SISTER2SISTER! APRYL JONES GOES INNNNN ON HER BOYFRIEND 4 DOING THE BARE MINIMUM & SHE'S TIRED!😩❤️‍🩹

[@Age_Of_Aquarius84]

What a lot of women fail to realise is that having standards, boundaries, and expectations means your phone will be dry for a long time. Be strong! Hold out for the right man, and be OK with your single season.

[@marymotherofgod4861]

Yup we need to vet men period!! Not give in if we’re bore lonely etc ur so right be safe ladies 🙏❤️

[@rushainec2477]

💯

[@yopsiakay1519]

Word!😊

[@Thrivegrl24]

Factssssssssssssssss drier than a Sahara Desert

[@ladylorp2738]

I’m so ok with my phone being dry it’s not even funny cuz I REFUSED to give in. I will NO LONGER accept anything I don’t give to anyone 👌🏾

[@unbeknownst2me-o9t]

Unfortunately some of us may not meet our partner in this life. U really have to be ok with that in case it never happens. Self love is the best love.

[@2cut32handle]

This is very true. I have had this discussion with mom plenty of times. It's DIFFICULT to even find a decent person now.

[@michellewilliams5206]

Exactly!

[@keh-dalia809]

I had a man ask me to come fly out to where he was, i said i didn't know if i wanted to spend my extra spending money on that right now, then he says, oh no ill pay for it, but in this undertone that said he was dissapointed he'd have to pay. I told him, i dont know, let me pray on it... the next day i told him God's answer, I said God told me if you want to see me, you're going to have to come to me first, and that a woman should never be the one traveling far to go meet a man she doesn't know for the first time. Just thought id share what God thought of that with my fellow ladies. And I listened to my heavenly Father, and thats the key ladies, put Jesus and God first, and seek him first in your life decisions. You'll save yourself all kinds of hurt, wasted time, bad people, and poor decisions.

[@kimkirksey3018]

Did he fly to see you?

[@marziamthatiamchannel]

Agree 100%

[@MsChantae]

Ikr....like finish the storyyy 😂😂😂 geesh ​@@kimkirksey3018

[@delightfular9200]

Amen to that ❤

[@Jamiefit11]

​@@kimkirksey3018I do not think so it looks like.

[@Monique-je1yu]

My phone is dry because these raggedy dusty dudes will not be playing with or "INSIDE" of me 😂😂

[@tdynley]

Truth🎉🎉🎉

[@hmgnick3879]

You chose those kinds of dudes 😭💯good dudes here in they work uniform but yu don’t want that

[@Iambecoming1111]

Same i refuse to be in a predicament

[@kdlane4046]

That part.

[@coopercamacho]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@michellegrant7972]

“No response is a response “ ! Love it.

[@rashidahid-deen4934]

It's not just the younger generation Fumi. I'm in my 70's and the mentality of a lot of the older gentlemen is the same. However, I refuse to give up hope. LOVE is ageless; and timeless. I shall remain prayerful while maintaining my standards. I don't deserve less; because I'm of a big, mature age. I dare say, I deserve MORE because I bring MORE to the table, via Life experiences. Love and appreciate You MUCH beloved Fumi.

[@Youtube_Bee]

You inspired me because I’m 33 turning 34 and I feel like throwing in the towel

[@carrom1920]

@@KZbin_Bee OMG same!!! Turning 34 this December and I cried earlier last week (PMS) because I'm like at 35 it's a wrap for me 😂

[@globalconcern4995]

Indeed!

[@donnahill2178]

My shop is closed and till God puts the right man in front of me I'm not open for business. God is leading my way. I'm doing very well to.😅

[@tdynley]

Amen

[@moriah.israel8565]

Amen!!!

[@hmgnick3879]

That’s why we single out here

[@kathy-annyoung7965]

It's so true because I met my amazing husband at 51 thank God

[@hmgnick3879]

Nah you decided to settle when you were washed up & he was old & desperate with 401k and open arms 💯KEEP IT REAL

[@bukunmiolowu9178]

@@hmgnick3879Who hurt you?😅 You're up in everyone's comment crying a river! You need to heal man, you'll be just fine

[@ewami26]

Have anyone ever noticed that mama's advice always comes at the perfect time. Like it hit what ever that is going on in your mind ❤❤❤

[@denisegraves2966]

💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@glamupwithkatrina]

Fuming your husband is a rate breed..a real man. There are not many like this in today's society. Feel very very blessed!! ❤

[@themalawiandiner180]

They are alot of men like that, spread across the globe.

