Being around a narcissist is draining…. psychologically, emotionally,spiritually and physically 😢
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
This!!!! 💯💯💯
@dasolamercy6416Ай бұрын
Right💯
@treasureani8940Ай бұрын
Exactly 😢
@OlubunmiOjo-jb9mu29 күн бұрын
Thank you for this enlightenment. There are quite a number of them even in Churches.
@treasureani8940Ай бұрын
I have encountered a narcissist, After manipulating, and gas lighting me i never retaliate, she will apologise to me when nobody will see her the next day it will be worst 😢 I lost my Confident 😢God helped me to Stand my ground and I walk away 😢
@cindyscouture8324Ай бұрын
Everything I av heard here is so correct .Experience all, almost loose myself in the process. Thank God I came out alive
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
We bless God❤️
@RealtalkwithmercydimarbАй бұрын
Am glad you stood up for yourself. They are terrible
@user-gz9od1tn3pАй бұрын
Oh my gosh , same applies to me
@EdwardAnonsiАй бұрын
I love your diction, eloquence and manner of communication mixed with a blend of agberu 😅. It shows that even educated, you don't let the roots to die. Splendid
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂thank you for watching Edward❤
@LovebyTrinityАй бұрын
Being married to a narcissist is suicidal 😢, they will make you feel like you are responsible when anything goes wrong, they lack empathy and they are horrible 😢.
@chinecheremezeani8615Ай бұрын
To share how demonic this personality disorder can be. I was one of the two ladies who graduated with First Class honors in my department during my time. The other lady's name started with a 'D', while mine began with an 'E', leading to an alphabetical listing. When I shared the list online, the narcissist congratulated me but then made a rude comment about the other lady having multiple heads, questioning why her name was listed first and mine second, indirectly trying to let me know that the lady got first and I got second. And he tried to let me know that other people will view it that way. 😂😂😂... It was such an odd reaction! 🤦 Considering he went through university, he should understand how it works. Even after I tried to clarify the alphabetical order that it is not a matter of first or second position, he brushed it off as a joke, but I could sense he was deliberately trying to diminish my First Class honor. It’s remarkably immature and small-minded!🤦.
@anumbajecinta6372Ай бұрын
And Dey lie a lot !!! Am married to one and am mentally drained 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ depressed,zero fun and happiness
@Justsiilver27 күн бұрын
How did you get married to one in the first place? How many times did he breakup with you before you guys got married?
@chinwea2135Ай бұрын
Ify you're right. Deep down is a foundation of inferiority complex/low self esteem
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
@@chinwea2135 I believe so 💯💯💯. Thank you for watching Chinwe ❤️
@chiamakarecheal7388Ай бұрын
Thank you ma for this educative info. Honestly I’ve experienced this and I almost lost myself in it. Thank God for God and my hubby. I was able to overcome it and build my self esteem. I’ve completely decided to avoid her and she now respects herself and never cross boundaries.
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
@@chiamakarecheal7388 that is the right thing to do. 🫂🫂❤️
@UgurlАй бұрын
Oh Ify, I think you made this video for me 😢.... Everything u said in this video is what I've been dealing with in my marriage, I feel like I'm suffocating. Even the abusive aspect.... My husband goes as far as boasting that he's a dictator and that he's authoritative and that I must become a slave to him... His dominance and manipulations is just too unbearable. God he's so overbearing and I'm not sure I can take it anymore so he doesn't break me beyond repair or beyond help 😢
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Oh my gosh. I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. Please seek help immediately. You are important and I love you❤.
@UgurlАй бұрын
@Ifyskitchen Thanks a lot, I love you too 🥰
@RachaelFrancis-we8frАй бұрын
@@Ugurl I wanna be your friend. I'm going through almost the same. Maybe we can talk
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439Ай бұрын
Look for an independent marriage counsellor AND a qualified psychologists before your psyche breaks.
@UgurlАй бұрын
@@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 I'll do that ma'am. Thanks a lot 🙏🏼
@LUFICREATIONSАй бұрын
Sometimes I even used to hate myself, not even to talk of being overwhelmed by myself 😭
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Pls pls pls, you are a lovely person and no one should make you feel less than who you are. Take care my friend❤.
