Stop Chasing Someone Who Doesn’t Want You | Kristen Brown

[@juniperberry6391]

i think about a certain person every day...it hurts me to the core...and i know they dont care about me...i just cant get over it...but this video has helped thank you x

[@KristenBrown]

Sometimes when we’re having trouble letting go, there’s a deep seated belief attached. Go inside and look around to see if you’ve got a belief keeping you tethered to the past. For example, I was stuck terribly on someone. I discovered he “represented” security for me. As long as I saw him as my source of security, I stayed tethered. Ironically, he wasn’t secure at all! My mind had just told me he was. I looked at how secure I already was and the tether broke loose. Sending you love. ~KB

[@user-hf6cd7bc7t]

Same

[@cynthiakwawu9388]

@@KristenBrown am so in love with someone that doesn't want me And it hurts so much Thanks for this video

[@KristenBrown]

@@cynthiakwawu9388 I feel ya. I've been there myself. I hope this email gave you some hope that your ideal partner is looking for you too. :)

[@maggiebannister4317]

It fucking sux when I did everything gor him and still treated like shit and not good enough to be with me in relationship

[@soulaanschild]

guys it’s true! i’m young, attractive with plenty of options yet ive been consistently chasing my ex that broke up with me 5 months ago and he doesn’t even acknowledge my existence and any attempt to get his attention is simply ignored. i know that i am smart and i know that this has been totally embarrassing on my end but i couldn’t stop because i discovered that intellectual intelligence doesn’t equal emotional intelligence. i can sit and analyze all day how bad it is to constantly chase what is rejecting you, but if the foundations within myself aren’t rock solid (i.e true self love) then i’ll find myself continually looking for it outside of myself. i’m in the stage now where ive realized i didn’t love myself like i thought i did and now putting in the work to give myself the love i deserve. some days are harder than others but i know that it must be done in order to move forward, be more secure in myself and attract even better partnerships in the future

[@KristenBrown]

Wow! So beautiful said! Thank you for sharing. Sending you much love on your healing journey 🙏🏽💪🏽💕

[@lk11119]

Literally my situation. Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@ekowmotivation]

I messaged a girl who broke up with me sometime ago and to be frank, she replied me like I wasn't worthy as a human. Listen, you can't chase people who no longer want you. Just because someone rejects you doesn't mean you're not good enough. Walk away like you don't care and find your purpose in life. Thank you.💙

[@KristenBrown]

Well said. Amen ♥️🙏🏽

[@CindyWarren2004]

They treat me less than humanely too 😢

[@theguynextdoor4978]

That person is deliberately choosing to not welcome us into their life, therefore he/she simply cannot be our source of love. The previous girl just Ghosted me, and never returned. She showed a lot of interest, but the moment I started suggesting meeting up she just vanished like I was dead to her.

[@KristenBrown]

Ghosting is so immature and rude. That’s on her and no reflection of your value 🫶🏽

[@zerihunchekol3860]

Tired of being taken for granted and disrespected 😌😌😌😌

[@KristenBrown]

I understand completely. The key is to treat ourselves with so much respect and love, others have no choice but to follow suit. 💗🙏🏽

[@anthonydrew9925]

This video spoke to me word-for-word. I'm so scared of losing someone who wouldn't even hear my feelings out. All my life has been a chase. And I'm done of that. I owe myself better even if losing someone who meant everything and anything is gone. It hurts like hell. But I'm trying.

[@KristenBrown]

As much as it hurts, I can feel your conviction to yourself. Well done. You’re not trying, you’re doing. It takes a minute to heal/release etc but you’ll get there. Sending you so much love

[@fredrikasimpson3136]

Who chasing who I don't have time to chase unworthy people in my life move on I did

[@KristenBrown]

Love that for you :)

[@Alex-hp2hy]

That rejection, is my protection. ❤️🤩

[@Lifestyle0738]

Hello, i m from india This video really touches my soul I m stuck with my past memories with him He was not my boy friend or friend , it was like something else, today i met him , he told me he had never given me any hope or commitment, it was my call to staying with him , if i want to be with him i can and if i want to go i can , and it’s totally break my heart i gave alot of efforts to hold him in my life even though he was not even treated me right, he said his life is very busy he has no time for love or marriage, But the real truth is when you have given alot of efforts and force someone to be with you , begging them for care , love , time in this all journey you lost your self And i have to learn the lesson that don’t force things if its meant to be it will be yours if its not it will never be yours Right now its very hard to accept the fact My mind knows everything but my heart always say stay more I m really in pain I hope i will be finding my ways , Thank you so much for the video ❤️

