Stress on your child : it means disaster : | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

Stress in early childhood is the main cause of Adul behavioural problems
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.

[@sozepinhan367]

بچوں کی تربیت کرنے میں سب سے اہم بات ہے کہ صبر ، صبر اور صرف صبر بے شک اللّٰہ صبر کرنے والوں کے ساتھ ہے

[@knnnewskayaannewsnetwork4801]

Bht khubsurat BT ki ap ny...zindage badal skti

[@ayangamer302]

Ya Allah sb fathers k dil m bchon k liye narmi r piyar dal dy Ameen

[@MohizMalik-ip1bl]

Ameeen

[@iramahtesham2125]

bht acha tareeqa hy samjhany ka allah hum sub ko bacho ki naik tarbiat krny waly maa baap banaey ameen

[@jawariasheikh8406]

اللہ تعالیٰ آپ سے راضی ہوں ❤️🌹

[@readandlearn897]

You are the best ... I always feel guilty when I listen to you .... Trying to be a good mom but sometimes your own stress overtake

[@umberwaheed6117]

yes ur right same here

[@anamfirdous510]

Same here :(

[@muhammadkhalil9753]

Mashaallaha sir.dr.javed.iqbal.naice.speak.............

[@amnkhan4540]

Yes you are right

[@farheenkhan6967]

yes same here too...

[@hrf8453]

I think for this purpose we should change our educational system

[@komalmehmood9364]

Agree

[@empowermentbysana]

My mom and dad are fighting from years... And this makes us alot stressful

[@zobiakashmiri5062]

sad 😒

[@talhaabbasi-iq1qq]

Allah ye lrye khtm kray gharon se

[@simplifyradiology]

Talk to your parents yourself to make your home peaceful

[@ksafia85]

@@simplifyradiologytalking doesn’t help. Ye dimaghi mareez ho chukkay hain. They don’t listen

[@QariMentorvlogs]

Ohhhh ..sorry to hear

[@ammarafoodsecrets]

May Allah remove all our difficulties and ease all our tasks. Aameen

[@henahamid4159]

Ameen

[@experttuent5989]

Summa aameen

[@AbdulQadeer-pq6sl]

Aameen ya rabbal alameen

[@foodparadise1200]

Summa Aameen

[@imaanhunter4970]

The main reason for stress in students is comparison with other students. Especially in teens

[@bulla2747]

U Totally rite brother😔

[@sidwrites..7323]

Studies pressure these days... Educational system sucks

[@zaraukeducation]

Agreed. I am in UK and there is no comparison and no burden. I studied here and learn how the difference in teaching style.

[@sidwrites..7323]

@@zaraukeducation communication system??

[@zaraukeducation]

@@sidwrites..7323 sorry typing mistake. No comparison and no burden until primary school.

[@zeshanaslam3992]

Dr. Sab Allah apki zindgi mai barkat dey ... 1 baat ye keh apki baat boht simple lagti hai pehli dafa mai lagta hai samajh aa gai lekin dubara sunney se koi nya point samny aata hai ... 2 dusri baat mai samjhta hu keh ye aik ba qaeda subject bna ke hamary nisab mai dakhil karna chahiye hai ... Dil se ye chahta hu ...

[@afsheen4952]

Doc sahab, thank you for such amazing parenting guidelines. But please, also discuss behavioural problems of age 7-12, where parents have already done this damage to their children. Please please talk about how to fix n recover this problem in kids. Where due to parents mutual arguments, kids are already affected and don't listen to parents or are hyper and have aggressive behaviours specifically from age 7-12. Buhut Shukria, hamari society ko ap jesay Naseh Ki buhut zarooret hai. ❤

[@ummeabdullah2]

Same request is mine. What should we do now ..?? 😔 How to fix this problem now??

[@asraaziz4278]

Same request from me please give some advice my son is 13

[@komal-vu3qm]

Same request is mine .

