STARTING OVER IN THE PHILIPPINES - A Filipina Widowed at 41

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@hayseedfarmboy]

hope you and family are doing well after the storm

[@diddly1661]

Pea she is still a cutie, even at 41 to bd i am not in phillippines

[@JD-nx6by]

how does one deterimne the date of when you posted any one particular video?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m not sure, JD, but I always follow the same schedule. I upload my videos at 5pm, and release them at 8pm every Tuesday and Friday. In the case of this video, it’s exactly 11 days old 😊

[@BayouBilly751]

@@JD-nx6by click the more button. This shows up as September 27th, 2022, unless I am mistaken.

[@47boogieman67]

This lady is not going to be alone for long she's beautiful and intelligent. And she sure as hell does not look 41 she's amazing looking. I wish her and her daughter nothing but the best. And with her attitude and her smile I think she's going to be fine

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I think so too, Boogie 👍😊

[@bigjohnson7415]

Indeed!

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

I don't think the kid will be fine. The story that she became pregnant is a little suspicious. What was she thinking by not using birth control? Did she spermjack him and expect it to pressure him to marry her? I want to hear the man's story.

[@paulstarnes417]

She really don't look 41, Filipinas are the strongest most beautiful in the world and they really do stay looking so young for so long..my Berna is 33 looks like 19.

[@malcolmhenaughan6786]

I agree, she looks amazing for her age, hope she finds a good guy to look after her and her daughter..

[@joemelton7023]

Dear Pea, I wanna say thank you for your efforts in showing ladies closer to my age that are able to not only share insights,but the opportunities available to foreigners that want a more mature meaningful relationship. I must say that I am very grateful for your efforts and very scared to even bother with having anyone in life again. Thanks to American females. Well enough of that. I really should have left at thank you for these videos. Joe

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for the kind tip, Joe, please never give up - it’s always worth it to have someone in your life. Who else can you share both the joy - and the grief - with? ❤️❤️❤️

[@Murph_.]

Two of my favorite vloggers. Sharon's story is tragic, and it's so amazing to see her happy and doing well. Filipinas are strong and smart and both of you ladies show that to all that watch your channels. Pea, another great interview and another terrible story that turned positive. I'm so lucky that I found a Filipina like you two ladies.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I sure am glad you have such good taste in vloggers, Murph 😂👍

[@ernestbaddger9617]

Great Interview Pea 💋💋

[@gusgilder2796]

I lost my beautiful filipina wife last year having been very happily married for 31 years here in the UK. I'm not ready to meet someone else yet but I don't want to be alone forever and seeing the lovely Sharon here has made me think that one day I may even meet another filipina of a suitable age. My wife and I met in the Philippines and having been there many times I know how wonderful the people are. I'm now looking forward to my next visit even more! Thank you for the video Pea.

[@MeYou-yz2yz]

Same here Gus. Lost my Filipina wife last year after thirty years of marriage. Met and married in Hong Kong. Lived in UK for 25 years. Good luck.

[@shawnstatzer95]

On the thousands upon thousands of videos (not always about the Philippines, though) that I have watched over the years (since KZbin first came out) The Filipina Pea ranks on the top five best that I have ever seen. I am amazed how she manages responding to these post. I imagine, as her subscribers grow, it will become impossible for her to respond to every one of the comments, but even if she cannot, her content is extremely informative and comical, and her English pronunciation is amazing...sobra mabuti. Salamat.

[@paulstan9828]

She has my respect for keeping such a good attitude through such a hard time.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Agreed 👍😊

[@tommythomas6553]

My hat is off to her deceased husband that took care of business after his passing and not leaving her with dreams and BS 👏👏👏

[@slainteron4027]

The jealousy factor of her family is unimaginable. They judged her when poor so they put her down... They judged her when she found someone and was taken care of and put her down. They treat her like a dog after her tragic loss, thank god for her niece and to her late husband that saw that she was taken care of. The jealousy here especially in families is disgusting.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I couldn’t agree more, Ron, I couldn’t agree more 🥺

[@ericrollings]

What the families often don’t understand is many foreigners get tremendous joy from taking care of their Filipina. No different than the joy many Filipinas get from cooking, loving and taking care of their man. My family is thankful for the way I am treated and cared for. I hope most Filipino families would be thankful too. When the care and affection is reciprocated, it’s a beautiful thing.

