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[@user-oi3tb4ie6t]

"You deserve the consequences of your actions, and if that sounds like an insult, you are doing something wrong". Damn, that realy clicked something in my mind

[@kntrishdekanoidze1382]

this must be a first comment in the comment section.

[@ennui5819]

But what if it isn't? What if I want the consequences of my actions? Am I then doing the right thing?

[@jaidenbal7273]

@@ennui5819 you’re all good then bro, that’s exactly what you should feel about that statement, hence why it’s so powerful as it solely depends on what your actions are

[@kntrishdekanoidze1382]

@@ennui5819 yes whatever you doing whenever tou doing you should realise what consiquences .

[@gabrielpirry]

@@ennui5819 Evil springs from a wicked soul or from the lack of knowledge. You probably are doing the right thing, or are doing something awful and not knowing the outcome or what are you doing, you want it. Be certain.

[@spo6273]

As a female (23yo), I find this message empowering for women. The better we are, the more high value men we can attract. My bf and I have been together for 5.5 years, so we're no longer in this race lol, but my goal is to become a better woman, therefore inspiring my bf to become a better man.

[@Sravan.Allopi]

Hopefully your friends will be inspired by your movements and you all grow together.

[@pancakes_go2940]

amazing mindset you have, instead of taking this as derogatory towards women you see the true message, you're an absolute Anastasia!

[@nathancasey7712]

You're kinda still in the race because the chance y'all stay together forever is pretty low. Although I hope you do

[@ellgndd5343]

@@nathancasey7712 If they are really for each other (If God chose them to be togehter) and if they are moral and good people They will stay together forever.

[@adeekivlogs105]

@@ellgndd5343 you sound like you don't really have much experience dating

[@beamie5728]

This is the kind of talk our dad should've had with us but this clearly indicates how we're brainwashed by the society and fathers are pushed away from kids that we need so much of this content. This guy is fulfilling the role of our dad.

[@wabc2336]

This is crazy lol

[@ISOPROPYLxBENZENE]

Thats sad 🥲 i wish i had dad who thought this is my childhood like age of 13-14

[@D.A.N.....]

​@@ISOPROPYLxBENZENEsorry

[@naivjay]

Hamza, in February I had no direction in life. I felt like I was just going along with what my family was doing because i had no other option. You’ve helped me a lot dude. Now i’m back again, coming out of a slump. Trying to run faster in the race. I’m here for inspiration, motivation, and dedication. Do more videos like these. Serious shit. This is not a game. This is life. I need you keep telling everyone that. And telling me. Thank you man. 🙏🏽

[@stelfox5028]

This video may be depressing for some people but I feel like such direct and powerful words energise me and most to continue to improve. I want to climb above people in this race and help others pick up their pace too. Thank you for this message Hamza 🙏🏻

[@Emerald_Forge]

I think its a bit of both, depressing because if you're watching Hamza you've most likely indulged in these activities and perhaps lowered your potential

[@gabrielpirry]

@@Emerald_Forge "Potential is only the expression of a possibility...."

[@jw-ws8dz]

Ever since I stumbled upon this channel, I became infinitely more grateful for the things that my dad has taught me. While he wasn't completely present in my childhood since he was busy with work, he always tried to spend as much time with me and my sister as possible. Since a young age, he taught me about delayed gratification, that one must not dwell in comfort, even though I grew up in a good environment, and that you need to become strong to get what you want in life. I didn't grow up in the West, and while I there are things about my culture that I don't like, I appreciate that being competitive is drilled into us at a young age (luckily, my family did this in a non-toxic way).

[@sickna-sty3244]

nice, i love to hear a successful solution to teaching morals. See my father for the few years he was there taught me meaningful lessons about respect by *redacted* if I ever disrespected him, and so on. Problem is toxic solutions only work on those who are capable of forgiving the solution and seeing the result. Which is why kind & comassionate ways > violent & aggressive ways

[@avoider707]

@AMVH he is most likely Russian or Balkan

[@jaro551]

@@avoider707 That's Western tho right?

[@RSw_Why]

@@jaro551 do you think that any country thats not japan is western?

[@jaro551]

@@RSw_Why Do you think meth is good?

[@IRL-RPG]

This really set me up with so much urgency. I've been slacking off for quite a bit because "oh I can always get better tomorrow, I just need to get better at my own pace" NO I DO NOT. There's people out there waking up, getting so much work done, advancing on their lives and I'm just sitting there letting it happen? Why would I let that happen. I won't.

