Not really! Chinese and Japanese who call Asian from Brits as well.
@eastcoastguy_0803 Жыл бұрын
@@jkk3443 Only sometimes. In the UK, the term "Asian" is referred as Indians and Pakistanis in general. It's just a fact. Americans, on the other hand, always assume that "Asian" means Chinese, Japanese or Koreans . In the US, Indians are specifically "South Asian".
@wenzhao5978 Жыл бұрын
那怎么解释英国各种的网站里的表格,总是在Asian的选项下有Chinese的分类?@@yhkit
@caitchang Жыл бұрын
很多時候,反而是自己原生種族更容易有異樣眼光
@welovechong Жыл бұрын
谢谢Susie分享这期,很开心现在的女孩子们这么独立。虽然我是第一代移民,但是很幸运早年的教育和旅行让我看到了世界的多样性,我自己在澳洲生活10年感觉思想上更接近这里的移民二代,所以完全能理解Karishma的想法。 我觉得虽然文化和时代造就了认知不同,但是今天的我们非常幸运可以去进行大胆的创新!采取一种fusion的态度,取其精华,去其糟粕,make a better life😊
@miaowang3364 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Susie, such a great topic. As a 1st gen immigrant and parent, it really gives me a new perspective. Keep an open mind, accept the change, take the good part of both cultures and, don’t be shy to share with others about yourself, because you would never be understood if you didn’t communicate.
It’s really good sharing. And love this honest conversation.
@lakaiy2006 Жыл бұрын
I like this episode involving more in-person experiences on cultural differences and controversy.
@CallMePeipei Жыл бұрын
Hi, Susie. I’m so grateful for your videos. They are awesome and enlightening. You make me see things from different perspectives and learn about various cultures. I love every single one of them. Please keep up the amazing work. 😊 Also, thank your college friend.
Resonates alot with this as someone who's moved to the UK who didn't actually "grew up here" living here has made me become more aware how it's virtually impossible to become truly "integrated" into another culture when you are born and raised elsewhere, and that's okay. I think back in HK there was always this tacit expectation and understanding that when you speak to a native English speaker you should try and "sound more like them," which would be seen as a sign of having language proficiency, but when I'm here in the UK I realise that accents don't really matter as much and nobody actually expects you to sound like them anyways. People from alot of European countries are happy and completely accepting of their own accent, happy to bring it to forefront when they introduce themselves, saying things like "you can probably tell from my accent that I'm from X" - and that hit me as an attitude that in HK just doesn't exist. I also really "feeling western" and struggling with the sense or fear that people will judge you or question why you act a certain way of think you are just being pretentious because you don't actually sound like them, so you can't even "pass" as a local. I feel like moving to another country that you didn't actually grow up in is a challenging and rewarding self discovery process. It forces you to reconsider the parts that are "you" irrespective of the cultural context, and to try and minimize the importance of the "where" in your sense of belonging to. I personally feel like I now feel more comfortable in any situation when I'm surrounded by people from different cultures so I don't feel pressured to project a very "coherent" kind of character
It's really interesting to explore these topics. It seems that many people living abroad still suffer from these stereotypes. Indians might resist British culture in some sense. In Hong Kong, it's the complete opposite. People who are extroverted, enjoy traveling, and speak English with an American/British accent are somewhat seen as "superior," which is also a stereotype that causes suffering for some individuals. To delve deeper, besides historical reasons, English plays a dominant role academically. Ironically, even if you have to study Chinese culture in universities, you have to do it in English. Well-educated individuals are more likely to belong to the "upper class," which contributes to the perception of English (and its related cultures) as "superior" in Hong Kong, after all, it is just another kind of stereotype, it's sad to see people looking down to their own culture. I have to say Susie is a very open-minded person, I think it's probably because you learned other cultures relatively deep, and you travel a lot, like one of my favourite comedian Trevor Noah once said "travel is the antidote to ignorance". :D
@waynechen852 Жыл бұрын
Trevor Noah shares the same opinion on all topical issues as all the other late-night talk show hosts. He espouses not wisdom but the approved narratives. Stereotypes exist because more often than not, they are true. And we recognize patterns because people are not just random data points.