[@garywalker4272]

Good interview Ms. Pea! I follow Sharon's channel and think she'll do great vlogging! I'm glad you got her some exposure! Nothing tongue in cheek to say today, arghhhh I'm losing my touch...

[@briane173]

My late wife was DRIVEN by the horrible way she and her family were treated when she was young, primarily because they were so impoverished. It's hard to go through life with indignation being the primary motivator, but it IS a motivator -- and there was no one tougher than my girl.

[@peteb6072]

I’ve seen this jealous first hand

[@kmorris180]

Shy Pea, what an amazing person you are. I really think it's awesome when you promote someone else's work. It's beautiful to see another giver helping someone. Thank you, Pea. I'll go to Sharon's vlog and share it with the Filipino-American group. Maybe it'll take off.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks KM! We’ll see if she gets a little bump from this video 👍❤️

[@henryhoward7702]

I was thinking the same thing, it is so refreshing to see someone try to help someone else get ahead in life, pea is a very special girl.

[@dawster1949]

Thanks Pea for bringing us such an interesting guest and supporting a fellow KZbinr. Sharon is lovely - such a beauty who doesn’t look a day over 25! A tragic story, but so good to hear she is in a more positive phase of her life now. I love your real-life interviews and this one is a gem! Surely Sharon won’t be single for long - I hope she finds someone genuine to complete the life she and her daughter deserve 💜

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I have a feeling she’ll meet someone, too 👍😊

[@corpsmanfmf9772]

Well done, Pea. Your real generosity towards Sharon sets a fine standard.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Corpsman 👍❤️

[@shughl1]

I learned a lot from Sharon's life story about perseverance and also keeping a positive attitude. Thank you so much for this, Pea!!!!!

[@ronprince1478]

Thanks Pea, Sharon is is an inspirational lady.

[@brucehaines6459]

Pea I think it's wonderful how you accept other people that are in the same industry as you trying to make a little bit of a living in the Philippines and you invite them on your channel and open it up so people can go to their channel you have a kind heart but I've known that right along but no one's as good as you you're the best thanks again for a wonderful interview I enjoyed it

[@markshaw1966]

Great interview Pea!

[@ricklee5802official.1Rope_fan]

Thanks Pea. Great vid, great advice from Sharon. It's great to see that she got through her hard times. I found out my ex pinay from Davao was still married. Her family were all in on the deceit. One needs to be super careful.

[@dimond1806]

Sharon is a very strong and beautiful woman. I would love to meet a woman as strong and beautiful as she is. Wish her the best. Thank you Pea for continuing to bring us real stories about others in the Philippines. Your stories really put a face on life in your counrty.

[@andrewc2670]

Hi Pea, interesting interview. I've been having a rough few days myself so it's great to hear a story like this which helps put things into perspective. In life it's so easy to focus on your own problems and you lose sight of the bigger picture. Sharon's a great example of how to maintain a positive attitude and she is no double providing a great example for her daughter. One thing I do think her story illustrates quite well is the challenges Filipinas face when deciding to commit to a LDR with a foreigner. Most channels only focus on the ups & downs from the foreigner's perspective.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Please contact me in the back channels if you’d like to talk about it, Andrew. I’m always here for you 👍❤️

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

I don't think getting pregnant after a few weeks dating is a good example for the kid. I don't believe her story. She may have spermjacked him expecting him to marry her. Where's his right to not have a kid? With all the men there, she couldn't find the right one amongst them? She probably met Mr. Right several times but rejected them because they lacked the wealth of the foreigner. She picks foreigners with a language barrier and distance. What does that say about her inability to get along in her own culture? She appears pretty so men simp to her. Then they get to know her and find out she's not good for them. What does she bring to the table for a relationship besides single motherhood and a history of failures?

[@JonC-hl8uu]

I will be traveling to Cebu in May 2023. I can only hope that I meet a woman with the strength, determination and humility that you two women have.