[@KristenBrown]

Sending you so much love on your journey. 🫶🏽💓

[@Lifestyle0738]

@@KristenBrown means alot ❤️

[@lanacarter2715]

I have been with this guy for four years now and he lead me on making me believe we would have something special. I’ve held him down when no one else was there for him and now that he’s getting his self back on track he is giving all of his energy to this new girl. I feel betrayed because I’ve been there for him emotionally and in all aspects. I try to move past the hurt and anger but it’s a challenge. This video was truly helpful and I realize I need to love myself more and move on

[@BarbaraMonroe-ig1kz]

Never ever chase....always attract✌️

[@johnr6143]

Redirect your energy on better things, then wasting it on people who wont and dont reciprocate! Dont waste time on people who wont waste time on you!

[@KristenBrown]

Amen to that.

[@girlygirl402]

I’m pissed. I was doing fine by myself. Why did this person have to come into my life? and now I have to deal with heartbreak and start all over again. 😢

[@KristenBrown]

@@girlygirl402 I totally understand and there’s someone even better for you looking for you too 🫶🏽

[@elizabethbenatar4574]

This made me cry. I hurt so badly.

[@KristenBrown]

I understand. Sending you love 🙏🏽♥️

[@BlackMetalRed1988]

Me too 😭

[@madisonmarie18]

i’m trying. 😭 i really am, it’s just so hard because seeing him with someone when it was always supposed to be him and i. it hurts, i’m so so jealous it’s crazy. i don’t know why i put so much of my energy into him and wanting him. he’s all i want though. it’s not fair.

[@KristenBrown]

You’ll get there! There’s someone even better for you!

[@HS-df7ld]

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[@sandra-jd7ec]

I re-watch this video everyday as a daily reminder that I don't deserve the scraps, I deserve to receive the same love that I give. Thank you so much for this video, it's really really helpful for me, it's like it was made for me ❤❤❤

[@KristenBrown]

Way to retrain your mind! 👏🏽👏🏽 Great job! And you’re very welcome. 💗

[@minishaaa__]

Same rewatch this video 🥹🥹🥹🫶🏻❤️❤️

[@jamsor4006]

I watched this video, I started crying heavily because this is what i feel and what I did and think is exactly what you are saying. I'm glad that i found this thank you very much.

[@KristenBrown]

You so very welcome 💓🙏🏽

[@mosesperaza2763]

Just what I needed to hear. It is all about self-love. I don't need you to feel good about myself.

[@KristenBrown]

@@mosesperaza2763 YESSSS! 👏🏽👏🏽♥️♥️

[@Peg-x2g]

I found you today and appreciate this advice. It was just this morning when I realized once again the person that I care about did not text or call me again this week...of course he will eventually contact me as I have been a total giver ...but this morning, I realized that I had to know my worth and that I should just 'smile and walk away'. This just enforced it for me. Thank you.

[@KristenBrown]

Onward and upward! You deserve to be loved and cared for fully ❤

[@eurekagreen3399]

I never heard of you but as I sat on my patio praying for God to help me release someone that doesn’t feel the same way that I do & this video showed up. I am thankful and glad that I now found your channel. Blessings to you & your efforts.

[@KristenBrown]

I love this! God’s got your back 🤗

[@dextersamm5759]

Same

[@godtorrez]

I feel this…… I can’t stop thinking about somebody who made all these promises and hopes to me to just leave me for her ex else SO FAST😿😿 she left to be all happy and stuff and left me miserable and alone and empty.

[@davidparker7108]

How do i start loving myself? I gave myself to someone who took me for granted, so many times. And then in one argument, its all over. I told her if i leave ill never be coming back. She said fine. 😢 I feel so unloved and lost. I did everything, everything to help her, support her through hard times. She is grateful, but not grateful enough to get me back

[@lorrainespurrell628]

You're so right! We have to love ourself first. In my case, I know God was warning me right from the beginning. There were red flags all over the place. He didn't share my values.

