STOP THE RACISM!!! - Omar Suleiman

  Рет қаралды 89,583

Islam On Demand

Islam On Demand

12 жыл бұрын

This is chapter 3. Watch the full lecture here: • Q&A on Gender Relation...
Buy the DVD or MP3: www.islamondemand.com/406iod.html
Qur'an: Miraculous Book of Guidance: • Qur'an: The Miraculous...
Please support our many efforts:
www.IslamOnDemand.com
www.30FactsAboutIslam.com
www.AydenZayn.com
www.Islamogram.com
Subscribe/Follow:
Newsletter: www.islamondemand.com/subscribe
KZbin: / islamondemand
Facebook: / islamondemand
Twitter: / islamondemand
Pinterest: / islamondemand
Instagram: / islamondemand
And please don't forget to like, share and subscribe!
TERMS OF USE:
If you use any part of this video or audio in your own production, you must do AT LEAST TWO of the following (and they MUST REMAIN as long as our content appears on your channel):
1) And an end screen that either links to our channel or links to our video that contains the content you used. For instructions on how to do this watch this video: • How To Add End Screen ...
2) Add a card that links to our channel. The card's teaser text should say “Check out Islam On Demand”. For instructions on how to do this watch this video: • How to Add a Card to a...
3) Add our channel to your list of recommended channels.
4) Add the following text in the VERY TOP of your video's description: Check out the Islam On Demand KZbin channel: / islamondemand
5) Add a legible and clearly visible text overlay that appears in the FIRST HALF of your video and remains on screen for at least 7 seconds that says “Support Islam On Demand at www.IslamOnDemand.com"

Пікірлер: 878
@eemanawaz
@eemanawaz 4 жыл бұрын
I'm Bengali and married a Vietnamese convert. 2 mixed race kids alhamdulilah..in laws are Buddhist but they're awesome people and respectful.
@incrediblehulk8031
@incrediblehulk8031 Жыл бұрын
You RACE TRAITOR!
@user-gqszxiq
@user-gqszxiq 5 жыл бұрын
I had to leave the love of my life because his family was not open minded that I am a Latina revert to Islam. they would not except me. whoever is reading this please keep me in your duas that Allah will bless me with a beautiful husband that will except me for who I am and help me grow in Islam. Inshaallah
@aidahabdiahal-azeez4688
@aidahabdiahal-azeez4688 5 жыл бұрын
I will keep you in my du'a and Insha'Allah you will find someone even better sis
@user-gqszxiq
@user-gqszxiq 5 жыл бұрын
erika Barnabas thanks queen💗
@richardrodrigues783
@richardrodrigues783 5 жыл бұрын
Sarah James Your experience is not unique! In my case it was a woman of a different race and cultural background. Many reasons were given for my unsuitability. But in the end was the same result-rejection. We cannot and should not force,coerce or trick anyone into loving us. But love must be given freely and generously without any demands or conditions. Love is a wonderful, beautiful God given emotion and state of being. It cannot be destroyed or taken back. But we have to be careful whom we fall in love with. And the love is not one-sided.Only one person having this feeling/emotion for the other person. My resentment and anger over this loss is now long gone. What is left is the purity of a love that is kinder,gentler and grateful. Both to God and the person I still love. Many times in our lives we want something that God does not want us to have.With the passage of time we will and can see this thing we wanted was not for us.And God in His Great Love and Wisdom kept this from us. I am sure the grief and pain of this loss will be healed by God as you continue to pray.And with the prayers and loving support of those who have always loved you-parents,siblings,relatives and close friends will also help you to heal. I had started ten years ago to write a fictional story of two people brought together after tragedies- death of their spouses to fall in love with each other. Today I read part of this and was surprised how beautiful it was. I have resolved to finish it as a labour of love. My prayers go up to the Lord on your behalf. May He continue to bless your life with His Peace,Love and Joy. As He meets you in the quiet, beautiful garden of your heart to comfort you with His Great Love.
@user-gqszxiq
@user-gqszxiq 5 жыл бұрын
Richard Rodrigues thank you for your beautiful words may God bless you.
@Youtubeman00
@Youtubeman00 5 жыл бұрын
Ameen sister.
@fshibu738
@fshibu738 5 жыл бұрын
This comment section is toxic :| Nothing wrong with wanting to marry only within your culture, but rejecting someone solely based on the fact that they come from a different culture is not okay, smh
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
You're forgetting compatibility, you moron!
@diamond3529
@diamond3529 5 жыл бұрын
mplsridah You cant be a good example of a muslim, the way you act and all your jackass hate filled comments on this video. Enjoy hell ☝🏽
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Diamond Teff I never claimed to be a good ambassador of Islam, idiot. I'm a realist, the world needs the inconvenient truth. I'm going to hell because I'm against something that's mubah? What kind jahil are you? You need to stop following me, weirdo, or I'll be forced to block you marxist agents!
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Mr Hassan thank you, my good sir. These jahils can't accept the truth!
@zahranaser2129
@zahranaser2129 4 жыл бұрын
@@mrhassanali3297 you two have the same little brain. Hadaad wax ku hadlayso khayr ku hadal Wayne ahayn iska dhaaf . Oo mar hadaabad wax shegayso daliil u keen
@johnwaynepresley
@johnwaynepresley 5 жыл бұрын
as a converted muslim, i can really say i haven't faced something more trying to my soul than marriage. alhamdulilah... but everything we face, subhana Allah the prophet pbuh faced, but more severely in one way or another. i think of how he was an orphan, subhana Allah, and how nobody wanted to marry him because of this. but Allah swt had khadija ra for him. she was beneficial to him in every way possible and he loved her so much subhana Allah. we just have to be patient. every matter with patience in sha Allah. may Allah grant the muslims good spouses.
@hawaali4115
@hawaali4115 5 жыл бұрын
Are you looking for a spouse ?
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Hawwa Islam Are you proposing to him?
@hawaali4115
@hawaali4115 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah well this question is a double edge sword.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
May I ask what ethnicity u are?
@hawaali4115
@hawaali4115 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah I am Nigerian.
@Adooma21
@Adooma21 3 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulilah for this lecture. I found myself being a part of the minority when challenging my community in regards to labeling African Americans as "Abeds" (slaves). In Arabic Abed-Allah, means the slave of God, however when referring to people of the Ummah, this term was never used, however only used when referring to black people. I made an effort, alhamdulilah with the knowledge God has blessed me with, to correct those with this ignorant/racist term, only to be returned with eye rolls and made to feel overly sensitive. Hearing Sheikh Suleiman explain this validates my thinking/reasoning, but also worries me how uneducated our Ummah is at times. Brothers and sisters, continue to increase your knowledge and continue changing incorrect social norms/practices you know, are unjust.
@hansguenter6263
@hansguenter6263 5 ай бұрын
STOP THE RACISM!!! _ Stop Islam....!!
@freepalestine3966
@freepalestine3966 6 жыл бұрын
My son is half Somali half Latino/Hispanic and I support him on whoever he wants to marry....we need to change this racist mentality because we are all MUSLIMS!
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Half Somali/half Latino? WTf? Which parent is Somali? Somalis we are homogenous people and it's rare to see someone marry outside of their clan, let alone race
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
And btw that's not a racist mentality. Look up the word "racism"
@Farah_quddubi
@Farah_quddubi 5 жыл бұрын
mplsridah subhanallah wallal, why does it matter who anyone marries. Marriage is meant to bring two people choose together to allah. I’m somali and wouldn’t mind marrying out, but I prefer Somali women. I have sisters and I would fully support if they wanted to marry a pious non Somali brother. Stop with this race purity mentality wallahi, comes from Shaytaan.
