STOP ARGUING WITH PEOPLE! Reasons Why Arguing Is Killing You & Yours (Personal Development)

STOP ARGUING...simple as that. Do you understand what it does to your body, mind and spirit when you take the energy to argue with people? It's just not worth it.
In this video, I will talk about why arguing happens and the main reasons, what it does to you and the reasons why you should stop arguing, especially with your loved ones. When you stop arguing, you will attain your peace and that is important for a healthy and happy life.
I hope this video can help you with your relationships, friendships and even how you interact with people in the public. Thanks for watching
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[@novahc7133]

I’ve learnt that the hard way. These days I just say “OKAY”!

[@exit6414]

I'm scared

[@angelsavage9739]

How did you get to that point ? I really am tryna get to that point.

[@rcomyns4664]

So much energy is wasted by people who always have to be right. Dont take their bait!

[@char6201]

When I Grew and matured I stopped arguing with people or giving people my energy. Being selective on who I am around has been a game changer. It really upsets and confuses them so much. My Peace and Joy has been at an all time high since I have become more Emotionally Intelligent. Peace and Love 💫✨

[@Dxxxxc227]

Ok nerd

[@daniellalino]

I can't stand speaking to most people let alone arguing with them. Gotta protect your energy,its too many people who will erode your soul if you give them access to your orbit.

[@TYGZus777]

❤

[@uretmain]

Fr, arguing makes you stressed all day long, the moment i quit youtube comments and twitter my life improved

[@SealztheMan]

You are preaching right here lol as soon as I did this, peace came my way

[@mijezuta8886]

I don’t have the time or the patience to argue. That’s the power of maturity!

[@riceep1]

Sometimes you come from a perspective of trying to “talk it out” and it’s being labeled as an argument when it’s simply communicating.

[@lastbaby222]

So so True. 👍🏽👍🏽

[@niecyh2313]

Exactly

[@patriciap4095]

Yep, couldn't agree more.

[@kiwi5118]

No time for negativity ever…nothing but bait.🎯

[@zaakirahmurray]

My family attacks me with arguments every month. It makes me feel crazy bc everyone against me and I know I can’t be right all the time but I’m not wrong or a bad person.

[@fabalize6067]

Same here. Your not alone

[@emilyjenkins489]

The need to be right drives the need to win an argument...before getting into an argument, think, "Do I want to be Right, or do I want to be Happy?"

[@SealztheMan]

Exactly!

[@deanj8870]

Amen. There are many demonic spirits on my job. Co workers attacked me with argue. They hate the truth. They hate to see me in peace and joy. I refused lower myself. So true, brother. Everyone don't deserve your serenity👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾📖👑

[@prod.gregupnext2958]

Just say ok and move on

[@KagisoDire-fo6bt]

Yea neh

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

As someone who grew up around arguing all the time, it truly is: FOR THE DAMN BIRDS. The guy that I’m talking to always tells me “You always saying: NO,” 👀 because I have nothing to prove to you or no one else! I’m not arguing with myself or no one else. 🖕🏾

[@gxdzfxrst2940]

I think I needed this, arguing just isn't for me. It's only a prideful thing that gets in a way of relationships. I regret every argument I've been in, right or wrong.

[@osheedevine9277]

Amen 🙏🏾 it allows DIS(ease) to fester in your flesh!!!!! Protect your PEACE.

[@sunnysunnyd8383]

Arguing with someone who doesn't understand or not tripping to understand is not healthy💚💚💚

[@Anshul-mt1fj]

How to not argue in any situation

[@deniseborges6293]

Excellent advice! I could be very argumentative in my younger days and really regret it. It's not worth the damage it does to relationships. It's our pride that makes us do it!

[@Ilikearguements]

I see you looking for arguments in the replies 👁️👁️

[@inonamousperson7225]

The reason why I ended the relationship. Deflecting Manipulation Controlling ..when I would confront him about it or call him out He would..!..!..! And yell I built the courage to end all the stress Knowing I don't need this; I got God and I deserve much more

[@kerryjones6955]

Yeah I was the same, I avoid it now, iv learnt over the years its best to just say ok... especially when your arguing with someone you can't reason with.. your just banging your head against a brick wall.. Walk away!

