👀 WHY ARE ALL THE USA 🇺🇸 WEST AFRICAN YOUTUBE GIRLIES DIVORCED??? 👀 SISTER-2-SISTER

[@Diamondvale74]

My mum always told me not to covet other people’s relationships because we don’t know what’s happening behind close doors. They are human too.

[@sharlaamysamuel]

Sound advice!

[@tanishanightingale]

Agreed

[@sheilacarter3806]

It is their fault to idolize someone. Do not blame that person. Be happy for people and keep it moving. Seek christ

[@vuyelwancube9538]

Mothers need to share with their Sons what they share with their Daughters. These men think their mothers were happily married

[@carrington2949]

Don’t get me started on their mythical grandmas. 😂

[@libfuzzy4629]

No some of these men know that the fathers were no good

[@DaughterOfKia]

I tell my son everything. He is a better man than his father.

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

Most of their mothers endured. Their surnames are endurance.

[@TheParadisebird]

Oh, this is a good one!

[@temitopeej8407]

Nobody should be living in misery. And divorce is not failure.

[@beautybonvoyage8624]

Well technically it IS a failure of marriage BUT its not the end of the universe. And you are right people shouldn't live their lives in misery just for the concept of marriage or to impress society.

[@LilDrummergurl48]

It also bugs me how quick people are to blame women for divorce. Maybe the man was acting terrible, and she didn't want to take abuse. We don't know.

[@clayheartstudios]

Divorce is failure. Stop trying to redefine definitions.

[@GGGG-uj1no]

@@clayheartstudiosdivorce is a dissolution of marriage not failure..stop redefining words

[@Kimberly_97]

@@GGGG-uj1no 😂😂😂the marriage failed, it is something thats supposed to last forever and it didn’t so it failed. Period

[@Aeriyana123]

I’ve been married for 37 years and it is a lot of work, patience, understanding, compromising, respect and love. There are days we don’t like each other but the love and respect for one another always brings us back together as one. We learned a long time ago you are going to have those days and it is okay. My husband is my best friend. He comes before everyone and he feels the same way. We do everything together but we do take time to ourselves just to be silent. Listen not just hear your spouse. The art of listening is a real thing. Good luck to all of you in relationships.

[@sharlaamysamuel]

Amen! It’s nice to hear about people making it work and learning to communicate effectively.💖

[@Timenowistoact]

28 years here. You can’t be self conceited or selfish if you want to be married. The good the bad and the ugly we weathered it all 😂. And we still love each other like crazy. This generation is not ready for the sacrifice. It’s a shame.

[@shaypope4732]

Marriage shouldn't be a one-way sacrifice though so glad I get for the bullshit

[@LeratoRobyn]

I genuinely love everything Ronke said. I got married in my early 20s only for a short period of time. I left because of physical abuse from my ex. I resonate deeply with what she said. I've just hit 30 and I thank myself everyday for leaving that marriage.

[@VBoo459]

Ronke said it PERFECTLY and she was literally cheated on I believe. I think, personally, that these West African girlies in the US are getting divorced because now they are refusing to deal with shit that their mothers would've accepted and stayed married to. Some women are being the breadwinners and also meant to be 'submissive' its craziness. Many of us now are not trying to live like this with the bitterness. Unfortunately many of us are marrying the WRONG type of men orrrrr many are not even built to be wives and they're marrying men who shouldn't be husbands (*cough* Korra...*) and that is okay, not everyone needs to be married abeg. But my in opinion this is the matter.

[@TheeQuirkyPanda]

Ronke also hinted at physical abuse. She went through a lot.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Didn't Korra CHEEEEAT?

[@coollikedat]

A successful marriage takes two. Two responsible and determined adults.

[@euniceizevbigie7975]

Marriage is not for the faint-hearted. it is not an easy institution to enter into and doing it in the public eye while everyone is scrutinizing and picking you apart makes it twice as hard.

[@jahmekmi2165]

Love alot of the people staying in marriage are faint hearted. They'll stay because of others opinion, desperation, low self esteem etc. A lot of emotional batter bruising

[@coollikedat]

Correct.

