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8 жыл бұрын

What are you passionate about? You’re told these five words hold the key to a successful career and life purpose. What if it’s the wrong question altogether? This talk turns the ubiquitous “find your passion” message on its ear.
Terri Trespicio is a branding strategist who helps visionaries, experts, entrepreneurs, and businesses communicate with power and precision across media platforms. She consults with a wide range of experts, everyone from surgeons and social media celebs to startups and brand managers.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@steinbeckeast
@steinbeckeast 4 жыл бұрын
“You are not going to be stuck. You are stuck now!” A mother’s wisdom.
@GabiN64
@GabiN64 3 жыл бұрын
They always know
@jdt8983
@jdt8983 3 жыл бұрын
My cat slaps me in the face every morning when my alarm goes off
@IceBear_97
@IceBear_97 3 жыл бұрын
@@jdt8983 lol
@JaysonT1
@JaysonT1 3 жыл бұрын
I remember telling my mom that I was "waiting for my life to start" she said " It already started". It really made me see.
@richardwagon6433
@richardwagon6433 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a recent physics graduate with a passion for stand up comedy. I've been applying at science museums all across the US to work in an educator, presenter role. I finally got a job offer for $15/hour at a great science museum. But that pay was low for a college graduate. My mom convinced me not to take it. 6 months later, I'm still looking and have taken a big hit to my morale since. Lately I've been thinking, maybe Mom was dead wrong on this one.
@abderrahmenbenrhouma2314
@abderrahmenbenrhouma2314 4 жыл бұрын
"Passion is not a job, a sport, or a hobby, it is the full force of your attention and energy that you give to whatever is right in front of you"
@kimphonetography6874
@kimphonetography6874 4 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite line❤️
@lexdrury
@lexdrury 3 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@GermanTube123
@GermanTube123 3 жыл бұрын
I've heard this quote from someone else
@flickrstories99
@flickrstories99 3 жыл бұрын
Line that highlighted the whole RED TALK
@andrevandermerwe940
@andrevandermerwe940 3 жыл бұрын
She gave a great speech and there is a lot to take away from it. But this definition of passion doesn't really hold up in many scenarios. In life there will be many instances where you will need to give your full attention and energy to things right in front of you that you don't enjoy but HAVE TO do for one reason or another.
@amritajain5566
@amritajain5566 Жыл бұрын
"You don't follow your passion, your passion follows you." This is what everyone needs to realise.
@testtset3910
@testtset3910 Жыл бұрын
What does that mean? give an example.
@YadavYadav-ze7ld
@YadavYadav-ze7ld Жыл бұрын
@@testtset3910 same question ? 😸
@law5288
@law5288 Жыл бұрын
it's Basically means don't waste time to think or wait by looking some extraordinary things so called Passion in your life,start doing whatever comes in your way if it's really worthwhile it will be yours forever...
@syscabmcommunity3368
@syscabmcommunity3368 Жыл бұрын
Huug
@Claire55Cai88
@Claire55Cai88 Жыл бұрын
Do something first.u’ll seek happiness inside one day or one part of meaning .What u do all based on what u choose.what u choose based on who u r .
@existentiallychallenged5068
@existentiallychallenged5068 Жыл бұрын
“You’re not going to get stuck somewhere, you’re stuck NOW!” That is fantastic advice for me now. Wish I could have understood it almost a year ago haha
@zhaominghuang2366
@zhaominghuang2366 Жыл бұрын
Me too, wish I watched this earlier!
@irenephilip5808
@irenephilip5808 Жыл бұрын
But it's never too late! You should be glad you've seen it now and are going to save the remaining part of your life from agonizing over finding your passion! 😊
@alisonsteiner6156
@alisonsteiner6156 11 ай бұрын
This is the best phrase of the TedX!
@cdsprech
@cdsprech 4 жыл бұрын
"You don't create your life first, and then live it. You create it by living it, not agonizing about it." Very well put, thank you Terri!
@DrewGunby
@DrewGunby 4 жыл бұрын
Loved that so much. When she said that it was definitely a mic drop moment!
@twaamboshankoti3610
@twaamboshankoti3610 4 жыл бұрын
That hit me too👌🏾
@onezero8570
@onezero8570 4 жыл бұрын
& that exactly means doing what u love, isn't it?
@sretnazvijezda400
@sretnazvijezda400 4 жыл бұрын
Spoiled 🤔
@-boiadeiro-
@-boiadeiro- 4 жыл бұрын
ending was quite good too
@montajsss9655
@montajsss9655 4 жыл бұрын
10 mins summary: Don't think, just do something. You'll find your passion.
@badguy4839
@badguy4839 4 жыл бұрын
TLDR : Don't think, just do something. You'll find your passion.
@DEEPAKSV99
@DEEPAKSV99 4 жыл бұрын
And start off by solving people's problems...
@e.a.3744
@e.a.3744 4 жыл бұрын
What if you don’t want to do anything?
@badguy4839
@badguy4839 4 жыл бұрын
@@e.a.3744 You only have 16 hours a day to do bro. And you will like this thing more than that thing. That will happen.
@cigxhang486
@cigxhang486 4 жыл бұрын
@@e.a.3744 push yourself...
@mubangamukonde3265
@mubangamukonde3265 2 жыл бұрын
"Pasion is where your energy and attention meets somebody's needs" That hit hard.
@mikedavis8251
@mikedavis8251 2 жыл бұрын
“The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.” - Frederick Buechner
@noexcuses5524
@noexcuses5524 Жыл бұрын
Just live your life to yourself
@firelily77
@firelily77 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@RustCohle123
@RustCohle123 3 ай бұрын
Yeah my needs
@alexbamon627
@alexbamon627 2 ай бұрын
Yessir
@nicanorthompson2432
@nicanorthompson2432 2 жыл бұрын
"passion is a feeling and it can change". That hit me real hard, cos just a few weeks ago everyone used to praise me for how well I play the keyboard, now my keyboard is sitting in a corner catching dust, passion does change.
@MrCrossIsBoss
@MrCrossIsBoss Жыл бұрын
Pick that keyboard back up. Turn your passion into melody.
@eaaeeeea
@eaaeeeea Жыл бұрын
@@MrCrossIsBoss Why though? Now they're free to do something else that becomes their passion. The keyboard skill will get back to them quickly if they want to return to it at some point.
@testtset3910
@testtset3910 Жыл бұрын
@@eaaeeeea Actually that's kinda true in my experience. When I play my guitar after a break, some of the best chord progressions and song ideas come out.
@517hectorhernandez
@517hectorhernandez Жыл бұрын
That wasn’t your passion!
@7daiyu
@7daiyu Ай бұрын
​@@517hectorhernandez what was it then?
@Logan.Ninefingers
@Logan.Ninefingers 4 жыл бұрын
I've never been passionate about anything or anyone. If you are genuinely passionate about anything then be VERY grateful because it is a gift.
@daviddeeley8820
@daviddeeley8820 4 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@renuhazari544
@renuhazari544 4 жыл бұрын
@@daviddeeley8820 my passion changes from time to time video to video😭 im engineer but feels like im huge disappoint to evryone to me as well
@thelaziestguy6645
@thelaziestguy6645 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah same here
@dhirajgawande007
@dhirajgawande007 4 жыл бұрын
@@renuhazari544 understandable
@niveditanadimpalli2439
@niveditanadimpalli2439 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree
@chronicpainwarrior
@chronicpainwarrior 8 жыл бұрын
In my twenties, my Dad said to me, "When are you going to settled down and do ONE thing?" I knew then my passion was to experience life, the EXPERIENCE WAS my goal and passion. I tried to explain this but my parent's generation cannot compute this philososphy.
@REALGAMINGCREW
@REALGAMINGCREW 8 жыл бұрын
+Sandra Knight u hot
@brendanreilly8407
@brendanreilly8407 8 жыл бұрын
+Sandra Knight I love that my passion is to experience life and everything it has to offer, now to turn that into a profession :/
@MasseysGamingInc
@MasseysGamingInc 8 жыл бұрын
+🔫 REAL GAMING CREW 🔥 What the actual fuck?
@JB-sz4wy
@JB-sz4wy 8 жыл бұрын
+Sandra Knight Your father sounded old fashioned. No one does any more. My grandparents thought the same
@MasseysGamingInc
@MasseysGamingInc 8 жыл бұрын
🔫 REAL GAMING CREW 🔥 Your channel name if the most brain-dead one I have seen in a long time. Are you 9? No, let me guess. 12.