[@KristenBrown]

@@lorrainespurrell628 great awareness! 💗

[@annnee6818]

I'm not chasing, I let them go without an argument, but I still want them...😢

[@PurpleAmiga]

The hard part was I care about him. I felt so comfortable with him. I never felt that with anyone else.

[@KristenBrown]

Just know this, he was a set up for “even better!” to come. 🫶🏽

[@bronwyncoffin4737]

I've been chasing my bestie/for buddy for far to long now. 5 years. He doesn't want me for a relationship and I don't know why I keep forgetting that. I felt like you were speaking to me. Thank you. I needed you to speak to me.

[@KristenBrown]

I'm glad you found inspiration in my words, sweet girl. ♥

[@SHARONDAVIS-nh5et]

Thank you. today i'm moving on,xx

[@KristenBrown]

Good for you. You are worth more than scraps. 🤩

[@RedRose2355]

Omg...this is exactly what I needed to hear. Omg thank you

[@KristenBrown]

🙏🏽♥️

[@janam85]

Omg you literally described my whole situation and how I feel. I`m strongly attached to this guy to the point where I`m obsessed.. I think about him everyday and even dream about him every night. I keep chasing him even though I know nothing will change. Thank you for this video I really needed it 🙏❤

[@KristenBrown]

I understand completely! I had one of those too. You are most welcome and I hope you found some peace. ♥️🫶🏽

[@marseeea1]

I’ve wasted so much time trying to to be everything he wanted for him to only ever limit his love which has left me feeling worthless. It’s time to truly love myself enough to let him go. This video gives me strength and reiterates what I’ve always known in my heart but ignored. Time to love myself❤️ Thank-you for this video.

[@KristenBrown]

I’m so pleased it helped. You’re worth so much! I invite you to check out my book where I go in depth about self-love recovery. go.ht/book

[@ninavvillianns456]

I really needed this. I’ve been in love with someone for as long as I can remember and it’s gotten to the point where I begged to be with him or chasing him all the god damn time. It’s like this video was made for me. Thank you thank you so much.

[@KristenBrown]

You’re most welcome. 🤗

[@paulbrown2532]

Everything you say is soo true, I'm a 51 year old bachelor alone for a long time, looking for❤ all my life, recently had a painful romantic rejection, I fell in ❤ with her but she doesn't want me that's life I have suffered hurt and rejection over the years, I retreat into myself and let the rejection fester inside me, I need to ❤ myself and except myself which I have a hard time doing. Appreciate your video reaching out to help people going through tough times.

[@KristenBrown]

@@paulbrown2532 you are most welcome. I give live talks about loving oneself and reclaiming your personal power on the NoomVibe app Mon-Fri. Maybe consider downloading it and joining us! It’s a free app too 😊

[@paulbrown2532]

@@KristenBrown thank you

[@kevingeoffrey2905]

Ohhhh OMG thankyou so much, I am the man you're talking about desperately wanting to be love bloody hell she made me feel special then left me. Its so hard to get over her begging with tears so she can come back in my life

[@lorinoble9741]

I've been there - so glad I loved me more than they did. Time to move on! Love you Kristen!

[@KristenBrown]

I'm glad you loved you more too! XO

[@rootlesswanderer1271]

Thank you so much. I have been chasing someone as well and end up being treated like a trash and hurting myself. Thank you for the advice.

[@KristenBrown]

@Rakib Ahmed You’re worth far more than being treated like trash. Your ideal partner is out there looking for you too. You’ll find each other. Peace to you, KB

[@rootlesswanderer1271]

@@KristenBrown Thank you so much Kristen❤❤❤

[@dextersamm5759]

Same

[@BeLLe-su2zt]

Thank you LOTS ❤️

[@KristenBrown]

You're welcome lots 💖

[@fightingwarrior5893]

Telling it exactly how it is needed to hear this thanks a bunch! Better to be alone than with people who don’t value you.

[@KristenBrown]

@Fighting Warrior I’m pleased you found some peace in this video. PS I love your handle 👍🏽😊

[@fightingwarrior5893]

@@KristenBrown Thanks for the good advice☺️

[@Goopunchlive]

I needed to hear this. I’m 37 male and never had a girlfriend. Mostly because I lost faith in finding intimacy from women since I had a mom that due to her past never could hug or be affectionate at all. I attracted the few women I did become friends with that would only see me as a funny guy or someone to hang with when no other options were there. I wish I could break the cycle and meet someone that enjoy and values my attention

[@KristenBrown]

You can break this cycle! It’s all about healing the programming and limiting beliefs that are holding you back.