[@ViltrumiteIsRite99]

Yes sir! Tbh, I’ve been ignoring Hamza vids to *let* myself slack off. Disgusting. I’m glad this is the one I clicked on.

[@zhu6908]

keep that in your head, always

[@peppermentally4317]

Gigachad

[@rithvikmedasani363]

same brother... I WON"T SLACK

[@Zombiepoptarts]

This is a powerful message. A reminder to fortify, and to never let that fire in your belly go out. Strive to do and be the best you can be, because you attract what you are.

[@realmarkoknezevic]

Hamza, I am so grateful for you spreading the message for deleting social media. I deleted instagram on May 30th this year and the positive mental effects after that are immeasurable. Happy to see so many people do it now. You won't regret it

[@The_G_Edits]

A day before my birthday lol

[@jamieconnor3505]

I also deleted Instagram and I think that it is an act all men should take

[@jaxonferdiands8045]

Great job man, keep up the good work.

[@slickfinger4577]

Deleted mine 2 years ago, made a new one this year for just my closer mates so I can keep up with them. Best thing i ever did

[@penguinlord-yt9xc]

What do you use to stay connected with people?

[@rogeliolargo5341]

Sneako moment

[@aayush.b9891]

am i the only one who likes sneako and hamza

[@bratwurststattsucuk4517]

sneako be like: its the systems fault that someone bangs my gf infront of me 😡

[@adamleslie8651]

@@aayush.b9891 No they are both very insightful, I hate that they've had drama

[@aayush.b9891]

@@adamleslie8651 honestly the drama was so fucking stupid i cant care

[@krypticcryptic5752]

Which girlfriend was it?

[@cursedemperor9600]

Hamza already has finished the race, but he ran back to help other finish or go further than they normally would have gone. ❤

[@dnd21]

race never over bro

[@cursedemperor9600]

@@dnd21 yeah i realized after i watched more

[@shantanudev8576]

Hamza, honestly you have changed my life and I am grateful for it. On self improvement for more than 4 months now and I can see changes in my social environment the way I think, the friends I hang out with, with girls, in my physique and intellect. I do relapse in between and i feel really really guilty but I will definitely improve that this very month. Thanks. Means a lot. I am 20 right now.

[@ashwinpande7095]

Hey man I’m 20 as well and I really want to start this self improvement journey but I keep failing/relapsing. I just always find a way to go back to my old self. Do you have any advice on how to keep going and reduce those relapses?

[@DeprincipioaFin-xd]

​@@ashwinpande7095Search for the goals that requires changes in your habits, and know that you deserve shit if you do not have discipline, love you, and I am waiting for your success

[@the_one_03]

My father is an old school. He built himself from nothing and there's a reason why everyone respects him and how much alias he has. He is in his 50s and still look like 30 and gets the eye from women that i have seen. stable Strong men always win in life. I am building myself a bit slower and need to gas it up. I believe we can do great in life.

[@aamishazeem3770]

That is EXACTLY how my father is. He's in the army do obviously fit and self made.

[@the_one_03]

@@aamishazeem3770 yeah they’re a different breed eh. We gotta ante up too brother 🫱🏻‍🫲🏼. Enough toxicity already.

[@the_one_03]

@@aamishazeem3770 ahh you studied in icse, remember the cbse 2020?

[@shhh994]

you are lucky, my friend. You have a target, someone to try to overtake. i hope one day you look down to him and he looks up to you after a great transformation. godspeed

[@the_one_03]

@@shhh994 I intend to do so. Godspeed to you too friend

[@FXG4MERR]

Honestly I’ve known this from the beginning. I started self-improvement because I knew that every guy my age was levelling up, for example going to the gym. I couldn’t let myself decrease in value whilst everyone else boosted themselves. The quality of average man is increasing.

[@user-sb5vt8iy5q]

the quality of the average man is decreasing lol, but those 5% who put in the work are better in quality

[@GN0MEz]

@@user-sb5vt8iy5q yeah agree, average guys are getting weaker and lazier. Everyone is distracted. Which makes it easier to stand out. Maybe part of it is also that the top 5% of men are way more visible than they were in the past

[@Axxxel_in_Harlem]

@@user-sb5vt8iy5q How is it decreasing when the number of people that go to the gym and eat healthy, etc, is becoming more and more common?

[@Axxxel_in_Harlem]

@hive mind So you're saying that fitness culture and healthy food popularity haven't risen? Obesity rates might be higher, but there's no denying there's more fit, muscular people today than a decade ago.

