Slut vs. Player

What's the difference between a slut and a player? What would you rather be? Subscribe here for more social experiments: bit.ly/13p4t5f
This social experiment is meant to explore the psychology behind these two concepts and how they are perceived by the public. Since I first analyzed the two terms, I pretty much assumed they meant the same thing, but I always thought it was cooler to be a player than a slut. Like I couldn't be a slut because I am a dude. This double standard was always fascinating so I thought I would test what the world at large interpreted these concepts as in this social experiment. The goal was, by asking people back and forth, to associate the two terms and see that they are not so different. In this way, hopefully we can shift the way we perceive them.
Players are cool and sluts are bad. But is that really the case? I'm always just trying out social experiments to challenge the status quo, so I hope you enjoyed watching this and it allowed you to take a step back for a second to reconsider what these terms mean and how they are used in our society.
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[@brendoyt1]

Its now known as "fuck boi" not "player"

[@marcomarkproductions]

"real nigga"

[@savagesleepy]

That word is cringe as fuck

[@recklessgamers69]

fuck Boi does not mean player.

[@scotty5448]

fuckboy means bitch basically not player

[@bassmazekry678]

I don't get why people feel proud when they're called a player.. It's not a fucking compliment

[@xijinping9576]

Hey, don't hate the player; hate the game

[@Kochos]

+Jack Goff what you on about brav?

[@xijinping9576]

Kochos It's (or was) a common expression. I guess you're not a millenial

[@shoaibiqbl]

+Bassma Zekry Yeah. Lets say Slut is for girls. Player for men. Men have a hard time getting girls (sexually) where as for women it's just easy. So player and slut are the same thing, for one its hard, for the other its easy. But there character is the same.

[@malveinbereal7157]

+Bassma Zekry It is!

[@partypantsk7705]

I really appreciate you bring attention to these problems in such a positive way! Thanks

[@xProtege7]

Just like the saying says, "A DOOR that is opened by many KEYS is worthless, but a KEY that opens many DOORS should be praised and has high value."

[@keirairish6996]

Dude your videos are awesome!! I find your ideas are original, idk how your channel hasn't gone viral yet

[@MsPeaceJagger]

I love how you "talk" about a topic without actually talking about it. You let the answers speak for themselves without judgemental comments. Keep up the good work!

[@ssafazadeh1759]

Whenever I watch your social experiments, I just think, people are so interesting! It's funny how you can just ask random people a question and learn so much from it..

[@arazija]

Finally a channel who give us the viewrs quality and not just stupid pranks. Some values there, keep it up!!

[@powell235]

People say it's a double standard, but really, it's not. It takes no effort for a woman to have sex with many men. If an ugly woman went to a bar, and shouted "I want sex," there would be a lineup of men around the block ready to go. A very good looking guy can go out and shout the exact same thing, and will be lucky if he doesn't get slapped in the face. For a woman to brag about having many sexual partners is like bragging about beating up a 5 year old. On the other hand, men have to "crack the code" to successfully attract many women to the point of having sex. For men, it's more like winning a fight against someone who is bigger than you. It is difficult, but far from unattainable. You wouldn't pat someone on the back with respect and say "nice fight" for knocking a toddler on their ass. But you absolutely would for someone who wins a fight against a worthy opponent. Don't get me wrong, I totally disapprove of "slut" shaming, and I don't care in the slightest if a woman wants to be sexually liberated, and sleeps with every man in sight. But just know, that it's not a challenge the way it is for a man, and for that reason, it is absolutely not a double standard.

[@rnbedits5609]

hit the nail on the head 👏👍

[@TheFatoud]

It's not about that tho. And that says more about men than it does about women. It's about the fact that guys can sleep around and face no judgement and a girl can do the same and be labelled a slut. So because the guy went threw more trouble it's acceptable? That doesn't make much sense to me.

[@jamesk1564]

A key that opens any lock is a master key A lock that is opened by any key is a shitty lock

[@snnadede001]

great analogy

[@stephaniei.3424]

+James K go home grandpa

[@Rosumisorimu]

+James K A key that opens too many locks will eventually break....

[@jamesk1564]

Rosumisorimu this is too deep for me to handle

[@jamesk1564]

Sorry im not gonna read all that

[@sosa.6k]

the main problem wit the world is we all want to have sex and when someone gets more than you we call them names like a third grader if your a girl who sleeps around no problem if your a guy who sleeps around again no problem as long ass your not leading people on

[@chocolatecharley99]

ian kitonga ^^^^^^^

[@chocolatecharley99]

ian kitonga Thank you. Some guys hust get intimidated when a woman has more experience ot gets more. It also makes some guys mad when they expect a girl they thought was a slut to sleep with them and she doesn't. News flash, women who have casual sex still have standards (personality and attractiveness) and have to be in the mood. lol we are all human

[@GTA5Player1]

I think I finally understand. It's about quality. So like, a slut will sleep with anyone and a player just sleep with people they want. This makes so much sense.