[@juanquinones221]

Tragic story,God has plans for you Sharon,you are a good mother with a fine talented daughter,You and Filipina Pea should be commended for bringing this story to life,thank you Pea for the interview,and Sharon I have nothing but praise for you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Juan, we appreciate it 👍😊

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

She created her own tragedy. She got pregnant after only a few weeks dating a man who definitely didn't want a baby. Where is her responsibility for causing the tragedy and isn't her life merely the natural social response to chicks behaving badly?

[@Niftynorm1]

@@CaptainJackSparrow110 Wow, who pissed in your Wheaties today?

[@stevemorris3544]

What a story Pea, Sure sounds and looks like a wonderful woman. Great attitude, smart, pretty, humor and got her act together.

[@bartphlegar8212]

Sharon's story is very sad indeed, but major props to her as she seems to be pushing through life's challenges. And she can be sure that her husband loved her, leaving her relatively secure financially as he did. With her spirit and positive attitude, Sharon and her daughter will be fine...Her husband's story and premature passing is tragic, but not uncommon. I don't know his full backstory, yet I can tell you that many in his age group are often trapped by commitments imposed upon us - kids and/or parents - and in often thankless caretaker roles that prevent us from living our own lives in the way we envisioned, or to save money at the level we should. Sharon's understanding of her man's predicament is as admirable as it is rare. She deserves, and will no doubt find, a loyal life companion in time...And as an admonishment to my peers...For the love of God, don't flitter about in retirement (or life in general) with a self-indulgent, negligent, and hedonistic lifestyle - at the end of which you become a burden to your children or other loved ones. Be responsible for yourself, and avoid having repetition of tragedies like this. Eat responsibly. Act responsibly. Stay active...And to you Pea, you're awesome as always, offering a pull for Sharon and her fledgling channel... 🤗

[@phillipmoffitt685]

Sharon sounds amazing! 43 year old guy here from the US would be happy to see Sharon when I head out to the Philippines!

[@rogandbingofbingalahtravel3680]

It's a sad scenario, indeed, to be a widow at 41 in the Philippines. Even worse and more common, a widow at 50 or above. Children and relatives are her only hope.😇 I pray the best for this lovely woman!

[@alecks6991]

Dont rely on any family members only.start investing on hiring household help in the future.eventually ,children will have their own family to take good care with and they dont have obligation to help their parent/s. I remember a single uncle ,who financed college ed for his three nephews and niece.when he retired and got sick,nobody even bothered to visit him ,as theyre busy working and tending to their respective families.fortunately,he was able to hire maids,whom he is going to leave all his tangible and non tangible assets,when he dies.

[@possum9704]

Awesome pea you're the best

[@Crazykid949]

Sharron seems to be a real trooper and inspiration of life. I know how the heart breaks with the loss of a loving partner. My high School Girlfriend for 3 years was killed in a car accident when she was just turning 16. We were young, but we wanted to be together forever. And we thought we had forever to be together. I still think about her now and then and just the memory of her makes my day better. You never forget your first taste of true love, and with her being gone for 35 years now, I feel that as long as I remember her, she will live on in my heart. Thank you Pea and Sharron for this video, you helped make my day by making me remember a time when I felt the most love I have ever felt in my life.

[@maltnmetal4085]

Sharon what an amazing Lady and Mother, thank you Pea for putting her link here, I think her subscribers have now increased 10-fold . You are a natural interviewer Pea letting people talk without constantly interrupting them .

[@davelarsen9847]

God bless Sharon for having the fortitude and moral courage to keep that sweet child and for having the faith to try Belgium twice! I did long distance for 5 years myself and it is hard. For those of us that don't earn like Chad or Tyrone, a trip to the Filipines is a big, big deal so I totally understand his plan to make and save money, what a great generous man her husband was and what an amazing woman Sharon is. Good luck to Sharon with her daughter and her channel! Great (sad) story Pea!

[@timfrink9278]

I have seen Sharon's vlogs and have seen her as a guest on other's platforms. Wishing her the best!! Pea, I can see you becoming an influential figure one day. May you keep growing.