[@clayheartstudios]

Marriage is easy, people just complicate it. People just want unrealistic expectations.

[@rethsen8146]

Marriage is extremely easy. People are selfish

[@Sandrapsgenxtra]

Divorced women aren’t ‘baby mamas’. I understand the curiosity though because they share everything when things are well.

[@gailainsley6939]

Exactly that was wild 😅😅

[@GGGG-uj1no]

Yes they are🙄..you literally are the mother to someone’s baby..dating, married, or divorced you are a babymama/babydaddy..THERES NO DIFFERENCE.😂😂..if you have a child with your ex (girlfriend/boyfriend, wife/husband) they are either referred to as the child’s mother/ child’s father or your baby mother / child’s baby father

[@nonod5467]

@GGGG-uj1no Are you a baby mama? There is a big difference. One couple committed the other did not.

[@Aj.Sarp1]

​@GGGG-uj1no there's a prefix "ex" so that's ex wife

[@Mspowell30]

@@GGGG-uj1noexactly what about those who are divorced or married

[@deboraed5557]

I'm going to turn 27 in 2 months time and I'm happy to have watched this ... Lord knows I am at peace with beeing Single at the moment. I grew in a Christian home and know the pressure of getting married... espacially when everyone around you os getting married, having kids etc... I do believe in getting married once and then it's till death do us apart ... today was a day where I felt the lonelyness and pressure .. and this Video calmed me down and reminded me, that the Lord is in control... its not a race..but a journey 🙏🏾

[@nilotn]

I’m 34 and my mom says let be what shall be

[@Tessy29k]

Honestly don't rush your life. You will be fine.

[@stephlon6757]

This girl is the type of friend I STAY AWAY FROM . Gossips are vipers. "I’m not a ‘gossiper’ but we need to know why and be all in your business". First of all, who is ‘WE’ ? You & the voices in your head or your ancestors?

[@feyi4103]

Very very dangerous type of “friend”

[@shaypope4732]

Yup this my middle sister had to learn the hard way

[@rosidy-may]

Truth 😂

[@mmakopamakwela]

Divorce is certainly not an easy option but sometimes you have to choose your children and your mental well-being.

[@NileGoddess]

Absolutely

[@shirleyvanarsdalecrabtree2880]

Neither of my divorces were tedious. My husband(s) knew when they’d blown it. Drugs, other women…NO WAY!!! And around my children….NOPE….BYE!! No one goes into a marriage thinking about divorce, but shyte happens. Now I no longer have that stress and tension in my home. Single for over a decade now. I wouldn’t mind having a male friend, but never to live with, ever again. You younger women will just have to live and learn because nobody can tell us anything until we’ve had our own experiences. I’m wishing for the best for you all🙏🏾😊🙏🏾😊

[@stephlon6757]

Both cheats and drug users … respectfully, but it seems like you had a type, that were good at hiding that they did drugs or You thought you could change. Either way , I hope people can take from this , no one can change an adult , and it’s best to stay away from anyone who does drugs, recreational or not.

[@thehoneydeev]

@@stephlon6757your assessment of the root causes for her 2 failed marriages is a bit hasty, no? 👀 js

[@libfuzzy4629]

@@stephlon6757 true but some people are completely demonic they’re good at being deceptive you’d be surprised some of the things people are hiding

[@clayheartstudios]

You knew what you were getting into. You chose to be with those guys.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@@clayheartstudiosobviously not

[@queenie4837]

Great advice - keep your marriage private and don't allow people into it, don't be a people pleaser with your relationship. Divorce is painful & expensive. It can make as well as break you, don't take such decisions lightly. Thank you Fumi - you look beautiful!

[@serenity1255]

When you get divorced you are not a baby mama.

[@Latte-girly90]

No, but you are a single mom. which is why women need to not be so quick judging other women

[@Studio-ch3qc]

@@Latte-girly90no you are a single woman, single moms do it all on their own

[@libfuzzy4629]

@@Studio-ch3qcthat’s unless the man completely abandons his duties are passes away then your a single mother .