@chinecheremezeani8615Ай бұрын
Dealing with people like him, who have this Personality Disorder is draining. They have manipulative ways of making you doubt yourself and question your worth if you're not confident and have high self-esteem. In my opinion, the best course of action is to distance from such toxic individuals. Thank you so much Ma ❤❤ @ify's kitchen, for bringing awareness to narcissism. It's crucial for people to identify the red flags, and I appreciate you providing a platform for individuals like me to share their stories. At least to comment, is something😂. Thank you❤
@zealhealsАй бұрын
VERY GOOD LIST! So sorry you've been through this, but glad you overcame! They will never apologize- exactly. It's a principality working through people called Leviathan- pride,and partners with a demonic network called Jezebel. There are different levels of narcissists, most are people who's souls have been 90-100% manipulated and taken over. That's why this advice is good- grey rock them- avoid at all costs- master psychologists, spirits who've studied human beings for generation, they do not reason. Demons do not reason, they are not fixable. 💙
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439Ай бұрын
The average Nigerian male was raised to see themselves as perfect ,uncorrectable, Lord and master
@onegod864110 күн бұрын
All you said is true, and I have had a first-hand experience of a whole two, I have walked out of one, but the second is not that easy to escape, but I am rest assured I will. Though, I really wish this one could change. That aspect of seeing you as emotionally draining or agitating is quite accurate. In fact, it is the fuel they require most often, as it energizes them.
@mariaokpomu6778Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video Ify. If you are in this situation, pls dnt let a narcissist know about your plans because they are master planner themselves. They will beat you at your own game. Thx sis for sharing this, hopefully our girls will start realising this...
@rhunoenaughe1026Ай бұрын
I don't usually comment on videos but this right here is just transformative. Thank you so much. Currently dealing with one and you've just helped with my decision-making on how to deal.
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
@@rhunoenaughe1026 I am glad you found this video useful. I wish you all the best❤️❤️❤️.
@RachaelFrancis-we8frАй бұрын
Hi. I am dealing with one too. Are you male or female?
@Esther-p9nАй бұрын
The manipulative part is reaaallll!!!!! It's so badddd They always make it look like your fault 😂... finally worked on my self esteem Thank you!
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
I am so glad you feel better about yourself. I love you and thank you for watching ❤️
@Oyinz356Ай бұрын
They make it look like they're trying to help you by being present sef
@midastouchltd2437Ай бұрын
So real without missing words
@RachaelFrancis-we8frАй бұрын
I am married to one. He never says sorry first. He also says I am over sensitive.. it wasn't like that from the start o...or maybe I didn't notice it. I even fell into clinical depression. If, I want to have a personal talk with you, please. The matter long and I don't have anyone to talk to.
@doridaije2022Ай бұрын
Drop your contact. We can be friends
@Oyinz356Ай бұрын
Very sorry about that. I'd be willing to listen, although this is just a KZbin platform. I've dealt with one too... For 3 years
@UwaUgbodu-rf4xqАй бұрын
Was married to one for more than 6years... finally took a bold step to leave with my kids. Still being manipulated till now and the lies are crazy. But I've found my peace again and I'm happy
@RachaelFrancis-we8frАй бұрын
@@Oyinz356 thank you. . Are you a male or female please?
@RachaelFrancis-we8frАй бұрын
@@UwaUgbodu-rf4xq hmmmm I can imagine. It doesn't feel good 😢 he can do the things he doesn't want me to do
@nonyenwokorie8405Ай бұрын
My God!!!!😮this is the BEST thing I have ever watched..
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Thank you for watching Nonye ❤❤❤
@francaeneagbo2304Ай бұрын
It hit differently when you have an experience of a topic you’re sharing. You nailed this topic, if you’ve ever had a friend who’s a narcissist you will understand more. Welldone ma ❤👏
@ekereikpeikpe8886Ай бұрын
You didn't add that they lie a lot
@Junior-COАй бұрын
😂😂😂
@user-AdunniadeАй бұрын
Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂
@muhammedsafiyat9134Ай бұрын
Honestly, they lie alot yet claim to always tell the truth
@Timi_D_AmbassadorАй бұрын
She mentioned it, they gaslight people a whole lot, lieing is under gaslighting.
@azeezatabdulazeez8132Ай бұрын
She said it! She said they would always make promises they will never fulfill (literally liar's).
@PreciousJophetАй бұрын
After watching this video,my love for you just increased more, I am actually dealing with one that i am already loosing my mind but right now, hell no, I'm not taking it again, thanks once again for this video ❤❤❤
@chinecheremezeani8615Ай бұрын
Incredible! You've definitely encountered a narcissist👌💯 It's so spot-on how you described the whole thing. I once came across a guy who turned out to be a narcissist as well. It was almost damaging to my mental well-being. At first, I was attracted to his charming personality, humor, and kindness, only to realize later that it was all part of his manipulative tactics. His personality disorder really messed with my head, even invading my dreams. Before I ended things, I would see him in my dreams trying to use his manipulative ways in one way or another. I tried all the strategies you mentioned, hoping he would change, but eventually, I had to prioritize my mental health by walking away and cutting off all contact with him on social media...
