Super High Standards Are Keeping You Single | The "Average" Woman Dilemma ©

[@NiyaB81]

I don’t care what people say about you Kevin. Listening to you causes me to check myself. The teacher will appear when the student is ready. Thank you!!!

[@andreac.5596]

True, I'm learning a lot myself and trying to change qualities about myself

[@mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862]

Smart💐, and I'm in the front row...

[@kingblackheart919]

Be careful if some other woman hear you saying that they are gonna call you a traitor.

[@imandalton4227]

Great attitude

[@JO-kr7si]

Low key I feel so depressed listening to him because I didn’t do all these things when I was younger

[@cocotwins]

If a woman overlooks a guy who makes 70-80K she is an outright idiot if he treats you right.

[@whussgudd]

Think about it though, most women that come on this think an average middle class man needs 400-700k a year just to raise a family 😂 so to them 80k sounds like chump change when reality not many guys make that

[@khennimahmud4006]

Part of being a woman of QUALITY is financial discipline. There are plenty of quality women who would love this salary! Many men making 42k are shooting at above average looking women who qualify for 80k. The woman may tell him he doesn't make enough and his mind automatically assumes she is saying the guy has to be a millionaire. I think this is where a lot of average earners get this mindset. Realistically, women are happy with 80k.

[@lisafoster3868]

Agree

[@MG-mj6zi]

I've heard Kevin say these men are not high earners. 70 or 80 k is holding down your share, be it man or woman. It is the behavior that counts at this point.

[@mastercarpenter1970]

@@whussgudd only 24% of the United States population makes $85,000 or better per year. These women done lost their mind. I am a 51-year-old male making a little better than 85,000 a year in South Carolina with a high school education. I have friends of mine with college education that don't make what I make. I meet women everyday that don't make a dime over 30,000 a year and they don't want a man like me. 51-year-old male with no children and these women don't want a man like me that has everything he owns paid for and could live pretty much any way he wants to but because I'm not making six figures they don't want s*** to do with me.

[@JD2.0N54]

That last caller was so confident, she broke up with her boyfriend, thinking she can get him back whenever she wants. Most men make themselves too available for women.

[@kathrynimhoff344]

Praying he runs. He had to suffer real emotional pain when she broke it off. She's playing with his feelings and mental health.

[@tayemongreen3377]

I hope he doesn't take her back, he'll be much better off without her.

[@LeMan8o4]

If the word is out that she broke up with him. Her competition has officially tripled!

[@robwills1729]

Yup!!!im stop doing that!

[@mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862]

That's why I tell them all men are not the same. So u have strong men, and you have weak men, there's no such thing as men in the middle...

[@c.r.8548]

R.I.P Kevin. Thank you for leaving your footage so we can continue to better ourselves

[@akbarel-amin8803]

"Beautiful women dont need accomplishments to be around high value men!" Thats the truest shit that you ever spoke! Lol ;)

[@LordHollow]

Six days after meeting my now wife (getting to know each other heavily during that time frame), she walked up to me at a mutual friend's backyard cookout and asked "What do you want on your plate?" I damn near fell out my chair...

[@arronfrazier7873]

That type of behavior from a female today is trying to find a needle in a haystack!

[@arronfrazier7873]

@@Kelly-pp1et You can trust those Eastern Europeans females if you choose. They want a green card and a rich man.

[@arronfrazier7873]

@@Kelly-pp1et They do! Just like the women in Central and South America. Females have their nature, we accept that. However, we have to be honest with ourselves about America. The feminism and many of its behaviorism, desire and wants was export around the planet from America with TV, movies, books and etc.

[@drwpsych]

Cool.

[@TheRawledawg]

@@Kelly-pp1et Yes that is true. Black men are getting their passports and travelling overseas left and right.

[@AR-gs4se]

I've noticed alot of times the same women thinking "average/slightly above average guys aren't good enough" were raised by a hardworking dad who was the very same average/middle class man they're now rejecting

[@martelprayer416]

@E Tan So true bruh... I refuse to limit myself to only black women. Have to admit I've had some of the best times of my life kicking it with females of other races and ethnic groups!

[@marycollins2314]

@E Tan Well black men have been dating out, black women are dating out more too. We feel more valued by non-black men. I guess we feel the same way.

[@obadiyah100truth3]

@AR...Absolute Truth.

[@Iaintbrokenomo]

@TechMeOut I'm with a Colombian woman right now. I dont have to lift a finger if I dont want too. Zero back talk. That's all I got to say about that

[@blacktothefuture6230]

@@marycollins2314 BW aren't "dating out", BW are just getting smashed by non-BM. When BM date out, they often get married.

[@clmk28]

“Inject chaos when things are boring” gentlemen leave women like this

[@terrydavis2570]

I agree with you

[@ClapperDan]

Coach Greg Adams said the same thing Title of video: She Thrives off Chaos and Disorder

[@kevinortega6432]

You can either love women or understand them, I suggest you understand them and keep it short term unless you find a women who’s mentally prepared and mature for a relationship and commitment.

[@clmk28]

@Billy Jean some people are energy vampires; they feed of emotional chaos

[@eddieedentertainment131]

Bruh I swear I jus dipped a broad for that reason now she cant sleep Im out

[@SigmaWarrior1978]

“Ain’t nothing 8 about you except what just ate.” 😂🤣

[@natashafreeman2220]

The ladies who say “I am a strong-independent woman. I don’t need a Man” were probably rejected by Mark. Now they hate all Men and won’t give Aaron, Keith, and Kenneth the time of day.

[@doriangrey3817]

Hating all men made them feel good. But being lonely hurts.

[@natashafreeman2220]

Cairo A. Amen 👏👏👏

[@DeaconChriss]

This is sad😂😂😂😂

[@natashafreeman2220]

Drone Ninja so sad but so true

[@JoiCarlaBodyBar]

I'm a single women who is in between an an Angie and a Hilary! I wasn't aiming for a "Mark", I actually found those guys arrogant. However, my gripe is with the Aaron's! They waste your time! How do I know, I got a child with one! So, me being alone has nothing to do with what your saying. I'm not about to sell my soul for these type of men!

