When me and my husband first got married, we were broke and I was nervous and almost called it off, but a wise lady told that he is a good man and God will provide and yes we had some bumps in the road but we never went hungry nor were we homeless and it will be 27 years in August! God will provide just trust him to do so!
@lovelygirl71239 ай бұрын
*my husband and I…..
@name96019 ай бұрын
@@lovelygirl7123 this ain't school, thanks for educating
@ladennayoung29398 ай бұрын
AMEN!!! EXACTLY!!!! ❤❤❤
@ladennayoung29398 ай бұрын
I pray that the Lord continues to choose to bless you all's union in Jesus' name. AMEN. THE BEST IS YET TO COME.
@mae10627 ай бұрын
That doesn't make any sense in this context.. obviously they're not struggling with money
@Bambi-ul1tz9 ай бұрын
Never marry a guy that says " you know" way too much, like NO we don't know!😂 This clip had some messed up people😂
@simple_naildesigns9 ай бұрын
Agree Steve! When a man knows, he knows.
@zoradelaney94129 ай бұрын
He just doesn't wanna marry you, sis. Keep it moving. Don't waste additional time on this DEAD END road. And don't ever move in with a man until AFTER you are married......
@lovelygirl71239 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only who came to that conclusion… He just doesn’t want to marry her and won’t marry her…
@Pacifica745 ай бұрын
I keep thinking what is wrong with that guy - she's the best he's ever going to get!
@tiararoxeanne13184 ай бұрын
@@Pacifica74That guy thinks he has a chance to get a better woman. But of course he wants to have her around for sex on demands, companionship, eye candy, etc. Just doesn't wanna pay it with a marriage certificate.
@nygreek7439 ай бұрын
That’s her first mistake. Getting a house with him and not being married first. She probably didn’t even sign the paperwork.
@OneWomanMan8889 ай бұрын
Have you heard of love is blind.
@OneWomanMan8889 ай бұрын
It's not one person's mistake, it's takes two to tango in a relationship.
@ladysinger849 ай бұрын
THIS!!!!
@maryannedelaney9 ай бұрын
I agree!
@ElleD3089 ай бұрын
@@OneWomanMan888in her case there's no "it takes two to tango" This is a grown woman who decided to move in with a 30+ year-old man who clearly doesn't want to marry and stay there day after day without the commitment. That's a "her fault issue"
@stephanygomez80219 ай бұрын
Omg I was cringing for Vernon. I agree he has to go but the way everyone just sat there and bashed him broke my heart and made me feel very embarrassed for him
@nubian776 ай бұрын
Wow lol
@darkknight62196 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@anyagee94676 ай бұрын
It was about time. Nothing else seemed to work.
@MyWayWendy9 ай бұрын
Never avoid the person who loves you truly because nowadays it's hard to find true love.
@catherinerg19 ай бұрын
I agree don't avoid person it is hard 2 find someone to love u nowadays even with no proposal or ring lol
@MyWayWendy9 ай бұрын
@@catherinerg1 My comment is deeper than that, it's actually for the man.
@Kwamena899 ай бұрын
I'm not sure it does exist now....... Because i value loyalty in a relationship and that's my strength but it turns out to be my biggest mistake.
@AllThingsSoul8 ай бұрын
Never try to convince someone to marry you. Believe their actions, cut your losses, and move on.
@nmmk91348 ай бұрын
Indeed is very rare.
@krissmgvlogs9 ай бұрын
It makes me cringe when I see women begging for a ring. Shouldn't have moved in with him in the first place!
@gorgeous4913 ай бұрын
Agreed
@karenwalters12113 ай бұрын
This!
@Sundayschoolnetwork2 ай бұрын
Amen
@Dpoweroflittledrops9 ай бұрын
Watching from Nigeria. I love those advise for the ex to move out. I find it inconceivable that an ex is comfortable in living with his married ex.
