Stay-at-Home Dads Reflect on Criticism

[@MoistMumble]

Let me get this straight. So people complain about men who have nothing to do with their children, and people complain when the father decides to stay at home and be an active, loving parent? I'm I missing something? Can no one win anymore? Parenting ain't easy, for anyone. Well done for these guys to step up and saying "I'll take this job."

[@sorban5352]

The husband the wife and the donkey : The husband ride the donkey, the husband has no gallantry ; The wife ride the donkey, the husband have no guts in his house ; Both ride the donkey, they will kill the poor animal ; Both walk next the donkey, they don't know how to use a donkey ; The donkey ride them, everybody shut the F**K up now !!!!

[@brookelyn8469]

@@sorban5352 thats the funniest thing ive read

[@alyhs9628]

no one can win... the games been rigged so that we always lose .-.

[@benpaultwdg]

@random 65286 Feminism for life my a**.

[@COLMECTIGAMINGANDMORE]

@@sorban5352 i thought it went like this Grandpa and Grandson : ride the donkey everyone else : so evil they will kill the poor donkey Grandpa rides donkey and grandson walks everyone else: evil grandpa he is making grandson walk Grandson rides donkey everyone else : evil kid he is making an old man walk they both dont ride donkey everyone else : foolish people not riding donkey then they carry the donkey everyone else : what fools carrying a donkey

[@Natty10272]

My dad was a stay at home dad when I was little. I loved it.

[@weirdtemple1217]

I feel sorry for you

[@Natty10272]

@@weirdtemple1217 Why? It showed me how loving a man really is and it taught me that men don't have to be the only ones bringing home the bacon. Had me loom up to my mom as a hardworking powerful woman

[@weirdtemple1217]

@@Natty10272 Well I guess your mom was the head of the home

[@Natty10272]

@@weirdtemple1217 Well, sometimes she was. But my dad kept the house in order

[@schprox]

My real dad wanted me aborted. My step dad was horrible. I wished my step dad was more like a dad rather than a raging alcoholic.

[@Aggressor09]

I'm a 23 year old stay at home dad with a 2 year old boy and a 10 month old boy. I love taking care of them, they're my whole life and my fiance works her ass off 12 hours a day 6 days a week and it's hard. When I grew up my dad worked like that and my mom took care of me and my sister. Things can change, no matter your gender we can all do it. I never seen myself doing this but I'm glad I am. These kids make me want to strive for better. They make me want to be healthier and a better person. Having kids changes your life. I wouldn't ever change it back, kids are a blessing. I quit a lot of bad habits and dropped a lot of things in my life that were getting me no where in life. Focusing on my kids and my lovely lady is all I need to be happy

[@MrAnthonyIII]

I think men should be allowed to do whatever they want to, just like women are. If they want to go out and work, then that's fine. If they want to raise kids, then that's fine. If they never want to get married at all nor have kids, then that's fine. Anyway, I think it would be good for children to have more interaction with their fathers. It's sad how many people have strained relationships with their fathers because they're never around. Why should women have sole power over how the children are raised?

[@kayde5104]

I agree personally I dun wanna be a mom who has to always take care of the kids cause then I feel like I’m that blasted cow with 6 tatas for her 6 babys like c’mon man all I ask is that we take turns with da baby for at least a day I go work on monday n daddy-o hang with baby at da house at that day of course if I’m at home with da baby imma have a baby sitter be with me for 24hrs on that day and you wouldnt wanna know why............luckily I dont got babies and 6 tatas and plus there should be more stay at home dads it teaches em a dozen things they never learned like heck just think about it which is pretty if u think about a regular dad that divorces his wife or breaks up with his gf and doesnt have baby in his arms he goes off to get a job get an apartment no worries n all dat shit and probably still lucky enough to keep their bank account and do whatever they want with it then look good buy an alcohol hang with pals go to a stripper club n bang another chic like what almost everyday? yup dats one heck of a life right? yeaaaaah and the negativity still goes on and yes I do worry for a man’s health and what he does including his behaviors cause if I was ur divorced I’d be like wait whaaaaaaaat? thats what u did with ur life? u must be wasted or did u forget u got a kid because that fact will never EVER change mhm dats NEVER EVER gonna change cause u planted sperm in dat very first chic u banged and da next one and the next one dat comes afterwards do be mindful 99% a chic can get pregnant once banged its inevitable n condoms wont save those chics u banged I personally think its meant to prevent pregnancy for I dunno prolly about a good 2 or 3 yrs then after that wears off its baby time somewhere around year 5 or 6 when u least expect it of course and then guess what? one of those gurls can get to ur piggy bank when u least expect it because some of u guys r stupid enough to go find another chic to bang and ditch those other pregnant chics meaning the problem isnt just the womens but the mens fault due to their negative behavior and they can get away with it and not learn to grow out of it so its pretty much both men n women luckily I’m not in dat problem cause I’d rather be wrinkly and old happily drinking tea or wine watching my favorite tv show or making different types of new food reading a book or listening to music its too bad u cant simple men like dat cause then they eventually wanna make out with u and personally I dont want dat as I see that as nothing but danger to me now I truly do feel bad for da men but all I see is their negative behaviors and very few good fathers and stay at home dads. T.T

[@rationalmale6265]

So, let me get this straight, if you were married and your husband wanted to be a stay at home father and wanted you to work and provide for the family, you would be completely fine with this and not lose respect for him? Either you are being dishonest or you are a unicorn. I have yet to meet a women that would be cool with me being a stay at home father. Even feminist that I've met said that they would lose respect for me if I was a stay at home father. The hypocrisy is outrageous.

