Style (Neil Strauss) on The View

[@kennethsnyder6512]

his interactions are so clean and polished. any possible route the conversation can take, he's a step ahead. they don't even realize he's the one orchestrating the dialogue.

[@erickouhai9818]

How? I want to know how is that so? What are the subtle ways of navigating the conversation in routes you want to take it to, especially when the person you're talking to is quite inexpressive or in this case, kind of hostile towards you?

[@Jermboy11]

Its not an interview when you keep interrupting the man while he is trying to explain......

[@daverunner3397]

I dude 4 wimmins, wtf did you expect?

[@_Mr.D]

THANK YOU!

[@John_Conner222]

lol its the view, what do you expect? Bunch of old hags who don't like men teaching other men how to pick up the young hotties.

[@JesseLandau]

Yeah! No shit!!!

[@alexdennery3375]

It’s not an interview it’s the view

[@mikekrauss4367]

Completely hostile and he turned them around in only 8 minutes... And he did it by not trying to overpower them. Brilliant!

[@bikeshop2002]

is it though? people are generally nice and want to get along. and most people like sex. am I missing something here? getting along and getting laid is not rocket science

[@SuperiorityQomplex]

@@bikeshop2002 He started off with a rather cocky statement (being the greatest pickup artist), and they were ready to rip him apart. But he won some rapport and had them listen rather than just argue. Hell, getting them to stop clucking for a moment so he could explain himself, that alone was impressive..

[@bigfish6337]

Lol... I recon he had them at about 4 minutes

[@richardsteiner45]

@@bikeshop2002 no the girls on the view are pretty nuts and confrontational to anything male-centric or politically incorrect

[@richardsteiner45]

@@bigfish6337 and he even negged them hilarious

[@apoorvjain3071]

Neil is calm , composed and present in all his interview . He doesn't seek validation . He has very strong frame even all started blaming him

[@blinkzone1]

Neil Strauss is amazing. Wow this guy is seriously the real deal. Did you see how he got those Iadies interested in him within that short time span? He wasn't arrogant or cocky just down to earth with that smooth display of spark. AMAZING!!!

[@cooper7321]

im sayin. at first dey hated him. den dey loved him. outstanding

[@antoniocarrasco3808]

Well yeah, Because he Used NLP Tactics! Not to Mention the Art of Seduction.. To mimic is a powerful tool to the subconscious, and thats basically what he was doing.

[@luciobuffalmano3122]

blinkzone1 What are you talking about, he looked like a puppet on Oprah's leash

[@user-60267]

Exactly! Just shows you how weak an arrogant or cocky guy’s game is compared to a charismatic guy. And charisma gets you far in business too not just with the ladies.

[@dthorne4602]

@@cooper7321 LOL

[@Omoiyari23]

Holy shit man let him talk for real lmao

[@hillbillyentertainment9142]

"I didn't fall for any of it" says the hot girlfriend. lol

[@ashwindsilva1570]

Nah it's true. Neil had the hardest time trying to get her to be interested. She basically used his own tricks on him. Read the game, it's a mindblowing read.

[@weeddota7142]

I fukken broke down lafhfing

[@patwaddington]

Alwyn dsilva yeah it’s a really good book hey.... it turned me into a man hahaha 😂

[@bikeshop2002]

newsflash: hot women want sex and relationships too

[@Kielimies]

@@bikeshop2002From tall/muscular guys and celebrities.

[@Melmann95]

It's incredible how he turned them from a hostile audience into admirers. He really is a master.

[@stealthycinderhella]

I’m a girl and I read that game several years ago and I can honestly say I use some of these techniques on just regular people it’s honestly a great way to meet people and build rapport Quickly

[@AlejandroGarcia-fk7vg]

Hey now, how am I supposed to pick u up now?

[@philmstud2k]

These tricks and mindset and all that work, but that’s not the point. People miss that you should use these techniques and game on people when you’re both genuinely attracted to each other and can relate to each other beyond sex, a good match. Too many people was their time on others they’d be better off not dating or not having sex with.

