She needs a RING 💍 and a WEDDING DATE! 📅 II Steve Harvey

[@janinecox256]

When me and my husband first got married, we were broke and I was nervous and almost called it off, but a wise lady told that he is a good man and God will provide and yes we had some bumps in the road but we never went hungry nor were we homeless and it will be 27 years in August! God will provide just trust him to do so!

[@lovelygirl7123]

*my husband and I…..

[@name9601]

@@lovelygirl7123 this ain't school, thanks for educating

[@ladennayoung2939]

AMEN!!! EXACTLY!!!! ❤❤❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

I pray that the Lord continues to choose to bless you all's union in Jesus' name. AMEN. THE BEST IS YET TO COME.

[@mae1062]

That doesn't make any sense in this context.. obviously they're not struggling with money

[@zoradelaney9412]

He just doesn't wanna marry you, sis. Keep it moving. Don't waste additional time on this DEAD END road. And don't ever move in with a man until AFTER you are married......

[@lovelygirl7123]

I thought I was the only who came to that conclusion… He just doesn’t want to marry her and won’t marry her…

[@Pacifica74]

I keep thinking what is wrong with that guy - she's the best he's ever going to get!

[@tiararoxeanne1318]

​@@Pacifica74That guy thinks he has a chance to get a better woman. But of course he wants to have her around for sex on demands, companionship, eye candy, etc. Just doesn't wanna pay it with a marriage certificate.

[@nygreek743]

That’s her first mistake. Getting a house with him and not being married first. She probably didn’t even sign the paperwork.

[@OneWomanMan888]

Have you heard of love is blind.

[@OneWomanMan888]

It's not one person's mistake, it's takes two to tango in a relationship.

[@ladysinger84]

THIS!!!!

[@maryannedelaney]

I agree!

[@ElleD308]

​​@@OneWomanMan888in her case there's no "it takes two to tango" This is a grown woman who decided to move in with a 30+ year-old man who clearly doesn't want to marry and stay there day after day without the commitment. That's a "her fault issue"

[@simple_naildesigns]

Agree Steve! When a man knows, he knows.

[@Bambi-ul1tz]

Never marry a guy that says " you know" way too much, like NO we don't know!😂 This clip had some messed up people😂

[@MyWayWendy]

Never avoid the person who loves you truly because nowadays it's hard to find true love.

[@catherinerg1]

I agree don't avoid person it is hard 2 find someone to love u nowadays even with no proposal or ring lol

[@MyWayWendy]

@@catherinerg1 My comment is deeper than that, it's actually for the man.

[@Kwamena89]

I'm not sure it does exist now....... Because i value loyalty in a relationship and that's my strength but it turns out to be my biggest mistake.

[@AllThingsSoul]

Never try to convince someone to marry you. Believe their actions, cut your losses, and move on.

[@nmmk9134]

Indeed is very rare.

[@stephanygomez8021]

Omg I was cringing for Vernon. I agree he has to go but the way everyone just sat there and bashed him broke my heart and made me feel very embarrassed for him

[@Luver4lyfe]

Wow lol

[@darkknight6219]

Exactly!!

[@anyagee9467]

It was about time. Nothing else seemed to work.

[@krissmgvlogs]

It makes me cringe when I see women begging for a ring. Shouldn't have moved in with him in the first place!

[@gorgeous491]

Agreed

[@karenwalters1211]

This!

[@Sundayschoolnetwork]

Amen

[@janetannisette5965]

Never, ever, move in with a man, big MISTAKE. You are providing wife duties for what ?

[@lovelygirl7123]

FOR FREE!! Tell them…..

[@naomip3002]

You learn so much about somebody when you live with them. How can you marry somebody without that information?

[@_zishio]

"you know" No we don't know!!!

[@defiantlypinki1107]

Men are perfectly willing to keep a woman in placeholder mode, while they know if their head the answer is no. As women, it’s our job to determine this ASAP before our good years are wasted. I had a guy that I had dated for two months who I had my first time with and was head over heels for. He kept saying that he wanted to take his time to get to know his partner. Eventually, I kept getting the feeling that he didn’t fully want to be with him. He got mad at me for doubting him, then admitted that he’s been doubting our compatibility, then asked me to continue going out with him but as friends. But I was smart enough to realize that nothing good would come of it for me, and cut off all contact. As upset as I was, I’m glad I found all this out early on. I can’t imagine having this happen after years.