[@Hawkard]

@@Axxxel_in_Harlem that's just because there is more people alive, not because the general population are investing in their fitness. back in the day there were way more necessity for hardened, strong men than there is today, because said strong men of the past created our times of today, the same catchphrase everyone uses "hard times create strong men, strong men create good times and good times create weak men" and the cycle continues.

[@rohitrnaidu]

You will never know how apprecated you are my brother. All that you said is true and not dark at all, and for those who think so are actually weak. And this life's success ain't for the weak. Thank you Hamza 🙏🏽

[@seansimms2791]

Hamza I was addicted to meth and Xanax for years so this message hit hard.. I'm now 36 and I've been clean a year and in the gym being better everyday.. I owe alot of that to u and ur videos.. but yes, I'm far behind in the race.. my wife, which I've been with, for over 11 years stuck with me.. we have 2 little girls and I'm lucky they stayed around.. I personally know the race isn't over and I'm catching back up day by day but I have experienced consequences for shit I did.. but I'm catching up my brother.. thank u

[@hidingbehind7256]

Hope your still clean man

[@thab1237]

“Life doesn’t give you what you want, it gives you what you deserve”

[@nihalmahto7781]

Life doesn't give you what you deserve It gives what you think you deserve - Iman Ghazhi

[@sirexcellence7081]

So be happy about it, and self improve everyday.

[@ErzakMK]

To add nuance to your point, I'd add that life isn't a sprint but a marathon. So having fun, slowing down for a bit, taking a break is all part of the race. Slow and steady wins the race and by never allowing yourself to breathe you'll only burn yourself out. Ofc i'm aware that 99% of people don't need to hear that because they are already resting for too long or have stopped running completely, but I thought the message lacked a bit of nuance so here it is.

[@achilles7736]

Resting and having fun aren´t the same.

[@ErzakMK]

@@achilles7736 yes they are Having fun is a form of rest Are you saying we should aspire to a life without fun ?

[@Marcel-zt7rg]

This right here. You should have time to have fun while still competing in the race

[@shhh994]

the race is fun and addicting tho, you gotta admit that at least

[@dynamicpaintball]

@@ErzakMK fun should be a reward you get to experience from time to time, and you should take the time to enjoy it when it happens. But a life pursuing solely fun is nothing but hedonistic and meaningless. Meaning is responsibility. Meaning is carrying a heavy load, whatever load is assigned to you, to the best of your ability.

[@4shz.]

im honestly disappointed i didn’t come across your channel sooner, ever since i started watching you i’ve learned so much, thanks for the truth hamza.

[@muhammadumair6435]

Hardcore truth Bro, I have been watching you for the last couple of weeks, and I see value in me more and tbh more clearly thank you

[@yvngjojo88]

Hamza I'm really grateful for you being really upfront and unfiltered, especially in these topics. I'm really proud of your journey and you inspire me!

[@TeePatREAL]

I know this comment will get lost in a sea of others, but I want to thank you so much for starting me on this. And more importantly, uploading this video today. I had been practicing gratitude, exercise, and meditation for nearly all of July, along with other habits I added on. I recently stopped after enjoying vacation and taking part in so many cheap instant pleasures, falling off the bandwagon after just managing to break into the 100lbs line again after being over 200lbs. This is the reason I am going to get back on, For you man. I hope I can race you to the very end, even if I do have a lot of ground to make up, and a lot of laps to get back. Ill put in the hard work, so I can run side by side with everyone else you have encouraged. Thank you, man.

[@sabertooth_shark5047]

Don't worry bro. Found your comment before it got forgotten.

[@sabn9139]

W

[@sexytimeDUMA]

The same thing happened to me recently as well. Best of luck to both of us.

[@barondelachasse8193]

best motivation video that i ve seen in my life

[@notrealecho]

At a time when I'm really spoiling myself and living low, I'm really glad to stumble upon this video. Hence, I've made a resolution to fix my life before next year and win the race eventually. Thank you so much for sharing this bitter truth, Hamza.