[@TrustNoOne-bh1ru]

I don't argue I just get them a silent payback

[@chiomaceciliaamadi8252]

Can't help but say "I love you so much. You have truly blessed my life. You are indeed a rare gem...so cultured , yet handsome. I bless the womb that bore you....

[@SivaKumar-nj3ep]

I am facing arguing people on daily basis since few days.

[@islandgirl7281]

Bro...you never disappoint...your vlogs are on and popping real facts, real talk and life issues...am with you arguments gets you no where sometimes it is best to let things go...Silence is golden🌻

[@doreenmeccadavis9129]

I'm working on this right now. All my clap back

[@cosmologybey0]

When two or more people argue, they are actually fighting each other. Just that it is not a physical fight that they're having. but a neurological fight.

[@Princeallahagnew]

Thanks bro for this sometimes I waste my time arguing with ignorant people

[@shueibdahir]

Here's an analogy I heard recently: When a lion is hunting for a gazelle, does it stop and think "why am I doing this?", "am I wrong to take the gazelle's life?" Does a lion second guess itself? Arguing with others is just as stupid. You're questioning yourself and trying to validate your existence to yourself and to others. That makes one insecure and weak. You know what is true. Instead of arguing about it, live it. Actions speak louder than words

[@J3-UxH]

One of the two most important videos for me/my personal development I have watched in years. And it is all super concise. Many others would need 30-40 min to get those points across

[@reginahutchinson4057]

Wow this is a tutorial for all times. Everything that you said is so true. Some people just want to push your buttons. I refuse. Yes back in the day I had to let you know how I felt. I thought am I attracting these people? I was always know as the NICE GIRL. But I was extremely unique and different. Verbally I knew how to express myself very well. Communication was my super power. But I was so quick to get frustrated. Now I make an intentional choice not to be this girl. Or not to get sucked into with people who just want to get a rise out of you. Yes I broke up with arguing. Thank you sealztheman.

[@hdw5831]

I really don't understand why relatively few people watched this video. You are discussing a crucial subject here that many people are guilty of. It is the source of much misery! You are absolutely right to draw attention to this phenomenon. Thanks for that!

[@alexincolors7516]

True! This man is right and better try using what he's saying - hopefully, some day we'll live in a better world

[@Ju_ah]

Thank you, Sealz, I love your videos, your approach to Life...

[@Zen-cc6ij]

Man, right message at the right time.thanks

[@melodieshekia]

Thank you thank you thank you for this 🙏🏾

[@Vaxedia]

I only,,argue" when someone crosses my boundaries. I'm calm about this but another person gets defensive because for them it's not a big deal and they immediately point out things I did bad in the past.

[@JustinGarfield1]

I always walk away because I can be potentially physically be harmful. I just walkway and don't explain myself other than saying something like: something ain't right. Some people think I am weak brother.

[@SouthsideBackyardGardening]

Sealz that's me right here always want to be heard and understood. Thanks for this video

[@RitaDSouza-lw5gp]

It's till I say let the Will of God and Decision over my life is God

[@sharonj.heffernan7688]

Thank you! It did help. I watched this video because absolute strangers have been aggressive and starting arguments with me in public lately. I am Gen X... recently multiple older people (65 plus) have started arguments with me while I am minding my business. One involved an 88 year old woman who side swiped my vehicle while I was parked in a store parking lot. She argued her crashing into a parked car was somehow my fault. Five people stopped to chime in, and escalated the situation.(all Boomers) I am wondering why the world seems to have lost their minds. The world has become aggressive, common sense seems to have diminished and it is weighs on me. Your right... walking away will avoid a lot of wasted time and energy.

[@calinemetayer2608]

Sealzzzzzz the man I love your content you're always on point with these topic. I hear you it is good to avoid arguments but at the same time you could be the bigger person and try not to argue you appear like you're the weak person also they will push your buttons. I love the positive feedback appreciate that don't give them the power.