[@audreymcmillan2552]

You're literally one of my favorite youtubers and your hair is amazing!

[@powpaow]

I think it can hurt people either way. If someone have a crush on you, and you just sleep around... doesn't feel like emotions are so important. But people can do what they want, as long as no one gets hurt

[@akapopp7]

I'm ready for that 100k subs. You need to do something crazy when it happens

[@Deliciousniggasauce]

I hate how people say "just don't sleep around. Have some respect." It isn't even disrespectful to sleep around. Why care?

[@mandoball1980s]

I have a rotation that I manage and I'm quite embarrassed to admit, but being with multiple women keeps me grounded and in positive balance with the world. I wish I could be exclusive with just one but that would just be insane. Embrace your taboo!

I love this video! Slutshaming really sucks and it's great that you incorporate different opinions and such, even though the people who say that being a slut is worse than being a player don't really have any arguments. It's just a result of female sexuality being a tabu for so long. Also it's interesting to see how so many people just automatically connected the word "slut" to a female and "player" to a male.

[@TheChrisey]

Yes, a male can be a slut, and a female can be a player too. Slutshaming is completely fine. Sluts are usually referred to people dressing like a pervert, which is what a lot of women do when they call it fashion. Transparent shirts to show their bras and tits, clevage, shorts that cuts into your ass, etc.. That is considererd cheap and called slutty. Most men don't do that, that's why mostly women fall under it. A player is someone manipulating others for sex, naive teenagers/young adults or other desperate people are usually the victims. Being a player requires a lot more effort, good looks, a good game, patience etc. I'm not saying one is better than the other, but there are differences, and there are obvious reasons for why most sluts are women, and players are pretty balanced between men and women.

[@scottemmons1110]

@@TheChrisey diffrence is men have to work at being a " slut". Women just have to say yes to 10 of the 50 guys in active competition trying to bang her. Its not the same thing. You act like women are the chasers and men are the chased. A broke ass man with no game that looks like Danny Deveto can't be a player OR a slut. Hes lucky if he gets laid by another ugly girl twice in his life. A broke ass girl with no social skills that looks like Rosanna Barr can have ten guys at her door taking their pants off inside a half hour or less. Ordering dick is faster than ordering a pizzia. There are reasons for the double standered. Quit acting like its the same thing.

[@scottemmons1110]

Im not going to chase a girl or try to convince her im worth dating job interview style that has already gave it up to 60 guys. SHES not worth the effort.

[@Lionhearted626]

Thanks for the new video Cordero!

[@inesbenzerdjeb7889]

Hey! I'm following you for a while now and I share your video with the most of people i can because you have a good influence on this world, thank you! love you xx

[@ogiola]

No joke tho.I could help but look at Cordero the way he looks at the people answering.He eyes looked very intriguing for what they had to say.😸👍🏼

[@CourtneyWohl]

Such a good experiment!

[@harounben342]

+Courtney Lundquist are you trying to get some of his Cordero ?!

[@lostangelwings5953]

I agree with the definition that a slut is someone who sleeps around with people, but sometimes people use the term slut to label someone who doesnt even have anything to do with sex. I know its not any of my "business" But having a lot of sex isn't the best thing.

[@SupahGass]

What's worthy of praise? A door that is opened by any key that is put into the keyhole or a key that can open any door it goes into?

[@SupahGass]

Yeah, that would make absolute and complete sense if our dicks would shrink every time we fucked and if human beings didnt learn from experience making us even better every time we are "sharpened".

[@bira4802]

DAMNNN!! Cordero back at it again with those arms 🙃🙃🙃😍

[@RashawnOverAll]

It's the same thing and at the end of the day nobody won't give a fuck. Be what u want to be. Fuck what anybody else say about you.

[@lionelmerz]

first one "you should ask her" omg i'm dieing 😂😂😂😂

[@grawpmort]

You kind of remind me of Freddie Mercury (in the best way possible)! You ever been told that before?

[@SuperShmuck]

For me, the difference between a player and a slut is sex. Players (both men and women) are people who date a lot of people. Sluts (again both men and women) are people who have sex with a lot of people. This is the definition people should adopt, in my opinion. But what do I know, I'm just a man.

