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@DiogoGaming2 Жыл бұрын
Hey julien, i watched a lot of your videos these months and they helped me just like you helped this girl, i learned a lot about myself and my insecurities and all that and i think i identified the major part of them and now im a lot better and more capable of identifiyng the things that trigger me but, i dont know exactly what to do now, i now i have to let go of them but i dont know exaclty how, i feel better when i do these exercices you talk about (like what the girl did in the video) but for some reason i dont think that is enough, i sooner or later get those back again. Can you make a video in more depth about how to trully "let go"?? The complete process, from the begining to the end and then, how to know if im really getting better and doing it right. I think that help a lot, not just me but everyone. Thanks a lot, you are being so important since i discovered your videos, you dont even know how much, thanks a lot! :)
@Rops1423 Жыл бұрын
@DiogoGaming2 Yes, I completely agree with this, and feel the same way!
@brucevanbeek3133 Жыл бұрын
Julien Just incredible awesome explanation of how to do the work. I have spent many hours listening to you and Owen Cook. You say you need to do more work on yourself as we all do ! That is most honest and humble of you ! Have you listened to Neville Goddard teachings on KZbin by Timeless knowledge or Emmett Fox. After you listen to them . Test the principles they point out and look back on your life lived. You will have a holy fucking shit moments many OMG 😲 😳 😍 😭. WHICH will be enlightening to you both. For me it started with Dr. Joseph Murphy The Power of the subconscious mind. Then Eckhart Tolle The power of NOW. This is all Devinly presented to me on my path of life. Then Neville Goddard teachings. New Years day 2024 Julien you were next . After many hours of work and enjoying your videos. I just wanted to share with like minded people this knowledge. Can help thousands of people to realize being . Bliss 😊 within ! My friend I haven't had coffee with yet ! Blessings 🙌
@ilyasalcantara6450 Жыл бұрын
i have that feeling too that i‘m not smart enough because i can‘t articulate myself properly even in my native language. when i work on it, it actually gets better, but i always need to prepare in my head what i have to say and i can never speak fluently and spontaneously.
@user-uk3jm1oe8v Жыл бұрын
I feel and I am in the exact situation! How do you do it? Can you give me some tips?
@Jesse-Viitanen Жыл бұрын
Me too! I wish you guys the best
@pc.9008 Жыл бұрын
Articulate the way it's you.
@BRONSTEINER Жыл бұрын
Get proper sleep, eat healthy food and minimise stress. Verbal fluency improves a lot when you have an optimised mind
@MsCankersore Жыл бұрын
Dude that’s been me the last 38yrs of my life. You described me in a nutshell. I now speak 3 languages but also in my native language (English) I’ve always felt behind everyone. What’s helped me out is reading and being interested in more things. Non-dualism also helped big time but honestly just owning my idiosyncrasies and flaws because there will always be someone better and something to improve upon.
@najiartstuff11 ай бұрын
The video game reference is like just because you changed your skin into something fancy doesn't mean you get better at the game.
@mshl114 Жыл бұрын
Gabriella is the kind of girl whose smile will make you smile as well✨ hopefully she is the happiest now!!
@fali6723Ай бұрын
She got the Julia roberts look….
@ZGballer Жыл бұрын
This guy changed my life for good.
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Amazing to hear! Glad my content has been so impactful for you! 🙏
@Izabela-ek5nh Жыл бұрын
Yes, same. A blessing he is :)
@LoudWhipzTV9 ай бұрын
B😢h
@ELPsMusic6 ай бұрын
@@JulienHimselfI've watched a few of your videos now and I feel better about myself every time. I have a lot of trauma from my childhood and learning how to cope or fix the obvious psychological issues that I've faced because of it has been a slow process. but I feel after watching your videos I feel better about who I am as a person. so thanks man I appreciate your help you're awesome 👍
@krissifadwa Жыл бұрын
Julien hugged her like a proud older brother at the end. So cute 🤗 💚💚
@sailaxmi73028 ай бұрын
I know right? So heartwarming to watch
@TheGalilee416 Жыл бұрын
The more she interacted and showed her genuine, natural self - and the accent *wow* she became so beautiful! Gabriella - you're amazing!