[@Champagneplease41]

So true! my male friend told me that if he doesn’t pay for you to come out then you don’t need to go.

[@pberry1924]

You know? This woman glows!! Im pushing 60. Been with myself for a long time. I'll wait. I dont want to share my soul with just anyone. Its precious.

[@yumyaw]

It's def tough but God is tougher. Once I improve some things in my life then i believe that's when God will release the King for me that he's been working on. Hallelujah 🥰

[@sharlenemullins1030]

I"m 67, still waiting on God❤

[@Shay-rx4xu]

God said it's OK to be single remember Jesus was the only perfect human who was single and childfree 2 fulfill his purpose

[@starlaanderson2728]

"You do not negotiate on you!" FDV 🙌🏾💜

[@hmgnick3879]

Modern day PRO-TUTUION

[@zolabison2744]

You know if u don't like the channel u can just not watch it. Clearly it's not your cup of tea.​@@hmgnick3879

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Exactly

[@livewell-xt5xr]

2 years ago this woman was on Instagram live saying how black women were jealous of her because she's mixed and the famous black men want her. Now here she is constantly complaining about these same men.

[@eleseclarke6038]

😂😂

[@yasheca]

Preach it ❤ wasn't she part of the reason why Nicole Young filed for divorce from Dr Dre

[@Vai_easter]

🤣🤣🤣

[@LOVELYLONDONGURL]

Yup shouting about how good her 🐱 was. Embarrassing!!

[@keh-dalia809]

That may be true, but this entitlement spiringing up in men to be catered to on a man's every want and demand while having little to nothing to bring to the table, is a recent shift in development in the last two years, and I've noticed it too, along with countless women, good women. So regardless of you trying to minimize what this woman is saying because of a distasteful video from her past, it doesn't make what she's saying here any less true, Sadly.

[@MsChi83]

Wow! Apryl has really aged 😳 the stress men bring will have you ageing in dog years, this is why I steer CLEAR & live a stress free/wrinkle free life.

[@zerdellbui8979]

I thought she was dating TAYE DIGS? Not sure if I spelled his name right?

[@tdynley]

👍🏽

[@lalasteele9485]

​@@zerdellbui8979oh no u late they broke up

[@muicreativeproductions416]

Facts! That stress ages women like crazy !!

[@jujubean9598]

i thought i was seeing things in the thumbnail!!!! 😳😳😳😳she has aged just like safaree's girlfriend started aging when she started dating him..but those who know apryl jones also know how toxic and shady she is...she may have just met her karma.

[@beverlycraigg9067]

Fumi you need to pit this in a book. Your daughters need the manual.

[@Janet_________]

One lady on TikTok said men are not praying for their masculinity . A lot she said is making so much sense .

[@clarngundu6272]

Aunty Fumi, you married VERY WELL

[@ezy78667]

I have experienced that before with A man I never met I person. That was the last time we spoke, I never even told anyone about it, it wasn't worth my energy!!! 😂 I'm a black woman & I know people don't like when I say this "if you're a black woman, open your options" then you'll see how many good men are out there and willing to meet your standards 😊

[@MarionMarie27]

Open up your mind, for the world to open up to you! Today’s episode was Everything!!!

[@diordiva]

your laugh makes me happy!

[@renatekapinga8617]

😂❤ same with me ..i feel her good energy, the vibe ..i just love it.

[@Nia70Ghana24]

You are absolutely correct Fumi don’t sell your selves short ladies when it comes to the dating world! Many blessings to you and your 🙏🏽☮️❤️🤗🇧🇧🇺🇸🇬🇭

[@sophielifanda1495]

We need all the happy vibes because it is dark in the US after the election. The hair is growing, the dress is gorgeous 😍

[@B.NICE302]

Very good quote you said… I had to kiss a couple frogs before I found the Prince. But Damn, did you have to call them FROGS? 🤣🤣🤣

[@FumiDesaluVold]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸

[@B.NICE302]

@@FumiDesaluVold BTW, I ran across your channel a couple weeks ago and YOU have that “IT” factor. You’re a very wholesome, down to earth WOMAN with very sound, wise and unique perspectives…and funny too 😂. Keep up the good work. Like McDonald’s say…I’m Lovin it! 😊

[@kimkirksey3018]

That was nice Sister Fumi to call them a frog....they were probably even worst

[@thelmaallen1440]

Fumi I loved that you took the cookie off the table. No cookies til marriage.