[@wakhan-planet]

Same reason here sir

[@wakhan-planet]

Can we have short video on that

[@maan4384]

یا اللہ پاک میرے بچوں کی مزید اچھی تربیت کرنے میں میری میرے شوہر کی اور تمام والدین کی مدد فرما آمین 🤲

[@foodgallery9045]

Ameen

[@ansar260]

Ameeen

[@AmmadHoorainKitchen]

Ameen

[@erumspeaks4301]

Ameen

[@foodparadise1200]

Aameen

[@sanabajwa4036]

My father did all these thing to Us and now I give stress to my child I'm sorry I will never I do all these things and I will avoid it.Insha Allah

[@shahzilgamer9738]

InshAllah

[@hummasarfarazkhan9493]

انشالللہ ۔۔بار۔بار۔خود۔کو۔سمجھائیں۔

[@hayakhan9150]

Yes me too😢

[@irfanaimran8377]

MashaaAllah u are lectures are so true. I am feeling so guilty after listening to our lecture. I a mother of 5 kids AlHamdulillah, but sometimes get so stressed as there are so many things going on through out the day and becomes difficult to mange and then I get stressed and irritated. I know I am wrong and In Shaa Allah will over it and not get angry on my kids. JazakaAllah Khair ur lectures are very motivational.

[@petsiology]

Allah hum sb k bachun ko naik raah pe chlae ar aik sacha ashiq e Rasol SAWW bnae aameen

[@foodparadise1200]

Aameen

[@user-gk4wi1lf1h]

Ameeen

[@sumairabatool5826]

Apki bat se main 100% agree krti hn. Hmarey parents ki kbi fight ni hue thi halan k mere father well educated thay aur ami jan illiterate thi. Unho ne hm 10 behn bhayon ki behtreen prwarish ki. But hm being parents dono educated hn but 3 bachay hm se control nahi ho rahy. Iski wja hm dono ki different approaches hn. Allah pak hme aur hmari aulad ko siraat e mustaqeem pr chalaey. Ameen

[@FAFashionwithstyle]

Allah Pak hmain behtreen walidain baneny ki tofeeq de aur Sahi tarbiyat krny ma hmari madad kray aameen

[@contentart5169]

Most of Pakistani school give stress to students Teachers give lots of homework Mentally and physically torcher

[@komalmehmood9364]

Yes Agree, or ye torture mother KO Bhi milta hai individually, or Bachon KO pas karti hai phir, wo Bhi KIA Kare, school wale itna home work itna kaam dete hain, bache KO kuch na bolo to wo pharte hi nhi hain, Samjh nhi aata KIA Kare to KIA Karen..

[@contentart5169]

@@komalmehmood9364 Parents should have to take action against unjustified homework and too much course

[@komalmehmood9364]

@@contentart5169 KOi kuch nhi karta ye hi soch k, k KOi dusra nhi Kar Raha to Humari kon Sune ga, 3rd standard k bache ka bag itna heavy hai k mother se nhi uth raha hota, or wo bag Bechare bache Utha rahe hain

[@contentart5169]

@@komalmehmood9364 I agree with you but All Parents do something for their children

[@MrHira0810]

Wonderful information. I think pre-wedding or during the pregnancy tenure, both parents should get such awareness sessions at hospital level to enable them good practices on patenting..

[@atherjafri3396]

nahi nahi : ) ap bohat acha samjatay hain Dr sb hum ap k sath hain,. ap ki muhabtin be rohani tur pr hamray pass ati jati hain..with out net,.. ager zendgi rahi tu inshaallah khaeen pr mulaqaat ho jaey gi,.. ( I am spiritual student )

[@mahad_vlogs]

Sir u r great I always use to listen to ur precious thoughts...ALLAH apko sehat wali lambi Zindagi ata kry Ameen...