[@dorothyc6037]

The decision by the last caller to break up with her boyfriend because he works too much is very typical, and it starts early. My son's girlfriend of 2 years (20 years old) always complained that he studied too much and broke up with him. He is applying to medical school next spring. I believe she will ultimately regret it.

[@dorothyc6037]

@@erdnati Will do and thanks.

[@IkeOg]

@@erdnati I second that book recommendation

[@dorothyc6037]

@EightFrancs 👍🏽

[@blahblah2779]

“Everyone wants to go to heaven, but no one wants to die”. I don’t think this is centered on women only, a lot of the younger generation sees instant gratification as the norm. It’s a culture shift.

[@jayschipp7529]

@@dorothyc6037 she will. I graduated 8 years ago and now my practice/medical spa is full steam ahead. She’ll be hounding you, just like they hound my mother at church and around the neighborhood.

[@KalusBane]

Funny thing is this, most human beings are not “high value” by definition! There is nothing wrong with living a slightly below average, average, or above average lifestyle as long as that is YOUR potential; we have to be realistic and find peace in that.

[@amandaslay6045]

Word!!!!

[@JamesHudson55]

Facts . 80% of Americans live check to check. These women come from average families and look average but they want the top 1% of men

[@doriangrey3817]

Most ppl don't see themselves the way the rest of the world does. I think "life dysmorphia" should be a new term.

[@emotivenancychoo]

cbr9292you the woman you will end up with will have 50+ bodies and you will never know because she fits your weird ideals. 🤣

[@kafenwar]

Thank you, sir.

[@sowellsowell]

These women kill me going to school to get a good job, then deciding they don’t want to work or pay bills.

[@tyronegooch5251]

And don't look for husbands. Crazy.

[@larrywilliams3264]

😂😂😂😂

[@9525joe]

🤣🤣💯🎯

[@triples8580]

You nailed it!!! Who is going to pay all these bills? Why should she live life so freely on the backs on men? Pathetic!

[@jbzzey]

Those women go to college for the experience, not to prepare for life.

[@scc4348]

As an Asian girl, I think we are a little more realistic - my Friends and I are “cute” but average dated high potential guys (maybe a bit nerdy and averages looking) when we were young held onto these guys and married them.

[@factsfacts6628]

I think it is a western problem.

[@bob81118]

@@kansashoneybadger7899 have you ever cheated on him?

[@Stevespiano]

It is a "Western" problem.

[@Turfbaby831]

I have never seen a cute Asian🤷🏾‍♂️

[@scc4348]

@@tnizzii “Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt…”

[@bryanjohnson9139]

Coming from a two parent home there are certain standards that are just norm. I have begun to realize those from non two parent homes have unrealistic standards, almost a pipe dream.

[@azraelfirstofhisname8695]

@@ShaunHensley Agreed

[@10kingmike]

I completely agree. First woman I dated had unrealistic standards and she was from a single parent home. Wasted 5 years of my life. The woman I’m with now two parent home and my life is perfect.

[@NWYVR]

I disagree - I (a woman) grew up with a single mother. I got married at 22 and am still happily married 11 years later. My female friend grew up in a wonderful 2 parent home (her parents are amazing!) and she's still single at 34 trying to lock in a high value alpha male who is attractive and wealthy.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

@@NWYVR 34 and single and still trying to get high value? She is lost. But u are wrong. Generally a two parent home has better women not single parent. Your example is anecdotal. Its an outlier that you should never have mention. Kinda like if I say "people don't win the scratch tickets" and u reply with "Tony won one!" So? Tony is anecdotal

[@NWYVR]

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp You're right - my situation is the exception :)) I hope it works out for my friend! She stopped talking to me last month and started doing shrooms with some other single female friends of hers... she's been too brainwashed by the radical left. Not sure if there's any hope for her...

[@LonskiBig]

.....They want an attorney, 32- ish y/o....who is nice- looking.....who has real estate and a trust....whose dad owns a law firm. This guy has 87 million women to pick from, and does not want HER....

[@mrcarterfx885]

Exactly

[@TheUzamaki1234]

😂😂😂

[@LonskiBig]

@@kansashoneybadger7899 ...It depends on what specialty. Divorce attorneys make $300k/year and don't do much but listen to bickering...Why don't girls go for punch- out carpenters or kitchen- tile layers.?? Both make $3000/week working 8- 5 PM, but they don't. They snub their noses at them.

[@LonskiBig]

@@kansashoneybadger7899 ...Your perspective is definitely better than mine, however the above is not my opinion but what the "San Francisco Magazine" study found. A 3- part article where the girls were studied in the city. THAT...THAT was the problem. They ALL wanted the above, and there wasn't enough guys like that to go around. So the article was in essence "laughing at them", saying that what they wanted was a pipe- dream. Go back and read the article. The front cover has a Leer jet with a girl standing in front of it because she OWNS it, and some restaurants, but she says she "can't get a date" in San Francisco....Average divorce attorney in San Fran, googled, is $197,000/year...and ALL the girls want him...

[@jbzzey]

LOL

[@jlove2smile]

Why can’t people just answer the questions without acting like they are lost?????😳

[@estherc3237]

It is really annoying🙄

[@illwitness]

Because he’s interviewing women. If he was talking to men it would be a completely different show, they would be presenting their problems and he would be giving solutions. The conversations would be no more than seven minutes. He’s talking to women so there’s got to be all these games, deflections, innuendos, indirections, double meanings, triple meanings, no meanings,...which all mounts to an overall gross lack of ability for honesty, reflection and self inspection. Complete total self deception. It’s fascinating to watch but this is why you can’t take modern women seriously.

[@lawrencemoore870]

Trying to lie on the flying

[@7dayservices495]

The MAJORITY of women ARE LOST!

[@beetleything1864]

@@illwitness Bingo - triangulation - word salad - gaslighting ........they all at it......