[@greystar8074]

Pea you just keep impressing me all the time with your content. This one hit a little close to home. I was widowed at 44 when my wife passed. Sharon is a strong woman and thank you for telling her story. She looks great for her age but you pea look like your 20 too 😉☺.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, Grey Star! And I’m sorry for your loss - I hope you’ve healed, if that’s possible 😊

[@vernondavis561]

Hi Pea, I really admire Sharon’s resolve in the face of so much adversity.

[@hardmtnbiker]

Such a tragic story but she has a great attitude and passion for her life. I have a 60 y/o friend that met a 22y/o Filipina from Cebu on a dating site. He was falling madly in love even though he never met in person. He went to Cebu to meet her and her family and bought her iPhone and other things. Then got engaged after a 2 week visit then returned to USA. They started the K1 visa process and everything was going well. Then he had a heart attack and needed open heart surgery called a CABG. It’s an intense surgery but fortunately me didn’t have to much damage to his system and survived without needing a lot of therapy. They ended up married in USA and now have a child, his first child. He was never previously married. Anyway, my point is that you never know how important your health is until you do.

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

So how old is he today? That's a lot to happen in a short time. It is statistically unlikely for a happy ending once he brings her to the US.

[@nandorblue]

Matandang Madaling Mamatay: Old Man Rich Man Who is Going to Die Soon

[@thnaykhwam6554]

Wish him good health and a happy family. God bless

[@robertgarcia8017]

Pea, Hi again this was a breathtaking story . I have been single for 6 years and looking to try the Philippines one day , from what I have seen I really want to explore my options there ,but not with dateing sites tried that has not worked at all for me. Love your advice and videos here, I look forward to watching more and see where the dream goes.

[@BATMAN777888]

Hello Pea. I always look forward to your videos but this is such a sad story 😢. I really hope the story ends happily. I wish Sharon all the best for her future happiness. Bless her and her daughter 🙏🏼. Thank you so much Pea for always being true and honest about life in the Philippines. Love to your beautiful heart ❤️

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

Do you also pray for the man she spermjacked who now has to live with having a daughter somewhere in the world that he didn't want? I'd like to hear the man's story before I give blessings to her bad decisions.

[@Geoduck.]

Nice to meet Sharon and learn a little about her life and new KZbin channel. My wife's family lives south of Lapu Lapu so during our visits we always spend time at resorts on Mactan Island. Perhaps Pea or Sharon could do a walk through of some of those beach resorts? I think Foreigners would be interested to learn about them.

[@yoyojoe9240]

Long distance relationships of more than 3 to 6 months are not healthy. It is important to have every day experiences, activities and to experience the feeling of Love and sacrifice grow every day together.

[@Collusion10]

Wrong. Pandemic kept us apart two years and we talked 12 hours a day and still do together now. Success

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

And what makes filipino men so unacceptable as husband for her? Or do they recognize her defects and reject her? She chooses foreign men who have language, culture and distance barriers to cover up her defects. Something's really wrong with that chick.

[@michaelwilbur4320]

You are definitely very informative to those of us from the west U.S.A. on the Philippine culture and ways , I find the Filipinas very attractive and educated.

[@soundslight7754]

What a story, thank you the Filipina Pea for bringing this heart felt story to us. Sharon's had major setbacks in life, but managed to keep her humanity, her faith, her loyalty and her essence regardless. She stays warm personable and open. Many other women in her position would be bitter, twisted, sad and man haters! Sharon is a wonderful human being and I'd love to meet her in person when I make my way to the Philippines. All her expectations of a new man are reasonable, except ".....that he loves my daughter"! He can accept her daughter, respect her, care for her, be supportive of her, try to be a good friend and male role model for her, but loving her.... if the daughter was 2 years old, that would be okay. Now that she is becoming a woman on her own rights, the expectation that he is able to love her in a few days, isn't realistic. Best wishes and god bless

[@glenproctor1999]

What a lovely lady! You totally need to adopt her as your elder sister. No way she is 41!! It was great to hear you two discussing vlogging too, I've wanted you to talk about your experiences online for a while. Lots of blessing for you both, she almost comes up to your standard of loveliness Pea (almost 😜) 😘❤🥰

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha I’d trade looks with her 😂

[@glenproctor1999]

@@TheFilipinaPea You are truly beautiful ❤

[@markmorrison1894]

@@TheFilipinaPea you are beautiful !!