[@bm11775]

Love stress free and drama free Put God first and you will never be last . Ladies listen to Fumi she has wisdom and God is using her to get these messages to us ladies thank you Auntie Fumi ❤❤❤ more blessings coming to you . I agree when God has the right one for me he will send him to me .

[@jennyp32]

One of Fumi's best videos. Excellent Advice!

[@Elizabeth-vu1tb]

Praying for a LOVING HUSBAND like that.😭😭 I’d rather stay single.

[@sweetmamarms8167]

Fumi you’re absolutely correct said a mouthful and you always honest love it ladies know your worth ❣️

[@virginamorgan1481]

Not a word of lie told. Thank you Sister Fumi❤.

[@leonasammy4511]

Beautiful dress, I love the color, it goes well with your skin tone.

[@barbarawoodward9970]

Thank you Fumi for speaking the honest truth to our daughters! Soo many young women do not have a God fearing woman with wisdom to speak life into them! Also you look simply amazing! The color looks great on you, and the makeup is flawless! You are my little Sistah from another Mother! May God continue to Bless you, and your family!

[@TreasureSeasons]

hi Fumi - i just think most people have unhealed childhood wounds - they expect their partner for what the parent could - not - it's a deeper issue - thanks Fumi - for sharing -

[@bedinabebe4521]

Beautiful dress on beautiful you! Living and loving🫶🏽

[@coconuttrees]

So touching . I nearly cried watching this . God bless you Auntie Fumi ❤️🙏🏾

[@lornz486]

Fumi, you and Oula were made for each other❤❤ This generation's dating scene seems very monetary and full of drama all the time, it's exhausting 😵‍💫

[@melisshalindsey]

COME ON, FUMI!!!!!! We are the same age, but where have you been all of my life?! Sister-to-Sister!🙏🏼👍🏽💯

[@TheCeebereal07]

Love you Fumi! Thank you for your perspective we always need it!

[@jamikashaunti]

Love the makeup! 😍

[@myhueofyoga]

A running joke in our marriage, after dinner I politely get up go to the restroom and check my face, my drag and go back to the table and ask "are we ready"? 18 years married, Ive never paid the bill😒😏❤

[@Tsips]

😅😅😅😅 Love it

[@crackerjacks6789]

I think that the ladies should keep their 🐾🐾off the table and allow them to take the bill. I think some of these questions women should inquire about before they go to the restaurant. Men are different these days this is a good way to weed out the men who really value you.. if he cannot pay the bill he will have a hard time caring for you if you decide to marry.😊 They know the one they will go the extra mile for,😮

[@nicnothingnice]

You are so beautiful! And the walk-off down the hallway was fabulous! Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I am 41. I am not even trying to date anymore.

[@eternallyevolving7888]

I had to open up my mind as well Fumi. I’m engaged to an Italian man and my life with him has great.

[@Kimberly-ks6uu]

Fumi please have a courting 101 for us young girls pleeeaaase

[@starahmed8360]

But that's a man that you got that God gave you. I don't think those types of men are left around in America. Bless you both! 😁

[@LOVELYLONDONGURL]

I am a woman’s woman but even I have seen some highly questionable behaviour from women and then they promote it online too and it paints everyone negatively. So many women promoting using men, getting the bag, getting a free meal etc. the atmosphere is not the same. Both men and women are jaded but we as a group literally have the power to change the dating landscape if we wanted to, but that takes discipline. If enough women said no sex, no dates, no nothing until you come correct, they would definitely switch up.

[@marziamthatiamchannel]

Thank u very much Fumi. Tell these ladies and men Sis. Most sadly, date for the short term and not marriage.

[@nyajalenipnip3387]

I simply just love you tooo much Aunty Fumi, thank youuu!!! 🤎

[@vidahotienodr024]

Fumi, the auntie I always needed❤

[@karenewheeler7778]

I love watching your videos. Your smile and laughter lifts me up and makes me smile. Especially at times when I feel down. Thank you!😊🥰👏🏾🙏🏽👍🏾

[@xavier7124]

Your hair is everything

[@naturalblackcocoa]

Thank you. You are saying what I wish my mother told me. Thank you !!!!

