Storytime: Why I Hate a Bully

[@4itsrox]

That's great. And true. And many fall through the cracks and end up to be flat out mean adults.

[@momzbabz7]

Usually with "Bully Stories" its always from the victims side of the story, everybody wants to admit to being the victim but never the actual bully or admit to doing wrong. With that being said This story was refreshing, that u admitted to that & learned from it

[@4itsrox]

I always say that my parents knew best and changed my school when I was going to middle school, put me in a 75% white school very far from my house and I didn't know anyone.  It totally changed the road I was headed for. I can tell you I would definitely been a different girl today had I stayed where I was supposed to go.

[@prettyprincess94602]

I used to get picked on by the popular kids in school but no one ever hit me or i never hit anyone thank God. Its funny how we remember things that happened to us a kids so clearly and half the timme i cant remember where i put my keys lol!!! keep the videos comming.

[@SaltWataDawta_]

Awww i decided to watch some throwback Rox while you away.This story made me get in my feelings !

[@ntwadumela1777]

Right now tho lol

[@4itsrox]

And thank you for listening.

[@4itsrox]

I did learn from it, and it's actually been a story my family has laughed about over the years. But very important, and I made sure my kids heard it as well. Sometimes the bully gotta learn the hard way, lol.

[@scarlet0997]

Touching story, thanks for sharing. More importantly, thanks for keeping it real with your viewers. I applaud anyone who keeps it real with any and everybody all the time. No wonder why you're one of my favorites! Well, must I admit...I never endured bullying until 6 years ago by older women at my job. Workplace bullying is no joke and I wouldn't wish it on no one. I can truly empathize when children are bullied, it hearts me to the core. This has caused me so much pain and suffering.

[@lyricistdean]

You look so pretty Rox! I'm enjoying catching up on story times! These are all new to me.

[@4itsrox]

I would think that many bullies are not happy with the way they are, and a lot of times are just going along with everyone else. Middle school seems to be the worst place for bullying, maybe because that's a time when we are really trying to get sold of our hormones and finding out who we really are as teens, I'm not sure.

[@Angel_Mayberry]

This hair and color was EVERYTHING!!!

[@ayanared]

LOL!!!! This story was both touching and hilarious! This is why I love your channel!

[@michaelbrooks3207]

I diiiiiied when you said "...and they suspended Sally." Lmao

[@NitaTheDiva510]

LOVE THIS STYLE ON YOU!!!

[@jacolsims1145]

"She wore the retarded shoes, she wore the fucked up leg brace" 😭😭😭😭

[@4itsrox]

Yeah, elementary and especially middle school are some rough times. And thanks for the hair compliment.

[@KariH8]

I just found this channel a couple of days ago. I found that I absolutely love it. Channels like this keep KZbin interesting. I have to watch your other videos.

[@4itsrox]

Well let me just explain a few things: I wasn't really trying to make you guys feel sorry for me. I realized fully my wrongness in the whole thing. The reason I described "Sally" the way I did is because I was telling you guys my opinion of her AT THAT TIME. I was a kid...of course I'd never describe her or anyone that way today. And lastly, she and I are Facebook friends and it's all good now. :)

[@4itsrox]

Right....I root for the Sally's of the world now. They truly deserve their come up.

[@mitsop1]

hey rox i am a new subsciber to your channel.i was hooked from the 1st video becuz you are funny and intelligent.but mostly becuz you seem so easy to relate to and you seem to have all the best girlfriend qualities.fun to be around and someone to call when something good happens to you and someone to call when you need to be cheered up.i say all that to say your videos are too short.just when you seem to be getting on a roll,you wind it up.make your videos longer.they make my day.

[@Renee_nf094e]

I'm lmao cuz you always say you're not a fighter. So your swing did absolutely nothing to Sally? You sound like you fight like me,lol. Girl,it is too early on a Saturday morning for me to be laughing like this. You truly have a special gift and keep it so interesting when you tell a story. I can't wait till the day when you're on TV and I can tell ppl that I started watching you on youtube. Thanks for another great video and have a great weekend.

[@4itsrox]

Yeah, the boys teased me, not really the girls (in middle school)....I think that is just a part of those years. The thing is knowing when to quit.

[@4itsrox]

I used to get teased about how I looked too, I was super skinny and I had these same big teeth on a small face. So I can really remember being teased but not to the point where Ithought I was being bullied.