[@noorullakhan9874]

Dr sahab pahle to bahot thank you aaj m ne pahli baar aapka video dekha aisa laga ke Allah tala ne aapko khaas humare liye bheja h

[@gbtailors9580]

Al ham du Lillah Allah pak ka shukr h k ap jaisy behtareen raah numma hamry darmyan moujood hain thank u so much Dr sb

[@NoorishWithFamily]

اللہ تعالیٰ تمام والدین کو اپنے بچوں کی اچھی تربیت کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین۔۔۔۔

[@experttuent5989]

Aameen summa aameen

[@foodgallery9045]

Ameen

[@shamshadkhan1457]

Ameen Sum ameen

[@sidrasirda9502]

Nice guidelines for the parents and teachers.

[@sohailnajmi5118]

Sidra kitny bachy hain apky

[@shahzaibsultan507]

I invite everyone to listen Quran MAJEED 💝💌💌💝💐

[@farhatiqbal485]

@Shahzaib b7gghuu66

[@petsiology]

Yes exactly

[@currentview0.2]

Sir, I really admire your knowledge . I thank to Allah swt that we are blessed to have a teacher like you .

[@fizazeeshan4478]

JazaakAllah doctor sahab. Apne bohat bra ehsaan kia ye bta kr. Allah apko hmesha khush rakhay ameen.

[@adrenalline8250]

under constant stress your brain cannot process information accurately and hence your academic performance goes down, you cant get the grades that you want, constant frustration of the parents creates new problems if the child finds a bad company to vent those feelings out. unfortunately in our society beating and punishing kids physically is a norm. If your kid is acting different always try to figure out the reason in yourself first then other settings and then fix the underlying problem. Children behave in a very predictable way. In psych this leads to oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, antisocial personality disorder, Obsessive compulsive disorder, acute stress disorder and PTSd, major depressive disorder, bipolar disorder etc etc. And remember in children depression presents differently. Teens usually have a high ego which means whatever they say is right, with time we learn other people have their views also. so when ego is hurt they get depressed. in our society adults think kids cant get depressed.

[@learning9200]

I want to like your every video even without listening just because of that you have built a lot of trust in my mind and my heart my most respectable personality. May ALLAH PAK bless you abundantly

[@mariakhurram6661]

Dr Dil to krta he ap bolte Rahe or hm log sunnte Rahe..bht zrort he hm logo ko guidelines ki... Allah apko jazae kher de in kaamo k lie.. amen

[@experttuent5989]

Aameen summa aameen

[@roohinabang2928]

Sir u r great and kind and i wonder that still sincere people like u are still with us❤ thank u so much God we are blessed MashaAllah❤

[@engineermuhammadkhalidsher8784]

Yes of course. Very important message for all to understand in real sense

[@imtiaz7903]

MashAllah Sir 👍👍👍 Last Year mein Apne mohlay k doston se ye baat karha tha Wo dost mujhe bewakoof kerhay thay per aaj khushi hue aur aap jese Professor ki baat yehe sahi hai MashAllah Sir thanks for information about Stress free happy life 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@Nazriz5234]

Very important video kash yeh video phly mil jati.information ki kumi ki wajha sy hum sy bht ghalti ho jati hy.Allah pak madad kary ameen.

[@Miftahiteachofficial]

ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ بہت ہی عمدہ نصیحت پروفیسر صاحب زید مجدھم جزاک اللّٰہ خیرا کثیرا و احسن الجزاء فی الدنیا والاخرہ

[@sistersdiary2824]

Allah bless u doc shbb... Hmesha kuch naa kuch seekhny ko milta hy

[@uzmakamran37]

No words for your good words Dr. Sahab, very nice 👍

[@ehsanelahi5440]

جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء

[@shabanakhawaja5694]

Allah apku or taraqqi day Dr sb bht sari duaen apky liye

[@peermuhammadhumayunfazli7583]

Absolutely Informative... JAZAAK ALLAH Khair Dr. Sb... 💝💝

[@ejazulhaq9197]

ma sha allah sir! most effective talk!