[@lexyruse603]

@@rationalmale6265 I would be fine with it. I don't mind working while my husband stays home

[@spark300c]

@@rationalmale6265 it called the alpha female personality. they are rare do not think like most women.

[@rationalmale6265]

@@spark300c I have yet to meet a woman that you speak of. I have met many alpha females who make great money yet they STILL want a man who is the traditional provider. It's built into their DNA.

[@junicaps]

It doesnt matter who stays home with the kids as long as one parent is with the babies; better than day care!

[@lolliadia7766]

@Birdman PB I feel like it's better to spend time with family then people who aren't and sometimes the people don't treat em right like my siblings they went to day care my mom paid 500 a month and they rarely got fed there and the youngest one came home with a full diaper and burns from him wearing it to long

[@stevenhaddock2457]

Thank you!

[@BratBustersParenting]

Why do Americans like to pick on each other so much??? If it isn't race, sexuality, religion, politics then it's stay-at-home-dads ... are you kidding me???? First world problems personified.

[@halecaesar1093]

+BratBusters Parenting (Lisa Bunnage) It's the media.

[@rwcdude1188]

1 You do, it's ok to accept it, just don't do it yourself.

[@jaimyyelvingtonmusic]

Yeah, we kinda suck

[@weirdtemple1217]

It's more natural for the woman to stay at home with the kids nurturing (That's femininity) when the man is out there working and providing, protecting and leading the family (That's masculinity). Women are more happier at home and men are happier when they are working.

[@coolbeans2345]

@@weirdtemple1217 bahahaha tell that to my mum

[@consis]

I have been a stay home dad for 20 years. I don't even know what else to say. I have three children: son age 20 (now in the army), daughter age 18 (now in the navy), and a daughter age 14 (now a freshman in highschool who plays tenor saxophone and the piano and in the marching band). Too much else to say for a video comment.

[@anthonynosike]

Well done

[@mr.questionmark4266]

Sounds like your kids have a pretty awesome dad. A dad who primed them and prepared them for success in their future endeavors. The world needs more men like you. Keep it up and best wishes, sir. 😎👍

[@jenuelcamilo]

I've been a stay at home dad for 2 years now and have been struggling with the mental battles I put myself thru. Im ashamed for not being the bread winner despite my wife being perfectly fine with our roles. I feel judged by my in laws, friends, and even my own family for taking on this role (despite never actually being judged). I'm even ashamed to take my 2 year old son, and 5 month old daughter to the park alone cuz I feel it's not "manly" for a guy to be seen with kids in a stroller. Yea I know... I need help 🙁

[@weirdtemple1217]

​@jenuelcamilo I hear you brother and you are an example of how switching roles can damage your mental health. That estrogen in men is damaging and you need testosterone, God made men to have it and be the head, and women with estrogen and be at home. The kitchen is a woman's domain. If you want, compromise with your wife and be a man.

[@rachela.montgomery2161]

@@jenuelcamilodon’t be ashamed you work hard. And taking care of kids is maybe even harder than a 9-5 cause guess what stay at home parents don’t get to clock out whenever they want. There always on the clock doing something. Don’t be so hard on yourself ❤

[@alexandertheamerican9663]

It's better than a dead beat dad or a dad who abusive. People get upset over the wrong reasons

[@augustinembae8266]

Lol isn't a stay at home dad a dead beat dad???

[@kitsumebun6913]

@@augustinembae8266 no you idiot a dead beat dad is someone who leaves and don't pay child support not someone who actually loves their children that's like saying a stay at home mom is a dead beat

[@kitsumebun6913]

@Ron if you have sex with someone you should know the risk having sex is literally how you make a child if a woman baby traps you then she's an ass but the child shouldn't suffer they're human beings just like you

[@zombies4evadude24]

@@augustinembae8266 what if the gender was reversed? If someone said stay at home women are lazy dead beats, they’d get cancelled on Twitter. If it’s that way for women, why isn’t it for men? Sounds sexist to me...

[@marcelacruz7661]

@@zombies4evadude24 Don't listen to him. I'm a woman myself and I think stay-at-home fathers are great and that we need them more in society. It's both sexist men who degrade stay-at-home fathers and radical feminists who degrade stay-at-home mothers.