[@amqs6273]

Hamza literally changing lives no cap

[@rohansharma4785]

Hamza, I rarely comment or even subscribe whenever I am on KZbin, which is a lot more than I care to admit (although thanks to your teachings I have learned to reduce greatly). You have honestly been a revelation for me and while I know your content is primarily aimed at a younger audience, you have given me at the age of 34, a chance to reclaim my life. Your videos have burned a new flame within and I now follow the habits you have taught of doing gratitude journals, meditation, exercising each day, eating well and you have got me reading again. I am currently in the middle of "How to win friends and influence people." I plan to read the Tracey books as well. My weed use defnitely fucked me up in university and most likely affected the trajectory of my life. I have now reduced usage to only after 9pm every night, and the ultimate plan is to reduce that to just weekdays and try to keep weekends, weed-free. Do you think I can change it all around at 34?

[@red7332]

Write down your goals, set up a plan with noumerous small good habits and do them every single day; after a while the compound effect will take place and you will see the trajectory of your life change for the better.

[@jessikablake4784]

im 35, i think regardless how far behind we might feel theres an obligation to keep the struggle because that is better than surrender (commitment) to a further "fallen" version of ourselves as a life fate rather than.... its not revolution cuz that gets back to where it was, another specific r word.... spending to much time tryna remember but its like revolution except it goes somewhere new.... that plus manifest destiny regardless the wins and setbacks

[@rc1446]

Yes you can change your life around at 34, because what else would you do?

[@thisismakneto2296]

Its not about what he thinks about you being able to change your life around or not, its about what you think of it and what you do about it

[@childishlandino7697]

yes rohan we're in it

[@alexismwangari1956]

Talking to you, Adam 22...

[@RBXMrKid]

thx for opening my eyes dude, I actually started doing push-ups while listening to your videos

[@DARYLDIX0N]

hope you've kept it up

[@Meryto1]

Started watching you at the start of this year, when my ex gf dumped me, and oh boy, i was devastated. Thanks to your videos i started hitting the gym, lifting weights, working harder than ever, and im impressed by the progess i made. Im happy with my body, got a new girl, life is way better since a followed your lifestyle. Thanks for teaching me Hamza, and keep the grind boys

[@boriskrustev4070]

Brother stupid question but what's the difference between lifting weights and going to the gym? I hit the gym but idk if thats a specific thing im missing

[@abyssary8796]

@@boriskrustev4070 They are synonymous if you are doing dumbell exercises, benching, dead lifting when you are at the gym

[@Foralluhaterz]

Getting a new girl who'll dump you too isnt the answer. Work on yourself first then women will come

[@boriskrustev4070]

@@abyssary8796 thank you

[@shadxw_hunter]

@@boriskrustev4070 That's not really his point though

[@alvishwyd]

The most serious i have ever seen Hamza, legit made me tear up because of how much of the truth he was speaking, my eyes had already been open but to have this as extra light to my eyes i appreciate it hamza, thank you for being the father i never had ❤

[@ericbaxter3944]

Finally, someone said it out loud. This message needs to be heard by everyone.

[@BorealSlayer]

What message? That you should be afraid of "other men piping your wife"? Ok.

[@asherdayne6157]

i just turned 17 last sunday , I've been working out 6 days a week and getting big, thanks for the heads up man i really needed you to remind me of this. I Will Race and outperform the other men competing with me ,Thank you hamza

[@ballistic2247]

14:05 - 14:23 Love this one. It puts into perspective so perfectly how people cope with being sub-standard.

[@LP-nk4si]

Please shut up

[@mrmiro2356]

It's a blessing to have hamza reminds me every day about the mission I'm doing. Big love for you brother

[@tareqqazi2029]

Hamza, this video probably has been the most influential for me. I know I just watched it yesterday but I started the day today not sleeping in, working out more frequently (also looking for better form), getting really serious about my startups, and trying to waste less time. Deleted instagram too

[@samdekker90]

Been on a roll with running every day, meal prep, not eating KFC, minimal gaming. But this morning fell into a slump and slept in. Stumbled across this and got it put back in perspective. Getting outta bed to go running now. Cheers man!

[@irishgroyper6942]

I'm loving this new slightly more aggressive hamza that has come about since I last watched him.

[@amerstain]

this takes the meaning of a soulmate to a whole different level. The person who's yours, and only yours if you live to a certain high standard required to DESERVE them. I will have to upgrade things too, such as this channel. Thanks Hamza :)

[@criptik5208]

What if your ones arleady lost her virginity left right and center? So better speed up

[@punu3675]

Yeah

[@ace9848]

WE DON'T HAVE TIME TO DO EVERYTHING IN LIFE BUT WE HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO DO WHAT WE TRULY DESIRE

[@hasturiel]

You are a real man, bro. Manly man. You're absolutely right and I agree with you.