@RhondaRolf
@RhondaRolf 2 жыл бұрын
This is music to my ears. I've always hated the "follow your passion" advice, because I don't have a passion, and that advice made me feel belittled. Thanks for helping me feel validated!
@deemah3602
@deemah3602 3 жыл бұрын
5:11 audience: *laughs* cameraman: *shows the most poker face of them all*
@Chig__Bungus
@Chig__Bungus 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao that guy didn’t get a loan
@wunmithegreat
@wunmithegreat 3 жыл бұрын
😅😅🤣🤣🤣
@canadude6401
@canadude6401 3 жыл бұрын
Clearly hasn't found his passion yet
@sholahuddinihsan6391
@sholahuddinihsan6391 2 жыл бұрын
to be honest, i come to this comment section just to see this kind of comment :V.
@brenodonascimentosilva507
@brenodonascimentosilva507 2 жыл бұрын
@@sholahuddinihsan6391 me too
@rimig3780
@rimig3780 4 жыл бұрын
"Passion is a feeling, not a plan! And feelings change." Finally I get to hear that nothing is wrong with me ✌
@pardeepalka2735
@pardeepalka2735 4 жыл бұрын
Did'not make it new video
@sashidar5649
@sashidar5649 4 жыл бұрын
Even with me also
@tanaykamath1415
@tanaykamath1415 4 жыл бұрын
Same ,I just can't stick to one
@TarasHomeAndGarden
@TarasHomeAndGarden 3 жыл бұрын
Me too thought something was wrong with me and why I couldn’t find my passion. This video makes me feel so much better :)
@sanchitshirol4421
@sanchitshirol4421 3 жыл бұрын
For real ! i felt the same..
@mattstone8111
@mattstone8111 7 жыл бұрын
Man, she is really passionate about not being passionate!
@Tomahawk1999
@Tomahawk1999 7 жыл бұрын
lolz
@ranjodharora6592
@ranjodharora6592 7 жыл бұрын
Give this guy a pint!
@serenakiefer
@serenakiefer 7 жыл бұрын
Touché 😉
@sanjeevkushwaha7614
@sanjeevkushwaha7614 7 жыл бұрын
That's a awesome satire.
@territrespicio7565
@territrespicio7565 7 жыл бұрын
Haha I never said I wasn't passionate. Of course I am. I just think the search for passion above all else is not helpful advice.
@paulinacastro6072
@paulinacastro6072 2 жыл бұрын
This was actually really really helpful, I'm getting out of a depression and an existential crisis that came with it concerning the future and passion and jobs and success and happiness and this just helped calm the voices.
@alexbamon627
@alexbamon627 2 ай бұрын
Depression? ayo it's fr
@erinachi6171
@erinachi6171 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be honest, this has been the shortest ten minutes of my life. I never knew it ended in just a blink of an eye. I'm seriously lost right now and I felt like she was just having a conversation with me along with the words that I didn't realize I needed to hear. Whoever's reading this, you got this.
@Tofu-xx2sk
@Tofu-xx2sk 7 жыл бұрын
"Passion is not a job, a sport, or a hobby. It is the full force of your attention and energy that you give to whatever is right in front of you. And if you're so busy looking for this passion, you could miss opportunities that change your life. You could also miss out on a great love. Because that's what happens when you have tunnel vision, trying to find the one."
@kohlersudesh5357
@kohlersudesh5357 7 жыл бұрын
Chelsea Samantha
@Adam-bq2vw
@Adam-bq2vw 7 жыл бұрын
Very interesting.
@pixelartmag
@pixelartmag 7 жыл бұрын
Sums up my life
@zalapori92
@zalapori92 7 жыл бұрын
my life. I do things I like but I just end up sitting, thinking what the hell am I supposed to chose and which passion is the right for me to put first. I end up in depression no matter what I am doing. fml
@Tofu-xx2sk
@Tofu-xx2sk 7 жыл бұрын
Just out of curiosity, do you happen to know what your MBTI personality type is?
@Ki11P0P1
@Ki11P0P1 5 жыл бұрын
“Just do things” “just start doing” its the most vague advice anyones ever given me yet the most helpful.
@mohitdubey203
@mohitdubey203 4 жыл бұрын
Let's do together
@mohitdubey203
@mohitdubey203 4 жыл бұрын
Just joking
@CoCMember
@CoCMember 4 жыл бұрын
Try taking action about anything is proven to find... Happiness, passion, dislikes... solutions...
@Jess-ew3tm
@Jess-ew3tm 4 жыл бұрын
Right?!?!
@mikesuniverse1789
@mikesuniverse1789 4 жыл бұрын
I tend to think people know what they should be doing but often don't want to deal with it.
@nickygriffin4071
@nickygriffin4071 3 жыл бұрын
Best part: “You don’t create your life first then live it, you create it by living it, not agonising about it.” 🙌🏼
@carolinavidal7254
@carolinavidal7254 2 жыл бұрын
That part was really touching for me. I’ve been doing exactly what she says not to do…
@waynelast1685
@waynelast1685 Жыл бұрын
when my career took a dumper and I got fired I thought my life was over , but only now I know it was a blessing in disguise to seek new adventures.... there is no shame in trying something and failing.... don't EVER EVER EVER feel down or negative about anything. Just rejoice and BE HAPPY with something.... key word is BE... don't just think about it. good luck, don''t waste your life like I did until now.
@marcuscross8051
@marcuscross8051 Жыл бұрын
I agree. I have tried so many things over the years and failed at so many of them. But I learned so much along the way. I learned about where my strengths and weaknesses are, what works well for me and what doesn't. And I gained many skills that I can use now and in the future.
@alexbamon627
@alexbamon627 2 ай бұрын
Being an introvert sucks at times dude,wish I could get what ur saying soon..
@andyluuuu
@andyluuuu 4 жыл бұрын
My notes: - Passion is a feeling, not a plan. And Feeling's change. - Not everything you do needs to fit into your "passion". Just try things. Go out there and try things. - Don't worry if your career isn't something you want to do for the rest of your life - Success fuels passion more than passion fuels success - There is nothing wrong if you do not have a clear passion. Try things you like! - You could easily miss out on your passion by not focusing on what you're doing now, if you're focused on looking for your "passion" - Don't wait for your passion to show up. Solve problems you like to solve. My key takeaway: Go try things and do things you like instead of purely focusing on finding your passion (or trying to do things you think will fit into it) because passion is not a plan, it's a feeling, and feelings change.
@dream.5708
@dream.5708 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@ameerah2959
@ameerah2959 3 жыл бұрын
Thx!
@sandratagoe1567
@sandratagoe1567 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Amit_Cruelhead
@Amit_Cruelhead 2 жыл бұрын
People like you should always leave a comment, I'm thankful
@tamirobo
@tamirobo 2 жыл бұрын
Funny how we have the same "take-aways". Glad to know some do pay attention through talks just to mark the striking points. Of course, that defines "striking" is relative.
@spicyginger5533
@spicyginger5533 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this today. Whoever is reading this, you've f*ckn got this.
@snarlet7186
@snarlet7186 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!! You too!!
@dariaarmbrister9404
@dariaarmbrister9404 3 жыл бұрын
thanks !
@aungkaungsan6336
@aungkaungsan6336 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks buddy! U too.
@coffeecath2667
@coffeecath2667 3 жыл бұрын
awee i am just watching it now and then i saw your comment. Thank you. I hope you're doing great!
@saitejaswiniprasad9266
@saitejaswiniprasad9266 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks buddy!!
@EhsanAmini
@EhsanAmini 3 жыл бұрын
"You don't create your life first and then live it. You create it by living it not agonizing about it." The first time ever that I felt compelled to write someone's words on my whiteboard.
@SD-od4gm
@SD-od4gm 3 жыл бұрын
I love how all of this is summed up on Pixar's movie "SOUL"
@andrianirosalina6761
@andrianirosalina6761 2 жыл бұрын
Yeeessssss so true. I’ve watched it twice and it has helped me a lot.
@ManL02
@ManL02 7 жыл бұрын
Worst job interview question "where do you see yourself in five years?"
@ogthevampire1785
@ogthevampire1785 7 жыл бұрын
"What made you want to work here?"