[@shalimar29]

I wish to have your intuition 😊 I am still learning in this crazy modern world of dating. Can you tell me why staying friends first would be bad? I was planning to stay friends first and get to know him well as a person. Then if all goes well and he is not afraid to be my platonic friend first, then the romantic plans would follow. What you think of that?

[@hazelboyce7230]

Women allow themselves to be kept as placeholders. She shouldn’t have moved in with him until and unless they got married. He is getting marriage privileges from a girlfriend. Instead of blaming men for everything, hold women accountable for their foolishness as well.

[@Luver4lyfe]

@@hazelboyce7230the point is that m@les are liars and are not straight forward. This is how people get finessed into the place holder position. Sure, hold women accountable for understanding their worth, but don’t be disingenuous and act like these folks are not out here lying and selling dreams

[@michaelhoerig4430]

This man keeps saying, 'ya know'. NO! We don't know!!!

[@lovelygirl7123]

We absolutely don’t know 😂😂😂😂

[@Dpoweroflittledrops]

Watching from Nigeria. I love those advise for the ex to move out. I find it inconceivable that an ex is comfortable in living with his married ex.

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Turn my nice show into Jerry springer 😂😂😂😂😂

[@mj11222]

😂😂😂😂right?!!!

[@ladennayoung2939]

Everyone was talking about the first couple and didn't have ANYTHING to say about that second couple. REALLY?

[@cwayzums]

They missed out on this threesome. Here’s what I think. Deidre is still in love with Vernon! 😂

[@laurynorder3965]

He's on the DL. Took 2.5 seconds

[@legallycurvy]

I SEE YOU

[@bigmann478]

😂😂😂😂

[@pimpin187187225]

On god!!

[@florenceduckett9818]

Wow

[@andreajones886]

Steve was like,"we ALL IN AGREEMENT,BUT AIN'T NB LEFT YET!!!!!"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

💥💥💥💥💥💥

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

And DON'T COMEBACK! 🎤

[@chargrove7467]

Dr V got it right.

[@chantal4342]

He sounds like Clay from love is one season 6.

[@prettiilexii672]

😂😂😂 yes

[@_zishio]

He isn't even giving straight answers, talking about you know when we really don't know I wish they kept quiet and let him explain cuz I'm sure he'd be speechless 😂😂

[@Vivacious7913]

😂I noticed that too?! I was hoping they would shut up just to verify my thoughts that he probably wouldn’t have had anything to say. 😂 I wanted to witness him go speechless 😆

[@charmingcharlie011]

I’m pretty sure her aunties told her the same thing…boy boy boy, you couldn’t pay me to get on TV and embarrass myself 🤦🏽‍♀️ stop waiting for people to tell you what they’ve already shown you. But good luck to them 💕

[@ladennayoung2939]

Hmmmmmmmm.

[@MyWayWendy]

You shouldn't get married again knowing that you still have feelings for your Ex.

[@timli1830]

Thank you Steve for posting this video today! I was just told that I have a non cancerous brain tumor which I did surgery for yesterday. This video has really brightened my day!

[@simple_naildesigns]

Prayers for a safe recovery 🙏🏽

[@timli1830]

@@simple_naildesigns Thank you!

[@aggiebaibe6494]

Great news. I wish u a happy healthy long life.

[@name9601]

did it yourself? well wishes

[@timli1830]

@@name9601 Thank you!

[@charkoshanghai]

Stop sleeping with the dude 😂

[@healingchef]

Thank you Steve👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼, many blessings

[@changetocome100]

I don't get why she's attracted to him

[@nikkij5731]

ME EITHER BECAUSE HE IS SWEET AS GEORGIA PIE 🥧 LOL 😂

[@changetocome100]

@@nikkij5731 Interesting, I thought I saw something too but wasn't sure.

[@JSmedic1]

​@@nikkij5731Yeah! He is on the other team.

[@GeryRydell]

When a man knows he knows… and I know I wanna wait and don’t marry in a blink of an eye… because that happens so many times and after 6-7 years divorce is around the corner…. 😂😂😂

[@yogirlashley5779]

“You know” Dude WE DO NOT KNOW

[@karenwalters1211]

If a relationship doesn’t move forward, it falls apart

[@OnlyRandi]

This lady should get a prenup agreement with no accruals this guy aint gonna commit. Im sitting in Africa and i sense bull from here.