@brucelam404 Жыл бұрын
@@waynechen852 I do agree with your statement about stereotypes; however, you might also want to consider the consequences of such 'labeling'. While it is true that most human behavior follows certain patterns, constantly creating these 'labels' does not necessarily align with moral correctness. In a sense, the more you mention these labels, the more likely people are to conform to those patterns. 'Labels' are not merely a reflection of facts; if you delve deeper, you'll realize they also contribute to shaping those facts to some extent.
@waynechen852 Жыл бұрын
@@brucelam404 People has been taught to associate malice with realism, that kindness can only exist in the absence of differentiation which is part of nature. That is just a deceitful narrative. Ask yourself, can there ever be wisdom or integrity in ignorance or self-deception? If the truth, the reality, is that there exist inherent disparities, one should incorporate that fact into one's being, and act accordingly. If the society tells you not to, then the society is wrong.
@lifanjin6926 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. Stereotypes come from over-generalization which come up a lot. Because this is a shortcut for the brain to grasp concepts, identify threats and tell the body to stay away from it swiftly while getting to know a particular individual deeply and thoroughly takes a long time. Basically, we still have the primitive brain mechanism as our homo sapiens ancestors. And we have a lot of default mindset that need to be changed so that we can adapt to the modern world better. Travelling and getting to know others is a good starting point.
@brucelam404 Жыл бұрын
@@waynechen852 No offense, but I believe there might be a straw man fallacy in your argument. Embracing the concept of equality doesn't require denying the inherent disparities among human beings. For example, individuals A and B may have differences, but they can still be treated fairly or similarly to a large extent.
@BOURNE399 Жыл бұрын
Good film! (Background music could probably be a little bit lower tho😅
@hinhangsiu6783 Жыл бұрын
她的說話太快,幸好有繁體中文字幕。
@黃瑞-m2g Жыл бұрын
謙虛是美德也是態度
@umbertocalvini7429 Жыл бұрын
Karishma would have a completely different experience in San Francisco Bay Area / Silicon Valley! We're more accepting of everyone! 🤙💪
@the1stletter Жыл бұрын
Love your accent ❤❤❤
@Kleenex-j5z Жыл бұрын
Susie, I am curious, were you nervous during the recording, your face was not like from other episodes, thanks for bringing up this a bit sensitive topic into the interview show, we all need to continue learning accept each other and putting away the identity and culture barriers
@yipzoe386525 күн бұрын
Being patriotic & nationalism is not racism, did you know that you are going to be replaced in 30 years? Look at the situation of white people in South Africa after they introduced democracy, it will be your destiny when you become minority in your own country, you will have no minority rights
@hayezyip9797 Жыл бұрын
Thanks to share. 👍👍👍
@青云马-n5w Жыл бұрын
its interesting that people have the same question from different sides , by the way ,im from asia
@cchcch7938 Жыл бұрын
there goes to my thesis topic: third-culture, cosmopolitanlism and Third Space
@l5342034 Жыл бұрын
Hi Susie I do enjoy this video, it shows another aspect of the Indian girls and culture. the guest, who we don't know her name, demos the character in quite a cute and pleasant way. I noticed something interesting, as a Taiwanese studying in Ontario and coincidently staying nearby the Indian community. The biggest difference to my experience with Indians is that their personality is definitely not shy and timid, instead of aggressive and unthoughtful speaking. I met so much offence feeling when I had communication with Indian students. My Indian classmates always ask about sensitive or private things, such as ages, marriage status, family members, and the comparison of grades. They assumed that if you're unmarried at a certain age, you are in huge trouble, etc. The scenario disgusted me when they got the answer that I am nearly 30 and unmarried without any dating person. Or, they presume every culture is no way better than Indian; it happens to casual chatting between classmates when some East Asian students admitted that they had no background knowledge of Indian culture. The Indians reacted with rude and unfriendly and were criticized sharply, as people convent a crime if don't know anything about India. I would like to say most of them are nice in the general time, but their friendly is with strings, if you satisfy them, for white people and Indian cultural privilege.
