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[@michaelschaubach9185]

Hugs to you guys. Just to be clear, you're working for KZbin's relentless algorithm that duly punishes content creators for abnormal release schedules. A consistent release schedule is impossible to keep up for any amount of extended time. You are not working for us. We are not your boss. Everybody here who is subscribed will watch whatever you put out whenever you put it out. Take care of yourselves, your relationship, your family. We are not the algorithm, we are a bunch of normies living vicariously through your amazing adventures and pulling for you every step of the way. Cheers!

[@laurarmullins]

Well said!

[@kristinf5359]

Agree

[@ronaldleach9899]

Couldn't have said it better myself. 😊 👏 👏 👏

[@nicke6394]

Bang on 👍

[@melysimmonds]

Well said !!!

[@susyhall9406]

I CANNOT applaud you both enough for not falling victim to the young parenting mindset of hovering over your children..so much so that they aren’t able to learn critical thinking and basic skills on their own. Kids knock their teeth out all the time..kids fall, break bones, skin their knee. So proud of you both for allowing your children the chance to truly explore play adventure and yes even injure themselves. Bravo! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@williambalestreri8665]

Married 37 years. Lindsay and I always made our relationship the 1st priority with the understanding that sacrifices have to be made based on the life journey you choose to take. Sounds like I am talking past tense and I am. Lindsay died of cancer a year ago and I miss her every day. I guess if I have any advice, don’t make life more complicated than it already is. Love each other every minute of every day, and “live life like you’re dying”. Let the BS roll off like water on a ducks back.

[@williamchun1907]

Im 22, not even in the sailing community or know anything about sailing not even the basics but you guys are pure entertainment and i enjoy watching you travel and living your day to day life. Not many people get to experience life and the world like you guys do, im sure when Lenny & Darwin get to that age, they will appreciate the life you've given them so much

[@wormgirl8939]

30yrs ago my husband and i read the same book. It saved us. Now we have been married 38yrs. You got this guys. Blessing to you both. ❤

[@floraguerrero4721]

Just had our 41st and still hanging in there !

[@Angela-el3gp]

We've been married 33 yrs. Respect each other, don't be selfish, listen, keep the humor, don't take things to seriously. Don't put anyone before each other and your children. The reason people break up, is because they are to busy thinking about themselves instead of the other person. GOD BLESS!

[@sydneywhittum4012]

I am currently in grad school studying Marriage and Family Therapy and MY GOD THANK YOU!!! Thank you for letting people know that relationships are not all perfect, that marriage counseling is not just for divorces, and that it’s okay to talk about not being okay!!

[@Mr308inGA]

I'd say NO relationship is perfect, and many are far from perfect. It either takes a combination of change & acceptance on both people's part or it's doomed. OBTW, in my experience, men are MUCH more likely to change and accept than women who are MUCH more likely to want to mold the man into what they want. Women - quit shaking your heads - you know it is true.

[@islandgirlejfan]

I’m 61, been married for working on 43 and have 3 grown kids (your age group). I love, love, LOVE (!) that you don’t feel you need to wrap your sons in bubble wrap! Kids are going to be kids and things happen. It’s all part of the experience! They are such lovely little guys and you both are giving them a wonderful life! Many blessings to all of you!

[@WarDamnEagle4]

I’m regally grateful you’re doing the work in your relationship to improve it. It’s inspiring to see you commit to one another instead of walk away. So many people expect life to be without valleys in relationships. Way to be authentic, dedicated, and realistic y’all. Love watching your story and rooting for your success. My opinion means nothing but I just wanted to share with you.

[@nicoleayienga593]

My husband and I just passed our 29th wedding anniversary, honestly still feel 29 some days, it's surreal. Anyway, we are still learning how to be better partners to one another not because we didn't learn anything up to now but because as we age our needs change and the best thing you can do for your partner is talk about what you need from one another and then do your best to meet those needs. You guys are doing a great job!!

[@RebeccaEloisa]

This is more helpful to me than you know, thank you for sharing.

[@michaeljohnson8126]

It’s called marriage! It easy to take each other for granted, reset, making up is the best part

[@nicoleayienga593]

you're welcome 💜@@RebeccaEloisa

[@sailingsam3815]

Life is never easy behind the scenes..