[@cold_as_ice999]

Why do I salute the end of the phone calls right along with Kevin? 🤣 Just came across this channel and I find great pleasure in Kevin putting these self-entitled women in their place. It's the same shit I used to tell my friends about men and they never wanted to listen smh... I was smart and secured my husband (my prize) at age 20 and we are still rocking together 18 years later. Of course, I didn't have super high standards. I accepted who he was and how he treated me.

[@chudharymokha5185]

Woow great advise thanks

[@CodeNameStunna]

Salute to you. I was that friend as well and always submitted to the dude i was with but sadly they wasnt even half the man my husband is (not by law but spiritually) he is my prize i been craving for

[@CodeNameStunna]

We are 21/22 known each other since we was 17/18

[@cold_as_ice999]

@@CodeNameStunna omg same here as far as my husband being my spiritual life partner (we don't believe in the legal institution of marriage) and he too is my prize that I had been waiting for. Salute to you as well

[@CodeNameStunna]

@@cold_as_ice999 i believe in TwinFlame and thats what i believe me and my hubby is. Im the divine feminine and he the divine masculine. We lived in the 3D before we met. When we met it was the run and chase. Separation. Union and we union last year but the chase and run roles reversed but didnt last long like his did.

[@johncrouch1868]

A young female could be working at restaurant and and get picked up by a millionaire or billionaire. That's the power of youth and beauty.

[@ricreal6816]

In my opinion its unfair, cause if u think about it thats their natural power over us men is their "beauty", but our natural power over them which is "physical strength" we dont stick together as blue collar 9 to 5 men and use this natural power over women!!!!!! We built the physical structure of all these material things that these females are so obsessed with. But our problem as blue collar men is that, we wont separate from these millionaire and hundred of thousand aire (yeah i made the last one up, but u get what im sayin) we have to separate from these upper class men that all of the attractive women are fighting over, then we have to build our own society on another land, then make these women choose to be with us the way we want them to be or go build your own society on your own land, but we know they can't, so they will give in at that point! I dont know why we cant understand that as blue collar men, shit these attractive black women are using their natural power of beauty over us black men everyday, all day, and are very cut throat about it, if u aint got that big money these attractive females will not give in one centimeter they will leave regular men right where they are standing until us regular black men are dead literally!! So we have to separate from our over blown competition which is the rich bros makin millions and hundreds of thousands and then use our natural power of physical strength over women, like they use their natural power of beauty over us, and go back and read what i mean by us men using our natural physical strength over women, before all u sucka men start taking shots at me thinking that i am saying that us black men should be physically abusing them, cause thats not what i mean, just go back and read what i typed.

[@Chillalot]

Very good takeaway from this conversation is you get what you give...as women we are taught to sit back and recieve. But what are you willing to give as a relationship has to be mutually beneficial. Also it's fine to be a normal average middle class person...that's the bulk of Americans. So stop living in insta celebrity world before you end up old, unmarried and childless

[@kidkid985]

Facts

[@ricorogers9319]

💯

[@jaybrick8973]

I feel alot of women are headed there they don't live in reality

[@darylhudson3949]

💯💯💯💯

[@mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862]

You are appreciate it 💐...

[@kkrobertson1]

The last caller broke up with her man to see someone else!! It did not work out so now she wants to come back!! HELLLL NOOOO!!!!

[@williebeaman652]

Women will never understand that the grass isn't greener on the other side. They live in the moment with no logic.

[@jamiebrumant2153]

Well if he takes her back some thing is definitely wrong with his self esteem or maybe he did her wrong

[@mikeandmars2345]

Facts

[@chadparks4841]

@@williebeaman652 facts

[@pcurtis4]

But men do that too when they see the grass isn't greener.

[@quinnc.6227]

Listening to the call in section is so painful.

[@derrickeaton1269]

Its amazing how much delusion they have

[@domnel3981]

@@derrickeaton1269 Delusional

[@londonpharaoh1603]

Truss me I love my black women but damm this is scary cos its the same with alot of women in London aswell the world needs Kevin 💯

[@Bread_n_Butter.]

The fact that the women literally call in LIVE on a regular basis to be used as proof of what Kevin is saying is crazy! It shows just has arrogant and on a high horse these women are that they hear this stuff and instead of being able to evaluate themselves and realize “damn, that’s me,” they still have to call in to confirm they’re worthy... only to have the air let out of their ego balloons. 😂😭

[@parisjej]

SuperCyberGangsta It’s fascinating isn’t it? 😂🤣😭

[@blacktothefuture6230]

They *ALL* call in & seriously think that they or their situation is different from any other chick that calls lol.

[@gilbertwest8245]

Those women tend not to be good listeners... While you are explaining something to them, they are thinking of a rebuttal...missing the learning opportunity.

[@classicdriprob4850]

@@blacktothefuture6230 So Delusional . lol

[@HassanThelander]

It is scintillating rudeboi

[@LifeAndTimelessArt]

All these IG models wouldn't survive these calls...

[@lacaius28002002]

I was an Aaron, and had a Mark in our group. The good thing about our Mark is that, he educated us..and now we all have a Hilary😁

[@lacaius28002002]

😳Tierra..can get IT!!

[@lacaius28002002]

@jonasbabe75 I think she's an Angie😁

[@Deblaccboii]

Lol y’all women see how easy it is for men to accept our place in a “hierarchy” and instead of fighting it, we use to it maximize our life and results... good job brother💪🏾

[@lacaius28002002]

@@Deblaccboii Thanks bro

[@lacaius28002002]

@@blackgurltech 😁👍

[@oj-2258]

After listening to the woman who said she was a 5 in looks and overweight but wanted a man who makes over 300K a year....i was speechless!! BM I feel for y'all if that is what you are dealing with out here 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@dr.b.3888]

Amem!