@tom-roxy Жыл бұрын
Worried about a 30 year old single, unmarried woman not being able to find a life partner? If you think Indians are the only people that think this way, it seems you've never met Taiwanese mothers and aunts 😂😂 Asking about age, relationship status even salary are typical in many Asian countries, especially in East and SE Asia. Those of us that live in these places have just got used it. Maybe you've been away too long that you've forgotten.
@sutg5188 Жыл бұрын
Good luck, brave gal!
@wendeng7546 Жыл бұрын
Love how you guys can just chat about all of these sensitive stuff. A Chinese living in Australia 😅
@frankfang2146 Жыл бұрын
这个椰子不错,很有内涵❤
@catherine00211 Жыл бұрын
Interesting talk! Short talk but with deep insights. :)
@julie22221021 Жыл бұрын
This girl prob has been through a lot growing up. That’s what makes her pleasing and attractive. Where I work there’re some first-generation immigrants Indian parents. It is quite often heard that there’re worried that their kids don’t eat Indian meals and only choose fast food or local dishes, kids don’t speak Hindi at home but English. They’ve been planning to find Indian spouses for kids in the future even when they’re just little, and truly wouldn’t be happy to see them being too close to the other gender of different races especially in UNI as they’re close to marriageable age (not sure if I was correct). On the flip side, their parents have actually encountered many setbacks and barriers on the road of immigration, same as all emigrants. Hence they don’t want their kids to come across the same thing. ( I wouldn’t mind my kid dating with anyone tho, if I have in the future. As long as they’re not too odd😂). Besides, the community of India has the strongest bond I have ever seen no matter where they are. The voice from community is more than ever of paramount importance than their own beliefs which is an unfortunate. Hope this adorable girl can find a balance and keeps shining in your own way✨✨ Thanks for sharing🙏
when I talk on the phone people would assume I am English, but when I give them my surname, you can tell the instant change of tone, going from being really polite and lively to being really cold in response, this used to happen quite a bit.
@ganbalanduk Жыл бұрын
I understand Karishma's feelings very well. I'm from Hong Kong and have been living in the UK for a little over a year. I consider the UK my home, and even though my English isn't very fluent, I take pride in being a part of the UK.The word "COCONUT" is quite interesting. I'm from Hong Kong, and we use "BANANA" to describe Asians with a yellow outer appearance and a Western cultural mindset inside.
@SW-fy8pq Жыл бұрын
British "Asian" refers to South Asian ONLY, you are Chinese in the UK, not Asian.
@litalo6 Жыл бұрын
@@SW-fy8pqwhat’s ur point then? He means yellow-skin Asians, not only Chinese
@mytradingjournal123 Жыл бұрын
@@litalo6it’s just how the government like to describe people in their ethnic groups, Chinese has their own ethnic group in the UK.
@chaselee86 Жыл бұрын
@@SW-fy8pq I find it odd that British refer ""Asians" to South Asian only. Asia is huge, and you could be East Asian, South East Asian, Middle Eastern. If I'm Korean or Japanese, would I be considered Chinese as well? Sometimes when I fill in government forms, I don't find those options. I'm Taiwanese, and I don't like to be referred to as Chinese either.
@boawin5642 Жыл бұрын
@@SW-fy8pqChinese is a nationality rather than an ethnicity. Don't assume everyone else agree with your Chinese ideology here.
@cambridgehkers Жыл бұрын
very inspiring thank you!
@yibinhu9527 Жыл бұрын
I can definitely confirm that the issues occur in Germany, as they always ask 'where are you from, originally (Woher kommst du ursprünglich)'
@tinayogaliving6163 Жыл бұрын
I totally have same feeling and understanding on this video…
@AnzonWongCOWBALL Жыл бұрын
you should get a Hong Kong People for the next interview. It will be very interesting
@guardian-te6tu Жыл бұрын
ah coconut... in singapore, they call them banana...
@mianchen Жыл бұрын
The preference for lighter skin in some Asian cultures predates colonial influences. Historically, fair skin in many Asian societies was associated with wealth and higher social status, as it suggested that one did not have to labour outdoors. Similarly, in some Western cultures, a tan can signify leisure or the ability to vacation, reflecting a certain socioeconomic standing. Both are examples of how beauty standards can be influenced by socioeconomic factors.
Interesting topic and I wonder if an extension topic discussing how an individual introduces himself with his Asian name or creates an English name to make ppl understand easier.