[@richardmorton1310]

So, there is a lot to unpack, but I'm glad that you guys are doing the work to stay together. The magic you two had together way back in the monohull days is still the glue that helps keep you together. Look forward to seeing the new boat. Be well.

[@willudallmusic]

great comment 🙏🏻

[@perry-ad]

You've been pretty transparent about your struggles and it has meant a lot to me. I hope you and the kids get back out on the water soon, but it's a long way to Hawaii!

[@brianohehir9792]

The real reason people continue to watch your channel is because they love your work. You take us to places and situations that fascinate us .. amazing to be on board actually but it’s your combined life’s work. Good job guys keep it up. ‘Mack the knife’ as a name for the new boat. It’s going to be a bit of a weapon. 😁

[@lucylou5766]

This was a great update. Thanks guys for some first class entertainment over several years now.I couldn’t be more pleased for you, and you deserve all your successes, because they come from hard work. Unless a person has worked in content production, they cannot appreciate how many hours go into each episode. Frankly, I don’t know how you’ve kept up the pace, releasing weekly, and also living your lives and designing boats and apps and swimsuits and writing books. Amazing!

[@keith62970]

I work from home with my wife and the ups and downs are kind of normal but it can feel cataclysmic. I strongly believe there is a learning curve when sparks start flying that can lead to more maturity. We can hang on during those times, keep respectful during struggles while learning and adapting together. It's a shame so many bail quickly. We're about to be empty nesters now after raising 4 kids and it's kind of exciting again!

[@davedewitt3988]

Tangerine Dream

[@chantallennox1201]

I was thinking the exact same. I’d never advocate for anyone to stay in a relationship that was abusive but if it’s a roller coaster with an overall upward trajectory then hang on for the ride and…reach new personal and relationship highs ❤ I’m sure Elayna and Riley will level up again and again over their lifetime because they have already proven they can do it by weathering their rise to superstardom with family intact and all healthy, wealthy and wise!

[@stilcrazychris]

@keith62970 is this Keith from SV Zartara? Tell everyone hi from Chris

[@NancySlider]

@@stilcrazychrisHe said they’re about to be empty nesters, so no not that Keith lol

[@munbeam1]

Great video. As a mama that cyberschooled my kids, I got crap about their socialization all the time from B&M parents. They were in outside activities, had friends and are all thriving in college and in life. And I didn't have to teach them either, after my middle child's 2nd grade, when online teaching became available. We all loved it. Best part is teach to their academic potential not to the average of a classroom, and pursue their interests.

[@eriklarsson3188]

Look, parents that can't raise and teach and school their own children (instead letting government and paid strangers do it for them) are coping real hard by shaming and attacking parents that can. That's all. You shouldn't let it get too you.

[@wmeuse2375]

​@@eriklarsson3188the have been true abuse through cyber school, that doesn't mean that there aren't true benefits to tools used well, or that sailing la vagabond will do anything but what is right for there family. Insulting people is always wrong.

[@Bradleyschaeffer376]

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[@AnnaKrueger809]

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[@Ashleycorrie8494]

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[@Seanmirrer]

It’s unfortunate most people don’t have such information, I don’t really blame people who panic cos lack of information can be a big hurdle. I’ve been making more than $65k passively investing with Samuel Peter Descovich, and I don’t have to do much work. It doesn’t matter if the market is crashing, I will always make good profit returns.

[@Rhgeyer278]

I have turned over more than half MILLION working with SAMUEL PETER DESCOVICH on a wide array of options and finally sticking to a few that have been favorable in the past 2 years.

[@GaryWinstonBrown]

-I just looked up his name on Google and saw his impressive resume. I consider myself lucky to have found this comment area..

[@coleengoodell7523]

So glad you guys did the work to get through the rough patch in your relationship and were willing to not only seek good counsel, but also listen and make the changes you both needed to make. The boys are absolutely adorable and so blessed to have such amazing parents. Parent or not, I think it's in many of our natures to find out what dangers we may need to prepare for or prevent in new environments. Prevent as in, don't do stupid things in Grizzly territory, don't swim with alligators, that kind of thing. Love you guys dearly, take care and May God be with you on your adventures. God bless.

