I want security _ Can I trust anyone? _ Insanity of seeking becomes more obvious [CLIP]

[@annemarieslee7720]

That whole 'I want control ' thing,..... when it goes...(and it does seem to come back, but less often), when it goes, it's all so light and kinda funny 😅

[@PetraKann]

“I want …..”

[@northernyogi]

I love to watch you and Lily go back-and-forth, sometimes I think she’s speaking for me and the way that you relate to her is so comforting. ❤

[@ItApproaches]

Trust is always blind. You can trust humans to do what humans do, but that's about it. My view on trust is the same as Batman, I don't trust anyone blindly. I'm aware enough that I can read people like an open book and if I know they will betray "me" that doesn't change anything. I new it so I don't trust them to not go against their character. There will be those who do things our ego likes and there will be those who do things our ego dislikes. That's the struggle for control that you can never get. Because ego is always trying to self validate itself, but nothingness can't ever be anything else. As for her saying it doesn't feel good, that feeling is the ego dying, or being burned away, yeah it doesn't feel good, that's the point. Truth hurts, the warmth people seek or desire comes from the comfort only an untruth can give. Truth is cold harsh and brutal. If you want truth you have to accept it no matter what it is. Anything else is you not wanting truth, but you wanting your belief to be truth. Being scared of truth just means you are not happy that you were wrong for so long lol. Once you realize it's not about you, never was, you don't matter. Things just flow, you aren't the person in a small boat in an ocean trying to not tip over in a storm, you are no longer in the boat struggling, you are the ocean, you are that boat that's just floating along completely empty...you are the stars, the moon, the planets, and yet you are nothing. Everything is nothingness, and nothingness is everything.

[@TheAffrojutty]

I love this ladies radical honesty about what’s really going on for her. No spiritual BS 🙏❤️

[@michaelstartin405]

Thank you for this chat. You pointed out you to not trust anyone. That hit home for me I do not trust anyone and worst of all I don't even trust myself in the slightest how do I move on from that. I am trapped in my own procrastination and my own how can I get past this if I cannot trust myself in any way. I wake up each morning knowing the tasks we need to do but also knowing I want even get through half of them I can't trust which then makes me angry with myself and depressed with myself I can't seem to move on😢

[@4LLT0G3TH3R]

Same friend. Every morning I wake up so angry with my self for what I have and have not done, I do not want to cause harm I want to take it all back and try again

[@PetraKann]

Not trusting anyone is the definition of moral cowardice - toxic to the soul. Can’t grow as a person

[@4ntifreez]

she mentions the cold muscles, i feel the same in my hands all the time

[@unbrokenspine]

I think it's much harder to let go of control when you don't have control over anything. There is a big difference between choosing not to buy something you want even though you have money, and not being able to buy it even if you want it.

[@deni0404]

That was Beautiful Suzanne🙏❤️Thank you for creating a safe & sacred space; and for pointing gently, yet with strength & conviction back to “this”, the beauty, love, & mystery we all feel in our Heart of Hearts. This truth that we are, sets us free and is the peace that passeth all understanding. May there be true seeing & hearing. Xo

[@gilbertlujan1220]

Relax luv ! It’s all ya can do !💜😀

[@smileyjones730]

Another fellow I follow has been mentioning relaxing.... relax, patience ..... and it's obvious there's nowhere else to go, no more hiding from this intense fucking discomfort ... so, yeah - why not just relax, eh? 😅 Appreciate the cheery reiteration 👍

[@rationalmystic5]

Exactly. This chaos is normal. Exactly. So perfectly put.

[@allygolding3647]

Maybe some of this what I'm about to type without thoughts might help. I'm practicing ignoring all the thoughts, living without trying to have expectations, not too judgemental, not wising for thoughts to go away but somehow instead be focused on the third eye energy looking from there and going inward without trying . I was a terrible control freak and it hasn't yet left but it has softened and the peace/security i feel when doing what I mentioned is helpful and when thoughts come up I almost cant be bothered with them. Going inward is a safe place - I feel my way to this space and notice the difference and yes I hear the thoughts that say are we there yet but I focus on breathing in even the horrid emotions but also breathing it out- allowing it to pass through but not stick. Michael Singer is good for talking through things. I listen to a combo of Suzanne who is amazing and Michael but neither can help me knowing I'm just life, and that is the safe place- its inside not outside. Hard to comprehend - 5 years on for me but it is softening. You are being too hard on yourself give yourself a break and just try hugging yourself and saying loving words now and again like i trust my self and love myself and stop making too much of the thoughts that are arising. That's enough from me I hope it helps.

[@michaelstartin405]

I love this woman i feel the same about my life as she does i like to give her a big hug❤️

[@emptyFull123]

It's so fucking painful

[@Sookhi_]

Suzanne ❤️❤️❤️

[@andrewhussey8702]

I love your honesty and humour. Hilarious and Fabulous. Thanks so much.

[@PetraKann]

Humour?

