Sister Didn't Invite Me to Her Wedding but Invited All My Friends, So They Showed...

[@low-keydrama1260]

Disgusting how her parents had OP basically raise the daughter THEY brought into the world. Like maybe instead of having OP be the “good big sister,” THEY should be the “good mom and dad” and do their freaking jobs

[@_juju_jojo_]

Would've love to hear op reply to “be a good bit sister” with “be good parents”

[@Nolbolt]

Op was more of a mother to her sis then her parents were probably why her sister wanted to be around her so much

[@nickonicifor5638]

3 narcistic creatures, parents and sister. No hope, just avoid.

[@imitationporcelain]

Or maybe they should considered not having a second child if they gonna let the older one be the parent. They practically made op his sister second mom.

[@tkdmike9345]

I find it interesting that most of these stories involve OP being smart enough to get a full ride scholarship despite having a toxic home life

[@julios5262]

from experience, a lot of people who have toxic homelives work extra hard to get through school to at least not be lambasted for being inferior and dumb or to just escape as fast as possible by getting into a prestigious school far far away from their family. sometimes its ur only escape.

[@iamjustagirlintheworldd]

True lol. T​hey know their parents aren't gonna fund their college (which is usually the way to get a good job and be enough in life) so they work extra hard to get scholarships@@julios5262

[@Aurorossmc]

There was one where the op thought all the blame wasn't on her because she slept with her sister husband and said it wasn't completely her fault

[@iamjustagirlintheworldd]

@@Aurorossmc I mean...it's both the husband's and OP's fault. Takes two to tango

[@Aurorossmc]

​@@iamjustagirlintheworlddyea i mean but some of the points she made trying to lift some of the blame off her and on the husband was really stupid in my opinion that's why the video has alot of hate against the OP

[@Someloser3232]

Love how they became OP’s friends once they pissed off Gigi 🤣🤣

[@rykkihart5966]

Right! But maybe it took that stunt for Gigi and her parents to finally realize what they've been trying to say for years 😅

[@revilo1st]

First thing I thought, would have immediately said "you mean Gigi's friends?

[@doubletrouble4766]

Those are friends for life, the fact that they all got together and did this without her asking, doing what they were all feeling and making it clear They did OP some justice

[@Thegrim326]

Dear parents the oldest is not the fuckin parent you are so deal with it

[@quriline]

fr, even if they’re a few years older then their siblings they’re still decades younger than the parents

[@GreyLeo]

I happen to be the oldest out of 6 and I can say this being the oldest does come with a lot of responsibility but you should never feel like a parent

[@Herbal_lotus]

And being held to a higher standard just for being born first. How dare I also figure out life and make mistakes! How dare I not STOP my siblings from making their own mistakes! Yes, because I was born first I deserve to also accept responsibility for my siblings mistakes, misbehavior etc 🙄🙄🙄

[@lolmfs]

Exactly

[@YesNoMaybeSooo]

My husband is only 15 months older than his brother. There mother always had him looking out for and babysitting him.

[@julianyuh3163]

its always the mom picking sides and spoiling the kid then the dad being a doormat in these stories lmao

[@_juju_jojo_]

The dad also picked her side? I've heard multiple stories where the dad was also the enabler.

[@yenisketches6047]

Fake stories. Idk how ppl have time to write these bullshit stories

[@cloutmaster5035]

This is the result of a lacking strong/wise male presence, shit like this flies for years.

[@onlyyou5892]

Your oldest child didn’t decide to have a younger sibling, YOU did, YOU take responsibility.

[@diffuusio4852]

This is yet another story where the golden child's future is ruined by their parents favouritism. The golden child may truly believe they are doing nothing wrong despite being a horrible person. Had there been boundaries she would have learned.

[@zachary6425]

Favorite? They never bothered with her unless using her as a weapon against op. The only reason she's their favorite is because they were able to pawn her off on op. So she can parent her and not them.