[@theotherone3855]

Honestly, it depends. If no one's hurt and people are cautious then I don't see anything wrong with it.

[@phantrash365]

The word "slut" was originally used to describe a woman who didn't keep her room clean lmao

[@BoStErO1905]

What kind of camera do you record with? the quality is awseome

[@baipattu4972]

Roman why is there a squirrel on your head???

[@KassiaK]

Aw yay finally a real social experiment

[@KidWithThePen21]

hey bro, i think your hairstyle is really dope tbh

[@_christina_xoxo_2303]

Same

[@123456vectra]

1:45 the only wise person in this video. player/slut is the same concept, but based of the fact that men are better, thus are allowed to do it.

[@andrewsmith74]

One girl said she used to be a player - but she can't have been, because you have to be male to be a player.

[@andrewsmith74]

***** Where's the indication that she had lesbian sex?

[@andrewsmith74]

***** She can't have been a player - you have to be male to be a player.

[@Vanessa-ms2li]

To me, being a slut is just as bad as being a player. According to what I hear, being a slut is labelled as a girl sleeping around with many guys. Being a player would be the same, but reversed gender, meaning that it is a man sleeping around with many women. And, if anyone were to ask me if I'd have a preference (no matter what my gender is), I would say neither. Those are only labels that have been used in a derogative way to insult people of their behaviours. If that person is pleased with their way of living, let them be. You might not like that behaviour, but there is no need to give a label to that individual.

[@EllotusFreeholy]

Remember the movie 'Deliver us from Eva'? LL Cool J's character in that was a player, according to my understanding. So my thought would be that a player is someone who see's women as a challenge, that is, just to sleep with them but not get emotionally attached. I don't think there really is a female equivalent, at least not in American culture because the vast majority of so called men in this culture are not really that much of a challenge to get into bed. A slut, on the other hand, seems more like a nympho, or maybe it just seems that way because most women tend to be somewhat more particular about who they sleep with, whereas a slut is not.

[@cristianoronaldo9833]

your videos are amazing,where do you make them

[@flowers2312]

great video most of them responded very well! 😊

[@aus2tigran]

a lock that gets opened by a lot of keys is a shitty lock, a key that can open a lot of locks is a master key

[@aus2tigran]

@Angel Noel you're in denial

[@aus2tigran]

@Angel Noel yet women are called "whores" and "sluts" where as men are called "studs","macks" and "players". Because sex for men and women are completely different. Stop deluding yourself, you are wrong

[@dinalefdawi3937]

Just be whatever you are cause in the end nobody cares.. And people talk you can't shut them up even if you didn't do anything wrong in your life they would still say you act innocent or whatever so ... Do whatever you want and be whatever you want :)

[@AdrienneFinch]

someone has shaky hand syndrome 🙋🙋🙋

[@AdrienneFinch]

+Adrienne Finch but the other guy has it worse to be fair

[@ajjimenez4701]

Only problem with players and sluts is its harder for them to be trusted in a real relationship, theyre so used to always talking to other girls/guys that they are almost never "loyal" which is where i think the problem comes in at. Like if a girl sleeps with a lot of guys ALL THE TIME (cause there is a difference between having slept with a bunch of guys occasionally cause everyone has needs and just sleeping with guys everytime you go out lol) i could care less but i dont think i could get myself to date them. Same the other way around for girls with guys who always go from girl to girl

[@mateiconstantinescu3445]

The greatest player was wilt chamberlain He got 20000 different women What a legend

[@AM-jx3zf]

00:40 exact definition

[@maisiekate4614]

01:36 omg but they're literally the same thing. This is the thing a slut (mostly used to describe a woman) is seen as someone who sleeps around and it's shameful but then if your a player (mostly used to describe a male) it's something to celebrate. And notice how nobody described a player as 'somebody who sleeps around' like they said about 'sluts' they all said someone who has lots of girlfriends / along those lines. Not saying it's bad to be either, do what you like, but the fact a slut is seen as different just baffles me.

[@DeclanTrippier419]

It is different because it's actually a lot easier for a woman to sleep around than it is for a man. I think it's a hard concept for women to grasp because they seem believe the dating experience is similar for men and women, it's not. First of all, usually the man has to approach and pursue the woman and make her comfortable enough to sleep with him. A man could be actively approaching various women and still get shot down dozens of times without even getting a number. All a woman has to do is filter out the suitors that she's interested in. Men very rarely get approached if ever. If a man isn't actively pursuing, then chances are he's not getting any.

