“On the other side of self-doubt is the person you have been looking for your entire life”. So true.
@kamohelononkonyana93682 жыл бұрын
❤️
@micap1121 Жыл бұрын
This one was my favorite too 🥰
@ganeshsarode42828 ай бұрын
@@micap1121😊
@borismikwa55732 ай бұрын
True 🎉🎉
@janelikeaj11 күн бұрын
💘
@geanx56782 жыл бұрын
- Self-doubt is a mental conversation in which your mind questions your ability to find a desired solution to a perceived problem 1. Share your self-doubt with the people you trust 2. Self-doubt is a call to love yourself 3. Love yourself regardless of your achievements 4. Forgive yourself for your past failures
@existentialmonster40592 жыл бұрын
who honestly cares what we do
@Tchokwe2 жыл бұрын
Very hard to do it. I’m dealing with depression because of self-doubt.
@highhighlights61892 жыл бұрын
Well recapped . Thank you ❣️
@TuckJumpChef2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@eddygan3252 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@emiiika2 жыл бұрын
“the pain of my past does not determine the possibility of my future.” 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@maxamudadam57632 жыл бұрын
Great quote💪
@taratemple33242 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 🌟
@matthewpollak35932 жыл бұрын
So true
@rutherfordyqd69842 жыл бұрын
Heyy Awesome ✨✨✨✨✨
@OffTheCouchProd.2 жыл бұрын
Ima get this tatted on me, cause I am more than self doubt and pain
@sparkler93595 ай бұрын
"Not knowing how to deal with your doubts delays your dreams" True indeed🥺
@melliemu123 Жыл бұрын
“Acting the way you did at the time is proof you could not have acted any differently” really hit home. I think a lot about coulda woulda shoulda scenarios and feel bad about them, but everyone, including myself, is just doing their best with the info and experiences they have to pull from at any given time.
@SUHAYB_somaliland8 ай бұрын
The pain of my past does not determine the possibility of my future. Touching my heart so deeply
@raunakchaturvedi95182 жыл бұрын
"Love yourself regardless of your achievement." We all needed to hear that! 👍
@maabnoor87512 жыл бұрын
"Let go of blaming yourself, give yourself permission to express a new level of confidence, passion, and commitment".💕
@samf.s.7731 Жыл бұрын
"surround yourself with people who build you up" I think that was one of the best advices I'd ever received. Alternatively sadly, if you can't find those people, it's better to be alone than in the company of those who was to take a jab at you whenever possible because they have issues with themselves.
@bleri8 Жыл бұрын
That’s the key
@nephthaliecareen32422 жыл бұрын
“True freedom comes when you no longer rely on achievements to help you fall in love with who you are right now”
@beerman2042 жыл бұрын
good to stop worrying or caring how the outside world regards you and begin to pay attention to the one whose opinion matters most of all...your own...
@lindazhang80042 жыл бұрын
❤
@sadegh54292 жыл бұрын
This is the key point not to let our achievements or failures define us and love ourselves 👌✌️
@tanyam6811 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful quote ❤
@ErnestoHernandezBarron9 ай бұрын
Powerful
@CreeperKiller4202 ай бұрын
9:16 Wow. "That's because your mind cannot distinguish between what you want and what you don't want. You will always give more power to that on which you focus." - Mario Lanzarotti
@aelskliiing2 жыл бұрын
I had an interview at my dream job abroad, 30 minutes before the phone call started I began doubting myself: "What am I doing here interviewing for this job? I don't even have the skills to work there!" and with this mindset I went to the interview, already thinking very low of myself and it showed and affected my whole performance. I didn't get the job and regret it to date! Great talk, thank you! :)
@trangao329 Жыл бұрын
What is self doubt?
@akash25446 Жыл бұрын
"Everyone faces self-doubt, only those who are courageous enough to admit it will find the support, that allow them to move forward, while still facing self-doubt " 👏👏
@kelvinaudax Жыл бұрын
When you can love the person in the mirror regardless of your achievements ,you become truly unstoppable.