[@art-sploo320]

These parents freaking suck. Gigi the golden child and OP the scapegoat. Tale as old as time.

[@kaimarquez4375]

I was hoping OP would go no contact with all three of them the entire video. _THANK GOD_ she finally did at the end, theyre all extremely toxic.

[@Thaddius0]

Gigi could have easily been saved. Bad parents made sure that didnt happen

[@charliebell9737]

Awful parents not even parenting one kid and making another kid the parent to the other and blaming that kid for the first kids mistakes not even teaching the child manners or social queues actual pathetic

[@zachary6425]

Exactly. It's easier to do that then do their own fucking job.

[@ellorasg4525]

This is FRIENDSHIP goals, okay? Friendship goals!

[@smsff7]

OP's sister is the golden child. OP should have gone NC with the family a long time before this happened.

[@skittlemilks1614]

I absolutely love it when parents who decided to have children choose to shove the responsibilities of taking care of said children onto their other children.

[@irisairsoul]

I'm glad OP went NC. I can tell that if she let's them have a relationship with her son, the moment her sister has a kid, they're just going to do the same to him.

[@treehouse2902]

With Gigi only. She is still playing doormat to her parents.

[@MinkxiTes]

Unpopular opinion, but i feel a little sorry for Gigi. She was failed by her parents. She might have been a different person if they actually took care and raised her.

[@samuraitadpole5459]

Honestly I don't think it's that unpopular, kids don't grow up into who they are usually falls on the parent

[@c0nfused_cookie]

Thank you, I share your opinion. I think Gigi might have autism but combined with her parents way of "raising" her instead of learning some social norma and working it out or even just masking she actually ignored everything and became her lack of social awareness was overshadowed by her absolute rudeness and selfishness which are both bcs of her parents. She deserved better, but so did OP.

[@America-b71]

I think Gigi might have Asperger’s hearing how she can’t pick up on social cues and i feel that the parents are mostly to blame

[@LilDevil-c6o]

@@c0nfused_cookie As someone with bad autism, I agree and thought the same thing when the story started. The parents have just failed her by not teaching her right from wrong and how to behave in social places and such.

[@AnimeViewer181]

Maybe at first but what's her excuse now that she's a grown up woman? You can't blame the parents forever even if they still suck.

[@johnpatricklim4509]

This is a "no win" situation...parent will always side with the golden child even with the truth on op's side....op better cut these animals off....op instead concentrate on her real family....that is her husband, her child and the people who love her....

[@samariumproductions5287]

brutually honest but cant accept honesty

[@gwenrichard7507]

I feel slightly bad for the sister. If the parents were more involved or had her do extracurriculars, I'm sure she wouldn't feel as desperately lonely as she obviously is.

[@butmermaids7443]

no, she was openly rude and disrespectful to everyone. and her parents encouraged it. that's why no one stuck around her unless they were forced to.

[@Ryu-lw1pl]

@@butmermaids7443 Yes, the way a child develops is not just their nature (genetics), speaking of genetics, based on her behavior since childhood, she might have some type of social disorder. But, if not, she can develop social issues and I blame the parents. The way an individual is most commonly affected by how they were raised. Like you said, her parents encouraged that behavior and they are at fault. They sheltered her, forced her to hang out with OP's friends, and didn't teach her how to socialize. And although she is an adult now, with the way her parents destroyed her, it has life-long lasting effects. The parents are the true AH in this story: they deprived their child of social development and forced responsibilities on another. The sister's behavior is not excusable even if she has a disorder; but there are reasons why she behaves like that and it's not entirely her fault.

[@CrytoZ_ButCool]

@@butmermaids7443 exactly as you said, her parents encouraged it. now she's suffering from intense loneliness.

[@meowpurrrrr]

@@butmermaids7443 Maybe she was autistic and just needed guidance. The parents clearly dropped the ball.

