STOP Giving a Damn What Others Think | 3 Tips Quit Worrying About People's Opinions | Don't Compare

[@RealMenRealStyle]

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[@sciencecorner4690]

Your videos are always a milestone to me ,gentleman! Keep moving. Your videos are always meaningful and always I find where I was wrong since now. Highly appreciated Antonio!

[@Afro-Gnostic]

Real Men Real Style... Dos pulgares arriba broki!

[@CamdenMcInnis]

Your son is extremely blessed to have a father like you.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+Books 4 A Better Life :)

[@isaacfullalove7146]

Soo true

[@mrgr8es101]

I am suffering from being too considerate, I do things and treat people well but then sometimes I realize that I don't get the same treatment, that's correct they really don't care.

[@shelan7058]

johnjay tan Yup same

[@Sursion]

Same here dude. I'm always bending over backwards to help out a friend in need, or going out of my way to make them feel better about themselves. And all people ever do is take advantage of that, and never reciprocate it. I've cut out a lot of people in my life recently because I realized they're just not good people...

[@عائلةسبعنجوم-ي1ذ]

damnn thats true

[@LuciasJourney]

Same

[@Derplanwagen]

Youre not suffering from being too considerate, but from being too dependent on how others treat you. Go for what you think is right in life, no matter if others do whats right or not. You doing the right thing in life should not be dependent on others, youre the captain

[@e39lwd]

My secret is confidence. I know who I am, what I stand for and why I do the things that I do. No one has questioned my choices for quite a while now and I really like that.

[@DENiS-trcz]

And how do I become a confident man like you are ? seriously I have a shitty job a shitty life overall .... I want a change, but dont know what kind of change.

[@e39lwd]

My journey started one year ago. I dressed like a kid, didn't understand style or grooming. I wasn't happy with my body either. I started working out and I threw away almost everything in my closet, I used a part of my savings to redo my wardrobe. I started educating myself mostly through Antonio and Alpha M. and it was showing quickly. If you can't do the radical wardrobe swap start small, build a classic wardrobe piece by piece then start experimenting to find your own style. I'm sorry there's no one tip to confidence and like Antonio and Alpha M. say "It's a journey, not a destination." I hope this helps you.

[@ExecutionStyleInc]

Tip: Figure out who you are, figure out if it's who you wannabe. If Not work towards that goal. Own up everything about you, your face, style. People can try and talk shit but if you straight up accept yourself their talking isn't gonna do shit.

[@tgwoolshire]

Mathieu Mclean you come across like a girl

[@MAXIMUS.503]

Turko MDF Do things that builds confidence believe in yourself know that you can do things just like any other person and YOU CAN throughout life you have to try to be brave

[@jules6856]

People that mind, don't matter and people that matter, don't mind

[@marcobasmer2628]

Define your own happiness.... !!!!!!!! There is nothing more important...

[@marymcdaniel4243]

Yea I dont really care what others think unless it's my job or family other than that I really dont care

[@SWLinPHX]

IN A NUTSHELL: "You wouldn't care what people think about you if you realized how seldom they do." ...and: "Don't compare your insides to other people's outsides."

[@willwhite2271]

its true, because when you are confident in who you are others will gravitate. And if they don't, you are still YOU...

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Will White good point

[@johnhouston4899]

Yes exactly like we are not alone and more people then we realize are going through the same things in life.

[@Deathend]

I remember that someone posted that getting others talk about themselves is a psychological trick in to making them like talking with you. I have always done it mostly on accident because I am a curious person, but the fact that you mention it and so accurately describe what happens shows that you know what you are talking about. Subscribed~

[@diogeneslantern18]

This is a well utilised strategy. Both Dale Carnegie and Napoleon Hill go into detail about this.

[@ouss9413]

As someone said:" only God can judge me ". Thank you for this video

[@abdulwaduudahmed2768]

Ryan B 2pac

[@raizim2753]

Even he doesn’t judge you🙏🏾

[@hbkjnhbjk1598]

Ouss 94 that should scare you

[@daudaslam7871]

ExplodingGarbage then goodbye

[@rainriso]

Ouss 94 it's it's a song from fast and furious Only God can judge me now

[@sorrefly]

Thank you very much for your advices! That video helped me a lot, and I'm actually the typical guy who thinks too much about what people think about me and I've always felt uncomfortable for this

[@RealMenRealStyle]

As humans, we are conditioned to think this way but there are ways that you can get around constantly worrying about this.