[@angb4183]

Lovely attitude, Sharon! Adapt and overcome. Very helpful insights on Filipina- expat relations. Many thanks to you both, Pea and Sharon!

[@RodgerRamjet]

Sharon is a beautiful YOUNG woman.. ( tell her so.. 🤗), and my heart breaks for how much she has endured, how her family for the most part was intolerant a&&holes, and got some help from her niece, and deal with the loss of her husband.. that she was so adamant about NOT having an abortion, vs what i see her in the US where we have lunatic Democrats calling it LITERALLY "Reproductive health care"... they never can explain how killing your baby, up to and including at time of birth ( full term, healthy, viable baby ) is Reproductive health, and not murder.. I want to give this woman a hug, applause, and help.. if my own LDR doesnt work out, i would absolutely be open to meeting this woman/woman like her. ( NO NO NO, not suggesting i be set up, just saying, i would welcome a woman like this, with such strong family value, strength, and no doubt loyalty and endless love for the man in her life.. THAT, is what i mean..)..41 with a child, is both young(in MY eyes at 62) and you have an "instant" family, which for some of us, is a welcome goal. 🤗🤗🤗

[@ericsolkamans-kj2fd]

Catching up. Great Interview.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Glad you’re catching up! 👍❤️

[@homebasebelgium359]

As a Belgian I was very sorry to hear that Sharon had a bad experience with one of my fellow countrymen. What a coincidence that she finally married another Belgian, but so sad that she lost him so soon. He was only 63 and that is my age right now. I will certainly check out her channel. I know that every subscriber counts when you are trying to make money on KZbin. Anyway, she looks like a lovely lady and I'm sure she won't be "on the market" very long. I wish her every success for the future!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You could be Belgian number 3, Paul 😂😂😂😂

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

Was it right for her to spermjack the Belgian after a few weeks of dating? I'm glad he got away and wasn't forced to be a parent against his will. She shows no responsibility for her bad behavior. She shows no ability to have a successful work life. She is uncorrectable by her own family. Filipinos have rejected her as spouse and mother material. Or she rejected her own culture in favor of foreign men with language, culture and distance barriers to cover up her own defects.

[@Niftynorm1]

My grandmother was from Liege, I hope to visit there one day.

[@homebasebelgium359]

@@TheFilipinaPea Hahaha! At the moment there are practical objections to starting a relationship with another Filipina and by the time that situation changes she will long be spoken for! ;-)

[@gregoryharstone4768]

Super nice show about life in phil.

[@gunnydeeP.I.]

Tragic story. My thoughts immediately went to the LDR situation for 6 years with her husband. I can understand someone scoping out the dating apps out of curiosity. I think lots of us have checked them out at one time or another. What I dont understand is why men will get into "Relationships" with filipinas knowing very well they are not in any position at all to either move there or to have the filipina move to their country. I would advise someone interested in a Filipina to at least be in a financial/career position that you can ACT on a relationship; Otherwise you are wasting their time and yours.

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

The tragedies of her life are of her own making.

[@nate61]

Great advice indeed in any relationship 🙂

[@aaronjones2554]

Great chat between two lovely ladies, who deserve the very best.

[@andyincebucity6296]

I’ve been in Cebu for 5 months and spent time in Vietnam. You learn not to view life here through your western eyes. Especially the situation with single and abandoned mothers that’s created by church and laws on abortion. I never allow myself to see it as right or wrong, just different.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If you live only through western eyes, you won’t like what you see 😊

[@stoneagedjp]

@@TheFilipinaPea Well said.

[@maurice2014]

So you seriously think created by the church? Sounds like a lack of accountability to me. I'm sure the church would rather the father stay with the mother of his children. Also, as far as western eyes goes, I've traveled to many countries you don't just give up your native "eyes"/perspective, but you do gain understanding.

