How To Make Friends In A New City As An Introvert

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[@introvertnomads4243]

Thanks this is really helpful for a digital nomad who is an introvert

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Glad it was helpful!

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What was your biggest takeaway from it?

[@JordansTutorials7577]

i really needed this video. it has been tough recently

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Sorry to hear that!

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Did you just move to a new city?

[@Allthingsambient]

This is a great channel- Just subbed!

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Thank you so much!

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What was your biggest takeaway from the video?

[@AustenSummers]

Great summary, Myke! This is an important topic

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You are so welcome!

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Thanks for stopping by Austen!

[@lose7934]

i’m from a small country town in southern maryland and will be moving across the country to san francisco with my fiancé, since he moved here to maryland for a year to be with me. thank you for this video!

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

I'm so glad you found it helpful!

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What's your reason for moving?

[@lose7934]

@@SocialConfidenceMastery this is gonna be LONG, but everything really, but mostly for opportunity. the main reason is, maryland has a huge drug/opioid crisis that’s only getting worse and my entire immediate family are statistic in it. in california, if you want to do drugs, you live in a tent. so there won’t be any confusion of seeing construction workers who are clearly addicts making 25$ an hour. i’ve been stolen from so much in my home state from people i didn’t think succumbed to the drugs. i don’t know if it’s my family or the drugs, but theyre notorious for talking down my goals and they very obviously want me to be as miserable as they are. we originally decided to stay here in MD and hunker down for awhile during the pandemic to save money. after the year we’ve spent together around my family, i’ve come to the painful realization that i just have to go out on my own if i want to succeed. if i stayed around here, they’d eventually convince me i wasn’t enough and i’d be one of them. my fiancé moved across the country to be with me and they can’t even act like they respect him for it. they’re so racist towards him but gaslight the hell out of us when we address it. then the next day they try to act like nothing happened, but assume he can fix ____ for them just because he’s asian, after they drunkenly mocked his race and language. asked him if he was sure he’s asian because he’s “too dark” and “looks like a mexican” ….(he’s filipino) just all kinds of stupid shit he doesn’t deserve to be around. one night my fiancé absolutely blew up on them because they were doing this in the midst of asian hate crimes and he refuses to interact with them, which i understand. but now they speak to me like he’s crazy, which is absolutely not true. i’m ready for better days ahead. we got an RV and plan to live in there while traveling after we finish our gen ed classes. it’s been both of our dreams to pursue higher education but we never had the supportive family to do it. we’re 20 and 22, but everybody’s gotta start somewhere. i plan to get my bachelors in psychology online after gen ed in community college and become a drug counselor, to help people who actually want it. i will make some kind of meaning out of my life with the cards ive been dealt.

[@lose7934]

@@SocialConfidenceMastery i wouldn’t wish republican in-laws on my worst enemy

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

@@lose7934 thank you for sharing that! I'm from the Philippines myself so I can relate to what your fiancee is going through.

[@mak_xx9456]

Thank you for your helpful tips! I've been struggling to make new friends here for a while now , it's gotten to the point where I want to give up and go back to my hometown. But your video helped give me a new perspective.

[@RosianaAmelia]

THIS REALLLY HELPPP THANK YOUU

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

You're so welcome!

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What was your biggest takeaway?

[@aaronaustrie]

Thanks man. Very helpful 🙏🏾

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That's great to hear Aaron!

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Which tip did you like the most?

[@cold_rain-01]

Great tips! Thank you!

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

You're so welcome!

[@yournexxt5125]

I moved to Miramar fl a week ago. Got no friends yet. 💀. I’ll try these tips!

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What made you move?

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Let me know how things go for you!

[@yournexxt5125]

@@SocialConfidenceMastery family n job offer.

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@@yournexxt5125 Congratulations!

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@@yournexxt5125 What do you do for work?

[@bryanhughes5932]

I Have Alway’s Had A Hard Time Finding And Making And Keeping Friend’s And That Is Because I Am A Special Need’s Person Too Sadly But Truthfully And Also Much Love To All Of Y’all From Houston Texas Too!!!

[@nishantt.8717]

I'm traveling from North India to South India, and believe me it's like visiting another country all together...

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

I've never been to both places!

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What is it like out there?

[@yathishb7954]

@@SocialConfidenceMastery diffrent language ,different culture ,people from north don't learn local language of south ,and people from South hate people who don't try to learn Thier language and don't learn Hindi (second or native language for most of the people from north ),northern people have entitlement ,so it's become more like racism ,but south has better infrasture and it's easy to make friends if you speak local language

[@aboyes2640]

Hi, we are having trouble remembering your videos and reading your articles. and tell us how we can remember and how to be happy

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

You just have to keep watching and reading until you retain the information.

[@totaw22]

Hi Mike, can I ask how can I build closer relationships with new people just at home when we have nothing to do bevausebof this pandemic? What conversation topics to talk about or activities?

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

I recommend 2 things: leverage social media to make new connections and also make an effort to keep in touch with your existing network.

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

As far as topics go, it really depends on the person you're trying to connect with. Ideally, bring something up that both of you will be able to relate to.

[@jeff68camaro]

Thank you, this will be helpful to me. I would like to add a little critique, though. This video seems as though you're rushing through your words and having to inhale and speak quickly, and i think it would help the video if you allowed yourself more patience so that you could speak more calmly. Otherwise, great video and thank you for the tips!

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

Glad you found the video helpful!

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Where are you moving from and to?

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Thank you for the feedback!

[@the_infinity_channel]

Introverts only , here I come here I go 😂😂

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Welcome to the community!

[@Allthingsambient]

I grew up in dubai and moved to canada when i was 21 and moved to india at age 32

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

That's so cool!

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Seems like you've done a lot of travelling yourself!

[@b2madventures470]

I feel low for having to come here idk what do you guys think 😐

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Why do you feel that way?

[@jt_rooster3228]

To make friends, you only have two options. You dominate or you suck up. Pop culture? Hobbies? Food? Dominate or suck up.

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And how did you come up with that conclusion?

[@jt_rooster3228]

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