@nasargrate8463 Жыл бұрын
I found him incredible, and he gave us a lot of proof that self-doubt is a good way, and if we understand how we can controll it ,we win the war
@sakshiyadav3042 жыл бұрын
Yeah! Self-doubt is like a painkiller which kills our all dreams . Believe in your self don't let your past determine your present. You got every right to a beautiful life. So go outside and conquer the world.
@thangamaniselvaraja743010 ай бұрын
From 9:00 - Treat self doubt as a friend 13:30 to 14:45 - Forgive yourself
@uploads19482 жыл бұрын
Thank you for uploading this. I really love the phrase "everyone faces self doubt, only those who are courageous enough to admit it will find the support that allows him to move forward" This speech was wholesome.I Love it
@britgetsfitt2 жыл бұрын
I needed this video in my life right now. I’ve been so lost and confused trying to be an overachiever, but I didn’t realize I was losing sight of who I am. I have been trying to perform for everyone else and forgot about myself in the process.
@emeraudehime24312 жыл бұрын
Stop doubting yourself and go after what you really, really want. The nex time self-doubt comes, dont fight it. Embrace it as a friend to remind you to fill your self-love tank. Not knowing how to deal with your self-doubts --- delay your dreams.
@existentialmonster40592 жыл бұрын
how do you still have wants? What on earth do you mean?
@Quidwitchh4 ай бұрын
One of the best Ted talks I’ve heard in a while. Most talks on anxiety or self doubt never tell you the cost of going after something and realising you’re not cut out for the job. Look at all those people you work for or with who are hopeless at their jobs but maybe got it because they were the only applicant … going for a role doesn’t always make you the best fit. So the line between being able to identify that you’re not a good fit for a position and having self doubt is really thin. I fear being perceived as incompetent more than simply failing! So I like that he mentions that having self confidence only clears you for take off…. You still gotta do the work to be ready to do it!
@tradingmentee2 жыл бұрын
When i am lonely I actually find my true power. The things I really need to do
@kennedyremedyinvestments9562 жыл бұрын
Powerful speech on how self doubt is one of the best things EVER! I took notes and accept the challenge by the way: I will forgive myself for all wrong and let go of blaming myself. Give myself permission to express a new level of confidence, passion, and commitment.
@ridafatima7480 Жыл бұрын
This is so relatable! I have experienced a similar journey of self doubt and still do. This video gives so much of clarity of how to deal with it correctly without sabotaging my self worth! Thank you Mario, this is exactly what i wanted to hear!
@ramkitchen0078 ай бұрын
Thanks a million for the statement " The Pain of the past must not determine the possibility of your future"... Getting back the lost enthusiasm and motivation.. God bless you.
@mfat36902 жыл бұрын
This speech is relating to my current situation. I stack at a point of learning where I am thinking that I am too weak to perform that work. But not now. I have to overcome my all self-doubts. Learning may take time but you can learn if you will be consistent. So from now own I have decided to not quit at any cost. I am forgiving myself for the mistakes which I have done before.
@ninavaughn84202 жыл бұрын
Great conversation. I have suffered from self-doubt for years, but with high aspirations. I had to get out of cult and leave all my family. I had did it and it was the best decision ever made. I did travel around the world and studies college, lived in a few countries, but leaving my family was my big crutch. I also suffered from depression before that. Today, I miss my family, but I don’t have this huge depressions anymore. I have a great husband and son.
@sophiab72502 жыл бұрын
Your paragraph was interesting to read. I hope you write a book about your life. Thank you for sharing your message of courage. 🏅
@raisyroth2 жыл бұрын
wow, similar life story to mine
@prosperwithjessie2 жыл бұрын
Wow I also left my family. It was largely because of them that I doubted myself. They never believe in what I do. Leaving them was my last resort and it was a form of self preservation. I think this is what the speaker Mario said, we need to love ourselves and this is us giving ourselves a chance for success. Sending love.
@TVAI95 Жыл бұрын
was it jehovah witnesses?