[@clydekimsey7503]

@@TheFilipinaPea 😪

[@yoyojoe9240]

My two cents: Single and abandoned Mothers and Kids, is created mostly by irresponsible men that go to PHP to engage in Sex without considering the consequences. They swindle good Catholic females into a relationship that has nothing to do with Love,, it is mostly the men's physical attraction to a young woman, that is already in distress by a financial situation and a Family also in financial distress. Not every human knows and understand the feeling of Love. Great Sex, is Not Love, it is just a part of it. To sacrifice ourselves for another human, that's Love. (among other things). I'm sure that one day soon, the Php Gov. will generate or copy existing Laws that will make these men responsible for the well being of those Kids and the "momma". (Remember, they have copies of their Passports, they can find the man.) I could go On & On......🫡

[@rickmoody6984]

I was sick with covid and missed this video. I'm glad I found it and watched it. Very interesting. Thank you Miss Pea

[@danelionheart5881]

True story. My Grandmother that was a real B-tch was 76 years old and dating a man 80. He had a small problem his little man was not strong enough to get up. Well she married him and went to A tropical Island for their Honeymoon. That night things got heated up . And the 80 year olds little guy was strong as a young bull. My Grand Mother was having the time of her life she was going for the Gold rush and loving it because he never said a word he just let her do all the work . After my Grandmother was done doing her deed and noticed something a bit off her new Husband was dead. Well she had to call for help and well let's just say the people that went in to her Motel room was leaving with a story they will never forget. One guy made a comment and she pretty much said I think I f him to death. So the first time she got to have fun with her Husband was also her last. Sad part was the man's family accused her of poisoning him to get his Money. Then they found out my Grandmother had a lot more money then he ever did. The autopsy came back and pretty much his heart gave out as soon as the little man started standing to attention. They asked my Grandmother how come she didn't stop and call for help and her words were simple it was the first time he got it up and I was in the mood I didn't notice he was not breathing . She said she gives up on men that was the fourth man that died on her . A year later she got married again . she was 77. 3 years later she past away. out of respect for my Dad I went to the wake . I saw so many people I could not count them all. I asked my Dad who are all these people. He said Son they are all you're relatives .

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha

[@Niftynorm1]

That is how I want to go, with a smile on my face.

[@keiffermcmillan1]

Wow absolutely gorgeous woman.. I wish I could find a woman like Sharon

[@franktaylor7617]

😎👍 🇺🇸 I remember when I was doing the online thing many years ago. I would get a contract about once a day, sometimes more. Many from the Ukraine, Thailand, Philippines and others from southeast Asia. Most were clearly scams. Some were interesting scams. Only about 5% were actual people. Eventually I learned my lesson. I've come to the conclusion that the online thing is not a viable option. Far too much sketchiness. Be like learning life lessons from Twitter. Good luck to this young lady but I would advise to stay away from the online thing. I usually ends poorly. Odds are better to do the old fashioned face to face thing. Cheers Ms. Pea

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Agreed, Fluffy! 😂😂😂 (thought I’d forget, didn’t you?)

[@franktaylor7617]

@@TheFilipinaPea 😂 Thanks for reminding me. I totally didn't forget 😳 Cheers Ms Filipina Pea.🤟 After 2 years you're still doing a fantastic job. Hugs.🤗

[@eagle97007]

I found that its easier to weed out the scammer online than in real life. Usually only takes a few minutes online.

[@danielwykowski6069]

Thank you Pea, What a geat life lessons you bring, You and the filipina people are so beautiful, I'm continually amazed.

[@ctw2770]

Her story about how her own family treated her, was like how my brother treated me a year to a year and a half ago after my father had died. I was living with my father, and my brother and his wife and children had lived beside me, and right before my father had died, I found out that everything was turned over from my father to my brother 20 years earlier. My father had lifetime rights to the house and land but neither one of them told me anything about that and I was living with my father for 22 years before my father passed. At the time I was trying to get on disability, so in the end my brother ended up with everything and I didn't get anything. That's how family will treat you. So once my disability started coming, I moved away from my brother it's been a year now and I've never looked back

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

I'd like to hear their side of the story first. And why don't you thank them for taking care of you for all those years?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And don’t ever feel guilty for not looking back

[@ericsherman4181]

@@CaptainJackSparrow110 exactly

[@ctw2770]

I wonder who you're talking to, Jack. I came back home because my father asked me to when I was 35 years old and it wasn't too long he had retired at 62. It was only me and him. Then I completely took care of him for the last 2 years of his life. By then I was 57

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

@@ctw2770 So, maybe you are correct. I also know that culturally, the oldest male child is to receive the bulk of the inheritance. That may be a factor. I don't know what his reasons may have been. Unless he was insane, he must have had some logical reason for what he did. And because your father and brother are men and you're a chick I'm going to assume that you don't have the same understanding as a man how responsibility for wealth and inheritance is important and operates.