[@adamwhit1868]

I’m a stay a home dad don’t say what the problem is we’re doing the same as what the mum would do. People need to stop being judgemental plus it’s no one else’s business

[@kme321]

Nothing wrong with a stay-at-home dad, it's still work

[@augustinembae8266]

Were you raised by a stay at home dad?

[@coolbeans2345]

My dad has been the main worker while my mum was at home but she was quite depressed... she loved work and as soon as we got old enough to go to school she volunteered at a budgeting service.

[@weirdtemple1217]

Beta males are stay-at-home dads, alpha males are leaders

[@varhah]

@@weirdtemple1217 lmao

[@slap_A_flamingo]

Lol its harder work.

[@khngjay3603]

Let me get this straight. when men leave a kid and mom, he is a bad man but when he IS with the kid he is lazy or feminine.

[@vallano8970]

@Kuus Kanaa you can hold those beliefs without applying holistically arbitrary labels.

[@zombies4evadude24]

@Kuus Kanaa too bad modern feminism mostly applies to helping women break gender norms yet men aren’t allowed to themselves.

[@danasaleha9893]

I think the reason why people criticize this lifestyle is that they don't see or appreciate the value and how much hard work the mother puts in taking care of kids in the first place! so when the father takes this role it will seem to them he is lazy.

[@JamilDamon]

Wow. Love the way you articulated it. I think you're right.

No its because the man has to provide for his family, not the woman. A woman is better with kids and is more comfortable being at home, what sort of bullshit liberal thinking you guys have.. Good lord

[@weirdtemple1217]

@rm -rf / "I am genetically 100% man" You're genetically male but not a real man

[@weirdtemple1217]

@rm -rf / Oooooo that stings, coming from a dude who doesn't want to work, rather stay at home, and his wife controls him, BETA!!!!!

[@weirdtemple1217]

@rm -rf / Yes, and calling you out is one of them

[@Mitchthe1soul]

Is it really that surprising that stay at home dads/husbands get criticized? It's been a secret "law" of society that men should work outside the home while women stay home, which I believe is bologna. If women can do any job men can do, then certainly men can do work that women do in the household. Nothing's wrong with that. It doesn't make them any less of a man. Granted, I have no intention of being a stay at home husband, but that's by choice for me. At any rate, it's nobody's business what people do with their lives, personally or professionally. If it's do any real harm to your life in any way, why do you care?

[@keysersoze4322]

I honestly think it's admirable when men can put aside all that macho/ego crap and get on with it. It's not that they're not capable to go and work, of course they are, it is like you say, a choice. I actually think it makes for a more dynamic person. People who are against it are insecure in their masculinity, they wouldn't feel so threatened by it otherwise. Your job alone doesn't define you as a man, and if you feel it does then there must be a lot lacking elsewhere.

[@keysersoze4322]

Got to disagree Manuel. Some will, some won't. Granted the ones that do are probably in the minority. I would say though that it tends to be highly educated women with good jobs that gravitate to men that would like to be stay at home dads. For career reasons, obviously. Regardless, as long as the kids are well cared for it really doesn't matter by whom, in my opinion.

[@Neku628]

Keyser Söze well some guys may appear to be macho egomaniacs and granted it would get on your nerves but they can also be great fathers.

[@actionong]

Haters gonna hate

[@HinDoongEe]

@Birdman PB Exactly! People don’t realize how much Daycare costs when added up.

[@jesuschild07able]

I find it very attractive when a man can do either role. My husband is great with children. I am not at all. I really do not want children for many reasons but if we ever decided to I know he would work from home. He enjoys this more and I work better in the office world trying to move up in a company and he does better working from home.

[@ChumsPelaez]

These men are selfless and are more protective than traditional dads..

[@michaeldamico4583]

Im going to have to agree with you, my house is steller. If my wife was at home, we might aswell move into a trailer and get roaches because there would be plenty of cereal bowls laying around for them to feast upon.

[@michaeldamico4583]

Plus she makes 8 times what i made. So now im rich

[@Theunscrupulousone]

Rose Al-Qatani Pelaez not all of them. My dad was a traditional dad and he raised me right

[@aismameijere-cirsa]

I want a man who can take care of the kids.

[@tammykirk1730]

@@rationalmale6265 lazy ass man u are

[@tammykirk1730]

@Sahand Az thanks

[@tammykirk1730]

@Sahand Az again thank you so much sweetie for that opinion hows your day going so far

[@tammykirk1730]

@Sahand Az awesome thats so nice what a cute baby you have there you have a wonderful awsome day

[@whoanelly2605]

@@tammykirk1730 stfu

[@c.e.stanton988]

We are all lacking and suffering from a shortage of respectful, loving, nurturing and attentive men. There can never be enough of them.

[@weirdtemple1217]

Well we are lacking and suffering from a shortage of respectful, loving, and nurturing women, thanks to feminism.