@ValkyrieBeatflow4 ай бұрын
This is the kind of content I’ve truly needed. Your videos have helped me feel so much more *free* to just be myself. The way you explain things is so clear and on point, it’s really shifted my perspective. I’ve watched a lot of your videos now, and one thing is crystal clear: we’re all a little ‘weird’, and that’s what makes us unique. I’m done with clinging to labels or endlessly searching for ‘who I am.’ That search only pulled me further away from myself. Thanks to your insights, I feel so much more liberated from other people’s expectations and the pressure society puts on us. I no longer feel the need so much to seek approval from the outside or pretend to fit in. You’ve shown me that true freedom comes from fully accepting who I already am, with all my quirks and imperfections. That realization has been life-changing. I just want to thank you for everything you’re doing and continue to do. Your videos have not only helped me see myself differently, but they’ve freed me from so many limiting beliefs that were holding me back. I’m excited to keep watching your content and continue down this path of freedom. Thank you again, truly! Greetings, Valerie
@Dreadtothink9 ай бұрын
For ages i’ve seen well known Jungians like Jordan Peterson talk about integrating the shadow. But they never actually talk about how do fucking do it! So thanks for this.
@potatowarrior7478 ай бұрын
I know right!!! That's absolutely what it is. Integrate your shadow, blah-di-blah, do good by yourself, for yourself. How the fuck though? This!
@yehawitsackerman25137 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this!! Every damn time it’s “what are the benefits” “what is the shadow” not here’s what you can do to integrate it
@JaneThatcher896 ай бұрын
‼️‼️‼️ What was that guy doing at the 1:00 minute mark, that Julien didn’t like? I don’t understand what happened that Julien corrected him.
@frankkennedy63882 ай бұрын
Aside from talking in the mirror, I don't get what else to do for "shadow work"? I've heard the idea of "Letting Go" a ton, but my mind can't grasp how that works in Execution?
@autisticsuicidal21 күн бұрын
@@frankkennedy6388 When you are emotional you are no aware why you are doing it. So shadow work is to understand who you are in every detail. Julian has a video called "Shadow work 101". Teal Swan also has very interesting insides
@m.h.1159 Жыл бұрын
She is my favorite person by far that you've had on. She was so relatable and easy to connect with.
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
She's amazing, yes... Massive respect to her! Glad this connected with you! 🙏
@tonyewa814011 ай бұрын
My broke up was just 2months ago😢it hurts
@arthurdoyle9 ай бұрын
27:13 this part right here is a CERTIFIED BANGER 🔥
@MartiZenith Жыл бұрын
Omg this girl is sooo beautiful 😍 and she articulates herself well too and has the demeanor of a kind-hearted, caring person ❤. it really sucks that she could have developed such a distorted self-image 😢
@MartiZenith Жыл бұрын
And that may have come from her family, peers, or perhaps the media. Whatever external source, it actually makes me very angry 😡
@vibhanshuOnKeys Жыл бұрын
Gabriella has a really authentic look and expressions. When julien is explaining things, she is just focus to listen and understand every word and link it to her past experiences probably. Otherwise she is just cheerful and engaging. Love this.
@dbone0248 ай бұрын
No one cares what you think 😁
@ThomasC99 Жыл бұрын
Cannot believe I wasted so many years of self improvement when I could of been doing this work the real inner work. Thankyou Julien!