[@toruyoshida8478]

Hamza, bro. I just want to thank you on this one. I’m so fucking grateful for every word you’ve said, overall an particularly in this video. You did what should’ve been done. You’re reviving the manhood and masculinity. You are The Man

[@elementseb3735]

Hamza I have discovered your Channel in March , and I know I am on the good path because everything you say was already in the back of my head as a little voice that was keeping me sane in dark times , as we are speaking now I am on my way to become an entrepreneur, creating unique custom model cars for my clients all over the world. And Shipped my first car to the United States today ... I did not learn much from you, you just reinforced the good thoughts in my mind that helped me improve on every aspect of my life. Being in shape and having an " alpha male" physique is also vital for every man to be considered normal by today's standards , if you're not improving you are regressing. Always always go hard.

[@epictrollsandhowto]

This just sounds like you’re doing self improvement just to get a woman of your dreams but i wanna do it to feel fulfilled and happy inside

[@francescotota7825]

Me too my brother, but i still take Hamza’s advice for motivation to not let another man surpass me. Even if I don’t really feel that a woman is what I need to stay fulfilled.

[@user-yu4ps3rh3p]

youre coping, doing it for yourself when your inner human nature of being a man requires peace to be along side have a woman to satisfy you ...

[@sebastianschakel8926]

What do you think being first in the race is?? Prolly constantly working to "feel fulfilled and happy inside".

[@Maraien]

Obtaining the mother of your children is a part of your being fulfilled and happiness.

[@francescotota7825]

@@Maraien Right

[@kisen6545]

I was always extremely competitive but the teachers hated it and told me that life is not a race Our whole social system is based on the jeffry system when even teachers teach u something like that I was lost I was a fucking jeffrey but I am on my journey to self improvement now (currently 16) soooo.... Thank u hamza I love u bro❤

[@ruvv_6464]

I feel u bro

[@terryyoung4211]

Don’t listen to these stupid idiotic teachers bro, these people don’t even deserve to be a teacher, stay hard, stay restless, and be yourself! (You could still improve your knowledge by them but we don’t listen to their shitty advises)❤

[@D.A.N.....]

Bro I was born 2006😢

[@rundasleaf9383]

While I do agree to a point, this is getting borderline. You have a point with people wasting time on frivolous things. But going all work 100% will leave you with nothing as well. Also Get the fuck out of cities. You'll never find quality people in them. I've followed you for a while and found myself because of it. But you're starting to sound obsessed. Not every man can be in the 1% that's the nature of the world and the cruel reality. Don't give false hope. However, everyone can find an amazing partner. You just need to temper expectations and not settle for trash. And again, get out of cities. They corrupt passively., even the air you breath is toxic and so is the water. Work on yourself physically mentally and spiritually and find grounded people. Don't just go hard in the paint, because most of your viewers are going to fall for a pretty girl whose good at lying.... Tons of them in the city.

[@jkfd97]

A slither of false hope will destroy more than all of the nihilism in the world. Neither are ideal, but there's no worse situation than believing you can change the unchangeable.

[@LukeSpurgeon.]

Bro I love the aggression in this video 😂 kept me very captivated throughout. Extremely insightful and I absolutely agree

[@Skyln255]

This is my preworkout.

[@franklinv69]

Thats based af The prospect of another man fvcking my future wife is my biggest drive and motivation

[@jager1394]

I love this version of hamza. Honest, upfront, harsh, unfiltered, unedited, this is what I have missed.

[@SahajTalwar]

I've been doing this thing quite often recently, I look back at the times in my life when I was absolutely, crazily, madly in love with a girl. I look back at those times with so much fondness, so much happiness, so much gratitude. The feeling of being in love really is like no other, where you're in a short of a trance all the time, you're just happy, you're just smiling for no reason, everything reminds you of her, there's nothing wrong in the world. Over the past couple of years, I'd been telling myself that I'll never allow myself to fall for somebody to that extent again. But over the past couple of months I've realised that its not a feeling I want to sacrifice, its not an experience I want to forego for the rest of my life. I, now, look back at those memories with nothing but fondness, and think to myself, "I cant wait to experience that feeling again." I use that to motivate me. Because I know for a fact, that the more I improve, the better the woman whom I finally do fall for is going to be. This helps motivate me even on my worst days.

[@theknight7229]

The first girl ur talking about I assume u broke up ofc right?

[@grayhound5863]

Beautiful mindset to have.