[@AnasElAbboud]

"you're looking for someone 's else dream." One of the best videos so far. Thanks Antonio.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks Anas.

[@03blaird]

Just want to thank you Antonio. Been in a pretty dark place the last few weeks, this video made me put some things into perspective. Much love!

[@MxdAzn9]

Great video! Too many people are concerned about other feelings about them.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+MxdAzn 9 Agreed. Especially people who compare themselves to other people.

[@bobwoods5017]

Doesn't matter what people who don't even know you, think of you..... Only you know who you truly are.

[@aaa3x678]

Thank you. So to stop thinking what others think, realize people really dont care about me so why should I care what they think and they too have there own issues.

[@danielb3863]

Here in Atlanta where I live, I notice most ppl who have a luxury car and sitting at the red light have an intense, worried look on their face in which a person with a Camry or Civic doesn't have . Makes you wonder all the stress they have in order to financially support all that imagery of illusions of wealth.

[@ROCKNROLLFAN]

I'm all about getting my life together so at this point in life, I really don't care what people think of me because I've done more than enough of that already...

[@charlie-flower-child4949]

Too true!

[@SLASHERamc]

I only have one social media- and I only use it to stay in touch with people- I don't even go and view their content, thats how I do it- and I don't even have time, I have so much on my plate.

[@davidgreenee7895]

Same. I think it’s a waste of time and pointless to watch people’s snapchat stories. Like I don’t care if you if you’re a eating a pb&j sandwich!!! LoL

[@danjbundrick]

You're frickin spot on in this video, and it means so much more coming from the guy who creates confidence in his audience. I think realizing that nobody actually cares about you helps build confidence that you can actually project how you want to be remembered on people (maybe you could comment on that). Thanks so much. I watch your videos and take them to heart.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

People who matter to you care but what you shouldn't let people dictate how you should live your life.

[@Dadee3]

Yes! Stop caring what others think and wear that BOW TIE!!!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Exactly! :D

[@WarriorSufi]

True......what you say is soooo true. Be thankful be thankful be thankful of what you already have!!! Many people dont even have the old slippers you are wearing....

[@farhanzahin6044]

That last tip!I can not tell you how much i appreciate that last tip.

[@garrettlarson1422]

Well, since I am 18 right now, what makes me happy is that I graduated on time, I get to buy things online independently now, I can enlist in the military right now if I wanted to, I can live on my own, being able to save up for my dream bike to be my first bike (1968 Triumph Bonneville T120R), and being able to save up for my dream truck to be my first truck (1968 Ford F-100 Ranger Trim Crew Cab), as well as being able to get a job to save up for my dream truck and motorcycle.

[@HerrMeier007]

I couldn't decide if I should text the girl I recently met and really liked! This video made me think "Why not? What could possibly happen?". So you're video already helped me! Thanks Antonio! Just in time!

[@HerrMeier007]

What should I tell? We've texted for the last few hours and will probably meet each other soon! Nothing special, but I'm glad this video gave me the balls to do it!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Exactly! It wouldn't hurt to try.

[@yyodi06]

I'm 21 years old and I've been dealing with this problem for almost my entire life. It blocks my growth, limits my freedom, etc. Recently I've started going out of my bubble and give care less about other's opinion. It makes me feel great and free. and thanks for this video, I gain even more confidence.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Awesome! Keep it up.

[@gordonbrandt9739]

My mantra for several years has been "What you think of me is none of my business" & that has helped me immensely when I start to have self doubt because of what others might think when I am in any situation.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Super! Good mantra.

[@laurazucchiatti8761]

I care too much of people think about me :(, I'm just 22

[@LuciasJourney]

Couldn’t relate more

[@williswayne1876]

Me too that always followed me my whole life.

[@abayomimarshall6425]

@@LuciasJourney how

[@maryawa18]

Me too,and I'm just 14

[@williswayne1876]

Mary Awa I wish I can be 14 again and tried the best I can. But you have time so try your best to not let anything get to you.

[@aaron-4062]

This has been the biggest problem in my life. Luckily I managed to fix it. It's so true that people are way busier with themselves. I learned that when I thought I completely embarrassed myself and I'd never recover, and then I found out that no-one even remembered. That moment changed my life. I haven't cared about the things other people think since. I'm here for myself, and if anyone wants to tag along with me that's awesome, but it's not the main goal.