@0oChrisHBKo011 ай бұрын
It all led to this. It wasn’t a waste. You’ve got this
@jaadthefirst39199 ай бұрын
@@0oChrisHBKo0beautifully put my friend
@sunfirelotus8937 ай бұрын
Truth
@dasshrsАй бұрын
Self improvement is overrated
@avatarfr999Ай бұрын
@@0oChrisHBKo0 same nothing wasted my Dear it was a step in your Journey surely made you more open for this journey
@Dustpuma1 Жыл бұрын
The best thing about Julien, is he doesn't tote himself as a savior or a new jesus he wears random sometimes crazy clothes that are like he just woke up. Modern Degniones? I can't spell but props to him for all he's done and I'm glad he is succesful in this!
@Rivanomega8 ай бұрын
He actually does that on purpose, just like the hair. It is to show that you can be yourself. Your hair, your clothes, they do not make you... YOU. It is your inner self that makes up who you are. Second to that, it also shows that you must not base your opinion of yourself on what others think about you. If you wear weird clothes or have fuzzy hair, it still doesn't change the actions and self-identity that you have as a person. Very clever!
@jeremiahduke3602 Жыл бұрын
I know it doesn’t beat one on one interaction with someone you’ve taught or you yourself but imagine a shadow work video where you ask a question and then record your response to the most common answers and go deeper and deeper and then end with exercises to help. It would be a huge video but each individual person would be able to jump through it like a pick your adventure book. These videos have already helped me in a big way and I’m grateful you’ve done all this. Your guided meditations are the truth for real. Much love ❤️
@Rops1423 Жыл бұрын
That ending made me shed a few tears, for her and for me. These videos hurt to watch, but by the end I feel so much better. Thank You!
@LosAngelesLaura Жыл бұрын
Same!!
@saibot0 Жыл бұрын
You could just tell how proud of herself she was when she did that scream at the end
@AishaAwaisu-ht8qe Жыл бұрын
The Shadow question “ Am I enough” made me realize that I actually don’t think I am. Just felt like I don’t measure up but as Julien says, measure up to what. I already am enough right now, I just had some deep acquired beliefs that make me believe I am not and I am willing to let all of that go. Thank you so much Julien you are saving lives❤
@lordsidious8311 ай бұрын
Man she was so pretty, its amazing what negative beliefs can do
@Kremerzhouse11 ай бұрын
Absolutely beautiful. Made me cry at that last “yes!!!!”
@erikametallica18 ай бұрын
You're so gentle and firm at the same time. I am fairly new to you, and binge watching/listening to your teachings. So relatable and real. Thank you!
@freespirit12 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this exercise. I triggered by the shadow questions especially about physical appearance. I will start to accept and say positive words about myself. It may take time but I hope someday I'm gonna believe that I'm beautiful and that I love myself for being me.
@LordMullins Жыл бұрын
This gentleman is really doing alot to, seriously help people. This presentation really hit home for me personally
@iamanamikadАй бұрын
We need more such videos of real life therapy sessions with people so others can unpack what’s bothering them and learn to work on it. It is hard to find a therapist that you can trust or feel comfortable with but watching others have a breakthrough helps
@normapascuales82306 ай бұрын
Creative expression thru flower gardening, painting, music, dance, writing, etc. will get your mind off yourself and make you feel beautiful and if you feel beautiful you will be more beautiful.
@KotakPandora69Ай бұрын
my tears drop when she hug julien and say "Thank you"
@realSpook Жыл бұрын
I'm still trying to get rid of this feeling of self inhibition It might have started with being told to be quite to not disturb people but I was told that I've always been a quite kid
@am_0567 Жыл бұрын
Thank you julien.i was suffering from insane social anxiety..by watching your videos I'm back to my confident self❤❤❤❤
@Ro7770 Жыл бұрын
Julien you've come such a long way and I want to emphasize my appreciation for the latest content 🥰🥰
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 🙏
@jaklair Жыл бұрын
@yellow0607 Жыл бұрын
Socrates
@savanniek Жыл бұрын
As a clinician I love to work with my clients on the shadow aspects that create the cognitive distortion and how we operate from the lens of those distortions to essentialy prove its truth. Confirmation bias… Its such amazing work to see the clients make the connections and see how they have been living a lie due to their own distortions stemmed from the shadow..