[@sanamuneeb2816]

MashaAllah keep it up sir..You are great and graceful as always.

[@rahiq7862]

Jazak Allah doctor sahab .

[@zartashazain3136]

Sir g u r such a great person Allah pak apko ajar e azeem ata farmaye ameeeen

[@ashrafyaqubi8797]

بہت عمدہ مسرت ہوئی مسرتوں کے ساتھ شکریہ ادا کرتا ہوں

[@afnangujjar1486]

Great zbrdst👍 Allah pk apko r kamyabi ata kry🤲

[@ghazalaatique116]

Bilkul sahi sir! Giving stress to kids is a disaster for them!

[@hasibaadnan1736]

Bilkul sai bt ha yh mere b 2 bachy chuti wly din yhi bolty han k aj mza ni aya school bht mza ata ha from Spain Madrid

[@mrnursenibba8912]

Osm mind-blowing information for me as a teacher thanks my ideal ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@mishidollvlog3719]

Very nice topic for parents. Thank you sir .Allah apko jaza dy

[@ahsanshahkhan3579]

Proud to have stress in an early age Thanks Almighty For Poverty 😍😎

[@DrAamir580]

Sir yours such informative videos, really have a deep impact on understanding parental caring & child parent relation.

[@msthamza3515]

Allah pak ap ko slamat rakhy or Allah pak mere or mery shohar ke madad farmay apny bacho kee or ache tarbeat Karny ke or Allah pak sab k bacho kee hefazat farmay ameen sum ameen

[@hassankamal3914]

Yeh comments dr sahab ke liay naheen baqi sub logon ke liay hain. Mai ne apne bachon pe kabhi sakhti naheen ki 16 saal ki beti hai 11 saal ka aur aek 4 saal ka beta hai. Un ki training maa karti hai mai sirf un se achi achi baaten karta hoon aur apne uper un ki puri zimedari leta hoon. Mera koi bacha yeh kabhi naheen kehta keh baba aap ne meri yeh ya woh khwahish puri naheen ki. Mere do bade wale bache shuroo mai pudhai mai weak the lekin jese jese badi class mai aate gaye apna kaam sumbhalne lage. Aaj kal ke dor mai bache bohot samajh daar hain aur samajh jaate hain keh pudhai kyoon zaroori hai. Bache bechare aap ke yani maa baap ke rehmo karam pe hote hain unhain bohot pyaar dain taake woh bade hokar is mushkil dunya mai kamyab ho saken. Zimedari nibhane ki umer aap ki hai un ki naheen.

[@unsheladcyberninja5066]

Thanx Dr....big fan of u from 🇮🇳

[@aimazubair1403]

Aslama O alikum sir ap blkul thk keh rhy Hain bachy K lea maa bap EK E hoty I have quintpltes ma Sha Allah or wo hmsha yehi khty Hain K mama K baba or baba Ki mama unhe HM EK E lgty Hain💞

[@spookyraja9495]

kash Ap ki videos us time Available hoty .Jab mary betian choti thi...

[@KhurshidaPeerzada]

MashAllah treasured and prized

[@shamsawaqasvlogs248]

Boht achy questions kiay ap ny

[@dailyroutinelifetopic259]

Helping video jazak allha

[@eer123]

ایکن ایسا نہیں ہوتا ہمارے معاشرے میں ۔اکثریت

[@kainatashraf2944]

Dr.sahib ap se iltaja hai bacho ka jab bhi koi topic ho almost 1 hour ya half an hour to baat kiya karain please Mery jaise insan ko bht kuch seekhna hai khas tor pe bacho ke hawale se I'm not a mother right now lekin mein chahti hu apne bacho ki achi tarbiyat karna

[@biharmirror4984]

السلام عليكم ورحمۃ اللہ بہت بہت شکریہ سر۔۔۔۔ مستقل آپ کی ویڈیوز دیکھ رہا ہوں اس قوم کو آپ۔اچھی رہنمائی کررہے ہیں بہت عمدہ قابل ستائش دلی مبارکباد نیک خواہشات