[@rickb5689]

2 months out of 8 years “together”. Hmmm 🤔

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I don’t think I could’ve done it 😳

[@bernard123ish]

Thanks!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I really do appreciate your support, Keven ❤️👍

[@MrSquidd88]

She shouldn't have much trouble finding another guy. Sensible, pretty, no noticible tats or nose/ear hardware.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Not that I could tell 😂

[@stevesmith1127]

That is a very good woman!! I am sure that your daughter is the light of your life!!:) I know that my daughter's are the light of my life:)

[@stanklein8906]

Pea I remember back as you were just beginning, and your interview with Paul. I became a subscriber that day and now I wait for every single video. I'm so happy to you helping others, as always. I watched Sharon's subscribers almost double just today. How does it feel to be so loved and listened to? And more karaoke Pea!

[@dancohen7683]

Nice video Pea! Good to see Sharon’s strength shine through.

[@jack13210]

I confirm ladies that not all Belgians are like that, these “people” unfortunately exist everywhere. I intend to do what it takes to marry my lovely Filipina , we have 20 years difference, she is 45 and my only goal in our lives will be the search for happiness. She has 2 grownups sons and I will never replace their father but I will be there for them. Thank you Pea, I enjoy your videos, all the best

[@ArcticCoder]

She’s fabulous. Best of luck to her.

[@bobmartin7717]

I clicked on the link you provided for Sharon and watched her video response to you and it was very nice. You both are very decent people. Take care.

[@mariomejia1701]

Such an amazingly interesting sad and inspiring story.. Filipinas are so resilient.. amazing people ❤

[@thnaykhwam6554]

Thanks for d video. Sharon possessed admirable moral values and the still remain positive, despite 2 painful experiences. God bless

[@kranzonguam]

Interesting interview! Sharon seems like a really good person who has bounced back from some really hard times. Thanks for sharing her story! Take good care. I'm already looking forward to your next one!

[@dougmcnealy429]

Have been a Sharon Subscriber for a couple of months, thanks for interviewing Her, got more insight into her life !!!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I need to check out her videos too 👍😊

[@ToppsKillz]

I am the opposite story. Married to my beautiful Filipina almost 18 years with our 15 year old Daughter. My wife passed last year. I am 44 and starting new as well. I definitely feel Sharon's Story. I wish the best for them.

[@taranscott155]

A very impressive lady - so genuine and humble, even in the face of such hardship. I wish her all the luck in the world.

[@chrisking6155]

What a remarkable lady Sharon is. Ive been away Pea and just catching up on your content. I hope she finds the right partner and avoids the rogues. Intetesting interview but a familiar story. Best of Luck Sharin and I look forward to seeing your vlog content.

[@ogfred1783]

Thank you for your interview on Sharon, I consider her a friend and a very honest and has a very good heart😁

[@orvillelb]

Thanks Pea enjoyed. I subscribed to Sharon’s channel. What a story.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Orville! I’m sure she’ll appreciate it 👍❤️

[@keithhudson1358]

Ms. Pea, Sharon is one brave woman just as Ms. Pea is one brave woman. And thank you for the new YT Channel. I will subscribe to her and watch her videos as well as yours.

[@robbiedrummond4513]

This channel is better than t.v! Varied subject matter in-depth interviews and a caring, intelligent and funny host! All hail the Pea!!!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Now that’s a powerful compliment, Robbie. Thanks 👍👍❤️

[@robbiedrummond4513]

You're welcome!