[@izchelin]

you like the suns? What do you think about dbook?

[@ky9530]

Omg lol 0:15 I felt the shade lollllllllll ogmggg

[@z_ahraa8269]

Your purple shirt tho!!😻

[@nadine5613]

that girl was like ' i used to be a player' brush, u were a boy trying get girls?

[@singlemale6464]

Player is a Gold Digger.

[@cristianoronaldo9833]

99 % people are actually players

[@jason96]

great video!!!

[@ahmed3araby337]

In today's society, it's gotten more sexual where, sexuality media has spiked fro a stigma standpoint. Back then they had that as well, but not to this level we have today.

[@lpsofficial03]

I wouldn't be either because they're the same thing but with different names and genders

[@malveinbereal7157]

+Jørdanian Nah, woman should never compare their self to a man. Thats why we born diferent. No one wants a woman that ahve fucked a lot of guys and start something with her... no one wants their kids to come put from a dirty vagina where some dudes have fucked it. Big difference

[@eleniscofield5202]

They are the same thing .Stop fighting in the comments it makes me sad LOL

[@animista01]

Cord, a video about your tattoos...

[@NewWorldOrderFAIL]

players are always the Alphas. well mostly. fundamentally on basic terms both slut n players are same but actually they're two different concepts on other side's wavelengths

[@canyoujustnot5477]

0:14-0:18 ME WITH MY FRIENDS LOL

[@NikhilSimply]

love living the life of a playa

[@redaselk9415]

2.46 she's the only smart person in the whole video,they all fell in the trap but her

[@niz2nd470]

1:51 - you played yourself

[@ICanSeeItInYourEyes8]

HERE IS THE DIFFERENCE: In our society, it is a man's responsibility to initiate contact and create opprtunity, therefore, there is virtue and confidence in his ability to accrue multiple romances. For a woman on the other hand, there is an abundance of opportunity, therefore, the virtue lies in making herself unnattainable. The valuable man is the confident man and a woman of high value is the most unattainable. THIS IS WHY PLAYER DOES NOT EQUAL SLUT.

[@carsade]

wat u say is very silly, because if its ok for one to hunt the unattainable then when n how will contact be made...y is it that men have to have multiple romances at a time n not one at a time..if it were so that men are to make multiple romances and women to not then it would not be possible for men to have multiple romances...ur explanation is illogical and sexist...all these ideas were developed by man n it can change...nothing lasts forever

[@ICanSeeItInYourEyes8]

carsty You're making logical errors. Not all men make mulitple romances and in fact it is the woman who more commonly displays polygamous behavior. I was only describing why society views the inequality of these terms as such, not making statistical statements as it seems you understood it to be. In fact, you don't make very much sense at all and seem to have a personal agenda.

[@carsade]

***** lol im only using words u used in ur statement about men making multiple romances:"In our society, it is a man's responsibility .... there is virtue and confidence in his ability to accrue multiple romances. " thats wat ur initial statement said..i never said all men make multiple romances but questioned wat u mentioned in ur statement..u did not make it clear ur intention in ur statement...u then again in ur next statement made a generalisation that "women more commonly displays polygamous behavior". that seems to be ur personal opinion... sorry but here is the comment u made that i responded to: HERE IS THE DIFFERENCE: In our society, it is a man's responsibility to initiate contact and create opprtunity, therefore, there is virtue and confidence in his ability to accrue multiple romances. For a woman on the other hand, there is an abundance of opportunity, therefore, the virtue lies in making herself unnattainable. The valuable man is the confident man and a woman of high value is the most unattainable. THIS IS WHY PLAYER DOES NOT EQUAL SLUT where in this comment clearly show u just explaining what society thinks?...u sayin "in our society" does not give the impression of u sayin "our society's view is"....

[@carsade]

sorry but my only agenda was to respond to the statement u made... im sorry u did not express urself clearly n that i misunderstood

[@ICanSeeItInYourEyes8]

carsty If I had said "in our society" referencing to a foreign culture, it would be obvious that I was speaking of the values unique to that country. Thought it obvious, but no worries. But I will defend that there is statistical representation to support: "women more commonly displays polygamous behavior". Women on average have more than double the number of lovers than the average male.

[@hassanali9542]

if a fisher catches a lot of fish that makes him a good fisher. if a fish gets caught alot of times doesnt that make it a bad fish?

[@KarrieDreammind5]

Implying girls are always the ones getting 'caught'. What if I told you it's possible for a girl to notice a guy she likes first, approach him and try to get his attention and interest. If she manages to get him in the sac, whose 'achievement' is it, the guy's? Seriously?

