Social Media’s Impact on DATING & INFIDELITY

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[@samanthatrucka]

Y'all have the best podcast next to Joe Rogan imo. As a truck driver not only do you guys make my days better on the road but I get so much wisdom from these topics and guests. Keep going and please keep your integrity as you grow bigger

[@sinverrette9803]

You listen to Joe "I love saying Nigg*r" Rogan? Never understood how he still have black viewers .

[@scoopwilliams4963]

I agree and I'm also a truck driver

[@georgenock5210]

I agree I’m a truck driver myself

[@tamarasherley]

I'm not a truck driver but like the same shows fall asleep with them in my 👂

[@carlosT3000]

CAP

[@LadyK09]

If you caused the hurt you don't get to determine how long it will take for me to heal what you broke....📌

[@KimberlyLeighAnn]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 absolutely

[@kquestvision7248]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@SoldByCindyGen]

That part

[@sherileenlambert2784]

💯

[@melodyrose2885]

You can’t put a time frame on someone’s healing process. If you caused the pain and damage and suffering, you don’t get to put a time line on them.

[@kquestvision7248]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@0kitten00]

Facts!

[@nenajay3174]

I think Coach Ken is a much needed guest. His coaching is mostly common sense and things that we were taught growing up but clearly there is an audience who are ignorant to these things. And for those of us who know better already…reiteration is a good thing.

[@herelookinatu]

FINALLY, someone saying it's on the person who cheated. You made that choice, there are plenty of other options. People just want to place blame on someone else for their bad choice. Honestly I believe people choose to cheat because they know it will hurt the other and they are hoping that hurt will get the other to bend to their will.

[@renitaanderson406]

Yes!!!!!!! Cheating is a CHOICE!!

[@TrthBHld]

I hate when people say "I made a mistake." Mistakes happen in math problems or sentence structure; to put your body with someone else's is 💯 intentional selfish choice.

[@tobh007]

Emotional is deeper than a sexual connection

[@maddnyss]

That may be true, but sexual is more catastrophic in my opinion. Both emotional and sexual TOGETHER is like an atom bomb 💣

[@Mariekomax02]

Both bad. You went out of your way to do both… might be easier just talking and finding comfortable but to go meet someone and have sex, that’s wild

[@meesomebody2000]

True. Sex is sex but emotion is in your heart

[@TrthBHld]

Sex is NOT just sex; it's connecting a body and mind to someone else's on an intimate arousing level even if just using them to get off on. There's never zero connection. I think people just say certain sayings to try to make harmful things look better.

[@TrthBHld]

Depends on the person but in truth both are hurtful to that person and spouse/bf/gf. Evil is evil no matter the level

[@beverlythomas902]

To be honest I never took a cheater back. Once you’ve cheated, I can’t trust you nor look at you the same. I don’t care why you did it you can keep your explanations to yourself because if our relationship meant anything to you, you wouldn’t have done what you did. If you are a monogamous person and you are committed to your person, if they cheat the first time cut them out of your life for good because if you give them a second chance, they’ll continue to hurt you over and over again.

[@Afrolatinalexi]

Same here left on the spot....won't even speak to them any longer ..to me they fell off off the face of the earth

[@Mariekomax02]

Facts

[@renitaanderson406]

Excellent conversation, men!!!

[@flydollronda1926]

Wooo this was good, “the man didn’t say it to her, but he said it through his actions” 🙌🙌🙌

[@_elommusk]

Girl yessss THAT PART‼️

[@veeboss4853]

I don’t believe you should post each other on social media until we are very serious. I wouldn’t dare post a man I’m just dating, but I’m a lil old school 😊

[@36feefee]

So my husband cheated & was abusive. He could never come back. This marriage is dead. Yes I exposed the abuse publicly. He said I won’t take him back because I told everyone what he did & i’d look crazy. I said to him I will not take you back because of what you did. I’m not worried about other people. He can’t grasp that I won’t come back because of his actions. Why? Because everyone cheats! Other women have taken him back. They just cheat on each other. He found out that the one he married don’t function like that.