@tigoes
@tigoes 7 жыл бұрын
lung cancer
@7yearsryugami169
@7yearsryugami169 7 жыл бұрын
"tell me your weakness"
@MikeKennedyOfficial
@MikeKennedyOfficial 7 жыл бұрын
7years Ryugami "My greatest weakness is answering what my greatest weakness is."
@7yearsryugami169
@7yearsryugami169 7 жыл бұрын
"my greatest weakness is I'm too good at doing my work that makes all my colleague hates me." or "I'm fast at finishing my job, so I always go home early"
@yctels
@yctels 8 жыл бұрын
this made me cry, because it liberated me from so much stress and perfectionism.
@ceeceeh.7846
@ceeceeh.7846 8 жыл бұрын
+TELS Super Workgroup me too. I can really relate about being afraid on getting the wrong job or choosing the wrong decision.
@annesmeets9304
@annesmeets9304 8 жыл бұрын
+TELS Super Workgroup I feel the same way. I switched my studies 3 times already because each time I was scared it would be the wrong choice..
@Birdo0o
@Birdo0o 8 жыл бұрын
+TELS Super Workgroup i agree
@FliskerX
@FliskerX 8 жыл бұрын
+TELS Super Workgroup This might feel liberating, but does it rly solve anything in your life ? I'm not being negative or saying that the talk is bad, but the final message I get is something like "eh... screw it... just do something and it will work out" which seems to me even worse looking to the future than "man... u should rly try to find/think about your passion/way/what it is u rly want to do in life"
@Birdo0o
@Birdo0o 8 жыл бұрын
+Flisker true too , i think she means , stop making it so stressful , if u dont know yet what you love , dont panic , try different things and within these things u might know what brings joy to your heart , basically i believe we attract what we are and we will be drown towards our passion either we like it or not , i agree that somehow her talk seems like screw it , but i think the core issue is , stop the panic , do different things , be passionate in them
@darkstarmatter1388
@darkstarmatter1388 3 жыл бұрын
I watched this a few years ago because I was over 30 still searching for my passion. Since then, I've studied philosophy. And everything about my journey just made sense when putting the ideas together. One philosopher said to do every act as if it were your last, without frenzy, apathy, or pretense. When applied, I felt alive!
@marcelovins
@marcelovins Жыл бұрын
Powerful! She didn't say don't love something. She said, don't stare at your life. Keep on!
@verydarkchi1d914
@verydarkchi1d914 5 жыл бұрын
"Passion is a feeling and feelings can change." Wow. Well said.
@starcrafter13terran
@starcrafter13terran 4 жыл бұрын
sounds like she is divorced
@ponchoandy
@ponchoandy 4 жыл бұрын
Not really. Passion is not a feeling. Passion is a force that drives you. It's linked to tenacity and discipline.
@theduc7345
@theduc7345 4 жыл бұрын
I truly deeply agree with that quote of her cause i have passed throughout that time when struggling to find out my passion and then realize i just like doing something sometimes
@eliyasara9786
@eliyasara9786 4 жыл бұрын
passion isn't really a 'feeling' as such, yes, you feel it, but it is related to a specific set of skills that you want/need. It is the intense want for a certain interest. So, although it is an interest, and yes, they can change, so can everything else. What doesn't??
@adarshbora8181
@adarshbora8181 4 жыл бұрын
Then it is not definitely a passion,It's desire to waste ur time
@obeytweety
@obeytweety 3 жыл бұрын
"Success fuels passion more than passion fuels success." This is painfully true.
@RamaSivamani
@RamaSivamani 3 жыл бұрын
Sure but a little bit of a misconception. Success does not come without starting something and working through it. If you don't have any initial passion where is the drive to even start? There has to be atleast enough interest in something to get started. Now this doesn't need to be this overwhelming life passion but there does need to be enough interest or a spark to get started on something.
@alexbaribeault
@alexbaribeault 3 жыл бұрын
@@RamaSivamani Exactly
@billrussell4832
@billrussell4832 3 жыл бұрын
@@RamaSivamani Exactly. In order to have a strong work ethic, you need some motivation. Pretty hard to do something if it isn't motivating you in some way or form.
@RenyxGhoul
@RenyxGhoul 3 жыл бұрын
@@RamaSivamani I guess the drive comes from making the first step into the unknown, exploring and researching, and come back with a result or nothing at all.
@paulegbodo5789
@paulegbodo5789 3 жыл бұрын
Discipline is what you need to start
@bonitoflakes5498
@bonitoflakes5498 11 ай бұрын
As a 24 yr old recently dismissed from flight school and clueless about the direction she wants to take in life, I needed this...
@yourmemedaddy
@yourmemedaddy 8 ай бұрын
Hope you're well now but Same I'm 24 idk what I'm doing with my life, my job scks but i gotta pay off some debts so goota keep working for more months,
@jasonmartinez9051
@jasonmartinez9051 2 жыл бұрын
When I was in high school and college, my teachers and professors would occasional remind us that we, the graduating students, were going to go out and change the world. What they didn't tell us is that most of us would not change the world. Simply living in the world can be rewarding enough.
@BinaryNinjasPOV
@BinaryNinjasPOV 4 жыл бұрын
If you are going to be passionate about something, be passionate about learning
@lygiabird6988
@lygiabird6988 4 жыл бұрын
Ooh that's a good one
@sutil5078
@sutil5078 4 жыл бұрын
and in doing so, that is being passionate about learning make you learn to be passionate about some of the thing you learned. It awakens your soul
@sutil5078
@sutil5078 4 жыл бұрын
@@eulldog of course , I do many type of learning, some for my self and some for work.. but in the end I end up using it at work.. if one know how to choose related topic and breakthrough insight of linking it to what one does for living, it give greater unexpected insight to ones works.. for that, one need to digest what the knowledge he acquires meditate on it and and find surprising application.. Life is so interesting. I thank God for it.
@brandon6110
@brandon6110 4 жыл бұрын
Learning is for wankers, try helping.
@mariahrauf9167
@mariahrauf9167 4 жыл бұрын
I agree! Being passionate about education and advancing your mind is most important. There is never an answer of what you're "supposed to do." I love when Terri said passion can come and go. There's no way to measure how passionate you are about something because you could lose that passion tomorrow. But one thing that will always benefit you, and will always move you forward is education. New material. Whether it comes from a book, a TED talk, or a podcast. Learning something new everyday keeps you well rounded and growing. Do you think it's hard for current students to stay passionate about learning? Do you think students get discoursed by searching too hard for their "perfect career" or "forever passion?" I'd love to hear feedback!!
@rajcan2008
@rajcan2008 3 жыл бұрын
Summary: Try different things. Passion comes after initial success.
@AdemirAlijagic
@AdemirAlijagic 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@missrelaxed3872
@missrelaxed3872 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@weirjwerijrweurhuewhr588
@weirjwerijrweurhuewhr588 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah but success doesn't come after a prolonged effort in most cases. So you need at least the amount of passion to be able to stick with something.
@caballodebatalla5561
@caballodebatalla5561 2 жыл бұрын
You could say that is the summary indeed but the tak is really enjoyable.
@JM-md4ri
@JM-md4ri 2 жыл бұрын
This is a very watered down and lifeless summary of the video, and I’m not sure if it’s even accurate.
@asquared5786
@asquared5786 3 жыл бұрын
Shout out to whoever came up with the Nike campaign “Just do it”
@jahnavirajput4676
@jahnavirajput4676 2 жыл бұрын
this comment deserved a lot more attention 😂👌
@scheve1994
@scheve1994 3 жыл бұрын
I'm turning 27 soon and have spent years switching majors and taking time off until I dedicated myself to a major that I thought I ought to be passionate about. Now that I've finished my uni, gone on an internship and have been trying to find work, I'm starting to realize that this tendency to focus on passion has deprived me of years of growth and potential opportunities but also that it's okay for me to think about different ventures. Hearing this talk fills me with a lot of hope that I can still find my own way of doing things by helping others, rather than thinking just about myself.
@Laxmikanthb1
@Laxmikanthb1 4 жыл бұрын
"If you don't know what you want to do, then just do what you have to do." -Me
@Rajvosa-wg7pu
@Rajvosa-wg7pu 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@suzettep5able
@suzettep5able 4 жыл бұрын
Word
@Laxmikanthb1
@Laxmikanthb1 4 жыл бұрын
@@suzettep5able ??
@mariagrecu7789
@mariagrecu7789 3 жыл бұрын
Nice.