[@grottphd9090]

@@philmstud2k How the heck are you supposed to know that with an absolute stranger

[@wilmeralbert2908]

@Judge Steve hahaha

[@aspiknf]

@@AlejandroGarcia-fk7vg It's ok, women are into men who like penguins, you still have your chance.

[@Manny123-y3j]

Here's the difference between men and women: Some of these women are 50 years old and have never had to think about any of this. They just sit there and that's all they have to do. Meanwhile, guys who are 30 years younger are studying and practicing constantly because they have to in order to get a girl. Women have no idea how easy they have it.

[@TheM4rster]

+GuppyPal .. they have it easy, if they're good-looking. The core idea behind the game and PUAs is that women's physical attraction to men is not necessarily crucial, whereas on the flip side, we men DO tend to choose more on a physical level.

[@lepredator189]

Yeah, keep whining about it like that will get you anywhere

[@mrcookie97]

@@lepredator189 just let them whine it leaves more women for us confident men

[@adomaster123]

toxykzone lol.

[@SWIFTzTrigger]

@@TheM4rster To be fair they don't try regardless, pretty or not. So how do we even know if a woman was really trying to get us to be attracted to them.

[@Elsydeonz]

Seeing this guy in motion and hearing his voice makes me believe i can really make something of myself

[@DrugzRKoool]

Style is an accurate nickname, this guy emanates style.

[@advadia5]

This video is proof that Style is a Master Pick-up Artist, he managed 4 professional obstacles... while on TV... while actually talking about The Game. Now THAT'S how you work a Four Set!

[@vazquezb2011]

"Let him speak, let him speak!" Don't worry. They're excited and Neil is in control.

[@adindubose9314]

"WE WOMEN NEED TIPS" Step 1: look hot. the end

[@Wiizl]

I think it's even simpler. Step 1 is "just have a vagina"

[@champlife6353]

@@Wiizl just point at it

[@MysteryDoorStudio]

@@Wiizl true

[@unknownchannel3141]

@@Wiizl that's step 0

[@StygianStyle]

the neg is only for 9s and 10s. You don't use it on average-looking girls.

[@InoSense85]

Yeah, the hotter she is the better it works. The best ones to use are what I myself call sniper negs, where I zoom in on a particular trait about them. Shit is fucking gold dude!

[@lepredator189]

You didn't name it sniper negs, credit's to Mystery.

[@InoSense85]

LePredator1 I said I call them sniper negs, I never said I invented the term. Look for someone else to bother. I don't have time for bullshit.

[@InoSense85]

LePredator1 Could've went without you pointing that out. Didn't need your two pennies. You call that AMOG? Bitch this isn't a group. It was a conversation between two people before you butted in. Sorry I made you feel "beta" though, didn't know you were so sensitive.

[@Manu-wb2uv]

Exactly! Hahaha and don't over use it.

[@SnowNasty]

lol LISA doesn't even know that she is in the MATRIX

[@visioncr5132]

Oh no boy she totally does she breaked up with after he cheated

[@Vendrix86]

@@visioncr5132 wait seriously? lmao

[@bikeshop2002]

charming people doesn't intrinsically involve deceiving them, even if you are doing both (like one doesn't preclude the other) - people enjoy being liked and liking others. it's almost like PUAs convince themselves that they've successfully "tricked" people when they don't realize that hot women like to get laid just as much as everyone else in the first place. if turning it into a game makes it easier for you to get laid then please do it, but in the end it seems like PUAs are the ones in a Matrix they invented for themselves

[@bkash0311]

he described lisa perfectly in the book, shes gorgeous

[@InoSense85]

The Game is to be sold, not told. Lol

[@simontempler3230]

Mystery? Is that you?

[@maarten452]

Tupac

[@miguelhernandez1one]

A pimp created that saying!!! Pimpin is real

[@patsfan41191]

just finished reading "The Game" by Strauss ...RESPECT

[@kembooo000]

neil gamed brilliantly this 4-set ^^

[@Fleathemighty]

can't believe i never knew who this guy was. His understanding of psychology and sociology is insane. absolute monster

[@simontempler3230]

This guy is a legend...

