesguerra6408]

Thank you so very much, Stephan! I learned a lot from your program. You are God sent to me in preparation in finding a new person in my life. God bless.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and may God bless you as well!

[@CMKR99]

I listened to this sermon and flowed with tears. I thought my tears was behind me but I have to properly heal to be BETTER & NOT BITTER. I spent my most vulnerable years in a 10 year relationship with my child’s father. No I wasn’t raised to be a wife, but for my circumstances, I was well on my way. I taught myself how to run a household, and serve a man, as my partner. I went to hell and back to make sure my son grows up with both of his parents. A lifestyle I was not privy too, but damn sure was going to make sure my son was. I was patient, understanding, and even willing to learn and grow. After 10 years I’m left holding the back. He just refused to elevate, and left me to raise my son alone in another state! I would’ve never imagined myself here, but here I am. I’m not a feminist in anyway, and always UNDERSTOOD I need a man, like a fish need water! I gave my absolute all, and still it WASNT enough. Now I’m in the “danger zone “(28) trying to start over! I been praying to the most high to light this journey for me. I truly feel I’m the last of a dying breed and I will have my king soon.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@MiMi-ts7gc]

Why do you say you are in a "danger zone"? What's wrong?

[@humblekingg9007]

It's challenging living in thes last days being a single man, yes I have faith and saved but I'm a realist too 💯 Negative discouragement is at a all time high towards marriage, being single coming from the devil of course, through people or things.

[@JamaicaLove876]

Great video. Agree, with some of the key points.- Choose people who choose you. Find someone with whom you have a genuine connection with.- We attract what we project. If you want to receive a quality person become the quality person you want to attract.-Exude feminine energy if you want to attract masculine energy. Feminine energy is also walking in your divine purpose.-People treat you by what you allow. If you give permission for toxic behavior that is what will transpire. -When a man wants a woman he will choose to commit when he is serious. Overall, the main point is choose love.If there are not qualities of genuine love that is not the relationship for you. It will not honor your spirit. Thank you for the video. Blessings & peace.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback. Blessings and peace to you as well!

[@JamaicaLove876]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Keep up the great work. Excellence always.

[@JRenae-uv5yx]

Let me say this I Hate the fact that you talk to KS but you're right & he is too most of the time! I am the woman you tell guys who know themselves to stay away from BUT im working on that becoz I do desire to see what relationships are about. Im 35 & have never been in love. Ill keep tuning in while im doing the work!💙

[@whit9560]

right i caught that also, i just left a comment about it. idk if i can listening to him anymore knowing that he communicates with that troll on a regular

[@abigailgrimes7070]

Yup. Men will commit to who they want to commit to. 👏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@abigailgrimes7070]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks very humble of you sir… YOU are absolutely right. Thank you for your honesty. Praying it’s received when you speak it… some beautiful woman will not accept this from girlfriends and other females in their lives.

[@tlenn5608]

This video came at the perfect time, I was starting to consider letting an ex that I haven’t healed from come back into my life but as a let’s be friends. He just wanted to be part of my life by any mean necessary, and I almost allowed it to happen. But after watching this video I realize that I was falling back into a comfort zone (staying connected w/him) b/c I’m scared to go through the healing process of letting him go and moving on. But nothing has changed he doesn’t want to be in a relationship and I’m ready to pour myself and love into a man that wants a partnership and build something solid. I rather go through the hurt and pain of letting him go than dealing w/him and get nothing in return. This is going to be hard b/c I was falling for this guy but I’m ready to prepare myself to be w/a man that God has for me. #Self-healing Thanks for this video Stephan, a girl needed to hear this.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@tashamack8701]

Well my sista I am glad you didn't fall back into that. The same thing happen to me a few months. I keep in touch with my ex grandma and sister and I guess his sister must told him that she keep in touch well he had the nerve to try to talk to me but I shut that down real quick. I told naw I am good and that I will never get back with him. He is the same person with the same drama. God will lead a good man in your life. Just be patient my sista.

[@Leotunapika583]

Patiently waiting for my BOAZ

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@DivinelyGuided777]

I’m highly favored, redeemed, focused and ready for the future ❤️👑🙏🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@DivinelyGuided777]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Good afternoon Stephan🙏🏻You’re welcome 🙏🏻 You have a marvelous day😇❤️👑🙏🏻

[@adriannepaul9224]

I stepped out of my comfort zone by joining the program🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@kristeeweaver4585]

I greatly Appreciate your candidness, given from a place of love. 1 1/2 yrs of CHRIST-centered counseling was a Beautiful Gift & BLESSING=Complete HEALING! Amazing & Lovely how much your ENTIRE 🌎, Perspective & (All) Relationships change when you experience healing! 😍💕🙌

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Healing is definitely key!