[@Vj9516]

Amen 🙏 and I also ended my relationship last month because of his social media bullish!t! I’m so glad you had the respect and courage to end this craziness! 🙏✨🙌

[@shilanx]

This was very well articulated and broken down! If you don’t understand these basics …man woooowweeee 🔥

[@KimberlyLeighAnn]

When in a committed relationship, ex’s should be blocked on social media and phone. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 If before commitment then it should be equal expectations. You want her to block him then you block her no matter how influential she was. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@chanceklein]

I completely agree with you on this . . . but what about the ex's they share children with? Just want to know what you think.

[@KimberlyLeighAnn]

@@chanceklein obviously she cannot be blocked but also an open conversation needs to be had about the dynamic. Believe it or not these relationships with significant other and the mother of your child can be cordial and respectful as long as everyone is clear on the priority, the child. All this fighting baby mamas and daddies, unnecessary, we’re all too grown not to be able to make these relationships cordial.

[@chanceklein]

@@KimberlyLeighAnn I agree 💯%

[@gogoldiego]

The best is to do right by each other because that creates a bond that can't be broken by anyone, ex, family, fruends, or any man or woman.

[@kae6250]

@@gogoldiego Exactly! I understand that there needs to be boundaries in relationships but if I have to tell you to block your ex, that is a indicator that I need to do some inner work and/or just leave the relationship because I do not trust you enough. I know that temptation is real, but if your partner wants to cheat then the fact is they will find a way to cheat.

[@epiphanyperry1877]

Some times the betrayed partner goes public to hold help themselves never return to the cheater. They want accountability partners to hold their feet to the fire in moments of weakness.

[@Christian900]

Trust Mountain is a great analogy of how infidelity works

[@Patrizia4Christ]

Tysean, I obviously don't know you but I have been following you guys and your podcast on here for a while now. I can see how you are growing and changing in such an evident and beautiful way brah! So proud of you. I hope you read this comment. Trisha

[@TGipson25]

Thank you for clarifying cheating is a decision you can't blame someone for your choice or lack of self control and poor character.

[@shuntarenee3594]

No one should have to ask there significant other to eliminate ex relationships!!!! That’s an automatic NO!!! Omg who does that!!! And why would you keep them as friends in your page!!! Look don’t give no room for the devil!!! NONSENSE OMG!!!

[@YesThatTasha]

I needed this episode to heal ❤the timing is crazy but thank you, guys. I'm joining the membership next week ❤

[@mistahjay8598]

Next week??? If something is pivotal in your life, join it now

[@YesThatTasha]

@mistahjay8598 techically this week.... funds all tied up, but first thing payday, I'm joining ❤️

[@ItsChristyLove]

@@YesThatTasha You have your priorities 100% in order. 👍🏾

[@HIWWPI_2024]

I love this episode of this podcast. Ken always touches on great topics, and he actually always provides actual solutions. ❤

[@gloriabanner2750]

Man, this was well thought out and constructive conversation. There's nothing healthier than men encouraging structured relationships 🙌

[@glendanesmith]

I love when Coach Ken comes. He always drop jewels.

[@Vj9516]

Social media is now low-key soft porn x! So many couples destroyed by this bs ! My ex was continuously watching young girls in bikinis and he was 57 years old (and I’m already 15 years younger than him!)… I am now building back my self-esteem and self-love and self-worth….. we live in a sick society. Can you also imagine the kids watching all of that crap online?!? I’m also a teacher and the things I’ve heard kids say is unbelievably crazy and scary!!!! Good luck to our young generation and their mental health! God save us 🙏✨

[@courtneymurphy1023]

Sounds like your situation is similar to mine. My husband is 58 and I'm 10 years younger than him. He had a problem with porn a few years ago. After we confronted the situation, he was doing good for a couple of years....until recently. I found out he has been liking reels on Facebook of scantily clad asian women in their bikinis, shaking their boobs and asses. I'm really hurt, disappointed and feel very disrespected. I'm sorry to hear that you are going through same thing. No matter how much they tell you they love you, it still hurts.😢

[@shuntarenee3594]

If you’re not married her body is hers.. only in marriage your body becomes hers and her body is yours..keep it 💯… TRUTH!!! And I knowwwww you guys had Pastors in the podcast “ you shouldn’t be out here having sex anyway” hmmmm

[@richardgonzalez6583]

Social media is toxic as fuck

[@Vj9516]

10000000% agree with you!