[@lilianwangui1077]

As a lady if you want to get married first don't give your self to him give a signal you need to be respected and everything will happen after marriage when you are dating avoid seeing each other at a private places public places only be serious and stick to your principles remember when one is dating tend to hide his or her own Characters they will show up later Don't be desperate to be with him. If they are signs you aren't destined to be together, let it be no forcing situations BETTER BROKEN RELATIONSHIP 💔 THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE 💑

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

💯👏♥️

[@leomarilyn4232]

Living in his house she said I say no

[@yes_on_air]

Both of these situations were beyond stupid. What they won' put on TV.

[@JC-et1mt]

Notice how these Jezebels cut him off from answering the question ?

[@darkknight6219]

Exactly, and of course Steve doing what he does best by pandering to these women

[@teadott]

Pressured into signing a contract

[@traindawg21]

That's exactly what it sounds like.

[@teadott]

@@traindawg21 unfortunately only prenuptial gets thrown out.

[@darkknight6219]

That's the part they don't wanna address!!

[@crissyspeaks2u23]

Me personally, I wouldn’t have gotten a house with him. She pulled the cart before the horse. Why buy the 🐄 when you can get the milk for free. He’s laughing and she’s serious and desperate for marriage and children. I also couldn’t get past him using the excuse of not having a positive married male role model. She’s crazy I’m only going to ask once after that I’m gone.

[@simple_naildesigns]

Agree 👏

[@patriciabaez1012]

True

[@FN-ef4wb]

Why ask even once? Before financial complications (house) this should have been discussed. He looks so dim witted and slow and dodgy with his constant "you know..."

[@bethevoice3]

Bro is afraid cos he's hearing other men war stories about divorce 😂😂😂

[@yellowcricket8597]

Nah. He's just lazy and she's chasing dreams. The problem is she's the only one chasing. I don't see good ending to this story

[@kimm3375]

Yeah but he should have been clear before buying a house with her knowing she wants marriage. Marriage is what you make it.

[@loveangel6350]

kick him out...kick him out.....kick him out

[@everlynejudith5445]

When there's two people joined together there's no amount of trust that there will be when there's a third party that's been in the area for a long time. Uncertainties creep in when you take long to embarce what you have . When you have a good woman you will know and when you got a good man you will know but all this cant be in place if you're not a believer.

[@ariellemayaali]

i’m passed the old school ways of getting married before moving in together. a home? no ? but an apartment where you get a chance to see if they’re really the one? yes. before making that big step of marriage, home and kids

[@amaj_lex]

He plays for the other team sis.

[@roccityshottest]

At the end of the day she’s not being held accountable for her decisions of someone who isn’t a good option for her. Cmon. Yall gonna position her into a situation that would be a path to divorce.

[@chrismazz75]

She's his beard. He wants to be perceived by the world as something he just isn't.

[@SharkyBG]

Wow...poor dude, a person can be smiling for many reasons, it doesn't mean that he's enjoying her sadness, that was just dumb and rude. Also, you may love someone and still not be ready for marriage, no need to attack the poor guy like that...

[@shaleniramsahai5782]

I agree with the guy wanting to get past the" honeymoon phase" where everything is lovy dovy. I am a woman and hate to hear women married-hungry. Everyone has the right to take their time. Or not get married if they don't want to.

[@darkknight6219]

Say it louder, I see most women don't seem to understand this!!

[@kimm3375]

You dont have a honeymoon until after marriage so there is no getting over honeymoon stage while living together.

[@Jaybird-be1tt]

Well you know I am an ignorant fool you know. Trying to pressure a man into marriage, especially on TV is not a good idea. You need to leave him.

[@angellcateau6098]

He got too comfortable, that move in was too easy! That's selfish!

[@oketchriyajoel5415]

Single independent women have confused young girls nowadays thats why many are Single...now the ladies with steve attack the gentleman from a negative point of view because first of he s on spot their and they cut him short of his answer thats wrong he is scared already so.....as me i would give him space to talk and listen then intervene like steve did. Because if the woman was on spot the independent woman down next to steve would have approached her better. Lets play the game equally 😊

[@Sundayschoolnetwork]

You put the "cart before the horse" is the problem. God's way is the best way!

[@NubianP6]

The last woman needs to leave BOTH of those losers in the house together! Maybe someday a “real” man will come into her life, because no real man would allow his wife’s ex-husband to lay up in his house year after year, and no real man would allow his ex-wife’s husband to take care of him!