[@Majitsu]

Amazing. Its like he went into a lion's den with 4 starving lions and manage to tame them all

[@bikeshop2002]

I didn't really see him taming anyone. They weren't out to literally kill him or anything. People like to get along and he doesn't make that difficult by being a contentious ass. i noticed he was being pretty disingenuous with the whole "pickup artists are all nice lonely nerds looking to improve so don't be threatened" thing but...there's nothing wrong with PUAs in the first place so it's all good. they're just people looking to get laid, like most people

[@crowther430]

This book changed my life

[@cubs12day25]

I just finished his book, and it's is great stuff. I recommend it for all.

[@00_meghnath]

jesus his gf is so hot! neil, you the man for writing the game and exposing us to the legendary mystery and my favorite, tyler durden (owen cook)

[@encoded6423]

what is owen cook?

[@kakapyksid]

+Bambusowy Pęd oh boy, you're in for a ride

[@encoded6423]

kollu99 can you tell me what is that?

[@kakapyksid]

Bambusowy Pęd search in youtube rsd tyler (Owen is his real name)

[@Niceguy54444]

@@kakapyksid read the game, RSD Tyler is hero there

This video was uploaded even before KZbin exist.

[@Xmotivation8]

How come😲

[@EGarrett01]

This man is an AMAZING ambassador for these ideas. Mystery comes off more manipulative and I think is threatening to people. Strauss seems like a totally safe, soft-spoken every-man.

[@Dynamox5]

That's why Style is so good "I don't buy into him. He appears nervous and his voice is meek....he's still a chump." He doesn't look like a threat at all so most people when they first meet him have no idea what they're up against. I think Style likes to be underestimated in order to come in under the radar.

[@bikeshop2002]

why would he be a threat? why would they be "up against" anything? what "radar"? this is what confuses me about PUAs, this weird warlike language. As though you're not aware that people prefer to get along and that hot women like sex and that people are looking to get laid. the default is getting along. all you have to do is not be a contentious creep. all the extra techniques are kind of unnecessary effort but if it makes you more confident go for it...?

[@cooper7321]

neil never cieses 2 amaze. he came on da show w dem already pitted against him. he left w dem eating from his hands. incredible

[@Suntro]

That was his strength and charm even before starting pickup at Mystery's workshop. Must be why Sin and M chose him as the new wing/apprentice.

[@bikeshop2002]

they weren't out to get him though. it's not that amazing to see people getting along on tv. i don't get why people are acting like getting laid and getting along is rocket science

[@Afg72009]

This guy amazes me everytime. His every move and word is perfect and have a target

[@billmeisters6444]

The most obvious thing we can notice is that Mystery was subconsciously playing the game during the interview. He was completely ignoring the youngest lady on his extreme left all the time, only giving her attention once in a while. That made the young chick into him. That's my friend is the essence of every PUA. It gets embedded in the DNA over time whether intentionally or not.

[@boundaryzero]

ITS "STYLE" BTW .... NOT MYSTERY :)

[@jacobmufasa]

please neil dont expose us.. :[

[@Jerrydupris]

Lmfao fr

[@InoSense85]

I'm glad they kept interrupting him for this reason.

[@Jerrydupris]

They're clowning his ass.

[@bikeshop2002]

why not? do you really think you need a bunch of secrets to get laid or to get people to like you? it isn't rocket science

[@DoverAthletic10]

@Dan: Bro.. just hit up UnbreakableConfidence, com.. I used to think it was all about looks and money.. Obviously that helps.. but when it comes down to it, confidence is even more important. Read those books man... it'll help to revamp your mindset.

[@countsmyth]

Technique is one thing but at the end of the day it comes down to confidence! All these pua guys are super confident!

[@kotkes]

i haven't researched the "game" all that much, but i did just complete "The Game". The writing is genius and Neil's person is just REAL. It's awesome to see a "normal" well mannered guy see beyond the BS of the game and keep it real and really try to learn what the self needs to do in order to be the person we are. I'm a fan and not because i need his tactics, but cause I've tried one or two things for shits and giggles and it fucking worked! Looking forward to more of Neil's work!

[@edsonkagami217]

We can talk about this is probably one of the oldes videos on youtube?