[@deltaduke8648]

Single mother,baby mama if you are a woman taking care of your child / children alone, you are in the same boat you share similar intersections. Get off your high horse

[@Untitled0752]

@@deltaduke8648exactly she trying to make herself higher than the women she probably looked down on and talked about now she’s one of them 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

She’s right about African men divorcing and turning into sassy pants, Simon Guobadia..

[@Raetalkss]

I wish we spoke more about successful marriages. Marriage is beautiful it is an opportunity to learn, grow, laugh, celebrate, build and MORE. These days several do not prepare for marriage as well as they should (both males and females) and focus on the wedding day and not the marriage. I think people should speak to those who are happily married before taking the step, ask the hard questions, pray, look beyond mere externals and look at the heart and character of the one you want to spend your life with. Also, as Fumi said. keep your marriage PRIVATE. It is a bond between you, your husband and God.

[@rasheenas_show1187]

*Fumi I LOVE the new intro!*

[@FaridaDawkinsYY]

Yes, I wanted to make this exact comment!!!

[@kjack3211]

I'm 35yrs now and divorced due to infidelity and a bunch of other problems and I see you as my fabulous big sister. Many blessings to you 🙏❤️

[@vlouis89]

I watched PeakMill’s latest video and she mentioned her husband and going out on dates with him so I don’t think she is divorced.

[@deyojames1728]

Me too

[@LoveiDora]

With 3 kids!

[@ayshahphiri8083]

He actually posted her on his Snapchat on Friday it was her birthday! DEFINITELY DID NOT SEEM AS DIVORCED POSTS TO ME! !!!!!!!!!

[@feyi4103]

Exactly, she’s not divorced. People need to get their facts straight and mind their business before coming out to say whatever

[@BeverlyAdaeze]

I was thinking the same thing. So glad someone said it

[@nickysunshine8734]

She mentioned Jackie , she has been engaged for 20 years 😂….so she should not be in the conversation.

[@duchesseebene1273]

Her first marriage failed. It's reasonable for her to take all her time before walking down the aisle again.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@@duchesseebene1273divorce is not a failure

[@carolbryant1855]

You offer so much wisdom, Fumi. You're like a therapist in these KZbin streets. Let the session and fabulousity begin! Living and loving all that you do!😊

[@feyi4103]

Peakmill is not divorced. Now I see why influencers/ celebrities take legal actions when false news are spread.

[@iretiadaramola9381]

Many ladies want to be married but are not ready to do what it takes to be a wife. And many men also does not have what itctakes to be a husband.

[@darlenemoragne-sheaff5794]

Marriage is not for the meek. INDEED! It's a blessing that also requires A LOT of sacrifice. And I pray more married women are honest with single women about what marriage is TRULY all about.

[@rebahenderson211]

Thank you Fumi ❤ Young ladies stop letting the public into your private lives, period. ❤

[@droosyg252]

This woman is out of control. How is it her business to know why those couples got divorced, if they did? She also seemed to get some satisfaction from it, as well. Very sad!

[@debbieshuaib8467]

Yup. She definitely did

[@sassyboke9310]

On top of that she lacks fabulousness 😂… The audacity she had to demand details of her marriage status and claiming at the same time that she isn’t happy about her divorce is crazy! I admire how calm peakmill is with her response…

[@jahmekmi2165]

Yes, she's sick. Sounds very jealous.

[@opheliaazure4930]

I don’t like her…she sounds toxic.

[@charchar5887]

God bless you!! I looked and listened and knew all I needed to know. She seems to have no life so because why soo much energy on other people?

[@damselinadress2069]

She is thriving on the misery of these women she speak of. She is salivating over the gossip. How about of positivity, love and support to these women. Is she divorced? This is so trifling, grow up.

[@stephlon6757]

She’s giving monitoring spirit vibe 🥴

[@LilDrummergurl48]

And I want to point out that she seems to want us to think that it's happening because they're west African. I think she has some discrimination issues.