@2pkjs1351
@2pkjs1351 8 жыл бұрын
Pretty sad how some of those elders were feeling ashamed , they knew they were guilty of what this Sheikh was saying
@alfatir14
@alfatir14 3 жыл бұрын
On the contrary. It's a good thing they felt shame. That means they know they were wrong and can change. ان شاء الله
@mam7jmm
@mam7jmm 9 жыл бұрын
This Sheik is 100% correct! Because I have witnessed this MANY times within a muslim community comprised of older Indian brothers & sisters.
@hansguenter6263
@hansguenter6263 5 ай бұрын
STOP THE RACISM!!! _ Stop Islam....!!
@HassanHassan-yc2gi
@HassanHassan-yc2gi 5 жыл бұрын
Stop reading the comments, they're toxic and they won't benefit you.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
This video won't benefit me
@HassanHassan-yc2gi
@HassanHassan-yc2gi 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah then why are you here
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Because I'm anti interracial marriage
@zahranaser2129
@zahranaser2129 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly brother
@zahranaser2129
@zahranaser2129 4 жыл бұрын
@@HassanHassan-yc2gi she is one of those who are spreading toxins don't mind her she have read nearly all the comments and her little brain is trying to refuse a reality that exist even before her little brain was made.
@beth_9214
@beth_9214 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I totally agree with that, and I'm really glad that he brought that up, because when it comes to marriage, it seems that character is the last important thing and nationality is the most important thing!!! And also the hypocrisy of it, because it's OK to share the same street, the same job with this person that has a different nationality or religion, BUT it's totally unacceptable to share the same family with that person just because she or he comes from a different part of the world...And think about this (for men): where do you spend most of your time, at home or at work??? I wonder what the prophet would say to the Muslims of today about this hypocrisy and racism!!!
@abdulrahim-vs8dx
@abdulrahim-vs8dx 5 жыл бұрын
The kinda speech i prefer , i want my parents to hear this .
@tweetyrocks7686
@tweetyrocks7686 5 жыл бұрын
So r u seeing someone?
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
nah, this is gross, races should not mix, you don't see Christian/Jewish women demanding marriage with Muslim men
@Lia-ei8rg
@Lia-ei8rg 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah Oh so ur against it...I see. May I ask what's ur ethnicity?
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Liam Hurrell I said my ethnicity above, what's yours?
@Lia-ei8rg
@Lia-ei8rg 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah I'm white. Not biracial, but I'm not against it.
@smile-db6bv
@smile-db6bv 2 жыл бұрын
I am greeting you sheikh from somalia
@asilhabara8353
@asilhabara8353 8 жыл бұрын
This is so true,as an Arab I see a lot of rasicm and colourism around the Arab and Muslim community. Yet they have the nerve to point out bibal and say how their not anti black. Even in Some Arab / Muslim communities I receive more dismiranation and hate there although we are all Muslim and even from the same country
@tweetyrocks7686
@tweetyrocks7686 8 жыл бұрын
its not only in arab,its everywhere.
@asilhabara8353
@asilhabara8353 8 жыл бұрын
Yeah I know of course there is but there is a lot of judging there and they use biblal as an excuse their not racists and I think a lot of them neglect talking about the issue
@yousraadly7341
@yousraadly7341 4 жыл бұрын
Indeed .Raisicm is uncurable sickness , Allah commanded is to reject the sinners only not people because they were born different or with disability beside that its not their fault Allah creation isnt a bad thing at first place . Thanks for the lovely reminder .
@papafall4158
@papafall4158 Жыл бұрын
Racism and Nationalism don't have any place in Islam, completely shun. I was never able to comprehend racism anyway.
@malikkamara4656
@malikkamara4656 5 жыл бұрын
Al hamdulilah I would say in West Africa (Guinea, Senegal, Mali, Gambie) it's not a big issue as long as you are Muslim, your family and specially your mother is good, and you are a good Muslim, it's always possible.. We have to be careful with that sometimes! Muslims knows very well that racism, Tribalism, nationalism, the prophete Mohamed (swh) warned us about that!! And don't put differences between Muslims because it always goes back to you at the end nobody can deceive Allah! You're only playing with yourself without knowing
@truth4reel
@truth4reel 5 жыл бұрын
Not always true. Fulanis in Senegal don't like to marry outside their ethnic group
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
truth4reel that's every tribe, right? Even though they are technically the same people
@danielaramburo7648
@danielaramburo7648 3 жыл бұрын
It’s ok to turn down a marriage proposal if the other person is dishonest, a criminal, cheater.... but if you turn him/her down because he is another color, nationality, ethnicity...... then you are messed up.
@abubakralfaouri1329
@abubakralfaouri1329 4 жыл бұрын
Even between Arabs that are neighboring countries can’t get married sometimes because of ridiculous prejudice
@checkmattee222
@checkmattee222 4 жыл бұрын
Wish this was possible to my family.😔
@AB-lt9dk
@AB-lt9dk 4 жыл бұрын
queen 'Araweela mine is worse than yours believe me
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
queen "araweela why? Are you lusting after ajnabis? smh, you're disgrace to our people
@checkmattee222
@checkmattee222 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah You're a disgrace to the prophet (s.a.w) because racism and tribalism is forbidden in Islam. So do you mean to say that you are going against Allah and His prophet (s.a.w)'s way?
@zakariachahiedine6761
@zakariachahiedine6761 4 жыл бұрын
queen 'Araweela Ma sha Allah
@sylargrey9444
@sylargrey9444 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah go be useless somewhere else
@irshadtarsoo7734
@irshadtarsoo7734 5 жыл бұрын
Fighting for Assabiyah is haraam, a muslim who hates another muslim because he is not of the same race has one of the characteristics of a hypocrite
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
It's not hate, it's compatibility. You don't use iphone charger to charge Android, do you?
@irshadtarsoo7734
@irshadtarsoo7734 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah We are made compatible with Islam, there is no difference between a black, an Arab or a white muslim except by their Imaan, what race you belong to do not matter, Allah gave us muslims Islaam as our identity and all muslims are fully compatible with each other
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Irshad Tarsoo yes, there's no difference, we're all equal. That's exactly what racists say. I someone doesn't want to breed with you, it doesn't mean they are racist.
@irshadtarsoo7734
@irshadtarsoo7734 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah but you are establishing a difference between the other muslim and you, a difference that Allah didn't tell you to do, Allah ordered muslim to remain united
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Irshad Tarsoo no I did not establish a difference between me and other Muslims, what are you talking about? Muslims are not united at all, take that "one ummah" fake pretense elsewhere bro
@Ibzyas
@Ibzyas 3 жыл бұрын
Allah bless Omar sulieman Alhamdulilah ☝🏽
@ibromeo9682
@ibromeo9682 3 жыл бұрын
when i see arab like this man so humble i dont know really what to do cause there are some racist arabs who make all arabs racist
@bryanbradley6871
@bryanbradley6871 2 жыл бұрын
What are Arabs race?
@alhishambey1092
@alhishambey1092 2 жыл бұрын
@@bryanbradley6871 Arabs are not a race
@bryanbradley6871
@bryanbradley6871 2 жыл бұрын
@@alhishambey1092 ik I meant what race are ARABS part of? Caucasian?
@alhishambey1092
@alhishambey1092 2 жыл бұрын
@@bryanbradley6871 they're actually part of all races. Arabs range from light Caucasian looking, brown, to very dark complexioned (Black) very much like Hispanic people. Arabs are a linguistic cultural ethnic group and nationality, not a race. You can even say they're mixed depending were you go. and like all other ethnic groups the white and lighter skinned Arabs usually discriminate against the dark and black ones.