[@professordeb]

Thank you for sharing. ❤

[@ItApproaches]

To that lady, you want control? Lets say you had 100% total control of reality...you really believe you can handle that? That you can control EVERYTHING, better then Nature? That's fear, nothing more. There is nothing more comforting the realizing you don't have to do anything, nothing is in your control and that's for the better. She mentions it's emotional....THAT'S THE PROBLEM. Emotions get you in trouble if let them dictate your life. You are so emotional over the idea of not having control, yet you believe you can handle having control....lol. That unstable emotion shows just why you don't get any control. Chaotic is good. Humans fear have painted the concept that chaos is bad lol. Chaos made the dream experience we call life, without chaos there would be nothing. No movies, no books, no stories to tell. It would be a blank canvas. A planet with nothing on it. Gotta turn that fear from an external focus to an internal focus. The dream plays out as it plays out. What she want's is ignorance and obliviousness. When you sleep and go into a new dream world, do you say you want control in that dream world? Nah, it's just a story playing out, for no reason more, then brief amusement. That's the magic.

[@gabzpot]

I just want to hug you.

[@HiluT]

❤more blessings to you both ❤ very helpful ❤

[@mr.awezome2938]

Hi. From the universe

[@gilbertlujan1220]

You know between illusions is all you got it’s all there is but that doesn’t mean the end of anything it is what it is , no choice , nothing you can do about it , there’s no beliefs in anything period !!! So what does one do enjoy what you can ! The best one can your just passing through , right and it’s a short experience ! That’s right , 💜 ya !!👍😀😘

[@nobodynowhere21]

"We" keep seeking even though what is sought is already here, and there was never a moment that wasn't already the case. The seeking is that too. Game over, please insert $.25 to continue. Or not. Not that "I" had a free choice anyway.

[@Hi_how_r_u_]

24:19 'theres nothing that you can't handle, there's nothing that's too scary' So is that because you become courageous suddenly OR because you realize that nothing real is ever threatened?

[@robmichalowski9005]

This was beautiful 💖💖

[@lyranrenegade]

very helpful / interesting..

[@yasminel-hakim4348]

this was beautiful 🙏❤️

[@advaitawho]

You cannot use self to get rid of self! ☯😩

[@justinbyrge8997]

Why would you want to?

[@advaitawho]

@@justinbyrge8997 because self is responsible for suffering! 🤷‍♂😂☯

[@justinbyrge8997]

@@advaitawho OK. So the logic is get rid of self, get rid of suffering. But the thing is, you can't get rid of the self, illusion or not. The sense of self never goes away - at least in my experience. If it does go away, that's a mental illness and puts you at risk of not functioning properly.

[@dwai963]

you don't need to get rid of your ego. Just understand where its place

[@advaitawho]

@@dwai963 that wasn’t what I was saying! 🤨☯

[@JoshGreenWill]

Powerful.

[@jalachandra]

groundlessness

[@OPTHolisticServices]

💗🍃🙏

[@Hi_how_r_u_]

2 years ago went through psychotic depression which was a nightmarish experience and now i'm wondering if awakening/the path to enlightenment is gonna trigger something similar. Anyone able to clarify wether this is true or not? cheers

[@citizenenak]

To take the view nobody is in control you first generally want to understand the statement explicitly which is implying an individual is in control. The statement isn't lucid to begin with when viewing a larger contextual picture. Always back up and see clearly what is being said by your seemingly present self or others. Oh also get used to paradoxes.

[@PetraKann]

"I want...."

[@rezamoradi4073]

Wanting is suffering, but nothing wrong about that though.

[@PetraKann]

@@rezamoradi4073 Stoicism embraces suffering...... You want joy without pain?

[@rezamoradi4073]

@@PetraKann you mean one sensation over another

[@PetraKann]

@@rezamoradi4073 Not a competition. Just the reality of embracing life and nature's way - whatever that may entail. Using words to escape pain or pretend that life is unipolar only leads to one place Mr Moriaty

[@MrRai101]

The lady said she is scared of the truth. What Truth is she scared of?

[@AleatoricSatan]

That she's alone and nobody cares or will ever care for her and she will suffer alone until she gets to experience a pointless lonely death in isolation, duh. What else is there to be afraid?

[@pauladiaz7101]

Is Suzanne her therapist or just a good sport?

[@song-rz6hi]

Why are you trying to convince this woman she has no self? She has a self and her desire to discern good goal for herself and to reach them is wholesome and natural, not a form of “insanity” as your podcast affirms. You are unwittingly hurting her. Please rethink your project, Suzanne.

[@MrMrscoffey]

We need Jesus his word and truth… the world hates this… it shows our pride selfishness and hopeless estate apart from him .. we are messed up and need a savior. … ain’t me

[@ItApproaches]

Ain't no Jesus. An imaginary friend is a coping mechanism for a child who doesn't like the truth that they are alone. You got stuck in human childhood. You believe in a magical savior in the sky, yet are aware Santa isn't real....A lot of similarities between the fictional God and fictional Santa. "If you're good, you get rewarded from it." "If you're bad you get punished." Blind obedience to a character leads your life to delusion.

[@advaitawho]

This is nonsense! The video needs an introduction and I find Jim Newman and Tony Parsons are much more clear to understand! ☯

[@kimberlytrent5245]

I disagree. It isn't nonsense at all to me. It is helpful to ❤️

[@advaitawho]

@@deni0404 I like to see how others speak about Non duality… there are some who have confused the message! Only a handful are legitimate! 🤔🤨☯

[@advaitawho]

@@kimberlytrent5245 that is exactly my point! She offers something! Radical Non Duality offers nothing and everything! ☯🤨