[@dsweet2000]

The rant towards the end of this video was so powerful. Thank you auntie!!! I’m so happy for you 🫂

[@labaguebezai4973]

You are a Godsend my dear sister 🙏🏾💕

[@harrietmcdonald3084]

My Ex husband tried to hit me up when he saw me with my infant son and new husband. I was visiting my mom and he called my mom’s house. I answered the phone and didn’t recognize his voice. He was hurt. When I realized who it was I said I’m sorry I can’t talk to you I have to go feed my son. When we were married I was told by many doctor’s that I couldn’t have children.My son is now 20 years old. I was able to make a clean break away. The lord knew what he was doing. ❤

[@berlindanyake1391]

Sister to Sister is always my best sessions. I get to learn alot. I am 32yrs just got out of a relationship whilst I thought would be my last. I need to build myself up. Thank you Aunty Fumi for all that you do for us ❤❤❤

[@tendaitaruvinga87]

Yesss mama waiting till marriage i love that ❤

[@blessingsbestOtedola]

I love you Aunty Fumi x. I love your love story for the both of you ❤!

[@doreenboyd3347]

I always said, keep your options open.

[@rennie2611]

I’m 68, I gave up on dating men a long time ago, I feel sorry for the young ladies too. At my age dating is tough, and it’s tougher for the younger girls. What’s going on.

[@lkofie6670]

I think what's going on in regards to younger women is the "sense of entitlement" attitude and unrealistic expectations. For older women well... from my understanding of the male market, it's not as though it's impossible to have a man as an older woman, it's just that older women are deemed as having a lower market value since our commodity is suppose to be our youth so for women, the higher up in age, the lesser the market value. Yet, I also think it depends on what the man is looking for in his life and well... that's likely where the compatibility would be in regards to older age.

[@Nebula0309]

The 4B movement from SK is making it's way to USA. The 4B movement is the way to go. The SK women were/ are onto something. They know what time it is. The dating scene is the most & not in a good way, not to mention ppl be out here in these streets be wilding out. Nope, no thanks to all the mess that is known as dating. I can do bad by myself. 😊❤

[@reneegranger6109]

Preach Fumi. Break it down. 👏🏻👏🏾👏🏽💯

[@markoushayes2233]

I like this lady videos. So much fun and wisdom.

[@justbelit]

Ooo the love you describe fumi. I feel like only a select few would experience it and we need to be realistic although being hopeful.

[@2cut32handle]

I totally agree with this. I'm not trying to sound pessimistic but in reality only a FEW of us women will experience love like this from a man.

[@zolabison2744]

​@@2cut32handletrue dear.

[@char2723]

Thanks Fumi this was a really good episode! So many of us needed to see this! 🌟✨

[@mariascott3424]

Yes, mam, telling the truth for both men and women

[@augustvirgo6773]

I love the nude dress it complements your skin tone and your hair is beautiful there is a lot of growth ❤

[@TP-fq8wd]

KUDOS!! "Let them know your value." 🌹🌹

[@carolharper4401]

This is so true!!!💯 You are so right Fumi!!! I married my husband when I was 50.

[@zeem.2935]

Thank you for this. I’ve been feeling so discouraged 😢

[@janicemonasmallwoodmalekeb9385]

Wow! This color looks so beautiful on you 😍

[@patoi3642]

Loving ❤️ the glow Fumi

[@norahaustin180]

100% with you on this Fumi. Love love this. This is how God intended it to be. I would love to hear your thoughts on long-distance relationships for our young adults. For example, one goes overseas to university, and the other stays back home getting on with life and working. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

[@ewami26]

Thank you mama for given the best advice I love you all of my love 💕😘💕😘💕😘

[@Ebizzill]

check this: I had a dude talk about "im looking for a woman who is not combative, who will see me through the struggles, who will cater to me, who is fit feminine and friendly" I'm like... dude, but you're 35... still in undergrad.... and you're not even paying for my share of this sad looking vegan hot-dog... aint nothing in there but a questionably boiled carrot and mustard and ketchup. im sorry... at my old age, im not looking for a project or potential... im EXHAUSTED.

