Stop Chasing Someone Who Doesn’t Want You | Kristen Brown

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Kristen Brown - Spiritual Empowerment Coach

Kristen Brown - Spiritual Empowerment Coach

3 жыл бұрын

Are you stuck in an unrequited love cycle? Do you feel like you’re wasting your time chasing someone who won’t give you the same level of commitment? It’s time to take a step back and recognize the signs that it’s time to move on.
It’s easy to get caught up in the expectations of a relationship, but when it’s not reciprocated, it’s time to stop chasing and start loving yourself. Don’t waste any more of your time on someone who won’t give you the same level of commitment.
It’s time to take a step back and recognize the signs that it’s time to move on. Love yourself and know that your time is worth more than chasing someone who won’t give you the same level of commitment.
If you’re ready to take the next step and move on from unreciprocated love, watch this video now. We’ll show you how to recognize the signs and take control of your life.
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@juniperberry6391
@juniperberry6391 2 жыл бұрын
i think about a certain person every day...it hurts me to the core...and i know they dont care about me...i just cant get over it...but this video has helped thank you x
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when we’re having trouble letting go, there’s a deep seated belief attached. Go inside and look around to see if you’ve got a belief keeping you tethered to the past. For example, I was stuck terribly on someone. I discovered he “represented” security for me. As long as I saw him as my source of security, I stayed tethered. Ironically, he wasn’t secure at all! My mind had just told me he was. I looked at how secure I already was and the tether broke loose. Sending you love. ~KB
@user-hf6cd7bc7t
@user-hf6cd7bc7t 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@cynthiakwawu9388
@cynthiakwawu9388 2 жыл бұрын
@@KristenBrown am so in love with someone that doesn't want me And it hurts so much Thanks for this video
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
@@cynthiakwawu9388 I feel ya. I've been there myself. I hope this email gave you some hope that your ideal partner is looking for you too. :)
@maggiebannister4317
@maggiebannister4317 Жыл бұрын
It fucking sux when I did everything gor him and still treated like shit and not good enough to be with me in relationship
@ekowmotivation
@ekowmotivation 2 жыл бұрын
I messaged a girl who broke up with me sometime ago and to be frank, she replied me like I wasn't worthy as a human. Listen, you can't chase people who no longer want you. Just because someone rejects you doesn't mean you're not good enough. Walk away like you don't care and find your purpose in life. Thank you.💙
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
Well said. Amen ♥️🙏🏽
@CindyWarren2004
@CindyWarren2004 Жыл бұрын
They treat me less than humanely too 😢
@zerihunchekol3860
@zerihunchekol3860 2 жыл бұрын
Tired of being taken for granted and disrespected 😌😌😌😌
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
I understand completely. The key is to treat ourselves with so much respect and love, others have no choice but to follow suit. 💗🙏🏽
@soulaanschild
@soulaanschild 4 ай бұрын
guys it’s true! i’m young, attractive with plenty of options yet ive been consistently chasing my ex that broke up with me 5 months ago and he doesn’t even acknowledge my existence and any attempt to get his attention is simply ignored. i know that i am smart and i know that this has been totally embarrassing on my end but i couldn’t stop because i discovered that intellectual intelligence doesn’t equal emotional intelligence. i can sit and analyze all day how bad it is to constantly chase what is rejecting you, but if the foundations within myself aren’t rock solid (i.e true self love) then i’ll find myself continually looking for it outside of myself. i’m in the stage now where ive realized i didn’t love myself like i thought i did and now putting in the work to give myself the love i deserve. some days are harder than others but i know that it must be done in order to move forward, be more secure in myself and attract even better partnerships in the future
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 4 ай бұрын
Wow! So beautiful said! Thank you for sharing. Sending you much love on your healing journey 🙏🏽💪🏽💕
@lk11119
@lk11119 2 ай бұрын
Literally my situation. Thank you for sharing ❤️
@BarbaraMonroe-ig1kz
@BarbaraMonroe-ig1kz 27 күн бұрын
Never ever chase....always attract✌️
@Alex-hp2hy
@Alex-hp2hy Ай бұрын
That rejection, is my protection. ❤️🤩
@johnr6143
@johnr6143 11 ай бұрын
Redirect your energy on better things, then wasting it on people who wont and dont reciprocate! Dont waste time on people who wont waste time on you!