[@sunflowerangel]

Exactly! Like, why do you want to know!! If they didn't air it, they don't want it out there. This is pure witchcraft

[@shaypope4732]

Yup I don't like it at all

[@Tessy29k]

She's not got enough going on in her own life poor child😂

[@NileGoddess]

Shaming divorced women .Women have along way to go

[@taraninanigui4441]

I’m living and loving for the fabulousoty I love Mrs. Fumi.

[@maryjane2965]

Sis you are putting this 44 old Sister to shame lol.Look at that skin, those arms😳🤩❤️*staring at the weights lying in the corner covered with dust* 😂😭

[@mosesthomas3976]

I literally go on to hear you speak. You’re such a breath of fresh air. A lot of time I’m scared of my own reflection. Thank you darling. ❤❤❤

[@katlegomhlauli8423]

Am just shocked at how this woman (from that TikTok clip)is so entitled.. how do you fix your mouth and say “I just want to know why you got divorced” my goodness the audacity the entitlement got me throwing my wig on the floor damn!!! Anyway I love you Fums

[@veronicaglouster1713]

i think the sentiments are...when you people to create a platform, to sell your life and storeies , you gather viewers who invest in those platforms or stories. Lets face it, wihout them they will not make money out of views and clicks . So when things fail people need an explaination. Not only when u want them u pretend viewers are not how u live your life by. Entitlment on both ends if u ask me.

[@trianna2008]

I don’t think it’s unreasonable. This is what happens when you make your relationship a large part of your brand. The viewers feel obligated to be a part of it. Easy to open a door but difficult to close. My least favorite part of her whole video is her pretending she doesn’t love gossiping. Clearly she does or she wouldn’t have been begging for this info, especially to specific name. The fact that she called out someone even with the disclaimer that “I know you’re a private person; we never really heard about your husband”. So why do you think you should learn about this now? But I think this is a natural thing. For the last several decades, we’ve been pushed this narrative of marrying is the ‘happy ever after’ and it kind of stops there. This is what happens after the fairy tale ends, and this is something many of us hadn’t learned

[@nishashawn2021]

There is an element of entitlement, but it's also a element of delusion on the KZbinr side as well. These ladies basically create reality shows of their lives on KZbin. Don't suddenly act shocked that people still want to know...the good , bad, and ugly.

[@Tessy29k]

She clearly doesn't have enough to focus on in her own life that's why she is so obsessed with random youtubers divorces.😂

[@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis]

Marriage is work. All that superficial mess don’t matter at the end of the day. West African women aren’t staying in struggle love marriages like their elders and ancestors did. That bs is over with starting yesterday.

[@FAQsofLife]

Who is this lady calling ex-wives with children “baby-mamas”?!🙄 They are not on the same level!! I said what I said! 😒

[@Latte-girly90]

In her head they are the same. I feel like she thinks married women are better than being unmarried. So now she's “confused” why these so called better women are now single mothers too 😑 that was shady af

[@NileGoddess]

She is delusional and ignorant!

[@hotarugracequeen7349]

I like the visual on the intro, but where is the music? We need something more!

[@jnu0003]

Yesss! I love thé former intro. It’s unique to only her and a symbol - anyone who hears it knows you are watching Fumi

[@enitanh2734]

only a dying man will tell you why he's dying, it now up to you to make sure you don't die the same way or help others not die that way. yes everyone likes tea but know that in that tea is someone's reality and learn from it. Thank you Mrs Fumi For the advice

[@Bumbiii987]

She needs to why they divorced? These are private issues and these content creators don’t owe anyone explanations. Mind your business!

[@MrVgold]

If you put your life on the internet.. They want to know the good the bad and the ugly

[@lobi5104]

Hmmm...idk if I agree. Of course they don't owe us anything, but nobody would be in their business if they didn't put folks in it. People parade their families and sell viewers a happy image of their lives, but when things go left, they cling to their right to be private. The selective privacy things is a little annoying.