[@butmermaids7443]

at some point, an adult has to reflect on their actions and realize when they are the issue. she's an adult at this point. should her parents have enabled her? no. that's fucked. i feel bad for the child she was. at some point, you have to stop and wonder why everyone kept ditching you. and maybe she is neurotypical. but i'm pretty sure op would've stated that if they were aware of or suspected such.

[@RedPanda74]

I was the oldest of 4 growing up. Sis; 2 yrs younger, sis; 10 yrs younger, bro; 15 yrs younger. My parents never expected me to babysit my siblings or to take them out with me. If they needed a sitter, I would always offer because I was happy to do it, never out of some obligation. OP’s parents need to understand that THEY caused this dysfunction in their family, not OP.

[@SiriusBMermaid]

I am like this. My oldest son is 19 and I have never given him the responsibility to raise his younger siblings. I have given him the freedom to live his best life. I was literally in charge of taking care of my little brother because my mother was an alcoholic and my father was avoidant. Mind you, we have older siblings but they had their own families so I was in charge of my little brother. I was only 2 1/2 years older than him.

[@RedPanda74]

@@SiriusBMermaid 🫶🏼

[@sawsaw2388]

bruh OP needs a backbone she should have been NC with her parents for yearsss they basically parentified her. No wonder GG married someone 15 yrs older than, no sane person wants to deal with any of that

[@gwenbrown7973]

Thank you! Absolutely insane to me how she kept trying to explain herself. They had never in her life listened to what she had to say, I don’t know what would make her think they would care to listen now.

[@rebecca4680]

I was gonna say, why was OP trying to explain herself to her family like she was trying to mend the relationship? There was no hope of them ever listening from the very beginning.

[@Lapantouflemagic0]

That's a genuinely sad story because in the end, the antipathy between OP and her sister is entirely constructed by her supid parents who couldn't be bother with raising their own child and used their eldest as a live-in nanny (which is clearly abuse). It also feels really sad for ginny because in the end, here parents enabled her crappy beahavior and never had any friend, and is now set in her ways as a grown adult. I've been in a similar situation after moving to a new school, trying to fit in where everyone was already friends and didn't need me but basically tolerated me because i was a classmate, and it really really sucks. So if their is really some bitch slapping to be had, it's in the parents face a hundred times.

[@Toshinegawa]

For god's sake, why didnt OP call out her parents on their bullshit and say it to their face what terrible parents they were? They forced OP to raise her sister when the responsibly was theirs!

[@jessilynallendilla5014]

Gigi will never accept she and her parents are the orchestrators of her own misery because that means she'll have to grow up and take responsibility and OP needs to get that she'll never win and go no contact

[@darklordsatan4383]

Lmao, the parents and the sister don't see OP's friends are real, individual human beings, simply objects, and "toys" the older sister should share with the golden child. They're so disgusting, I don't feel bad for them at all. The friends have been treated like playthings for the sister to use, so who could blame them for wanting to send the message? The sister and the parents have no respect for boundaries at all, and it's very apparent that the sister being "mean" is the least of the worries when it comes to her behavior. She is a genuine psycho, who thinks everyone else are NPCs in her life, meant to serve her.

[@KilroyWasHere83]

"No one uses Facebook anymore", the video said right as I opened up Facebook on my phone I feel personally attacked

[@shibamtaro23]

Op's friend are gold i love them 😂

[@hse5.0]

The writer last words were hert touching. Thanks for making my day

[@lildozen42069]

She should go no contact with her parents. There’s no value associating with those narcissists and their golden child daughter.

[@klippitykloppity]

Ew. OP's parents are vile. Why have another child (and raise a shitty one, at that) if you are just going to expect your oldest to be their parent.

[@noneedtoknow07]

Someone really need to be blunt with Gigi and tell her she's not liked, she is tolerated and only just barely.