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 11 ай бұрын
Amen to that.
@theguynextdoor4978
@theguynextdoor4978 6 ай бұрын
That person is deliberately choosing to not welcome us into their life, therefore he/she simply cannot be our source of love. The previous girl just Ghosted me, and never returned. She showed a lot of interest, but the moment I started suggesting meeting up she just vanished like I was dead to her.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 6 ай бұрын
Ghosting is so immature and rude. That’s on her and no reflection of your value 🫶🏽
@elizabethbenatar4574
@elizabethbenatar4574 2 ай бұрын
This made me cry. I hurt so badly.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 ай бұрын
I understand. Sending you love 🙏🏽♥️
@BlackMetalRed1988
@BlackMetalRed1988 Ай бұрын
Me too 😭
@anthonydrew9925
@anthonydrew9925 11 ай бұрын
This video spoke to me word-for-word. I'm so scared of losing someone who wouldn't even hear my feelings out. All my life has been a chase. And I'm done of that. I owe myself better even if losing someone who meant everything and anything is gone. It hurts like hell. But I'm trying.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 11 ай бұрын
As much as it hurts, I can feel your conviction to yourself. Well done. You’re not trying, you’re doing. It takes a minute to heal/release etc but you’ll get there. Sending you so much love
@user-rx7jj6qz1m
@user-rx7jj6qz1m 14 сағат бұрын
I found you today and appreciate this advice. It was just this morning when I realized once again the person that I care about did not text or call me again this week...of course he will eventually contact me as I have been a total giver ...but this morning, I realized that I had to know my worth and that I should just 'smile and walk away'. This just enforced it for me. Thank you.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 12 сағат бұрын
Onward and upward! You deserve to be loved and cared for fully ❤
@annnee6818
@annnee6818 3 ай бұрын
I'm not chasing, I let them go without an argument, but I still want them...😢
@sandra-jd7ec
@sandra-jd7ec 2 жыл бұрын
I re-watch this video everyday as a daily reminder that I don't deserve the scraps, I deserve to receive the same love that I give. Thank you so much for this video, it's really really helpful for me, it's like it was made for me ❤❤❤
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
Way to retrain your mind! 👏🏽👏🏽 Great job! And you’re very welcome. 💗
@minishaaa__
@minishaaa__ Жыл бұрын
Same rewatch this video 🥹🥹🥹🫶🏻❤️❤️
@davidparker7108
@davidparker7108 4 ай бұрын
How do i start loving myself? I gave myself to someone who took me for granted, so many times. And then in one argument, its all over. I told her if i leave ill never be coming back. She said fine. 😢 I feel so unloved and lost. I did everything, everything to help her, support her through hard times. She is grateful, but not grateful enough to get me back
@tonyperek7292
@tonyperek7292 7 күн бұрын
As a blind person it is very hard to find people who will befriend you. It is very discouraging.