@defiantlypinki11079 ай бұрын
Men are perfectly willing to keep a woman in placeholder mode, while they know if their head the answer is no. As women, it’s our job to determine this ASAP before our good years are wasted. I had a guy that I had dated for two months who I had my first time with and was head over heels for. He kept saying that he wanted to take his time to get to know his partner. Eventually, I kept getting the feeling that he didn’t fully want to be with him. He got mad at me for doubting him, then admitted that he’s been doubting our compatibility, then asked me to continue going out with him but as friends. But I was smart enough to realize that nothing good would come of it for me, and cut off all contact. As upset as I was, I’m glad I found all this out early on. I can’t imagine having this happen after years.
@shalimar299 ай бұрын
I wish to have your intuition 😊 I am still learning in this crazy modern world of dating. Can you tell me why staying friends first would be bad? I was planning to stay friends first and get to know him well as a person. Then if all goes well and he is not afraid to be my platonic friend first, then the romantic plans would follow. What you think of that?
@hazelboyce72308 ай бұрын
Women allow themselves to be kept as placeholders. She shouldn’t have moved in with him until and unless they got married. He is getting marriage privileges from a girlfriend. Instead of blaming men for everything, hold women accountable for their foolishness as well.
@nubian776 ай бұрын
@@hazelboyce7230the point is that m@les are liars and are not straight forward. This is how people get finessed into the place holder position. Sure, hold women accountable for understanding their worth, but don’t be disingenuous and act like these folks are not out here lying and selling dreams
@_zishio9 ай бұрын
"you know" No we don't know!!!
@michaelhoerig44309 ай бұрын
This man keeps saying, 'ya know'. NO! We don't know!!!
@lovelygirl71239 ай бұрын
We absolutely don’t know 😂😂😂😂
@janetannisette59659 ай бұрын
Never, ever, move in with a man, big MISTAKE. You are providing wife duties for what ?
@lovelygirl71239 ай бұрын
FOR FREE!! Tell them…..
@naomip30024 ай бұрын
You learn so much about somebody when you live with them. How can you marry somebody without that information?
@MyWayWendy9 ай бұрын
You shouldn't get married again knowing that you still have feelings for your Ex.
@timli18309 ай бұрын
Thank you Steve for posting this video today! I was just told that I have a non cancerous brain tumor which I did surgery for yesterday. This video has really brightened my day!
@simple_naildesigns9 ай бұрын
Prayers for a safe recovery 🙏🏽
@timli18309 ай бұрын
@@simple_naildesigns Thank you!
@aggiebaibe64949 ай бұрын
Great news. I wish u a happy healthy long life.
@name96019 ай бұрын
did it yourself? well wishes
@timli18309 ай бұрын
@@name9601 Thank you!
@andreajones8869 ай бұрын
Steve was like,"we ALL IN AGREEMENT,BUT AIN'T NB LEFT YET!!!!!"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@RoyalMasterpiece9 ай бұрын
💥💥💥💥💥💥
@RoyalMasterpiece9 ай бұрын
And DON'T COMEBACK! 🎤
@EdwardSanchezProductions9 ай бұрын
Turn my nice show into Jerry springer 😂😂😂😂😂
@mj112226 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂right?!!!
@ladennayoung29398 ай бұрын
Everyone was talking about the first couple and didn't have ANYTHING to say about that second couple. REALLY?
@cwayzums2 ай бұрын
They missed out on this threesome. Here’s what I think. Deidre is still in love with Vernon! 😂
@charmingcharlie0119 ай бұрын
I’m pretty sure her aunties told her the same thing…boy boy boy, you couldn’t pay me to get on TV and embarrass myself 🤦🏽♀️ stop waiting for people to tell you what they’ve already shown you. But good luck to them 💕
@ladennayoung29398 ай бұрын
Hmmmmmmmm.
@laurynorder39655 ай бұрын
He's on the DL. Took 2.5 seconds
@legallycurvy3 ай бұрын
I SEE YOU
@bigmann4783 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@pimpin18718722528 күн бұрын
On god!!