[@FroggyGirlDreams]

OP did after the reunion. Their parents just suck

[@starlightshinebright1603]

@@FroggyGirlDreamsI mean sure but by now, OP made it clear that she already made that fact known but since it’s coming from someone ‘who’s always been against Gigi,’ they have little reason to believe her even if they supposedly care for OP. While I know the friends have no obligation to insert themselves into OP’s situation (ironic), I wish one of them called Gigi directly to tell her straight to her face what they specifically dislike about her, leaving OP out of it and even referencing the few moments that they spent with Gigi without OP and connect the dots for her about how the friends don’t like her regardless of whether or not OP is involved

[@FroggyGirlDreams]

@starlightshinebright1603 that's true I wish her friends just called her out to say nobody likes u gigi go home lmao. That would have solved years of drama.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Those friends are the best. They're OP's true family, not those sad excuses for parents.

[@Hades-warrior]

Bro those are the bestest friends OP will ever find 😂

[@biggdawg0211]

My thoughts exactly. Clearly that family isn't going to change. OP is just putting herself through unnecessary stress going back and forth with them after she left for college and they still continued to act the same way...SO to the friends for doing what OP didn't have the strength to do lol

[@MMCV963]

Don't have multiple kids if your expecting the older ones to raise them for you.

[@MrOrcshaman]

This stories an example of a near (not complete, but near) hopeless case of someone who wants to believe she can still recoup something from her narcissist family, that she can somehow still mend bridges, and hasn't done the smart thing of cutting them out from her life completely.

[@CatCatCaat]

Why do all these sound the same 1. Two sisters, one of them is the golden child and is spoiled by parents 2. Scholarships, and parents begging the child to stay close or just refuse to pay for college 3. Karma at the end for the golden child? Lmao

[@MetalheadAndy25]

Love what her friends did, top people

[@Roronoa1213]

Bro, they wore funny dresses. Why should they even apologize 😂

[@Darkspark06]

These are true friends. Don’t lose them

[@_juju_jojo_]

Out of all the stories had heard on Reddit videos, this is one of the most depressing ones. I couldn't imagine being the one person no one liked to hang out with and for good reason too yet be completely oblivious to it Also 11:10 really? Why would she not blame you? How tf are you that clueless? Then to try and convince them? Why? You know how they are why waste your time?

[@RagnarokAvatar]

Sometimes, you just got to say it like it is. In this case, they should've just told Gigi that they never saw her as a friend and that they always hated her.

[@astrelize_]

I hope op never loses those friends

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

I actually feel bad for gigi, its like she never grew out of teenage phase, she grew up never having experienced self awareness. That thought process where she thought just being in a virtual group also translates irl being as "friends"? My girl, that's not how that works... And its frustrating how op doesn't get that there's also screw loose from her parents' head and that she might as well talking to wall- i mean thats prior to therapy. Im glad she took one even if its late. They're the classic parent and golden child team. Keep being in no contact until they die.

[@DaBaseBallZ]

Ahh yes,it is truly wonderful when one has godlike friends

[@hospitalqueen4047]

I could never have a golden cold. I know how much it hurts so i don't want to treat my kids that way. I understand how op feels about her golden sister.

[@slump3r]

I don’t understand why there are so many golden child stories, do parents seriously don’t know how to love multiple children at the same time?

[@tingtingboll]

Lmao her friends are my kind of petty 💅

[@dbzfan66]

What gets me is OP was forced to invite her sister because of her parents, but when OP didn’t get an invite to her sister’s wedding, the parents didn’t do anything. Not that she wanted one, but it’s pretty clear who the parents think the golden child is.

[@teamblack204]

The friends are the real ones for that😂❤

[@erickaennis2738]

I blame the parents for the sisters bad relationship. If they had allowed them to develop a normal relationship instead of parentifying Op, they may have been more civil.