@rockiecheng309011 ай бұрын
Yes, I'm not run by disapproval or approval!!! Yes, I believe this is the Master Key to set oneself free from being a slave of what other's think or say of me!!!
@BlancasSeelentaenze Жыл бұрын
I can tell she's a strong soul. Thank you Julien for your help!🙏 She needed that.❤
@cenkersan6290 Жыл бұрын
I'm from Turkiye, everytime i watch a video from your channel, i put myself in a place of the person on the stage and it really helps to analyze myself and it really resonates. Even doing this seems to work, I can't imagine how much more would it be beneficial if I were to be next to you. Thanks Julien, you are great.
@njikings4690 Жыл бұрын
I'm watching from Ankara - Türkiye too
@blondelina4370 Жыл бұрын
when they boo-ed at her i literally started crying.. is that normal cmon 😭my brain jjust makes me think it's real or it just imagines for a moment.. ah.. also.. i recieved an email from your team Julien! about that online course and they are interested in talking with me.. it's been like 2 weeks or so and i'm so scared to talk to your team.. so anxious.. so scared to be involved or present on the course or being a center of attention even for a moment.. but id do anything to change myself and my life, ugh.. i hope i'll make it.. Greetings from Serbia! - Sara
@dusansekuloski2402 Жыл бұрын
Iskoristi sansu koju su ti dali, samo jako!💪
@RmX. Жыл бұрын
You will never forgive yourself if you don't do it now and you know this. Good luck!
@roberttillot11575 ай бұрын
I was trying to relearn subjects so I don't appear dumb. With Julien's logic I realized I'm only trying to appease other people or reinforce that I feel stupid. He's given me lots of aha moments like stop adding and start letting go.❤
@dasunit079 ай бұрын
It's true. We put a lot of pressure on ourselves (some much more than others) as a result of our influences growing up, to be somehow "better" than who we are. Hence, it's an endless chase to believe that we are enough versus knowing we are good enough NOW to exist. Good message by Julien.
@StevoSparta-tt5vu7 ай бұрын
Self-improvement should be because you want to do it for yourself, not because of someone else. I learned this the hard way; but honestly once I did it for me the fears I held dissipated and I realized that heck...the me I strove to become was more than what the person I originally set on this journey for deserved. So now I love myself, for myself and for my daughter.
@obi-wankenobi1419 Жыл бұрын
Julien, I have been on my own self-improvement journey and part of it included journalling to manage my emotions and philosophical beliefs to help me maintain my productivity. I came across the videos and the concepts you talk about hit every single point I had on my notes which I crafted to recognise patterns in my thinking. The author of 48 laws of power also has a video on the exact concepts you teach and its crazy but I don't think I have seen most self-help and self-improvement gurus ever talk about the things you mention. Everyone always preaches body language, what to say, frameworks for speaking, how to be confident, what to think, how to use the "exposure ladder" yet the actual answer is to just be authentic. It's like Jordan Peterson says, you either be authentic and face the consequence of who you truly are good or bad or face the consequence of living in a shadow of yourself.
@drewski8138 Жыл бұрын
I think we have that need of approval either because we need to feel loved or we want something someone has to get somewhere to have a certain thing or status. It feels good to be cheered and awful to be boo’d. Life will give you both of those even if it’s at your best effort, so Julien is expressing that you should enjoy it all. The good, bad and the ugly!
@krissifadwa Жыл бұрын
I love how he always uses that analogy. The one he uses at 08:24! So useful in your everyday life, if you can remind yourself this. Good work, Julien! You rock!
@thezzach Жыл бұрын
12:40 why am I not good enough? 27:30 Instead let go and remember that ive always been good enough
@LunarMarie Жыл бұрын
Your content is the most raw and authentic I've ever seen. This was simply beautiful. God bless you Julien. 🙏
@Gladiator462.3 ай бұрын
The problem i have is i underestimate myself and lack confidence. I am currently watching your videos to get guidance on whwre i feel i am going wrong.