[@meesomebody2000]

Its just a tool. People are toxic. Same with guns. Its people

[@jailowe30]

The information Coach Ken shared was INVALUABLE!!! The gems he was dropping was ridiculous. I’m probably going to run this back again it was so good. Thank You for this platform. I am grateful I attracted it.

[@HardlyInitiated]

Boom!

[@Ricocase]

Na, social media incites many to become narcissists. People are becoming lovers of themselves and expressing disdain towards those that 'like (4 sex, not marriage)' them.

[@awomansstory.2019]

3:57. SOCIAL MEDIA is making it easy to find, secretly communicate, track down, follow and have affairs. This is my true story- My husband of 27 years cheated on our marriage with his married coworker, Maureen. they took “ business” trips alone that I didn’t know about. Their affair went on behind our backs for 1 year. MY FAMILY AND I FOUND OUT ABOUT THEIR AFFAIR ON OUR FAMILY VACATION! She was using her social media and apps to follow us! She knew where we were and what we were doing IN REAL TIME.

[@Juju-ki4wj]

Thank you for schooling him on the Jackson situation and cheating. She had every right to make it public. It’s never both people’s fault 🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@sunbright2245]

awesome interview I'm currently experiencing this in my relationship right now. Relationship over

[@Christian900]

Hyper Vigilance part is so true Couples can’t get part that part of a relationship which is why marriages fail Wow

[@keziyahyisrael9672]

I love coach Ken❤ I got rid of all social media. And it was a natural instinct for me, My man didn't tell me to get rid of it. I just didn't have no concern of other men and them inboxing me.💯

[@goodtrouble841]

the real issue is that social media is only a tool. it’s a curated fantasy …not real life. ya’ll struggle with social media bc you think & treat it as if it’s real and so you invest in making it more real to you vs. creating and investing in relational experiences offline. REAL LIFE and RELATIONSHIPS happen OFFLINE. period

[@cdnicole30]

Love this ❤️social media can be the problem. When dealing with new relationships boundaries have to be set for exs. But I can see still being cool but it has to be a conversation. And if it’s not ok then that’s something we have to talk about.

[@cdnicole30]

I don’t want anyone to try and control my social media. We can talk about the time spent, but don’t try and control others social media. And certain things are out of the question when in a relationship.

[@Justice098]

With social media it’s only a matter of time

[@ed000]

@42:28 minutes facts: I experienced that and every time I think about how the individual did to me,I see everything about a relationship/marriage as a lie.

[@granttonia]

I just watched the show ,and God is good and always on time.God bless all of you

[@Kristalwalker1972]

This made me sigh deeply. Great podcast. So much knowledge. But dating scares me.

[@sherileenlambert2784]

You and me both.

[@AikiraBeats]

Man, this episode had me on ten. We definitely need more dating coaches similar to Ken. Because I do feel like social media has hurt more relationships than anything else. With us having this easy access to each other, brings in doubt and insecurity. For myself, if you have a social media account, then I should have your passwords and you should have mine, so that way we aren't sowing seeds of doubt and insecurity.

[@gloriousjohnson1807]

: That sounds good in theory. UNTIL the significant other opens "a secret acct."😮

[@kimberlyb.8294]

This episode is so informative! Thanks for having your guest explain some key points about relationships. I really appreciate the comment about investing in our relationships & the lack thereof! It’s one thing I have noticed in many relationships, the lack of investing in oneself & relationships with others…

[@Marshay]

I agree with him about communication, as I listen, I agree, many conversations were never had but expectations were there on both sides.

[@flydollronda1926]

Ryan really has so much growth to do. He wouldn’t make for a good husband at all in his current state, pay attention to how he responds to all the coaches statements AND deflects about cheating, but will ask about the results of the cheating, for instance, “how long is too long to harbor the results of cheating” ummmm….if you don’t wanna do the time, dont commit the crime…Then he’s asking if it’s fair for a person who has been cheated on to share, overshare and shame a cheater 😂😂😂😂😂 man he’s SO lost. Nobody cares about what the cheater thinks or their feelings…they SHOULD sit in shame….Jaxn was a HABITUAL cheater, not a mistake. Geeshhh. Tysean, on the other hand,is definitely growing, and you can see it. Just my outlook.