[@Samurai_X_Batman]

@@theknight7229 yepp

[@iJustNeedAWoman]

Dang it hamza, ur amazing bro, thank you so much, this video made me wake up a little bit more, the hard work... specially when you don't feel like it...we all are gonna make it, c'mon everyone show some motivation!!

[@lxeluciano791]

i listend you this while working out & i’ve never worked out so hard in my life

[@michaelscreations1406]

Thank you Boi

[@PugrillaEggy54321]

I'm 14 and I'm so glad I found this channel now rather than in my 20s

[@manlyfeller4244]

Hamza out of every video you've made this one has given me chills. You've got better at getting a point across well. Edit: watched further and you are truly as frightful as my Indian Math Tutor

[@montyrama]

probably the best video by hamza by far

[@dakshbains9538]

I am so lucky I heard this at this young age. Thanks brother

[@KingTheodore100]

Wild title but the message is clear. Keep on shinning kings👑

[@aabahdjfisosososos]

This is a special video specifically made for Will Smith.

[@Strobzz_SW]

Hahahahhaha Broo 💀

[@TheREALHugo4]

Since that slap.

[@Crusher888]

I remember when I was a kid and watched I robot…Back when will was still a cool guy

[@jdshotit]

LMFAOAOOO

[@Row_of_E]

"stop letting other men _rock_ your wife"

[@pedrogimenez3792]

the only thing i want to remark is that sometimes the competition is misunderstood. For example, in the gym, you can consider that the guy that is most muscular and strong is winning the competition to the guy that is athletic but is not as strong as him. But maybe, for that guy, the goal is to be the healthier as possible, and not to lift the maximum weight and f*ck up his joints. So, the competition is to be happy as a person and everyone has an interpretation of happiness and success.

[@tomczyktomczyk5758]

Today I journaled about quitting KZbin just as I quitted instagram and facebook. I was just about to do it when I saw your video. It made me even more determinated to quit and win the race. I just want to thank you Hamza for all you did to me and I hope we meet one day to talk about our journeys.

[@jkfd97]

Quitting KZbin is completely unnecessary. It's what is needed to stay sane in a world that makes no sense. The only outlets of truth you will find are on KZbin (and other places such as Rumble, Locals and Odyssey, sure, but the volume is far greater on here clearly). KZbin is not social media. It is video-hosting that provides people the means to discuss the ideas in a video via comments. TikTok and Instagram are five second dopamine hits with no consideration for discussion and absolute consideration for instilling FOMO and pressure into purchasing products and spending money (mainly through OnlyFans).

[@chewy99.]

This is actually a great and compelling way to visualize this, thank you Hamza.

[@emilbjerg4651]

the title of this scared me, i didn't want to hear it, but i'm so glad i clicked, hamza is a very very fucking rare person that can actually get through to me, thank you for this, i needed the reality check

[@miru_tree5371]

Ouch. That hit me at the back of my head... Thanks Hamza!

[@TejDhr]

Adam22 should've watched this video

[@Adam622]

Hamza I stopped watching your videos a little while ago because I felt all the stimulation from the editing was doing me more harm than good and I could probably find similar information in one of the books you recommended without all the stimulation, I clicked on this video because the title was captivating and this video legit provided me with genuine information I needed to know, I’ve been messing about lately at festivals going out with girls not uploading on my KZbin channel and I thought it was fine to do those things because of modern society. Thank you Hamza for reminding me there is no time to waste 🙏

[@suraj16]

I made an account on KZbin years ago and because of you i started making videos Thanks for making me believe in myself

[@nicugabriel647]

Wow! I really nedeed to hear this. Finally, you opened my eyes to see the truth. Thank you Hamza. I am truly grateful for everything I've done because of you.

[@ethan_ray_ray_2575]

Thank You Hamza.

[@runitup647]

I'm sharing this video with my wife and her BF as we speak, thanks Hamza!

[@shafaet1194]

With who

[@shafaet1194]

Smart reply kiddo

[@uttam_k766]

@@shafaet1194 with her best friend *

[@JuicemanZ08]

I appreciate how Hamza explains stuff, more men need to start waking up to this reality before the dark times truly face us.

[@iliaskessakis6766]

I have watched half the video and i already gotta say this has been one of my favourite and most important messages for me yet. Thank you Hamza

[@ali_9506]

I really appreciate these unedited old videos.