[@raysdecre5320]

@@weirdtemple1217 We are too due to misogynist man and incels.

[@weirdtemple1217]

@@raysdecre5320 Nah, men have gotten weak and have been extremely pussified, look at Joe Biden and Justin Trudeau for example

[@joshuaperales3408]

I love being a stay at home dad, I'm great at it, I love being at home and my wife likes going out, plus it's soooooo much easier for women to get jobs over men nowadays

[@shamarspiderman]

Ur just feminine

[@phareztrinimand]

Hope your not getting cheated on, she must be out there looking at a hot guy sweating with fixing stuff, being a man

[@liberallooney6830]

The Lazy Pisces, you don’t believe that there are any women who can afford to take their stay at home husbands out on dates?

[@augustinembae8266]

Looool 'easier for women to get jobs nowadays' 😅😅 sorry that's not true. I come from a third world country where its hard to convince parents to educate their girl children but for 30years now my father has not worked a day in his life. Its a matter of self respect. A man works. Even if he is a janitor or a cleaner or a cook or a sewage cleaner. A man works. Growing up with a father who doesn't work, I would wish for him to even get a job as a roadside cleaner. I would be so proud of him

[@marcelacruz7661]

@@shamarspiderman How is being a father who cares for their children feminine?

[@angiebold65]

I think when parents show unconditional love in marriage to each other children learn to love properly. Too many kids are told me and mom still love you but we can't get along and can't live

[@MrLuisito4u]

No one knows your situation until they're in it themselves. I myself never saw me being a stay at home dad. but in a marriage its up to BOTH mother and father to raise their kids. I worked for 7 years before i had to stay home with my two kids while my wife worked and i honestly wouldnt have it any other way. Im definitely a better dad and have a better bond with both my kids and eventually when the time is right ill go back to work. theres so many deadbeats out there who get criticized for not being in their kids lives then you have dads like us who are home with our kids and were looked at like bums also. Makes no sense...

[@AnthonyDeBattista]

I am also a stay at home dad and have been doing this for 8 years now and I agree with you wholeheartedly on the bond you have with your children, and how much better it has been since I have been at home with them.

[@Konstance001]

MrLuisito4u Never care about what people say. They are fools and don't know what they're missing, that's what dad used to say about this. My dad was like you guys and the respect I have for him is endless. The bond between me and him was amazing (and I am a girl!). None of my friends had such a bond with their dads like I did. I could talk to my dad about things that I could talk to my mom with no difference, because he was there and he cared and I knew that :) A mother is very important to a child but so is the father. Those children that have such dads are blessed.

[@MrLuisito4u]

Konstance001 thanks I appreciate it, I absolutely love the bond I have developed with my kids over the time I've been home

[@MrLuisito4u]

Anthony DeBattista isn't it amazing how much better the bond is with them

[@leslieblanco3536]

sexist society but keep doing you! Im sure we can change that soon.

[@MrStatePay]

Wow I have felt so alone these past couple years as a stay at home dad, I had Jo idea this was such a trend

[@kevinandrewmccann1849]

I feel you lol

[@leslieblanco3536]

You;re doing a good thing! dont pay attention to the haters :)

[@Nyequiloooo]

tom Connors tom connors the 12 year old saying pussy when the only one he's seen is the giant one he came out of.

[@DailyLifeOfAzhlyn]

I have mad respect for dads who stay at home and moms. Its alot of work and it good that men are more involved these days.

[@weirdtemple1217]

You have mad respect for beta males? Wow the world is turning upside down.

[@theobserver8]

@@weirdtemple1217 what's with you dude your everywhere. You and " Beta males and Alpha males" Geez dude. You must think of yourself as a real "Alpha"

[@weirdtemple1217]

@@theobserver8 That's right, I'm teaching men to be men. Also it's not a thought, I am alpha. I'm married, have kids, I'm the head of my wife and kids, I work, my wife supports me and I support her, that's how it's suppose to be.

[@vinny_G_2003]

@@weirdtemple1217 The fact that you say you are an alpha dosen’t make me see you as an alpha.

[@theobserver8]

@@weirdtemple1217 Do you at least spend time with your kids?

[@rainydew]

Lol what's wrong with a stay at home dad?

[@newtonfiji4722]

Everything

[@B121AN1]

Absolutely nothing

[@waynepayne9875]

Nothing

[@DivinesLegacy]

Ur just a soy boy pussy to every mans eye, but do what you want to do

[@camrynvb5803]

@@DivinesLegacy nothing. but y'all niggas get a fucking attitude

[@Onwage55]

I don't care am stay at home dad and I am proud am a GREAT dad and I wouldn't trade the time that I get with my children for anything in the world

[@leomack3295]

Being a stay at home dad is my dream job

[@weirdtemple1217]

Good luck finding a woman

[@levi2732]

pathetic loser

[@gamerbull2183]

@@levi2732 Like you

[@queenpanda26]

Marrying a stay at home husband is my dream ❤❤❤

[@weirdtemple1217]

@@queenpanda26 What? A woman dreams of marrying a stay at home husband? LOL HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA. I call that cap.