[@chrisjetton1957]

I love Style but the 4 cackling hens were downright painful.

[@fogs8153]

Chris Jetton he’s a super nerd, only a weirdo would be attracted to him

[@michaelhaz5006]

guy is really smooth, he has great confidence and he obviously knows what he talks about, the moment he starts explaining him self to these girls they immediately understand where he is coming from, and the simple fact that what he is saying is completely true, because as women they know how it goes, really remarkable fellow.

[@Gyamfi]

JUST HEARD OF THIS 'GREAT BOOK" THIS YEAR...2019....SOO DAMM PISSED DIDN'T HEAR OF THIS BOOK OR HIM.....IN MY 20'S......:(

[@DreamBigJilly]

It just showed up in my feed too Never heard of him. 20s are for mistakes and learning 😉

[@AleMadison]

Haha I understand you 100%. However.. me I read it at age 50+ and I can tell you .. never too late

[@tailgunner2]

You did not miss much. I bought it in 2005. The Game isn't wrong, it is simply obsolete.

[@Gyamfi]

@@tailgunner2 hmmm....what U mean Explain....your opinion...

[@YukiKyoHaruLover]

style is incredible, omg, his book is awesome

[@DarkBond]

This book is AMAZING! I'm a girl and I read it...and it's a damn good read! lol

[@PeterSivazak]

The ultimate test of any man: staying classy while the ladies of the the view squawk over you.

[@monkehp]

Style, you the man. You figured it out above and beyond Mystery, who has way more tools (that is, naturally good looking and tall) but still manages to look like a moron. Major, major props, and thank you.

[@newjack900]

Never watched this show outside of clips but it's almost satire how much the women talk over each other and the guest. 1 woman will ask a question and just as the guest will get into the answer another one of the women have to take it a completely different direction with some random thought she has. It's the best.

[@beebrian1944]

I love this. Many PUAs make a fool of themselves with the media. Neil was very relaxed and had a great time. He came off smart without being weird. I still like my own methods better than his, but he's cool either way.

[@bama20044]

it's a friggin awesome book, and I didn't actually look at him online until I finished the book. I can't believe this guy actually got all the way through what he did!!! You gotta read it!

[@haleybear222]

"You've been dating a guy for 3 months and he's still friends with his ex -- with his ex girlfriend. How do you feel about that?"

[@Sugarshane88]

Lol then what ..u get her opinion so what Whats that gonna do

[@Imhotterthenyou11]

You compliment them on the advice, say you find them interesting and would like to continue talking at a later time, then ask for a number so you can reach out when you’re free. If they say no, you say hey no worries, thanks for the advice, and move on coolly

[@DanielJ]

We all like a challenge. Something we have to work for. Great fundamental concept of attraction!

[@KBThePhotographer]

The simple mistake men have made forever. Everything we learn about women - We tell them. They change. New problem.

[@lepredator189]

How is that supposed to be a 'new problem'? Maybe for you, you probably come off as robotic to women. We've been biological for æons now; women need to fuck too, okay? Jeez.

[@Cauchy77]

I like Neil "Style" so much, he ´s really inspiring

[@bassclefpaco]

If you were paying attention, you just watched a clinic. He just opened a hostile four set. It's an interview, yes, but they that intro was anything but friendly. He ignored the cynical woman directly to his right until he won her over and she was smiling and had better body language by the end of the segment. Joy Behar wanted to be picked up. She was eating it all up. Haha. The hot one on the end was game. She wanted to play. She'd have been an easy target in a club. But notice how well the game works on educated, left-leaning women. Despite being the "creepy pick up guy" he had them all eating out of his hand by the end. The most important part of the whole interaction? Glad you asked. When he said it's all about making a girl comfortable. Women want you to be a man, just not in a barbaric sense.

[@efarmer385]

Did great man you're truly a good guy to rep this sort of stuff.

[@12omarCV]

5:55 so his "routines" didnt work on her? neil would kill it if he switches to natual game

[@selkirkswift]

i'm 2/3 through "the game" right now picked it up yesterday...man, just like the pages, its gold

[@ethanzapata5884]

Damn, let the man speak. These girls are so annoying. Neil is the man, any of you PUA haters should hit up *MackMethods. com* Neil introduced me to the fact that pulling girls is a SKILL that can be improved and then that course took me to the next level.