[@narcisoanasui246]

Godspeed, blud ❤

[@amersienad2019]

I am suffering with unrequited love so I deserve to watch and listen to this video.

[@KristenBrown]

I know how hard that is. I hope this video helped even if just a little. 🙏🏽

[@LeonB1]

Holy f, I am so happy that I came across this. You don’t know how much of a impact you are making. I’m only 16 and having a rough time. Thank you for keeping my head up! Keep going!

[@KristenBrown]

@Ankie j I’m so happy this helped you! And I especially love that you’re 16 and looking for answers! Im so proud of you! 👏🏽👏🏽♥️

[@cynthiakwawu9388]

@@KristenBrown thank you so much All my life I have been forcing people to love me Even my mother only gives me a little attention when I have money for her So thank you for this words

[@LauraGonzalez-jd4ij]

Loved this. I know I hate me and why I am where I am. Begging for scraps. I hope to find a way to love me so the pain will end. Thank I for the encouragement ❤

[@KristenBrown]

Hi Laura, I understand this position fully. You might be interested in the program I am in the process of creating. You can check it out here: www.kristenbrown.org/healingcircle

[@Itsjrob_]

Ughhh It’s so difficult …. I can’t get her out my head.

[@KristenBrown]

I totally understand as I was there myself at one point. I kept my focus on "there's someone even better for me." I've been "someone better" for 12 years now. Keep the faith. :)

[@david22591]

I know this was recorded 2 years ago but it came up in my feed today and it is so timely.

[@KristenBrown]

I’m so glad it helped. 🫶🏽🙏🏽

[@jspin6871]

Thank you. I wish had more profound words to convey how much I mean that. I'm sobbing. But not with heartbreak... Or even sadness. It's relief. I'm 40 years old and I KNOW this. And I've put myself in this cycle dozens of times. I know. But I never really accepted it until I heard you say it. I don't know why, lol. Thank you so much. I wish I could give you a hug, lol. Gonna watch it again❤️ Subscribed. *From Connecticut❤️

[@KristenBrown]

@@jspin6871 I totally understand. The right words at the right time HIT. Thank you for sharing that with me. 🤗 PS I give Live talks Mon - Fri on the Noom Vibe app. It’s a free app if you’d like to join me over there. PSS I was born in Connecticut but moved west before I was a year old. 😊

[@jspin6871]

@@KristenBrown OH WOW! I was born here too! Waterbury, lol. I also moved away, but came back. I actually live in my childhood home! I will definitely check you out on the Noom Vibe app. How do I find you there?👀 Thank you being kind enough both to make the video, and respond to my comment. The words definitely HIT. All of them. ❤️

[@KristenBrown]

@ I’m on mon - fri at 11:50 am EST. Once you’re there, you click the Vibe button on the bottom which takes you to the Live talks. You can swipe through to find mine. I talk about all things personal growth and empowerment 😊

[@jspin6871]

@KristenBrown ❤️

[@chrisshowering7357]

I am struggling with my weight? I have a large stomach and insulin resistance so I don't feel good about myself. I thought he cared but he can't even use my name when we are being intimate.

[@KristenBrown]

The key is to start loving and valuing yourself FIRST or you'll always accept scraps from others. PS The size of your belly is unrelated to how lovable you are. 💖💖

[@steveboling1518]

this video is heaven sent, loving yourself first will attract love

[@KristenBrown]

♥️♥️♥️

[@jamsta8939]

@3:20 - 3:25 that made me cry😭so much coz its exaxctly how i feel like, banging my head constantly , doing so many nice thing for thats she cant see it and its like im only one trying

[@KristenBrown]

I understand completely. Please know this... Your ideal partner is out there looking for you too. Make space in your mind and energy to allow her to enter. 💞

[@bankye.4291]

I am currently going through this and this is the most painful thing I’ve ever gone through. We had been seeing each other for 6 months. Last week, I asked him for where things were going between us, he got mad and the communication stopped all of a sudden. I’ve been reaching out to him since and he responds but he hasn’t made the effort to reach out to me. I have asked him this question before and it never led to him going silent on me like this. I’ve been trying to let him go but my heart won’t let me. I don’t know what to do anymore.