[@michaeldamico4583]

One time someone gave me a hard time about being a stay at home dad. I told them im filthy rich and i dont work. And then i laughted in their face and told them to get back to work slave!

[@PUTandQASH]

I think it's fine that dads stay at home and look after there kids so go away haters

[@foxxy1851]

+Akil Ali That's not effeminate, male birds care for their children and seahorses. Female lions hunt. These things aren't inherently masculine/feminine.

[@smuffer852]

About a week ago I went to my swiming lessons and next to the pool, the little ones were with their parents with their inflatables and stuff. There was only this one guy with his baby boy splashing around. It was the cutest thing ever. I don't want to be a stay home dad, but that is simply because the missus and I agreed on the other side of the coin, not having kids. She's also very career driven so quitting either of our jobs for chilcare wouldn't be a great idea, not just for us, but for a baby.

[@RoscoSuperfly]

whats funny is that navy guy is probably making more money than his wife from earned benefits. I know a few guys I served with that got out and now stay at home with the kids and still bring in a substantial income. So don't be too quick to judge these stay at home dads, some of them have served honorably and have multiple combat tours.

[@bonteg3848]

Same story with my brother, and he runs the home with military precision

[@simon.houseaccount4807]

@@bonteg3848 ,,funny

[@akatsukiloverx3295]

...So....Imma be a stay at home dad if I ever become a father. X3 This is sweet.

[@itsciver]

I'm just curious. After 6 years have you changed your mind or would you still like to be a stay at home dad? :D

[@phareztrinimand]

@@itsciver yeah why not,just buy tablets and let the children sit behind it, it would keep them quiet,while the internet do there parenting

[@weirdtemple1217]

How's that BETA life doing to you now? Are you still a stay at home dad?

[@GamerBoy-pm3cu]

I gave up my job and decided to be a stay at home dad as my wife was already earning twice more than me. It's working pretty well right now. Children's well being is more important than some extra money.

[@weirdtemple1217]

Congratulations, you just made it to the BETA MAX level.

[@raysdecre5320]

Good luck!

[@wavybebes6979]

@@weirdtemple1217 I can bet he is more secure with himself than you are. You’re crying all over the comments. And our society need to put labels on people🤦‍♀️. If he’s happy, then let him be. He’s more involved in his child’s life than a working dad is.

[@weirdtemple1217]

@Wavy Bebes You mad because I'm speaking the truth or my opinions and you wanna get personal, that's ok. Hey, do whatever you want, Jesus died for our sins, but I call it the way it is, and I don't have to agree to it. Btw I'm a working dad who also spends a lot of time with my kids, I make sure to make time when I am off, before and after I spend time with my kids because I'm off doing manly things to provide for my family, unlike the "men" that stay at home like a female while their women work and provide smh.

[@wavybebes6979]

@@weirdtemple1217 yeah you are a working dad who spend a lot of time with his kids, but that doesn’t change the FACT that the guy you’re making fun of and putting a label on is more involved than you are because he is full-time parenting. And the way so many men think the ONLY way they can provide for their families is through a paycheck is insular and pathetic. I believe he is proving for his family, but in a different way.

[@mauricegibney8449]

I was a stay at home Dad for five years. Everyone's circumstances differ and NO ONE has the right to criticise! It is a tough job, a rewarding job, a memorable!!!! Job... People who are critical are basically full blown idiots, end of... I wrote a book in my spare time; which I didn't have much of. I LOVED the time at home with my children. Yes I am a tradesman and worked my whole life, work was harder at home with the children, No break!! I still come home from work now and pick them up from school... Never the need to waste money on a child minder. I watched my little ones take their first steps! We are a very practical family and there is more to life that materialistic things... Forget about Beyonce the Liberal pathogen is strong with her... Dads, stay strong, stay safe, be good. It's the most important job there is...

[@rafaelg4878]

"Mommies are better at that type of 'mommying'" is equally demeaning if you ask me.

[@kyramannix3950]

Whether you are the stay at home parent or not, you should know how to take care of your kids. Ridiculous how men are expected to be all providers so often that it’s surprising that they can change a diaper. Men can stay at home and take care of their kids. That’s a job! Parenting is hard work, especially when they’re young. Someone has to do it

[@Officialprodbytreybeats]

I have a 6 year old step son and a 3 year old daughter. I am a musician by trade and my wife works a lot. It is very rewarding but its THE HARDEST thing I have ever done in my life. The level of preparation and consistency you need. The patience and also scheduling... the emotional range. Its difficult to be yourself when others need so much of you...but thats what makes a man!

[@Randomdudefromtheinternet]

I'll say it because no one seems to want to say it: Those kids are adorable.

[@kuuly3334]

All/most kids are born adorable. your point?

[@erin8492]

I agree! So cute!!