@yourlocalennard5446Ай бұрын
Ify fam!! I managed to get out of a bad relationship years ago Single but well Your amazing cooking is the only partner I need 😂❤
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Thank you for watching my videos friend❤️❤️❤️
@omoyenimarkemokaroАй бұрын
You have spoken well Ify👏👏👏. Let me also add that you delivered this message so beautifully. The composure, beauty & eloquence are so captivating ❤
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Moyeni my darling ❤️❤️❤️
@UwaUgbodu-rf4xqАй бұрын
Bless you for this video. Avoiding confrontation was what i didnt get on time, and that lead to abuse... the moment i built myself and knew what i was dealing with, that was when i won
@blossomboyo7102Ай бұрын
I actually searched KZbin for this topic. I didn't even know they are called narcissists. My neighbor currently. That man can keep malice for Africa. How can some one plant veggies at the entrance of our compound, still claim to be right when confronted.. 💯 True. Thank you so much sis
@Adaeze_NwachukwuАй бұрын
I absolutely loved every bit of this episode.... please keep them coming❤
@OnyiaChidera-v6vАй бұрын
Ify well-done 👍 🎉❤ Thank you very much for this life saving knowledge, Haa God bless you endlessly Amen.
@priscillianzerem5827Ай бұрын
See eh.. Please we need more of these kind of videos. I love this
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Thank you for watching Priscillia❤
@blessingobiaku277629 күн бұрын
Thank you, ma'am, I have experienced one first hand and all you have highlighted are very true.
@OnyiiiiiiiАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing Ify, you spoke well. And I love your dress!!!! It is beautiful!!!
@nojimaomakoji7228Ай бұрын
You nailed it Ify. Thanks ❤
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️❤️
@stellaobi-ngene6811Ай бұрын
Yes, good idea to shift from cooking. Love it. Keep this idea up.
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Thank you! Will do!❤️❤️
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439Ай бұрын
Indeed ,people are multidimensional and should not be boxed into one expression of their gifting, skills ,creativity and talent
@4ever911Ай бұрын
We need more videos like this. An eye opener.
@davidkeita1178Ай бұрын
Madame,you're really talking about a very very serious matter! Because people might be surprise why are you in this bizarre question! Yes, yes,yes madame you're right because when you have a narcissist in your office, couple, house,waouh madame, what a hell! Many couples, friendship are exploding because of this narcissist! So thanks you madame for your help! But how to avoid them? Because it is impossible to avoid them ! Madame,we had a narcissist in our plane Paris _ new York! Madame, what a hell! No sleep,no rest! Hell! You got the right subject! Really!
@gloriaemmanuel7659Ай бұрын
Nice one ma'am❤from your WhatsApp family... Thanks very much for this, everything you mentioned points to two people in my life right now haaaa😂
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
😂😂😂😂 now you know how to deal with them appropriately ❤❤❤
@maryambibitayosarouk5127Ай бұрын
They are now everywhere, u r so true
@MotunrayoAjoke-g7wАй бұрын
Like seriously I really appreciate your words about narcissist, I'm dealing with one as my neighbor. A family from Whatsapp
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
I am glad you found this useful❤️
@Rave165Ай бұрын
This is amazing Thank you ms
@ucheFavour-mv9zjАй бұрын
WOW, this is so fantastic thanks Ify 😊
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
❤❤❤
@Grateful434Ай бұрын
Beautiful ifyeeeeeeeee ❤❤❤❤❤❤, wow! I love this topic you’re talking about.
@user-oy5wm7ho1cАй бұрын
Everything you’ve said is so true ma
@sandrapeter839Ай бұрын
Everything you said ma'am is so true in addition to what you said they lie a lot o i had an ex like this years back i walked away for my own peace of mind and mental health
@abikayministries8043Ай бұрын
I had a friend like that She's never wrong
@FredaOgiorioАй бұрын
Thank you ma for sharing, i really appreciate this ... This is my first time watching any of your videos and i most say this is a pass ... God bless you ma
@AdiguConstanceАй бұрын
I too love u😘 I've really learned alot 💯dis was very educative thank you so much 💕
@emmanuel48156Ай бұрын
Thank you for this Ify🙏 Ur uploads always come at a right time
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
So glad!❤️❤️❤️
@sochinweOliviaАй бұрын
Wow! Very informative! Thank you our teacher.
@ARG0COUNSELING0SERVICES01Ай бұрын
On point a narcissist is the leader of manipulator gosh they are so selfish.... Thanks for this video
@joejo777Ай бұрын
Ify👸🏽😘, thank God you are a proverbs 31 woman 😊 and have the gift to discern as well . Wise woman enjoy a happy and blessed stress free peaceful weekend with your family God bless you all in abundance forever. Amen 🙏🏽🤗❤️🤗👸🏽🥰🥰🥰
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
I love you❤
@joejo777Ай бұрын
@@Ifyskitchen Love you too Darling 👸🏽🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️ Have an amazing day 👸🏽😘😘
@EkiotenneDaniellaElayeАй бұрын
Thank you ma❤️, all the way from your what'sapp family 🥰
@peaceoky8956Ай бұрын
Thank you for this eye opener Ify...much appreciated!