@_zishio9 ай бұрын
He isn't even giving straight answers, talking about you know when we really don't know I wish they kept quiet and let him explain cuz I'm sure he'd be speechless 😂😂
@Vivacious79134 ай бұрын
😂I noticed that too?! I was hoping they would shut up just to verify my thoughts that he probably wouldn’t have had anything to say. 😂 I wanted to witness him go speechless 😆
@healingchef9 ай бұрын
Thank you Steve👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼, many blessings
@GeryRydell9 ай бұрын
When a man knows he knows… and I know I wanna wait and don’t marry in a blink of an eye… because that happens so many times and after 6-7 years divorce is around the corner…. 😂😂😂
@chargrove74679 ай бұрын
Dr V got it right.
@lilianwangui10779 ай бұрын
As a lady if you want to get married first don't give your self to him give a signal you need to be respected and everything will happen after marriage when you are dating avoid seeing each other at a private places public places only be serious and stick to your principles remember when one is dating tend to hide his or her own Characters they will show up later Don't be desperate to be with him. If they are signs you aren't destined to be together, let it be no forcing situations BETTER BROKEN RELATIONSHIP 💔 THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE 💑
@RoyalMasterpiece9 ай бұрын
💯👏♥️
@leomarilyn42329 ай бұрын
Living in his house she said I say no
@charkoshanghai9 ай бұрын
Stop sleeping with the dude 😂
@chantal43427 ай бұрын
He sounds like Clay from love is one season 6.
@prettiilexii6726 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 yes
@changetocome1009 ай бұрын
I don't get why she's attracted to him
@nikkij57319 ай бұрын
ME EITHER BECAUSE HE IS SWEET AS GEORGIA PIE 🥧 LOL 😂
@changetocome1009 ай бұрын
@@nikkij5731 Interesting, I thought I saw something too but wasn't sure.
@JSmedic19 ай бұрын
@@nikkij5731Yeah! He is on the other team.
@JC-et1mt9 ай бұрын
Notice how these Jezebels cut him off from answering the question ?
@darkknight62196 ай бұрын
Exactly, and of course Steve doing what he does best by pandering to these women
@yogirlashley57797 ай бұрын
“You know” Dude WE DO NOT KNOW
@everlynejudith54459 ай бұрын
When there's two people joined together there's no amount of trust that there will be when there's a third party that's been in the area for a long time. Uncertainties creep in when you take long to embarce what you have . When you have a good woman you will know and when you got a good man you will know but all this cant be in place if you're not a believer.
@karenwalters12113 ай бұрын
If a relationship doesn’t move forward, it falls apart
@crissyspeaks2u239 ай бұрын
Me personally, I wouldn’t have gotten a house with him. She pulled the cart before the horse. Why buy the 🐄 when you can get the milk for free. He’s laughing and she’s serious and desperate for marriage and children. I also couldn’t get past him using the excuse of not having a positive married male role model. She’s crazy I’m only going to ask once after that I’m gone.
@simple_naildesigns9 ай бұрын
Agree 👏
@patriciabaez10129 ай бұрын
True
@FN-ef4wb7 ай бұрын
Why ask even once? Before financial complications (house) this should have been discussed. He looks so dim witted and slow and dodgy with his constant "you know..."
@OnlyRandi9 ай бұрын
This lady should get a prenup agreement with no accruals this guy aint gonna commit. Im sitting in Africa and i sense bull from here.
@bethevoice39 ай бұрын
Bro is afraid cos he's hearing other men war stories about divorce 😂😂😂
@yellowcricket85979 ай бұрын
Nah. He's just lazy and she's chasing dreams. The problem is she's the only one chasing. I don't see good ending to this story
@kimm33756 ай бұрын
Yeah but he should have been clear before buying a house with her knowing she wants marriage. Marriage is what you make it.
@teadott9 ай бұрын
Pressured into signing a contract
@traindawg217 ай бұрын
That's exactly what it sounds like.
@teadott7 ай бұрын
@@traindawg21 unfortunately only prenuptial gets thrown out.
@darkknight62196 ай бұрын
That's the part they don't wanna address!!
@yes_on_air5 ай бұрын
Both of these situations were beyond stupid. What they won' put on TV.
@OneWomanMan8889 ай бұрын
Living together before getting married is a cowardly act in a relationship.