@bryanbradley6871
@bryanbradley6871 2 жыл бұрын
@@alhishambey1092 dude... HISPANICS are European lol. Dark Complexion doesn't mean black lol it's called tan if they're Caucasian.
@PunkRogue
@PunkRogue 5 жыл бұрын
When Adam and eve were first created,there was only one race to begin with that is the human race
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Stop race mixing, you weirdo!
@sylargrey9444
@sylargrey9444 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah it's abomination until you give me a taste, you'll never go back sugartuts 😘
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Sylar Grey so you're into abominable act? Homosexual Muslims like you are the reason why people don't take Muslims serious.
@awesomekindness5711
@awesomekindness5711 4 жыл бұрын
mplsridah and I’m pretty sure racist Muslims who are not willing to be open and follow Islam properly are not doing any good either.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome Kindness I'm pretty sure them being racists have nothing to do with their religion, just like Christian racists. What does it mean to be open? Jesus freaks are actually most open people and they look down on race mixing or inter-faith marriage!
@angelareed849
@angelareed849 4 жыл бұрын
The negative comments on here are so harmful, disappointing and unsettling.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Negative? I don't see any negative comments on here
@zakariachahiedine6761
@zakariachahiedine6761 4 жыл бұрын
Angela Reed I’m sorry about that, people like her are a disgrace to Islam and her thoughts and viewpoints are contrary to authentic Islam as practiced by the Prophet صلى الله عليه و سلم and his companions. If race was such a major issue in marriage the Prophet would’ve mentioned it but he didn’t. She’s just extrapolating endless nonsense from her miserable self.
@msNB1
@msNB1 10 жыл бұрын
may Allah swt bless you for this lecture.
@ummukulthumrasheed4802
@ummukulthumrasheed4802 5 жыл бұрын
Mashallah Allahu Akbar. Well said. May Allah bless you more Ameen
@BigDuck786
@BigDuck786 7 жыл бұрын
Jazakallahu Khayran for the advice
@Reporterreporter770
@Reporterreporter770 6 жыл бұрын
Wow This is a great Imam
@zunair744
@zunair744 5 жыл бұрын
@@sada1628 and your a racist bigot.
@williamrobinson3076
@williamrobinson3076 5 ай бұрын
Assalamualaikum mashallah as this brother gives his wise wisdom he's more dark skin than a light complexion
@zeeistasif1901
@zeeistasif1901 5 жыл бұрын
drop that skin care routine tho!!!!
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
wtf! wrong video, you ugly F***
@msadxt5049
@msadxt5049 5 жыл бұрын
mplsridah she’s literally asking a question lmao chill
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
lol i'm not being rude, she's just in the wrong video, why would she ask a sheikh about skin care routine df
@zeeistasif1901
@zeeistasif1901 5 жыл бұрын
mplsridah it was just a joke, relax :)
@Lia-ei8rg
@Lia-ei8rg 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah Lol yeah it's kinda out of place to ask for skin routine because it has nothing to do with his talk, but you called her "ugly F***" that was the only thing rude tbh
@alfatir14
@alfatir14 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone know the title or can provide the link to the full lecture??? جزاك الله خير
@Maria46823
@Maria46823 Жыл бұрын
I think it's the 1 hour one maybe. kzbin.info/www/bejne/maHVmYeelrNnp6c
@alfatir14
@alfatir14 Жыл бұрын
@Maria جزاك الله خير Appreciate you, dear sister
@Maria46823
@Maria46823 Жыл бұрын
@@alfatir14 وَإِيَّاكَ to you aswell
@Daundergroundimam
@Daundergroundimam 4 жыл бұрын
That real Akhi بارك الله فيك
@realali93
@realali93 8 жыл бұрын
wallahi I feel that many Arabs will get a rude awakening for treatment of races they seem to look down upon
@story5188
@story5188 5 жыл бұрын
The facts in these 3 minutes subhanallah
@RUF911
@RUF911 9 жыл бұрын
The root cause of interracial marriages today between Muslims is pre-marital relationships. If Muslims knew the Islamic rulings on gender interaction, knew how to approach a potential spouse within the realm of the sharia/Islamic etiquette and did not engage themselves into pre-marital relationships, interracial marriages would nowhere be as much as they are today. They get married because they had fallen in love because they were engaged in a pre-marital relationship and some have even rebelled out causing major heartaches in their families then they turn around and say "We got married because Islam condemns racism and we place deen above culture" if this is not hypocrisy, don't know what is.
@RUF911
@RUF911 9 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why you’re being disrespectful like that, calling me ignorant and what not. Anyways, I’m not going to deny the fact that they are Muslims who married from the same nationality and were engaged in a pre-marital relationship. When it comes to interracial marriages however, in the great vast majority of the time it is the boy and the girl who find each other on their own, whether through university, work and so on, Islmically there is nothing wrong with that, especially that nowadays interacting with the opposite gender is virtually unavoidable and Islmically we are allowed to interact with the opposite gender, it just that we must remain formal, modest and any unnecessary conversation must be avoided. Most of the time, sadly this does not apply nowadays. There are stories here in my community that I have personally witnessed, where the guy talks to a girl secretly without approaching her family, it’s as if they get secretly “engaged”. A Canadian convert is currently dating a Lebanese girl, I told him that what he’s doing is not correct and that he should approach her family, his response was: “I will not approach her father until I make sure that we’re both in deeply in love and attached to one another, that way, in case I get refused, it’ll be very easy for me to convince her to go see the Imam.” Another story, a Persian guy was dating a Pakistani girl and it took him 1 year not to convince her family, but convince the girl to walk out of her family’s home and go see the Imam...and I have many other stories to tell. As you probably know, if the guardian refuses to marry his daughter off for no valid reason, the girl reserves the right to go see an Imam, but this privilege is used and abused beyond anyone’s imagination. Girls nowadays go see the imams because they have developed very strong feelings for their boyfriend. she want to marry her boyfriend because she has fallen in love and uses Islamic privileges for that. Some Imams have publically announced that they will never conduct such a marriage, because chances are the girl is lying, she tells the imam “my father refused someone of a good deen and character based on race” where in reality, she’s using the imam as a means to marry her lover...Trust me I know all the tips and tricks girls pull off nowadays. There is no doubt that there’s an ugly and very dark side of interracial marriages. The reason why I’m putting interracial marriages under the spotlight is because the topic of this video is about those marriages. The issue here is, you have famous Muslim public speakers who get carried away with their emotions on how Islam condemns racism and they start to blindly glorify and over glorify interracial marriages and get all superficial and rosy with their arguments. Yet at the same time, the great vast majority of interracial marriages are nothing but love marriages and have nothing to do with deen. For the longest time I was asking myself as to why those public speakers glorify and over glorify interracial and get the Muslims all hyped up and excited on how Islam condemns racism and completely ignore the fact that the ROOT CAUSE OF INTERRACIAL MARRIAGES IS PRE-MARITAL RELATIONSHIPS!! How come they never talk about the Islamic rulings on gender interaction, how to approach a potential spouse within the Islamic etiquettes a that pre-marital relationships is something condemned in Islam DURING AN INTERRACIAL MARRIAGES GLORIFICATION LECTURE??? Don’t you think that there’s a misbalance here?? That is the reason why I’m putting interracial marriages under the spotlight. In the Shafi’i, Hanafi and hambali schools of thoughts, there’s something called “Fiqh Al Kafa’a” when it comes to marriages. In case you’re a non-Arab, Kafa’a translates into Qualifications or in terms of marriage, suitability/compatibility. Without getting into too much fiqh, basically Kafa’a only applies for the Muslim women; it’s when she and her guardian look at the man to see whether or not he’s a match for the girl. They are more than one condition, for example in the shafi’i school of thought: 1- A slave man is not a match for a free woman (this obviously does not apply today) 2- Social Status/wealth, for example: a man with a high school degree is not a match for the woman who has a Ph.D. The example mentioned in the reliance of the traveller is: a son of a tailor is not a match for a daughter of a merchant. 