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@user-tm3yj4yj1xАй бұрын
I reay love the topic narcissist and the explanation perfect❤
@agoiobunsoАй бұрын
You are absolutely right sis thank you so much for sharing
@Oyinz356Ай бұрын
Dealt with one for 3 years. Watching this makes me sad because I gave the person so many chances and got disrespect and abuse in return
@olatunjifolake3448Ай бұрын
Well done, ma. This is educative.
@chizzy4109Ай бұрын
Aunty Ify, I love this new divergence. Thank you so much
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
I appreciate you❤️
@ifeomaojukwu2213Ай бұрын
This is very Educative❤❤ All the way from WhatsApp 😅😅
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Thank you for stopping by Ifeoma. I appreciate you❤
@OmeleArtАй бұрын
No one has summarised narcissism the way you have just done .
@adetulasimisola2443Ай бұрын
You just described my ex to a fault 😂😂
@cynthiadubem4638Ай бұрын
A narcissistic is a psychotic person full stop. We tend to over analyze things a lot,give it new names also give it legs and arms😢
@tifeoffical27 күн бұрын
My roommate is like that But she seff will meet me there😂😂
@ayomideemmanuel5995Ай бұрын
Wow, thank you ma for this information God bless you 🙏💕
@4ever911Ай бұрын
God bless you abundantly nwanyioma ❤❤❤❤❤
@RachaelFrancis-we8frАй бұрын
Hmmmm Ify, you really encountered one.. exactly what i am going through.
@anumbajecinta6372Ай бұрын
Thanks Ify 😢😢😢😢 I really needed this
@Marvels18Ай бұрын
Takes a narcissistic person to do something really impactful in this world.😅😅😂😂
@RachaelFrancis-we8frАй бұрын
This is me here begging anyone for a work at home job pleaseeeee. I am dealing with one and he keeps reminding me that he works for hours.. oleaseeeee i am a graduate. Help me with a job pleaseeeeee.
@tribefenatic26 күн бұрын
a guy looking at his own reflection like that ain't no narcissist. he's a lady!
@mandymotivationsАй бұрын
This was really enlightening ,thanks a lot
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Glad it was helpful!❤️
@midastouchltd2437Ай бұрын
You are so so on point ❤
@susanaihiokhai8768Ай бұрын
Wow! This is good topic 👏👌
@IkechukwuVincent-i3kАй бұрын
From what's family 👀 inspiring auntie ify ❤❤
@onyebuchichidinma2813Ай бұрын
Thanks for the information it's very educative. From wasapp family
@user-qf1kw8rz6xАй бұрын
KUDOS TO GOD ALMIGHTY GREETINGS ❤❤ 🎉🎉
@ezedinonso2620Ай бұрын
Thank You So Much Ma For Sharing, GOD BLESS You Ma IN JESUS NAME, AMEN🙏
@estheregbon2215Ай бұрын
Very informative. Well done ify
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Glad you liked it❤️❤️❤️
@SassyFunkeАй бұрын
This is 💯 apt!!!
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Awww so good to see you here Funke❤️❤️❤️
@olaniranifeoluwa6978Ай бұрын
I learnt a lot…thank you
@user-vg5zs8po5pАй бұрын
I love ur statement 😊
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
Thank you❤
@SomaAlmeidaАй бұрын
Ify my African Queen, how r u?thank you so much, you have just describe my firstborn son 😂😂😂😂
@esthertayo8371Ай бұрын
Oh dear. So sorry sis but pls help him by showing him plenty LOVE AND counselling very EARLY All the best
@SomaAlmeidaАй бұрын
@esthertayo8371 that's what my dear I'm doing but let me be honest with you it's not easy...he's always on defensive mode, but now with this new tips from Ify nd prayers I know he will be safe and fine 🙏
@joannaikomeson9925Ай бұрын
It's her facial expressions for me 😂😂 My best point is to maintain my steeze🙈🙈 (don't react to confrontation) Whatsapp family, where are you 🫣🤭
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
😅 yes o. Maintain steeze and composure at all times❤️
@nneomagift8071Ай бұрын
This is so true, i once dated a narcissist and I'm from your WhatsApp family
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
I appreciate you❤️
@temitopealonge8187Ай бұрын
So informative 👏 👌
@kayodehomolara8946Ай бұрын
You too much sis 😘😘😘
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
🤗❤️❤️❤️
@Favourkitchen5641Ай бұрын
From your explanation! I no some of them!!
@IfyskitchenАй бұрын
There are all around us😢 but thankfully, we can now identify them and deal with them accordingly.
@lindamena7376Ай бұрын
It's also your siblings
@IfeoluwaAkinbowaleАй бұрын
But they also people... not all of them are bad has you say it