@shebacynn1320
@shebacynn1320 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@carmelinatown
@carmelinatown 4 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. I’m a senior in high school and everyone always asks me what I’m gonna do after high school, what college I want to go to, what career choice I want and what am I passionate about. I always answer “I don’t know”. I feel panic because it seems like other kids my age now where they wanna go they want to do with their life and I feel useless when I compare myself to them. I needed to hear this because it’s just makes sense that there’s nothing wrong with me and that I had the wrong idea of what passion was and it was stressing me out! I feel relieved knowing that I’m normal and that she said what I could do in the meantime to go after opportunities. I’m not so scared of “being stuck” anymore. This was so helpful! Edit: I’ve responded to some of u in the replies. Thanks to everyone who has replied!
@Hello-rq9yx
@Hello-rq9yx 4 жыл бұрын
You're not the only one who feels like this. Glad I see someone who understand exactly how I feel.
@ThaoNguyen-wx1in
@ThaoNguyen-wx1in 4 жыл бұрын
me too
@vagabond9718
@vagabond9718 4 жыл бұрын
Glad to meet soneone sharing the same situation..its already may ..I have just 2 exams postponed due to the pandemic and I still have no idea what course to take...Its so much pressure cause ..like the course is gonna decide what I can do in future .not much option after it here😔.Seeing the video and seeing your comment is a relief
@anduena9928
@anduena9928 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a senior too and I feel the same. I feel so lost about my future and have spent sleepless nights just THINKING about my future but with no solution in the end. After hearing this, I feel like I'll just choose a random field and if I don't like it I'll just change my direction.
@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry
@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry 4 жыл бұрын
Do what you love doing. But always be open to loving something different. Some of the happiest people I've known switched their major after discovering they had an interest in a (often completely) different subject area. And if you struggle with making up your mind, then do yourself a favour and get professional counselling. It can save you a lot of time and grief.
@jwh0122
@jwh0122 3 жыл бұрын
2:52 passion is not a plan, it's a feeling. 5:21 success fueled passion, more than passion fueled success. 10:07 passion is where your energy and effort meets someone else's need.
@zakariashenwari5486
@zakariashenwari5486 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t search for your passion, life will keep throwing things at you to do and the potential passion lies in them. If you ignore them, you miss your passions, so do the things that come in your way.
@BunnyUK
@BunnyUK 8 жыл бұрын
Do things you find interesting, in conditions that you can tolerate.
@mamiluisamia
@mamiluisamia 8 жыл бұрын
that's my problem I took jobs even I don't like them and are under my studies happy to have money...but I couldn't tolerate the conditions. Late hours, only one day free a week or 10 days in a row without a free day...carryung too heavy things for my constitution...I need to find I job I can do cause I can do anything.
@mesutozil8603
@mesutozil8603 7 жыл бұрын
+mamiluisamia nope
@krazieboi96
@krazieboi96 7 жыл бұрын
What happens if you don't find anything interesting?
@HaxelStranger
@HaxelStranger 7 жыл бұрын
The Real American that's interesting
@krazieboi96
@krazieboi96 7 жыл бұрын
Bryan Torres Lol
@marcspector9188
@marcspector9188 5 жыл бұрын
"Success fuels passion more than passion fuels success." Wonderful line- :)
@marcspector9188
@marcspector9188 5 жыл бұрын
@Buddha-Dharma-Sangha yeah but its still applicable in certain situations :)
@mejiagrey830
@mejiagrey830 4 жыл бұрын
Well this may be interesting to hear. I have had perfect scores and high scores in tests throughtout my life. However they havent been usual that every test score i get is the best score in the class.The best scores that i gotten have given different feelings some of joy and others of emptiness of something blank with no color. Something that it can be the best score in the class but to me just a number that brings no feelings at all. The brain can be so complex.I willbe honest. I have to say that success has fueled my passion. But there are times when it has not. The brain is a complex thing.
@Manu-yw2nu
@Manu-yw2nu 4 жыл бұрын
The thing is that success is also a broken concept, bcs we keep comparing ourselves to others and never feel truly satisfied. Success can fuel passion, but seeking success, in the it’s different forms, can also kill passion
@jordanforbes2557
@jordanforbes2557 4 жыл бұрын
Tell that to all these hopefuls on America's Got Talent who are tone deaf, lol. No, but what you say does have truth in it. When you're good at something it does reinforce your decision to pursue that thing, it feels good.
@voidcubess641
@voidcubess641 4 жыл бұрын
@Sisyphus But the passion isn't about what you've been successful at doing, it's as simple as the feeling of having succeeded, whatever it may be.
@thutrangfighting
@thutrangfighting 10 ай бұрын
This video should be listened to by people who currently have no passion. If you have your own passion, just chase it.
@simrankapoor7494
@simrankapoor7494 3 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most unique videos I ever watched! She was not like others marketing the concept of finding passion!!! She needs infinite applauds..
@hannahh.tarindwa2749
@hannahh.tarindwa2749 Жыл бұрын
Also check out the one on multipotentialites
@StrawberryS-vk5my
@StrawberryS-vk5my 5 ай бұрын
rightt she really does! it's such a good video
@Nelster
@Nelster 7 жыл бұрын
Summary: 1)Relax and don't freak out about not having a passion 2)try different things, put your skills to good use 3)eventually you will find your life purpose 4)PROFIT!
@SQPhysics
@SQPhysics 7 жыл бұрын
best summary ..
@Here_Today_
@Here_Today_ 7 жыл бұрын
Nelster thanks, only had to listen to 2 minutes
@alex0508bass
@alex0508bass 7 жыл бұрын
Cheers! Only 40 seconds here :)
@kishorkumar-ef9fo
@kishorkumar-ef9fo 7 жыл бұрын
2)try different things, put your skills to good use this sentence means that you should keep searching your passion till you find any, in limited time its not easy task i think
@Ram_
@Ram_ 6 жыл бұрын
Great! Just number three... I got it more like "passion is the way not the end". Or as she says it at the end: "You don't follow your passion, your passion follows you". Whaterver is your current purpose, passion is a good tool for it.
@juliaz9843
@juliaz9843 4 жыл бұрын
This took so much pressure off myself. Thank you.
@evotme9995
@evotme9995 4 жыл бұрын
xo.
@Saviiq
@Saviiq 4 жыл бұрын
julia z 4043869055
@SuperBhavanishankar
@SuperBhavanishankar 4 жыл бұрын
@@Saviiq bruh
@memberofthelambily1340
@memberofthelambily1340 4 жыл бұрын
Gerald Bivins I’ll be prank calling you from an unknown number later
@alicecasartelli6881
@alicecasartelli6881 4 жыл бұрын
Same feeling ;)
@ti-mani4648
@ti-mani4648 2 жыл бұрын
- she was looking for a job, and suffered from the pressure to know what she was passionate about - it is most intimidating after school - passion is not a plan, it is a feeling, and feelings change - we continue to use passion as fuel instead of the spark that lights the fire - she was afraid to find the wrong job in case she was stuck in it, but not choosing was what makes her stuck - success fuel passion, more than passion fuels success - she became a saleswoman in jewelry, and then became passionate about it - what are you passionate about ? is a triggering question - passion is not a job a sport or a hobby, it is the whole focus you put in the thing right in front of you - don't wait, spend your times to look for problems that need solving, for people that need your help
@agustinbs
@agustinbs 3 жыл бұрын
"Success fuels passion more than passion fuels success." This single advice could save entire lives
@SofijaGvozdeva
@SofijaGvozdeva 3 жыл бұрын
- The most fulfilling careers are the ones that still have the power to surprise you - Spend your time and attention solving your favorite problems. Look for problems that need solving. - Be useful. Be generous. People will thank you and hug you and pay you for it. And that's where passion is. Where your energy and effort meets someone else's needs. - Don't wait. Just start doing.
@PranavKumar-dd2xo
@PranavKumar-dd2xo Жыл бұрын
Nice summary
@Goldensquare.
@Goldensquare. 7 жыл бұрын
"Passion is a feeling, not a plan" - Absolutely. Now I see why I start to think when someone asks me what is my passion.
@hakantokgoz5896
@hakantokgoz5896 6 жыл бұрын
Weak human
@hakantokgoz5896
@hakantokgoz5896 6 жыл бұрын
GoldenSquare weak human
@HiTiffanyNg
@HiTiffanyNg 6 жыл бұрын
that’s not weak. That’s reality. Some people’s passion is not that strong as some successful stories you heard so for them planning what benefits them is better than their passions cuz their passions may not are what they can do best
@johnny-r
@johnny-r Жыл бұрын
I can't remember where I heard the saying, but it has stayed with me for years: "Ready, Fire, Aim." Fire is about action, Aim is about passion and feelings.