@ggyhtau2338 Жыл бұрын
I think nationality is just one of the topics for knowing each other. It shouldn’t be used to define a person.
@yi-hsinchiang556 Жыл бұрын
It's very true and great to have this interview. My husband is also from Asian culture background, you can see huge generation gap between young people and elder people.
@tom-roxy Жыл бұрын
Susie, who did the English subtitles on this video? They're way off.
@AnglerMonty Жыл бұрын
We should accept and embrace these culture gaps. They are always there and make the world more colorful and funny. Take it easy. Do not often think someone want to discriminate you.
@TMT939 Жыл бұрын
Same here in the US. Non,after how fluent we r in English people still ask us where we r from… I often ask them back - where r u from? 😂😂
I've never been to UK myself... but I got a pretty good impression what the Brits are like based on my experience seeing a number of them in Canada... they might not mean to be rude but are probably just racially insensitive!! Canada in general (not all the time of course) is a great country where we accept everyone who have settled here as Canadians... but correct me if I'm wrong, the British almost never embrace all non-whites as "British" as well! So, that's one key difference in handling cultural diversity
It is what the society sees her. People makes assumption and that’s very human behaviour, nothing wrong. In China different province people try to judge where you are from, so that they can treat you differently.
@yipzoe38655 ай бұрын
Most China provinces are independent countries originally and united by force, do you know?
@ivanteo19735 ай бұрын
@@yipzoe3865 that was donkey years ago, and today is 2024, do you know?
@yipzoe38655 ай бұрын
@@ivanteo1973 China can't say that Hongkong, Macau, Taiwan, Tibet and Xinjiang are always part of China . Actually, we are independent countries originally and united by force gradually.
Even though Miss Karishma has gone through a variety of obstacles in the Great Britain, she never gave up to be part of the same community, similar to one of my professors (also an Indian) two years ago.
@conbrio27 Жыл бұрын
Actually, I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that there are plenty of extroverted girls in India and they have no problem being extroverted and Indian at the same time. Who's with me?
@hokmingchan5048 Жыл бұрын
宗與種,從來都有計議分別。不然,世上何來這麼多國旗!尤其在資源分配上出問題,這個計議就更突顯!
@Meoryou112 Жыл бұрын
Oh shit, this is exactly what I have been experiencing in my life. I grew up in Melbourne and live in the UK right now. But I still say I’m from China for certain ppl.
@yoninamaumau Жыл бұрын
It’s interesting that i had a conversation with my Oz friend discussing what “Asian “ country should be included 😂 that mate insist that Indian is Indian not Asian 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Boymanjusri Жыл бұрын
Excuse me? Colorism in India didn’t come with the British, it existed in India for 4000 years at least. People with fair skin from north west conquered the subcontinent and fair skin has always been a status symbol. Ever Heard of caste system? Basically it means the color of your skin.
@_KIN_KONG Жыл бұрын
For Chinese, it's BANANA... 😄
@hichicooooo644 Жыл бұрын
Culture, language, ethics and customs are constantly changing. Helping people to live a life easier and organized. Some comments said the word "banana" is neutral. It is because their mother tongue is Cantonese. Grow up and live in a Chinese/Hong Kong society most of their lives. They do not think it is important to put themselves in ABC or BBCs' places. They probably say, "If I call you banana which you feel annoyed, you're petty and should let go. Relax, just kidding."
It is always the contradictory fun facts or realities of races vs culture vs nationality 😅😅😅 If everyone have the fundamental value of there's difference in everyone but acceptance makes the difference between us all.🎉🎉🎉
@annachen1836 Жыл бұрын
請問可以用must be being +adj嗎?
@weihungliu9667 Жыл бұрын
😍😍😍
@rutger8655 Жыл бұрын
我周围有一些非常爱(中)国的国人,狂热的小粉红。当他们在欧洲遇到移民二代中国人时,对方明明拿着欧洲的护照,但我的小粉红朋友一定要对方承认自己是中国人。真的很不能理解。It's a different world now where people immigrate all the time and can choose their nationalities. It is lovely to be connected to your ethnic heritage and culture, but you don't have to feel compelled to say that you are something you are not.