@skatewithya179 Жыл бұрын
It gets weird when you learn astrology and it coincides with exactly what you are going through and how you handle things. Especially because the time you are born and day is what determines your natal chart. Like it’s pre destined… so obviously some of us aren’t as shabby when it comes to different things. Learning to love yourself helps allegory of Christ is the key. And to live by it id say…. And that’s what he is basically doing not letting the ego fears keep him from love of self and self acceptance
@ecolevm Жыл бұрын
This is good stuff Julien, thank you. I've been around since 2013 I love where it all led you to
@linalarue9 ай бұрын
Damn you Julien! Always got me crying with joy seeing these amazing people open up and be free!!!
@mord0 Жыл бұрын
Julien, one thing id keep in mind is that symptoms people want to get rid of are often required for their core beliefs to function. For example, someone comes in with low self-esteem and wants to feel more confident. They do all the work here and can’t seem to shake it. After exploring its function, said person unearths the core schema that “ I must never feel good about myself or I will succeed and surpass my own parent.” Assume coherence between symptom and belief system
@DiogoGaming2 Жыл бұрын
Hey julien, i watched a lot of your videos these months and they helped me just like you helped this girl, i learned a lot about myself and my insecurities and all that and i think i identified the major part of them and now im a lot better and more capable of identifiyng the things that trigger me but, i dont know exactly what to do now, i now i have to let go of them but i dont know exaclty how, i feel better when i do these exercices you talk about (like what the girl did in the video) but for some reason i dont think that is enough, i sooner or later get those back again. Can you make a video in more depth about how to trully "let go"?? The complete process, from the begining to the end and then, how to know if im really getting better and doing it right. I think that help a lot, not just me but everyone. Thanks a lot, you are being so important since i discovered your videos, you dont even know how much, thanks a lot! :)
@mmeping Жыл бұрын
Look for this: "Letting Go Technique Explained In 3 Easy Steps (MUST TRY)" Is already uploaded on this very channel
@DiogoGaming2 Жыл бұрын
@@mmeping I never watched that video, thanks a lot man, i will try it out for sure! :)
@antiprismatic Жыл бұрын
Thank goodness for this mans work!
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏
@AishaAwaisu-ht8qe Жыл бұрын
Gabriella is honestly so gorgeous couldn’t keep my eyes of her face it’s interesting to look at
@danter1126 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I guess this is what I feel is lacking in CBT. Shadow work is truly difficult, I guess there are parts of ourselves that protect us from our shadow.
@Thiago1337 Жыл бұрын
Good job on the table example
@berzatbabur84324 ай бұрын
Chasing dont bring happiness
@MarkSalehDawood Жыл бұрын
It is very important to believe in your own self-worth. yet it is as important to be self-aware. the "it's me" thing is trending, this is taking people out of their own self-awareness into a world of individualism and carelessness. balance is critical.
@joshmuirhead1154 Жыл бұрын
Really blessed to have found these videos lately. This shit should be taught in school, but that’s where we are conditioned most!
@blue_sky_bright_sun7599 Жыл бұрын
what a great session! so much value. thank you
@andyruu16 ай бұрын
Excellent, well done ❤
@jackyho5949 Жыл бұрын
Thinking is difficult that ‘s why most people judged!
@maryo401318 сағат бұрын
👏👏👏 i love this !!! Thank you !!!
@joustuous94747 ай бұрын
19:53 Not being smart or beautiful is nothing to be ashamed of. I don't think you need to force yourself into believing you're smart or beautiful if you think you're not but instead force yourself to not feel too bad about it by for example accepting that the avarage iq is 82.