[@KristenBrown]

In the big picture, men typically find that question off-putting because they interpret it differently than we mean it. The best thing to do is go no contact until he reaches out to you. Then you allow HIM to pursue you. I hope this helps.

[@karrax2473]

Just started watching this, im already crying. Going threw so much with my kids father. I love him so much. He doesnt love me. I feel so worthless. 😢

[@KristenBrown]

Please remember: He does not determine your worth. 🙏🏽♥️

[@BlackMetalRed1988]

I’ve always felt that I was not good enough and felt that there was something wrong with me, I was looking for love with different women but ended getting hurt 😭

[@bradleys403]

I really really needed to hear this today, and it makes just so much sense. Thank you for making me feel more than ‘enough’ x

[@KristenBrown]

That’s because you are 🫶🏽🙏🏽💓

[@andy27310]

I needed this so bad, I’m going through a tough time where I want someone who’s moved on from me and I just can’t get over it :/

[@KristenBrown]

I understand more than you can imagine. I’m glad this video helped you. Remember who you are and what you deserve! ♥️

[@paulmcwilliams1709]

Thank you Kristen Brown! You opened my eyes to the fact that I'm worth more than "THAT" person was willing to give me! So now it's time to say Goodbye to the one that I was trying to please constantly!!!

[@KristenBrown]

You are definitely worth more than scraps. Onward and upward, Paul!

[@paulmcwilliams1709]

@@KristenBrown Thank you very much! ❤

[@siddharthabharadwaj8299]

I don't know how I found your video ...but I literally am going through a phase of series of heartbreak..I know I am not a bad guy but people treat me like shit..and it breaks me and is Breaking me completely..I feel like I am trapped...and I need help. Thank you for this beautiful video..it gave me some positive vibes..🙏

[@KristenBrown]

I’m sure you are an amazing guy! It’s time to embrace that deep in your soul and know someone will be very fortunate to have you. When your soul knows that unequivocally, you’ll not only attract a different lot, you’ll be more willing to pass up meh for marvelous!

[@siddharthabharadwaj8299]

@@KristenBrown Thank you so much Kristen for taking some time to reply me back,I really appreciate that.. Thank you for your kind words... Hope you could help me out more..I have lost myself but still I try my best to get over stuffs..

[@KristenBrown]

I invite you to follow my podcast. It’s all about reclaiming your personal power. There’s over 100 episodes. 💜

[@siddharthabharadwaj8299]

@@KristenBrown Definitely I have been listening to your podcasts now..Also I purchased your book "From Doormat to Sweet Empowerment"😊🙏

[@KristenBrown]

Great job! It’s time to know your worth.💜

[@jesse7747]

It sucks when you want someone really bad but you can't be with them. Sometimes time doesn't heal these wombs..

[@KristenBrown]

I don’t believe time heals wounds; I believe people choose to heal their own wounds. ♥️

[@janetsmith2870]

Seems like a sweet good lady offering her help. We that need this listen to her. I think she’s been there. It is hard believe me.

[@KristenBrown]

Thanks Janet! I have been there and I’m out the other side! That’s why I teach what I do 🌸

[@rajneema8793]

You’re amazing, just someup whole minestory

[@KristenBrown]

🙏🏽♥️

[@williamikewun7874]

Its so hurting that you gave everything and in return you got negative vibes. Obsession is not so good... Thanks for this..

[@CBT5777]

Sometimes people need a little extra. Persistence can sometimes pay off. This is in regard to convincing a woman who may be an introvert or emotionally reserved. But yes, there is a limit. I agree with you.

[@KristenBrown]

Yes, sometimes that may be the case. 😊

[@shothao-fw9uf]

I have been with my boyfriend for 15 years and he left me once but he wanted me back so I took him back but now where fighting again where done now I'm so exhausted chasing him I'm done

[@KristenBrown]

Good for you. You deserve to be treated as a priority, respected, protected and well-loved.

[@sharonclaassen9460]

Thank you for this. Right now this is exactly what is happening in my life😢

[@KristenBrown]

@@sharonclaassen9460 🙌🏽♥️

[@dotty1220]

This spoke to me deeply. I've absolutely destroyed myself for my love for my boyfriend. I've destroyed myself in every way. Everything you said spoke to me. Thank you again.