[@donbarbradisiena4848]

My eldest son Roland Eric is a stay at home dad and I have told him on the occasions I have seen him father his children that his job is the one he is performing. I taught him how to care for infants wbene his brotberGerman Conrad was born even as ibreaat fed Germancito Roland was there being held as well. I also encouraged home schooling. I respect dadmoms they in the majority of o occasions are more tolerant patient and can protect their children by far with responsibility. Congratulations da

[@quoudan1021]

Why when women stay home it's normal But when men do it its lazy

[@mosestheredsea]

Because it's a man's role to provide and protect the family

[@matts5164]

@@mosestheredsea Not all couples believe that though. If some people are happy with the ways they work who cares?

[@davidduchovny3979]

@@mosestheredsea A mans role? what are we actors or in real life?

[@casper6741]

@@davidduchovny3979 to that dumbass we are. Lol

[@weirdtemple1217]

@@davidduchovny3979 It's masculine for a man to provide and protect the family. Women aren't strong enough to fill in the man's role.

[@mr.questionmark4266]

There really is a double standard and it's unfair. Women aren't judged when they stay at home with their kids but men are subject to the harshest criticism when they do it. I have hope that this nonsensical way of thinking disappears in the near future. As long as kids are being taken care of and loved, it doesn't matter who works and who stays home. It isn't the 50's anymore. Let's stop acting like it is.

[@HinDoongEe]

The only dudes who are complaining about this are probably dudes who post hentai on 4chan and argue about 30 year old Balkan politics on twitter all day.

[@weirdtemple1217]

If you want to be a stay at home dad, it's your choice, just makes you beta-male. Hope the wife doesn't cheat while your beta-ass is at home watching TV

[@brandonmartin926]

It's hard to be a stay at home dad. I'm a stay at home dad. I take it with pride. I have a strong relationship with my 3 year old son.

[@weirdtemple1217]

Do you have a woman by your side?

[@queenpanda26]

That's lovely ❤❤❤ hope I'll find a husband like you

[@ashleycasey2093]

Is it safe to say that I believe that BOTH parents should stay at home with their kids? :/

[@ashleycasey2093]

David Karres We need more people to retire and go off grid before having kids.

[@lilkitten4839]

Absolutely! We need to train more people to be entrepreneurs, rather than employees so they *can* spend more time at home with their kids.

[@ashleycasey2093]

Chris Humphreys My solution was to encourage 'older parents', off-grid minimalist living, and retirement. I know it sounds crazy but think about it: most of the reason why parenting is challenging nowadays is because people usually go into young; unprepared; and naive, some of them haven't even completely 'matured' yet, and are still finding self identity. Older parents tend to be more mature; more financially stabled, and more prepared. As for *_off-grid minimalist living_*, you're just going to have to do a google search to understand how this benefits parents.

[@lemonmarie2161]

Then who the hell is going to take care of the bills?

[@jayaltizer9651]

only if the both parents disable you can't work but they could be a bear parents I believe to stay at home parents would do great that's only difference of two stay-at-home parents but but someone's got to be a bread winners or both could work full-time and take care of the kids. see we achieve equality.

[@hachi7100]

My dad was a stay at home dad cooked for us watched me everyday and of course we are very close I now realize how lucky I was to have him and I wouldn't change a thing.

[@likira111]

Hearing the woman talk about this as if it's some shocking concept is alien....

[@Emily-eq1ts]

Why shouldn’t a dad be a stay at home dad? As long as he’s a good dad it’s fine.

[@katiearbuckle9017]

Nothing wrong with being a natural partnership. Who cares who works or who watches the kids sometimes the dynamic doesn't turn out in the regular sense.

[@weirdtemple1217]

No wonder woke culture is strong, and this LGBT nonsense is being pushed

[@wibli]

good strategy, after divorce he will get custody, child support and alimony. Yes!

[@thamnosma]

Now THAT'S thinking!

[@marianaandrews6274]

Whats the big deal...sometimes it is a necessity. He seemed pretty competant so why not. Sometimes the choice maybe financial, other times convenience of location of employment. There are many reasons for such a de ision. They are both parents so either should be able to do the job

[@veganbear5212]

I'm a stay at home dad and my wife makes me feel disrespected and it isn't OK.

[@rationalmale6265]

This happens all the time. Many women are hypocrites.

[@JamilDamon]

That's not right and is a reflection of her not you.

[@mosestheredsea]

Put your food down your the leader of the house

[@Darknightdriver1]

Nothing wrong with this. First, the couple is in agreement because this is best for their family. Second, the dad is looking out for the children and taking care of them.

[@androfanatic9548]

I am a girl I wouldn't mind having my male or female spose take care of kids .If both of the parents agree to that one of them will stay home and one will work it's there choice it isn't hurting anyone so we shouldn't Jude just cause it isn't how we think it should be

[@mennoshouseofmusic1214]

My wife is leading Twitch Germany, Austria & Switzerland. I am a musician and take care of our 2 kids!