3- Religiousness: A corrupt man is no match for a righteous woman 4- Lineage: A non-Arab man is not a match for an Arab woman 5- A man with a physical and/or mental illness is not a match for a healthy woman If the girl chooses to marry a non-suitable match, then her father reserves the right to hold the Kafa’a on her behalf and refuse her potential spouse. If the father chooses to marry his daughter off to a non-suitable match, then the girl has obviously the right to refuse, the girl can refuse for any reason suitable or not. On the other hand, if the father accepts to marry his daughter off to a non-suitable match and the daughter accepts, then the marriage is perfectly permissible, but the father will be seen as someone negligent. Let’s concentrate on number 4, “lineage”. When I read that, I was surprised since everyone around me shouts from the top of their lungs “Racism this, Racism that” I called a local sheikh, and asked him about the lineage condition, his reply was: “Yes it is true, an Arab father can refuse a non-Arab based on race, but nowadays it’s better to accept, because if not, the girl can very well commit zina with her “friend””. This is actually a known issue, I’m not going to disrespect you by calling you “ignorant”, but I encourage you to read further about fiqh al Kafa’a and just for fun, google “parents refusing marriage in islam” or something within those lines, you’ll notice that the people asking the online “imam” or moonlight scholar that they want to marry someone they love and the parents are refusing. Yes, they literary say “love” Let me elaborate further on this: "We got married because Islam condemns racism and we place deen above culture" 1- One can marry outside his or her culture and yet still be racist and still stereotype towards other people of different ethnicities. I have personally witnessed it before, yes they are Muslims who marry outside of their culture who are at the same time RACIST!! 2- Placing deen above culture or above any worldly thing does not automatically translate into “marrying outside of your culture”. Believe it or not, but marrying someone religious from your culture is a possibility. Some will say “I know people who got married from their culture and their marriage have failed because they didn’t take deen into consideration and I know people who married outside of their culture and live happy because they have taken deen into consideration.” Both of these scenarios are true, but trust me when I tell you, there’s a flip side to it. Offensive? I know what I said was harsh, but it’s the absolute truth. What you need to understand is, people who are open to the idea to marry outside of their culture or have married outside of their culture, describe themselves as being “Open minded” and part of being open minded is to accept reality for what it is without taking any offense. Now, if they are interracial marriage couples who read what I wrote, technically they shouldn’t get offended because I’m saying the truth. Waslam.
@kledmohd4230
@kledmohd4230 9 жыл бұрын
P-Stine I've read what you've wrote and many of it makes sense but some i find confusing, ur actually right that many of the interracial marriages are stemming not the right way in fact most of the marriages in general are not stemming in the right way, instead of guarding the eyes, tongue and private part, men and women actually gets into unislamic relationships like emotional relationship thru conversing freely and developing feelings that is reserved for marriage only, and the other is physical relationship which is touching all the way up to fornication, u r right that since cultures have changed and the interaction between genders have increased, it is evident that opposite gender will come in contact and this may lead to some attractions but if the children are brought up in proper upbringing, they would try to observe the religious practices and character of the person in a formal way within the bounds of islam and not get informal, and if they see the right qualities that is recommended in islam , the boy can send a proposal to the girl's parents, and if after that they refuse the question of rebellion is out of the picture since the relationship has not gone far, but if it does takes place despite less interactions , then u could have a valid reason for taking up to a sharia council if the parents want to marry her to a less practicing boy or coz after the proposal things took a different turn or other reason etc and the sharia council could marry them provided that the boy is well practicing muslim but nowadays u have muslim girls lying abt their lovers being practicing while the very fact that they were involved seriously before marring contradicts the very fact of being practicing, ppl uses the technicality of islam to benefit their desires and Sharia councils complies easily without any investigation, im not proposing espionage but maybe someone could go to the local mosque of the boy and ask abt him or get to know him thru his friends etc to determine if he is truly a practicing person and if the ruling of marrying women to practicing and good character men truly apply or not, rather that believing the girl which is truly wrong as she would say anything to get her goals, and then u have imams who are scared that they would indulge in fornication and quickly sort out the best of the worse alternatives, my parents are old now and counciled and consolidated many couples and have always noticed that ppl who do wrong before marriage most of the time have bad marriages compared to those which have islamic guidelines involved. Of course in case of arranged marriages parents are not right all the time and i have a real example, my two elder sisters married without even knowing the man beforehand and the eldest divorced within a year due to domestic abuse, and the second after few years coz the husband was sterile, their second marriages they chose their own but didn't break any islamic rulings and in the very beginning got parents involved and and they are leading happy lives now with kids etc Alhamdulillah, actually u do have serious conversations regarding gender interactions among the religious Muslims but i guess sheikh Omar's point is after parents gives their children incomplete guidance and the damage being done,and then the best alternative which can be used, in this case the genders not protecting their eyes due to parent's negligence in their upbringing and them falling in love, and love does makes u blind and religion doesn't matter anymore, and the example of the Hafiza is also contradicting as practicing muslims don't get involved before marriage or fornicate and the issue would never get serious, its somehow that he's justifying her fornication coz of the reluctance of her parents, its kind of confusion when u live in such societies or genders don't care of their limits, but i do still believe that when u make marriage hard fornication becomes easy, and in early Islam marriage was not this huge monster that it is now becoz of our cultures, and parents should take it easy and leave negative cultural prejudices and focus more on Islam, and if children are brought up in a proper manner and knows their duties should have confidence in their decision if no Islamic bounds have been crossed, especially if they find someone who is practicing in the right sense and it is confirmed, i blame the public education system for most of the problems today coz children acts like angels at home and devils at schools and a big gap of what parents perceive their children to be and what they actually are, i think as muslims we need to rethink our education system for better moral upbringing of our children, regarding ur fiqh ka'afa, i find the social status and lineage of being arab and non arab confusing, social status is important coz if a rich women married a poor man out of some blind love and parents agreed, the women can get disappointed later and frustrated due to financial reasons and due to weakness of faith and lack of patience compare to if she married someone of her standing and it makes sense but i think it should be a guidance rather than a reason for prohibition in marriage, and i see the wisdom if u observe some real life examples, but it could create social barriers of rich and poor being separate or inferiority based on this issue or in this case separatism, and the arab and non arab seems even more confusing as cultures should be shaped thru religion and not the other way around, and this seems like clear racism without any doubt, coz arabs are a race, if the above points are based of Qiyas and ijtihad then i believe the scholars of our times have the authority to reshape these views, but if it is scriptural , then of course more stricter ways to look at these points and exploring their wisdom and authenticity of those sources could be checked compared to others.
@RUF911
@RUF911 8 жыл бұрын
+ultradestruction U got serious issues Brah
@litedaya7657
@litedaya7657 8 жыл бұрын
+P-Stine www.alukah.net/sharia/0/39368/ pls take the time to read this,they offer a compelling case that the kafaa in Deen and manners is the only qualification strongly supported by the Qur'an and sunnah,the rest were to adhere to cultures and family paradigms.
@litedaya7657
@litedaya7657 8 жыл бұрын
+ultradestruction my brother you offered good examples,but you are taking this way too personally.
@idayiakandel7391
@idayiakandel7391 3 жыл бұрын
What does those words mean in English
@Zainaabe
@Zainaabe 3 жыл бұрын
Abid means slave, and Kalu means a black male particularly, Igbo and Ibo men who are from the eastern part of Nigeria.