[@KristenBrown]

I’m so glad this helped you. You’re worth so much more! 🤗

[@ms_bad_bougie1784]

Thank you sooooo much for this. My heart has been broken for a week now. Definately needed to hear this message. I listened to it twice.

[@KristenBrown]

Sending you so much love. I’m glad it helped 🙏🏽♥️

[@SAB-ex7de]

Thank you love for the message. For two years I took care of a lady who had a bad life but at the end she stopped valuing me and my love n care for her. She had more time for others than for me at all. I sacrificed my own feelings so that she can be okay. But at the end I am being left all alone. I am fighting everyday to get rid of her memories. I think I should stop doing it.

[@kimberleylauren9411]

I come back to this video time and time again, struggling to let go of someone I love who clearly doesn't want me anymore. Sometimes it gets too much, this video comforts and helps me to ground myself again. Thank you x

[@KristenBrown]

🙏🏽🙏🏽 I’m glad it helps ♥️♥️

[@kimberleyann51]

I listened to this 3 times!! Need more of these videos because I don't love myself

[@KristenBrown]

I totally understand. Have you Subscribed? I have many vids on self-love. 💗

[@kimberleyann51]

@@KristenBrown I'm subscribed now and listening ☺️

[@nonoholobelo1638]

Wow, am so touched, as I have been chasing people all my life. I am done. Thank you

[@KristenBrown]

Wow… that’s truly amazing. Sending you so much love.

[@Asaya_as]

I have a friend that I know for over three years now, and last year I discovered that I had a crush on him, and It was all going okay last year because even if I knew I had a crush on him I was still denying it. But this year, I started to notice his distant and kind of uncomfortable behavior, for example, last year we used to sit together in class and not because that our destined seat just because we wanted to, but this year if I try to sit next to him, he will literally jump and just walk away, he will sometimes make excuses, but he seems genuinely uncomfortable, so I just didn't even try to sit next to him anymore and respected his "boundaries" and I thought maybe because his new friend group will tease him if they see him sitting next to me, but then noticed that he has no problem sitting next to other girls willingly, and also our cgats used to be hours long but now everytime I try to talk to him he either doesn't reply or he tels me he's going out or is going to eat or something so he can't talk but he stays online, I also started to get jealous when he would get close to other girls, and I tried to give him hints but he just ignores them, I try to excuse him saying that he probably think I'm joking since I am kind of a flirt ngl, but recently he said he has a crush on my best friend, so I decided to just try to stop liking him but I found it hard since he's such a green flag and he has everything I am searching for and he's also a great friend and I just can't seem to distance myself from him, but honestly I believe I can control my emotions and bury my feelings for him deep inside my heart and forget about them because this all has been hurting me, and I prioritize myself over anyone else so I will try to forget about him for the next last year or so that I still have to be in the same school as him and focus on my studies instead (damn that's long)

[@wisemanoncesaid9498]

Thank you so much. My world feels so upside down since she's left. So heartbroken 💔

[@KristenBrown]

You’re worth the most beautiful, reciprocal love. Remember that. 💗

[@rishadverse]

This has proven to be very useful. Currently been chasing someone who doesn't want me back and i just keep hurting myself by doing this.

[@KristenBrown]

Sending you love on your journey 🙏🏽

[@rishadverse]

@@KristenBrown its been really tough, challenging to say the least.... i'm just so fed up..

[@Jessicaisfreee]

Thank you so so much 💕🙏🏼 I reopened the door for him it’s up to him to walk through but I am not chasing him. Nope!!!

[@bmx687]

You are such a guiding light of clarity. I left a friend's neighborhood today. Upon departure I saw a woman that I was heavily interested in from my past walking her dog. Shes a low income earner.. I immediately started devising a plan: "I should grab my Italian exotic car and park on her walking route. She'll see me and realize that she passed up an amazing thing. Afterall, I have a doctoral degree, earn over six figuresa year, and I'm in shape!" How crazy a thought is that!? Thank you for pulling me from that ego driven insanity ❤

[@KristenBrown]

@bmx687 You pulled yourself from it! Good for you!! 👏🏽👏🏽

[@jondoe5956]

Wow! You have such a calm, reassuring delivery... This really resonated with me because I've been feeling worthless all my life due to childhood trauma... Thanks for this msg... I'm gonna start with self love!