@lovelygirl71239 ай бұрын
Say if louder for the people in back…
@AllThingsSoul8 ай бұрын
Agree 100%! Ladies, never do it.
@ariellemayaali6 ай бұрын
i’m passed the old school ways of getting married before moving in together. a home? no ? but an apartment where you get a chance to see if they’re really the one? yes. before making that big step of marriage, home and kids
@shaleniramsahai57829 ай бұрын
I agree with the guy wanting to get past the" honeymoon phase" where everything is lovy dovy. I am a woman and hate to hear women married-hungry. Everyone has the right to take their time. Or not get married if they don't want to.
@darkknight62196 ай бұрын
Say it louder, I see most women don't seem to understand this!!
@kimm33756 ай бұрын
You dont have a honeymoon until after marriage so there is no getting over honeymoon stage while living together.
@roccityshottest9 ай бұрын
At the end of the day she’s not being held accountable for her decisions of someone who isn’t a good option for her. Cmon. Yall gonna position her into a situation that would be a path to divorce.
@loveangel63506 ай бұрын
kick him out...kick him out.....kick him out
@SharkyBG3 ай бұрын
Wow...poor dude, a person can be smiling for many reasons, it doesn't mean that he's enjoying her sadness, that was just dumb and rude. Also, you may love someone and still not be ready for marriage, no need to attack the poor guy like that...
@NubianP69 ай бұрын
The last woman needs to leave BOTH of those losers in the house together! Maybe someday a “real” man will come into her life, because no real man would allow his wife’s ex-husband to lay up in his house year after year, and no real man would allow his ex-wife’s husband to take care of him!
@chrismazz755 ай бұрын
She's his beard. He wants to be perceived by the world as something he just isn't.
@oketchriyajoel54159 ай бұрын
Single independent women have confused young girls nowadays thats why many are Single...now the ladies with steve attack the gentleman from a negative point of view because first of he s on spot their and they cut him short of his answer thats wrong he is scared already so.....as me i would give him space to talk and listen then intervene like steve did. Because if the woman was on spot the independent woman down next to steve would have approached her better. Lets play the game equally 😊
@Jaybird-be1tt4 ай бұрын
Well you know I am an ignorant fool you know. Trying to pressure a man into marriage, especially on TV is not a good idea. You need to leave him.
@EdwardSanchezProductions9 ай бұрын
Well you know 😂😂😂😂
@angellcateau60987 ай бұрын
He got too comfortable, that move in was too easy! That's selfish!
@jamesrodolee039 ай бұрын
I really wonder how many of these people giving so much advice about relationships and marriage r still married??
@RoyalMasterpiece9 ай бұрын
I know Kim Gravel is still married. I don't know about the rest.
@jamesrodolee039 ай бұрын
@@RoyalMasterpiece Exactly
@name96019 ай бұрын
those who can't do teach
@LorineFoster-u2t7 ай бұрын
Runnnnnnnnn he don’t want a her
@stevejk67049 ай бұрын
Steve is the bomb as a stand up comedian - top tier. As a dating coach though, he's extremely biased towards women. Has no problem throwing a man under the bus. Can't count the number of times I've heard him tell women to lie about the number of past relationships they've had.
@godschica148 ай бұрын
Hey, where's part 2 for Vernon's win with Harvey's hundreds? Lol
@atavious68519 ай бұрын
His wrist broke
@metromix80468 ай бұрын
YEP!
@amaj_lex6 ай бұрын
He plays for the other team sis.
@shantavalentine95378 ай бұрын
She sure Tony and him ain’t DL. This weird
@malehlohonolo84638 күн бұрын
No lady, we cant imagine because we have boundaries!!!
@Matthew7.79 ай бұрын
There’s something going on he not saying. That’s why he didn’t ask to marry her. If you second guess her don’t marry her bro.
@yellowcricket85979 ай бұрын
I don't think he has any intentions of marrying her at all. She's the one who's fooling herself. Very sad for her. He's not gonna change.