@fihamahamed127610 ай бұрын
Can I have your mail id ? I need some advises from you pls We are in similar line
@KingaGorski2 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness of ourselves and others-for both things we did and didn't do-is one of the key gateways that leads to personal freedom.
@existentialmonster40592 жыл бұрын
sounds good how do you do that exactly
@sethuraman96392 жыл бұрын
i watched different types of self development videos .all have one thing in common that is LOVE OURSELVES .
@gaurav291072 жыл бұрын
Best TED talk so far.. Makes you think about all past failures as badge of experience and possibilities we can create for ourselves with positive and happy mind. I will be coming back to this video number of times ❤️
@josaphinealvia4567 Жыл бұрын
"The most important journey you take in your life is the one from your head through self doubt to your heart " 🙌
@samanthabelize60502 жыл бұрын
I have listened to this video over 7 times, and pull new distinctions from it each time. So clear, concise, and packed with wisdom that we can all apply immediately to our own lives. Well done, Mario! Thank you!
@derriclim29809 ай бұрын
Thanks mario,. I recently just got turned down from a job offer which I worked hard for. I have been questioning myself and my future so much I kept asking myself " can I make it in the future?". I guess it's time to treat myself better and stop blaming myself that I didn't do better. In fact, I already did, and it's the best of what I could do at that time. We can grow, but everyone starts from somewhere including myself. The fact that I gave myself the chance to be in the interview and apply for the job speaks volumes of my effort. That I should be proud of, better than not doing anything or giving myself a fighting chance. Better luck next time:)
@thvfgh_22642 жыл бұрын
я сейчас сидела и рыдала от безысходности , думая что не справлюсь, что не оправдаю ожидания родителей и себя. но теперь я продолжу трудиться и не буду сомневаться, спасибо вам 🤍 вы сделали большой вклад в моё будущее
@deepalitarate491410 ай бұрын
So precise and profound.Our limitations are mostly ours ,that’s the nature of self doubt.
@NichikaIwasaki3 ай бұрын
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
@IntroVRt_302 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mario. Self doubt can be very crippling and keep you stuck not doing anything for years in depression. You worded and explained everything perfectly. Love ourselves, love our self doubts, forgive and grow🙏🏾
@phillipbotha2 жыл бұрын
Great message. I totally agree. There was a time when I treated my self doubt as the enemy and was basically at war with myself which means I was pretty hard on myself. Now I see fear and self doubt as my allies....and I love myself a whole lot more. Thanks for the great talk.
@clydelmaetoledo3516 Жыл бұрын
I really like the way he delivered his speech , verbally and non verbaly because its kinda like something you wanna need to hear for your entire life. I was kinda amazed how he expressed in the best way. You really can understand truly.
@jeanhufleydt8524 Жыл бұрын
I wished I watched this sooner before but then I realized that if I didn't experience self-doubt before I wouldn't have gone through this video. Thanks for giving us this talk, now I can see my past as a lesson and not a failures I made of my younger self.
@passonthering Жыл бұрын
This talk resonated with me on many levels. Ambitions with shallow or false motivations. Keeping oneself "busy" with so many distractions. Admitting one's mistakes or missteps in the context of knowing that you did the best you could at that moment. Learning from one's past missteps. Lots of great content. Very inspiring to me. Thank you, Mario!
@PrathamSingh-hp9qw6 ай бұрын
I am 15 but I have experienced...and realising that it has make me unstoppable.....❤❤❤I am proud of myself...I and you reading this comment destined for greatness ❤
@DrStar-g1v5 күн бұрын
What a talk man you really opened my eyes ! Never let self doubt stop but use it as a fuel to move you forward ! Take it as a positive thing and fill up ur self love tank and be kind to your ownself !! These are some really life chaning inspiring words !!
@rachelleamato96792 жыл бұрын
One of my dreams, is to stand in that stage and share also a motivational speech someday The message of that speech is really an enlightenment
@siddharthamishra88529 күн бұрын
I wish i had the privilege of this talk earlier in my life. I forgive myself for all the shortcomings and self doubts that has stopped me from realizing my true potential. I feel you have freed me today dear brother. Lots of love to you ❤️ This is the best moment. Thank you so much Ted Talks. You guys are really making a difference. ❤️
@thanatosgod122 жыл бұрын
Self doubt creates the hesitation and hold you back from right decision. However, we're living in the world of spreading the self doubt, some people always makes this to us and this is why we have to avoid these toxics. Furthermore, we all must have self-esteem to lower our self doubt. Thanks for the speech.