[@jultimate7108]

This idea of competing against others doesn’t lead to fulfillment. I went down that road and all the benefits of my self improvement started feeling like they were never enough. At my most productive I started resenting my life and would look down on myself for the smallest setbacks/failures. While I think Hamzas advice is usually on the money, this way of thinking is flawed. One needs to find a balance that’s suitable. Long term growth is key and keeping the big picture and passions as your first priority is the way to fulfillment. Others are entitled to feel how they want but I don’t agree with Hamza’s stance in this video.

[@shugyosha7924]

If you think success is unfulfilling just wait til you experience failure.

[@warlockiii1846]

@@shugyosha7924 I don't think that this was his point

[@TheUcHiHaMaD]

@@shugyosha7924 jesus christ hamza fans are so braindead

[@shugyosha7924]

​@@warlockiii1846 Let's look at it. "Competing against others doesn't lead to fulfillment." Competing against others is the way to achieve socially recognised success in the world. Short of renouncing worldly desire and living as a monk, we're all in the same game, and we're wired to feel emotions according to how well we're doing relative to our peers. The satisfaction of success may be fleeting, and competing may be stressful, but if you spend 10 years watching KZbin documentaries because your passion is True Crime, not only will you not get fulfilment from it, you'll suffer the sting of being rejected by women as well. Moreover, fulfilment by its nature is fleeting. We're not wired to experience lasting satisfaction in the absence of achieving some kind of meditative transcendental state, so the aim of chasing some kind of attained level of fulfilment is flawed from the beginning. We're humans and social creatures - we're wired to find meaning in the social relationships we form. If you prioritise indulging a "passion" over working hard at something society recognises value in, you will struggle to form those relationships and in my opinion you'll be worse off for it because of the way we're wired.

[@warlockiii1846]

@@shugyosha7924 yes this all might be true but that's not what @J Ultimate tried to say. I think he said that while a certain degree of competition is important, being in a constant battle ain't for everyone. Yes this sounds like an excuse but I personally relate to this quite a lot. Being a perfectionist means that every little fucking detail you see that you don't like about yourself drags you down in a deep hole when you're not careful. Combine this with constantly comparing yourself to others. Yes it might bring you forward and will help you with a successful career, but when this very competition kills every emotion in you, makes you hate yourself and assures that you see everyone around as a potential thread (hence someone tries to get your place), it ain't worth it. When you feel depressed and lonely, you won't get bitches because this takes energy you don't have. You won't get friends because everyone is a potential thread. It nullifies ever, bit of progress when it literally kills you. See, no profit. I've been there to some extent and mentioned stuff is a thing. Some can go out hunting their goals for 25 hours and 8 days a week but some can't and that's fine as long as they balance their stuff out.

[@BB-zv8tx]

This is the best video you have put out till today Hamza. Massive respect.

[@Ocer.]

Every time I remember or hear someone say that your actions have consequences, I feel motivated and like my work is paying off

[@alexbertaccini3385]

Thx man appreciate it

[@BriggsA]

In my opinion this is one of your very best videos so far

[@dannypacini9820]

Your so f-ing right!! I'm going down there tomorrow to Steve in accountant's and I'm giving him a real piece of my mind 🤜🏼

[@geoo.16]

Finally found someone with a logic similar to mine. Thank you for encouraging me.

[@manofisle5708]

I needed this

[@suckomodedrake9188]

Thats what I like about your videos. You always tell us the %100 real thing that is happening even tho its harsh

[@marlonschmalenberger3878]

i am 16 years old and i am so happy to watch your videos so early in my life. Thanks for making my life better💪

[@Excaliburmerlin]

I cried watching this video, hamza. Thank you.

[@gabrielveiga8]

I really needed this, thank you for the message

[@nate4524]

Thank you Hamza for this valuable advice that you are giving on here. It will motivate us men to improve and transcend our lives on a unprecedented level.

[@GoofyGooberrr]

Hamza your truly an inspiration for young men of this generation. Obviously your not perfect but I'm glad I can be running this race with you.😄 When you create a good product you don't have to worry about your business growing 😎💪🏾 Keep up the work of changing the world brother and thank you.

[@hamzafiltered]

Damn the title is really coming after me and I don't even have a wife

[@CaelumTerraNevisMorimur]

Thank you for this.

[@pikabae0790]

Time stops when he speaks looking into my soul..