@eurekagreen3399
@eurekagreen3399 2 жыл бұрын
I never heard of you but as I sat on my patio praying for God to help me release someone that doesn’t feel the same way that I do & this video showed up. I am thankful and glad that I now found your channel. Blessings to you & your efforts.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
I love this! God’s got your back 🤗
@dextersamm5759
@dextersamm5759 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@lanacarter2715
@lanacarter2715 4 ай бұрын
I have been with this guy for four years now and he lead me on making me believe we would have something special. I’ve held him down when no one else was there for him and now that he’s getting his self back on track he is giving all of his energy to this new girl. I feel betrayed because I’ve been there for him emotionally and in all aspects. I try to move past the hurt and anger but it’s a challenge. This video was truly helpful and I realize I need to love myself more and move on
@bronwyncoffin4737
@bronwyncoffin4737 Жыл бұрын
I've been chasing my bestie/for buddy for far to long now. 5 years. He doesn't want me for a relationship and I don't know why I keep forgetting that. I felt like you were speaking to me. Thank you. I needed you to speak to me.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you found inspiration in my words, sweet girl. ♥
@janam85
@janam85 Жыл бұрын
Omg you literally described my whole situation and how I feel. I`m strongly attached to this guy to the point where I`m obsessed.. I think about him everyday and even dream about him every night. I keep chasing him even though I know nothing will change. Thank you for this video I really needed it 🙏❤
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
I understand completely! I had one of those too. You are most welcome and I hope you found some peace. ♥️🫶🏽
@jamsor4006
@jamsor4006 11 ай бұрын
I watched this video, I started crying heavily because this is what i feel and what I did and think is exactly what you are saying. I'm glad that i found this thank you very much.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 11 ай бұрын
You so very welcome 💓🙏🏽
@lorinoble9741
@lorinoble9741 3 жыл бұрын
I've been there - so glad I loved me more than they did. Time to move on! Love you Kristen!
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you loved you more too! XO
@fredrikasimpson3136
@fredrikasimpson3136 11 ай бұрын
Who chasing who I don't have time to chase unworthy people in my life move on I did
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 11 ай бұрын
Love that for you :)
@LauraGonzalez-jd4ij
@LauraGonzalez-jd4ij 2 ай бұрын
Loved this. I know I hate me and why I am where I am. Begging for scraps. I hope to find a way to love me so the pain will end. Thank I for the encouragement ❤
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 ай бұрын
Hi Laura, I understand this position fully. You might be interested in the program I am in the process of creating. You can check it out here: www.kristenbrown.org/healingcircle
@marseeea1
@marseeea1 Жыл бұрын
I’ve wasted so much time trying to to be everything he wanted for him to only ever limit his love which has left me feeling worthless. It’s time to truly love myself enough to let him go. This video gives me strength and reiterates what I’ve always known in my heart but ignored. Time to love myself❤️ Thank-you for this video.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
I’m so pleased it helped. You’re worth so much! I invite you to check out my book where I go in depth about self-love recovery. go.ht/book
@ninavvillianns456
@ninavvillianns456 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this. I’ve been in love with someone for as long as I can remember and it’s gotten to the point where I begged to be with him or chasing him all the god damn time. It’s like this video was made for me. Thank you thank you so much.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
You’re most welcome. 🤗
@amersienad2019
@amersienad2019 2 жыл бұрын
I am suffering with unrequited love so I deserve to watch and listen to this video.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
I know how hard that is. I hope this video helped even if just a little. 🙏🏽
@madisonmarie18
@madisonmarie18 Жыл бұрын
i’m trying. 😭 i really am, it’s just so hard because seeing him with someone when it was always supposed to be him and i. it hurts, i’m so so jealous it’s crazy. i don’t know why i put so much of my energy into him and wanting him. he’s all i want though. it’s not fair.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
You’ll get there! There’s someone even better for you!
@HS-df7ld
@HS-df7ld 4 ай бұрын
Update
@rootlesswanderer1271
@rootlesswanderer1271 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I have been chasing someone as well and end up being treated like a trash and hurting myself. Thank you for the advice.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
@Rakib Ahmed You’re worth far more than being treated like trash. Your ideal partner is out there looking for you too. You’ll find each other. Peace to you, KB
@rootlesswanderer1271
@rootlesswanderer1271 2 жыл бұрын
@@KristenBrown Thank you so much Kristen❤❤❤
@dextersamm5759
@dextersamm5759 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@fightingwarrior5893
@fightingwarrior5893 2 жыл бұрын
Telling it exactly how it is needed to hear this thanks a bunch! Better to be alone than with people who don’t value you.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
@Fighting Warrior I’m pleased you found some peace in this video. PS I love your handle 👍🏽😊
@fightingwarrior5893
@fightingwarrior5893 2 жыл бұрын
@@KristenBrown Thanks for the good advice☺️
@Goopunchlive
@Goopunchlive Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. I’m 37 male and never had a girlfriend. Mostly because I lost faith in finding intimacy from women since I had a mom that due to her past never could hug or be affectionate at all. I attracted the few women I did become friends with that would only see me as a funny guy or someone to hang with when no other options were there. I wish I could break the cycle and meet someone that enjoy and values my attention
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
You can break this cycle! It’s all about healing the programming and limiting beliefs that are holding you back.