[@raminoreks]

Dude, I know. These chicks are so annoying. Literally sound like birds to me haha

[@MMArtist99]

Moses Mikers Annoying feminists. They need to realize that feminism was only created for the purpose of breaking up the family unit and gaining the ability to tax the other 50% of the population. It was funded by the Rockafellers.

[@plomdocket]

Mark Johnson That's true man, nothing is as it seems really.

[@kenotrovta]

Thanks Ethan.. I actually subbed to that course about a month ago. Good stuff for sure.

[@SinisterRainbow]

***** There is truth here, but it is still fiction. To say you practiced only means nothing, you never, likely, even came close to what was needed. It's not easy, especially for guys unwilling to not work on themselves, as essentially that is what being a PUA is, a guy who works on himself to become more attractive to women. Some of that involves hitting the gym, because looks do matter, HOWEVER, attraction for a women is not the same as for a man, and that is one piece of a multi-tiered puzzle as you should know. If you were FANTASTIC socially, which surely you are not, you would get girls. Maybe if you are butt ugly it's near impossible to get a 10 - yes. Because no matter how many other pieces you bring, you still lack that piece. But a 7 or 8 is very possible. Look at Ross Jefferies! Look at ugly dudes you see with hot girls, I know you've seen a few, and you wonder how. If you simply say 'he has money' you are lying to yourself. That *may* be a piece, but they are fulfilling something else in those women. I know one case intimately of a woman who was beat by her ex-husband and a socially gifted ugly dude who was quite sociable and quite charming - smooth - swooped her off her feet afterwards. And this guy was awkward looking but it did not matter, women loved him, my mother loves him. If you are unwilling to become this guy and want to blame the world and toss a sob story - you can do that - and you will get no where as you expect. If you are willing to put in the time and become a better more attractive person, then you will get more, period. The PUA community is still learning , but what they have so far is quite astounding and working for thousands of people. And until it becomes a norm where our fathers teach us how to do it, and society stops bullshitting about what really is important in the large scale, this is extremely helpful information for those who want the change bad enough they are willing to get out of their ruts and become a more emotioanally stable and better male - that in turn becomes more attractive to females.

[@drcomwiz]

Thanx a lot Neil . You made my job a lot easier.

[@cj3420]

“He didn’t use any of it on me”

[@memphisvin]

OH MY GOD, did you see that? He even charmed the harpies on the view. The lady next to him starts off going "Pcik up artists can get any girl they want - yeah, right!" and ends up saying "you gotta think up stuff like this for us girls". He even won THEM over. Another 5 minutes, he could go home with one.

[@codfanatic4]

Style you are a legend.

[@motownkrazy]

wut u say is some wut true in the sense that ur confidence will go up when ur good at something.. but i'm good at stuff that most guys arent and it did boost my confidence but no grls are drawn to me, i usually end up as the guy who's looked at as a brother

[@ProfessorShyguy]

One of the funniest things I've read in a long time. Brilliant.

[@xmagic9x]

he was ranked first one year and mystery was ranked first another year. both are godlike

[@tahartouati9349]

He's just a geniuely charismatic/nice guy.

[@joseespinozagarcia3142]

Buen video, ojalá viviera Neil Strauss al juego, pero es muy difícil Necesitamos más gente asi

[@karljobst]

This has nothing to do with society. Sex is really good and people should want to do it. People don't want to be a virgin because they want to have sex, not because they care about society. If you're unattractive and can't get laid and feel better being a virign and saying 'fuck society' to make yourself feel better that's cool though.

[@slackdave]

What a panel discussion. It's like swimming around bleeding in a tank full of piranhas!! He seems to get out in one piece!

[@jawnho9653]

LET THA MAN SPEAK DAMNNNNNNNNN

[@discotechwreck]

I just finished reading The Game this morning really entertaining I have to say as soon as I started reading the book I tried out some of the Mystery Method in some bars and clubs it works.