[@4itsrox]

I haven't physically seen Sally in person since I graduated from elementary school. But she is a FB friend so I see her on FB occasionally.

[@4itsrox]

Sally is in LA, I'm in Atlanta. No shows with Sally. :)

[@4itsrox]

Well I can't always just tell the good parts about me, right? I am no where near perfect, that's for sure. Still learning things and I'm 41 years old. You never are too old to learn from mistakes.

[@MrOtter666]

Magnificent video! You are a truly gifted storyteller, thank you for sharing your insight and talents. You always leave me smiling.

[@sarailuv]

Man. I miss your Storytime videos!

[@lisazj78]

Nice video Roxi, by the way your hair is fierce girl.

[@KrisJanJack]

What a courageous yet...kinda sweet share. Thanks. "Every victimizer was a victim." ~MLH

[@bigvinamac]

I was a bully and being bullied as well. I didn't like it because that wasn't who I wanted to be and wanted to fit in. Once high school came I was able to be myself. I wasn't a bully anymore. Bullying is something that should be recognized and realized it affects people. Tami proves that adult bullying exist.

[@lovelycee08]

Thank you for updating your playlists... yup - im here for them

[@lilfishjewell]

nice story and i liked how you told it. What's the tatoo on your shoulder of?

[@4itsrox]

That's true, I can't even remember whey I walked into a room to do something I decided I needed to do 2 minutes before.

[@Steffonkentavian]

“Oh this bitch tryna make a scene!” Baby, I hollered!!! 😂😂😂

[@DivaRedefined]

Im only two seconds into this video but, I have to tell you your hair is giving me life. Giiiiiirlllll.....

[@4itsrox]

Thanks!

[@4itsrox]

Awww.....I got your point, I knew what you meant, but I felt like I needed to clear it up for others just in case they got the wrong idea. But I got the funny, lol.

[@SuedeHTX]

I don't even remember how I made it to this video, but your story was really funny I laughed out loud a few times.

[@TeaundraTangles]

Sally gave you that 2 hitter quitter LOL and she probably the one that took u to get all patched up

[@4itsrox]

Honey that was a hit that I would never forget. Ever. :)

[@nicjoy80]

You should do a show with "Sally"...poor Sally

[@stephenchristian3636]

I've been a victim of bullying and it hurts like hell. Thank God I'm past that now but growing up I felt like ppl who bully others are insecure an may come from a broken home that's still no excuse though

[@binkylilly]

i went to st bernadette in the jungle and there was a girl who used to wait till we got our lunch and she would take it from us......told my mom after the second time and my mom started making a lunch for her too. sometimes there are reasons why a bully does things. her mom did not take care of her well for whatever reasons and my mom instantly understood. she became my friend and i will never forget her...she turned out to be really nice and kind.

[@LaniceW]

I used to get teased and picked on for how I looked but never bullied. I guess I was pretty lucky. But that was a good story. And I, too, can't stand a bully. People like Tami make me physically sick, and they'll get theirs one day.

[@4itsrox]

I've seen it in the work place...a rumor gets started and the story just runs from there.

[@4itsrox]

I always worry about my daughter being bullied. She's about to start middle school and I want her to be accepted with no problems. Praying it goes well.

[@4itsrox]

Thanks.

[@FresherLiiveKiba]

You've inspired me to do my own bully vlog...Great story :)

[@mrsktmalveaux]

thanks for sharing this video - it was funny but so very real and serious at the same time.

[@ayanared]

I am loving it!!

[@4itsrox]

Definitely learned a lesson that day.

[@nhikmnjuyhnbgtvfreda]

I love this story i love all your videos your so funny! :)

[@aynjel96]

Rox is always so modest.....

[@QueenASMR2019]

I was super tall, super thin and smart as a kid. This combination brought on the bullies who called me out because they thought I was "acting white". I learned to stay in my books and avoid the buillies to survive school.

[@4itsrox]

Well I would think that most athletes are considered leaders because you are on a team that everyone is rooting for so it's probably rare for athletes to be bullied.

[@4itsrox]

Super duper sensitive mine is.

[@reestillbloom]

I love your hair and I enjoyed the story. Sorry, but I had to laugh about the description at a fist coming 80 miles an hour. I'm just glad you are okay.