[@Frostpotionz355]

I would've just worn a damn dinosaur suit or those yellow hasmath suits they wear XD

[@pandemoho]

It's the parents fault since day 1. They let Gigi's upcoming into a child's hands and didn't care about caring for their own children. The only reason they blame you for everything is because they don't want to educate Gigi because they don't want to be parents. They obviously always knew Gigi was wrong, but by admitting it then they would have to parent Gigi, and they don't want that. That's also the reason why when you went to college they started to try to manipulate you into staying , because their free nanny was leaving. So it's not that they agree with Gigi, but that they don't want to spend their time dealing with a tantrum so they put the blame and the responsability on you.

[@Rj-ij6ko]

Holy GOLDEN CHILD Batman. So… Op NEEDS to invite golden child to her wedding…oh but of course Golden Child doesn’t need to invite Op because its her choice who to invite. What an awful family Op has.

[@ancadiamant]

The mental gymnastics on this crap is so infuriating.

[@analyticgeometry9014]

"I found myself immersed in a wave of nostalgia and laughter". Real people don't write like that lol. This is ai.

[@graysnake8585]

Imagine your friends telling your sister "Since when you and I were friends?"

[@Maninawig]

Honestly, I wouldn't have gone to the direct family, but to the extended family after Update 2. Let them know the truth about your upbringing and the dresses. Not to rally an army, but because I am pretty sure your parents would have tried to save face by blaming you for not showing up. If your parents won't listen, then maybe an aunt will.

[@katiegeorgeripia]

Nō sister is this relaxed dealing with a nightmare of a sibling

[@Lovely-Maya-xd8tv]

The message at the end is so Hurtful

[@Bearclawcub10566]

man i jumped out of my chair cuz of the lava rising in the background 9:08

[@krissycats1]

This is I think the 3rd story with a character named Gigi on this channel that I've listened to. Gigi is a more common name than I thought.

[@shawnycoffman]

I was put into the situation with my three younger siblings. But I rebelled and used what I now know to be weaponized incompetence. 😈

[@SunnyCinnamon]

Can we please applaud Op's friends?

[@dianecalderon1700]

Honesty and cruelty are different things.

[@oofroboxislit]

14:45 but mom, Dad these are "Gigi friends too" maybe she shouldn't have friends if she cant handle a joke

[@poohbear4515]

Unpopular opinion. OP was an idiot. She kept on telling those pitiful excuses of parents how much their always favoring their golden brat but always gets told shes wrong. She really shouldn’t have kept on talking or even try to reason with them, even after the wedding fashion fiasco. Which was a petty, yet funny revenge. Should’ve went NC. She annoyed the hell out of me when she was “forced” to invite the golden brat to her wedding. She needed some therapy, and glad she’s finally getting it, but she still annoyed me so much. Hope she’s doing okay tho.

[@Verienn]

tbh kids raised in that environment literally dont realize there are options, so it feels unfair to blame her for it

[@Photon_Collector]

Poor Gigi, all she wanted was a friend.

[@LiamMcCalla-kh7cd]

so casually cruel in the name of being honest-ts

[@AleksandarBradaric]

Man, Op is a doormat...

[@VeryGoodDeals]

Why does everyone just immediately go to calling someone a doormat, so fucking stupid 🤦‍♂️

[@brakis18]

Wow, those parents suck.

[@MsNimrod]

It really makes me feel disgusting in the inside to realize that these parents ruined her childhood. and the fact that the parents had a say on her wedding forcing her to invite Gigi and didn't care a lick when Gigi didn't invite her. I think it's really gosh darn funny that her friends showed up in the ridiculous outfits. And I deeply appreciate how she said her side of the story. Now all she has to do is show her parents the comment section. And those parents need to do their freakin job.

[@jitsukoluvr]

As a person who has an older sister, I don’t barge into my sister’s life, She will have me around IF SHE WANTS TO. I have my own friends that I made myself and my sister has her own, I visit them once in a while since they work near and my sister and her friends invite me when they want to, I don’t do anything embarrassing and if I did, my sister will lecture me and I will learn, I won’t be a brat about it.