@DrunkieCat
@DrunkieCat 3 жыл бұрын
A passion isn't just about feeling, for me it's "You do it because you have countless reasons of not to." Your feeling doesn't change, you simply love it for too many reasons.
@Felishamois
@Felishamois 6 жыл бұрын
In a nutshell: Try different jobs out according to opportunity, actual passion is the full force of your attention
@asoshah321
@asoshah321 5 жыл бұрын
u forgot helping other people lmao
@iiwi758
@iiwi758 5 жыл бұрын
@@aaronvaughn5028 I did it too. First 2 minutes her mannerisms seemed a bit forced. And I thought, "here comes another rehearsed, soulless TED talk". But I kept watching, and I'm glad I did, because it's a pretty good message. I recommend that you give it another shot.
@etiennebongo5897
@etiennebongo5897 5 жыл бұрын
@@asoshah321 u help people by living by your passion I think. Peace!
@RebelOnision
@RebelOnision 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like this lady is well-meaning and everything, but I don't think she knows what not having passion at all is like. There are people who make good money and have a job, but struggle to get out of the bed in the morning because the futility of it all. Her saying 'your passion follows you' is honestly very disingenuous. People who basically do busy work for their career and have nobody that will notice if they disappear one day don't have "Passion" that follows them around. They see the world as ultimately pointless, just a cycle of going through the motions to reach the next day until they die.
@derekscarrsr2688
@derekscarrsr2688 5 жыл бұрын
Craggen but the truth is that's what most people do.🤔
@gayathriprakash1296
@gayathriprakash1296 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never been passionate about one thing in particular…I love doing a lot of things…but can’t image having to settle for only one of them… After hearing this I feel confident in my interests and realized that I can do all of it…because my passion is learning new things.
@tzalytasy
@tzalytasy 3 жыл бұрын
same here:)
@TheLily97232
@TheLily97232 3 жыл бұрын
I mean I've been learning languages for years, started but never finished it lol
@gayathriprakash1296
@gayathriprakash1296 3 жыл бұрын
@Krish Nair you are from kerala?
@jupiter8037
@jupiter8037 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Even if I love a certain hobby of mine, the idea of doing it for the rest of my life sounds daunting to me and hearing this talk reassures me that not every job I have need to be aligned with my "passions", heck, not even whatever degree I may end up getting. I'm currently trying to narrow down my options but it's difficult to find a career that is both fulfilling to me personally and pays decently, and has a decent work-life balance. Instead of searching for your passions, try searching for your values instead and that will help you see how many opportunities there really are. Committing to a university to attain a degree that will leave you in debt then suddenly realizing it's not what you want to pursue is a scary though, which is why I'm so obsessed with wanting to known exactly what I will be doing in the next 5,10,20 years. And believe me, I need to remind myself this as much as others, you don't NEED to know. Work is a big part of our lives, but there are also other things that matter most :)
@An_anshika710
@An_anshika710 3 жыл бұрын
Mine as well
@ssbedits2924
@ssbedits2924 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so much relief now. Thank god i found this video today. I was struggling to find out my passion for almost 2 years. Just to find out my passion i did so many things but never found it. It took me so many years to understand that i don't have any particular goal or passion in my life. I love to do different things. Its difficult to choose one profession or passion for a whole life. Sometime i thought it is a gift so i can explore myself, can try different things in just one life. But when i see people, friends around me who have their career, living their life i immediately got depressed because they are Something. Nurse, chef, engineer, but me Nothing. But from now on i will do the things which makes me happy instead of searching for passion.
@sophiab5260
@sophiab5260 3 жыл бұрын
Totally get you! Wish you have fun with whatever you do :)
@UncompressedWAVmusic
@UncompressedWAVmusic 3 жыл бұрын
Doing more of what makes you happy is the best possibility, because being happy attracts more to be happy about according to Abraham Hicks the masters of The Law of Attracting. Check out their KZbin videos.
@languagelearner-4305
@languagelearner-4305 11 ай бұрын
This is that video for me as a teen who lost and depressed about not having dream, passion and ambition, scolded by mum for not having one. Thank you very much ❤❤
@jesse2497
@jesse2497 8 жыл бұрын
I've been trying to figure out what I'm meant to do with my life and it's so hard to take a step forward when I'm so clueless. I just graduated high school and my mother wants me to go to college but I don't even know what I want in my life. I think this video just made me realize what I'm passionate for is learning and experiencing. I don't know what I'm gonna do with that information but wish me luck.
@RedStingBlogs
@RedStingBlogs 8 жыл бұрын
+Jesse Ventura Good luck!!!
@ayaku8052
@ayaku8052 8 жыл бұрын
Good luck!!!
@rsambhuvlogs
@rsambhuvlogs 8 жыл бұрын
Good luk
@atdeshpandeat
@atdeshpandeat 8 жыл бұрын
+Jesse Ventura good luck bro
@JulieStardoll
@JulieStardoll 8 жыл бұрын
+Jesse Ventura i think you should take whatever it is that comes your way.. maybe experiencing or doing SOMETHING will help you understand a little better what it is that oyu actually want. That's what's happening in my case. I decided to do a degree in Physics only because I was somewhat good at it, comfortable with it, too scared to trying anything else and not at all sure what exactly it is that I want to do. I'm in my second year now and I find that I do like physics but I discovered so many other things at college that I liked just as much or more. I do know that I don't want to be or do just one thing in life, I want to do and be many things. So that's where I stand for now.
@shailendrasingh-lj9ri
@shailendrasingh-lj9ri 7 жыл бұрын
you can't choose passion, passion is doing what u love.
@JedaqiaAngel
@JedaqiaAngel 7 жыл бұрын
True. And I think many here missed that point about her talk.
@annasoares8405
@annasoares8405 7 жыл бұрын
What she's saying is exactly it. No every single person on earth have "what you love". If you have it then great but not everyone. And thats okay.
@elenajean
@elenajean 7 жыл бұрын
Choose to do what you love. Just go find things that you love (try things) and choose them (can be multiple things). Passion is a feeling you get when you are doing what you love. So therefore... you can choose passion. It's a feeling, and you can choose to have that feeling.
@paolaalexandra483
@paolaalexandra483 6 жыл бұрын
Plot twist --- passion is loving what you do
@christinas.4342
@christinas.4342 6 жыл бұрын
You're not supposed to do what you love, you're supposed to do the right thing. Nobody loves cleaning public toilets or stuffing products into supermarket shelves for example, but if nobody did it society would collapse.
@areumishere
@areumishere 7 ай бұрын
"Passion is not a job, a sport, or a hobby, it is the full force of your attention and energy that you give to whatever is right in front of you" this is the most needed thing for everyone to hear. I have got my GED a few days ago, and am looking for a college major for further studies. But, I have no budget for any majors so will have to apply for scholarships that are giving to majors which I have never been interested in . Ever since I was a child, I feel I wasn't talented in anything. Now, I am scared that I might choose the wrong one and get stuck in it for my whole life. Here I found this video and click and I think it has changed the way I feel and erase all my worries. Thank you, Terri Trespicio !
@reseezy3155
@reseezy3155 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a senior in high school and I always get bombarded with the question- so what do you want to do? who do you want to become? and also parents and elders telling me to research and find out what I wanna do and I just want to scream "I DONT KNOW." I love doing so many things, I want to have my own business, I want to study human behaviour, I love art but I cannot help but feel like I'm doing the wrong things and I didn't select the right subjects in high school. It's so scary because I don't want to be the lost sheep in a crowd of aspiring young adults. I want to be a boss, I want to have freedom, I want to be happy... but I don't know who I want to become. it makes me feel so weak. thank you for this talk
@leenaramdial1161
@leenaramdial1161 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you girl but somehow somewhere itll come together i hope 🤞🏽
@mikechasejohnson
@mikechasejohnson 6 жыл бұрын
For the record, I washed windows for 5 years to put myself through college. Ask anyone who knows me and they will tell you how much I enjoyed it. I am passionate about clean glass. In fact, last month my 7 year old son begged to wash our house windows. My three kids and I smiled and laughed while we passionately washed the windows. If you don't believe me just ask my wife, she'll roll her eyes and shake her head while admitting it's all true. To prove your point, I only learned about my passion after stating my own window washing business because it seemed like a good way to make money. Last point, one of my favorite songs is "when I fall" by BNL. It's about window washing.