@Matthew7.79 ай бұрын
@@yellowcricket8597 maybe she don’t deserve a ring
@yellowcricket85979 ай бұрын
@@Matthew7.7 well, we'll never know. The lack of self esteem is blinding
@name96019 ай бұрын
he's the problem give a straight answer "you know" then her pushing desperate not a good look .
@yellowcricket85979 ай бұрын
@@name9601 he's a man, who happens to have a girl with low self esteem. I think he's enjoying being a king with a very dutiful 'subject'.
@Sundayschoolnetwork2 ай бұрын
You put the "cart before the horse" is the problem. God's way is the best way!
@iam.fitmimi72428 ай бұрын
I could be wrong but he either has feminine energy or he doesn’t like women as much as she thinks… IJS
@darkknight62196 ай бұрын
Women need to understand that marriage for men is a great sacrifice, you don't just make that decision on a whim! Also any woman that gives you an ultimatum leave her, you cannot be with a woman that tries to force marriage on you!!
@cynthiawesley68489 ай бұрын
He seem like he go both ways the husband smh
@Phillpns4139 ай бұрын
Ziiiiiet . I feel this was so much pressure in the first couple bro..
@allisonhenry4367 ай бұрын
Wow! He is living rent free for a year and some ppl who really have life so hard can'teven get that help.
@Heavenly_0079 ай бұрын
June 24th is my birthday 🥳
@name96019 ай бұрын
happy future birthday
@Adm94647 ай бұрын
Come we stay often doesn’t yield lawful marriage.
@kg2917 ай бұрын
not everyone believes in marriage, been with my man 14yrs, own our house etc but we just arent marriage ppl its just paper to us
@kameshalawagoner22146 ай бұрын
I wish there was update to this
@lynsoto14884 ай бұрын
Putting him the spot😂
@annemartyn26289 ай бұрын
He don't deserve her, she seems so lovely, georgeous & deserve the best!❤
@ladennayoung29398 ай бұрын
Hmmmmmmm.
@AT-zl6dk6 ай бұрын
He couldn’t even answer basic questions about the relationship. You know is not communication. Hope she left him.
@rolong444421 күн бұрын
🙆🏾♀️ married but living with ex… wypipo are special 😂😂
@JuLia-kk6lh9 ай бұрын
That bad sentence!!! " Tony you need to be the man of the house!!!" It's her house!!!! That's not how you measure masculinity!!! Stop with this toxic concept of it!!! Obviously Vernon needs to find a place and time to find it, they just need to be firm and no giving mixed messages... It doesn't have to be the man kicking the other man out, she can take control of it but she expecting the man to do it, as she is old fashion... I don't get it!!!
@cuprunnethover25 ай бұрын
Why buy the cow when the milk is free? She shouldn't have moved in with him in the first place. He seems a little shady to me. He doesn't seem to want to marry her. That's my opinion! The second show with Vernon is absolutely crazy. There is no way!
@lyreenathan38377 ай бұрын
He's looking for another way out
@karenwalters12113 ай бұрын
After 7 years I finally gave my husband an ultimatum and we are now married. Put your foot down ladies. Don’t settle for less than you deserve and don’t sacrifice your standards
@prettiilexii6726 ай бұрын
The second lady want two husbands at one time, just nasty!!! Smh
@okotyee47329 ай бұрын
They sweating him so hard, poor man had to come up with a date
@yvetteclarkjames18087 ай бұрын
Anyone else hear what hear? I'll wait.
@bradleycampbell2457 ай бұрын
That man should dump her and move on. He’s already getting the milk for free, why should he buy the entire cow?????? Maybe the lady has yet to prove that she is wife material and worth marriage. Either she continues to wait on him, or she should just move on.
@Leniloveyeshua34838 ай бұрын
Ohhhh he don't like the fruit
@kathycoker77634 ай бұрын
what happened to these couples? follow up please,
@jamielunes18414 ай бұрын
The ads are longer than the show!
@wandasantillo12204 ай бұрын
That first girl isn't going anyway until he discards her. She will stay with no ring no commitment until he wants another flavor as his woman.
