Starving for Another Person - Love Addiction Recovery

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SelfLoveU

SelfLoveU

Күн бұрын

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@kapilbhatia8736
@kapilbhatia8736 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Jenna, You've enlightened me. I absolutely needed to hear this to get out of such an addiction. It might be a painful process, but you have made me determined to boldly take the exit route. Eternally thankful and obliged. Thanks a lot
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!
@edgreen8140
@edgreen8140 3 жыл бұрын
It"s hard inner child work hurts but it makes me stronger. No emotional intimacy. So many people just think sex is intimacy; it's not. Emotional intimacy is what we need. Yes i am aware. The reason is im disabled. I belong to a group and maybe someone there has the same ideas as i do i love people who differentiate themselves from others. Its not about looks its about substance.
@newchrisusa
@newchrisusa 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if they'll let Jenna continue posting from jail 🤔 kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavJlIyqdpWDf6c
@jacobromero2634
@jacobromero2634 3 жыл бұрын
Rejection my EGO is wounded I'm devastated n tired I want to heal
@jacobromero2634
@jacobromero2634 3 жыл бұрын
I have GOD I still struggle I want to know that I deserve better
@teresareid5034
@teresareid5034 3 жыл бұрын
Love this Ive been healing and working on myself the past 2yrs I never felt loved as a child so I learnt to reach out for love from anything or anybody and I never learnt to set boundaries putting boundaries down in life meant to me no love so I would reach out to help everybody so I was accepted and be loved but it wasn’t real love and in the end those people would leave me now I set boundaries as I’ve learnt to start loving me and putting myself and my needs first when a man messaged me saying your such a beautiful women before I’d soak that in now I know I’m more than just looks I’m a person and I don’t always look beautiful and this is where I don’t take any notice of these type of men anymore ❤️🙏🏻🌎
@klddere3734
@klddere3734 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you 🙏🏻
@newchrisusa
@newchrisusa 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if they'll let Jenna continue posting from jail 🤔 kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavJlIyqdpWDf6c
@rosemarycarr3978
@rosemarycarr3978 10 ай бұрын
You've just described me to a tee
@teresareid5034
@teresareid5034 10 ай бұрын
@@rosemarycarr3978 ❤️❤️
@dabbadoodle
@dabbadoodle 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos helped me so much earlier this year, when I was absolutely heartbroken over someone who hurt me many many many times in the past. Now I realize they aren't good for me. Thanks so much for your resources. Your videos have helped me and others. Much love
@newchrisusa
@newchrisusa 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if they'll let Jenna continue posting from jail 🤔 kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavJlIyqdpWDf6c
@dabbadoodle
@dabbadoodle 2 жыл бұрын
@@newchrisusa lmao wtffff???
@TheBerndude
@TheBerndude 3 жыл бұрын
I’m such a love addict that I had to stop the video because this woman is so attractive. I wish I were joking.
@johnsantos3392
@johnsantos3392 2 жыл бұрын
Its all about creating new neuro pathways. I'm going through a painful divorce 26 years
@amberbartelt224
@amberbartelt224 3 жыл бұрын
So glad to see you are back. Your info is so good. And love your videos
@schahrzadmorgan
@schahrzadmorgan 2 жыл бұрын
I get so much out of your videos. I have or had a pattern of wanting men who didn't know I existed...they were never mean or abusive. The pain was intense. Your videos helped me make sense of what made no sense at all (why was I so attached to someone I met only once).
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 2 жыл бұрын
I understand! It is a huge problem, but there is healing if you work hard on yourself and learn how to love yourself.
@RaizyFried-v8n
@RaizyFried-v8n 9 ай бұрын
Hey! Loved your talk! Im a love addict and I really felt what you were saying!
@aniko2222
@aniko2222 2 жыл бұрын
Hi love thank you much gratitude for your loving presence. Just to say, it was touching when you mentioned Dr Margaret, I love her too ..so much. ♥️
@lindseyking6920
@lindseyking6920 Жыл бұрын
I just learned of this term today love addiction and it is so me I’m trying after 42 years
@Surayya444
@Surayya444 3 жыл бұрын
You’re so powerful. Wow. I would love to have you as a therapist
@JustCallMeLiberty
@JustCallMeLiberty 3 жыл бұрын
Just go to Whataburger and forget them lol
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 3 жыл бұрын
Ha ha
@chilloften
@chilloften 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve noticed lately my cousin not listening to me. She only wants heard & her way, her opinion known etc. Next time she tries to talk I will say…I want to hear & understand what you have to say and then I’d like a moment to be heard & understood. Bih
@CynthiaLaChina
@CynthiaLaChina 2 жыл бұрын
By far, this is the best I have heard explaining in detailed why we are so obsessed and and attached to our ex person, linking to inner child wounds. Thank you. Now do you another video that focus on healing our inner child? I’ve done inner child meditation and self love, self hypnosis, yet that longing and craving to the ex who repeatedly abandoned us has not subsided. What’s the best way to heal and move forward?