[@carolyndye2615]

First and foremost she had a man like that in Taye Diggs and for whatever reason they broke up, so why are you addressing this on social media instead of addressing the man you're speaking of? This is a whole lot as a 55 yr old woman even for me dating is a journey because I want more than the regular dating experience. I have been alone for three years after my companion passed after complications of cancer. Dating at my age is very stressful but I will not settle which is why I'm not married. Was engaged to a couple of frogs.

[@lisenguene5249]

Hello Fumi, Thanks a lot for your message.... It speaks to me because I feel the same way. I prefer, far more , to be alone rather than being with somebody who doesn't reach my standards and vice versa. love watching your show from France! I wish you all the best to you and your beautiful family ❤

[@MxMx_Art]

Aunty fumi are u ageing backwards, what is going on. You look so beautiful ❤

[@denisegraves2966]

please share the clip you had on the screen of courting / dating - thanks so much!

[@universallove878]

👍 Okay Fumi, you betta walk that runway❤

[@fi393]

I love this woman!! I have become a huge fan. And I agree with what you have said 100% #bringbackselfdignity!

[@rachelrache76]

Loving your dress Fumi's

[@ERIKAEDWARDS-s4b]

You better know your worth !!!! Sometimes you gotta get up and go !!!!

[@Tellasisreviews]

Pure truth, I agree with aunty Fumi that despite the sheninigans with the men, you will still get the treatment you deserve based on how you carry yourself. I do not negotiate anything that is unreasonable. I love myself too much for stupidity. But lol, I eat everything I order that is on the plate because food wastage is a no no for me but I don't drink 😃.

[@princessgobah4622]

"Not one of you should negotiate yourself!" Wow

[@colettemccullough1586]

Fumi you are a beautiful soul. ❤U. You are so looking like Cecily Tyson.

[@kimamethyst6338]

Another PSA and good practical information. I know many of these examples you gave Fumi right now. One person literally is the bread winner and come home to care for everything at home too. The guy literally does nothing. No work, no help with house chores, nor cooks meals . He completely benefits and isn't responsible for anything about real life. Another is married but the full load of everything is on her. I do know a guy who cared for a woman but also turned out to be with other men at the same time. It literally is a needle in a Haystack to find sincerity now a days. It's sad. Even with myself almost 40. It's all sad.

[@JillianPhone]

Why is April looking so DIFFERENT

[@tvs9978]

Because like all humans, she has aged and your face changes as you mature

[@marymyatt3004]

Braided Hair

[@JillianPhone]

@@marymyatt3004 Yup I think it's that as you mentioned it, I'm now seeing it.

[@saraib3219]

What's happening with the men is what women have allowed! This is why we need to have standards and boundaries, doing it God's way so that these men can be MEN again! And not making excuses for them, we are not their mama!!! Keep your legs closed ladies and leave these men to GOD and watch we will see these men get right! We have been rewarding bad behavior and need to take accountability for our role!

[@danacooper6723]

"YOU DO NOT NEGOTIATE ON YOU" FUMI

[@jennifermoleme2998]

I love this lady so much ❤❤

[@reneegranger6109]

Thanks!

[@jackie9166]

Thank you auntie Fumi. X

[@mdc4evainlightened190]

Facts Fumi. ❤let them know your value. #don'tnegotiateonyou

[@thatgirlmelecian7837]

Fumi is just a light in world ! You get me hope sister am 41 still not married been with same guy 4 15 years , he been separated for over 20 years still not divorce ! I know they don’t live together because visit him over seas ,he bought me two houses ,we go on trips all over the world,sent my daughter to private school ,my family and friends say a good man ,he is an excellent father ! But I get fed up waiting sometimes plus there is an age gap

[@GhislaineMutombo]

Did you not listen to the video? I hope those houses & cars are in your name, 41 & waiting on a married man is crazy work.

[@Barakamengi1]

​@@GhislaineMutomboMy thoughts exactly. 41 and being with a man for 15 years and he's not divorced 😢. I hope those properties are in her names but i can't. Blessings to you.

[@coralynfraser9709]

Wise advice!! Love your channel & style - classy lady ❤

[@globalconcern4995]

Well said, Fumi, Well said.

[@Nicholentaylor]

Your laugh is so infectious 😂😂….I couldn’t help but laugh along ❤

[@didibjones]

FUMI!!! MAMA 😮YOU ARE LOOKING FABULOUS!!! ❤❤❤