[@MurphyGreg]

Hey guys. You are the best and biggest sailing channel/couple/family on KZbin. But, not just because of the amazing boats you live on and sail. I think it’s because you are both so easy to relate to, that you make us feel a part of your beautiful family. Thanks for sharing your life journey with us. Cheers to a future filled with love, laughter, family and friends…and te perfects winds to fill your sails. ❤️🌬️🌊⛵️

[@laurengates921]

Y’all are my absolute favorite. It’s been a treat watching you grow and being transparent through it all. I am not a sailor, but resonate a lot with E! And just love seeing your lives unfold. Many blessings as this year comes to a close. Xx

[@JessieStam]

I'm very glad that you're willing to share you have (had) difficulties in your relationship. My partner and I have been together for 10 years and we have also faced challenges at times. It used to make me really worried, but I am starting to realize that it is normal to have ups and downs, and that it doesn't automatically means the relationship is doomed. So thank you! I am also very much looking forward to the new sail plans! ❤

[@Vanwives]

Love your authenticity and openness with so many of these topics!! We can definitely relate to some of what you’ve shared 💛 Thank you xx

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

⛵Hey guys! We're in desperate need of a nickname for La Vagabonde III. Got an idea? Drop it in the comments below!! (Vote for your favourite by giving a thumbs up).

[@ColoradoLiveMusic]

La Vagabonde III won't be called La Vagabonde?

[@jamesdiserio4020]

Mean Mr. Mustard

[@fieldfilms]

La Vaga-Blonde

[@mbrt3000]

col mustard

[@mmcouture01]

4 Vagabondes

[@alexb2298]

Went for first sail with our 1 year old today.... managed 2 hours by feeding him constantly otherwise he was trying to climb everything 😂 you guys are amazing keeping the boys inline! Sending you all positive vibes!

[@brookeboese5446]

You two are seriously so inspiring! As individuals and as business owners. Your transparency & genuineness shines through in your videos. Absolutely epic content, there’s really no other channel like Sailing La Vagabonde.

[@vw5760]

Neptune's Wink When sunlight is refracted by the atmosphere at a particular angle.

[@wayasaunooke3424]

I've been following you guys for so long now but rarely comment. I just wanted to say now how much you, as individuals but also a couple and family unit, truly inspire me. You always have done. How honest you are, showing the good and the bad, all the reality not just of sailing (that I know nothing about) but of existence. Like what the hell is all this anyway?! Life is wild and I wish I could have long conversations with you both about so much as I feel a kindred spirit kind of energy. Anyway I'm rambling and you might not even see this but guys you are SO supported. I hope you know that and feel it ❤

[@oliviayates5596]

Alaina is so relatable for me. I love the accountability that’s going on, congratulations on working for a happy, healthy relationship. You guys are inspiring with everything you do. X

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

Thanks Kendall, so glad you’re here with us x - Elay

[@Craiggml]

Goldi-knots. Name for boat or Winny (darWIN and leNNY)

[@kevinzunker1386]

You guy are the best. A book that I found helpful is "The 5 Love Languages" it really helped me understand how to communicate better with my wife and 43yrs and going strong. Life Happens and how we respond is what makes the difference. Love your new boat and can't wait to see her sail. Icarus would be my favorite name for sure. You guys are doing a great job and continue to share your adventures with all of us. Thankyou so much.

[@user-gf9tr1uo6t]

I have enjoyed watching the two of you since almost the beginning. My husband & I are in our 60s & live full time in an rv. We say our home is wherever we happen to be . I think you have grown a great deal & are doing a wonderful job in every aspect. Continue to enjoy traveling. What a wonderful education for those two boys. ❤

[@grahamheath9957]

It’s been clear from your videos over the last year that you have really been stretching yourselves and putting yourselves under a huge amount of pressure, then at the same time you’ve had your home (the old boat) and effectively your access to sailing taken away for a period of time. Personally I hated living in hotels and temporary accommodation and that must have been really hard with two kids. I’m so happy for you that you are taking positive steps to change the things in your lives that aren’t positive. I wish you both a very happy and loving future and look forward to seeing what you do next.

[@jfxl1977]

Excellent video. I've been watching for years and there is a reason you two are the most popular sailing channel. The content is great, you always keep it real, and Lenny and Darwin are such great entertainers and add so much life to the experience. I can't wait to see the Rapido on the water! Thank you so much for all of the trials, tribulations, hard work, insanity, and amazing adventures you've shared with all of us! As for nicknames for the new boat, Golden Goose, Aureate Aussie, Vang Vagabond, Marigold Merchant, Amber Adventurer, Canary Cruiser.