@narcisoanasui246
@narcisoanasui246 Жыл бұрын
Godspeed, blud ❤
@paulmcwilliams1709
@paulmcwilliams1709 3 ай бұрын
Thank you Kristen Brown! You opened my eyes to the fact that I'm worth more than "THAT" person was willing to give me! So now it's time to say Goodbye to the one that I was trying to please constantly!!!
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 3 ай бұрын
You are definitely worth more than scraps. Onward and upward, Paul!
@paulmcwilliams1709
@paulmcwilliams1709 3 ай бұрын
@@KristenBrown Thank you very much! ❤
@Asaya_as
@Asaya_as 3 ай бұрын
I have a friend that I know for over three years now, and last year I discovered that I had a crush on him, and It was all going okay last year because even if I knew I had a crush on him I was still denying it. But this year, I started to notice his distant and kind of uncomfortable behavior, for example, last year we used to sit together in class and not because that our destined seat just because we wanted to, but this year if I try to sit next to him, he will literally jump and just walk away, he will sometimes make excuses, but he seems genuinely uncomfortable, so I just didn't even try to sit next to him anymore and respected his "boundaries" and I thought maybe because his new friend group will tease him if they see him sitting next to me, but then noticed that he has no problem sitting next to other girls willingly, and also our cgats used to be hours long but now everytime I try to talk to him he either doesn't reply or he tels me he's going out or is going to eat or something so he can't talk but he stays online, I also started to get jealous when he would get close to other girls, and I tried to give him hints but he just ignores them, I try to excuse him saying that he probably think I'm joking since I am kind of a flirt ngl, but recently he said he has a crush on my best friend, so I decided to just try to stop liking him but I found it hard since he's such a green flag and he has everything I am searching for and he's also a great friend and I just can't seem to distance myself from him, but honestly I believe I can control my emotions and bury my feelings for him deep inside my heart and forget about them because this all has been hurting me, and I prioritize myself over anyone else so I will try to forget about him for the next last year or so that I still have to be in the same school as him and focus on my studies instead (damn that's long)
@godtorrez
@godtorrez Жыл бұрын
I feel this…… I can’t stop thinking about somebody who made all these promises and hopes to me to just leave me for her ex else SO FAST😿😿 she left to be all happy and stuff and left me miserable and alone and empty.
@dekbueller7146
@dekbueller7146 Жыл бұрын
I needed this today. You have no idea how your words act as a medicine. How it dig me up from under what is covering, the amazing part of me. Love you Kristen!
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
You deserve the best, Dek! 🫶🏽
@jesse7747
@jesse7747 2 жыл бұрын
It sucks when you want someone really bad but you can't be with them. Sometimes time doesn't heal these wombs..
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t believe time heals wounds; I believe people choose to heal their own wounds. ♥️
@SnYu-y5r
@SnYu-y5r 17 күн бұрын
Not chasing anything...blocking out im alone happily 😅 theres no person
@dotty1220
@dotty1220 Жыл бұрын
This spoke to me deeply. I've absolutely destroyed myself for my love for my boyfriend. I've destroyed myself in every way. Everything you said spoke to me. Thank you again.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad this helped you. You’re worth so much more! 🤗
@williamikewun7874
@williamikewun7874 2 жыл бұрын
Its so hurting that you gave everything and in return you got negative vibes. Obsession is not so good... Thanks for this..
@steveboling1518
@steveboling1518 2 жыл бұрын
this video is heaven sent, loving yourself first will attract love
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@andy27310
@andy27310 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this so bad, I’m going through a tough time where I want someone who’s moved on from me and I just can’t get over it :/
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
I understand more than you can imagine. I’m glad this video helped you. Remember who you are and what you deserve! ♥️
@Jessicaisfreee
@Jessicaisfreee Жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much 💕🙏🏼 I reopened the door for him it’s up to him to walk through but I am not chasing him. Nope!!!