@justinhart7172
@justinhart7172 6 жыл бұрын
Go figure
@someweeb4110
@someweeb4110 6 жыл бұрын
Just died laughing mate Godspeed
@x5p_
@x5p_ 6 жыл бұрын
God bless you, man
@nafissadikfahim9984
@nafissadikfahim9984 6 жыл бұрын
My god this is so freaking funny!!! 😹😂😂
@43aqueous
@43aqueous 6 жыл бұрын
lmaoo
@biancaramirez5788
@biancaramirez5788 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a gearhead. That is my passion. I'll never be rich, I'll spend my entire life covered in grease, dirt and petroleum products. I'm sore at days end, I'm exhausted and covered in filth every day. But when I start driving home from work, I turn on the metalhead rock and by the end of three blocks, I've got a smile you could see on Google maps. My advice to everyone is to find something that you can do that gives you satisfaction at the end of day regardless of how you feel or look. Money is great, but happiness..... That is the the secret of a lifetime career, and emotional stability. Jobs may blow, bosses may be pricks, but if you can smile about what you have done on your way home, you are in at the very least a halfway decent place. Amazing enough, this also applies to every aspect of your life. Thonk about it....
@xyzv8640
@xyzv8640 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your opinion. Highly appreciated and agreed upon by a German who just quitted his not so exciting but money-rewarding job in a consultant firm... Money isn't everything but happiness, you said it brother.
@chayanka_kaushik
@chayanka_kaushik 4 жыл бұрын
I don't deny your point. I totally agree to it but what if your satisfaction isn't paying your bills off, you're not able to afford a good lifestyle for your children etc?
@guymorgan3648
@guymorgan3648 4 жыл бұрын
Racing in the street. Springsteen.
@Oh_its_Mike
@Oh_its_Mike 4 жыл бұрын
Smiling on the way home is because you just left work and have good music on lol
@laminh299
@laminh299 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree. If you feel satisfied after a grinding day, you're doing something right. Happiness matters.
@maryannrussum1796
@maryannrussum1796 Жыл бұрын
I totally get this, especially when you're at an interview. The hiring manager doesn't want to hear that my passion (or just something I love doing) is creating and wearing costumes or making hand-crafted art. They want to hear (if I'm interviewing for a graphic designer position) that I'm passionate about marketing or design, or whatever. They don't want your real-world answers. I also love that you mention how this question can be and often is triggering and stressful. And this part - 'you don't follow your passion; your passion follows you' - So true!
@inhuman_human6790
@inhuman_human6790 8 ай бұрын
I think what ima also getting at here is that passions change so don’t be all tunnel vision about it. Let life surprise you and have faith. And who knows maybe what life brings to you is better than what you originally wanted. It happens
@cjgeminitarot6836
@cjgeminitarot6836 4 жыл бұрын
This talk is so spot-on and so necessary, and I feel like the audience wasn’t ready for this level of truth.
@user-fk8zw5js2p
@user-fk8zw5js2p 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. I can see them thinking about re-thinking the way they interview candidates and calculating if the benefits are worth the effort.
@hajimemash1375
@hajimemash1375 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-fk8zw5js2p Wait what
@LemonMeIon
@LemonMeIon 3 жыл бұрын
@@hajimemash1375 I think T is assuming most of the audience are stale recruiters searching for a motivational spark to their business plans.
@decland.2111
@decland.2111 3 жыл бұрын
This woman in 10 mins taught me much more than living inside my parent's house for 20 years
@pablowpa
@pablowpa Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@botekate
@botekate Жыл бұрын
Feel the same way.
@lynnnguyen2828
@lynnnguyen2828 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@itzelescobedo1468
@itzelescobedo1468 Жыл бұрын
yes 😀
@humphreychama1734
@humphreychama1734 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@titas_saha
@titas_saha 3 жыл бұрын
"And sometimes you don't know what you are gonna do next, right? I mean I don't! I love not knowing what I am gonna be doing 5 years from now or what I will be into. And that's okay, it's okay to not know. You know why? Because the most fulfilling relationships the most fulfilling careers are those that still have the power to surprise you!"
@icanbestronger
@icanbestronger 7 жыл бұрын
It seems like she is saying dont go crazy breaking your head trying to figure out what your passion is...itll come to you eventually...
@icanbestronger
@icanbestronger 7 жыл бұрын
after trying different things... i hope thats true...
@canadude6401
@canadude6401 7 жыл бұрын
We all know someone who is so picky in choosing a spouse, using tunnel vision, they miss out on all the right people, and end up alone at 50 years old. Of course, you should never "settle" for a career path or "settle" for a person, but I think the speaker is right...if you don't have that burning desire/passion that only a few have anyway, simply take a job that will help you get closer to it. It's ok to take an average Joe job...it could very well lead to your passion. Don't hold fear about losing your job either...it is great opportunity to explore new interests.
@Mohit-gg2vd
@Mohit-gg2vd 6 жыл бұрын
Nicht von dieser Welt In what you said, That's what being an elitist means!!!!!!!!!!
@TheMaybeitisme
@TheMaybeitisme 4 жыл бұрын
I've struggled my whole damn life with the question: what is my passion? And this lifted such a huge burden from my shoulders. It is okay to just live and see where your life takes you, you don't need to know what you're going to do in 5 years. I love to work jobs that last for few months and can sometimes be continued few months longer. I've always been told that this is the wrong way of doing it but what's the point doing something for years and being totally miserable when you could've been doing many jobs and be curious every time you change jobs, eventually ending up with so many experiences and same amount of money as from the boring option. Best advice is the one: ''Just do something. Go do it''. What ever takes you forward at this point in life, just do that.
@Letishamalakootiofficial
@Letishamalakootiofficial 4 жыл бұрын
Kati Nietosvuori feel you
@rajkumaryadav4957
@rajkumaryadav4957 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. Purpose of life is to collect/ gain experiences and evolve. But sadly most people are busy in collecting things, which are doomed to be lost/ taken away at some point of time and definitely at time of death. If one believes in incarnation,then experiences remain with us even after death.
@AndrewLovesGames
@AndrewLovesGames 3 жыл бұрын
It's called: "Job drifters". I'm one of them and I like learning about different experiences and I now know what kind of jobs I definitely don't like haha
@MrPupejohnny
@MrPupejohnny 3 жыл бұрын
really? because one person had an oppinion on the internet?
@TheMaybeitisme
@TheMaybeitisme 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrPupejohnny Well, I've been thinking this way my whole life, it's nice that someone actually talks about it as it is a normal thing and doesn't judge people like me. It's actually coming a thing, that people sell their work to the companies etc, for short periods of time (for example, a project) and don't work for 40 years for the same company.
@kanguhafaith
@kanguhafaith Жыл бұрын
"Live a life of living. You don't follow your passion, passion follows you." This has to be one of the most eye opening and insightful advice. I recently graduated from university and ever since I've been so drained in all aspects as I had convinced myself I can't pursue anything without truly knowing what my passion really is.
@hufflepuff4444
@hufflepuff4444 Жыл бұрын
I feel like I've found a kindred soul on such a core matter. This is the exact situation I am in right now as well.
@1manbandkpop
@1manbandkpop 9 ай бұрын
When I "tried living", suddenly my passion to cook came back again! 😭😄 Previously I forced myself to bake regularly, baked nice things, all to regain my passion in cooking as I had when I was younger, it all didn't work.
@marlene3306
@marlene3306 3 жыл бұрын
Never once in my life have I needed to hear something as much as this before.
@ChristSaves88
@ChristSaves88 4 жыл бұрын
“You don’t follow your Passion, your Passion follows you.” Wow! This quote just changed me entire life.😲🙌🏾 God Bless!
@dianelopez7049
@dianelopez7049 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, you have reason, but passion is a very subjective idea. you don't think that?
@Letishamalakootiofficial
@Letishamalakootiofficial 4 жыл бұрын
Queen Mia I don’t get this quote
@alvamedley6735
@alvamedley6735 3 жыл бұрын
@@Letishamalakootiofficial Watch First Contact on Prime. Hope that helps.