[@ljw3491]

Great interview Pea! I am sure her channel will grow with the exposure you have given her and she is so well spoken, beautiful and sincere I will definitely check out her channel. She looks so amazingly young for 41 it's hard to believe!!!

[@scotthummer1319]

What an incredible story. Thanks Pea

[@jamesemery3639]

Subscribed, thanks Pea, Good luck to Sharon.

[@normanbrown1723]

Another heart moving story. What a wonderful lady. Strong and a very beautiful soul.

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

Nooooo!!!!! Don't wish her single motherhood cancer on any man. Don't wish to burden a man with her bad behavior and life choices. Even her own family can't correct her defects. If she has no work history to brag about then she won't have a wife ability to brag about. She was unacceptable to the thousands of local men she met in her lifetime or she rejected them in favor of wealthier foreign men with language, culture and distance barriers. She's trouble for any sane man.

[@johnstaufferredraven2073]

What a beautiful and strong spirit. Your story is inspiring. Keep the faith and listen to the quiet still voice.

[@diegofirestone2113]

One of my Favorite videos of yours,, she is a lovely woman and I wish the best for her and her daughter,,,,

[@bradfordrobertson552]

She has the same quality in character as you that is so nice to see there is someone with a beautiful heart

[@davidschuck8983]

Very interesting video. Thank you.

[@olyman63]

Awesome show thank you ladies. Wow she had been through a lot. Have a great day Pea

[@GeecheeLion]

Hi Sweet Pea. This is the first video I have watched of yours in a couple months. It's been hard dealing with this broken 💔 heart on top of other things. I've been following Sharon for a couple months and saw her notification of her appearance with you. Match made in heaven..with you(my Favorite as you know) and the rising Filipina Star Sharon. Still loving ❤️ you.

[@winpowell1024]

Wow, Sweet Pea, Sharon is such a beautiful woman with a great attitude! I initially was not going to watch the vlog, but I am so glad that I heard her story.

[@geraldcomfort8820]

Now that I've actually watched your video. LOL thank you for the link, I'll follow and show support.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Gerald 👍👍👍

[@dennisb7930]

Great video Pea n best of luck to Sharon

[@BrendonSchaferCT]

Sharon is very beautiful. So are you Pea.

[@dougshaw9701]

Great show Pea...she is a survivor for sure.

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

She survived tragedies of her own making.

[@ronniesouthern7829]

Hello Pea. Enjoyed the video it was a pleasure to meet Sharon. I hated to hear about the loss of her husband. She seems to be in a better place in her life. I will be sure to check out the link to her channel. Have a good week and look forward to your next video soon. 💐

[@jeffslocum1925]

Hello pea, just subscribed to sharon's site. Looking forward to watching her videos. Very sad story Sharon shared , I'm glad to see she is doing well . Such a strong lady.

[@aaronarnold7653]

Aloha Pea, thank you for bringing us this lovely lady.

[@edwarddavila9925]

Interesting interview, Pea, with the help you just gave her, I'm sure Shara's Channel will get the necessary boost. 😉

[@devinbryne9208]

Sharon is a beautiful delightful woman, God bless her.

[@dustbusterz]

Wow, What An Unusual Interview. This Sharon is 1 Very Inspiring young Woman. She's Definitely Been thru a Lot. So Sorry to hear about her Loss. She's Quite Beautiful, Seems very Grounded and Intelligent , I'll have to Check out her Videos. Thanks for going to all the Trouble to Bring us Some of the Most Varied and Entertaining Videos out there.

[@whiteonggoy7009]

Sharon is a remarkable and beautifull women,she can still smile after all that has happened to her..we can learn a lot from her. p.s I will now visit her channel.

[@robertpiekarski6115]

Thank you Pea for this heart touching story of Sharon. Since my Filipina partner died from cancer several months ago after we were together for 12 years, I certainly could relate to most everything Sharon went through.

[@MrERL-bv7nb]

Nice story thank you I will subscribe to her channel very good content thanks again!

[@mikeburgan7675]

Thank you and Sharon

[@johnmurphy8791]

Pea, thanks for this helpful video. Family is always entangled with all Filipinas. Many times positively & too many times negatively. We all need to be aware of this from the start.