[@hilltopvt]

You two are relationship goals - doing something very challenging, but smart enough and in love enough to stop and assess what it's doing to you - a happy family is everything. Jobs come and go, family shouldn't. Lenny looks so proud holding his book 💕 Darwin and the pizza - oh my goodness what a little king he is - he owns his life. PS I love love love your schooling plan - the actual learning time in a brick and mortar school is pretty short - the rest is shuffling kids around, recess, lunch, waiting your turn for help - and your boys will have the enrichment of world travel. Lucky lucky boys!

[@rosannasardella4491]

I have so much respect and admiration for you both. Living with authenticity and purpose is never easy, but you stay committed to the path, it's really inspiring to see! If I can offer a relationship tip for Riley, stop interrupting Elayna when she is speaking and listen more. Allow her to fully express her heart and mind before adding your input. You both are amazing people, thank you for all you do to create quality content

[@totallybonkers]

I'm just one of a million but you guys have been providing very high quality content for years and years. We love you both, not to mention Lenny and Darwin! and I can't thank you enough for the endless work you have put in. Traveling (booking it all), Sailing (good grief its hard work), having the kiddo's while doing everything else (woh), putting the videos together (editing elayna!!!), building brands...etc. It's a lot! Can't wait to see you all cruising on the new boat! It's beautiful. Sending you all the love in the world ❤❤

[@SweetLifeLanta]

I'm a fulltime youtuber myself (not as big as you but large enough to know how much work it is), I also have a tourist business and 2 kids and I was always wondering HOW ON EARTH you guys were doing this on the boat fulltime with 2 very young kids. So to find out you guys were not really doing it, just makes total sense and makes you more human. Big big hugs to you. You guys are awesome!

[@RubenNoguera]

I Love your videos and format, how connected you are with each other, and your willingness to talk about your feelings and thoughts, and your crazy inspiring colorful life that you’ve forged. Not to mention how beautiful y’all are! Ive enjoyed following you over the years, and I’m so impressed by your resilience and energy.

[@svetievboris]

I love when you guys talk about relationships and the challenges you face it makes me feel more normal and like I'm doing a good job of keeping me and my wife and family together.

[@brycenmccrary4193]

What a good update! All videos aren’t for all people, so these little updates are such a good way to catch up and get in the swing of things before you set sail again!

[@judybettencourt]

You touch more than the sailing community. I love watching your videos and seeing your life. Much Love to you all.

[@zizlog_sound]

Exactly. Otherwise I wouldn’t be here.

[@heatherk2023]

refreshing video to hear you guy are "normal" with your relationship, working together and stresses and strains. I was thinking the last almost four years have been very stressful with Covid and life changes so you reminded me to focus on the short past issue in life and not lump everything together since covid changed the lives of so many people in the world. Thanks again!

[@fredjonson5781]

I think I started watching you guys about a year into my marriage with my wife, which is about the same time you guys started. I'm pretty sure it was because I was fantasizing about a better life at sea. But now I know that life has its up and downs and so does a relationship. I've never seen two people meant more for each other, keep it up, everyone has hard times.

[@xavierkeogh174]

Hi guys! Not sure if the international curriculum you were referring was the IB but if so, I grew up with it (PYP, MYP & IBDP) moving to various countries and absolutely loved it! I would be happy to share my thoughts and experiences too. I'm originally from Melbourne but grew up around South East Asia and am almost finished my degree in Physics from London of all places. Best wishes and can't wait to watch the next chapter!

[@dianemilligan7370]

The Mars/Venus book is a Great book for all relationships as it helps women understand men and Vice versa! Props to you Riley for taking the time to read it and likely putting your new found understanding into working on your relationship! And, props to you Elena for doing same!

[@maryplatten6532]

Glad you will be showing more of your adventures and more of the kids living on the boat! Thank you for your honesty on your lives, relationship and your ups and downs in life❤ peace

[@nanag63]

This landlocked Kentucky granny loves your channel! Your family is precious. The love you have for one another and your beautiful boys is so apparent in all that you do. ❤️ Love GOD, love each other, love your babies, be safe, and enjoy your adventures ❤️

[@kristenjerics5260]

Thank you so much for being so honest and keeping it real . Your authenticity is why your the #1 sailing channel and your subscribers love you ❤

[@jamesturbyfill6281]

I've always loved these videos from time to time to show transparency. To show us that the sailing life and the youtube job isn't just the sunshine and rainbows it appears to be.. we've all grown with you all from the beginning and I am so proud of the couple and parents you all have grown into..