[@jendine1663]

Once again, Stephan speaking what I need to hear at .31. Wow! How does he do this? Its a gift from God.

[@jmo33]

The man I was with told me for YEARS that 99% of men cheat. I believe he was so insecure about losing me because he knew we were on different levels (I am 15 years younger, more educated and have a big career), he told me this to get me to stay and feel more secure with him. I never trusted or trust any man like I did/do him, because he has brainwashed me to believe this. I was with him for years too long knowing I didn't feel the same way about him and "it" just wasn't there for me. I stayed because he provided, the relationship was good, the sex was good, and I truly believed I would never find someone as faithful as him. I am still healing from this mindset and trying to put faith in God that there IS a man out there for me, and that trust in God alone is what gave me the strength to leave, finally. Everything you said was scarily accurate. Please know that binge watching your videos and a lot of prayer helped give me that grit to dig deep, be honest with myself and walk away.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy my videos have been helpful to you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@activedogzz100]

Just love your channel so inspiring and empowering!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@d.rkegler3027]

People have called me crazy or had sympathy towards me for waiting to recieve the right man. Everyones got a different path in love but everyone deserves a slice. Dating and waiting is the most peaceful, relaxing, motivating and safest way ive gone. Focus on you and trust GOD.. 😇

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@TLLowe-gj6xk]

Facing my issues by getting counseling and getting to the core of me!!!!! We allow people to take advantage of us. Reciprocity is everything 🙌🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@Summerhaven97]

Good for you love!! Keep it up

[@kibibishaw1194]

🙏🏽 Listen to him. 🗣 FOLLOW YOUR INTUITION! 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Always important to listen to your intuition

[@1962BlessedMe]

Yes, Stephan, it's happened by both genders. I have come across men that have been, I think, shellshocked from being in toxic experiences. I have to be empathetic and protective simultaneously. They could possibly be lying or they could be telling the truth but will treat me as though I am that person that hurt them. Oh, so challenging to navigate. Ugh! 😔 Pray for wisdom and courage and keep moving forward. 🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation I pray you’re able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@chrisblessin]

I agree WE definitely leave things out when spilling the beans 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@JessicaBrueggeman]

I always accept personal accountability for my part in things. I'm not too proud to apologize when I realize I've been in the wrong; which I then work on, because all adults should understand that "changed behavior is the sincerest of apologies." That vulnerability has backfired on me. I've had my truths used against me, but I remain loyal to my growth, my journey. I've truly learned through it all that I can't control another's love for me, nor do I wish too, but I will find what is truly meant for me if I remain solid and authentic in my own energy.

[@aprilnixon2050]

I been by myself a year now and found out who I am in jesus christ just waiting on the lord and enjoy myself.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that and I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@aprilnixon2050]

Amen to that

[@yvonnelisajones7095]

Powerful words stephan honey, you touched my spirit on so many levels, may God's Love and Grace continue to bless you 🙏 ❤ 🙌

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and may God's grace and love continue to bless you as well!

[@narviaflournoy3869]

I appreciate your approach on such sensitive behavior and how to correct the behavior !! 😊🎧🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@narviaflournoy3869]

Amen Amen !!

[@thecoffeecornerchronicles6801]

You are speaking truth good sir!! Coping mechanisms come in all forms!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you. I appreciate your feedback!

[@tess7798]

Thank you. I’m a woman with 4 brothers and I see them putting up with all sorts of nonsense.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope they reach the point of truly doing what is best

[@psychoblack6948]

I purchased, HE'S LYING SIS, AND I couldn't put it down!! I've read it twice already, and love it!! ❤️❤️

[@PsychicMedium777-uw4mm]

What YOU are saying, Stephan, is the absolute TRUTH! Hands down! Why? Because.... Been there, done that before! Believe me, when I tell YOU this! Anyway, that being said.... AT THIS POINT IN TIME, ALL THAT I ASK GOD TO DO, FOR ME, IS TO SEND ME A GIRL WHO WANTS TO HEAL AND GROW "TOGETHER", WITH ME! SOMEONE WHO ALSO LOVES GOD, AS MUCH AS I DO! THEN AND NOW! PERIOD! ANYWAY, NEED I SAY MORE, PEOPLE! 😎

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the partner who is truly best for you the one God has for you 🙏

[@Whisperwarrior]

Hurt people, hurt people! Take time to heal before moving on to another relationship.