[@KimberlyLeighAnn]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@kquestvision7248]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@kquestvision7248]

Hey definitely has some growing into manhood to do!

[@chloefontain5469]

Ryan triggers me. He seem like the type of guy who follows the Thotianas and slides in their DMs constantly but gets pissed if the person he’s dating doesn’t appreciate this. Hence the reason why he doesn’t want them to have social media.

[@The_Love_Clinic]

I honestly think Ryan is a good man, he’s just playing the “bad cop” to speak on behalf of how a lot of men speak. I could be wrong since he’s a “casual dater” but when he finds the right one…I hope he treats her good.

[@EeshsSweetSpotBakery]

I appreciate this candid transparency especially from MEN. Thanks for putting this up🎉 Also in my opinion an emotional cheat is way worse because you've actually taken the time to get to know this person and while getting to know this person you were breaking your emotional bond with your mate with each emoitional deposit you're making to this other person's emotional bank; When you should've just ended the relationship with your mate...You would have earned their respect GREATLY because there's honor in honesty. I don't know a woman who wouldn't agree. Ask yourself would you want this to happen to you?? Don't be hypocritical! You should never do anything you KNOW you cannot handle. Have the couple tried counseling? A JUST mediator can be a HUGE help to your relationship. In most scenarios- When a woman goes outside her relationship? He most likely did it FIRST and she forgave.. And forgave; only to be taken for granted. I'm not saying it's right...Just facts. Lastly...If you ALWAYS date your mate and pursue your mate and they pursue you? There's absolutely no time for anyone else or even disagreements because you're loving on one another💖.

[@RConnelly]

My favorite one so far. Love coach Ken!

[@mariemanigat6746]

I walked away from the 20-year relationship. When I find out, I was not able to look at him the same his pheromone didn't even smell. When he be at work I would called to just check up on him because I truly genuinely check up on him. To see if he was okay if he was having a good day. And then I caught myself checking on him to see if he doing some dumb things. And I didn't like it. I just didn't have trust so I walk away. Oh yeah and he start questioning me like I was the one cheating.😂

[@Nanloved333]

Informative discussion. Thanks for sharing with us!!

[@phillygirl5623]

I love you guys so much for the content 💜 I watch ya'all previous Coach C video once a day. You guys ask the right questions, and Coach C delivers and answers questions in general and by age groups. Thank you for bringing Coach back! The next time Coach needs to bring his wife.

[@3peasinapodity]

That is just like the behavior of the enemy. If he takes your head, he's got your heart.

[@ms.j3386]

Great show!.... you all have touched a lot of situations that ì have experienced and have had to work through and still working through. Thank you for helping me to see my progress of healing and how much more I need. Always striving to be the best version of me! Thanks again!

[@latenightmarriage]

Man I gotta figure out how to get in on these discussions. A whole story on this topic.

[@shirley5030]

Please have him come back. The degree of emotional intelligence on this channel is very, very unique.

[@kendrafelder9572]

Good evening everyone ❤

[@Shanice___Loves]

Ryan doesn’t get it. One day he will get cheated on and understand first hand what that pain feels like.

[@nenajay3174]

Maybe some of that is just for content purposes. A friend of mine recently told me of a controversial news host that got fired. He claimed that his controversial views weren’t stances that he actually held. He did it for viewership.

[@judithjackson1086]

Ryan slow generally

[@qings_n_kueens]

For real tho! Idk if it’s light skin complex or little man syndrome. He reminds me of that little brother you have to beat up so he can know girls got it too.

[@24pixiegirl]

Yea he has some maturing to do in that aspect

[@flydollronda1926]

He probably already has been. I think he understands he isnt the type women naturally gravitate to…Tysean is, but he tries. Most women want the Tysean’s of the world once they get all the lust out of their system, and who he will be 2 to 3 years from now, maybe sooner because he now has wise counsel all around him with these recent guests. I feel bad for Ryan, but going around breaking the women around him, all of that is definitely going to come back on him; he just doesn’t realize it yet.