[@traddcooper]

This may be the video I’ve disagreed with most. I definitely see where he’s coming from but this metaphor is not 100% accurate. Be the person you think your partner will want. At the end of the day the person you truly want should want you. That “highest quality” woman may not be the kind of woman you really want. Yes you should definitely limit the temptations that you let keep you from your goals. Yes you should work hard for the things you want. No playing some games or watching some anime is not going to stop you from meeting the love of your life. But letting those things take over your life might. Life is about balance. You should find the happy medium where you can improve your self and your life and be an upstanding respectable man and still do the things you love. That way you will find the girl who loves the same things and you can enjoy them with her.

[@rhoyawrld7257]

exactly some girls like to watch anime and shows and play games but what he's saying is he'd rather have a 10 out of 10 with a bad personality than a person with a good personality who's a 7 but the personality boosts it

[@traddcooper]

@@rhoyawrld7257 Well that’s fair enough. I won’t argue with his preference but if he’s mentoring young men I would say his preference is not an objective truth. I do like his content and believe he’s trying to give men good advice to better themselves and their lives but I think this one was a bit off base. I think it’s important to be a high quality man and get a woman that is meets your standards but young men shouldn’t quit their hobbies and interests cold turkey just to try to be the highest quality man they possibly can be to fight over the same top tier women who probably don’t share any of your initial interests.

[@rhoyawrld7257]

@@traddcooper agreed his take was so bad I mean if he looks boring chicks no problem but don't mean everyone should aim for them

[@SergeantAngel]

Anime has actually motivated a lot of people to workout.

[@lifeseries7944]

Wow that 95% includes my husband who is passive, non-driven, unmotivated, antisocial, clueless, incompetent and incapable. He just wants to live in his comfort zone bubble and wants us in it. He eats junk food. He doesn’t have the discipline to exercise. He watches TV or reads entertaining novels all the time. He doesn’t fix anything around the house and doesn’t upkeep the yards. I asked him to fix the faucets so we don’t waste water. He said it’s cheaper to pay for the water than a plumber. Our refrigerator has no ice, no water (too cheap to buy expensive filter), no light and with water leak ( we put a towel under). He believes it still works because it’s cold. He said I want too much and expect too high. I keep myself in high standard but why doesn’t he grow on his own?! I am tired of pulling him along for 20 years. We have 3 sons. I am the one who takes them hiking and camping with other dads from scouting. I am angry that he doesn’t parent, teach or discipline. It falls all on me. I hate him for ruining our sons. Under him and with his support, now the oldest son plays video game all day and just wants to get by like his dad. I talked to people at church. One told me to submit no matter what. The other junior pastor said I do bad parenting. I have to choose between God and scouting. I like my sons to learn from other men in scouting because their dad is so lazy and has no achievements in life. His calm and quiet fool me all.

[@rrrqmxjz]

Does he have a job?

[@sk-1474]

I always felt that there was some sort of competition amongst all men, Hamza just confirmed it to be true Very inspiring

[@lillienwaligora6082]

Men are very competitive, and I respect it so much!!! At the end of the day as a girl my job is to be by a man's side so that I can support him in this race!!!

[@sk-1474]

​@@lillienwaligora6082 always be by your man's side and he should do the same

[@AryanKulkarni31]

This is one of Hamza's greatest videos.

[@pouriaSelf-improvement]

Wow i mean idk what to say hamza This video is way more darker and more different but the actual reality of our world of men This was so touching and inspiring for me Before this moment i felt like okay i saw one of these self improvement videos and so yeah i'll go to the gym do the hard work but after that i was at my fucking start This was the actual wake up for me Thanks a lot king ♡

[@quanito1st]

Thank you Hamza I needed this

[@ancientengineer1153]

True, this is because every generation start from zero again without direction and this type of education. The older you get the latter it gets and the more you realise how far behind you are in the race. Thanks Hamza for the motivation.

[@cupofcoffy9744]

Keep on good job Hamza love your vids keep inspiring young man to strive for better future

[@orlando6548]

Thank you Hazma I been going hard I’m 20 yrs old working in this airplane facility that has a future bible study getting my real estate licenses. The race is still going on gotta go even harder now thank you Hazma I wish you well in this precious glorious life

[@KrishnaSingh-fn4rl]

Thanks man

[@janegoodall1837]

Hamz: AS MEN WE COMPETE AGAINST EACH OTHER Also Hamz: MY FRIEND BETRAYED ME FOR TALKING TO A GIRL I LIKED AND NOW WE AREN'T FRIENDS 😞

[@darkagency7081]

This was in his past and he matured over that experience. I do not think it is wise to call him a hypocrite if he was talking about his past and got over it as a better man, and this applies.