[@SoulTonicLife]

Thank you for bearing your souls and sharing the behind the scenes reality. Something has to be done about that KZbin algorithm. It is breaking people. We have started our own channel in part inspired by you guys, so thank you for that. Stay strong your lives are full and rich with two beautiful kids which is all that matters in the end. Big love to you guys. ❤

[@inezaj]

I love this. You two look so happy and at peace. Riley looks jacked. Elayna has a sparkle in her eyes. Cannot wait for the new adventures on the boat.

[@kerstinroger9317]

you two are individually amazing, and together a force. Don’t know how you do it all! Loved the video with Aleyna alone too, stay well.

[@tonytrumble]

Looking forward to seeing La Vagabond on the water! You two are definitely a power couple! Every couple has their moments! The "wifes" duties and "husbands" duties are what each couple wants them to be! You're running a business and you see when you're getting stressed and you correct it! You're an amazing couple and fantastic parents! Cheers

[@kingingit]

Great Vid guys - love a good catch up and CANNOT wait for you to set sail - we're so excited for you, it's finally happening! Can totally relate to the first half of this video too - so hard to see outside the box when you're in it 24/7 - time off it SO key and i'm glad we're taking care of ourselves on that front now. Better late than never ay! Fingers crossed we'll see you somewhere in the world soon

[@jennirosey]

"Wala" She is a solar goddess Aboriginal/Australian

[@PatrickPoet]

When you said you're the number 1 sailing channel I freaked out oddly for just a moment. I've been following you for years and years and years and felt special but now I'm just a drop in the ocean of La Vagabonde fans. Also, I think it's hilarious I felt that. Happy for your success mates.

[@10till4ish]

It's nice to see an introspective couple living through it all. Give me hope. How do you feel about how Japan has been treating their coast line?

[@truman42746]

That was a great video! Watching Lenny and Darwin grow up has been so much fun. I have always said the Lenny was smart and now I can tell that Darwin is going to be a character and many video clips coming with him as the star. Can't wait till next week!

[@rickchollett]

Very nice to see this video! It takes two to be in a relationship and I believe y'all are doing awesome! I'm confident that all of us would understand if y'all took a week or so break from posting. You are more important to each other than we are to you. I've whittled my subscriptions of sailing channels down to two. Yours and White Spot Pirates are the only ones left!

[@anndee26]

Those two boys are seriously two of the cutest kids I have ever seen and I’ve cared for hundreds. Your parenting style is awesome, and they are very lucky little boys. That story of Darwin taking the pizza! Like a boss! Hilarious 😂

[@bam111965]

You guys rock! I love that you don't pretend it's all easy. From my perspective, nothing in this life comes without a price tag.

[@BlackWit11]

You guys seem pretty level headed to me. That book........I know it and learned from it. But it takes two to tango, learning existential things like that can also mean you grow apart, that happens too. I applaud the fact that the two of you , despite all the problems. do seem to stay on the same page and hence grow as a couple and a family. Kudos to you and keep on going and take it easy!

[@LoveAstra]

A lot of strong relationships go through what you guys go through. It's normal. Just remember to communicate and listen and be vulnerable, don't be disrespectful. One helpful thing that someone told me was, " speak to how you'd want to be spoken to." Meaning, if you say something rude, how would it make you feel if someone spoke that was to you. Also, with your travels, don't rush. Enjoy the process. I've been a fan of yalls for a few years and love that basics. Seeing yall live a free er life, than what I live, is super fun and inspiring. Cheers!

[@Lone_GamerUK]

The channel, sailing videos always have been amazing, but what is truly remarkable is the fact that over time you have always shared your life from all the ups & downs as much as possible or caught up with it when able. Sharing your life under the spotlight and your life ups and downs are very brave, remarkable and special, anyone sensible and with some life experiance knows what life, kids and how difficult that can get - it never really about land or sea it about relationships, jobs, and always family. I'm always in love with your family and not just the exotic-looking life. Thanks for the fantastic content, life lessons and keep fighting for one another and the family and do what your heart and head tells you - most of us will follow you're life stories shared no matter the path but put yourselves always first. All the very best for the new LVB 3 launch and trips to come, be safe and love to all. ❤👍