@formalpotato58745 ай бұрын
This has to be my favorite of your videos. Absolutely amazing and inspiring ❤
@Skiplegday18591 Жыл бұрын
Amazing stuff, wish I could've seen it irl so I can sense the fake/authentic energy better than through a screen
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Here's my upcoming tour schedule for that: www.noanxietytour.com 👌
@TheBruceKeller Жыл бұрын
Anyone know the best Julien video on letting go of regrets? Maybe specifically missed opportunities / getting rid of scarcity mindset? I trade options, and any time I am close to a big trade but miss it, it really screws with me for a week or two; not to mention ruminating in other areas of life too.
@_cr8ive_7 ай бұрын
Lol . . .I could actually feel that hug at the end coming on . . .and then it was a double hug. Great session...🙌🙌🙌🕺🕺🕺
@katarzynafest2944 Жыл бұрын
@Julien is there possibility that Gabriela or others can't make complements on their self out loud because then we think "what would others think when I would just say IM BEAUTIFUL"? Sometimes I think that we are afraid to talk good about ourselves because we don't want to be judged by others and that others don't think about us as selfish, egoistic etc. I'm always wondering, if you can say to your loved ones "I love you, you are amazing, beautiful..." and so on... why can't we just say it about ourselves.
@Ronnie-Benjamin7 ай бұрын
I'm absolutely in love with this guy.
@mitotv6376 Жыл бұрын
Nice.. Julien has the best Shadow work
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@lilalto2036 Жыл бұрын
I cant stop doing things for others. My emotions depend on theirs. I'm hyper aware of their words. What should I do?
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Work on LETTING GO of this... Here's a good place to start: www.julienhimself.com/8p?l=yip2z0dj7x
@maruthimacha1847 Жыл бұрын
oet go
@xy2575 Жыл бұрын
Just let go of it.
@xcrxwadda8287 Жыл бұрын
Let it go
@MysticLuv3r Жыл бұрын
Let go mane. Easier said than done but all the resources you need are right here.
@Elbrusho Жыл бұрын
So incredibly powerful
@rishabhprajapati8423 Жыл бұрын
At 0:51, I felt something in my own chest when I saw the guy filming was conveyed that he shouldn't film. Logically I know that there are going to be times where you're making people a little comfortable with what you're doing and I know social awareness is key but for someone who is in between the way of complete social awareness, it still feels somewhat humiliating. How to handle that? Is it just that you tell yourself "Hey, it's okay that you were filming and you were told to stop it and mocked a little"? That guy might be feeling "Oh my god, everybody is laughing at me for filming this and being told to stop doing so!". Now ofcourse, Julien's intension might not be to call out on him or say mock him but there's a good chance that he'd feel humiliated (or at least I would feel that if I were in his place). I bet he'd even lost attention to what Julien said the next 30 seconds after that moment. I actually paused the video to post this comment. Thanksa lot, Julien for posting such videos! I always manage to find a lot of nuances with each of the video (even those nuances which you are not directly calling out!). Thank you so much!
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Hey there! The way to deal with this is exactly what I explain in this video here, when it comes to detaching your self worth from the approval/disapproval of others... What anyone think of you does NOT affect who you are as a person! 👌
@nickp3949 Жыл бұрын
@@JulienHimselfBut it affects your reputation and your reputation has a real effect on your life. If there’s a repeating pattern of people thinking you’re incompetent or socially awkward or whatever…that’s not good. What people think of you has real world consequences. Your reputation is important. It affects your social life, your career, your dating life, etc…you can’t just pretend that these things aren’t important.
@tigerpaws111 Жыл бұрын
It's pretty rude to film in a seminar setting when the person you're supposed to be listening to is right next to you and it would creep me out too. I think he handled it pretty well by making a joke out of it instead of getting angry, that would have been way more humiliating. Even then that feeling of humiliation comes from being insecure in the first place.
@rishabhprajapati8423 Жыл бұрын
@@nickp3949 It's the good old "It's not about the thing, it's about the place it's coming from". The nuance is that yes your reputation is important but it shouldn't run you.