[@Naamanah127]

"Truth be out, truth be told". Thanks Stephanspeaks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@belleveHER]

To me it's a matter of a shift in roles of masculine & feminine Energy & lack of understanding one another and how we all operate. That's why I've started my Pillow Talk relationship series to contribute to helping this new norm of relationships ❤️ stay blessed and continue loving.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@Patricia-2791]

Stephan, literally you are the best, thank you for all your videos !

[@kd1928]

Thank you for your powerful message in this video. Your delivery definitely resonated with me. I'm also excited about joining your coaching program. I'm one of the 20 people that joined 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@wandafossett846]

🤗🤗🤗💖💜🌳💋🙏 And since your Mens Channel Not only men but us women to Have received great information And Encouraging advice. Yes men Are silently hurting.. We who check Into your podcast is forever blessed.. Stephan you Rock Sweetie i do really Appreciate how you've helped me move Forward for the better. Change Tour 👌 Can't Wait 😍🌈 🕊

[@sacampbr1]

OMG, OMG, OMG!!!! Amazing Q & A…..,.. extremely informative, saw the old unhealed me in a couple of your examples/answers. You are truly gifted and extremely bless! Thank you…..💯💯💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@chauntaulhearn4565]

This video has truly opened my eyes. I've been wondering what's been "wrong" with me and why i attract narcissistic men, but you read me to a T and I can't even deny it. I have already started the process of elimination by blocking/deleting and no longer entertaining men who don't have my best interest at heart. Appreciate this video. ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

[@sandrabridgman3965]

I agree with you, as soon as you see red flags consistently get out of the relationship. I only learned this the hard way. The damage is real and lasting. Save yourself from wasting valuable time get out! I know from experience.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@kiabeetv9784]

right me too

[@irlandaise5631]

I see red flags with many new male friends..I told a friend of mine..lack of high moral and character..they are disclosing themselves after seeing them for a few months. It sucks , right now women dont want to hang out with me and only men but they want more and there is connection + red flags.. I was watching TG yesterday who says to get out by yourself and eventually you ll meet someone..I dont drink and the cafes..during the day are full of asylum seekers..and the only way to meet people may be the pubs..maybe I should try a pub next door on Friday around 5 or 6 pm to have a coffee..but would want to stay there alone at night..just for an hour..or so..my friend said there wont be many quality men in pubs..and I wouldnt want to go online..

[@sandrabridgman3965]

@@irlandaise5631 it's difficult to meet People these days, particularly people who are serious about choosing the one for life. I would say that it's better to recognize a red flag in a couple of months instead of a couple of valuable years. I would also suggest that people guard there affection until you can say there are no red flags. Looking back this is were I could have saved myself a lot of hurt, valuable time and I strongly believe that I would have met the right man if I had of understood the difference between chemistry and true connection.

[@irlandaise5631]

@@sandrabridgman3965 yes I m learning to guard my heart..my legs and home are closed until marriage but even the ones that d want marriage have red flags..I realise now that I got ghosted by a handsome man I had a crush on..but I didnt know him..didnt get to spend time with him..like these other men..and that man with the red flag ive been seeing weekly was cute..now I dont see it anymore..

[@kelishadiamond-vegancakeco6298]

One thing i hate is how honest you are 😂. Only joking but seriously i love how your examples call me out allows me to become my best version. Thank you

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@tashamack8701]

I really appreciate you Stephan!!! Thank you for always keeping it real and dropping your wisdom. I agree with everything you said in your video. Say it again for the people in the back!!! I salute to you my King. You are the best!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@Jyoneoka100]

So over you Stephan. Here's what I'm gonna do and it's quite simple. I'm gonna be myself. If someone does jibe with that even better.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@keica6062]

Think. I'm on my way now coach. Thanks for all your works.💟May God always cover you keep you safe and blessed brother. Best of luck. P.s. I need a T. For a collectors memorabilia

[@tarasimmons8760]

I Agree I don’t even talk about my personal business in general,.lol very private

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

lol, 🙂 thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

[@sandragreen5146]

I think that prioritizing yourself will eventually draw in the type of people you'd won't to spend time with.you have to have the patients endurance to set the bar high for yourself because you are worth of it.