[@jazzavox]

...a man of truth!

[@sylviasmith4559]

I agree. I write. No talking unless I must. It's all illness. 53 years 53 years. Unreal what's actually going on the news, local talk, and family life. I'm trying to reach a balance and it's now at home. A spirit said to me "Be careful." I say to myself, "Be careful." There's no arguing. I'm a independent, leaning republican because the right to protect myself with anything to take someone out, and for democracy. I just don't want to look like a fool choosing a indicted guilty. In the home "my home.". I'm quiet. 2022 onward. I'm free but yet, it still there "disappointment." People

[@TYGZus777]

I know so many people who have greater respect for whoever can talk the loudest and the fastest, and can speak with the most style and personality - even though the words they're saying aren't true.

[@terrencemichaelcruz1801]

Thank you brother

[@Blackrok101]

Thanks for this video , hey I during my argument I have notice I m waisting my energy but continued 😢 oh my God I am just gonna stop this

[@stephaniewilliams9890]

Just smile and walk away.

[@SealztheMan]

Exactly 😊🚶🏿‍♂️

[@TaTa-xd5yt]

They like to trap you

[@Occ881]

.thank you for your video I really needed this..I need to stop arguing because it makes me feel sad Like you said that not everyone worth your points of view

[@spartjovic]

Stranger tried arguing with me recently, I just agreed with them (even though I don't). Sometimes it's better to defuse the situation and "walk" away from the situation.

[@JasVirk-oy9we]

I tried to get this info from councillors, you have helped a lot thank you

[@KagisoDire-fo6bt]

Thanks for sharing

[@BlackSmoke757]

I try my best not to argue. I dont play the "game" to try make a "point". I'll let you know if the stove is hot though, its on you to touch it or use it to make food for thought

[@linda__4587]

Interesting perspective I have never thought of. Thank you.

[@ghaloise]

Today, I was doing it... I argue so much for... I don't even know anymore if it was that important. I usually have the maturity not to do that... well not today. I'm disappoint of myself because I wasn't mature enough to step back and just let go. I did that before my colleagues, waste their time, my time, and for what ? I brought back the teenager outside of me today and everybody saw it.

[@MrsSuziInspirational]

thanks for this iam trying to give up lot of foods way i am lose weight over think so been more tempermental but will take note from this tomorrow xx

[@prettypeanut1203]

I am so glad I got out these drama I stay myself God love me to much

[@byBeautyBeast]

I can't stop arguing cause I made the choise to become a lawyer...

[@danielabowers4926]

I agree. 🎉

[@jamesshepard9457]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏

[@lightjoy1919]

Thank you!! This was AWESOME!!! VERY HELPFUL!!!

[@clemmy16]

Thank you for those wise words. God bless you and your family.

[@SealztheMan]

That means everything and God bless you and your loved ones 👑

[@mtdelmar1982]

NICE!!!! Thank you I have learned allot and will benefit from this

[@user-gg5to8by7p]

People who don't have money and job must face the argument everyday.

[@Aaishakapoor]

Why arguments occur? Usually one person knows they are wrong but argues out of ego Neither person knows right answer or think thry are the one right People want to disturb your peace STOP ARGUING! WHY? Giving more power to other person by replying with an argument - JUST IGNORE, THEY DONT DESERVE YOU Aggression>Yelling> Both people LOOK FOOL to onlookers Insignificant Arguments JUST AREN'T WORTH IT> Dont LOOSE youre PEACE AND HAPPINESS MASTER SELF COMPOSURE & DISCIPLINE> YOU DONT WANNA KNOWN AS A PERSON WHO ALWAYS ARGUES> YOU'LL GET AVOIDED ALL THE TIME> LONELY LIFE JUST IGNORE, NOT EVERYONE DESERVES YOUR POINTS JUST SAY "You're right" Arguments only ruin relationships,doesnt improve them

[@LindaLinda-kl2hz]

I needed this Sealz💯🤦🏾‍♀️🙏🏾

[@RonaldOwens-cv8gt]

Because if you keep arguing just walk away don't even say anything to them cuz it's not worth it

[@alimam1608]

Timely and helpful, thank you.