@kelebogilemogomotsi2133 Жыл бұрын
Best TED talk ever!!! Man spoke nothing but the truth.
@human123.universe-earth9 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much.. This is the best Ted talk I've ever seen.. I've gone through many videos on self doubt,but here I get the answer..
@005_wiwinsuherti9 Жыл бұрын
I will remember this video for the rest of my life. because the later i was rejected when propose the final project topic to finish my college. But now I can take a lesson within, I will not give up! and it feels like I am given a more confident feeling to do it other way, wish me luck!
@g_ayugane9 ай бұрын
How did it go?
@karenaouwad26972 жыл бұрын
Really sweet knowledgeable man. He clearly had done the hard work on himself. Bravo to him, i'm so inspired
@BindNamp2 жыл бұрын
Thought provoking, Inspiring and yet relatable speech! Thank you! 👌🙏. The points that resonated with me- beyond the underlying thread of the positive influence of self doubt in utilising it to connect head and heart. 1.What you really really want are the positive emotions those goals promise... 2.Not knowing how to deal with your self doubt delays your dreams. 3.Forgive yourself of the past mistakes because the fact that you acted shows that was the only thing you could do then!
@k-mistry5926 Жыл бұрын
Well said 💯
@ltll61210 ай бұрын
Failure is the mother of success / foundation for success (This is a Chinese saying roughly translated.. hope this encourages whoever is reading this)
@BacteriaTheraptist9 ай бұрын
Thanks bro.. Great saying..
@funnyliketoys76839 ай бұрын
Go after what you really want is the key 🔑
@adhils96332 жыл бұрын
Mario lanzarotti and supermario..they both taught me , don't doubt yourself, keep trying until you reach the next level..
@jarjarbings28932 жыл бұрын
Can anybody watch this without crying and wanting to hug this guy??? ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Arc2817 ай бұрын
11:21
@kitakamidesign3186 Жыл бұрын
One of the best ted talks. Self doubt really killing yourself and made you missed opportunities. But it's never too late to change yourself and build self-trust within yourself. You just have to reflect and move forward..
@michaelravenwood56972 жыл бұрын
This is a great talk! While I am fortunate enough to generally look at my negative internal dialogue as merely signals of how I need to account for possible roadblocks & succeed nonetheless, it took me much longer to develop this relationship to similar comments I get from others. There are particular people in my life that, while I love them, I used to get very frustrated & discouraged by their comments on my life path. Once I learned to simply thank them for pointing out the things I needed to account for in order to persist & succeed, it changed my relationship to them completely. Thanks for giving this talk, it’s inspiring for sure!
@Ramkishor-bu5tx2 жыл бұрын
My takeaways- In striving to achieve desired goals, what you really really want are the positive emotions those goals promise. True freedom comes when you no longer rely on your achievements to fall in love with who you are right now.
@existentialmonster40592 жыл бұрын
yeah pretty much, it's all just narrative.
@Eroll_Fingal_Groote2 жыл бұрын
“True freedom comes when you no longer rely on achievements to help you fall in love with who you are right now” Mario Lanzarotti.
@paulkalix97052 жыл бұрын
Self Doubt is essential to overcoming your hurdles in life. They'll help you gauge what you need to achieve them. Self Doubt in a sense is the vision, and Confidence is the plan. In today's world social media portrays certain standards and expectations, and it may seem like you're either falling behind, or maybe you're not even in the ball park. This is not the case. You might even compare yourself to your peers around you who you might think are successful, and that might be the case, but understand that it takes time and effort to get to where they are today. Everyone goes through the same issues in life, one way or another. Be confident in what you do and you'll experience progress you never thought was possible. (A speech I had with a former employee. It's mostly word for word. Some words I've substituted with vernacular from the video. But I hope this helps anyone who thinks they're inadequate in life, or if they're stuck in a rut)
@helloamerica74582 жыл бұрын
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@alanCandanedo2 жыл бұрын
This feels personal, at my 26 I'm finally understanding this. Thank u. Everyone can do it.