[@strive09]

Yes your point of views are superb :)

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

[@onniex226]

As we wait...oh,what a journey.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray you’re able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@onniex226]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you🙏

[@NiaBalcer]

deffi #SingleAndWaitingOnGod haha your videos are life changing

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@maggiecos2892]

YES BOTH SIDES ARE DOING DAMAGE SADLY 😥

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes, it definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@shaydenise2122]

Hey Stephan, Thanks for sharing these are true statements, I am learning each and every day.🥰

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@kayeradcliffe703]

I developed codependency from having an ill parent. It’s not always from having a bad relationship. I’ve since read Pia Melody, Facing Codependency and Melody Beattie Codependent No More. I had just been on High vigilancy, emptying my cup, for others. I’ve been digging deep. Now, I put myself first. #knowledgeispower 💯♥️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

The blessing is that you learned your lesson and you’ll be better off for it. 😊

[@kayeradcliffe703]

A hard lesson, but a good one. Thanks for everything you share with us. It’s much appreciated 🙏

[@mysteriousme3006]

You should ask, why do you stay when you see the person is not what he/she pretended to be?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@Summerhaven97]

The men I meet are just looking for a safe place to relax and be vulnerable. Men have feelings and emotions that are rarely expressed even with their closest friends. A trustworthy woman who respects and supports her man is very valuable, and apparently, very rare. We need to do better as women in protecting the hearts of these precious men, being honest and communicating clearly what’s wrong and having the decency to break up with them if it ain’t right. Of course, this goes both ways. I’m just saying that men have feelings, too, and women have great power to enhance a man’s greatness while receiving provision and protection in return. Looking forward to receiving the man God has for me. May God guide all of our relationships!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@Summerhaven97]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you…praying you find a woman who values your heart, mind, and spirit. God bless

[@lifewithamandajeoboamjeobo5156]

This video is needed great video

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you!

[@MrShoman1212]

Thank you Stephan for sharing the knowledge. I've been reading a lot of commitment below, Ladies if you choose the guy you love, got married to and decided to have kids with him and later divorce him and call him toxic, abuse, narcissistic etc. That was your choice at the first place, why not seek the face of the Lord before making a stupid decision that is making life harder for the next generation? Don't jump into it because of the butterfly he makes you feel, get a father or a wise man as a father figure to help out, go for counselling, read book and scriptures, get confirmation from God. Such wrong decisions are destroying the family and most young men don't want to get married anymore because it doesn't worth it.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@exquisitejewelrikkei2957]

I appreciate your authenticity.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much!

[@cammyTalksLife]

Thank you for your honesty and keeping it 💯.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that ❤

[@jenng5925]

Ok, Matthew 7:6! It all boils down to healing. And yes, women do withhold their share of wrongdoing in relationships. Most aren’t honest with themselves.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Healing is definitely key, thank you for sharing!

[@eekandem]

@StephanSpeaks you laugh prior to divulging the painful truth to us women and it softens the blow. Thank you😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@MikezMuscleMadness]

Bro I’m joining the program next week I promise💯🙏🏿

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You are welcome ❤

[@tashamack8701]

💯💯

[@rosettasolomon7631]

Hi Sphenoid I really enjoy most of your viewpoints, but don’t always agree, don’t always comment, but you said people sometimes don’t heal properly and goes to all others things one of the ways I think going to God for healing it’s always work for it.

[@turquoisebutler7488]

I love u ❤️ first time hearing u speak lost for words you are a healer thank you for your wisdom thank you for sharing .. you cleared up so much mental battle and transfer what I already knew into understanding I’m super intuitive I felt all these situation I totally resonate with all your viewpoints I’m blown away thank u my new favorite person 😜😜😜❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I love u ❤️

[@georgiagirlSB]

Passionate dr. Stephan

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@kpboyle1944]

Hahaha your my distraction right now😂😂 still healing and there are no distractions left..........so your voice distracts me I don’t even know what your saying half the time😄🥊. The path is straight & narrow!🕊

[@tanehasingleton]

I have learned to not ignore the signs because a man can pass all the expectation’s and tell you everything u want to hear but move on to the next like u wasn’t nothing I know my worth.