@razaa09
@razaa09 12 жыл бұрын
i did google it and clicked on the first five links. Islam is not only the fastest growing religion but has the highest conversion rate. I live in the west and in a completely white town but surprisingly most of our neighbours are Muslim. Iftaari's are so much fun. No other religion can give such satisfaction. I feel sad for the non-believers.
@hipstastonic3447
@hipstastonic3447 5 жыл бұрын
I was about to get married to saudi, his mom doesn’t accept it he even said im a good woman she doesnt accept it because im moroccan im now getting over a breakup..
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Saudis are racist pos. Never marry a Saudi. You dodged a bullet
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Kay P I'm sorry about that. Born Muslims are the most racist of all but they preach a beautiful message like this one.
@mrhassanali3297
@mrhassanali3297 5 жыл бұрын
@@kayp4601 Where is the black sister you married from? What's her ethnicity?
@mrhassanali3297
@mrhassanali3297 5 жыл бұрын
@@kayp4601 Is she African American
@user-jh7ok4ti2i
@user-jh7ok4ti2i 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah very true brother. That s why everyone thinks Muslims sing kumbayah and then get a rude awakening when the reality hits them.
@gilbertoaviles4586
@gilbertoaviles4586 4 жыл бұрын
How can I convert to Islam?
@gilbertoaviles4586
@gilbertoaviles4586 4 жыл бұрын
@Mohammed A. yes brother but I constantly miss prayer and I know I'm probably doing alot more that is displeasing to allah. I want to convert but further more to get on the right path that God wants us all on not just to call myself a muslim.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Troll
@gilbertoaviles4586
@gilbertoaviles4586 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah why do you call me a troll?
@lubnabashein5092
@lubnabashein5092 4 жыл бұрын
Go to your local mosque, they'll help you throughout your journey. Good luck!
@geomessi3423
@geomessi3423 4 жыл бұрын
How can I leave Islam ?
@ticketsbeforethecrowd
@ticketsbeforethecrowd 11 жыл бұрын
That story of the hafidha of quran and abortion wants to make me cry, I've been saying it many times if we don't do something we are doomed. Remember the destruction of Bani Israel and yes the racism is a real problem I don't know if we can save it because its rooted in their brains, hearts and souls
@zahranaser2129
@zahranaser2129 4 жыл бұрын
I'm half yemeni and half Somali. And I'm in a trial now because of his parent refused our marriage just because he is pakistani . Only because we are different in race.pls pray for us I'm in a depression
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
who cares? self hating weirdo.. why do you claim yemeni? shame on you, I cringed wallahi
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
half yemeni? cringee
@fazelife9744
@fazelife9744 4 жыл бұрын
Don't be depressed
@zahranaser2129
@zahranaser2129 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah hahahahahah hey can't you just sleep and go somewhere else to practice your hate
@zahranaser2129
@zahranaser2129 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah I don't have time for such a talkative person
@Donotcare6
@Donotcare6 5 жыл бұрын
This comments made me sick please don't read them
@someeggs5992
@someeggs5992 5 жыл бұрын
@@mrhassanali3297 culture is already a mixed thing, poor guy :/
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Hassan Yahye don't be a weirdo bro.
@deistormmods
@deistormmods 5 жыл бұрын
@@wavvy6654 I agree, it's disgusting. Somalis should know better. Tribalism has ruined our country and now they want to extend it.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Dei there's tribalism everywhere, mostly in the Indian subcontinent. Why don't you talk about that?
@deistormmods
@deistormmods 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah We're talking about Somalia right now, I condemn all forms.
@abdiqaniqeys
@abdiqaniqeys Жыл бұрын
3:09. 🇸🇴🇸🇴🇸🇴🇸🇴 Masha Allah
@dejoziondarnel5636
@dejoziondarnel5636 6 жыл бұрын
My brother Esau, red man of the earth.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
We Wuz Jooz N Shieet
@jalilirfan
@jalilirfan 6 жыл бұрын
dos that religion is only muslim or even christians, jews .Because there are christians who doesnt do idol prayers also likes to pray to the creator of jesus itself and vry good calm in character does the hadees apply to them
@jalilirfan
@jalilirfan 6 жыл бұрын
secondly if they are intrested to convert to islam whats the rule then who can stop the marriage and for what reason can this marriage not be made
@aysha9588
@aysha9588 5 жыл бұрын
😞So difficult
@faizadaud4085
@faizadaud4085 5 жыл бұрын
Aysha May Allah help you sister 💕
@aysha9588
@aysha9588 5 жыл бұрын
In’sha’Allah our generation will be better not allow our kids to struggle
@faizadaud4085
@faizadaud4085 5 жыл бұрын
InShaAllah 🙂
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Just marry within your race, what's so difficult about that?
@faizadaud4085
@faizadaud4085 5 жыл бұрын
mplsridah Why?😠 I can’t help but feel angry about the people who make halal feel like haram. It should be easier to marry a Muslim/Muslimah regardless of their caste or race
@kegtwoman
@kegtwoman 4 жыл бұрын
Marrying someone from your same culture is normal whether they are dark skinned, tanned or light. Muslim culture is just that Muslim culture. People tend to forget the original people of that part of the world as well as the Bedouin’s were dark skinned people. Just because you mixed with Romans and the British to get a lighter skinned toned doesn’t mean anything. Abraham, who was a dark skinned Chaldean fathered Issac who fathered Jacob who fathered the true 12 tribes of Israel and they were all dark skinned as the literature proves. Therefore, Esau the twin of Jacob who fathered the Arabs was also dark. The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree. So this racism against dark skinned Arabs doesn’t make any sense.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Interracial marriage is not ok though
@IqraKhan-vc7lo
@IqraKhan-vc7lo 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah yes it is
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
nope it's not, u just don't wanna be called racist
@SaeedThaPraLem
@SaeedThaPraLem 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah Why Is It Not Okay??
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Saeed ThaPraLem it will create hatred and intolerence
@adamkhader3326
@adamkhader3326 2 жыл бұрын
Salaams good talk this should be put to the Pakistan and India people they are against south African man that want to marry a lady from there
@aiyaabdalla7202
@aiyaabdalla7202 4 жыл бұрын
Black lives matter 2020
@justaperson2533
@justaperson2533 3 жыл бұрын
All lives matter! 👍🏻👍👍🏼👍🏽👍🏾👍🏿
@u892
@u892 3 жыл бұрын
@@justaperson2533 all lives matter is not a movement,black lives matter doesn’t mean that other lives don’t matter,it’s the name of the movement who supports equality,anti-racism,police brutality,I’m Indian and I support Black Lives Matter
@justaperson2533
@justaperson2533 3 жыл бұрын
@@u892 why the hell did you get so inconsiderate when i basically said all lives matter? im not against any movement that stands for equality
@u892
@u892 3 жыл бұрын
@@justaperson2533 you’re literally invalidating a movement,basically imagine if someone broke their leg and the discutir says “no,all legs matter” lol that’s basically what you’re saying
@justaperson2533
@justaperson2533 3 жыл бұрын
@@u892 so you have a problem with me saying that racism shouldn't Come to Anyone hm interresting because that is the dumb socialist mentality you have a problem with me not supporting a group that riots the streets?
@MrAndreSamuels
@MrAndreSamuels 7 жыл бұрын
It's sad to me that this is an issue. It's sad to me that this imam and others risk angering their congregants by telling them to stop forbidding interracial marriages.