[@06comment]

they may have even learnt something from him if they let him speak instead of interrupting him to tell him that they don't understand

[@buckdich1]

Thanks for sharing all our techniques with the entire female population, NEIL!

[@jun250]

ZOMG that is Lisa?! hands down to that!! Style you are a bloody legend!

[@darkonda]

Haha, this was so awesome. He won them over like a pro, and they didn't even realise it.

[@bikeshop2002]

I'm sure they realize plenty. It's not hard to win people over...people like to get along. were you convinced that they were all out to get him no matter what or something?

[@Coilz0r]

Well played mr. styles... well played.

[@Native722]

I admire Neil so much; I don't think I'll ever be at his level.

[@marvinkmooneyoz]

its cause he knows his audience...THE VIEW...hes getting them to let their guard down...his method is definitly work, its instructions to attitude, social dynamics in a systematic, paradigmical way...its not even that this guys thing works...this guy has come to understand (and teaches ) the whole big picture

[@WildernessGuardians]

He's doing a public performance. Even the best of them get anxiety in public situations.

[@666948]

Niel stated in The Game that Mystery is the greatest PUA in the world, but also went on to say he could challenge him.

[@McColanis]

The black woman sitting on Neil's left hand, is being negged by him the whole time. The crucial point where he reels her in is at 3:45. She agrees with something he says, he acknowledges this and touches her back for a mere second. That last touch was crucial in converting her to his admirer. He truly is a master.

[@jackrabbit2573]

Indeed. It's putting pressure on the new guys (I've learned about the community for about a year now) to get better FASTER.

[@dominicanboy312]

pleese we need it lol, you women are unbleiveable

[@dragonfist25]

What part of QUIT SENDING ME MESSAGES didn't you get buddy??

[@BadNews885]

That comment just earned you a subscription. Well played.

[@mishaco]

his wife is so gorgeous! I just started reading this book!

[@bikeshop2002]

divorced :(

[@alexbaxthedarkside]

Awsome Neil, you tell them!! This dude is So awsome, hes cool ^^

[@feonor26]

Hehe...I love people like you. Just like little kids who thinks they've reached adulthood :)

[@vuckosmor]

All pickup artists are cool, that's why they are pickup artists :)

[@phatkix]

this guys book rocks.

[@7ees]

Sparks, I swear to GOD, I was about to right down something similar to what you said. He really DOES talk fast. But, In general, you can tell that he understands about interactions. Take care

[@anonymousunknown7845]

They don't even know he's running The Game on them.

[@bikeshop2002]

i see it, but I'm not sure why it's seen as this big secret. he's good at charming and getting along with people. so what? people like to get laid and to get along. it isn't difficult. believe in yourself :)

[@DanielWong1810]

man, that's cool btw, i recommend u guys read his book. i just finished it last night and i made a big impact in my life. not just about hooking up with girls(which totally worked for me) but other things in life too. so go get the book guys. its like a key which unlock many things u need to know in life.

[@DJKhal21]

Ur right man. It's still underground but now there's VH1's The Pickup Artist, which is making everyone know about this art. On this show EVERYONE is getting a copy of The Game! That's crazy! Giving away the secrets for free!

[@DoubleLatte13]

This is old inauthentic game, tho its still rocks and some points are really valid, I belive authenticity and core confidence is where its at.

[@biofire]

if you're good at something, you gain confidence as your competence grows. Make yourself good at talking to the opposite sex, learn that makes them fall in love and practice conveying those traits. Mystery's method helps you start, but you understand quickly that is it much more than just picking up women, it's about building your social skills with everyone

[@TheRealLinkShady]

I agree. the first spet is being interesting and having an active life. they really need to see inside and see the main issue. anyway, i think their confidence most come from the inside, instead of just feeling confident because of what other people think of them.

[@QnetShinden]

.. Watching this, i can see why he's so good. I'm wondering if he's just done it so much that it's become a habit or if what he's doing is conscious.

[@highwinds1524]

I like how he turned that around, they really wanted to shoot him down at first. By the end they were wanting to know more. i love it xD

[@Chinaski021]

I love Style!

[@halfstepdown88]

Yes that is very true. In the end it is all about building social skills