@dindor138 Жыл бұрын
thank you for the epiphany😭 found the younger me i lost.
@chevchelioz6663 Жыл бұрын
This is the best self develooment video i have ever seen
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Glad this was impactful!
@tiburc10 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this
@chandler7270 Жыл бұрын
It was great meeting you in Dallas, keep it up man!
@authenticliving308610 ай бұрын
Idk why but i feel she was pretty grounded the moment she stepped up on the stage than most of the people that had stepped up on stage.
@marthamawanokasera3714 Жыл бұрын
Im struggling with low self -esteem,self love .,low confidence.i need help
@Isa-mw9zj Жыл бұрын
Gabriela!!!! ❤️💪
@user-kb3lo1fx1o Жыл бұрын
Hey plz reply When i am with my close friends i am very comfortable and confident but when i am alone in college or other places i feel very shy and awkward Whyy??😢
@marinaschulze13508 ай бұрын
I just want to be part of the group but i dont want to destroy it. And also i dont want to be destroyed by the group. So my greatest fear in live are just other people not me. I think i hate myself pretty much but really if i am alone im good with myself. I am not the problem and this realisation makes me free. I can ignore other people but i cant ignore myself.
@squrilygirlly3 ай бұрын
Music to my ears goes in one goes out the other (no shade)
@HarrisJamaalАй бұрын
Doing shadow work is still improving yourself. get it? Stop improving yourself and do shadow work I like it.✔️✔️
@zeyabenitez1375 Жыл бұрын
Regarding your practices when you mentioned like being smart in the video and saying you are smart can help our insecurities . Im conflicted I read a book called "the subtitle art of not giving a fck" and it basically said by doing these things your reminding yourself of something you desire and lack and instead of just being it
@prik472710 ай бұрын
You are changing lives bro
@AjaySolanki-vw5xb Жыл бұрын
Thanks Julien ❤
@gracemurrayart Жыл бұрын
She is beautiful like a classic painting
@FloofusTheCat Жыл бұрын
Shadow work is improving yourself. Speak sense.
@CyKo176 Жыл бұрын
I also have the same issue where I don’t feel smart enough, good enough. I also reinforce the lens to the point of extreme negatively. When he was saying you’re -this- all of it brought up tightness and man. Definitely got some shit to work on. 2nd video I’ve seen of this dude and absolutely astounding how just little nudge like he said brings up a ton of shit. Embarrassing as hell typing this but it’s online so it ain’t as bad
@sevenheaven198 ай бұрын
Wht was the book that he mentioned in this video?
@Dragonfly_magictarot7 ай бұрын
I feel like my ex would do this to me. Bring me up and then bring me down … if i was of service to him i was the best bla bla bla and if i wanted to establish boundaries or space .. i was cold and i was mean… and logical etc. I got so sick of feeling up and down. I finally broke free and said “im a human being! Im not perfect”
@JaneThatcher896 ай бұрын
‼️‼️‼️ What was that guy doing at the 1:00 minute mark, that Julien didn’t like? I don’t understand what happened that Julien corrected him.
@proper.role.model.819 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I believe in this 100%
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Glad this resonates with you! 🙌
@laetid84034 ай бұрын
Thank u❤
@JulienHimself4 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@sunshine-ci8nb Жыл бұрын
Well done ❤
@Twinadar5 ай бұрын
what about if a part of me is happy to have bouh ? and hate to be cheered ? i'm not sure of that but it's what i thought when i imagined in the situation .. is it that i hate people and tend to reverse the psychology ? (if they hate me its cool because i have contempt for them ..)
@rekikasegidew4041 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@bdalive5712 Жыл бұрын
Thank u so much sir..I was always struggling with these stuffs..u gave me a new perspective and solution to my problems..love u sir 💕💕
@normapascuales82306 ай бұрын
As a Christian, if we are made in God’s image, we are enough.