@sulaimancharles5178
@sulaimancharles5178 8 жыл бұрын
Trinidad muslim does the same
@RAFAAJ2000
@RAFAAJ2000 12 жыл бұрын
Yes, that's precisely the reason I feel compelled to denounce what is happening ... Muslims should stop playing the nice holly guys
@hibaluay9555
@hibaluay9555 5 жыл бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@razaa09
@razaa09 12 жыл бұрын
Man it is the month of Ramadan. Stop spreading hatred!
@FaceTimewithHawa
@FaceTimewithHawa 4 жыл бұрын
Masha’Allah Great point soo much racism
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
How is sticking to your own racism? Can you help me understand that, please? Thanks.
@alexojideagu
@alexojideagu 4 жыл бұрын
Give a valid reason to sticking your own race?
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
alex ojideagu give me a valid reason to not sticking your own race. You see how that works? Moron
@alexojideagu
@alexojideagu 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah Blocking people who want to marry based on race is racism you dummy.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
alex ojideagu do you have proof, dummy?
@kartikfirangi671
@kartikfirangi671 6 жыл бұрын
I want to marry muslim
@razaa09
@razaa09 12 жыл бұрын
Islam gives me happiness so I love it. I do agree that everyday is a great time but Ramadan is even a better time. But Eid is the BEST!
@Isteshhad
@Isteshhad 11 жыл бұрын
Perfect.
@akibrahman7983
@akibrahman7983 6 жыл бұрын
Isteshhad Shata Pakistani and Bangladeshi are racist to white and black in marriage
@DrNikkiCole-Davis
@DrNikkiCole-Davis 9 жыл бұрын
He is so right.
@Lia-ei8rg
@Lia-ei8rg 5 жыл бұрын
@salman yusuf Lol
@Lia-ei8rg
@Lia-ei8rg 5 жыл бұрын
@salman yusuf R u proposing 3 years later
@Lia-ei8rg
@Lia-ei8rg 5 жыл бұрын
@salman yusuf she probably got married Lol
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
salman yusuf lmaoo "bitch probably did as well" hahaha
@ZaydWalid
@ZaydWalid 4 жыл бұрын
It’s going to get weird when these Muslim men want to marry a Shia the parents are gonna want him to marry a Christian or a Jew over a Shia Muslim
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Damn I never thought about that until you brought it up
@geomessi3423
@geomessi3423 4 жыл бұрын
What about when a Muslim women want to marry a Shia .. did her parents want to marry a christian or Jew man?
@ayahisthename7498
@ayahisthename7498 4 жыл бұрын
You can’t blame that on the religion though... it’s not what it preaches. If that is ever the case, it’s the parents fault not the religion. It’s against the religion for the parents to do that to their kids, and if they do, it’s not the religion, it’s them.
@jojo-xo1ds
@jojo-xo1ds 8 жыл бұрын
I notice that it's racism in Pakistani culture
@DazedDanyy
@DazedDanyy 8 жыл бұрын
+james sosa ironically you are racist saying that. Stop generalizing
@gamemastermind6122
@gamemastermind6122 7 жыл бұрын
But it's not racist it's true Somalis and Arabs are racist when it comes to there DAUGHTER'S marriage
@mcdoraq44
@mcdoraq44 6 жыл бұрын
jojo Saudis are the most racist Muslims in the world.
@TheDeenIslamTDI
@TheDeenIslamTDI 6 жыл бұрын
J0nesJr brother that is racist if your daughter what’s to marry a Somali guy and you say no just because he is from a different culture and race and she ends up committing sins or something else remember Allah will punish U not her. Also if the prophet (saw) was here today and he asked you for your argument against her marriage do you really think he would accept it. Akhi stop being like this. We are all the creations of Allah and the descents of Adam (asm)
@TheDeenIslamTDI
@TheDeenIslamTDI 6 жыл бұрын
J0nesJr but brother if your daughter or sons don’t agree with you you do know that it is impermissible for you to say no as ou don’t have a valid reason. The prophet (saw) said that you can only reject the marriage if it’s 1 of these 3 reasons 1. The brother can not afford the marriage. But this can easily be sorted 2. If the brothers akhlaq ( behaviour) is intolerable 3. If the brother isn’t a good practising Muslim Then by all means reject it but if you don’t have one of these 3 reasons you cannot reject it and if you do just because of racial backgrounds this falls into racism but brothe ri understand where your coming from but don’t burden your children
@anthonyhardaway1835
@anthonyhardaway1835 4 жыл бұрын
I am sudanese and african American. I want to marry to a arab girl from Egypt. And her parents don't agree because i am not part of her race or culture. I thought ous muslims weren't racist?!?!
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Go find a Sudani or African American bro. Be happy with your ethnicity, stop fetishizing after Egyptian girls
@lubnabashein5092
@lubnabashein5092 4 жыл бұрын
Islam isn't, people are!
@LamontBoucherville
@LamontBoucherville 4 жыл бұрын
You don't need her parents approval
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Lemont Boucherville yes you do. Learn our religion, smh
@LamontBoucherville
@LamontBoucherville 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah I'm muslim too😊
@ty7333
@ty7333 12 жыл бұрын
Not knocking your guys 'debate' but can you not do this elsewhere in a better forum rather than on the comments of this video?
@amsmarong1284
@amsmarong1284 8 жыл бұрын
I am black Muslim but sir I don't agree with you to call someone son of black women the person u already know his name, and u didn't say what prophet was reply the guy? Tell truth or u stoup that's better in Islam
@hani22ification
@hani22ification 7 жыл бұрын
wtf? do you you even know what the ayah says?
@HassanHassan-tn7mh
@HassanHassan-tn7mh 7 жыл бұрын
Noooo you misunderstand. He's quoting the Hadith
@khanpukhtun1458
@khanpukhtun1458 6 жыл бұрын
He's quoting a Hadith brother
@TheDeenIslamTDI
@TheDeenIslamTDI 6 жыл бұрын
Brother he is quoting a Hadith Abu darr called a man oh son of a black woman and back in the prophets time people would call each other like oh son of so and so. Brother that wasn’t racism
@khalidalkhatib1178
@khalidalkhatib1178 6 жыл бұрын
Lol your confused.
@razaa09
@razaa09 12 жыл бұрын
Enough with these foolish criticisms. Its Ramadan.
@RAFAAJ2000
@RAFAAJ2000 12 жыл бұрын
Spreading hatred !!!! ... I am just stating the truth .... Is criticizing Muslims considered spreading hatred ? !!
@ty7333
@ty7333 12 жыл бұрын
I'm sure it is... I haven't read your debacle nor will I. You can word it how you want, but it's not appropriate and that's plain for all to see. Good day sir
@razaa09
@razaa09 12 жыл бұрын
you are an Arab Muslim and you say such things!
@ladanadam8640
@ladanadam8640 11 жыл бұрын
WHAT???????? Are you being for real with that? People who think like you are causing a lot of issues in the world, why are you discriminating against other people. It does'nt matter about skin tone and ethnicity, we are all one people, equal in the sight of Allah. I really hope that you can come to your senses and get over what ever it is which is making you think this way. Asalamu Alaykum
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
what exactly does one benefit from interracial marriage? Does it end racism, injustice and discrimination? If so, sign me up!
@alirehman4829
@alirehman4829 5 жыл бұрын
It would grow a single family at least that would be free of these things
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Free of those things lol, how? Does racism just vanish from the face of the earth just because people are race mixing? Let's get serious bro
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Also give me a link to a scientific study, don't give me just your opinion
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Orion Lord explain.
@sylargrey9444
@sylargrey9444 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah what kinda brownie // chocolate // vanilla supremacy you on that's against interbreeding my G? You good though? Take 5
@strippedgoose
@strippedgoose 8 жыл бұрын
Your pants were to low- Muath..