[@LeelosAdventure]

That’s why a lot of us just ignore bw all together. It’s sad. We want them the most but know it’s not healthy for us long term

[@doriangrey3817]

I want to train average, practice average, shoot average, and give average effort...and one day I'll be Michael Jordan😂🤣😂💀💀💀

[@MoveInSilence23]

2020 MJ or 1991 MJ after beating the Lakers?

[@vennyi]

Lmao!

[@Thejermzshow1000]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@yungprototype]

😂😂😂 that part

[@rodneyblackburn2022]

TRUTH!😂😂😂

[@Legend_has]

He needs to start putting the people on camera some of his best shows were when he did so. It allows the audience to understand who he’s talking too

[@Legend_has]

raj jar Agreed. I'm mostly speaking of the women that think highly of themselves. It will allow the audience associate Specific mindsets with a particular looks. It would be great if it was optional upon request.

[@JesseLD3]

@raj jar i think the exact opposite would happen. The calls would flood in more. Jerry Springer, Divorce Court, and Maury don't have a shortage of people because they showed their face.

[@macplatt6183]

He tell every single one of them that think highly of themselves to cam up. Rarely do they rise to his challenge, because they know they are throwed off but want to keep the illusion of them being "All That" going.

[@junemarshall-kingsley566]

We would also be able to see the kind of grooming choices they make, such a long curling claws, long curling false eyelashes, neck tatoos, and rings through their septums, like bulls getting ready for the slaughterhouse. These types of things would not appeal to the average high-value man, who tends to be mature..

[@ciao2315]

My gosh I miss the way you tell stories so much, KS! You had so much work left to do but glad we have your library. The truth hurts…but you’re NOT wrong…

[@stellakamau6994]

The Tina, Angie, Hillary story is so true.

[@kkrobertson1]

Not really! I live in the DMV area its quite different here. Most of those Frat guys and sorority women are nothing but a bunch of crooks put in position of authority to hold black folks back! I told my daughters never sell your soul to those forked tongue snakes!

[@Deblaccboii]

kkrobertson1 the DMV is probably one of the best places to be as an upwardly mobile black person...successful blacks people are in abundance, married, healthy families and communities are everywhere ...if you can’t become successful in that area then you are probably a failure, don’t blame the fraternities and sororities for why you can’t compete

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Deblaccboii I didn’t wanna be the one to say it but you said it better than I would’ve lol

[@shaylafitzgerald3373]

Hillary's are out here living their best lives.

[@originalman5722]

@@shaylafitzgerald3373 until that wall smacks tho... then? 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@truthteller6929]

Women don't want the truth they like to hear kind words, missing there husband right in front of them.

[@c.mchido571]

Tell most western modern women the truth and she’ll complain you’re judging her.

[@truthteller6929]

@@c.mchido571 you are right, but I say men in general need to be truthful with these women in order to turn this division around.

[@Deblaccboii]

blackgurltech you just literally outlined your problems, which basically tells you what you have to do to fix it going forward..if you want to give up in life nobody will stop you..I’m sure you thought a lot of the tech guys you studied and worked with were corny.. should have got one of them early, because at later ages they get hunted down by non-black women I’ve seen it all the time

[@c.mchido571]

@@blackgurltech opposite forces attract, that's a basic in physics, and is very practical in biology/anatomy as well. Men are not attracted to a woman's masculinity. Feminism has lied to women that they need to "level up", compete and challenge men. Well that isn't going so well today because more women have done that and are lonely. The problem isn't that there aren't enough men, the problem is that women's high standards and masculine behavior is keeping the men away. So many women would pass up a good man cos of status and money.

[@doriangrey3817]

@@blackgurltech he's out there for you. Happy hunting.

[@melvinbridgewater6402]

There is no College Degree for what KS FREELY offers his viewers and HATERS. If this guy was around in the 70's, the Black Race would have been more successful and respected at their GAME. 👏🙏

[@Bbqtrini]

Kevin has chicks literally calling in to get called a 5 or 6

[@Bread_n_Butter.]

😭🤣

[@nellynel6141]

Seems a little masochistic doesn’t it.

[@ohmynester]

Nelly Nel verbal bdsm

[@SlimmDrea]

Lol it’s crazy.

[@omahahairextensions]

Nelly Nel yes

[@marlonwoods4242]

“I needs me a man making 6 figures, preferably 7, 6 foot tall periodt, a boss but will let me do what I want, a gangster, but a family man too, a lawyer and a porn star.” That’s not settling, “I know my worth”

[@darylhudson3949]

😭😂🤣 real definition of asking for too much at this point 🤦🏾‍♂️💯 get you a dog 🐶

[@marlonwoods4242]

@@darylhudson3949 Nah she not asking too much king, humble yourself. She just "knows her worth" lmao

[@darylhudson3949]

@@marlonwoods4242 man watch out, didn’t ask you anything 🙄 that’s a lot how the hell you gone tell me what’s a lot but yeah you delusional then

[@darylhudson3949]

You want all these characteristics in one person 😭🤣🤦🏾‍♂️ well good luck queen

[@bellucigucci]

LMAO!!

[@Tony-Tequalla]

The delusion is Strong with these women.

[@joshuasterling2144]

Where are they stamping out these girl's mindsets at? The alone factory?

[@seanldean4213]

Fairy tale outlook when it comes to relationships...smh

[@johnhinderer9561]

Crap, was just going to make a "force" joke

[@Tony-Tequalla]

@@joshuasterling2144 yeah, it's corporate name is Disney. 😁

[@MrSdragon197]

I work 12 hours days/365 for three years and paid in full for a 5 bdrm home. Wife is a stay at home mother. Wife was clear of my earning responsibilities. We are now debt free with three boys and living comfortably with $150,000 income. I still work 12-14 hours/5 days a week.

[@mikelowry5061]

And I say again. The culture needs this man. 👊🏿

[@FreeAgent99]

Hello from Germany, here it’s the same, women +30 years have so high standards that they all end up alone, and not getting prettier in the process. Society is creating a whole generation of lonely women who will not have babies and will be miserable once they reach 40. Men are fed up with it and go for younger women.