[@lishatay57]

Already have your book preordered … can’t wait to read it to my grandson. Can’t wait to see you in India … I’ve travelled there 3 times and Love it. Very excited to see you launch Mango Magic … some of those other names Riley red out were clever too but a bit tongue twisty ❤❤❤ much love from Melbourne xxx

[@suefitz2498]

You’ll never stop learning about each other, especially as the kids grow up. Everything is amplified in a small living space, I think you’re doing very well. As for fitness, it’s a must for living at sea especially. I don’t really notice the detail of your physicality, I just see fit healthy young people with kids. Plus, I love that you’re fellow Aussies showing the world an alternative lifestyle. Keep up the great work ❤❤

[@AlexBeldi]

Congratulations for the the new boat guys and I am very glad to see that you managed to get some time off :) all the best and thanks for sharing your adventures

[@drsnapid]

OMG. Men are from mars. That book had me looking over shoulder like the dude had been watching me. I still think about it every time my wife unloads a problem onto me - I stop myself from suggesting solutions! And it's like magic, it changes the whole dynamic and she appreciates me just listening to her. The difference is wild. Good on you for improving yourselves! Love from Alice Springs, still sailing my 40ft land yacht

[@SaturnRooster81]

FROTHING FOR THE APP RELEASE YOU GUYS! You're authentic selves are inadvertently helping many to realise they don't need to hide away their struggles. The value of seeing and speaking ones vices or shortcomings helps heal the world and each other. Love Yas ❤ Quirky ...NSW far south coast 💪🙏

[@barbaraburdick1333]

Just make sure you guys take care of you! Take the time for yourself!

[@TheLesporter]

I promise the best book is "his needs her needs.". It's an easy read and make since to learn quickly. I also saw a video of a person asking an older couple what the secret of a long marriage was, He said we never fell out of LOVE for each other at the same time. WOW how profane and interesting. Meaning through life we each fall out of love with our partner but work to regained that we promised each other in the beginning. How wonderful.

[@amierasawyer1800]

So excited for your newest endeavor, the launching of your new boat! Considering everything you have accomplished, every story that you have scripted, the places that you have seen, and the inspiration you have gifted to all your viewers, my suggestion for your new boats name is The Origin, or La Origin. It by definition means; the point or place where something begins, arises, or is derived. Also sounds like the color orange 🧡

[@OttawaAndy]

I've been lurking for a long time, always "liking", not commenting. I love your videos. What I'm thinking when watching: OMG Elayna is so beautiful, inside and out. Riley is just too handsome but enough of a rascal to keep it real. Your kids are gorgeous and you are amazing parents, even when you fail. Because holy crap we all failed, especially at that age. It doesn't matter if you're on a boat or have 1,000 acres of land. They can suck every ounce of energy out of you. And yet...well you know. Jeez, trying to fit in everything I want to say. How much time do I have?

[@GreenVertigo7]

Well said! And I agree from another Ottawa adjacent watcher. Much admiration and gratitude.

[@OttawaAndy]

@@GreenVertigo7 Thanks, neighbour!

[@wendywilliams3098]

Boat nickname: Following Sunrise - life follows sunrise. Your so right about your parenting skills. I saw an article about a study showing that "bubble wrapping" children is a reason for teenage and young adult anxiety and depression. Children who have a parent hovering over them and never have any experiences doing their own thing doesn't prepare them for life. It doesn't give them the tools to make decisions, problem solve and be proud of something they did by themselves. It also doesn't allow them to learn to fail and accept failure and move on. Experiencing a perfect childhood makes miserable adults.

[@journeyithaki7772]

...when you manage to be in a realm that you are not influencers anymore but adventures like the old years and becoming one with the elements ...you will be happier. I can see you are not in a natural mode but in a rehearsed mode . Life is wonderful so live it now . Elaina s face going all goofy when you started talking about the boys , shows how deeply she loves them and that their souls did really choose her as their mummy

[@VanDoghies]

Your relationship/work balance discussion hits home soooooooo well. Big picture + emotional details + mental wellness and downtime is difficult but necessary to carve out time. Kudos to you both for showing this and also living it every day.

[@stevebibby1378]

What a staggeringly well balanced team you are! Great insight to your life and the challenges it throws up! Thank you for your honesty and for sharing, truly appreciated. As for boat name…. Sweet Mango! PS Riley, read the book some time back and have never looked back!