[@dannynyman9681]

Interesting...they should also do a story about the stay at home dads who get criticized by their wives who work.

[@romeomonteverde]

What's the problem with this anyway? If a woman wants to work and can't sacrifice someone not to stay home with the kids and the mom gets a better opportunity financially and career wise and she's ok with it, why not? It's best to have a parent taking care of the child than just anyone else.

[@billhayes6501]

I make 17/hr. My mother/father in law hate me for working part time. Our son just turned 2 years old ( I’m the primary caretaker) My wife Makes 45/year. I loved her just as much while she was making around 15k/ year. Apparently; I don’t appreciate her.

[@CherryStudios2]

That's stupid (that your in-laws act that way). I'm sorry to hear that. For what it's worth, I think parenting is one of the best things a person can do with their life. So many kids these days aren't taught right from wrong, don't feel valued or loved, and don't have someone really paying attention to their needs. You're making a huge difference in your son's life, and he won't forget that.

[@dianaswing]

"Trophy husbands"? I take objection to that.

[@aw3752]

Being a stay at home dad is an incredible, rewarding experience. It’s wonderful… until you try to return to the workforce after a 10 to 18 year gap. Almost no one will hire you. There’s too much stigma and judgment attached.

[@yesplease6399]

Imagine calling a man who does one of the hardest 24/7 jobs in the world a 'bum'.

[@jayaltizer9651]

I see nothing wrong with it

[@mighty8468]

Uh I have a mum that's at work and a dad that stays at home, I didn't know it was debated wether parents are at work or at home...

[@dandysrulitos8942]

"Unga bunga men alpha, men make money, men buy bread, women stay at home, they make food" ..... I get the point of you trying to be a "leader" and all that bullshit bro, but if you have to remember yourself constantly that you're the "alpha male" of the relationship I think there's something wrong in there 😅

[@eltemplariodetierrasanta7234]

Worst part, there is a dude speaking like that in the comments here LMAO.

[@enchilada9546]

As a stay at home dad myself, there was a lot of coping going on in this video

[@loho1125]

So let me get this straight: Mother stays at home: Other women: omg she's so unemancipated but the dude is a monster for not helping her Other men in a condascending way: that's where she belongs Dad stays home: Other men: omg he's failing at being a man Other women: omg men can't be as good parents as women and the mother is abandoning her child So everybody loses. Every time. Every way. That's messed up.

[@ttvnelson3102]

Real men 🥇

[@facefacts1160]

Meanwhile the house is clean, kids on point and he’s not complaining.

[@vanna13v]

He told the baby night night take a nap? Lol. 😂

[@andremuratalla1344]

It better this way times are changing your kids is more important then your job so why not it dosnt make you any less masculine staying home

[@christycapers4715]

Just the fact that that woman used the verb “mommying” to mean “taking care of the kids” is a problem.

[@veranya2074]

yeahh stay home dad.... five years later either he or his wife cheathing

[@garrettgates6412]

I do it all day..wouldn't trade it for anything!

[@weirdtemple1217]

Did your wife cheat on you yet?

[@r-e_mii]

Theres nothing wrong with either gender being a stay at home parent but stay at home moms have been ridiculed for generations. Said "its not a job", "what do you do all day", "oh like you have so much to do". Sorry but no congrats for being a stay at home dad from me. Nope. I applaud all stay at home parents. Can you really use beyonce as an example? She has nannies, a housekeeper etc. Everything the regular mom does, she doesnt. Wheres the article/video regarding stay at home mothers? Ill wait 💅

There is definitely something wrong about a man not providing for his family.

[@Lumpty05]

True, luckily stay at home dads are providing love, security, and leadership in the household by actually being there ❤

[@CameronJPL]

What about daddies that are the Mom? I’m a transgender man and I’m actively trying to be a parent. Does that make me any less than a mom or a dad?

[@ericachustz3489]

Being a living and involved parent is what is important. The gender really doesn’t matter. Also this video is silly talking about it as though it’s a miracle for a man to have some basic parenting skills.

[@weirdtemple1217]

I see confusion here, the devil is a lie

[@motherhoodsbeauty9279]

How is stay at home dad is a dead beat father? Come he is stay at home and not going out just to get away from the kids. What is wrong with people?

[@gabrielvevo100]

mooching off the Mother? it's like what the hell? She is Providing for her family, being her husband and her kids!!! what is wrong with Providing for your family? if the genders are reversed who cares someone needs to provide and in this case its the Moms or the wives.

[@thenontacticool9848]

the sad part is that now a days when guys are stay at home dads even their wives treat them like they're not a man. They are told you do the dishes I got the yard. or when a trespasser poses a threat dad's instinct is to show that guy who runs the land. suddenly momma now says no back down little boy momma has this. Then she softly says now this isn't okay. as if somehow a hostile person is gonna take that shit seriously

[@tomreyes]

I hope one day i can find a man like them 💕

[@weirdtemple1217]

And I hope you don't go out and cheat on them while they are stuck at home being the "mother"

[@tomreyes]

@@weirdtemple1217 being the father* and why would I ? It sounds like my dream family come true

[@weirdtemple1217]

@@tomreyes Of what? Your woman cheating on you?