@nelearnguitar84362 жыл бұрын
I really wanted to go or pursue my dream , now I'm gonna do it, wish me luck . ❤️
@Estelaortizponce3 ай бұрын
Wow! This is such a great message. Thank you for sharing this with the world. This message came at the right time. It made me cry!
@RidaYash2 жыл бұрын
Ooohhhh this hits the spot. It’s the story of my life. Wish I had heard this talk years ago but I’m grateful for it now. Thank you so much for sharing your story. You have no idea how this impacts me. Now I can accept my self doubt and love myself.
@saeedm37676 ай бұрын
Good for you for having a well connected and supporting family. The rest of us might not have that which make us being less fearless than you.
@maunyabilla Жыл бұрын
"Self-doubt only exists as an illusion in your mind, and your heart has no illusions like that. The most important journey in your life is the one you take from your head through self-doubt, into your heart. And that's why self-doubt is one of the best things ever."
@SleimanRapaport3 ай бұрын
Hidden Time Wealth is so unique. I can’t believe I hadn’t heard about it sooner. It’s amazing how life-changing this can be for anyone battling procrastination.
@lauraromero29332 жыл бұрын
Your brain will tell you all sorts of false stories. One of the biggest being, ‘I could have done something different.’ The fact that you acted the way you acted is all the proof you need to know that you couldn’t have acted in any other way. Your mental, physical, and emotional state produced the only outcome possible. So it’s not your fault. And you couldn’t have done anything different. Because you’ve had the experience, you now possess new insights that allow you to make a new choice. Now, you’re responsible to choose what you’re going to do with the wisdom you’ve harvested from that experience. 🙌🏽
@victormwenda88642 жыл бұрын
Powerful presentation, reminds me of Brené Brown’s Tedx talks on ‘Them power of Vulnerability’ and ‘The power of Shame’
@vvelasco542 ай бұрын
It’s hard to let go of my mistakes but this talk has definitely given me a boost of motivation to start loving myself.
@tritzispoosa Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful speaker with a great message of inspiration. GRAZIE MARIO 🇨🇦
@sidhree2 жыл бұрын
He takes off at 8:40. From that point on he had me, to the end. 👏
@creamy622 жыл бұрын
One of the best speaker that I've seen and heard in TED.
@gacmalony10 ай бұрын
Im just writing first time comment to under a ted videos, This man saying exactly what i need. I know i have enough power to get over my issues but sometimes just i feel self-doubt. Unfortunately, i dont have any person to talk about my issues and self-doubt. I just moved to Germany and i have to fix my problems by myself.
@k-mistry5926 Жыл бұрын
Whenever you are in self doubt it's the Signal that 'love yourself ' ❤ increase your self-love ☺️🤗
@Lucidsuperb8 ай бұрын
Thank you for the motivational speech. It's help me a lot to understand within my self. I am afraid of the failure I made in the past and I can't be courageous to overcome it. I can't stop doubting my self. What if I can't have a good performance in the new job? What if I can't fit to a new environment? Now, I take a deep breath and think back the keys to face with my self-doubt, it is not horrible like I thought. I truly appreciate your speech, this helps me can love my self again and go on.
@ynwa22902 жыл бұрын
that was really awesome. and btw for me as for a non-native speaker the way how the narrator speaked was a huge pleasure. so clear and straight. really impressive
@justdoit87372 жыл бұрын
In striving to achieve desired goals what we really want are the positive emotions those goals promise. Ultimate truth!
@nextsteps4 ай бұрын
“What we focus on expands” Thats the tagline of the phase 4 podcast ❤
@premrathour49167 ай бұрын
Self doubt really is the best thing ever that brought many of us to this amazing enlightening session
@arpitsrivstva2 жыл бұрын
This is the best Tedx talk ever! Truly motivated and relaxed by this man. 💙
@earthgrazer5511 Жыл бұрын
"No one in my family has ever done such a thing" hit me so hard.