@Lifestyle0738
@Lifestyle0738 11 ай бұрын
Hello, i m from india This video really touches my soul I m stuck with my past memories with him He was not my boy friend or friend , it was like something else, today i met him , he told me he had never given me any hope or commitment, it was my call to staying with him , if i want to be with him i can and if i want to go i can , and it’s totally break my heart i gave alot of efforts to hold him in my life even though he was not even treated me right, he said his life is very busy he has no time for love or marriage, But the real truth is when you have given alot of efforts and force someone to be with you , begging them for care , love , time in this all journey you lost your self And i have to learn the lesson that don’t force things if its meant to be it will be yours if its not it will never be yours Right now its very hard to accept the fact My mind knows everything but my heart always say stay more I m really in pain I hope i will be finding my ways , Thank you so much for the video ❤️
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 11 ай бұрын
Sending you so much love on your journey. 🫶🏽💓
@Lifestyle0738
@Lifestyle0738 11 ай бұрын
@@KristenBrown means alot ❤️
@joesef7718
@joesef7718 Жыл бұрын
I really and truly needed to here this. I'm actually a very special individual without even trying. I've always given more than I've received
@powrbruh8
@powrbruh8 10 ай бұрын
I am obsessed with a narcissist. He lies, cheats, and uses people for his pleasures. I knew this before I fell for him. I never met anyone like him before. Not well liked by many due to his behaviors. But I let myself fall because of my low self-esteem and self-respect. I decided yesterday to LET HIM GO!!! It's been 8 years of chasing him, believing his lies and being emotionally abused. I'm hurting because I am in love. I don't want to let him go; but I need to. I've turned to drugs as a way to cope because I beat myself up because I can't let go. He's no good at all. I'm going to take this time to work on myself and build myself up physically and mentally. I have to see him at work one day a week. I'll keep it professional and keep moving. I am sick and tired of being sick and tired and i WANT OUT!!!
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 10 ай бұрын
Yes! You deserve to be loved and respected as equally as you love and respect others. Sending you much love on this healing journey. PS I recommend you checking out my playlists for more in depth healing. 🙏🏽♥️
@amandab4421
@amandab4421 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your message. I’m at this place right now. 😔 I’m so ashamed to admit that!
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
No shame, Amanda. We’re doing the very best we can in each moment. Take a deep breath and remember, your ideal person is looking for you too. 💓
@septube26
@septube26 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Thank you 🎉🎉🎉
@BlackMetalRed1988
@BlackMetalRed1988 Ай бұрын
I’ve always felt that I was not good enough and felt that there was something wrong with me, I was looking for love with different women but ended getting hurt 😭
@speedyb5434
@speedyb5434 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your encouragement. Well said.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
@Speedy B you’re welcome 💗
@Sadhudeviji
@Sadhudeviji Жыл бұрын
Love you Kristen. Thank you again. Sending healing rays to you who are reading this, remember who you are🙏🏻
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Love this, thank you!
@PurpleAmiga
@PurpleAmiga Жыл бұрын
The hard part was I care about him. I felt so comfortable with him. I never felt that with anyone else.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Just know this, he was a set up for “even better!” to come. 🫶🏽
@LeonB1
@LeonB1 2 жыл бұрын
Holy f, I am so happy that I came across this. You don’t know how much of a impact you are making. I’m only 16 and having a rough time. Thank you for keeping my head up! Keep going!
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
@Ankie j I’m so happy this helped you! And I especially love that you’re 16 and looking for answers! Im so proud of you! 👏🏽👏🏽♥️
@cynthiakwawu9388
@cynthiakwawu9388 2 жыл бұрын
@@KristenBrown thank you so much All my life I have been forcing people to love me Even my mother only gives me a little attention when I have money for her So thank you for this words
@tyneekatrapp4314
@tyneekatrapp4314 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely needed to be hear this. Thanks 👍
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome 💗
@liztowers2058
@liztowers2058 6 ай бұрын
i fell in love with a FWB who told me from day 1 he wasnt emotionally available. i didnt listen, i let go 3 weeks ago because i fell in love and he couldnt. calls his heart DUST from trauma and bs in his life. now im left to hurt. but i do deserve more than a fling !