[@paulmcconkey9304]

Thank you so very much Guys I honestly appreciate your honest content creation. I am also in awe of both your achievements especially growing emotionally, intellectually and creatively sharing it with the world. Such a delight! Much love Mango Marvels 🤩👏🏻

[@cjrickels2666]

I’d tuned out for a while…distanced clearly makes the heart grow fonder. Riley you’re the man, thanks for the book suggestion (been having similar problems at home). Excited for the future videos!

[@alisonmurrell6068]

So glad I discovered ur channel 3 years ago love watching you guys and your family grow.❤️

[@Maize_n_Whiskey]

Longtime follower since almost the beginning and I can confidently say you two are beautiful people inside and out. Love this video and the change from the usual video. I can see the "spark" back between you two the last handful of videos.

[@pmorph]

This is such classic stuff for relationships, work, and parents of kids. My suggestion is explore tantra... there are some amazing books and courses around-- utterly changed my entire view of relationships-- good luck with it all.

[@gracegauthier2755]

Thanks for taking time to post this for us!

[@JK-zi1rg]

I gotta say it is such joy watching you guys and being taken along for the ride (sail?). So real, honest, fun, practical, entrepreneurial, and just grabbing life by the horns. Thanks!

[@markhodge7]

Riley. Stop interrupting, you bloody Martian!! 😉 Yes #1 sailing channel. That pizza pilfering had me in tears. Great kids come from great parenting. You seem to have great kids. No assumptions about the bedroom stuff. You let it slip once. wink, wink. Say no more. Good luck with the launch!

[@NOHOPHOTO]

THANK you. This drove me crazy! There must be a chapter in the Mars section! LOL. I'm the same way so I get it. It's hard to wait till the thought is out, then it's your turn to add on! Lol. 😂😂

[@LisaCulton]

He never lets her fully express herself and the resentment is palpable. He still doesn't get it.

[@jk66]

The colleagues vs lovers bit is all too true. Happens in a lot of relationships. Both partners need to show each other the little bits. Oh and don’t beat yourself up Riley

[@challam7]

You two are amazing. Stay strong and realise how lucky you are to have each other sharing the amazing experiences you get up too!!! ⛵️

[@davidshepherd1107]

Elayna you have never looked so well. Not even in the first videos. There must be a huge element of you finding yourself as an individual. I am happy for you. Riley has been in advance of you probably due to his life threatening injury prior to sailing. As such you are on par with your journeys. To cap off your existence you have two beautiful boys who give so much joy to the World. They are loved by two fundamentally great parents and you should both pat yourself on the back. On the sailing side I can't wait to see the trimaran in the ocean. Thank you for cheering up my life- that's why I watch.

[@davidlepenske6697]

Really great post today. I appreciate your authenticity and loved your updates. I think it’s important for all of us to look back now and say that the last few years have been hard and unexpected. I’m trying to plan my journey forward and it’s challenging to do. I admire you both as individuals, a couple and as parents. Wishing all of you the very best going forward aboard your new home, and look forward to your videos as your lives and journeys continue. Thank you! ❤️👊👊

[@kinitokaibai6361]

Appreciate the transparency and updates about life guys! Im impressed with how pro-active you've both been with re-connecting with eachother. Regarding AG1...I bought it and it was an excellent deal but sorry it taste like 'grass' to me🤢 so I add fresh pineapple juice which helps heaps😁so looking forward to the launch woo hoo🎉🎊💥💥

[@stephenbmorton]

I started adding coconut water to my AG1 and it's quite nice and now I look forward to it in the morning.

[@OttawaAndy]

I hated it actually. Glad someone finally said it.

[@bforshay]

Really appreciate that you both have recognized the grounding needed to keep the relationship alive. It takes extra care and feeding and there is no subsitutue. Love your video, because you are authentic and real. And at the same time, investing in each other more. Your goals are high bars for sure and keep that in front of you always, but with regular dose of reality. You both are fun to listen to, to watch! and to witness the evolution of your lives generally. I am amazed at how you are able to share and still survive life and the world. Thank you!

[@juliaszlosowska7075]

I love this type of updates! So good to see you two thrive!

[@ItsMeNanaD71]

Humility is a rare thing to find these days yet it’s quite refreshing. I admire you for that.