[@hooriavlogs202]

Sir Mari bati 7 year ke hai school Ka bohat stress Lati hai ... ..jab us Ka admition howa to bohat relax the school ko enjoy krti the AK teacher NY Kasi Bachy ko thaper mara bas us din say.. ..nashta ni krti vomiting ati hai bohat zeda stress hai ap please mujy guide kry kesy solve kry

[@amworld4797]

Please Recite Surat Fatiha For My Lovely Parents

[@kuchevlogs]

Best ever teacher mentor, who can guide u anywher❤❤❤blessed to have such mentors in our society....

[@kitchenwithzainabzia2570]

Thank you so much sir..stay always blessed.

[@nr4650]

Only if parents understand this it’s very important topic ty for sharing this hopefully it will help many kids

[@saramaryam2099]

Jazakallah stay Blessed

[@uzmachlife]

Very informative video doctor shib Allah bless you always ameen

[@shahidvlogs9043]

ماشاء اللہ زبردست عمدہ پیغام

[@nargisquddoos6500]

JazakAllah Khair

[@humaurkitchen]

JAZAK ALLAH Dr Sahab

[@wkjadoon5231]

May Allah bless on you Dr saib,🙏

[@deepaktyagi941]

Thankyou so much , love from India ❤️

[@kashmirfoodsecretsandvlogs870]

MashaAllah very intresting and useful information

[@kulsoomfatima4419]

Every word is precious n important to practice in daily life

[@IPSSCHOOL76]

Ok sir, you are saying a good thing that children should understand at the age of 7 years, they should do this. See, my point of view is that if we do not expose our child to anything good or bad right from the beginning.

[@user-yb3bj7rk4o]

Allah mere bacho ko acha hafza ata kr Aameen 😢 mera beta sbq boht mushkil se yad krta Allah pak mere bachy ki مدد frma Aameen 😢😢

[@nuzhatkhan3530]

Allah bless you .Jazak Allah.

[@user-ew1du3cp2p]

Kia bat hai kash mera beta b sir javed bny ameen ❤❤❤❤

[@zubairakhtar9888]

Very useful information sir.

[@AhmedAli-mw4eg]

Very well explained Sir

[@awsomevideos7923]

Keep guiding sir it's really.important

[@eshalzain8889]

Such a nice guidelines sir👏👍👍

[@osamaazam2382]

This talk is gem piece advice for those still not married (Y) Noting it down !

[@falakjee3443]

Thankyou sir g Very informative topic

[@faisalqadri8618]

جزاک اللہ خیرا

[@KarnatakavloggerNaaz786]

Thank you so much❤

[@lightfoodsecrets4576]

Dr sahib You doing Great job

[@samiafaisal2024]

So nice MAA Shaa Allah

[@lifestylewithmehwish1488]

much needed jazakaAllah

[@HinaRafiq0]

Thankyou so much sir wonder full guideline thankyou👌

[@shaziayaseen2106]

MASHALLAH so good and interesting videos I love your voice

[@moonbasharat8704]

Great message sir God bless you

[@nomanshahjahan3566]

Aslam o alikum sir m bht arsaa tak joint systm m rhi or u tube b use ni krti thi mri bari beti 10 sal ke h or choti 8 sal ke h sir ab ap k lecturs s jo awarnss mjy ai h its too l8 m n jo galtyan ke hn ab kya wo theek ho skti hn i mean ab m wo sb krny ke koshsh kr ri hoon kya response ho ga

[@suhanasiddiqua844]

Sir ur amazing personality

[@BeautyCharmingTv]

You are a great man sir. Excellent.

[@saroshzahid8143]

Jazak ALLAH

[@avinashavinash6512]

Love From India 💐💐

[@ghazalafuzail]

Mashaallah aap bahut ache s smajhate hai

[@afiazafar837]

Jazakallah Khairan kaseera