[@globalconcern4995]

Once you make your life public...people will ask.

[@cherie0882]

To be fair, they made their marriage and family public. They don’t have to make why public, but it’s not unreasonable to wonder what happened. This chick seems like a hater tho. Getting a divorce does not make you a “baby mama” imo. She was too quick to label them that.

[@woodswal]

They put their business out there. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ng-r8765]

So she can’t remember their names but she’s here to due report on their divorces 🙄.

[@Tessy29k]

She's what we call a monitoring spirit. Pure evil eye

[@elaineelaine2733]

She said she's not nosey but wanna know why PeekMill got divorced!

[@deyojames1728]

I don't think peakmill is divorced

[@Pheistyherbalist]

She’s hilarious and delusional for that statement!! 😮😆

[@xhalted1]

EXACTLY! She said "I'm not nosy BUT..." That "but" just said "nah you're nosier than nosy!"

[@nadinetapsoba8435]

Peakmill is not even divorced she talked about going to date with her husband in her recent update video. So funny

[@juliettsstyleglam]

Peak mill never said she got divorced.

[@SisiYemmieTV]

The points you made 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@ritahnabukenya5032]

Ronkeraji said it well. God bless her and her new journey

[@jackiepeavy5505]

I agree with both the curiosity and glad the West African girlie explained. One as a KZbin audience family member it does feel like a closeness, and we want to know because when your heart breaks ours does too. Secondly, she is right in the generational gap. Grandmothers and mothers tolerated narcissist and bad behavior from spouses or significant others way too long today the younger generations have more resources to identify toxicity early on and eliminate it from their life.

[@ThreeFMain]

New sub here. Glad you were suggested to me! I am in my 30s … so it’s good to have a big sis who is wise.

[@theneverknowgirls]

welp as a newly turned 30 years black woman in the U.S., my God and his word come first ( always), second to my health .....for over 10 years I've been seeing and hearing all types of crap between women and men of all cultures. but the african American to African culture with dating and marriage and relationships always has some type of struggle going on...its exhausting...i dont want to date because of it all. really id rather have my health and peace. our relantoinships can be so messy .just sad

[@delighteze5980]

In knowing what I know now. Thank GOD I never married early. Because I would have died of depression or divorce.

[@bolu101]

People are really obsessed with negativity. The way she's even saying it like it hundreds of them meanwhile she couldn't even mention up to ten smh.

[@Judahbepraised]

Things NEVER look as they seem behind closed doors. There can be so much different issues going on within the relationship/marriage so, why should they share it with the world? Things like this is private because so much could of happened which had a mental, emotional and psychological impact on that individual and they don’t want to share it- also, people are to quick make judgments. If the individual wants to share what they went through because they believe it can help others, good for them but, don’t be asking people to share their PRIVATE AFFAIRS.

[@fakeidonthaveahandle]

If they share their wealth and other positive private matters publicly, then it shouldn't be surprising when it's expected that they share their negative as well. I don't think any parts of a private life should be publicized.

[@stephanyvargas9211]

Western woman over here (Hispanic to be specific) in the process of getting divorced from a West African and goodness I’m traumatized. I feel like women in west African culture are expected to withstand an endless amount of humiliation from the male gender and the men protected at all cost.

[@evaphillips2102]

Newly married. I literally cannot imagine having to deal with this learning curve in the public eye. It’s sad but it’s no surprise these couples didn’t last.

[@roseaddo6103]

I wonder if it’s Jealousy from seeing the wives make money online. And it’s hurting their Ego?? What y’all think

[@paulamugabi7320]

🤔🤔

[@TRUSTING_HIM314]

Ronkeraji is on point❤

[@iretiadaramola9381]

But the unfortunate thing is that many of them end up disturbing another woman's home.

[@MoJo-ng5ot]

Interesting. I don’t know any of those channels. I try not to follow relationship based channels. I do know Jackie from makeup.. she is still going strong. I hate to see people getting divorced.