[@SealztheMan]

My complete honor!

[@arenaman4466]

I knew someone like this he would fight u unless u agreed with him

[@sheridansanchez9558]

I’ve seen teen titans and they’ve argue about something till someone stops them

[@fudgeguerl]

I been watching this man's videos for over a week. This video made me subscribe. I wonder why lol thanks Sealz

[@cr8cat794]

Well spoken.

[@ruthannekiguta503]

My ex always got on my nerves and I would find myself shouting like him.. when I realized am not that, I kept quiet and we had nothing to talk about, hence going our way..

[@ElderMaxon147]

I love arguing and idk why people say it’s bad it gets your brain thinking and I mean more debating then arguing but I think they could be roped into the same category

[@alexandramubanga7818]

Maybe just try a conversation next time. And if it’s a debate you want, make sure the other person is on the same wave.

[@lisaosatv5941]

Stay safe and stay blessed brother. Thank you so much for sharing!

[@gkling33]

Wise man. Thank you

[@missgenxjane8133]

Thanks for sharing💯

[@mr.nobody194]

Absolutely

[@prettypeanut1203]

You got a good experience about what's going on overcome around in Jesus name amen you are nothing good Minister man let everybody know what really going on God is always on your side in Jesus name amen

[@chiomaceciliaamadi8252]

Love your swag

[@motherswhoempowerothermoth3272]

Tell them. Very draining. I now stop it in their tracks. I always say let no yell or will not listen. I will either hang or walk away. 😂 let's be adults 😅✌🏾

[@rrff1643]

Thank you.

[@melofelo4484]

How long did it take to break the habit? Was it a constant thing you had to remind yourself, or did you just…stop? I constantly catch myself falling into traps still and it’s exhausting trying to stop myself from letting the instigators get to me.

[@mariavelazquez8775]

Nicely and well said 👍

[@dougroblez1240]

This video was great

[@missanamarie]

I love to argue because I feel it brings me closer to someone. I feel like we are exchanging ideas. But in reality, a lot of people see it as a threat.

[@eddiek2x_]

This is why you can’t date black women bro she just admitted she LOVES to argue can’t make this shit up

[@user-uq2in7ez5g]

it was incredibly inpiring

[@Yurrpitsicy]

I came to this video because I argued with my mom because I wasn’t comprehending with my mom what she was saying I have been doing this recently and I am 20

[@dorothywillams3814]

Thx so much for this word.

[@Blazeofdawn]

This helped

[@Joe-xj2tb]

I stopped an argument with a person and they took that as a way to start another one! why

[@Kevgslo84]

My woman lives in the past; any argument she’s reaches back 20 yrs about something

[@seedy-TV]

He fact I'm here definitely means I have a problem 🤣🤔

[@princessjohnson6031]

Perfectly said

[@ceyciemateo9411]

“Talking it out” IS arguing to men

[@prettypeanut1203]

Good blessing afternoon to you and family

[@Cymricus]

drinking means susceptibility to argue with me. i have to not drink to stop arguing

[@marvaelson8956]

Thank you so much.

[@sammiekaysongs]

thank you!!

[@big_t_dynasty]

Sounds good, but how does that work when it's your spouse? What it your wife is constantly trying to bait you into a fight?

[@Kelly-sl6vz]

I’ve had a friend deliberately try to trigger me. I was giving her directions, and told her to turn right at a certain light, and she kept saying, but I don’t want to turn left, and I would say, no, go down this road, a certain distance and turn right, and she would say, but I don’t want to turn left. She did it three times in a row!! It was infuriating, but I didn’t say anything to her and a little while later she asked me, Are you OK? You’re so quiet, did I bother you, she knew full well what she was doing. It’s hurtful, because you think you have a really good friend and then you find somebody who turns out to be a troublemaker. I never know which version of her I’m gonna get.

[@grant21999]

The more skill and knowledge you have the less you will find the need to argue with anyone