[@FreeAgent99]

Chi chi B E yes, and I also want a women who is ambitious in her job but this high standard thing is really detrimental to society. It makes also men frustrated but there is a way out for men, not so much for women.

[@TheAtomC]

Maybe they don't want to get married or have any children. Some women don't want to be wives and mothers.

[@FreeAgent99]

Christopher Cager some yes, but the majority wants to have a child and be in a relationship.

[@lisamorgan9685]

But pretty and gorgeous young woman are not willing to date with an older man who doesn't take care of them

[@Phantom73949]

@cbr9292you What cat food companies are you investing in?

[@heidin6282]

Watching your show is a guilty pleasure.😂

[@nija2232]

So glad I came across this channel! As a woman who wants to better herself and is currently in her weight loss journey, I am so appreciative of this conversation.

[@mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862]

I 2 believe in you cuz you can do 💐🏁...

[@cameronevans9516]

Why is it a Journey?

[@kevinbd8365]

Ba ba wa wawawawa wump

[@bronxnyc9680]

I really MISS Mr.Samuels 🙏🙏🙏 R.I.P King 👑👑👑👑👑

[@boz3605]

A guy making $300K can get a bikini model with a masters degree in a STEM field.

[@jamesgarrett6848]

She's not nervous...she's sweating Crisco!

[@rebekahkirkendoll669]

I have an average dude, been married for 10yrs, and I'm happy as hell. I think the problem for the pretty girl's is that they have too many options so often times they forget to actually make a decision. They want too much! The problem is greed. Even if Tina would've had the opportunity to get with a high value man, she still would've been checkin' for something better even though that is as good as it get's. Some ppl are just never satisfied bc the real issue is that Tina doesn't even value herself bc if she did, she would never allow her to be any man's side chick high value or not. This is a reflection on how very little she think's of herself bc unfortunately all of her self- worth is based on her outward appearance and not who she is as a person.

[@renaunap2509]

I watched one video n subscribed.... been spending my free time indulging his videos.... great context! Can't get enough.

[@ethibodeaux7]

And here I am about 30 shows later still watching

[@fabian.k17]

@ 1:31:59 He Said" There's Nothing Eight About You Except What You Just Ate"! 😂😂😂😅

[@fabian.k17]

@Erick Dayz 😂😂😂

[@JustBree716]

Is that a buffalo bills hat @Fabian K?

[@fabian.k17]

@@JustBree716 Yes it is!...🦬🦬🦬🏈

[@JustBree716]

@@fabian.k17 Yes sir. That's my city ❤️

[@JustBree716]

@@fabian.k17 What side of town u from

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Sadly, sorority girls don’t even have to be pretty anymore lol. Had to find that out the hard way 6 years ago. Got invited to a party and was feeling so proud of myself til I walked into a room full of ru Paul’s, lizzos, Monique’s and Megan the stallions.🚶🏾Walked right back out.

[@TheDCGuitar13]

You Do 2 Much When I see cake batter and hair hats, I make myself disappear.

[@jamesroberts7115]

TheDCGuitar13 sure I would walk 🚶🏾out after get around room 😂

[@CoffeeRaven]

There is no standard of beauty anymore. When I was in college sororities were the best looking ppl on campuses. I recently returned to school as a non traditional student and the sorority girls are big, out of shape, tacky loud mouth feminists that are the voodoo shea butter brigade or the girls that are pretty until they open their ghetto mouths (profane). Disgusting! I feel bad for the younger men now.

[@Alongebaby]

@@CoffeeRaven 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@azraelfirstofhisname8695]

@@CoffeeRaven We appreciate your empathy and genuine concern 😂😭

[@DutchessKay]

Kevin you keep telling these women how it is. I think most of theses women want you to just lie to their faces and I’m glad you don’t buy into it. These women are boarder line a 4/5 and they want a man that is a 10 it’s just madness. I just love this show x

[@kidkid985]

Dutchess Peaches they want Derrick Jaxn or Trent Shelton lying to them

[@ricorogers9319]

And any man that tells them the truth is "bashing" women

[@Tone__Wes]

@@DutchessKay I Definitely do not see a 4 or 5 lol. He's just trolling you.

[@blutooth6348]

@dutchessKay I don’t know if I like your look or your comment more! Your spot on 💜

[@DutchessKay]

@@blutooth6348 💕

[@Malignantt1]

Im an A-A-Ron. I make $70k a year, got my own house and car and im 23 single and childless. Been turned down countless times, and havent been on a date since my ex fiancee abandoned me with our house in August. The dating game has gotten a lot worse since ive been in it years ago.

[@macplatt6183]

Count yourself lucky. The one I asked said yes 11 years ago and I've regretted it ever since. Enjoy being an AAron. I'd change places with you ANY day.

[@realjcoop182]

Sorry to hear that bro. You've got nothing but time to build your life and enjoy it. You can find a good one in your 30's, 40's or even 50's

[@scc4348]

Dude the fact that you have your own house at 23 and earn a decent amount... you will get a really decent girl when you hit 30! You’re so young - continue to grind and work hard, sooner or later you’ll hit that 6 figure!

[@anne853]

My fiance makes about $45,000 now. He'll make what you make after school. I'll make $60,000 after school. I don't see why people need more than our combined future income to raise two kids and be comfortable. We're not all looking for a man to break his back to give us the world. I hope you find a good one.

[@Malignantt1]

@@anne853 honestly part of it is because I work so much and dont ever go out anymore, but you cant just go up to women today. You have to kind of create an opportunity for them to just “stumble” into you

[@whatiswrongwithyou9656]

There are plenty of good nice men out there. Stop picking the Pookies/Ray Ray's, men who don't have stable income, men with multiple baby mamas, men who flirt with everything, men who have a violent past. The nice, quiet, stable guy is your best bet. I can't believe Tiny told her daughter it's ok to be baby mama #3. Make better choices and you will have better outcomes.