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 5 ай бұрын
You did the best thing you could do for yourself. Yes! You do deserve more than a fling! PS what is an FWB? Lol
@liztowers2058
@liztowers2058 5 ай бұрын
friends with benefits, only sleep with eachother but be buddies too@@KristenBrown
@Jessicaisfreee
@Jessicaisfreee Жыл бұрын
New mantra: I don’t care, I am whole and complete within myself.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Yes you are! A partner is a bonus to your already amazing life!
@NoorAjit
@NoorAjit Жыл бұрын
I so desperately needed to hear you! Thank you so much. I am going through the same situation in life.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Sending love to light your way. 🙏🏽🌟
@tia2484
@tia2484 2 жыл бұрын
SO GOOD. I truly needed this. Thank you
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome 🌸
@david22591
@david22591 10 ай бұрын
I know this was recorded 2 years ago but it came up in my feed today and it is so timely.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad it helped. 🫶🏽🙏🏽
@mr.anonymous.2749
@mr.anonymous.2749 2 жыл бұрын
Love this thank you. I really needed to hear this. ✨ ❤️✨
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome. 💟
@kat7731
@kat7731 Жыл бұрын
I'm crying rn. This is so relatable.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
🤗♥️🤗
@mahtabvarche6402
@mahtabvarche6402 2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this desperately...been chasing a friend who never called me....time to move on and start to LOVE myself...thankyou sOOOOO much God bless you🙏❤❤❤🌹
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy it was helpful ♥️♥️♥️
@janetsmith2870
@janetsmith2870 2 жыл бұрын
Seems like a sweet good lady offering her help. We that need this listen to her. I think she’s been there. It is hard believe me.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Janet! I have been there and I’m out the other side! That’s why I teach what I do 🌸
@Badlalyn
@Badlalyn 2 жыл бұрын
Much needed. Thank you
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome ♥️🙏🏽
@littleiodine9480
@littleiodine9480 Жыл бұрын
Needed this AGAIN today! Thank you for being there for me again and again Kristen.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
The message/video that keeps on giving. I love it. 👏🏽👏🏽
@socialmedied5114
@socialmedied5114 Жыл бұрын
I don't feel sorry for people who chase love. They're too clueless to know when someone doesn't return your love, it's Mother Nature's way of saying that person is not a match.
@pinkbuttercup2023
@pinkbuttercup2023 Жыл бұрын
That’s not nice to say !
@LAVixen-nt1rr
@LAVixen-nt1rr 2 жыл бұрын
I am a Taurus and stubborn lol 😆 you are accurately correct!! It all resonates
@ieshaweaver4013
@ieshaweaver4013 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kristen! I really needed this. Every single word!!!!!!!!!! ❤
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad it helped you. Remember, you deserve to be wanted, loved and respected! 💖
@rainbow9987
@rainbow9987 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video.
@clairejoseph9398
@clairejoseph9398 2 жыл бұрын
yes great video, thank you! yes its the feling of not being good enough.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
I’m happy it helped 💗
@SAB-ex7de
@SAB-ex7de 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you love for the message. For two years I took care of a lady who had a bad life but at the end she stopped valuing me and my love n care for her. She had more time for others than for me at all. I sacrificed my own feelings so that she can be okay. But at the end I am being left all alone. I am fighting everyday to get rid of her memories. I think I should stop doing it.
@CBT5777
@CBT5777 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes people need a little extra. Persistence can sometimes pay off. This is in regard to convincing a woman who may be an introvert or emotionally reserved. But yes, there is a limit. I agree with you.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Yes, sometimes that may be the case. 😊
@bankye.4291
@bankye.4291 Жыл бұрын
I am currently going through this and this is the most painful thing I’ve ever gone through. We had been seeing each other for 6 months. Last week, I asked him for where things were going between us, he got mad and the communication stopped all of a sudden. I’ve been reaching out to him since and he responds but he hasn’t made the effort to reach out to me. I have asked him this question before and it never led to him going silent on me like this. I’ve been trying to let him go but my heart won’t let me. I don’t know what to do anymore.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
In the big picture, men typically find that question off-putting because they interpret it differently than we mean it. The best thing to do is go no contact until he reaches out to you. Then you allow HIM to pursue you. I hope this helps.