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
3:25 you don't know what's gonna happen, sheikh. My cousin is doing just fine with his wife and children, mashallah they're from the same ethnic background
@highlyrandom7339
@highlyrandom7339 4 жыл бұрын
Of course he’s not talking about always but I get your point and it seems like you are old school and against Muslim biracial marriages. The sheikh is clearly knowledgeable of what he’s talking about. However, it’s good not to just listen the words but to go around and get the wisdom. Let me translate the unspoken wisdom and the meaning of the part that you pointed out. The sheikh understands that some people prefer to deal with a certain race or group of people. Now let’s say your daughter was about to marry a Muslim Black American man, you declined it expecting something better. Some time later she came back with the same race but different religion or a white man because remember it’s all about whom she’s interested in. What would you do? Are you gonna keep canceling on her until the end?
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Faysal Hassan no you don't know what I'm talking about, and no I'm not old school, I'm 24. Interracial marriages are a farce that shouldn't be promoted. Like I said you don't know what's gonna happen, neither does this sheikh, only Allah knows. To suggest that she'll run away with someone of different race and religion is dishonest way of fear mongering. That's like predicting what's gonna happen next year, nobody knows what's gonna happen and studies don't suggest that. What if I was to tell you that my future daughter won't be interested in a non Muslim man, and as her Wali, I have every right to say no, especially if the man she's interested in is not Muslim. We can go on and on and on about hypothetical scenarios but the truth is we don't know what's gonna happen and promoting interracial marriage (while Omar Suleiman is surprisingly married to a woman of the same race and nationality) is not going to help race relations
@jakecake51
@jakecake51 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah Asalamu Alaikum, the main point the Sheikh was trying to make is that looking at race when it comes to marriage is not the priority. As you said, only Allah knows what will happen. But it is apparent that looking at a person's piety is priority in regards to marriage. Nothing wrong with same race marriage. And nothing wrong with interracial marriage. Only Allah knows who is better than who because he is all knowing and perfect! So all we should rely on when deciding on who to marriage is religion and character.
@2pkjs1351
@2pkjs1351 3 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah but if a good person comes to marry in a different race it should be allowed and they should be able to marry, the amount of backward parents I’ve seen turn away a good spouse for their kid or not letting them marry solely bz of their lineage is backwards
@razaa09
@razaa09 12 жыл бұрын
you are calling Muslims rapists. it clearly shows you want to get into a nasty argument. Just leave if you have nothing good to say.
@likmakamara7865
@likmakamara7865 2 жыл бұрын
Salam aleikhoum Imam the Hadith about Abu Dhar using the sentence (Son of black women) is an invention! ! The word Son of black women isn't in the Authentic Sahih Bukhari and word Bilal ibn RABAH isn't either! it's a lie!! plus Abu Dhar was very black!! ابن سعد ج ٤ ص ٢٣٠/ سير اعلام النبلاء ج ٢ ص ٧٤ او هنا قَرَأْتُ عَلَى قَرَأْتُ عَلَى أَبِي غَالِبِ بْنِ الْبَنَّا ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ الْبَرْمَكِيِّ ، أَنْبَأَ أَبُو عُمَرَ بْنُ حَيَّوَيْهِ ، أَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَعْرُوفٍ ، أَنْبَأَ أَبُو عَلِيِّ بْنُ الْفَهْمِ ، نَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ ، أَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عَمْرٍو أَبُو مَعْمَرٍ الْمِنْقَرِيُّ ، ثنا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، عَنِ الْحُسَيْنِ الْمُعَلِّمِ ، عَنِ ابْنِ بُرَيْدَةَ قَالَ : لَمَّا قَدِمَ أَبُو مُوسَى الأَشْعَرِيُّ لَقِيَ أَبَا ذَرٍّ ، فَجَعَلَ أَبُو مُوسَى يَلْزَمُهُ ، وَكَانَ الأَشْعَرِيُّ رَجُلا خَفِيفَ اللَّحْمِ ، وَكَانَ أَبُو ذَرٍّ رَجُلا أَسْوَدَ ، كَثَّ الشَّعْرِ ، فَجَعَلَ الأَشْعَرِيُّ يَلْزَمُهُ ، وَيَقُولُ أَبُو ذَرٍّ : إِلَيْكَ عَنِّي ، وَيَقُولُ الأَشْعَرِيُّ : مَرْحَبًا بِأَخِي ، وَيَدْفَعُهُ أَبُو ذَرٍّ ، وَيَقُولُ : لَسْتُ بِأَخِيكَ ، إِنَّمَا كُنْتُ أَخَاكَ قَبْلَ أَنْ تُسْتَعَمَلَ ، قَالَ : ثُمَّ لَقِيَ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ ، فَالْتَزَمَهُ ، وَقَالَ : مَرْحَبًا بِأَخِي ، فَقَالَ لَهُ أَبُو ذَرٍّ : إِلَيْكَ عَنِّي ، هَلْ كُنْتَ عَمِلْتَ لِهَؤُلاءِ ؟ قَالَ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : هَل تَطَاوَلْتَ فِي الْبِنَاءِ ، أَوِ اتَّخَذْتَ زَرْعًا أَوْ مَاشِيَةً ؟ قَالَ : لا ، قَالَ : أَنْتَ أَخِي ، أَنْتَ أَخِي رجاله ثقات سير اعلام النبلاء ج ٢ ص ٥٠ او هنا ، إذ دخل رجل طوال ، آدم أبيض الرأس واللحية قال علاء الدين مغلطاي في كتابه إكمال تهذيب الكمال في أسماء الرجال ج 7 ص 408 عبد الله بن الصامت الغفاري البصري ابن أخي أبي ذر قال ابن سعد في كتاب الطبقات الكبير يكنى أبا النضر وكان ثقة وله أحاديث ولما ذكره ابن خلفون في كتاب الثقات قال يقال إنه كان أسود وكان شجاعا كان رجلا صالحا
@raymondreddington9788
@raymondreddington9788 4 жыл бұрын
Im somali, i want to marry non somali woman , nothing against somali women, i just prefer other races , but its so difficult, i always hear somali date within themselves :(, would love to date arab woman but i always hear arab people are racist..., i live in Norway and its so difficult to find white muslims :(, why is life so hard ?:(
@chaimaez.h.4530
@chaimaez.h.4530 4 жыл бұрын
have you met an arab family that was racist? because that's disgusting. I'm Moroccan and I don't think people have a problem with being white or black when it comes to marriage...or at least in my family. People shouldn't have problems because of skin colour, it's just dumb.
@raymondreddington9788
@raymondreddington9788 4 жыл бұрын
@@chaimaez.h.4530 hey, ´ theres an app called younow and i always visit the arab rooms and wherever they find out im black they always laugh cuz of my color, so im scared to meet them in real life, arabs in general, and morocco ppl are somewhat racist, back in 2015 ii had school trip to morocco, agadir, and you know im the only black guy in my class and whenever we visited a museum or other schools they would always stare at me, felt so uncomfortable , i could feel the tension
@chaimaez.h.4530
@chaimaez.h.4530 4 жыл бұрын
@@raymondreddington9788 I'm so sorry you had to experience that. I'm really sorry :( that's not nice at all
@raymondreddington9788
@raymondreddington9788 4 жыл бұрын
@@chaimaez.h.4530 its ok as i get older i try to ignore it
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Lol, this guy here is a troll
@razaa09
@razaa09 12 жыл бұрын
Stop lying during Ramadan. Prophet Muhammad was sent as a mercy to mankind and practising Muslims who follow his path are the best of us.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Isn't this sheikh married to another Arab? Miss me with that lecture, sheikh!