@drsomto0079 ай бұрын
These guys just saying crap putting pressure on the guy
@ImOnAJourney9 ай бұрын
Getting married doesn’t add the final touch to your life, which is clearly what Kelsey thinks will happen. Getting married is just the BEGINNING of your life. You won’t accomplish your life until after you spend decades together as husband and wife, after thousands of bad casseroles, after a billion miles on the odometer, after seeing the children raised, off on their own and being useful within society, after long careers, after doing all the things you and your spouse want to do with your entwined lives … after you do everything on every day and every night right up to the point of your death - THAT’S when your life will be COMPLETE. If you look at marriage any other way, you’re NOT ready for marriage. The trio 🤦🏻 Just 😱 Vernon is rude, he’s an a$$hole AND he’s a squatter - he needs to put his big boy panties on and get out. Talk about overstaying your welcome! You’re all going to end up hating the other two, and adding two more victims to the out-of-control annual divorce rate. Wake up, people - you’re living in the deep end of the nuclear waste tank!! ☢️ 🔥
@RoyalMasterpiece9 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@amoakosty9 ай бұрын
Thank you Mr. Steve Harvey. That was the best idea
@PlayboyPrincess-cd4boАй бұрын
**🗣️ NEVER PLAY HOUSE...EVER!!! And don't he sounds SUS, is it just me... I think he plays both teams, imo**
@depitrius4 ай бұрын
These 3 women are very aggressive in my opinion, I personally wouldn't appreciate being treated like that in front of my partner, things would get heated.
@ladennayoung29398 ай бұрын
Shouldn't have moved in with him in the first place. And he may have not hit the jackpot. She may be something else to really deal with. Someone being physically appealing isn't the most important thing there is. Do she know how to pray for him or with him? Is she really patient? Is she really kind? Is she good with children? Is she good with money? Is she his peace in the storm or do she bring drama, discord, and chaos? It is more than just being good in bed, looking pretty, having his children, and being able to cook. People better learn how to seek GOD on these things and NOT MAN (human beings).
@veeanita18037 ай бұрын
I concur with this message. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@gloriamutoni51379 ай бұрын
He's got the milk..why buy the cow?
@a.yohannes66754 ай бұрын
Run bro, dont listen to Steve
@evadale15009 ай бұрын
Stop acting desperate
@chrissyrocco7963 ай бұрын
Get rid of this guy. First couple.
@ladennayoung29398 ай бұрын
Here is the thing we MUST choose to learn that people will only do what we allow them to do. Also, it is VERY important to choose to learn how to develop a relationship with Christ (not just go to church), seek His face, and HIS will for your life in JESUS' NAME. Choose to stop seeking advice from any and everybody and choose to stop doing what the world is doing in regards to relationships and otherwise and expecting a Biblical and Godly result. Because it generally isn't going to happen. Choose to be led by the spirit of God and God alone. LADIES, PLEASE stop thinking you are going to get a man through force, control, and manipulation. Don't try to win him over with your body, good looks, cooking, having his children, doing any and everything he want you to do (even to your own detriment) or whatever the case may be. WAIT ON GOD. GOD IS STILL REAO, ALIVE, WELL, ON THE THRONE, IN CONTROL, AND THE ABSOLUTE BEST MATCHMAKER THERE WILL EVER BE. I PROMISE. God truly does love and care for you all AND SO DO I. GOD BLESS. THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH. AMEN. ❤❤❤
@Vivacious79134 ай бұрын
These people knew the answers to their problems before going on show. I’m sure their families had plenty to say about it already, so why embarrass yourselves and get the same advice from a talk show host and others, when you got your answers without being embarrassed on national television from your loved ones?! 🤦🏽♀️
@xandrafrancois2 ай бұрын
she settles for less. Do not live together if he does not propose. No sex before marriage. know your worth
@AnnaLory-l4u4 ай бұрын
He’s DL it’s so OBVIOUS! 😳
@gehughes27247 ай бұрын
Is it me or does he seem alternative perhaps??
@steeveizidor45489 ай бұрын
Hi Steve my name is steeve IZIDOR i have been watching you on TV i am your fan. So I'd like to talk to you.