[@montanajames9144]

Coach ken is dope

[@tabreasledge9141]

Such good insight & that discussion of energy, top notch.

[@nenajay3174]

POSTING SIGNIFICANT OTHER ON SOCIAL MEDIA I think this is a personal decision and varies for each individual. I value privacy. I’ve never posted a boyfriend and never wanted him to post me. NOT WANTING SIGNIFICANT OTHER TO HAVE SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS Again, I think this varies. In a lot of cases I find that it’s an age thing. I find that the younger generation take pride in their partner being “lit” on social media. It used to be females who were more social years ago. It was girls and women who socialized and wanted to be seen online, while boys and men found it corny and feminine to talk too much and take a bunch of pics.

[@JessGoris]

Yea, like if your SO posted you a lot before and suddenly they don’t, it could be a red flag. But if they never did and they’ve never done anything to make you think there’s more going on, then that’s fine, too. I rarely posted my husband when I used FB personally. I don’t know if my husband ever posted me, but he didn’t even post much anyway. He doesn’t even have FB anymore. We’re both just private people.

[@nenajay3174]

Yeah, keeping your private life off of social media is smart in my opinion.

[@flydollronda1926]

Why would anyone want to get back into a relationship with someone who cheated on them hundreds of times With SOOO many different women….what in the world Ryan…man…I can’t even fathom his angle on that at all. It makes 0 sense to stay with or even want to get back with a person, man or woman that has 0 respect for you.

[@dawnshiree]

Girl I’m like what!?!

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

I'd be more worried about getting STD's.

[@sade_8637]

👏🏾👏🏾

[@sherrytee2962]

Some mindblogging questions... Many wise answers About to rewatch.

[@zeehunter6533]

Great Show! Watched a little. Fellas, how do you become a member?

[@jabet3211]

I caught my husband of 10 years watching porn and searching for his ex girlfriend. i was away on a business trip and when i returned i saw a text message in his phone, he was texting his ex girlfriends mother asking her for her daughters information. When i confronted him he changed his password and told me that it was nothing he was just curious about her

[@shuntarenee3594]

This generation 🤦🏽‍♀️ what really matters? All that’s going on in this world today…men need to be secured and women need to be secured…

[@GoldzenJuLz]

❤thank you

[@feliceoliviablack]

This podcast is just so dope!🙌🏾

[@markthespot6596]

Ryan earned some cool points with the no social media.....I was beginning to wonder are you on the women's payroll

[@sinverrette9803]

Well he posted a video on social media of him eating watermelon on social media so since when? 😅

[@sinverrette9803]

He wanted to know if it looks sexy.. he showed it even on one of the podcast..

[@desimo9127]

This was so matter of fact❤

[@The_Love_Clinic]

I thought it was just me. I don’t want my man to have social media either 😂! Just KZbin! Thasssit!

[@maureenfrancis1002]

Great podcast guys.

[@TrthBHld]

I love the guests this show has on, especially when they show these 2 "player" hosts how immature and horribly mindsetted they are on life and women. Im sad so many people grow up learning and teaching that using others is normal and laugh about it. I'm commenting a year after the show and hope they're growing up cause it's super annoying, especially with player comments the guest with join in before catching themselves. I get children will be children, it just looks bad on "adults". People may have their reasons for cheating but there's no true legit excuse for it; it's always 💯 their fault. Blaming the victim is straight up abuse. I appreciate those who deliver mature information to snap fools out of hurtful mindsets...hopefully.

[@kae6250]

Amazing episode!!!!

[@shuntarenee3594]

🙏🏽 I’m hooked.. but I appreciate his reasoning of cussing 😂.. I don’t even date dudes who feel it’s okay with all that profanity!! Potty mouths!! Standards and do better to become better!! And use others words to express what you are trying to say besides out here CUSSING!!! It’s a turn off..IJS

[@PlutosMoon22]

Hey, guys! Y'all forgot that Derrick Jackson "allegedly" had another chick by the time she started her tour. She may have done the tour from a lower vibration of emotions BUT HEY sometimes you gotta go ahead and sling mud pies while you in the mud💯 When you feel better, you'll do better.