@sofiami5385
@sofiami5385 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You are a lifesaver ❤🙏
@saigenrose1032
@saigenrose1032 3 жыл бұрын
Hey welcome back Jenna! great to see you again, I hope you are doing well look forward to more new videos! Thank you for your advice & help, I've been going through a rough time in my life where all I attract is men who I don't find physically attractive, that they want me but I don't feel the same about them. I've never been lucky in love. I guess I need to quit looking & trying hopefully God will direct me the way my life should go. Much love & blessings xx 🙂👍🌷💗
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 3 жыл бұрын
Check out the book, "He's Scared, She's Scared: Understanding the Hidden Fears That Sabotage."
@taylorbee4010
@taylorbee4010 3 жыл бұрын
Something start from a healthy place or healthy ish place and devolve into this?
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think so...
@MidnhtCrzr
@MidnhtCrzr 2 жыл бұрын
I know somebody who's a real love addict. He always has to have somebody special or he would go crazy, and he admitted it. I recently had to take him off the list of friends after knowing him for 40 yrs because of his addiction. Like all other personality disorders, he can't face himself.
@catz8XinTheHat
@catz8XinTheHat 3 жыл бұрын
Hey there lovely lady, not heard from you in ages, love your advise, miss you keep the films coming xx
@deunasni2751
@deunasni2751 2 жыл бұрын
You are a really really beautiful woman and i cannot express enough how much you are helping me. Thank you so much !
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 2 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@kevinliverman9021
@kevinliverman9021 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your help, your great to listen too!
@phoenixbg2096
@phoenixbg2096 3 жыл бұрын
I literelly crayed what you said, specially at the end of video, its like you were talking to me😭 Thank you. God bless you dear❤️🙏🏼
@KandyKoatedKrafts
@KandyKoatedKrafts 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Jenna!! 💫💫
@pixie289
@pixie289 3 жыл бұрын
I love your wisdom but all the loud obnoxious ads in a short segment is a killer. Can't just listen. It ruins it.
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 3 жыл бұрын
I have Premier so I see no ads on KZbin. I think it's $1.99 per month. Sorry about the ads.
@kimtaylor1534
@kimtaylor1534 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so enjoying this with you it is much needed 😓 I before my nex of 9 years I was an attractive woman at that point will I get that back my inner connection and awareness are on key still have a long way to go
@jacobromero2634
@jacobromero2634 3 жыл бұрын
How help me??? I need help so desperately
@teresareid5034
@teresareid5034 3 жыл бұрын
Let go of your ego learn to love who you are set boundaries do things for you walking reading spending time with yourself tell yourself your worth more you deserve more loving who you are is setting rules down how people treat you find self help books meditation helps
@peterwalker6009
@peterwalker6009 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome back you. 🙏 onwards and upwards eh....
@frankpatron868
@frankpatron868 3 жыл бұрын
So nice to see you My friend
@royalelite3070
@royalelite3070 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!! 💜💜💜💜Please go live!!!
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 2 жыл бұрын
Okay!!!
@royalelite3070
@royalelite3070 2 жыл бұрын
The way you explained everything so eloquently made so much since! Now everyone is trying to heal! Have you ever heard of the shot heard around the world today on another live someone used your words you spoke. In your videos and I know they came from you! Well done please keep up the good work!!!💜💜💜💜
@royalelite3070
@royalelite3070 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChantalsCitizenshipMarriage wait what? Please elaborate
@sheebakitty378
@sheebakitty378 2 жыл бұрын
Sry about the misspellings below.
@EndTimeWarriorProject
@EndTimeWarriorProject 3 жыл бұрын
I let go for my end and it hurt.. I was needing his validation and companionship... But what I can't let go of is seeing his heart broke with no closure 😥 I could not explain a lot when I left, bcs I had to just leave. Hard situation, hard to describe quickly.
@RabbitHeart08
@RabbitHeart08 2 жыл бұрын
So helpful, thank you!
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@marcbarraco9618
@marcbarraco9618 3 жыл бұрын
This video was made for me. Thank you.
@kalanime
@kalanime 2 жыл бұрын
You are helping me understand SO much
@lindseyking6920
@lindseyking6920 Жыл бұрын
What does it mean to love yourself? I’m learning I just found out this is me today and I need to know the steps cause I don’t have funds to give right now
@lucyloo7457
@lucyloo7457 3 жыл бұрын
Great Video Jenna. Love it! Much appreciated!!