[@KristenBrown]

Woohooo! You got this @jon doe!

[@HowNoNonSense]

Thank you 🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁🎄🎁

[@fredsanchez5470]

I needed this so much , I have been chasing this girl for over a year and trying to make her love me again it seems imposible . I wanted that feeling and intensity that we once had but she does not want. She can never find time for us and treats me we the worst disdain and indifference . Is hard but this word of advice help a lot

[@KristenBrown]

🙏🏽♥️

[@ef9264]

I know this video is not new and you probably wont ever see my comment but I just had to write these down because you spoke so deep within me. I have this crippling feeling for 3 months now over someone who only made me feel worthy a few times which became an obsession for me to chase after him. I know it's unhealthy, I know it is the trigger that makes me cry most nights, I know something is broken within me, I know and heard things directly from him that made me think I would never put myself in a relationship with him yet I still daydream about being with him. romantically and sexually. I cant stop my thoughts nor handle my emotions because this is not a choice this is desperation. I am desperate and because of that I am worthless... I do not know when or how or if I want my mind to be rid of being with him. I already settled for scraps before even though it hurt me but I at least felt a little loved. even if it was so little I still had it and it made me go on with my daily life and I was appreciative of that small "love". still I thank you for your video as a word of assurance I have been watching it for 3 days now. I don't believe in god or a higher power at this moment but seems like you do, and if your prayers get answers, would you pray for me if you have the time? thank you. I wish you all the best

[@KristenBrown]

Hi ef, I delayed from responding to this message because I would like to address it in a video. Do I have your permission to read your message in the video? Please leave me a comment saying yes if that is OK with you.

[@Sufiisfujaifjed]

You’re like the mom I wish I had. Thank you so much ❤

[@KristenBrown]

That’s the best compliment I could ever receive. You’re very welcome. 🙏🏽💓

[@polgara555]

Im gonna start watching this video once a day...thank you!

[@KristenBrown]

You’re so welcome. 💟

[@littleiodine9480]

So glad I had this video saved to go back to today. Thanks much AGAIN!

[@KristenBrown]

🙏🏽🙏🏽💗💗

[@dee2022uk]

Thank you very much - it was like you were speaking to me directly, like you knew how I felt. The guy I dated over the past months didnt want to progress things, his excuse being that he wasn't able to give the time to me due to work commitments. After having a conversation about it with him a few weeks ago it took my time to move to the point of knowing to move on without even a friendship. He never properly invested in me to build an emotional connection or invested in time to build a relationship. Chemistry/attraction, some similar values, similar backgrounds are not enough. Im really learning from the experience. I have been enjoying my life, but I though he was the person and it took me time to accept this though i saw the signs. The few last conversations we had made me see him as someone who is not the right guy for me long-term. When im ready to meet someone else I will be open to it but be aware of something that doesnt serve me, and will take your advice of loving myself and enjoying life. Thank you.

[@KristenBrown]

It sounds like you have a good grasp on this even though you’re still experiencing the pain. You’ll get there, sweet one. Keep your face towards the sun. ☀️ 💖

[@dee2022uk]

@@KristenBrown 💕

[@vikramadoddamani]

Sometimes I feel my own mother doesn’t feel that I’m special 😂 😢 I was infatuated once with this girl (maybe still am a bit) 😦 I’m slowly changing my ways, but is very hard. Thank you for the positive message ❤ I feel warmer in my heart 💜 Take care 💛

[@KristenBrown]

I’m glad it helped warm your heart. Much Love to you, Vikram! 🙏🏽❤️

[@DavidDavis-fi1sd]

From kenya🇰🇪Africa thanks for wonderful advice✨really helped God bless you

[@KristenBrown]

🙏🏽♥️

[@annig1049]

I'm 1 minute into the video and in tears. You truly understand. I am glad I found this channel.

[@KristenBrown]

🙏🏽💓

[@annig1049]

@@KristenBrown I have a question. What if you really loved them for who they are but know you aren't meant to be together but still love them so deeply.

[@KristenBrown]

What’s the question exactly?

[@annig1049]

@@KristenBrown the one about how I loved them deeply

[@KristenBrown]

@@annig1049 Yes, I'm unclear what you're asking exactly. Can you restate it in a question please?