[@3BuckHead]

Great story!!! I got bullied for how I use to dress in school. I wore a lot of "Tommy Hilfiger" and I I always matched from head to toe. I had no problem with the females, only the males. They use to call me "pretty boy" and everything else in the book.

[@3BuckHead]

LOL, like I said they called me everything else in the book too. Pretty boy was just the only name I decided to write.

[@lamechia139]

thanks for sharing this.

[@4itsrox]

Thanks, that's very sweet. And I am always worrying my videos are too long. But almost always my reviews are long. :)

[@4itsrox]

1st grade...well if you don't really remember that other person probably doesn't remember either. That's really young.

[@4itsrox]

Thanks. :)

[@luvyaselfgirl35]

Good story Rox!

[@4itsrox]

Ah ha! I always write stuff down. Got a blogspot that I write stuff and upload occasionally. You should go check it out. I can't put a link in the comments, but the web address is up in the info box. :)

[@nicjoy80]

Yeah that's what I wanna know...poor Sally

[@coldaswinter2]

I have been bullied before thanks for sharing your story.

[@4itsrox]

I didn't have really good sense back then. Lol.

[@Velvet_Whisper]

Lmao I know it's not supposed to be funny but damnit it is

[@lovewillkillusall]

Lol! Your such a good storyteller :) I was bullied when I was in grade school 'cuz I was all about being teachers pet, lol! Later, and I dont know how it happened, but I became the bully :/ It was through jr high and high school. Ugh, we were on some real "Heathers" ish, lol! I grew out of it before I graduated though THANK GOD, and in my senior year I had sooo many friends that I would have missed out on if Id stayed the way I was.

[@Louma034]

Poor Sally, miss Rox . I always have to struggle because i was always the only black kid on school so i thank God being a very good athlete, I played basketball in my school years 11years, so i was untouchable, lol!

[@supersonicnazo]

Great video. You're so right about popularity and playground politics among little black school kids back in our day, lol. BTW, CAN YOUR HAIR GET ANYMORE SIZZLING! I laughed at the lunch line reality of my past when I remember it being a real meal hookup, lol. It's horrible institution food now... And plus, my son's allergies promote that I prepare lunch for him, and I'd like to believe that I'd do it anyway.

[@liyahadams5781]

I think she was scared after she seen how bad she hurt you too 😩

[@4itsrox]

People ask but I honestly don't really do much to my hair....just curl it and go.

[@lovelyladi0113]

Great vid Rox

[@4itsrox]

I'm glad Ayana....see I can do more videos that you can watch. Not as many reviews! :)

[@4itsrox]

It's a heart.

[@lovewillkillusall]

And truthfully for better or worse, the things I did and which were done to me helped make me who I am and helped me be a more empathetic person and accepting person. Wish there was a way for kids to believe us adults when we tell them that school days and some school "friends" or cliques aren't the end all be all. Lol, my sister used to say "You were a girl that Id want to slap within 10 minutes of hearing you speak!" :s *whew* Thank goodness I changed, lol!

[@4itsrox]

Well thanks. :)

[@sunnyrain9]

More story times! 😁

[@MzTeeL]

I luv your vlogs and Sally was very mature for her age. I

[@4itsrox]

Not one thing to her. Nothing. Nada. You have a good weekend too. :)

[@4itsrox]

Oh ok. :)

[@4itsrox]

She's a FB friend so I see her over the Internet. We don't live in the same state.

[@vbutterscotch]

I have a similar story in fifth grade. I thought I could beat the girl who was in special ed.... lol

[@jcancer2011]

i love your videos!

[@2MsJean]

Great story! :-)

[@kmhtigger]

very cute story!

[@Kemet876]

Did you two become friends after she took the wrap?

[@TeaundraTangles]

lol at tater tots

[@4itsrox]

I'm sorry....and thanks.

[@ceeceeclarke6130]

Rox!😂😂😂😂 FUNNEE!🎉

[@kiaraleach4748]

It's okay.

[@ahallm3]

That was a funny story....But with i want to know have you seen Sally over the yrs.

[@Trkstar831]

wow! that was a really good story

[@ntwadumela1777]

🙏

[@4itsrox]

You're welcome! :)

[@4itsrox]

Well that's good. :)

[@lilallnatural1]

LMAO great story!!! Thanks for sharing:)