[@DeclanTrippier419]

Most of the time it is indeed the guy doing the pursuing. Apart from social norms there's really nothing stopping a women from approaching but it's definitely a lot more rare of an occurrence. Ask around and see how often the average man gets approached, the answer is very little and for some maybe never. Compare that to the amount of times even a below average looking woman gets approached or pursued, the difference is quite drastic. The double standard exists because the playing field for men and women is not equal. It's definitely a lot easier for a woman to sleep around than it is for a man.

[@turkresul03]

i love your vids, you should come visit amsterdam!

[@alexiatorres5132]

did u know ur name in spanish means lamb ?

[@jumanahumoud8827]

Love this vid 🌸 Keep it going yo , u make me smile so thnx ..... being a player is more of playing with ppls emotions than their bodies... Which is worse Both of the words are almost have the same meaning bt we usually call the slut man a player which make it sounds cool and fun and the slut women a slut which make it sounds gross and disgusting .

[@r.fo.839]

Both words mean the same thing and can be used for either sex(not that I encourage it, I'm just saying). I think being a "player" is considered a good thing ONLY for guys. Generally, its much more difficult for men to have multiple sexual partners than it is for women. Of course for all generalizations there will be some exceptions. Also take to account that all through out time it was always men who have done the chasing. Reason why a guy can bang 5 chicks in one week and will barely get any backlash. But for a lot of people it isn't considered ladylike for a woman to seek sex, or at least be open about it. Probably why a girl who has many sexual partners will be looked down upon. A slut, by the dictionary definition, is not really a negative thing in my opinion. Honestly, if you aren't taking advantage of people and your partners have similar intentions as you, its all good lol. We all have needs, just some people require more to satisfy those needs. Real question is.. why do you care?

[@izzyberry1362]

It's no ones damn business who you have sex with as long as it's safe and consensual. I have never cringed so hard at what some of those people said.

[@sammarshal3373]

Cordero is so cute :) thumbs up if you agree :)

[@harley3114]

if I would invite you to Germany would you come?

[@sarahdavis5882]

your so amazing i love your videos 💕❤❤💚

[@aangpearce2700]

The more sex, the greater the chance of there being STI's

[@summerthesimmer860]

who else saw the dude in the back 🤣😂

[@didthatreallyjust]

until they try to steal ur SO!

[@zuzuz1889]

He's so attractive

[@amerawad2001]

they are both mean

[@maxmaya2553]

i dont mind being called a slut cause in the end of the day it the same thing as player yeah let us be sluts

[@babygirl-tb3zw]

He is hella hot. And those eyes got me like ..damn.

[@funtimez9098]

im a fuck boy and proud!!! #LongLiveF-Boys join my petition

[@mysza13011999]

exfuckingacly!

[@KT-vq3md]

First world problema

[@alyssa56]

YOU'RE SO BEAUTIFUL

[@Persian-Gulf.]

i sleep around a lot. I dont play with people's mind nor i give my body away for anyone.. i just like sex.

[@PositiveMe100]

Awww

[@kunikorandles2690]

btw player and

[@kunikorandles2690]

mean the same thing

[@jennyc6896]

this is total slut shaming why are men praised for having sex with more than one person, but women who do the same are shamed?

[@malveinbereal7157]

+Jennifer Carvajal woman should never compare their self to a man. Thats why we born diferent. No one wants a woman that ahve fucked a lot of guys and start something with her... no one wants their kids to come put from a dirty vagina where some dudes have fucked it. Big difference. Its like that and would be like that always. So being a slut/bitch its normal right? dont be a fool.

[@jennyc6896]

+Malvein BeReal None of what you said makes sense.

[@dianesanchez3485]

My twin brother is a player😂😁

[@sbhagawati8731]

2:13 He is so freaking hot !!

[@derek3106]

lol i dont believe in marriage, just casual inter-coarse

[@reioki]

Im a sluyer :)

[@urielhutch]

I'm a ... Hoe

[@crimsonspine3239]

ask jim jefferies

[@momotosso965]

It's a double standard. The two concepts are synonymous, only difference is that girls get Shamed for enjoying the same freedoms as "players". It's ridiculous how it's become a norm to vilify a woman's right to do what she wants to do when a guy gets praise for the same thing. If you shame one, you should shame both. If you praise one you should praise both. If you realize that what they do is none of your business, you should keep your opinions to yourselves. Basta.

[@memz8798]

You are out of your mind!!

[@akapopp7]

I'm ready for that 100k subs. You need to do something crazy when it happens