@shashikirankiran81057 ай бұрын
What I feared was their judgment and rejection.. what I received was judgment and rejection. But no problem, I got me. I'm strong and I will support me till the end. I will make it.
@yagursss2 жыл бұрын
A LOT of key points for healthy and positive state of mind. Thanks Mario , I really felt everything you were talking about.
@sukhveer478brar62 жыл бұрын
I always doubt myself. I used to think that I am the only one who does it but after watching this video I can say it is good to doubt sometimes and when we doubt ourselves that incline our abilities because we try to figure out the confusion which has built in our mind.
@yuvanaapriyadharshini80394 ай бұрын
One of the most beautiful, profound, comprehensive Ted talk 👏👏🙏
@vibingwithnoor Жыл бұрын
love who you are love the person in your mirror regardless of your achievements… peace and love❤❤❤
@thiagoguerino21669 ай бұрын
Omg!! What a talk🙏🏻 came in a proper time ♥️
@poorvashuklavideos2 жыл бұрын
So helpful, Self doubt is our friend Whenever we feel the doubt, let's assure ourselves to work more and become even better
@thedailypractise6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I find it very relatable to what I had and still am going through. It took me a long time to understand this concept of self love and self acceptance. Thanks for keeping it REAL that having these emotions are part of being human 😅 🙏
@shawnino46252 жыл бұрын
Wow this video came out at such a perfect time. Needed to hear this I’ve been stuck in a crossroads of what I should do this gave me clarity
@suyashprksh2 жыл бұрын
Love yourself regardless of your achievements. Loved this line man!
@vineeth65268 ай бұрын
The fact u told about forgiveness is crrct , u just have to let down ur guard , I can say the guard is ego, the ego never let u to down , when u surpass that ego ,, it’s another portal of freedom and acceptance , love and light ❤
@DevWithAmanuel202411 ай бұрын
I loved the message! The doubts we feel about our true potential and ability is a way for us to unlock our true strength and purpose on the long journey. I found that when you make a good relation with the doubts and challenges of growth, you would become a better person who is moving in the right direction. Making sure doubts are illusions that motivates us to power the heart through our mind!
@adityaborade.45838 ай бұрын
It just totally changed my way to look towards my self doubts and teached me how to use self doubts to improve myself, to achieve goals with greater vision.. thankyou so much 😊🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@wiamdouieb18173 ай бұрын
🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:00 *Self-doubt can be transformative and might be one of the best things to happen to you.* 00:43 *Self-doubt involves questioning your abilities and can lead you to follow external advice rather than your intuition.* 01:53 *Many feel lonely in their self-doubt and fear of judgment, isolating them from support systems.* 05:21 *Admitting self-doubt to trusted individuals provides support and courage to move forward.* 07:04 *Vulnerability and self-trust foster confidence; share doubts to reduce their power.* 10:02 *Cultivate a loving relationship with self-doubt to unlock potential and focus on self-love.* 11:12 *True power lies in loving yourself independently of achievements, leading to peace and happiness.* 13:33 *Forgiving past failures allows progress; your state dictated past outcomes, but new insights can guide future choices.* 15:10 *Forgiveness helps overcome self-doubt; use past wisdom to fuel passion and confidence for a meaningful life.* 15:45 *Self-doubt is an illusion of the mind; love yourself and overcome self-doubt's power.* Made with HARPA AI
@rickdabosshaugh1083 Жыл бұрын
Dont lose everything over what u lost i heard that on another ted talk it help change my life
@diyadeb55622 жыл бұрын
Such an inspiring speech! Thank you Mario, for showing the positive side of self doubt, loved it
@Bimala_Bastola Жыл бұрын
Even though the pilot career did not work out, I still learnt how to fly because I found my true calling 👏❤️
@ninaxdrnАй бұрын
Wow, your words have touched my soul so deeply. Thank you so much!