[@LorineFoster-u2t]

Runnnnnnnnn he don’t want a her

[@atavious6851]

His wrist broke

[@metromix8046]

YEP!

[@OneWomanMan888]

Living together before getting married is a cowardly act in a relationship.

[@lovelygirl7123]

Say if louder for the people in back…

[@AllThingsSoul]

Agree 100%! Ladies, never do it.

[@Adm9464]

Come we stay often doesn’t yield lawful marriage.

[@shantavalentine9537]

She sure Tony and him ain’t DL. This weird

[@kg291]

not everyone believes in marriage, been with my man 14yrs, own our house etc but we just arent marriage ppl its just paper to us

[@jamesrodolee03]

I really wonder how many of these people giving so much advice about relationships and marriage r still married??

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

I know Kim Gravel is still married. I don't know about the rest.

[@jamesrodolee03]

@@RoyalMasterpiece Exactly

[@name9601]

those who can't do teach

[@darkknight6219]

Women need to understand that marriage for men is a great sacrifice, you don't just make that decision on a whim! Also any woman that gives you an ultimatum leave her, you cannot be with a woman that tries to force marriage on you!!

[@malehlohonolo8463]

No lady, we cant imagine because we have boundaries!!!

[@iam.fitmimi7242]

I could be wrong but he either has feminine energy or he doesn’t like women as much as she thinks… IJS

[@allisonhenry436]

Wow! He is living rent free for a year and some ppl who really have life so hard can'teven get that help.

[@Matthew7.7]

There’s something going on he not saying. That’s why he didn’t ask to marry her. If you second guess her don’t marry her bro.

[@yellowcricket8597]

I don't think he has any intentions of marrying her at all. She's the one who's fooling herself. Very sad for her. He's not gonna change.

[@Matthew7.7]

@@yellowcricket8597 maybe she don’t deserve a ring

[@yellowcricket8597]

@@Matthew7.7 well, we'll never know. The lack of self esteem is blinding

[@name9601]

he's the problem give a straight answer "you know" then her pushing desperate not a good look .

[@yellowcricket8597]

@@name9601 he's a man, who happens to have a girl with low self esteem. I think he's enjoying being a king with a very dutiful 'subject'.

[@stevejk6704]

Steve is the bomb as a stand up comedian - top tier. As a dating coach though, he's extremely biased towards women. Has no problem throwing a man under the bus. Can't count the number of times I've heard him tell women to lie about the number of past relationships they've had.

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Well you know 😂😂😂😂

[@cynthiawesley6848]

He seem like he go both ways the husband smh

[@godschica14]

Hey, where's part 2 for Vernon's win with Harvey's hundreds? Lol

[@kathycoker7763]

what happened to these couples? follow up please,

[@okotyee4732]

They sweating him so hard, poor man had to come up with a date

[@prettiilexii672]

The second lady want two husbands at one time, just nasty!!! Smh

[@kameshalawagoner2214]

I wish there was update to this

[@Heavenly_007]

June 24th is my birthday 🥳

[@name9601]

happy future birthday

[@lynsoto1488]

Putting him the spot😂

[@annemartyn2628]

He don't deserve her, she seems so lovely, georgeous & deserve the best!❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

Hmmmmmmm.

[@cuprunnethover2]

Why buy the cow when the milk is free? She shouldn't have moved in with him in the first place. He seems a little shady to me. He doesn't seem to want to marry her. That's my opinion! The second show with Vernon is absolutely crazy. There is no way!

[@Leniloveyeshua3483]

Ohhhh he don't like the fruit

[@AT-zl6dk]

He couldn’t even answer basic questions about the relationship. You know is not communication. Hope she left him.

[@Phillpns413]

Ziiiiiet . I feel this was so much pressure in the first couple bro..

[@JuLia-kk6lh]

That bad sentence!!! " Tony you need to be the man of the house!!!" It's her house!!!! That's not how you measure masculinity!!! Stop with this toxic concept of it!!! Obviously Vernon needs to find a place and time to find it, they just need to be firm and no giving mixed messages... It doesn't have to be the man kicking the other man out, she can take control of it but she expecting the man to do it, as she is old fashion... I don't get it!!!