[@SpyTrader1988]

You’re wasting your breath

[@steelesharpensteele6252]

@@SpyTrader1988 was about to say the same thing fuk em traitors its over for them

[@babayega_]

For the record I'm a RayRay. 🤣 But I also own my own business and have a damn good income that's just shy of the 10k per month to put me at high value. I'm about 900 short monthly of the threshold. Trying to see if my Poker winnings count because I make about 3k per month from Poker so if you count that in in there like swim wear. 🤣. Right judge a RayRay by it's cover.

[@duke45jp]

@@babayega_ A RayRay don't have any money bro.......i wouldn't even call myself that

[@TheRawledawg]

@@babayega_ Ummm .....WHAT???

[@motivationrequiresgrowth2824]

We all need to match what we are asking for. Fellas, accept if you are A A Ron or Keith Henry or Mark. Ladies, do the same.

[@KCoopp9]

Facts

[@chadparks4841]

Correct

[@grindhard4312]

Been accepted I was an A A Ron a loooong time ago! I'm good

[@markeyosef1579]

@@ShaunHensley that's what I'm saying.

[@khennimahmud4006]

40k men, based on the scale, you qualify for a 4. Stop shooting at the 6/7!

[@kevindunlap5525]

As an A Aron, I find all of these discussions absolutely fascinating.

[@eroberts0476]

Man, I swear its hard as hell to get some of these women to answer these questions that they already know the answer to.

[@Thaprince9]

"Hilary knows her levels, but Tina will act like she did Aaron a favor".

[@supaa8518]

This guy is proving our point about women! Finally someone is doing this, thank God!

[@mohamedblasse999]

I've been trying to explain the dating pool to my dad for monthS but because it just continues to evolve into muc he just continues to fall out the loop. But only single, unmarried men know what time it is. 🤯

[@junemarshall-kingsley566]

The women are proving it themselves by digging their own graves with illogic, talking around the issue, and lying about their physical attributes.

[@classyyoungman35]

I have a few of my colleagues in the medical field that watches Kevin Samuels show.The doctors here love his show...lol

[@bodyworkandptbykraig7609]

They're probably like, "We need to get this guy on nationwide TV." And "is this guy a prophet or what?" Lol.

[@SMITTYSPARK]

How about you do your job and save lives instead of being on bullshit KZbin channels worrying about hoes.

[@classyyoungman35]

SMITTYSPARK How about you worry about your own life decisions and don’t worry about what I do.Because adults like you probably don’t do shit for a living except follow other people’s post.Get a life!

[@SMITTYSPARK]

classyyoungman ahhh truth hurts don’t it. Like I said go do your job and your probably not even a fucking doctor since your also on KZbin following a clown lol. Now go back to work clown

[@ddavis8988]

@@SMITTYSPARK you think doctors aren't on youtube?

[@Larry11181]

Also the women who call in, tell such horrible stories. It's God awful how these women communicate.

[@AB-fc5kl]

Mr Wright I do wonder if they even listen to the show. He says the same instructions and they never follow them. They take all day to get to the point. Answering straight forward questions is hard for them. No one wants to work after marriage, etc. I’m embarrassed to be a black woman listening to these callers.

[@Tony-Tequalla]

Masters double speak. They're always speak in circles trying to deceive and confuse.

[@illwitness]

From princesses to queens to goddesses. You go girl, lol.

[@TheLetterK81]

A youthful average women with no children is higher in value than a women with a career and has children

[@tunicabey7712]

@@AB-fc5kl its not hard for them.. They are tryna manipulate him into making him accept them as eligible candidates.

[@mikew3788]

Tina wanted to be a side chick so she could try to steal him from his wife.

[@illwitness]

She’s really just a piece of shit that never developed a moral compass and social skills and now she’s on her own.

[@hairqueen9177]

Didn't work

[@ericb7776]

Get pregnant and get child support

[@leonelorozco2514]

Bingo

[@jeremyneedle]

Kevin mentioned a couple qualities of these women like rough, or lacking social skills. That's not even half of it. How about totally self-absorbed, selfish, greedy, completely uninterested in you or your day or your goals or your pain. Getting a girl that was just rough or awkward was honestly a blessing.

[@cassandrab9896]

Growing Fast great! but I didn't know so many Women don't tell the truth about their lifestyle until I found this show. Keep it up Kevin a much needed platform

[@gilbertwest8245]

I lived in NYC most of my life, Washington, DC and Atlanta. Women enjoy the "Soap Opera" approach.

[@MyPrayingmantis]

1:23:20 😂😂 Kevin Samuel, you are (seriously) the father I never had with regard to maintaining one's masculine frame and making good decisions in relationships. Thank you for shutting down the chaotic energy. The OG is growing so fast because he is striking a nerve and dissecting the foolishness and unaccountable callers. The tide is turning away from the feminism or "christian" feminist garbage indoctrinated into women today.

[@jayspence6111]

Daddy issues 🤔

[@clarke6808]

Legend.. Can't get enough of this. Preach!!

[@jayspence6111]

But you’re white...how does any of this relate to you as a white 👨?

[@sc0Obs]

@@jayspence6111 lol I’m latino and I watch all his episodes. Hypergamy isn’t just an issue that black men have to deal with. We all have to deal with women that are hypergamous.

[@slatkipukovnik7759]

@@jayspence6111 im white and i love this stuff. Women are very entitled everywhere, and i am in Sweden . Love it when he gives them the reality check. And thecshow is about women not just black ones. He consults white people too. Why does it have to be about race?

[@javierdavis696]

@@jayspence6111 stop being goofy

[@lyledavis7175]

@@jayspence6111 idiot

[@TheDalinkwent]

This is a prime example of why women are miserable and unhappy. You have chicks who are average themselves...feeling they're entitled to high value men. Men can't afford this delusion...and the ones that try are either clowned or snapped back to reality. Sadly women just blame everyone else instead of seeing the truth.