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
I respect your opinion. I'm black myself and I wouldn't want to marry from a different race as there's no clear beneficial to it. I'm yet to see someone explain to me what's so special about race mixing without bringing religion into it. The Quran doesn't tell us to mix each other, it says that we are created equally from different tribes and nations so we may get to know each other.
@maz4488
@maz4488 5 жыл бұрын
mplsridah he’s saying inter racial is halal, not compulsory. It seems like you’ve missed the point of lecture. Also, Allaah created us differently so we can get to know one another, that includes marriage.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Maz interracial marriage is mubah lmao so of course it's halal... the guy is probably married to another Arab
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
hahahaha block her
@maz4488
@maz4488 5 жыл бұрын
Sa Da lol block me then 😂 ‘breed’ are you an animal? SMH 🤦‍♀️
@dawuduhaneef2122
@dawuduhaneef2122 Жыл бұрын
This like other lecture on the subject of Arab anti-black racism is rooted in apology. Stop cover for these Asian racist, step away from them, developed you own scholarship, African-Americans have 106 colleges and universities, you don't need useless degree from Arabs countries to be a well spoken scholar. Stop laundry you reputation. LEAVE THEM ALONE!
@rickyman6651
@rickyman6651 5 жыл бұрын
Hes wrong We are not created from DIRT. Cortection is we are created from earth, (mud sand ).
@maz4488
@maz4488 5 жыл бұрын
ricky man earth is dirt..
@razaa09
@razaa09 12 жыл бұрын
ok so you are not a Muslim so stop trolling on Muslim videos. Ramadan is a great time for Muslims so just stop.
@guerochingon7978
@guerochingon7978 5 жыл бұрын
This imam doesn’t know what he is talking about so if the wife is abused or the husband doesn’t want her no more who is she going to go to her parents that’s why Allah gave that dicition to the oldest male in her famaly🕋
@rx5707
@rx5707 5 жыл бұрын
Um no. Allah gave the right to woman to choose her spouse.
@guerochingon7978
@guerochingon7978 5 жыл бұрын
R x Yes they have the right to choose.after the husband to be is approved by the father or the oldest male in her family. What if she changes her mind or the husband don’t want her anymore where is she going to go. II’I tell you where she is going back to her parents that’s why that responsibility is for the father to make sure who ever takes her daughter to marry will respect her and provide for her ALLAH knows best🕋
@rx5707
@rx5707 5 жыл бұрын
GUERO CHINGON why are you saying the imam knows nothing? What did he say that was wrong?
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
GUERO CHINGON you're right
@jakecake51
@jakecake51 5 жыл бұрын
You're right brother. However the point of this youtube video was to point out that some fathers are abusing their authority and not making sure the wife isn't abused by the husband. They are making sure race takes priority over good character and deen. Racism is haram, is the message the Imam is trying to convey. What you say is true brother, I'm just highlighting that that isn't the issue being discussed.
@RAFAAJ2000
@RAFAAJ2000 12 жыл бұрын
Are you deniying that slavery wasn't practised throughout the Muslim history ? I hope you answer my question w/o ambiguity. As for the fact that the prophet was sent as a mercy yes I do agree with that but not according to the HADITH wich is full of outrageous narrations.
@mathewdaniel5467
@mathewdaniel5467 6 жыл бұрын
He say hybrid like it's ok, you just breed animals like mixing pot, After all I don't care you just keep falling and this is a vectory for me.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
This sheikh is married to another Arab. He's not practicing what he preaches. Subhanallah.
@WinnieGooo
@WinnieGooo 5 жыл бұрын
You crazy..so what if hes not married to other race maybe he never had opportunity..u need to clean your opinion about people man
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Femi Universe that's exactly what hypocrisy means, would you like a dictionary, bro? How do you know maybe he never had opportunity? Then he should have looked for one instead of preaching something he doesn't practice. I stand by my opinion 100% and sheikhs like him are not immune to criticism. I actually like this guy but he needs to be called out!
@WinnieGooo
@WinnieGooo 5 жыл бұрын
@@mplsridah you trippin man..chill out its ramadan...haha
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Femi Universe so you have no argument?
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
Mr Hassan Ali Hanoolat Inshallah Wa'alykum salaam bro, how you been, Ramadan is going well, I'm enjoying it, alx. You're right bro, these scholars need to be exposed for their hypocrisy. And I also like Omar Suleyman, I follow him on fb. Lately he's been on sjw stuff, he's more interested in fitting in with the whole "woke" crowd than greater good for the ummah. Exactly bro, wallahi you nailed it, these quirky A-rab sheikhs are no more than a good talk and a beautiful message aimed at laymen who don't dare question him, but rather follow him blindly. Subhannallah. Mashallah, I'm glad you're waking up bro. I used to be neutral about interracial relationships until I investigated why almost all sheikhs encourage and promote this. I found out that since they don't want to be called racist, they would try to look good by promoting and encouraging interracial relationship. Even though there's no correlation between the two, they don't want to differentiate racism and race mixing because they don't want to look racist. We're against racism, of course, we said it. And you're right, they would never give their daughters to a black man but they are quick to utter that one verse, u know, the most used verse in the Quran lol... little do they know that the verse is about racism, not about interracial marriages. I'm yet to see someone give me a specific verse or a hadith saying that we are obligated to breed with other races. I was debating all the weirdos under the comment section but non of them was able to bring me just one verse in the Quran or one hadith on the issue. Just shows how laymen are jahils. Exactly bro. I'd rather stay single forever wallahi than marry a girl who's not Somali, and hopefully from my clan. These fake sheikhs need to be called out instead of being followed blindly. Our women who are married to ajnabis are not even a 1% of a 1% of Somali diaspora, which is great because we need to keep our gene. Never once did he even mention that interracial marriage is mubah and not wajib, and there's a reason why it's mubah. I don't care what this salafi weirdo says, I'll never accept breeding with ajnabis and jailhouse reverts.
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 5 жыл бұрын
I wish the U.S will bring back the anti-miscegenation laws lol
@mplsridah
@mplsridah 4 жыл бұрын
Segregation was the best think that happened to black Americans, look at where they were and where they are now
Anti-Black Racism in The Muslim Community | Dr. Abdullah Hakim Quick
17:15
Let the Quran Speak
Рет қаралды 48 М.
If You Cannot Get Married, Fear Allah! - Suhaib Webb
7:28
Islam On Demand
Рет қаралды 62 М.
The child was abused by the clown#Short #Officer Rabbit #angel
00:55
兔子警官
Рет қаралды 23 МЛН
The day of the sea 🌊 🤣❤️ #demariki
00:22
Demariki
Рет қаралды 102 МЛН
ОДИН ДЕНЬ ИЗ ДЕТСТВА❤️ #shorts
00:59
BATEK_OFFICIAL
Рет қаралды 8 МЛН
A Believer Cannot Be A Liar | Khutbah By Dr. Omar Suleiman
23:06
Yaqeen Institute
Рет қаралды 84 М.
Racism in the Muslim Community // Honest Tea Talk | Season 1 Episode 6
26:36
The End of Racism [Shaykh Omar Suleiman]
22:49
IhsaanFusion
Рет қаралды 29 М.
Warith Deen Mohmmed rejects teachers from Saudi Arabia
5:27
Earnest Advice
Рет қаралды 2,8 М.
A Major Conflict: Marriage Now or Later? - Yasir Qadhi / Mohamed Magid
10:19
Racism in Pre-Islamic Arabia - Sh. Omar Suleiman
8:12
The Muslim Comb
Рет қаралды 4,3 М.
The child was abused by the clown#Short #Officer Rabbit #angel
00:55
兔子警官
Рет қаралды 23 МЛН