[@lyreenathan3837]

He's looking for another way out

[@rolong4444]

🙆🏾‍♀️ married but living with ex… wypipo are special 😂😂

[@bradleycampbell245]

That man should dump her and move on. He’s already getting the milk for free, why should he buy the entire cow?????? Maybe the lady has yet to prove that she is wife material and worth marriage. Either she continues to wait on him, or she should just move on.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Shouldn't have moved in with him in the first place. And he may have not hit the jackpot. She may be something else to really deal with. Someone being physically appealing isn't the most important thing there is. Do she know how to pray for him or with him? Is she really patient? Is she really kind? Is she good with children? Is she good with money? Is she his peace in the storm or do she bring drama, discord, and chaos? It is more than just being good in bed, looking pretty, having his children, and being able to cook. People better learn how to seek GOD on these things and NOT MAN (human beings).

[@veeanita1803]

I concur with this message. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@yvetteclarkjames1808]

Anyone else hear what hear? I'll wait.

[@karenwalters1211]

After 7 years I finally gave my husband an ultimatum and we are now married. Put your foot down ladies. Don’t settle for less than you deserve and don’t sacrifice your standards

[@jamielunes1841]

The ads are longer than the show!

[@a.yohannes6675]

Run bro, dont listen to Steve

[@gloriamutoni5137]

He's got the milk..why buy the cow?

[@PlayboyPrincess-cd4bo]

**🗣️ NEVER PLAY HOUSE...EVER!!! And don't he sounds SUS, is it just me... I think he plays both teams, imo**

[@wandasantillo1220]

That first girl isn't going anyway until he discards her. She will stay with no ring no commitment until he wants another flavor as his woman.

[@drsomto007]

These guys just saying crap putting pressure on the guy

[@evadale1500]

Stop acting desperate

[@ImOnAJourney]

Getting married doesn’t add the final touch to your life, which is clearly what Kelsey thinks will happen. Getting married is just the BEGINNING of your life. You won’t accomplish your life until after you spend decades together as husband and wife, after thousands of bad casseroles, after a billion miles on the odometer, after seeing the children raised, off on their own and being useful within society, after long careers, after doing all the things you and your spouse want to do with your entwined lives … after you do everything on every day and every night right up to the point of your death - THAT’S when your life will be COMPLETE. If you look at marriage any other way, you’re NOT ready for marriage. The trio 🤦🏻 Just 😱 Vernon is rude, he’s an a$$hole AND he’s a squatter - he needs to put his big boy panties on and get out. Talk about overstaying your welcome! You’re all going to end up hating the other two, and adding two more victims to the out-of-control annual divorce rate. Wake up, people - you’re living in the deep end of the nuclear waste tank!! ☢️ 🔥

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@gehughes2724]

Is it me or does he seem alternative perhaps??

[@depitrius]

These 3 women are very aggressive in my opinion, I personally wouldn't appreciate being treated like that in front of my partner, things would get heated.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Here is the thing we MUST choose to learn that people will only do what we allow them to do. Also, it is VERY important to choose to learn how to develop a relationship with Christ (not just go to church), seek His face, and HIS will for your life in JESUS' NAME. Choose to stop seeking advice from any and everybody and choose to stop doing what the world is doing in regards to relationships and otherwise and expecting a Biblical and Godly result. Because it generally isn't going to happen. Choose to be led by the spirit of God and God alone. LADIES, PLEASE stop thinking you are going to get a man through force, control, and manipulation. Don't try to win him over with your body, good looks, cooking, having his children, doing any and everything he want you to do (even to your own detriment) or whatever the case may be. WAIT ON GOD. GOD IS STILL REAO, ALIVE, WELL, ON THE THRONE, IN CONTROL, AND THE ABSOLUTE BEST MATCHMAKER THERE WILL EVER BE. I PROMISE. God truly does love and care for you all AND SO DO I. GOD BLESS. THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH. AMEN. ❤❤❤

[@chrissyrocco796]

Get rid of this guy. First couple.

[@xandrafrancois]

she settles for less. Do not live together if he does not propose. No sex before marriage. know your worth

[@ladeessekamiteeduca1449]

Tony seems struck in this marriage 😢

[@AnnaLory-l4u]

He’s DL it’s so OBVIOUS! 😳

[@treasurearhewoh327]

Wait you're living with your ex with your husband 😮😮 damn

[@amoakosty]

Thank you Mr. Steve Harvey. That was the best idea