[@colemantechnologyinc9889]

I’m just here reminiscing, I’m digging in the crates and looking at Ks old content….these unseen videos I have discovered are like him still teaching from the grave.😎

[@kidkid985]

High standards are keeping women single not colorism or dudes with white women. There are men who want these women but women reject them because they are over 6 feet making 8 figures.

[@LOGICAL-JAY]

Exactly..I'm glad you said that..theyll deflect it on colorism, hair and white women when the problem is actually themselves..men try to explain it but they just don't want to listen..then they do the opposite and blame it on no good men being available..I call b.s. most women(not all) lack forsite..they live on more emotions than using a little logic..

[@tayemongreen3377]

@@LOGICAL-JAY It's a complete lack of self awareness. They can't accept the fact that they are unattractive, so they have to put the blame on something else.

[@mylesanderson2861]

We just want them to have good mental health.

[@bd2516]

Meanwhile a 5'11 guy making 80k isn't good enough. Smh lol

[@kidkid985]

LOGICAL JAY all those things are used as smoke screen when women can’t they the type of men they want. Colorism, hair, white women, but notice average looking White women have luck in the dating because they are realistic, a average looking white woman will date a blue collar man but an average looking sista look down at those type men even though most of them are in her dating pool.

[@flewis02]

The thirst from the dudes here all up on mimi was sad and I would love for Kevin to address men about this and how bad this behavior sets us up for failure

[@MarvAuthor]

SIMPS are ridiculous

[@MarvAuthor]

@Ayanokoji They are usually haters also.

[@Rome__king]

You will always be remembered I know you having a ball up there ! Rest easy we still listen and will continue fixing these social constructs!

[@j-bourne4144]

As I rewatch and reflect on the nothing short of genius content this enigma of a man dropped, it spurs me to tell others to watch, listen and learn from these phenomenal observable truths that he speaks. 1-L.O.V.E KS...your message lives on.

[@tj_el_jefe8541]

My goodness, this is/was a great show. Rest in Power!

[@jayfray3339]

This brotha is cold-blooded. I love this Ish!

[@stephencorbitt2752]

I needed this tonight. It just came on and I let it play cause I was here thinking I miss Kevin then you came on. Boy do I miss you brother. The Godfather forever. All these clowns showed up bashing you knowing you'd crucify their arse.

[@jtorres5381]

When he saluted that caller, I died!🤣

[@Dope_Idea]

😂😂😂😂

[@miguelmowry6405]

My respect to you Mr Samuels from Jamaica love your show

[@JamesHudson55]

I have no problem with a woman having standards but at least meet those standards yourself. This show proves the reason why most blk women are unmarried. 230 pound women with kids out of wedlock want HVM? I would rather die alone before is settle with one of these linebackers. I'm glad my GF is 5'3 122 pounds and she is feminine, cooks. And "grabs her ankles" 2-3 times per week. Im feel sorry for guys who are single if this is what in the dating mark. Yuck

[@cheriecobb449]

wat does HVM stand for??

[@julyxoxo3838]

@@cheriecobb449 High Value Man

[@blackdragonx715]

Grabs her ankles. 😂😂😂😂 im stealing that

[@wshelby83]

@@blackdragonx715 wait, what does that mean?

[@bigmos187]

Bro...you broke down that girl from California like a champ.....amazing.

[@setapart3452]

Its so distasteful and unattractive, when our black women, who are not wives, makes these ridiculous demands for the man's money, without bringing stuff to the table. When asked if they want to work, then they have to be pressed to eventually find out their real intentions. Now you see why you all are getting older and single. When you get with your own black women, then we have to deal with this whole demand and disrespectful attitude stuff, which is always the major deal breaker. This then forces brothers to go to other countries to seek out cultured women, who has an idea, who makes the effort and knows how to be wives. Until you all are willing to accept and fix the disrespectful attitude thing and expectations, you all will be single, single and more single. Giving yourself to your man, only if he gives you money, is like prostitution. Brothers are not just looking for women that looks good, but women that has respect for their men.

[@insure4cheap]

*kyla* strawberry your immediate irrelevant response is the core issue of why BM & BW have this discrepancy. These women that’s calling up want to be treated like perpetual princesses, and have their “daddy” take care of them with out regard for their mate in the sense of respect, direction, and submission. How about this, try going to your job tomorrow and go into the owners office and tell him “look, I was thinking, I don’t really feel like doing my job the way I was informed when I first started working here, matter fact I don’t wanna do my job at all, but I need a raise” & see if your ass won’t get fired & replaced. So if you won’t pull that on your job, then why pull that with the men in your life. You don’t really offer much but you want everything because somewhere in your delusional existence, you thought your deserved it. You only receive what your work for and only keep what you appreciate 🤷🏾‍♂️✊🏾

[@setapart3452]

@@insure4cheap You beat me to it. Well said.

[@Advic77]

I hear you...just the way their mother made demands on their father..they are all looking for the golden goose 🤭

[@moontears3887]

A woman can only be submissive to a husband that provides and protects. A real masculine man. Non-black women submit to these type of men, our culture is traditional. You can't expect respect from a woman who has to fulfill both roles.

[@jk9084]

@@moontears3887 Well said!

[@matasuki]

I think the term for women who have this issue are called "alpha widows".

[@TheUpwardbound1]

Dude please do not get back with that girl that dumped you! She has been screwing other dudes and now wants the security with you

[@TheLetterK81]

A youthful average women with no children is higher in value than a women with a career and has children

[@tiffanypearsall6219]

A woman doesn't need to be having super high standards when she isn't what most men would consider classically attractive. That alone makes her options few. I'm not saying be desperate, but beggars can't be choosy either.

[@davidsimmons4731]

What I find interesting is that I believe they know that. Why? If you juxtapose the genders in that situation and women would have no problem saying what you just said. If a guy wasn't conspicuously handsome, shorte, or broke, etc he'd have the same options women have: 1) Accept the woman the are available to him. 2) Improve him self be it physically by losing weight, financially improve himself by getting a better job to give him access to the women he really wants. 3)Do nothing and remain single. The only difference is that on a societal level we no issue telling men to improve, yet telling a woman she needs to improve is a crime.