[@sweethoneyberries]

Accountability forces you to face your shit.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@sassanthony00]

Stephan,i have been listening to this video for about 15minutes and you are absolutely correct on everything you have spoken thus far.🙆‍♀️.I met an Amazing man 3 in a half years ago,and i have been listening to your videos for about a year now.And both of you have made me aware of things that i was never aware of.I was just about to say,why my Father in heaven never told me these things,but as i said it the Holy Spirit said because i never asked☺ 😃.I always wanted a husband,never a career.I always wanted to "work" with my husband. I said all of that to say this, I have been married twice,and I am just realizing that I was not ready for marriage then,and not yet ready now,even though i would want to be married like right now😊.I was that woman who hurt men and treated them badly in the past,because I did not know what i truly wanted.Because I was hurt and i hurt people in return. I am now realizing that God wants to heal me in this area so I may be able to receive the man God has for me.Thank you Father for revealing the Truth to me and Stephan thank you for following the leading of the Holy Spirit.And you are right when you say" right guy wrong time".My son told me that when,that amazing man left me 3 in half years ago.He said Mom it wasn't the right time.I cried and laughed while watching this particular video of yours.Thanks again,Shalom my brother,🙏🏿❤☺

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@sopafroinastevenson8754]

You always keep things 💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

[@barbarajohnson1530]

Thanks u for your wisdom an spirit i bought The man god have for u and healing.i love it im working on me

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@thisismystone9658]

#Stop when he isn't giving you what you need in return.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing!

[@CoffeeThenCoupon]

Wonderful message

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much!

[@cguadalupe1546]

Honestly!!... I had to reflect on when and why I do not date. It is not the men. I hear the women all around me talking. All ages, races, cultures, etc. I have thought several times. These women are savage. I'm nothing like this. If that is what people are out here doing. I never want to date. I'm too nice and honest for today's dating. This message brought that to light.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help!

[@HakeemIsMyWorld]

I haven't watch this whole video yet so you may have said this already, but I think it's the law of attraction at play. You would think that if there are all of these people that are willing to commit would meet each other. I think that it's partially gods timing and partially broken people attracting broken people. I'm working really hard on mending myself because I really believe this to be true.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@jayc5756]

True

[@erinhappy-go-lucky5040]

I appreciate that Stephan refers to the quote, “Hurt people, hurt people.” If you aren’t healed, you will attract a person that is where you are at in life right now. Give yourself the love that you desire from another. Romance yourself the way that you want to be romanced. Listen to music that reminds you of what you want, rather than what brings you pain and suffering. It will come. Have faith, Beautiful Soul 😇!

[@melt3713]

Stephan I respect your advice and perspectives on dating and relationships but I can't understand how you can have a conversation with K.S . Have you seen how he talks to people?

[@autumn_b905]

@38:24 I think there's more to the story than the man not allowing homegirl to drive her own car. Maybe she had a DWI in the past or some other issue where he felt the need to step in to protect her. I have seen situations similar to this where one partner or family member refuses to allow another to drive due to medical or mental health condition or something like being under the influence.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@ramyap4485]

Hi Stephen, i have never got closure from my ex BF, he just got engaged suddenly after that he is wants to be friend, i was very emotional as it was difficult to let him go, but after a coupe of months, i have completed disconnected from him...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@tashamack8701]

I am glad you did my sista. You actually made the right choice. I was in a situation like with my ex and I had to shut it down quick. Trust me you are not losing anything. God will get thru this. Let go and Let God. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Lynnsayne]

This may be a question that you’ve answered before. Can you break down feminine energy please. I understand that a man should be the provider, etc, but what is the woman’s role? Do we cook, clean? Take care of the house? What if we have a full time job, go to school to advance our career, AND make time for spiritual growth, community work, etc. cant we hire a maid? sorry, this turned into a lengthy question. I’m just trying to understand feminine energy - maybe this is a book idea🙃

[@ntrasmr87]

Check out Tony Gaskins Or coach Rod

[@irlandaise5631]

feminine has nothing to do with being a maid..be yourself and have an opinion..you either have it or not..had a manager who was lesbian not criticising but she was acting like a man in her behaviour..really masculine postures and gestures..but REALLY ..

[@a.s.3883]

Single and waiting it is for me!!

[@bettywinn8296]

Exactly. Don't cast your pearls before swine. (I just don't remember where this in the bible.) Will need to look this up. But, you are right.

[@Realness4sho]

This is absolutely True concerning SOME women. Theses type DON'T know themselves and have NOOOOO More Morals....If they ever had any in the first place darling. mmmm The Morals of "MOST" Women has sunken to an All time LOW!!! These kind will match a dirty, low down, lying Son Of A Gun....Man on ANY Sneaky level all day Loooong. Watch out!! Good men/women of God for those slithering Snakes amongst your Journey. Beautiful message Thank You Mr. L.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@gene3636]

My problem with no commitment is be real...start from the gate with truth and honesty...I personally feel that the dating starts with a lie...it's game