[@keylove2663]

Wow, you are absolutely radiant! Your skin is glowing, and you look so incredibly beautiful.💐

[@real8551]

Social media have some of yall too invested and entitled to business that is not yours. Get a hobby

[@Stormie_Mcmends]

Auntie fumi, please do sister to sister once a week on these topics. Quick question i need your advice. My wonderful hubby likes the idea of his mom coming in to help us with her grand children if i want to go to work in the future. I don't like the idea. Please i need an advice.

[@newwineskin5494]

Why though?That's a great opportunity though.

[@khrstnsibley1]

Fumi you look effing fantastic💯 you said you were using a skin product in the beginning and I have to check the details because your skin is SKINNING💯💥💥💥👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@lizettemuna3234]

Fumi, thank you for keeping it real. 🙌🏽

[@evekane2423]

Thank you Auntie Fumi for always sharing deep, and realistic knowledge to all of us. I am 31 years old, an April baby too and we share the birth date *16th* and I am so private with my life. I don't share it online, I don't share it with no body either. My immediate family alone knows about me otherwise I do not share. And I agree when you say we're still young because personally I've realized it recently that there's so much I don't know yet 😂😂 especially when it comes to relationships. Very much single/celibate until God feels I'm ready to get married and I pray for myself and my future husband that may God trim/prune us where need be, prepare us, train us and give us the healing we need while we're still apart so that when we meet, we'll be good to go. Thank you.

[@chiikababii]

Aunty Fumi, can you please do a video on Sharon Ooja’s wedding and her husband who is apparently a multiple divorcee?

[@SophiaKendi]

Wait, what 😳😳 I can't believe this!

[@afuadankwaahowusu699]

You’re on to something!!!!!!

[@MsTerriH]

The audacity of this woman to ask for them to tell us why they got divorced is crazy to me.

[@SimplyYewi]

Not the nosey type but she wants to know why they got divorced. How comical 😂. Marriage is not a walk in the park. 19 years in and I can’t even say much but I agree with the part Ronke said You do lose yourself at some point. Too many things to sacrifice in a marriage. Such a great advice aunty Fumi gives.

[@Naturallyliz41]

Fumi I love your channel! I’m on marriage #2 . First marriage lasted almost 20 years and almost killed me my children have been damaged because I didn’t leave for many reasons that were all wrong. I am so much wiser than I was in my youth. Marriage is definitely not for the weak and leaving a bad situation takes courage. My heart goes out to all of the young ladies out here living their lives in the public. 🙏🏽

[@MrJTham]

Social media addiction, entertainment, envy and obsession go hand in hand. People entertaining you are not your family.

[@nia3543]

This is something else. It's alot...we aren't taught to be friends with our partners first. We aren't taught to not lose ourselves. If we're independent we aren't taught to or told that at some point we'll have to loosen our grip on that independence. Not lose it completely but Girl allow that man help you sometimes. We aren't taught or told so many things and if we come from homes without a father in place then Lord help, we definitely have to figure stuff out on our own because Mama don't have time to show us or teach us anything...she gotta work to pay the bills Society and social media dangerously influences some...alot of younger women and men and they go into marriage not really grasping what it encompasses. They go in for the wrong reasons and with the wrong attitude not having learned their roles and what it is God created you to be as a woman, and wife same for the men as a man in general not to mention what it is to be a husband. 🤷🏽‍♀️ And the enemy is sitting back loving every second of it because we end up doing his dirty work for him not knowing that's what we're doing. Sheesh...its a lot. It's so sad.

[@esthersbeautysecrets4541]

You look fabulous Fumi... we'll said! I'll see you sooner than later 😘

[@sweetestscooby]

Aunty Fumi!!! The FDV at the beginning of the video!!! I lived, I loved!!!

[@parishers6351]

Fumi, you did share the story before about the actor who got the news of his mom’s passing. That got me so choked up because the pressure to keep it together while the world is watching is not easy.