[@awalton9024]

An admirable concept, the statement of which needs to be updated. Far, far too many people have taken it to mean that manners are unnecessary or that they don't need to be concerned with other people's feelings and sensibilities. If you love your twenty year old pick-up truck, screw what other's think. If you're considering showing up at your employer's black tie event aggressively under dressed, be damn well concerned about what others will think. Restatement: Don't worry about what other's think as long as you are doing nothing wrong.

[@sohaibhussain]

Wow man Fantastic video! I love how you pick up real topics and put it on video I mean that's just legit thinking that people don't have these days.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks!

[@tredfxman]

We live in a very selfish world. So you definetly have a point about this. First thoughts that runs through peoples minds about you, will always be just preassumptions. Very good & proper channel you have with practical advice! i come by here now and then when i see you in the news feed, & know i will find good stuff that can build you up!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

:)

[@hayleychang9484]

Thank God for youtube. If you use it the right way, Thank you for this video man I’ve suffered for years about what people care.

[@MrJimmy3459]

I like how you give not only style tips but more importantly you give LIFE tips.

[@tharchandran3709]

I'm a woman, but man, Antonio, gotta give it to you, you're amazing at what you do. Great father, great mentor.

[@hanimarwan9422]

Really thinking a lot about people's opinions of you drains your will power and motivation during the day due to the simply using mental power of worry and fault finding. Great video Antonio, I know that years from now u will be in your dream house not giving a damn about what the outside world thinks of u. Keep up the great work

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Exactly!

[@awkward-to-awesome9904]

Antonio, this is one of your better videos! I just wanted to say you have great perspective and it's awesome to know that there are people out there like you that speak truth.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Appreciate it - thanks!

[@kevinramirez4501]

I couldn’t thank you enough Antonio for your words of wisdom.

[@Unknown-sg4tv]

1:23 Realise most people don't really care about you 3:14 Stop comparing yourself to others 4:32 Define your own happyness

[@FlockedfinderHQ]

Thank you, Antonio. I needed this! I was denied by a female today. It seemed like we had a lot of commonalities, but she didn't want anything to do with me. I'm not hurt by it. I know someone special is out there for me. I know my value. :)

[@RealMenRealStyle]

That's the spirit!

[@FruityHachi]

define your own happiness is so important - people have this mainstream idea of hapiness with a college degree, 9-5 job, a spouse, kids, nice house and nice car, and when i tell someone i don’t want to have kids they think i’m crazy, and i haven’t told my parents yet that i’m not gonna finish school

[@BeOutstanding]

Great Content Thank You Rmrs Other ppl don't care about you. Let them talk. They only care about themselves. Stop compare. You ddunno what they went thro. Be grateful Define ur own happiness.

[@viyau]

Great video. Always having to live based on other peoples expectations is no way to live. Have thing you like and make you happy. So many people fall on a trap of having to keep up with the joneses or even with their own peers. BTW I was in a wedding once where I didnt know anyone, I went stag and it was a nighmare. I felt so uncomfortable, no one talked to me ugh, thank god for the open bar and cigarettes LOL.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Exactly! Find things to be grateful for.

[@larryhuggins4549]

thank you very much dude there are a lot of malicious neighbors I have that likes to talk behind my back and they're so passive aggressive that they talked just loud enough for me to hear and listening to you really helped me not give a damn of what their opinion are on me because they're not close enough for me to care so thank you a lot for this video

[@BeOutstanding]

Great Content Thank You Rmrs Other pple don't care abt u They only care about themse Stop compar Be gratef Happ first jus do

[@yassinkara3000]

Amazing video, very inspirational.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks for watching Kassin.

[@autopilot7353]

I'm just 13 but kind of helps I geuss

[@Turboman-kx7cc]

This video was retarded.

[@amazingwaffles6729]

This is the type of motivational talk I've been needing. Thank you and this deserves a sub.

[@Caillou17blox]

I don't care about worldly things but I always find myself thinking of what people think about me and I try hard to stop it and think freely and not give anyone power over me. Its not easy and I have to remind myself of this every time...WHO CARES IM DIFFERENT I LOVE IT😄

[@kmfdm10392]

I personally had a HUGE problem with this for years. I finally realized that I was (very futilely) putting more energy into making and molding the ultimately false perception of what others had of me than I was putting into making myself the best possible, real ME that I could. When I realized that those very few in my life that I share a real mutual respect for are the ones whose opinions matter to me and the ones whose opinions of ME matter - that's when it all fell into place.