@hamizahisman1834
@hamizahisman1834 4 жыл бұрын
"Don't wait for passion. Instead spend your time SOLVING YOUR FAVORITE PROBLEM. Be useful and generous. People will thank you, hug you and pay you for it..." I think I know what to do now😊
@translationfor7511
@translationfor7511 3 жыл бұрын
@MEKHI WILLIAMS based on my understanding, it means solve those questions in life / the society that you wish / feel like solving. In the speaker's example, it's the people's desires of buying jewelry.
@vicdrose
@vicdrose 3 жыл бұрын
my mum asked me what I wanted to study at university and what my passion would be- I was 11. We are told to chase our passions like its the last cookie in the jar. The best stories of being happy and successful is-usually-passions stumbling into people on the road of life. Please stop telling kids and people to find your passion and what singular thing to do with your life.
@BIOHAZARDCURE
@BIOHAZARDCURE 7 жыл бұрын
I've noticed that if you try and make your hobbies into jobs, you ruin them. You'll fall out of those hobbies. Find a job that you can tolerate, and keep your hobbies fun.
@sunveermogla
@sunveermogla 6 жыл бұрын
Finally someone with my perspective :')
@psteeg3551
@psteeg3551 6 жыл бұрын
yes and while you're at it, put all your energy and focus into it and you might just create a passionate feeling for the job
@survivalfarmcoach8727
@survivalfarmcoach8727 6 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly. I dont have to work anymore and can spend time on my hobbies all day. Now ive ruined my hobbies. I dont like them anymore.
@lifewitholga_
@lifewitholga_ 7 жыл бұрын
But I love clean glass...
@TonyTheTGR
@TonyTheTGR 7 жыл бұрын
Someone owes you a million then.
@lifewitholga_
@lifewitholga_ 7 жыл бұрын
+Tony TheTGR 🙂🙃 Guess so
@chelseaact
@chelseaact 7 жыл бұрын
Super Nova
@addicted2myworld
@addicted2myworld 7 жыл бұрын
But are you a professional window cleaner?
@rahimkhosravi2579
@rahimkhosravi2579 7 жыл бұрын
how dont?
@JohnLewisSocial
@JohnLewisSocial 2 жыл бұрын
When I feel like I need inspiration I love listening to this talk. It can feel so lonely and difficult trying to achieve your dreams. I also like researching and listening to career coaches as they are helpful. I also signed up to a course called the "career enhancement network", it has helped me loads to find the confidence I was lacking in the pursuit of a new job. Whatever path we chose for ourselves or life deals us, just know you're not alone and other people are facing the same hurdles and obstacles. Passion is hard to find sometimes.
@shahdmahmoud7183
@shahdmahmoud7183 10 ай бұрын
"passion is kind of feelings and feeling changed by the time " I love this one🤷‍♀💗
@dt384795
@dt384795 4 жыл бұрын
Really glad I found this video in a time where I need it the most. Being a college student and unsure of the future is truly a scary thing.
@shted224
@shted224 3 жыл бұрын
Me Too, had exactly the same feelings and trapped.
@nnaranji7195
@nnaranji7195 3 жыл бұрын
here's an idea, try different internship and volunteer jobs, be interested in a good variety of things and yk maybe you discover something u really enjoy
@shted224
@shted224 3 жыл бұрын
@@nnaranji7195 thanks, I'll try my best to dive into new things!
@iknowwhatyoudid9979
@iknowwhatyoudid9979 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah you are able to have good education... truly scary
@moang_covers
@moang_covers 3 жыл бұрын
You've already started by having an education. Do you see a problem that you think you can solve? So much at my end but no facilities...👍
@physicsboy10
@physicsboy10 6 жыл бұрын
My passion is to find a passion,
@gratefullyliving6576
@gratefullyliving6576 6 жыл бұрын
same
@palakdamani9842
@palakdamani9842 6 жыл бұрын
Lmao this entire video was to stop finding passion
@julsie3195
@julsie3195 6 жыл бұрын
My passion is making others passionless
@dusathemaid
@dusathemaid 6 жыл бұрын
My passion is finding strength to have to passion to find my passion
@mentiquebakabila4254
@mentiquebakabila4254 6 жыл бұрын
Hope you will never find it Get it?
@markbeeman3093
@markbeeman3093 2 жыл бұрын
My passion is having conversations with people and losing track of time laughing and talking. I did this as a house painter for years. Both the work and the socializing were therapy.
@mamabear71234
@mamabear71234 9 ай бұрын
This is one of the best speeches I have ever heard. I've been trying to find my passion for years. I needed to hear this. The truth is that passion comes after we start doing something. People waste years trying to find their "passion'. "follow your passion" is the worse advice one can receive. It's like chasing dust in the wind.
@sanpellegrinolimonata
@sanpellegrinolimonata 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how she mentioned that this whole 'passion' culture is elitist
@laerwen
@laerwen 3 жыл бұрын
that was such a truth bomb, my god.
@Bristecom
@Bristecom 2 жыл бұрын
I was surprised she said that too because that's exactly how I felt about it deep down. Those who only ever focus on their passion usually come from wealthy and privileged backgrounds and use their passion as their identity to flaunt. And she was also absolutely right about tunnel vision and losing out on love. I recently dumped a girl I'd known for a while and tried dating because she was so obsessed with becoming a pop-star idol that she very often claimed she didn't have time for anything or anyone else. Wouldn't even text me for days sometimes due to having to focus on her "passion." Do these kinds of people ever really succeed in the end?
@myotherusername9224
@myotherusername9224 2 жыл бұрын
>." Do these kinds of people ever really succeed in the end? Absolutely, yes, they do. Everyone who really hits it big had That driven focus. It also takes talent. And brains. And social intelligence. And enlightened self interest, the skill of seeking their own good. They make their own luck. Listen to Bill Burr talk about how long and hard he worked. The comi c Steve Martin. Steven Spielberg. Not everyone succeeds like they did, but the ones who do, all have those traits.
@tef7631
@tef7631 7 жыл бұрын
I agree with her to some extent. I think instead of trying to find your passion, people need to explore. Take chances and risks. We can never be 100% certain.
@ragavkumarv9127
@ragavkumarv9127 2 жыл бұрын
"You are not going to be stuck, you are stuck now. You cannot create life and then live it, you create it by living it, not agonizing about it." Two most beautiful lines. 🔥🔥🔥
@AyushSingh-xw8qm
@AyushSingh-xw8qm Жыл бұрын
If you are busy looking for your passion then you might miss opportunity that can change your life. This hits hard
@aaryangujjar7334
@aaryangujjar7334 5 жыл бұрын
Some guys don't understand her well. She. Is saying just don't be idle and scrounge for passion just do the work in front of you any how one day it will build your passion in the work or will help you to find that easily
@movement2contact
@movement2contact 4 жыл бұрын
I personally don't understand *your* sentence...
@kikitantan4223
@kikitantan4223 4 жыл бұрын
I really understand you! I think That’s exactly what she means! Thank you 🙏
@joeshmoe7967
@joeshmoe7967 4 жыл бұрын
@Chaos Burrito can't tolerate something I don't love, unless it is short term and leads to somewhere else
@fidorfsmf6349
@fidorfsmf6349 6 жыл бұрын
"You don't follow your passion, passion follows you" ZLATAN
@RizwanKhan-sc5yp
@RizwanKhan-sc5yp 4 жыл бұрын
Damn! 🔥
@sanjivanigurav4893
@sanjivanigurav4893 4 жыл бұрын
👍👍
@siilver1
@siilver1 2 жыл бұрын
Man, Call Me A Cry Baby But This Woman Gave Me So Much Comfort Through Her Words. It's EXACTLY what I Needed To Hear🥺 And I guess we are all stuck in Our Own Brains. That's what is the biggest Hurdle Not the "Finding Your passion".
@silversprout8974
@silversprout8974 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly right. Try things, do things and passion follows. This is the way I live my life, was once a knitting and crochet teacher and designer, now working at Sam's Club stocking shelves. Life takes twists and turns regardless of what we think we want. Be present and ride the waves that life provides.
@umabari
@umabari 6 жыл бұрын
Mike Rowe says to "follow opportunity and take your passion with you."
@bryanyannik2250
@bryanyannik2250 5 жыл бұрын
I agree to that, I just watched his video and it is worth watching it
@wghost1
@wghost1 5 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahaha
@vctmu
@vctmu 5 жыл бұрын
That was one of the best pieces of advice I have heard
@wghost1
@wghost1 5 жыл бұрын
She did say that which is the opposite of everything she said , so what to believe ? I say let your passion create your opportunity , try that instead .