[@Princesschronicles17]

Peak milk is not divorced she said so in her last video

[@zolabison2744]

Love you Fumi all the way from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 ❤❤❤❤

[@maddybee4523]

I have my ticket, I am so excited that I will see you and also meet you. I am 71 probably will be the oldest person there, but I don’t care. I have been watching you for a few years now, and I love your content and yourSpirit, Continued success

[@raindrops1942]

Why anyone would be interested in who is divorced is beyond me.. so now that you know… then what??? Her life must be really boring.

[@Tessy29k]

Right, she seems so sad to me. Not everyone lives an interesting life anyway she lives through youtube

[@uncommonfavor674]

Totally agree with Fumi. The less you share, the less that can be considered. Mind your business by keeping it off social media. Keep that same energy whether you marry or divorce.

[@NeneBlessing]

You looked absolutely stunning 😍

[@WinoraSmith-h6c]

Fumi, thank you for the advice.

[@lobi5104]

I love Naturally Temi so much!! Her and her husband, Lanre, were goals. I was so shocked when they got divorced 💔

[@goodvibezvideomashup]

God bless everybody here positive energy blessings❤❤❤❤❤

[@berlawberlaw1025]

😂None of your business why they got divorced. These people are public figures but that does not mean they have to divulge every inch of their personal life.to anyone.

[@bolu101]

Exactly!!!

[@henriettahenrietta2047]

I’m living and I love Mrs Fumi

[@CaviarPlusPLUS]

🎉 Loving this!

[@victorybeginsinthegarden]

Jackie still not married?

[@Mack462]

Beautiful articulate young woman good for her!

[@francettabaddie7498]

I feel all women of color are strong women because of the no Good Men we have in our lives but don't get me wrong there are some good men out there not a lot but there are some😢

[@beautybonvoyage8624]

Yup, if u not strong I black women world ur won't survive best believe that many of us would love to be able to relax and know business has been handled. The few men isn't the standard...

[@triadholisticliving2369]

This right here! ❤

[@user-mz3sw2qp6z]

Maybe as BW we should check ourselves first, develop our self esteem and take responsibility.

[@serwahprempeh3466]

They might have their reasons girl, marriage happens and so is divorce, life goes on without having to explain anything to anyone period.

[@amaris1117]

When a grown woman says girlie, kill me every time

[@amaris1117]

Not fums . I'm saying in general.

[@queenie4837]

In a consultation with my Gynaecologist, he called me girlie....

[@grandesource6338]

Oh wow!! What a wisdom!!

[@kateokereke7047]

New subscriber here and the skin is skinning

[@Dolsie-tv6mh]

Maybe no privacy. Putting all their business out on social media might of caused a strain in their relationship. Maybe.

[@kimberlyrodriques818]

So true Fumi. Love the dress and you are glowing. Looking very healthy and fabulous

[@chandram6176]

So much wisdom!!!!!!! And that dress!🤩❤❤❤

[@kimpossible5939]

The fact that she keeps saying she doesn’t gossip and isn’t nosey whole asking these questions is diabolical

[@PhatCat-n8g]

“I’m not a gossiper and I’m not nosy” Then proceeds to be both!😂😂😂

[@EdenAdele]

What a fitting intro for you, Fumi!! Love it!! #AJewelForAJewel 💎💎💎

[@idorenyinIbanga__]

I really want to keep certain about my life private. This things is messy trust me

[@gailainsley6939]

How is being single not easy? Wow. People are truly co dependent its crxy to me 😅😅😅

[@nellynell1807]

Great point thanks for explaining this stuff..❤😊

[@valeo3508]

Aunty Fumi you are looking super good with your svelte body ohh it is making you looking even more younger,keep slaying Aunty Fumi

[@Nmas-Corner]

I literally asked my friend this the other day wowww it’s soo funny how we’re all thinking thesame thing. I was just scared that’s all. I just want to know what I’m getting into before I do

[@queenv4340]

Fumi u look very gorgeous

[@ItsYurGirlMzPayne]

I agree ma.. I really wann be married and pray for a great/ supportive husband..