[@jsouza723]

I totally agree with you that gratitude create more and more to be grateful about.

[@millar6070]

thankyou Antonio, i give the same advice every day, life is for living fun and joy either in work or home...

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Super!

[@RemyMartin420]

very solid video, life is all about finding that balance - leaving good impressions & not act like an self-centered person but not overly concerned with other people's opinion

[@RealMenRealStyle]

I completely agree! Being grateful and doing things that make you happy is important as well.

[@johnbehneman1546]

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! A MUST WATCH!!!!! THIS VIDEO WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR THE BETTER. LIFE IS SHORT AND EACH DAY IS A GIFT!!!! THANKS FOR SHARING AND I LEARNED SO MUCH!!!

[@Jut1911]

This video is a lot more than just looks and other peoples opinions. its learning some of the key values to a happy, not giving a crap life. Sadly, a lot of people struggle with these core values and still spread rumours or get into other peoples business.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Exactly! Exercise gratitude and find things that make you happy.

[@ipnotikfromitaly5094]

Those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.

[@jludwig5374]

This is a brilliant video. One more way I don't care about what others think is by being secure in your own identity. Don't let job title, financial status, or environment define your identity. Just like what was said in the video people are often too self-conscious to think of others but I always try to put others before myself and think of how I can serve others. It is easier said than done but it is a good habit to learn. Thank you for the amazing channel sir!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Exactly!

[@محمود-ش8ك5د]

You won't stop care about what other think of you until you stop care and think about other people The other thing you should take into consideration is that their opinion is not valid or above your own as other people are not that important or above you in noway

[@ramiebashir7260]

You put in clear words what I have been trying to explain to my friends for a while... simply another spectacular video, thank you!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Super! Appreciate it.

[@zulfphotography]

I like how you explain yourself. It's a great quality to have

[@andreirossi2147]

touche Antonio! family will allways be there for you, so only their opinion should matter. greetings from romania!

[@ThayHenri]

I think all of us knew all that. BUT we needed to hear the words. Thanks for your great work Antonio.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks for watching :)

[@jonl207]

Excellent advice Antonio! I'm not a youngster anymore, and I learned this quite a while ago and it has served me so well. Being human, I tend to forget from time to time and find myself caught up in caring what others think. But you are so right. Time passes quickly in life and one doesn't want to look back and regret. Thanks for relating this very important advice.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

I know what you mean. We're conditioned to think this way but practicing these steps should help.

[@onespeed9423]

I live my life doing what I need to do to be sucessful, how to accomplish my goals and be happy...my time and energy is very valuable and I use it on investing in myself...life is simple and beautiful...good video!😁

[@tofu916]

This video is great. I had a woman sitting next to me while I was streaming this to my xbox. She said she appreciated the knowledge and how it can be applied to woman as well, though it is primarily aimed at us gents. Great video. Thank you very much!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Awesome! It definitely applies to everyone - man or woman, young or old, rich or poor :)

[@MikeTFresh]

Well said!!! Tell them what's up Antonio!! Haha I sent this to my brother that's been having a hard time with this issue. God bless you for helping others.

[@dailydriverreviews]

Great tips! I usually carry myself in a way that people in the room always want to talk to me. I have defined my goals and I am only concerned with achieving those goals.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Awesome!

[@subramanigunashekar1414]

Thank u very much most needed video for me...I am reading this like my graduation...

[@dexburwell]

-been bending over backwards with family,friends and job (especially the job) ... In my head I thought to myself- "Damn, for all I do (or have done) these people act like they don't even care?" .... Well, time to focus on me..... Thanks Mr Antonio 🙌🏽

[@thedoctorssin5884]

All I can say is thanks a lot for this video bud. Nobody ever tells you this stuff in detail.

[@JamieHitt]

Excellent video! We have to ask ourselves if we have style...or simply mimic the style of others. The rhyme I recall is "Only follow a trend as a means to an end." All the content of RMRS is excellent. It allows us all to become educated on the timeless standards of style, then encourages us to take what we have learned and apply it to our own personal style in ways that are customized to our individuality. Allowing us to pay tribute to ourselves, while remaining respectful of the venue or occasion.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Hey Jamie, really appreciate your input. Thanks for the insightful comments.

[@XxDeathcorpzxX]

This video really helped me a lot, cuz I'm the person who also worry about others think of me. Thank you so much Antonio. Your videos help improve and inspire others. Keep it up.