@sudhindrak
@sudhindrak 8 жыл бұрын
Nice, contrarian perspective on the much murdered notion of passion. Even my pet hamster seems to have this ailment. Life is just a sum of events that fall together with generous help of people, hard work, circumstances and dollops of luck. Social media has made things worse by the exhibitionists who put all of their vacations, happiness and mirth out for everyone. In the end, the soul needs to be at peace with oneself and one's circumstances. That's the real big deal.
@cnsmooth
@cnsmooth 8 жыл бұрын
+sudhindra srinivas I dont really go on social media but I hate when people ask me what my PASSION is. Partly because I suffer from depression and it is hard to get really excited about anything, and also because Ive never really had something jump out and grab me..probably because as a child we were too poor to be allowed to go to clubs and things, but also being very shy I tried to stay away from things that I might fail at.
@magik603
@magik603 8 жыл бұрын
+The Black Johnny Gat you almost exactly told the story of my life im in my early 20s and i feel so fucking lost now to add to that despite of being an A student(especially in scientific field) i wasnt allowed to do my A levels and go to the college now im sitting here wondering what to do teaching myself how to code and reading articles that discourage becoming a programmer got massive headaches because of stress and shit i feel numb and dont really care about anything anymore, it wouldnt even matter to me if i died right now to be honest, at least there would be some relief that i havent gotten in like 10 years in my life
@cnsmooth
@cnsmooth 8 жыл бұрын
Frank Horrigan Where are you from??? Go and see a GP and try and get some counselling and maybe some medication. You may still be able to go back to college and restudy. Look into the finance options, at your age you should still be able to get back into education fairly easily.
@magik603
@magik603 8 жыл бұрын
The Black Johnny Gat i dont know if i feel depressed, i still find joy in shit that entertains me so i guess its an argument against it my situation is complicated cause my family moved to another country and i had to learn another language, despite being good at it, often getting better marks than native speakers in exams i do not feel comfortable speaking it at all im a kind of perfectionist and if i see that i make mistakes then i feel veeeeeery bad i just wanted to finish my school so i would be able to apply for universities in another country but because of some shitty laws i couldnt do it in my situation and now im fucking stuck with this i am also kinda retarded in humanistic field always struggling with writing essays and expressing myself now knowing 3 languages well(+a few on an intermediate level) but not being a master in any of these even my native language makes it hard to even decide in which language i should read a book i feel like im somehow lacking identity however you wanna interpret that... i cant express myself clearly so im not gonna attempt on trying to tell what i meant with that and my definition of it i just left school (cause i had to) a week ago and sent a form to make an appointment for some consulting regarding my career or school 2 hours after the form arrived at their office the retarded lady wrote an email to me that she couldnt reach me on my phone (i didnt get any calls at all) so i replied to her saying that my phone is all k after the weekend she wrote an email saying "thanks for the email, unfortunately we cant finalize the process yet cause we need some more info from you" im still waiting for the fucking call..... im just feeling like everybody is taking shit on me and ignoring me as if they were playing a game with me and i didnt mention that the case is urgent because in some weeks there wont be any possibility to apply for schools and shit so yeah i decided to learn to code (god how hard is it to even choose one with a character like this) cause it always interested me, i gave myself 6 months to get a job cause i feel like shit being a leech so im sitting 16 hours a day at my pc having terrible eyestrains im sure that i wont find any job without a degree anyway cause i kinda lack social skills (around strangers) partly because of the language issues and partly because i not a talkative person even if i get a job which i highly doubt i bet ill just be a code monkey for ever gg on life, my perfectionism and curiosity/passion for just any science sure got me a lot of praise and respect, being called smart and feeding my hopes for being successful in my life but unfortunately it didnt help me at all getting my shit together sorry for the long shit message and wasting your time
@venkatchait007
@venkatchait007 8 жыл бұрын
+Frank Horrigan From the way you are describing yourself it seems as if you are talking about me, I also have comical amounts of trouble expressing myself and even when I do I always end up with a feeling like I fucked up and what I said doesn't match what I wanted to say. I also get the feeling like people don't really want to interact with me,etc and I avoid contact. I'm still ok though, just stay determined dude.
@Masoom13710
@Masoom13710 Жыл бұрын
Passion is not a plan its a feeling and feelings change....!💖💖💖
@tarinaaleamoni
@tarinaaleamoni 3 ай бұрын
Such a powerful message. I’ve spent the past 3+ years, trying to discover my passion and calling for a career, but have been so stagnant and haven’t made any real concrete decisions which has been spiraling me into a negative cycle of depression and anxiety. our passion will come when we make sacrifices in the present that lead us to greater things. Waiting for that “perfect” moment, opportunity, or interest is a recipe for disaster.
@MrocznyTechnik
@MrocznyTechnik 7 жыл бұрын
No passion for clean glass? You broke my heard already. I LOVE clean glass.
@yuyanglin907
@yuyanglin907 7 жыл бұрын
me2
@stevesalt9005
@stevesalt9005 7 жыл бұрын
Mate I'm a window cleaner in the UK. Pretty dam passionate myself, especially about Windows others refuse to clean as it's to dangerous. I proper buzz of being the man to reach thar pane of glass lol. Peace bro ✌
@merovekh
@merovekh 7 жыл бұрын
MacOS is better than Windows.
@Cathy24601
@Cathy24601 7 жыл бұрын
I too love clean glass 😢
@alexjuly1452
@alexjuly1452 7 жыл бұрын
But your passion is music, isn't it? And music is what you're truly passionate about, right?
@yolisbortin9394
@yolisbortin9394 8 жыл бұрын
One of the only TED talks I ever actually liked
@harshav6970
@harshav6970 8 жыл бұрын
+Yolis Bortin then you haven't ... oh, wait i think you are right
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 8 жыл бұрын
TEDx, not TED.
@CalebdGM
@CalebdGM 8 жыл бұрын
+Yolis Bortin Why don't you like TED talks?
@huhh1643
@huhh1643 8 жыл бұрын
K
@domari9459
@domari9459 8 жыл бұрын
+Yolis Bortin I agree with you. Many of the TED talks are full of BS by people who wants to get popular.
@joycewaldner8175
@joycewaldner8175 3 жыл бұрын
"if you're sitting around waiting for passion to show up, you'll be waiting a long time"
@AdventuresWithGeg
@AdventuresWithGeg 3 ай бұрын
I've searched for a lot of videos to explain something that I wanted to hear and by you just saying 'passion is a feeling' it makes all sense. The only thing that's constant in life is change, and I think the sooner we accept that, the more free we become of these thoughts. Thanks for your talk!
@gayedavies2797
@gayedavies2797 4 жыл бұрын
I am glad she said that....my first job was in a shoe chain shop where I was trained to run a business and got paid a salary. I felt rich and happy. I then ran 4 pubs in London for a famous chain which was a nobody brand back then. I learnt so much about human beings daily fights, arguments, weddings, politics, street stalls and led a team of funny people. I then got a job in a mad office selling candidates for interviews on the phone. I picked up a job in security placed my 2 school friends and then me. After I was promoted to a Manager but then left to travel the world. I came back and worked in a old psychiatric hospital supporting admin staff. I got promoted to a manager and then off I went to another job. It goes on like this. I teach children, adults and volunteer because I get Meaning out of helping people to pass exams, and make choices they never thought were possible. I tell them to try and then go with it. I am still experimenting with life and amazed at how far you can go if you take risks, Having money to pay stuff is so important. There is my answer to the next step. Things change and so do our feelings.
@pranaygurnule5666
@pranaygurnule5666 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this
@Jessmcmaster
@Jessmcmaster 2 жыл бұрын
Love it, Thank you for sharing the wisdom you gained from your experience!
@dragonfly_catcher
@dragonfly_catcher 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! Having an obvious impact on others must really feel good :)
@olgabigoszewska7756
@olgabigoszewska7756 8 жыл бұрын
Reading the comments I think that it was the best TED talk for those who aren't sure what their passion is and were afraid to try anything lest they fail. And for some it was the worst talk because she emphasized the value of money. You could try to follow your passion if you have it figured out but it's difficult if you aren't suceeding and yet the bills keep coming all the same. Kudos to those who have made fortunes on their passions and good luck to those who are so afraid of trying anything for they might end up searching for something to do their whole lives.
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