[@mandjpikids]

Gigi is definitely the golden child.

[@afsanachowdhury4979]

Not sure why you would add her to the group

[@aMosS75]

I would have convinced everyone to go in white dresses either wedding dresses or similar ones! 😈 You can’t reason with a brick wall, better to leave with your sanity intact than to be used and discarded.

[@lilagonzales1145]

OP’s friends are badass

[@RoundShades]

One could accurately say, that her family took her back when she was treated poorly by old strangers who abused her as a child.

[@AdrielDoesGaming]

Gigi and her parents desperately need a serious reality check

[@kumikor3392]

OP needs to grow the hell up. Why even maintain a relationship with this family? Should've broke off with the family YEARS ago. OP doesnt have a sister problem; they have a parent problem

[@petercdowney]

Gigi's own fault for not inviting OP! Just because they're not obliged to invite you to their wedding, doesn't mean that you have to be OK with it or be understanding!

[@Smugglenuglle]

I was in the same situation as OP despite being only 2 years different than my younger sis. My sister followed me to every events, sleep overs and hang outs I made with my friends. The trick to make sure to humble them is to smack them every once in a while when they're being dumb. Be willing to get smacked by your own parents tho. Now, she barely listens to my mom and at least listens to me when I ask

[@RandomTrinidadian]

I think i know why Gigi has no friends. And will still have no friends

[@derrelbowers]

Gigi is socially clueless. Possibly on the spectrum? Op is somewhat awful too.

[@Phony6199]

15 year difference is wild. That girl made a bad choice

[@jdarchie777]

OP needs to learn how to stand up for themselves, they constantly let the family gaslight them it's infuriating.

[@jessicamarsh9779]

“No body uses Facebook anymore” lol 😂 I don’t get why people say that, I know TONS of people who use FB & who are active on it.

[@mayuravirus6134]

At least the guest have decency to not where white wedding dress

[@michaelmordarski5994]

Sister is the definition of narcissist. Parents are the definition of enablers

[@butmermaids7443]

my question is... why is op still in contact with their sister and parents when they sound so draining to be around

[@artemislove2941]

me, who is 23, who would still want a barbie dream house for a present

[@Joey15811]

Neglectful parents.

[@kymera_auranos]

Why would the group do such a thing if they’re Gigi’s friends? *extremely sarcastic*

[@Justice_2003]

Definitely not AITA. She told her friends that she wasn't invited and that she didn't care. That was it. She should clarify to her family though, it might help sister see what she did. They all chose to wear those dresses, it goes to show how much they didn't really like her and maybe she'll finally realize it😂

[@elizabethwatson71]

Why in the world would you still communicate with parents that looked at you as an unpaid nanny?

[@panmajin6895]

Tl;dr Disfunctional family being disfunctional

[@itsobviouslyyuta1461]

Is gigi acoustic??

[@iamjustagirlintheworldd]

I laughed so hard at this😭

[@itsobviouslyyuta1461]

@@iamjustagirlintheworldd 🫶🫶

[@Ultima227]

Nah, she seems more like a metal fan

[@fl9168]

She's missing two of her six strings!

[@Orangecommunity]

These Gigi and Naomi characters appear in many stories I have already watched four stories in which they appear in two negative roles in two videos and a positive role in one story

[@YesNoMaybeSooo]

Why has the older sister still not gone no contact with the sister and parents? Walk no run the other direction and stay away from them !! Toxic is toxic , walk away !!

[@giuliaotta8643]

I recently cut out my father, because two months ago I did understand that he was toxic and manipulative. He was psychological abusive to me and my mother tol, and he always thought he was better than anyone, and when he was wrong, he was like "I'm never wrong". He had try to make us feel like we were nothing and I could not achive anything in life all of my life, and now that he is not in our life, we feel free and my self esteem Is improving, and my memory too.