[@vinny_G_2003]

@@weirdtemple1217 why would she cheat?

[@weirdtemple1217]

@@vinny_G_2003 Kuz she's not attracted to a beta male

[@2010HarleyDynaFXD]

You have to think about child car alone will take out a paycheck so who ever makes the most should be the one working.

[@dermotosullivan3065]

Being a stay-at-home dad is a cop-out. Women don't really respect them and many of these guys get cheated on.

[@Relax4now]

I don’t see the problem with it, but you can’t act like being a stay home parent is as hard as a someone working for 8 hours.

[@Kevin-lh1lt]

Okay! But there aren't many women who'd be cool with this idea, I haven't met any personally.

[@raumerfrischer872]

Interesting, most women I know will make their partners share the stay at home time

[@Kevin-lh1lt]

@random 65286 Absolutely!!

[@nombulelomthimkulu4167]

nope, no, nah! 😊✋

[@danielcuevas5899]

Nombulelo Mthimkulu What?

[@Theunscrupulousone]

Nombulelo Mthimkulu thank you. I hate this is becoming more acceptable. It’s disgusting

[@vanna13v]

4 months isn't a stay at home Dad.

[@Caseybassman]

Thats me haha

[@Hon_Ngure]

id rather die than see my wife come in from working while am watchin news all day

[@sabrinaadam3701]

I wish my dad would have spent that much time with me. But I wouldn’t feel attracted to a man I was financially supporting even if I knew he could work & make the same as me.

[@cumcompilationv46trynottoc83]

I criticize any parent who is raising a child to be a Canucks fan

[@amakadius75]

i would be a trophy dad

[@CrazyBrah21]

These husbands will be divorced soon

[@raumerfrischer872]

?

[@melmoore9033]

Why?

[@voncarlohechanova1537]

Just hard sometimes.

[@wym5311]

so what? nothing run at all.....why not? those who stay at home looking after their kids are great men......nuch better for child development

[@a-totally-random-person]

If he's considered a trophy, I'll quit all 3 of my jobs tomorrow. Ladies, who's looking for a house husband?

[@angiebold65]

But we can't live together anymore.Divorce too many times is about forgiveness or selfishness.I think courts should put the parents on Marriage probation make them put the kids future first. I know I wouldn't have told my mom,if my parents had stayed together until we were 18...... oh mom I wish you would have gone on and made yourself happy . Or ... I would rather you have divorced rather than fighting all the time... we were scared. These are the tactics psychologists use on parents

[@rubenchoychoo8551]

Either you end up in the ICU or mental hospital within 6 months for most males... Now forget 7 years into that business....

[@romanabramovic57]

No matter how shitty life gets I always remember I could be a stay at home dad.

[@weirdtemple1217]

No matter how shitty life gets, you can always remember to face it like a man by NOT being a stay at home dad

[@charl8888]

The worst possible idea you can ever do to yourself is being a stay-at-home dad, your life turns into hell and it's practically guaranteed divorce, women can do both men can only be Breadwinners anything else is unnatural

[@ibrahimnabi3345]

men can do both too if it didn't work for you (which i genuinely feel sorry about) doesn't mean it won't work for another man too the thing is it shouldn't be all dad's or all mom's become at home parents it should be that if you don't want to be the breadwinner or feel like you don't have what it takes or that your children are better off with there own mom or dad then with a babysitter you can stay at home and be the caretaker

[@leslieblanco3536]

why do women have to do both? Men should do both as well and not put the burden on women. That is sexist and its 20 fucking 16. If my husband doesn't want to help out with kids or domestic work he is getting the fuck out. Bigotry isn't necessary.

[@leslieblanco3536]

***** I agree but I was responding to the original sexist comment when he said women should do both and men should just work

[@Nyequiloooo]

charl8888 Let's read the shit vomit you just typed shall we. First off "worst possible idea you can ever do to yourself" what is English, that made zero sense. It's only unnatural because you ain't got the balls to do it.

[@mennoshouseofmusic1214]

No it's absolutely perfect! Believe me. My wife could never stay at home with the kids. She is not made for that. I have no problem with that. Besides that, my wife earns serious money. Way more than you will ever earn in your life.

[@ilikevines]

I'm sure this man's wife is very attracted to him...

[@isbirwan]

similar situation in cooking case...years ago women had to cook....now men are chef..! #lol

[@thamnosma]

what an obnoxious report

[@TheNeverposts]

Imma stuff my ass with cash then become a stay-at-home dad

[@tim57243]

There are well documented risks to being a stay at home dad. See: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mpzVpZmZnaaoadE