[@JD2.0N54]

Yeah tell that to those 5 and 6 women who are looking for 8 or 9 guys.

[@tiffanypearsall6219]

We can't do anything about our genes, and everyone isn't going to have a pretty face. The problem is if you know you have a 4 or below face, you can't afford to have a 4 or below body. You can make up for the homely face with a banging body to average things out at least. We have to work with what we've got if we're trying to be competitive, and women need to realize looks are what gets your foot in the door.

[@JD2.0N54]

@@tiffanypearsall6219 There are women with pretty face and banging bodies. Yet those 4 in the face women think they should get the same caliber men as those pretty women with banging bodies.

[@tiffanypearsall6219]

@@JD2.0N54 that's partially my point. The ones who seem to overvalue themselves are below average faces with below average bodies. They do themselves no favors not working on their bodies which is the one thing about themselves they can fix that would make a world of difference to have any inkling of a chance. Especially when there's a sea of pretty faces and pretty bodies. At least if the 4 face has a 8, 9, or 10 body, she has hope of appealing to someone who may appreciate her look. But below average face and below average body takes her out of the running completely.

[@nykia31]

Kevin can make a screenplay out of these college stories.

[@blacktothefuture6230]

It wouldn't do well because it won't end with a unrealistic happily ever after.

[@felinefina8004]

Some artist should make the cartoons to go with the storyline just like they do on Joe Rogan and other big podcasts.

[@dr.b.3888]

True for all Black campus

[@obiwashere]

Kevin & these sound effects 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@JustVielo]

RIP to The GOAT!! He was and still is undefeated 🐐

[@EpsiIonEagle]

I hit the like button. Rest in Peace old friend

[@TravelJones.]

Here we go with the A-A-ron talk... lol, Key & Peele have made my name a running joke! Good content as usual! 🤙🏾

[@Fella100]

I cleaned my life up listening to KS. I'm more focused savn $$ I take my life so much more serious now because of him love my big bro KS

[@patrickellis3338]

Guy has impeccable style and taste

[@jimmyroute2085]

I know a Middle Eastern woman who works full time with me. She is in a arrange marriage. The husband works and she keeps up the home, very loyal to him and doesn't talk like she resents him for her having to work everyday. She is very cooperative and keeps her figure together. The only complaint she has is she wishes he wouldn't travel so much for work. I talk with her often and ask if she has any family. Women with her mindset is so rare that I have been considering flying to the M.E.

[@MrMannface]

I thought about it myself, but remember one thing, they are very religious, and when I mean religious make sure that you are living the faith to the T.

[@mayzboy1]

A.A.R.O.N. Above Average Realizes Own Networth? Above Average Running Own Network?

[@bebenicole7792]

I want a A.A.R.O.N.

[@IkeOg]

👌. Nice

[@impetuscreations8503]

Genius!

[@Classicbeauty857]

This so true, know your level. This is what’s so scary about life, we also have to be carful for those that settle. Just because they settle doesn’t mean they’re happy. They may not be able to get the level of woman that they want. Say their status changes in the future these men usually up and leave the previous woman for the woman they couldn’t access. I hear this story over and over again.

[@soulchampion3027]

I would not call it Super High Standards. I call it UNREASONABLE Standards.

[@luanarciajamesmair9669]

Kevin, I have sincerely missed you.. your vision and honesty cannot be met by no other.. Thank you for making me a better person! The world will soon see exactly what you were talking about..Continue to sleep in peace

[@michaeljmyers1995]

Notice how she said its for the future for MY kids but not OUR kids. They only care about themselves

[@VinBrown2583]

You don't have to be a high-value man to want a fit woman. I am an average guy, I have a great career, I work out daily, eat healthy, and I am 5’7. I am happy to be who I am but I am not interested in a woman that does not desire to take care of herself. Your weight does matter to most men.

[@marcusdingle3114]

"The truth is on the scale" - I went on a black dating website and 90% were very overweight. Things have gotten bad in the dating market.

[@StarBoy21U]

Mr Samuel I'm not n high value man but bro ur killing It...I love ur honesty... I'm n average guy n I know my place... I ain't looking at Halleberry... Continue the good work...

[@charlesirby1643]

Black women will try to shame you or say you are misogynistic if you want sex on demand. If she won't give you sex on demand move on to the next lady. I'm Muslim It is haraam unlawful for a woman to deny a husband sex unless she is sick, menstrual cycle or a medical reason. Brothers give these women too much control when it comes to sex. I had a few black women tell me they were resentment of serving me food that said I'm not a servant girl.

[@charlesirby1643]

@@blackgurltech precisely I started dating latina women who will serve you food with a smile on her face also sex on demand. Alot of black men are wifing up latina women. If you can't show competency in a girlfriend role why would a man marry you? Black women will be eternal girlfriends get used to the role you will fill. I remember I dated a Cambodian lady I was 21 years old my 3rd year of my plumbing apprenticeship. She would go over to my place regularly whenever she saw it disorganized she would organize things. I never asked her nor did I expect her to do it. She was acculturated to be a help mate. Women of other cultures show they have been groomed to be wives while black women keep losing talking they don't have to do anything until marriage.

[@bigmos187]

You are correct sir.

[@HUNL]

“Ain’t nothing 8 about but what you just ate” 💀💀💀 dying

[@wetheplayaspodcastwethepla2157]

Damn Kevin lol he got the game figured out that Aaron and Hilary scenario was my life lmao 😂 if you’re an average looking guy and you’ve been around long enough you’ve had a Hillary story or two nice guys don’t always finish last lol 😂

[@TruthfullySpeaking2001]

Facts bro and you kept it on the low and kept hitting from time to time. That wyd text was like gold

[@RashaudMonroe]

What show is this

[@nellyvillebonbagay4781]

😅😅😅😅

[@josephliggins2619]

I am a high value man and I respect this show because so many women are entitled. And us HVM should know our worth.