[@jordanramseyer]

Tbis popped up in my recommendations.. for me it's one of my best friends for 10 years, we had a falling out and she doesn't want to salvage the friendship and I'm heartbroken over it. I needed to hear this because sometimes I feel the need to text her even though I already have several times before and got no response. Thank you ❤

[@KristenBrown]

I’m so glad it helped bring you some peace. 🙏🏽♥️

[@marylinelai8073]

Love yourself !

[@KristenBrown]

Yes! 💓

[@Sadhudeviji]

Love you Kristen. Thank you again. Sending healing rays to you who are reading this, remember who you are🙏🏻

[@KristenBrown]

Love this, thank you!

[@fabricefonkwa8122]

I want to learn to love myself more than anything in life, but God first 🥇

[@KristenBrown]

God relationship #1.

[@KristenBrown]

I recommend reading my new book! The entire book is about healing your inner world to love yourself unconditionally. If you're interested, you can find it here: go.ht/book

[@AshTea22]

I know this is an old video but I really needed to hear these things, being adopted and being treated like garbage from my adopted family to getting bullied through highschool my self worth has been 0 for so long.

[@KristenBrown]

I’m so happy it was helpful! ♥️ PS It may be old but I still get comments almost daily. I appreciate you reaching out. AND you’re worthy simply because you’re YOU. There’s no one like you! YOU are a gift to this world. 🤗

[@LAVixen-nt1rr]

I am a Taurus and stubborn lol 😆 you are accurately correct!! It all resonates

[@tjfSIM]

Thanks Kristen. I really needed this video today. I hope 2023 brings you peace and happiness.

[@KristenBrown]

Thank you and I wish the same for you. ☮️🕊️

[@tonyperek7292]

As a blind person it is very hard to find people who will befriend you. It is very discouraging.

[@amandab4421]

Thank you for your message. I’m at this place right now. 😔 I’m so ashamed to admit that!

[@KristenBrown]

No shame, Amanda. We’re doing the very best we can in each moment. Take a deep breath and remember, your ideal person is looking for you too. 💓

[@ELLEJ_]

2 years together he's all I've ever known. And he doesn't want me anymore

[@KristenBrown]

I understand how painful that is. Have faith God has someone even better in store for you. 🤗💖

[@coathanger]

I just came across this video, helping me so much today.

[@KristenBrown]

🙏🏽🫶🏽

[@nc4724]

Thank you so much for this video i needed this today

[@KristenBrown]

🙏🏽♥️

[@sudiptahalder5488]

thank you mam, I'm now going through this hard situation, I'm just tired , i want MY PEACE back in my life, also i think this time to move on, she is happy without my position, so it's heartbut it's OK. i want to over come this bad feelings its break my self and also want who doesn't want me anymore, god knows, i belive every thing happens for a reason. ,

[@KristenBrown]

Yes, everything does happen for a reason, a good reason. Focusing on your peace is an excellent goal! ♥️

[@sudiptahalder5488]

@@KristenBrown❤️ yup , pray for me mam

[@chowceo]

I found this video so helpful when I found it the other day. My rejection is from family and I honestly don’t know why they feel this way. Over the years this rejection has shown up and I feel the rejection so deeply. To ask about it would just send me spiraling downwards as think about this over the years has frozen me for days at a time. Your saying “rejection is your protection” has been my phrase to go to when I find myself heartbroken 💔 Holidays is especially hard as I don’t feel I have any family that wants me included 😢

[@KristenBrown]

I understand how painful this can be. Love and accept YOU. That’s what your heart is yearning for. 🙏🏽♥️

[@chowceo]

@@KristenBrown thank you 😊 I’m trying 💘

[@mahtabvarche6402]

I needed to hear this desperately...been chasing a friend who never called me....time to move on and start to LOVE myself...thankyou sOOOOO much God bless you🙏❤❤❤🌹

[@KristenBrown]

I’m so happy it was helpful ♥️♥️♥️

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

Thank you. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. Some simple, solid and sobering truths. 🧡🙏🏾

[@KristenBrown]

You’re welcome. ♥️

[@lovely_spark2752]

I needed to hear this 😢 I will watch this everyday as a reminder to move on

[@KristenBrown]

Sending you love on your healing journey! You got this. You matter and deserve the ultimate love, respect and care.