[@stvcolwill]

This is my new most favorite video of ya'lls by far. So awesome! A kernel of truth in every breath. So, so, so genuine and diplomatic and real sounding! I do SO HOPE we can experience more videos like this. All your content is BOMB anyways but this one really resonated with me for some reason. I think it's because we've (you guys and all us viewers) have really become like family in a way. Not traditionally, but in a longevity and growth kind of way! Kind of like the Journey of Life (ya'lls... ours).

[@emilierae36]

Long time fan and sailor here! Just here to comfort you Elena, I actually live in Japan and in the past 2 years we’ve had ONE recognizable earthquake. I grew up with earthquakes and here, we’ve rarely had any! Can’t wait to see y’all on a voyage to Japan! God Bless!

[@ronbuchanan5761]

Nice to catch up on your lives! Excellent production as usual. So relatable.

[@sunnyrays2281]

Elayna, you always look amazing and it’s so obvious that you’ve always been intentional about your health and fitness. Both by watching what you cook on the boat and even you doing stretches and yoga, etc. You are definitely an inspiration to many of us women as we recognize as we are getting older it is so hard to maintain that. Please know that people probably don’t say anything because they don’t want you to feel objectified in any way. It’s such a weird culture anymore where people feel like they can’t even compliment people sometimes because the person might receive that compliment in an unintended way. Not that you would but I think so many of us have been trained and programmed to withhold compliments that have to do with physical attributes, especially toward a woman. Also, I see you as very smart and hard-working, and even though you always look amazing, I want you to recognize that your viewer community sees the dynamic and well-rounded person that you are and not just a gorgeous human. You both are an inspiration to so many of us! I know keeping up on the videos can be tough on your personal life but thank you for everything you do for those of us around the world watching.

[@stvcolwill]

well said! 100%

[@alabamber1573]

It’s the balance… compliments that aren’t objectifying or sexual….signed a woman

[@zgreyling7340]

Omw Riley!! When i started watching you guys on V1 you were a happy go lucky party kid. You have grown so so much so fast to the knollegeable man you are today that i saw Elana strugling to keep up with you. But so glad you guys are doing so great now❤❤❤

[@carolinemcdougall8708]

Really, whoa. Funny what different people see.

[@NancySlider]

Perhaps if Riley didn’t interrupt Elayna as much she could express herself… I stopped watching about a year ago after subscribing for many years because I felt so frustrated for her. About 5 min into this video I remembered why I stopped. And not just my opinion… I’ve seen this same thought on every comment section over hundreds of vids.

[@michaeltedman4001]

Loved the video guys! Can totally relate to your struggles and appreciate your honesty - that book is so true and helpful and I also found it to be eye opening for me. I feel like often us men are always pushing forward looking at the big picture and we miss all the small things with our relationships that really matter :) thanks for being so honest guys

[@sdowdell1979]

Your integrity to accept personal responsibility in your relationship speaks volumes. I've always liked your channel but that's something that gives me new respect. Way to be. Cheers!

[@SailingPennyLane]

Here is another book recommendation! I've worked with my partner for 20 years, building a business, now co-workers for another business, and we are getting ready to take off and go live on our boat in 2 years. This book was a life saver LOL! Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It Paperback - June 19, 2001 by Allan Pease (Author), Barbara Pease (Author)

[@carenclemmons5002]

Yes indeed. Not hard edged title but I wish when Elayna started to make a statement, Riley wouldn’t interrupt with some comment. It’s a sad look Riley. Let the women speak her mind. No skin off you unless you make it so. Just saying. She gets cut off almost every time she speaks and doesn’t finish a sentence. What’s that about? It’s not all about any one person I assume. Maybe I’m wrong. Just saying. Be sensitive to her mind Riley. It does have a voice. Listen.

[@barbaraannscarlet7885]

Thank-you for working hard on maintaining your healthy relationship. For the kids and ALL of us who thrive off of your ambitions, adventures , Brilliant , curious and apparently Rogue Pirate Boyos !❤ 🇨🇦 ps loved the idea of Vagabonde 111 , in small black writing ,on the Yacht, along with whatever her name will be... .

[@tkj793]

Guys you’ve made it through two toddler boys, on top of everything else, that’s amazing, love your journey, it’s so real ❤

[@SteburgFTW]

#1 well deserved for sure. Entertainment, life lessons, and knowledge of the space around you. Always looking forward to what is to come.