@pablomorales8756
@pablomorales8756 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video
@kimberleylauren9411
@kimberleylauren9411 Жыл бұрын
I come back to this video time and time again, struggling to let go of someone I love who clearly doesn't want me anymore. Sometimes it gets too much, this video comforts and helps me to ground myself again. Thank you x
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽 I’m glad it helps ♥️♥️
@lorityndall5783
@lorityndall5783 2 жыл бұрын
Kristen, thank you sooooooo much. You just described my current situation. I really needed to hear this! Much love to you!
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
Aw I’m so glad it resonated with you. Much love back to you!
@nonoholobelo1638
@nonoholobelo1638 Жыл бұрын
Wow, am so touched, as I have been chasing people all my life. I am done. Thank you
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Wow… that’s truly amazing. Sending you so much love.
@noserialkiller3596
@noserialkiller3596 Жыл бұрын
Some very good insights here, thank you! No Serial Killer.
@lakeishaboone4361
@lakeishaboone4361 Жыл бұрын
I needed this message...
@fruitypopwhickle6806
@fruitypopwhickle6806 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. Some simple, solid and sobering truths. 🧡🙏🏾
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome. ♥️
@davo5809
@davo5809 2 жыл бұрын
well said Kristen thank you I needed this I made some bad mistakes in my relationship however I am having a good look at my self and making the changes if she wants me then fine but I AM NOT CHASING ANYMORE !!
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you, David! 👏🏽👏🏽 You’re worth more than that. 😊
@bmx687
@bmx687 2 жыл бұрын
You are such a guiding light of clarity. I left a friend's neighborhood today. Upon departure I saw a woman that I was heavily interested in from my past walking her dog. Shes a low income earner.. I immediately started devising a plan: "I should grab my Italian exotic car and park on her walking route. She'll see me and realize that she passed up an amazing thing. Afterall, I have a doctoral degree, earn over six figuresa year, and I'm in shape!" How crazy a thought is that!? Thank you for pulling me from that ego driven insanity ❤
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
@bmx687 You pulled yourself from it! Good for you!! 👏🏽👏🏽
@gagrlntxworld6641
@gagrlntxworld6641 Жыл бұрын
thank you for posting this video Kristen
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you found it helpful 🙏🏽🤗
@chrischris9718
@chrischris9718 Жыл бұрын
Thank you - really needed this today
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome. Remember who you are and what you deserve. 🫶🏽
@karrax2473
@karrax2473 Жыл бұрын
Just started watching this, im already crying. Going threw so much with my kids father. I love him so much. He doesnt love me. I feel so worthless. 😢
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Please remember: He does not determine your worth. 🙏🏽♥️
@explorewithahsann
@explorewithahsann 10 ай бұрын
wonderful advice
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 10 ай бұрын
🙏🏽💓
@ceciliaGraceFig
@ceciliaGraceFig Жыл бұрын
Beautiful message. ❤❤❤
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@baderalmudahki8633
@baderalmudahki8633 Жыл бұрын
I love what you said, it really changed my perception when it comes to chasing someone
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Awesome! 👍🏽👍🏽
@wisemanoncesaid9498
@wisemanoncesaid9498 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. My world feels so upside down since she's left. So heartbroken 💔
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
You’re worth the most beautiful, reciprocal love. Remember that. 💗
@myfinancechannel2432
@myfinancechannel2432 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, needed this 🙏
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
💗💗💗
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
I’m happy it helped 🤗
@KoalaJoanne
@KoalaJoanne 2 жыл бұрын
Your words are from your heart. Thank you for sharing
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you! I appreciate that 💓
@fabricefonkwa8122
@fabricefonkwa8122 Жыл бұрын
I want to learn to love myself more than anything in life, but God first 🥇
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
God relationship #1.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
I recommend reading my new book! The entire book is about healing your inner world to love yourself unconditionally. If you're interested, you can find it here: go.ht/book
@LightYagamii2315
@LightYagamii2315 11 ай бұрын
I was rejected by a girl I really liked again tonight. thank you miss 😞
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 11 ай бұрын
You will find your girl. 🫶🏽
@kimberleyann51
@kimberleyann51 Жыл бұрын
I listened to this 3 times!! Need more of these videos because I don't love myself
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
I totally understand. Have you Subscribed? I have many vids on self-love. 💗
@kimberleyann51
@kimberleyann51 Жыл бұрын
@@KristenBrown I'm subscribed now and listening ☺️
@marylinelai8073
@marylinelai8073 Жыл бұрын
Love yourself !