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@roorooadventures4771
@roorooadventures4771 3 жыл бұрын
Value skills to work on in self improvement and healing journey through life. Thank you for your video well said!😀🌞😺😉👍🤙⛵🙏🦋💗
@boop5287
@boop5287 2 жыл бұрын
So glad to see you again Jenna! Your videos have given me so much closure. Thank you!!
@HisaLight2mypath
@HisaLight2mypath 2 жыл бұрын
Very helpful and informative
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
I’m a little confused. If we are the only ones who can scratch that itch and our partners can’t then are we supposed to settle for a partner who leaves us starving since we are the only one that can fulfill ourself?
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU Жыл бұрын
No. Just scratch your own itch first.
@tuningintoDivineAscension
@tuningintoDivineAscension 3 жыл бұрын
I’m actually hungry rn. 😆
@haihai5293
@haihai5293 2 жыл бұрын
Super video.
@tyashanovack6878
@tyashanovack6878 Жыл бұрын
Healthy selfishnes that is surpressed.
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU Жыл бұрын
Interesting take.
@josephrobinetteobidenjr.2971
@josephrobinetteobidenjr.2971 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you Jenna. I thought this for you. “Do not be afraid of them; the LORD your God himself will fight for you.” (Deut. 3:22)
@jacobromero2634
@jacobromero2634 3 жыл бұрын
Help me how????????
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 2 жыл бұрын
Get counseling, journal, read books. Take care of yourself.
@frankpatron868
@frankpatron868 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for a nice message... Love u
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you too
@princesskimo2821
@princesskimo2821 2 жыл бұрын
The sound is very low
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU Жыл бұрын
sorry
@davidimes
@davidimes 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video!!! Thank You So Much!!
@frankpatron868
@frankpatron868 3 жыл бұрын
Your so happy It's contaigous
@bupoe4796
@bupoe4796 2 жыл бұрын
She's such a hottie.
@gregg3987
@gregg3987 2 жыл бұрын
Audio is poor on this video
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. We are working on this issue.
@mariamkinen8036
@mariamkinen8036 2 жыл бұрын
💭💕
@niyuki87
@niyuki87 3 жыл бұрын
Omg Jena... I'm crying so hard... For the past two months I've been trying to stay away from this toxic guy claimed to love me but he would only come around to use me. So many time I said goodbye, blocked him, one time I even changed my number, and he would come knocking on my door crying. 3 weeks ago said he loved me, this weekend he said he realized he doesn't need me anymore... All this after having sex with me. I am so shattered... Your videos are helping me tremendously! Thank you so much...
@dakotapeters5654
@dakotapeters5654 7 ай бұрын
11:51 does masterbation count as showing up for myself as well as self love? What if I just want more than the love I have for myself cause it doesnt feel special to me when its the same thing day in and day out night after night sleeping alone not even my dreams want me cause i never have recall of them its zzzz out then annoying alarm wakes me up from my pitch black dreamless soundless motionless sleep to go back to work etc etc cause it just repeats the same daily like a broken record. So many things that could be wrong with me i just pick and choose what i feel i do or dont care to see fixed a out myself and work on those things and seems im a great guy thats just a friend or just the "nice guy" but realy im lost wondering off in the forest of my mind and wandering through the depths of the tectonic trench that delves down to my heart. Idk may be nothing wrong and i just think there is lacking confidence cause i dont see myself like others do cause ive been told otherwise by those i love or those i let close to me and eventually just gave into theyre negative perspective about me just accepting it... lately i ponder if i have suicidal ideation or what. I wonder if any advice is actually true and look for the flaws and find them in everything rhat im looking for them in and look for how the advice can help and find it in many ways but cant think how to apply it. Plus ive given up on my goals and dreams for the future cause it takes 2 to tango cant climb a mountain with your partner on your back beating you down and undoing any progress made especially when your expectations were just to go for a friendly hike up a hill before deciding what to do next. Could sysiphus have rolled that boulder up the mountain over and over without legs. Would he have wanted if those he was doing it for watched him do it each time saying he couldnt and then when he does they say ooops i wasn't looking so you didnt do it. But you say you did that makes you a lier and a cheat so do it again and again until i can see 👀 you have done it... but secretly ill never care and juat like to watch you struggling... sorry i got a little guiser that just vented.
@niyuki87
@niyuki87 3 жыл бұрын
Jena do you fo sessions online? Is there a way I could schedule a session with you?
@SelfLoveU
@SelfLoveU 3 жыл бұрын
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