[@JJ-jn7ei]

Well said Ma’am. Being a woman experienced this nonsense twice, IMHO, she can do no wrong!

[@thomas6861]

Great episode

[@shantelgreen7334]

I would like to get the link to join the membership group

[@CorneliusDaKing]

This was a great show I went this in my previous relationship I don’t tolerate infidelity once a woman starts dealing with other men deuces ✌🏽

[@slicingitupwithselena2234]

Love this episode, why is it that women have to pull teeth to get a man to communicate in this dating world?

[@montanajames9144]

I need to be a caller cause I got a crazy story that u guys would love.

[@peacepocket]

If a woman cheats, 9 times out of 10 it is emotional.

[@ReneeReneeReneeRose]

Great ep!

[@vircasyanthony6302]

So what do you when you've stayed more than once more than twice fighting for a relationship and they change for a while and go back to the same behavior.

[@PsichoMofo]

I remember coach Ken from my Evangel days.

[@KeOShAsWoRLd]

I’m not stuttin any of my exes whether they’re following me on social media or not

[@traceyn67]

23:57 - I'm not posting a man I'm dating on FB.

[@julietoneill1268]

So good👏👌

[@viviansan6842]

I Agree It's A Rap.... Infidelity Is Infidelity.....

[@tinaf1893]

Amazing❤

[@lyngrey4186]

Im a woman but I don't want to be posted because I consider the relationship private.

[@veeboss4853]

I love Ryan and TaShaun but I be cracking up cause y’all are hypercritical lol. Glad you all are getting mentored each episode

[@ingridlorenavelasquezcuerv6286]

I am facing a situation with my partner, we have a couple of friends, they are facing a problem about their sexual life. I know this because she told me. However his husband has been closer to my husband and he has not told him yet. she takes the same bus everyday with my husband and one day she told my husband about her situation with her husband. So I feel uncomfortable with this situation because I think it has created an intimacy relationship between my husband and her. I told with my husband to draw the line and stop it however he does not agree because he said that I will be the one who always choose our friends. Please advice me. I feel lost. Even he follows her on social media and he likes her photos. I would like to know if I am wrong and how to face it please. Thanks you

[@nekiabolton3359]

I don’t think that the way she reacted is grounds on if they can come back from that. That’s selfish. If we don’t want anybody in our business don’t cheat. He made the decision to cheat outside of the relationship but she should hide the pain she endured? That’s so hypocritical and selfish to me. Did he ask her can he cheat and if so will you keep it a secret? She doesn’t have to suffer in silence…. How are we deciding which wrong is better? That’s why you shouldn’t cheat because the measurement of of hurt isn’t calculated and so we cannot give her a multiple choice answer based off her hurt and feelings and leave his infidelity out you cannot have an ambiguous outlook on her pain and feel out thoughts suffice the magnitude of her pain.

[@ThePersonwholikesBFDI]

Amazing ❤ Thanks guys

[@viciousreasoning504]

Ryan and tysean try to find loopholes in everything😂

[@tobh007]

FACTS

[@dennisiathompson3555]

No social media😮.... what age are you living in?

[@queenkristine9590]

walking hand in hand in public is just as likely, if not more, just a walking cuddle. i’ve never held a man’s hand for validation & i can’t be the only one.

[@gogoldiego]

Agree, my husband and I naturally hold hands. It's a natural action for us.

[@JessGoris]

I’m not a hand holder at all. PDA in any form makes me uncomfortable. My ex and I got into it a lot because of that. I had no problem showing affection behind closed doors, but in public, don’t touch me. I’m glad my husband doesn’t mind since he also appreciates how VERY affectionate I am in private 😉😜

[@lesliemoorman7233]

What if your guy post you on social media but your girl post you and then removes the picture and then she post a sexy picture..

[@HardlyInitiated]

👉 Dating Cards: www.hardlyinitiated.com/products/dating-deck

[@Christian900]

That a part about hyper vigilance is so true Most couples can’t get pass that part Which is why marriages fail Wow

[@De-Juana]

Didn’t he already make things public?