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Yes! 💓
@ef9264
@ef9264 6 ай бұрын
I know this video is not new and you probably wont ever see my comment but I just had to write these down because you spoke so deep within me. I have this crippling feeling for 3 months now over someone who only made me feel worthy a few times which became an obsession for me to chase after him. I know it's unhealthy, I know it is the trigger that makes me cry most nights, I know something is broken within me, I know and heard things directly from him that made me think I would never put myself in a relationship with him yet I still daydream about being with him. romantically and sexually. I cant stop my thoughts nor handle my emotions because this is not a choice this is desperation. I am desperate and because of that I am worthless... I do not know when or how or if I want my mind to be rid of being with him. I already settled for scraps before even though it hurt me but I at least felt a little loved. even if it was so little I still had it and it made me go on with my daily life and I was appreciative of that small "love". still I thank you for your video as a word of assurance I have been watching it for 3 days now. I don't believe in god or a higher power at this moment but seems like you do, and if your prayers get answers, would you pray for me if you have the time? thank you. I wish you all the best
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 6 ай бұрын
Hi ef, I delayed from responding to this message because I would like to address it in a video. Do I have your permission to read your message in the video? Please leave me a comment saying yes if that is OK with you.
@vikramadoddamani
@vikramadoddamani Жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel my own mother doesn’t feel that I’m special 😂 😢 I was infatuated once with this girl (maybe still am a bit) 😦 I’m slowly changing my ways, but is very hard. Thank you for the positive message ❤ I feel warmer in my heart 💜 Take care 💛
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
I’m glad it helped warm your heart. Much Love to you, Vikram! 🙏🏽❤️
@toddkelso1995
@toddkelso1995 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful message. Loved it. Thankyou
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 😊
@tjfSIM
@tjfSIM Жыл бұрын
Thanks Kristen. I really needed this video today. I hope 2023 brings you peace and happiness.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown Жыл бұрын
Thank you and I wish the same for you. ☮️🕊️
@leonard_d
@leonard_d 11 ай бұрын
This was a beautiful message!! Thank you
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 11 ай бұрын
🙏🏽🌟
@AshTea22
@AshTea22 2 жыл бұрын
I know this is an old video but I really needed to hear these things, being adopted and being treated like garbage from my adopted family to getting bullied through highschool my self worth has been 0 for so long.
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy it was helpful! ♥️ PS It may be old but I still get comments almost daily. I appreciate you reaching out. AND you’re worthy simply because you’re YOU. There’s no one like you! YOU are a gift to this world. 🤗
@srn_2268
@srn_2268 2 жыл бұрын
So glad I found your channel. Just what I needed to hear. 😊♥️
@KristenBrown
@KristenBrown 2 жыл бұрын
Yay!! I love when the message hits ♥️
@srn_2268
@srn_2268 Жыл бұрын
@Robnison lisa1 omg!! Thanks so much. You’re an answer to my prayers!!
@srn_2268
@srn_2268 Жыл бұрын
@Robnison lisa1 yes! He has set me up with doing his job now. I’m casting love spells left and right, healing marriages, and making sure people get that money baby!! 💰 I’m thankful you have led me to a new job.
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