[@jdhsingi]

Sound advice. Life is short....no time to live someone else's life. Build your own. Thanks for sharing.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

I couldn't agree more.

[@DevouredByWolves]

You honestly couldn't have posted this at a better time. Very powerful message, Thank You

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Appreciate it - thanks!

[@semifrankcoff5890]

Thank God I came here. God bless you.

[@katrinar430]

Love this video Antonio! As usual, spot on with actionable tips and examples.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks Katrina!

[@Farfetchd.]

i love these types of videos. Slightly philosophical with very practical advice.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

We have more coming - watch out for it!

[@ryanmelling4604]

thats my biggest down fall careing what people think about me comparing myselfs to others this video as helped 👍👍

[@PerformanceOver40]

This is great Antonio, so many men need to hear this (including myself). Growing and finding your own happiness, powerful. Sharing :)

[@rubikulelerubiksandukulele4607]

Thank you. God bless us all😊

[@jeffwoodcock15]

Thank you Antonio for a great video. It's good to have someone confirm these thoughts for us and talk about such an important subject.

[@jonathanleemason6633]

Just followed this KZbin channel. And what a great video. Great advice. I agree with everything what was said. Stop caring what others may think. And only care about yourself for once and of course the family.

[@skipperallen9872]

Thanks for the video,.. remember when it over none of these material things go with you , so figure out what makes you happy now , and own it with confidence. Never care what other think. WHY? BECAUSE they had absolutely nothing to do with you being here. Only the Creator of you and your parents ,should give you pause about the person you are.

[@BonnienClydeMiller]

I'm Jessicas husband and you are the one I look up too. Ever since I subscribed I have listened to you and have been more successful than ever. THANK YOU. DALLAS.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks Jessica!

[@BonnienClydeMiller]

Dallas. No thank you. You have to look the part to play the game. Your a genius. keep them coming .Haha and yes my wife watches it with me. Always to give me her opinion. lol

[@BonnienClydeMiller]

She was partly the reason I commented on the square toe dress shoe. She says the square toe looks more manly.lol. I do like them anyway.

[@patch7301]

Really excellent info Antonio. Every point you made were valid and were of substance. Since I have subscribed, to me, this has been your best. Very meaningful and purposeful, blessings!!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+patch Awesome! Thanks patch.

[@OperationFoxley19441]

This guy is on the button! Truth talker!!

[@1hej0k3r]

I'm absolutely in love with your new Intro!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks!

[@hydrovenom1]

This is something I'm really working on right now. My biggest take away from this video is 'Defining my own happiness'

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+Jimmy Lehman Glad this video helped.

[@thenuker2662]

One of the best videos i ever watched Antonio...u sure have wisdom...GOLDEN

[@dusty_dietrich]

Antonio, I love the new intro to your videos. Great visuals and music!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Glad you liked it, Dusty!

[@dacraka5476]

This was very encouraging. I will definitely come back to this video before social outings and just for plain motivation. You are a scholar and a gentleman.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Awesome!

[@EnVee215]

this is a great lecture. we walk around always worried probably because we see purselves as the protagonist in our own life.

[@bibin6766]

Self acceptance is the key to happiness.

[@CutieRingoJoy]

I’m been crying about being so consumed about people’s opinions and cry when I can’t be on the same page or relate

[@KenPharoah]

I really appreciate this video, great job!! Im an artist n i could be my worst critic when finishing up a song n putting it out there. This really lifted me

[@faridmahnad4985]

i hate to point out Antonio . . . . but the Collar!!

[@leukota]

He doesn't give a damn what you think

[@faridmahnad4985]

LOL,yeah totally planned!!

[@HAL900032]

farid mahnad that collar need love

[@Synthminator]

Good vid Antonio! One of the best advice on this Ive heard comes from a man called Dan Pena, and it goes something like this In the entire cosmos of time, any decision you make doesnt amount to a fart in the wind. You shouldnt be afraid of making them, and of anything other people think of you. In the grand scheme of things its all irrelevant anyway If you look at things like that, why would you worry about others opinions?? or even about your own. Just f'in do it.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Solid comment!

[@Wesker10000]

Wow. This is a very good message told in a very clear and concise way. Good job.

[@jacobsosa7229]

This is great. Made my day. Thank you.

[@AkhilMantra]

Excellent.. True and very thoughtful.